Softcult - Dress [official video]

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Director: Mercedes Arn-Horn
DOP: Iced Out Visuals & Mercedes Arn-Horn
Starring: Sam Bielanski (PONY), Jamie Hiltstone, Alyssa Wippel, Byron Patterson, Jad Hammoud, Leena Rodriguez, Pascale Padilla, Phil Hurst, Phoenix Arn-Horn
Editor: Mercedes Arn-Horn
Producer: Phoenix Arn-Horn
Mixed by: Chris Perry
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lyrics:
it's a dress, not a "yes"
not a cry for your attention
a night out with friends
heading in the wrong direction
see you in the dark
on the street, following me
take a picture in my mind
is yours the last face that i'll see
it's a dress, not a "yes"
not a f*cking invitation
a night out with friends
won't ever feel the same again
my hair, my face
my tongue, my legs
won't ever feel the same again
my hands, my hips
my mouth, my lips
won't ever feel the same again
see you in the dark
on the street, following me
watch it flash before my eyes
all the things that couldn't happen to me
it's a dress, not a "yes"
not a f*cking invitation
a night out with friends
won't ever feel the same again
i'll never feel the same again
i'll never be the same again

[@Leondrian]

Guess I'm not your everyday follower (being 48, white & male) I must say that you elevated both the shoegazing and grunge scene for me. I have been a fan of the genres since the 90ties. Your sound really speaks to the young me and the nowadays older me. The lyrics are both powerful and insanely important. I hope all men will listen to your song and finally get that we are the ones who have to dig deep inside and question everything we take for granted and have been taught to ever get the rapes and sexual abuses to stop. And especially help each other to speak up about misogynistic talk and acts. You are amazing, and thank you.

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much for this comment.

[@constanzatoro7261]

thank you for writing this song 🖤 it means a lot to those of us dealing with these demons.

[@Softcultband]

thanks for being here

[@OO-dq6dp]

The guitar slowing at the end was perfection.

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@alextipping1503]

Been bumping this in my car the past few days and didn’t really pay attention to lyrics until now. Really powerful shit

[@Softcultband]

wow thank you

[@diru7483]

i felt that pain in every ounce of me... thanks softcult. you do this art in the best way.

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much for supporting what we do.

[@diru7483]

@@Softcultband always

[@ms8728]

Fuckin love you guys. Also hate how relatable this is

[@Softcultband]

really hate that so many people relate to the subject matter of this song / video. but that's exactly why we wrote this song.

[@renanjvnr]

Girls, what you do is bring a fresh air to Shoegaze, discussing topics that unfortunately is in our society but that we must fight vehemently. I met the sound of you through a friend who has a band called Taunting Glaciers, they are from Brazil, are one of the best bands of the genre in the country 🖤🖤

[@circejohnson6502]

The sound, vocals, deliverance and lyrical meaning. Just so perfect in every way. I could replay this song or any made by Softcult over and over and never get tired of it. The way they’ve captured the technique of portraying what can be a dark message so beautifully is so inspiring to me. So much of what they do reminds me that pain doesn’t have to be the only thing to come of us when enduring it. That it can be channeled and used to create ethereal things like the music I play in my headphones when I need a pick me up to do anything else but lay in my bed. They make me feel less alone and sound so beautiful doing it. I’m addicted. Thank u Softcult

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much. that really means a lot and it's very appreciated. music helps us get through the dark times as well, so it's an incredibly meaningful compliment that our music has been there for you when you needed it.

[@eugeneedge587]

Softcult strikes again with another banger! Can't wait for the whole album 😍

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much for listening

[@kevinbritt2321]

Uptempo pop with a killer bassline and dark lyrics about an important subject? Count me in! Best new one so far.

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much

[@oneguy8466]

Raising awareness is so important and Softcult is bringing it in such powerful messages and style ! Awesomeness !

