SOLO MOM OF 4 NIGHT TIME ROUTINE 2024 | COOK + CLEAN + NIGHTLY CLEANING MOTIVATION | MarieLove

[@elliecobb2734]

I remember those days, I was a SAHM in the 70's my "work", was I watched my nephews along with my two, from 7am till about 4pm M_F, I did this so I could stay home with my own babies, The hundreds of chores everyday, I was ready for bed by at least 10pm if not before, I would not trade those days for anything. When I became a gramma, I repeated, by raising two of my sons kids, and watching my daughters during the day from the time she returned to work after their births, until the middle of covid, I miss seeing them every day. My oldest grandchild is now a 35 year old man, he calls me at least once a week. Treasure the time, it goes way to quickly. You are a great Mom.housekeeper, decorator, gardener, shopper, cook, the whole package. I'm sure Eric thinks so, as do your kids. That's what matters, a blessed life, what you feel is shared by every Momma at some point. Many blessings and prayers to you and your beautiful family!

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Thank you so much for sharing this. It made me smile. Yes a mothers work is worth every bit.

[@brendatenney8404]

You are so right about our husbands being aware. My husband and I both work full time jobs outside of our house. But, his job is the main income. We don't have human kids, but we do have two fur babies. When I'm doing things in my house then get tired, he won't flinch. He never asks why laundry isn't neatly folded / put away, doesn't bark about dishes nor cleaning. He sees me doing my part and I get burnt out. He also gets burnt out. And we both pick up when the other is just too drained. Even when I'm super tired, both my sons (fur babies) know momma doing her best. They love snuggling up on the couch with me. Humans and our fur kiddos all know parents are rocking to do their parts. Keep killing it over there momma. I know your husband and kids ALL appreciate the hard work you do. 💐❤️❤️❤️

[@tammifields4142]

Enjoyed the video...Just subscribed!💕💕

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Thanks so much for sticking around. I appreciate you being here. 😊

[@michellekuglar5960]

Love the new dining room vase and flowers ❤

[@vloy3080]

I love this Marie! Everything you said reigns so true. We can appreciate and be grateful for all that we have and love our life, that doesn’t mean we don’t experience overwhelm or exhaustion. After my kids go to bed I like to light a few candles, read a chapter of my book and watch an episode of a show with my hubby. It gives us a chance to unwind and connect with one another at the end of the day. I feel so much better the next day when I’ve taken that hour or hour and a half to myself before bed. Don’t forget about yourselves momma!

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

It's very important to remember ourselves. We can pour from an empty cup, but it definitely makes it much harder.

[@tracewalker8772]

Good job Marie, you do such an awesome job taking care of the family!! Your kids will have great memories!🥰💕💕💕💕

[@charleypaulino87]

Lonely couldn’t have said it better myself! now that the kids are home And seems like it’s things are always piling up I can find a video of your for some motivation and positive outlook thank you for this amazing community you have built ❤

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Thank you for always watching my videos. 😊

[@MrsAlmaTrumble]

As you embark on the tasks and responsibilities of the day, may you find inspiration and wisdom in the teachings of Jesus. May His words resonate within you, empowering you to walk in righteousness and to be a source of love and compassion to those around you. Have a Beautiful and Blessed day and weekend. See you next video. Stay safe and healthy. God Bless.

[@katherinedunker4628]

🥂 to your words on solo parenting! Right there with ya!

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

We got this girl!

[@wandabell2120]

Yes, I truly enjoyed the video! You are doing an Awesome job raising your kids. It also takes a good man to provide for his family. Shout-out to you Eric for being that kind of husband and Father! Take care family, enjoy one another and I will see you in the next one! God Bless!

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Yes we are so blessed to have a dedicated man as a husband and father.

[@ThisBlessedMess]

It is so hard being the default parent. My husband is a blue collar worker so he sometimes leaves before the kids wake up and doesn’t get home until after they’re asleep and the days are so long

[@patriciapyper4617]

Hi hope you and your family are doing well ♥️🌹 love you r video s ♥️🌹👍

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Thank you so much 😊

[@annar8232]

Being the default parent is definitely hard sometimes. My husband is a blue collar worker and he works swing shift so every 2 weeks I’m having to adjust my schedule to fit his so we can get maximum family time with him. It’s hard but it won’t be like this forever!

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

I feel like Eric works his life away and misses so much time with me and the kids. Yes it can be hard, but so worth it. I'm blessed to be theor default parent. 😊

[@prasnlrdsheilawalker5241]

Marie!...thank you so much for your comments about being a "single" but married mom! I could not agree with you more. I get overwhelmed, stressed, and tired doing the kid stuff and repetitive house work everyday. Prayer is the only thing that keeps me sane and able to press forward.

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Yes prayer keeps me going. I feel defeated doing it all, but I wouldn't change a thing.

