'So Now I'm Married' | DJ Zinhle: The Unexpected S2 EP1 | BET Africa

DJ Zinhle: The Unexpected is a reality show focused on Zinhle's everyday life. Zinhle is an ambitious entrepreneur juggling motherhood, her professional life, and her personal life.
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[@thelatestmoviesandseriesst502]

Bongane my brother you got yourself a real authentic down to earth woman,So woman enough that some man weren't Man enough to realise that...To a point that Zintle was against marriage but you managed to convince her otherwise just by showing her love and respect my brother...DJ Zintle congratulations my sister you deserve it and more

[@KaraboKeepile]

Congrats mama so happy for you

[@tyali84]

What really gets to me is seeing 3rd generation immigrant Spanish and Asian kids here in the USA who've never set foot in their parents native countries and yet speak fluent Spanish, Portuguese, Mandarin, Mongolian and Hindi. I watch these kids at the mall with their peers talking in their parents native language yet kids who are born and bred in an African country don't even speak one native language. It really kills my soul how we are not realizing that in a few decades our culture and language would be lost.

[@yourworldentertaining910]

I was about to say the same thing And they think it’s cute I am so annoyed

[@fezilenkabinde9087]

They think English equal to intelligence

[@tshegotams4546]

I’m pedi, my husband is Xhosa. I hoped that he’d be the one to teach them Xhosa but that never happened. It kills me, it breaks my heart but I’m slowly working on it. I’m ashamed really.

[@tyali84]

@@tshegotams4546 we should be. Do you know how it breaks my heart when I see Jamaican kids born and raised in the US speak Jamaican patois with pride knowing full well kids in South Africa only speak English? When I see Irish descendents going to Irish celebrations after 500 years of leaving Ireland. White people and other races have preserved their languages and traditions as a way to be able to tell their stories and hold on tight to their heritage. When you don't safe guard your language you are literally letting go of your heritage, history and stories. In 50 years all the other ethnicities will be proudly holding on to their heritage whilst our kids have nothing but the English language which serves a fraction of their reality.

[@Itebogeng414]

In my family it was rooted from oppression. Honestly can't even think in my own language because it was mostly used as a form of oppression knowingly and unknowingly so I couldn't even express myself in a healthy manner😂💔💀. So when I learned English it forced me to use my words ,it forced honesty without violence 🤣 AND I was taken to English schools. My family never really paid attention to the importance of culture. And I couldn't even communicate in a healthy way in my language. So many reasons in every family

[@BeccaMojapelo]

I love Zinhle, she’s a focused queen

[@ZandileKhwela]

Becca qiniso so wish i can meet her yazi

[@dexterseptember5787]

So cute, grandson was so patient with granny, not even a hint of annoyance in his face or voice❤

[@yam8988]

I love Zinhle😭😭, Congrats to her and her's. 💞💞

[@dexterseptember5787]

Ooh i love this woman. Such a sweet energy about her❤

[@BellaBella-xz7nz]

Big up Gogo Jiyane 💝.Love you lots,bafundise Gogo

[@Sarah_Betela]

She is beautiful 😍

[@minienhle5370]

Mina ngeke ngife ngambonang face to face uZinhle 🤞🤞❤

[@lelom7999]

Kuyihlazo ukungalwazi ulwimi lwakho ihlazo

[@matumelotaole4745]

Congratulations gal ❤️ I love love 💞

[@AllThingsMarriage4Ever]

you are so prety without the nose ring

[@JayJay-mx7oc]

40 year old kadi nose ring le Ben 10 🤣🤣🤣

[@nthabimokhenene8802]

Wa hlanya

[@lindokuhlesibisi867]

Futseg

[@nomarussia5085]

🙈

[@evidencesithole768]

Cha vele ibheda impela le nose ring kaZinhle akalaleli kade abantu bemtshela ukuthi imbi le fashion ye nose ring eyama teenagers not mothers

[@JayJay-mx7oc]

@@lindokuhlesibisi867 sis'bhuti sibisi🤣🤣🤣🤭

[@FranMnguni]

Granny teaching them isiZulu makes me emotional 😢 missing my grandmother 👵

[@nonhlanhlamakhanya3265]

Past experiences scare us into thinking that marriage is hostile. But when you with the right person, they make everything so easy and you don't have any reason to say no to it.

[@sthokozilendlela7081]

My daughter is 9 and she attends a multiracial school,at home we Speak Isizulu luckily for her i'm a teacher i've taught her to read and write in our mother tounge.English isala ngaphandle kwesango.

[@redeemablesoul]

Very important to let the kids speak there native language...im very adamant with that.

[@sangiwemrubatajensen]

“My brother, please! I’m married” I know daaaas right 🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾 Ndim mos lo!

[@coconeli1409]

Its actually sad that most kids speak English more then they speak Zulu

[@ntokotom147]

Most African parents think just because their kids speak only English, it automatically means the kids are smart hence most parents aren't even speaking to their kids in their native languages. We are losing as Africans shame

[@zandilebuthelezi8469]

I honestly feel the parent nabo are also to blame..

[@leigh4326]

That time kids like that in my day were failing English. That’s the irony of it all.

[@mamelisa.official]

Sadddd

[@Mimi-ry1sq]

So embarrassing having kids not knowing how to speak their native language lol 😩 yooh awao

[@simelubuhlempofu5787]

Embarrassing how, nawe yoh. Nitoxic yaz

[@evidencesithole768]

Most of our kids are like these kids nje, the challenge is so common because they start creche in multiracial schools and learn to speak (English) there at the age of 2 or 3 and they do not stay with their grand parents. Its not like parents taught them English no they didn't.