[@Softcultband]

thanks so much Troy

[@Agronox]

Saw the thumbnail and was like "is that Sam from PONY?" Love to see a little crossover between two of the best power pop bands going.

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

yup!!! amazing band, and an amazing performance from a truly beautiful person. 🤍

[@jn3440]

Literally have been waiting all day since the notification for the trailer popped up on my screen, honestly about the only band I know that gets me this excited for a new release seeing as you somehow never seem to miss with anything you create.

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you so much, it's so great to hear.

[@misteral1083]

"honestly about the only band I know that gets me this excited for a new release seeing as you somehow never seem to miss with anything you create." Total facts!

[@krazykalle4518]

When listening to music, I rarely get what the lyrics actual are and I was not expecting such a serious and important message in this one tbh, but I'm glad stuff like this exists to hopefully create more awareness

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much for being so receptive to it.

[@krazykalle4518]

@@Softcultband Nah, thank YOU for dedicating your art and lifes to such important matter! Society is currently changing by a whole lot and this progression needs every single bit to work!

[@anthonywheeler2082]

Mercedes Arn-Horn directed the hell out of this video! Amazing job all around!

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much

[@crwnul3084]

Just came across this band and I fell in love instantly with their shoegazy sound, thank you for putting out bangers as always

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thanks for being here 🖤🤍

[@liltype1]

LETSGOOO

[@ryandrury5075]

This band is fucking incredible, poignant and extremely thoughtful

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you so much 🤍🤍

[@charlenemack7040]

I just heard this song on the radio and couldn’t understand a lot of the lyrics so I put the video on. The video speaks volumes.

[@Softcultband]

thanks so much for checking it out.

[@charlenemack7040]

@@Softcultband ❤

[@Danwise]

What a surprise tonight!! Sneaky Softcult dropping a new banger! I personally can't identify with this songs lyrics, but that doesnt mean I don't understand their impact it might have for others. The use of 60fps footage mixed in throughout completely grounds the emotion portrayed. Makes it more real to the audience and hopefully sells the message. Great work!

[@NeverKnelt]

This is a set opener!!

[@Softcultband]

good idea. would you sing along? ;)

[@NeverKnelt]

Dude. Duh! Whilst gazing at my shoes lol

[@Me3iane]

ILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN love this track!

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you so much!

[@austins3399]

Did I read right that Mercedes directed and edited this joint? Excellent work-that’s a super impressive inclusion in your artistic portfolio.

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much.

[@mattstandish1472]

Mercedes and phoenix have all so got a phenomenal voice too ❤just brilliant what an inspiration you both are xx

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@bradkohl99]

Well put together song and video, yet again. It made me a little uneasy watching it, which to me hammers home the point. Keep spreading your messages that the world needs to pay more attention to.

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@xsonicedgex]

thank you so much for writing this song 🖤🖤🖤 it means so much and resonates with me to a certain degree . It's important to get out of our comfort zone to confront the darkness within ourselves and other people. May we always have a light in dark places when all other lights go out

[@IloveSPIDERZ]

I heard this song on 102.7 EQX today, and had to check out the video! Loved the song! It's like that song I was waiting for since "Curbstomp" by Meg Myers. Keep rocking!

[@AndreaWAC]

The thing that I love the most of this project,besides the sound,is that you use direct and simple words. Sometimes the best way to send a message is to be raw and direct,and the message you send are always dramatically needed and appreciated. Love you sisters 🖤

[@Softcultband]

Thank you very much! glad you enjoy it.

[@shawncicalese8056]

Love Mercedes, so badass and inspiring, of my favorite guitar players

[@Softcultband]

aw thank you so much!

[@chillachar52]

You guys always release music right when I need it the most ❤️ so stoked for this! Thank you for all you do!