[@beverlygutierrez1090]

You are living your best life! I miss those days with my kids being babies.

[@amandaraujo37]

Enjoyed this style video! It’s super relatable to me 😊 we love thrive market also! Have a great weekend 🩷

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Thank you! You too!

[@rachelbolick]

Hey Friend, Happy Saturday. Thank you for the motivational speech. I don’t think women get appreciated enough for everything that they do. We need to prioritize self care in our everyday lives more often. 😊❤ I love that your kids are early risers. I remember when I was younger the later I went to bed the later I would wake up. Now my body is used to getting up at a certain time every morning.😅

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

I've never been a morning person, but it's definitely something I've gotten use to with kids. 😅

[@delenemcclung8211]

Your channel is really growing. So happy for you❤

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Thank you so much!!

[@j.christian6801]

You are doing a good job with your children. My husband worked nights and I worked days so we saw each other on the weekends and when the kids were involved in evening activities I was the one to take them. It all worked out ! Thanks for being so motivating!😊

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Aw yes working at night is hard. My mom worked night shift often when I was kid

[@kittytirado8893]

Wow Marie, I remember when I did all this with my children’s and then with my grandchildren’s. I’m 65 years old and I’m so tired now and have very little energy. And to tell you I was a foster mom for 22 years and loved it.❤I love taking care of children. My youngest granddaughters are 4 years old. My daughter lives in Long Island and my oldest son lives in Orlando, Florida. I have 10 grandchildren’s and they mean the world to me.❤ I have 5 sons and one daughter.😊 I adopted 2 boys. Very good sons such a blessing.❤ Great video see you in the next one.🥰

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Yes I love taking care of all my babies and being blessed as their mother and homemaker.

[@TresaSizemore-m5z]

You are so very right about time going by to fast when you have children. Both of mine are grown and gone. I miss them so bad my heart aches for them.

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

I wish I could go back in time or replay moments sometimes. It all happens too fast.

[@valeriecarrigan4604]

Great video Marie enjoy your day 💖

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Thank you! You too!

[@PennyMain-dm4ci]

I love this Marie I remember those days moms have the hardest job but so rewarding your kids will always remember they had a loving mom ❤

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Thank you. I know they will remember me when they are grown because I was there the most in their life. 😊

[@deborahhopper4832]

Looks so busy at your house ❤️😊👍You’re such a great mama! Those solo nights are so hard. I remember them. It goes fast and now my kids are adults 🥲

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Aw, yes they grow up way too fast! I can't believe my oldest baby will be turning 14 this year. 😢

[@charleypaulino87]

Man did I need to hear this today thanks mama ❤

[@nat2gr18]

You are doing such a good job Marie!I have four as well and my husband works until late so solo parenting it is 😉You are so consistent with uploading too,I have been watching for quite some time and your videos are a great motivation for me.Keep up the good work and keep talking about God I really appreciate that for you

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

I've ever missed a week of uploading. I try to keep the videos coming. Thanks so much for always watching girl! I appreciate you.

[@monalisafisk4099]

Marie you are such a precious Mom & Homemaker you take so much pride in caring for your children & household.😇❤️

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Thank you so much!

[@bobbideweese8153]

Hi friend thank u for ur words that’s exactly how I feel 🩵

[@kristiray6300]

Funny. I'm cooking the exact same thing for dinner as I'm watching video

[@Babygirl_1997]

I understand Marie! My husband works a lot too. Im a SAHM, Ive been watching you for years, it gets overwhelming, but so worth it! Especially on the weekends, our kids are on summer break. 8pm is good for a bedtime. My kids good to bed between 7:30 ,8 pm. 🎉our husbands work so hard! I tell my husband all the time that its appreciated! ❤❤

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Yes, we appreciate him so much for all he does for our family. 😊

[@deborahhuckaby4623]

I have to tell you, Marie, your workouts are paying off for you. You look great. You definitely deserve to relax in your recliner after all you do at the end of the day. Have a great weekend.

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Thank you so much!

[@LeaLea929]

Girl, I don’t know how you do it with 4 kids. I can barely handle my 3 and 4 year old lol. You are super mama!! Great video as always! ❤

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Thanks so much girl. It's never easy, but always worth it. 😊

[@nancyengland9723]

Hey there my beautiful friend bless your heart ♥️ you definitely are a hard working momma that’s for sure those kiddos are beyond blessed to have such a beautiful mother like you so kind and loving and caring and always there for them all ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Aw, thank you so very much. 🫶🏻

[@TheNielsenFamily]

First of all thank you for your advice on also throwing clothes in the dryer. So far no damage to the clothes and i've saved so much time. I do not have a mountain of clean laundry on the table as I write this lol 😂❤ What is the "normal" bedtime in the US? We live in Denmark and kids are in bed by 6-7 for the kids up to age 5/9 and 8/9 for kids age 8-12. My kids bedtime is 9. But most kids in Denmark are in childcare at 6/7 in morning before school and then again childcare until 3/5 in the afternoon. Im a stay at home mom and there are not many of us in our society as it is looked down on being a stay at home mom and people believe it is the best for kids to spend most of their time in childcare facilities. Its kind of fxxxxx up if you ask me. I have had to defend having my kids at home until school sooo many times and especially the authorities are against having the kids at home. But i'm the mom and they can mind their own business ❤😊

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

During school, my kids get up at 6am. The bus comes around 7am, Elementary school starts at 7:40am. They go to bed at 8pm year round except my teenager goes to bed at 9pm on school nights and 10-11pm on weekends.