[@Mimi-ry1sq]

@@evidencesithole768 lol you’re making an excuse, I have two little sisters who go to multi racial school 🙆🏾‍♀️ one is half colored they both know how to speak English but when they are home they speak our native language and whenever the other one goes to her other grandma’s house she’s speaks Afrikaans , it’s all not that hard to set rules in the house about speaking the native language .

[@evidencesithole768]

Its because you think situations are similar, for instance not all kids have grandmothers or township/village to visit because death robbed us of relatives, this is one example that shows that situations faced by your two little sisters are not similar to situations faced by all kids in S.A.

[@nomthimalunga7880]

@@evidencesithole768 who said Grandparents are the one's that need to teach our kids their native language😳😳😳YOU'RE THE PARENT YOU TEACH THEM, you set ground rules that English stays at school....SIMPLE‼

[@prudencepoppy9540]

Gogo is so cute ❤️❤️

[@sangiwemrubatajensen]

My husband speaks English and I speak Xhosa! I want my kids to know how to speak Xhosa fluently, I don’t know how I’ll put that off but it needs to happen!

[@tokelolove7234]

You have to force them to speak it with you. If the child never hears you speaking it, how else will they learn it

[@nomapooe9413]

Zinhle congrats. I am so happy for you.

[@patricktshabalala4191]

Destiny can be delayed be never denied, trust the process...never rush things.

[@cebiledlodlo8058]

This thing yezingane ezibukisa ngokuthi sezaskhohlwa isiZulu ayinambitheki, imbi

[@mbuyiseninkosingiphile423]

😂Bafundise gogo bazoskhuluma ngenkani😂😂

[@pbngroup4612]

How do you take your kid to a private school where he or she won't be taught by his or her home Language? I totally blame the parents on this issue... so into western life, money blinded.

[@BeautywithLera]

I love DJ Zinhle but her show is like watching a 26 min promo of her businesses😂😂😂 really she doesn't seem to have time for cooking for her family. Her husband looks like a stranger visiting her house. The baby so cute is sitting on mommy while doing make-up😅 Ay shame it's hard to watch I feel bad for her😢😢

[@londekamemela6340]

We’re are now on the 4th Season and we love her show

[@johannamakwala]

Congratulations on your marriage

[@nomthimalunga7880]

Aybo the mother sounds and seems unbothered by her children not knowing their mother tongue💔🤡.....why respond in English at home to your children???than take them to schools that teach both English and IsiZulu

[@nkosinyambosir4643]

Killing our future generations and culture ngalesingisi mmh

[@Mimi-ry1sq]

So embarrassing

[@nomfunekonosilela3895]

Cringe at the way people declare with pride how their children can't speak our languages anymore. Kudos to uGogo for teaching them

[@evidencesithole768]

Unfortunately not all of us stay in places that have schools that teach IsiZulu, in Pretoria nje for instance there are very few of such schools and they are not close to everyone. Even schools that teaches IsiZulu in the suburban is not a kind of IsiZulu that you would say you would learn to speak Zulu out of it as it is taught as a third or second language with white scholars as part of that Zulu class. The struggle is real but ppl do not know, cos even kids from next door neighbors who play with our kids also speak English. We speak them in IsiZulu but kids respond in English

[@tyali84]

Nomthi you know what really gets to me is seeing Spanish and Asian kids here in the USA who've never set foot in their parents native countries and yet speak fluent Spanish, Portuguese, Mandarin, Mongolian or even fluent Indian. I watch these kids at the mall with their peers talking in their parents native language yet kids who are born and bred in an African country don't even speak one native language. It really kills my soul how we are not realizing that in a few decades our culture and language would be lost.

[@gugumpanza3665]

Congratulations 👏 👏 sweetheart 💗 💖

[@RuthMadumo]

Never allow your past experience determine your future happiness ❤

[@fundindunduma7512]

Congratulation guys ❤️❤️❤️

[@sandilenkabinde4580]

This woman is excited that her kids don't know their native language? What a shame

[@chandakasalu3776]

Anyone to tell me the title of the song playing durring her wedding part

[@nonzwakaziprecious9507]

Kids love their grannies, I guess we were all like that. They enjoy every moment with them

[@dinanosehlabo2123]

M here for uGog'Jabu ❤️❤️❤️

[@johannamakwala]

My beautiful DJ Zinhle ,I love you so much and wish to meet

[@billymaepa4576]

Now get rid of pearl Thusi as your friend

[@abaphiweabaphiwe7418]

Haibo siyazalana no Bongani😂😂😂ahh bhejula

[@Clauronica]

Happy for Zee 🥰

[@islandsky3029]

This do girls seems toxic

[@chieko.hermes]

Edolobeyniii😂

[@lashame1]

Great show

[@shuchoongo6081]

Amazing 😻

[@AsnathNdaomba]

Wait is there a season 2

[@malakascoutingmoyo2505]

Gogo❤

[@tshisacooks9166]

m not a fan of zinhle but i just love her mother she looks beautiful and warm n sweet n straight foward show her more on yo show il watch❤️😍

[@lindelwanothandongcobo8863]

❤️

[@johannamakwala]

Wish to to meet you @djzinhle