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much for listening

[@chillachar52]

@@Softcultband any chance you guys might add a Minneapolis, Minnesota date for your headlining tour this Spring? We missed you last time with for the date with Destroy Boys :(

[@wishwellband]

Great song, with a powerful message. Truly felt this one, my heart goes out to anyone who has ever dealt with something like this ❤️. I’m glad you guys are breaking barriers and stigmas and aren’t afraid to sing about tough subject matter.

[@Softcultband]

thanks so much for the support, and for the allyship.

[@mrbobawesome]

I hate that this happens. I thank you for bringing attention to it. It continues to be way too common, and victim blaming is still such an obstacle for so many women.

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you. yes it’s very unfortunate that this is still a huge issue in this day and age, and lame excuses attempting to blame victims of SA make it even harder for survivors to come forward.

[@zachymuhammad]

The guitar brings the vibes🖤

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@zachymuhammad]

@@Softcultband 💯🙏

[@somerandomperson3970]

Holy shiet. Why is a Mohommedan watching this?

[@domagojtatalovic1393]

This is just amazing! I love the atmosphere and the groove of the song! The importance of the message in it is what gives it even a heavier note! I adore this band, musically, vocally, lyrically, technically, and specially those 2 individuals behind it. The best music twins, spreading the awareness through their views at the world. Thank you for everything! ❤❤❤

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much for the kind words.

[@domagojtatalovic1393]

@Softcult It really does! Your music has helped me these past 2 years in dealing with a lot, so you are very welcome! ❤

[@reflekshun]

@@domagojtatalovic1393 I’m the same! I’ve coped with so many heavy things over the past years so much better because of Softcult 🖤🤍

[@domagojtatalovic1393]

@@reflekshun Softcult connects us! Amen! ❤

[@mattstandish1472]

Brilliant song ❤ and a great video too Mercedes and phoenix are 2 talented women who never disappoint and every song they do are just phenomenal credit to you both and Mercedes on guitar 🎸 sounds perfect 😍 and phoenix on drums 🪘is perfect too 😍 you rock softcult 🤘xx

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you so much 🙏🏼 much appreciated!

[@penzotoko6619]

Spectacular. Song is amazing and the video left me speechless. Plz never stop doing what you do ladies. Wow.

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you 🖤🤍🤍

[@penzotoko6619]

@@mercedesarn-horn8095 Is it getting released on Bandcamp? Went to get it but, nope :(

[@Softcultband]

it will be there soon!

[@mvlmvlg5417]

You two are truly amazing! I love everything from the meaning of the song and visuals. The production of the music vid and song is superb! 😍💞👌

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much

[@michelangelotorres_filmmaker]

one of my fave bands of the new generation: great songwriting and meaningful lyrics

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much

[@casparfriedrick4079]

I l've passed through this, we'll never talk enough about this shit! I love the song, love the video, as always 🙂

[@juanreyes5537]

You guys bring the 90's alive your music make me go back and think when me and my friends we use to be living life in the grunge days. Thanks ✌️

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

I feel nostalgic for a time I wasn’t even really conscious for… but that time calls to me all the same. thank you so much!

[@mentaltelepathy24]

This was very well crafted song, and a very important message. I feel many bands nowadays shy away from that. But I been noticing alot more bands been conveying messages more. Which is needed in this dark world.

[@MKONE07]

I absolutely cannot wait to see you in Cardiff, this is a group that require our attention and support.

[@WFMGINC]

SoftCult as always bringing it to the front, powerful lyrics.

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you 🖤🤍

[@davidleandro4034]

Tema forte porque muitas mulheres passam por situações do tipo infelizmente... Música incrível e vocês também são incríveis meninas! Respeito as mulheres sempre 🤝🏻👏🏻🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷

[@EmilieWhoknows]

[@gislam4162]

so guys Here's the story where I accidentally found you on Spotify (happy accident) and the first song I heard from you was drain and i was blown away ! since that moment I've became obsessed with your songs especially *Bird Song* 🤍

[@hashri449]

Guess we both had the same accident 😅

[@drew9449]

Thank you for writing music like this

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you for listening

[@Krox034]

Consistently fantastic work. Music with a message is rarely done better than what yall manage.

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you so much 🖤🤍

[@slimyweaselscum]

Found you two about a year ago when browsing spotify playlists, and I'm so glad i did, you guys are amazing. Keep rocking ladies! 🖤

[@EmilieWhoknows]

Beside that song and my previous comment you liked, I want to tell you girls to keep going on, I mean on whole project. I love your melodies, your writings, your production. Keep going on. It's really a good job. It makes me feel things. Keep making me feel things. Love your work. So keep faith and keep going on, no matter what.

[@EmilieWhoknows]

in other words : never give up. And keep goin on, whatever you're told.

[@richardroutenote171]

Here again for that 'sonic wave'... Nailed it again, Thanks keep it up

[@Softcultband]

thanks so much

[@joshajcip]

Another banger with an important message. Keep it up 🔥

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@TundraCH]

They dont miss 🤩

[@reflekshun]

Y'all so incredible at making songs and videos, blows my mind every time! Sadly just about everyone knows someone who has gone through this. Making this less hidden to society is important. Thank you for making this song 🖤🤍

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much

[@mak_attakks]

This is powerful stuff

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@taygaming8959]

I don't know how I just discovered you guys today but glad two of my favorite musicians are still making music. I love everything you've guys have done with Courage my Love and it's awesome to see all these tracks showcasing your talents and skills even more. You're both extremely talented and can't wait to see what future music you guys have planned.

[@mishab4065]

Hey it's my favorite band again!!!! I'm gonna spend the following weeks processing all about this song and video. Heavy hitting stuff, but amazingly made as always ♡♡♡

[@JamieAsareZiegler]

We as a society need to entirely overhaul the way we look at relationships and masculinity. We've got our work cut out for us. The song is a freaking gem.

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you so much for saying that. 🖤🤍

[@JamieAsareZiegler]

@@mercedesarn-horn8095 Thank you for opening new spaces to have these conversations! I'm sure there are girls and young women (and hopefully, just as many boys and young men) watching this and reassessing their ideas about what is and isn't okay to expect and accept from others. Let's hope they keep the discussion going. And seriously, the song is a *major* earworm. The tones are "just like heaven".

[@massimilianofrancese332]

Very nice song 🖤🖤🖤

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@AngryNorb]

I never understood how some men take advantage of women's weaknesses, especially if the weakness is caused by some factors, such as alcohol. Several times in my life I was in a situation where a drunk girl at a party could become a victim, but apparently I was lucky with the company. Neither I nor any of my friends have ever taken advantage of such a situation. I love girls very much, this is such a separate world with its own characteristics. And I have always respected that. My father never respected women, but either the principle of resistance worked or I was a little smarter not to absorb this bullshit. Yes, I think it's important to talk about it. You are great! And the form in which you wrapped your messages is just amazing! It is a pity that I do not have the opportunity to attend your performance. Mentally hugged everyone, Softcult is a very cool discovery for me! ♥

[@XMissxMegz]

I discovered you guys a few months ago and have been obsessed everyday, ever since! Hopefully you'll come to Australia? Hehe 🦘

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much. hopefully one day!!

[@ALViaN-ej1fd]

I ❤️ this song.

[@BelleRoose]

This is powerful, i'm excited to see you all at Trix in antwerp!

[@Softcultband]

see you there!

[@lizardasslick]

I didn't know you guys directed, edited and stuff too. Incredible video

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you!! yep I do it all myself, and have since day 1. It’s a learning curve, but it’s really fun and rewarding. Thanks so much for watching!

[@aniart9474]

I catch big vibe😌💜💜💜💜💜💜💖💖💖💖

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@pizzanpasta7704]

so dreamy like! like I'm hearing this song from so far away!! that distant sounding hooked me

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much

[@JohnDoe-vc5qb]

You guys built different fr fr

[@Softcultband]

haha thank you

[@tamamakiiti587]

loved you guys ever since i first heard Bridges back in the day, hope this song was healing to write and record x

[@drewlsy]

It's like a dichotomy. Your sound is very much of your time, but at the same time, embedded in the glorious past. Thought-provoking to say the least, your song writing and melodies are infectious! Kudos to the actors in the video, it went well with the song. Sorry to anyone out there who has gone through something depicted here; may you heal and carry on to move past it, while aiming to go on to live your best life.

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much for this comment

[@inthememoriesoftheoneswelost]

It's hard but thank you for putting this out in the world. 🖤

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you so much 🖤🤍

[@inthememoriesoftheoneswelost]

@@mercedesarn-horn8095 the strength to trust and love again after such trauma, yourself and others is really hard. But living in silence is to live in a lie that digs in the scars. Talking about these taboos are mandatory. Too many unbearable and unhearable pains. 🖤 Thank you again. You two are amazing. Hope to see you live in Europe sometime!! Who knows!

[@Rawwb]

this shit was mad powerful

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@carolinehDN]

this song honestly speaks volumes. thank you for this

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much

[@DJ-XTRM]

Amazing... Genius work. 👽 The Alien Subbed...

[@thmsn_]

you guys never fail to amaze me love you both 💚

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you so much, I’m so glad you enjoy it 🖤🤍

[@J2K4U]

another banger! love the song nd video! great work! fantastic song and touching lyrics! Thank you very much for making such beautiful music! keep it up! You rock and its admiring what you do!

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you so much for listening 🖤🤍

[@jeanrose9607]

thank you softcult for bringing me happiness and comfort to your music hope soon people will discover this band

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@carlosdarity6456]

This definitely needs to be shown in high school sex-ed + college orientation courses. The packaging of the message can't be clear enough. Solid Work Softcult!

[@arianepoirier-greenwood2211]

Easily one of my favourite songs you put out. Thank you! 🖤

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you 🖤🤍

[@thenewfury9798]

An important message. An impactful song.

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@nolansyers]

You were awesome last night at Mahall's in Lakewood, OH! Loved that you knew my old bandmate Brandon too. Wish you all the best! Congrats on the headlining tour, new EP, and can't wait to eventually see you perform at Glastonbury or Reading & Leeds! Cheers

[@isaacisrael34]

I dig your music Softcult. Keep doing your thing. :)

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much! we will!

[@julianfelton3068]

Another meaningful song in the chamber you guys never miss always hitting us in the feels blowing our minds everywhere!

[@Larothiel]

Divine music! I really like it :) ❦ ♥ ❣ ღ

[@somerandomperson3970]

On another note, Chris Perry is GOAT. Truly the God of the Arn-Horns.

[@billmod]

absolute jam. everything is so good about this!

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much

[@PeoniesAndSunflowers]

i like this a lot omgg

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@hiitsfrederik]

❤🤘

[@lodougherty]

what a bangar

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@user-vc8vm1fd9x]

❤️

[@Devananta-Rafiq]

My new favorite bands along with Fleshwater!

[@johnsummers9660]

Such a great song.

[@Softcultband]

thank you so much

[@gymonstarfunkle136]

Another stealth bomber of a track aided by that tense emo chord progression.

[@hz-ic8zl]

Yessssssssssss i haveee beenn waiting forr thisss😆😆😆😆

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@spacecalander]

😪This had feeling!

[@Softcultband]

its heavy

[@naufaleurasia]

Great songs😍

[@gustavoflyleaf]

Great

[@mercedesarn-horn8095]

thank you

[@kariixq]

Your music means a lot to me and I think that a lot of people can relate to your songs so thank you,, love you so much 💞

[@Softcultband]

thank you

[@JKDVIPER]

Art. No comment. 💯😉☮️💥🙏

[@gabjoven]

💘✨

[@KevinContreras2013]

Man, this made me cry. Fuck this was powerful