[@TheNielsenFamily]

@@MarieLoveAsbury That seems pretty reasonable to me. Do people think that is late or early?💜

[@marymcdonald4298]

👍😊 love how you take care of your family you have such a kind heart ❤️. Your videos make my day. I did the same thing when my daughter was young. Now I have grandkids. I love keeping my daughter room clean.💜💛💚❤️

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Thank you!!

[@laceymcculloch1855]

Great video, I will have to try this dinner idea. I love seeing your kiddos, they are so cute! What shows do you like to watch?

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

I currently just finished MAID on Netflix. It is so good! I'm watching The 100, Manifest, This is us, orange is the new black and walking dead. I never stick to one show at a time lol.

[@ShannMarie424]

I miss those cuddles! My son being 17, he never snuggles, obviously but he gets a little jealous when my friends kids come and fight to snuggle with me hahaha

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Oh goodness, I'll cry thinking about my kids being 17. 😢😢😢

[@ShannMarie424]

​@@MarieLoveAsbury it's so bittersweet!!!!

[@Dina-Dee119ps59]

♥️Hi Sweet Marie! 🥳More power to YOU! You are an AMAZING momma! It’s a lot that you do however as moms WE always have to remember it’s not in vain that we do this “momma thing” -OUR reward is GRAND! Your kids are the sweet blessings!♥️ You are a SPECIAL MOMMA!😊. You are SPECIAL to US!😉 ⭐️HIS mercies are new every morning.✝️Lamentations 3:23 I am encouraged as a solo-solo mom! Bless you always…🕊️💐🕊️

[@bethanyfortner3551]

You're an amazing mama!! Stay strong you got this.

[@janetandrews9030]

Janet Andrews hello from Virginia: Marie love your video your home is absolutely beautiful the way you decorate it and organize. Love your meal planning as well thanks for the thrive information it's worth a try an alternative to more healthy snacks.

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

I really do like Thrive Market a lot! Thank you!!

[@courtneydanielleyt]

Ooo that purely elizabeth granola is really good!

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Yes it really is so delicious!

[@ashleywendt3384]

Loved this video!

[@natashabenjamin4222]

Girl you are a great mama. I am a SAHM working for my degree in education ( although be using it to home school my youngest) and my honey works and it is something we agree on. Just got vinyl floors installed so I have cleaning to do. Was sick the past 2 weeks and out of town to see my oldest graduate so I got next to nothing done. Being a SAHM is a full time job.

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

You can say that again. It is definitely a full time job!

[@alicecordova8183]

I enjoyed the video. New to your channel beautiful family God bless.❤ New York

[@DeloresKennedy-gf4wn]

Great Job ❤

[@cindythompson3960]

I always put my kids to bed at 8 also i had a daycare so by the end of the day i was exhausted have a blessed weekend sweet lady 🥰❤️🌻🌞

[@HilahSpaethe]

You are such a great Mama! That chicken creamy recipe sounds really good and will try it tomorrow. Have a very Blessed day! Love, Hilah

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

It turned out sooo delicious! 😋

[@HilahSpaethe]

@@MarieLoveAsbury OH MY!!!! ITS SOOOO GOOD, Hubby doesn't like parmesan cheese so substituted some shredded mozzarella and stirred well before adding the pasta. Served with some fresh kale and dinner was great. Thanks for such a new great recipe, Have a Blessed evening and weekend, Hilah

[@paulinopreciado88]

Looks good everting

[@barbarapeterson8030]

HAPPY THURSDAY Marie and family! You always GOT this Marie. Children grow faster than we think. Thanks for sharing all the great recipes YUM! STTB

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Thanks so much for always watching!

[@deborah3055]

You do a great job of taking care of your home and family Marie I really enjoy watching you 💕

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Thank you so much!

[@GARDENOFLIFE2024]

🖤💛🤎Hey Marie I Love Strawberry Oli Pop too We go to bed early too Great Videos ✌️🤎🙂

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

It's good! I recently tried the peaches and cream lollipop and it's so good! 🍑

[@IrmaGuzman4]

Hey girl here starting to watch

[@SimplyBethany]

Hey hey marie❤

[@sloanepayne2641]

Marie have you ever used the crock pot bags if you haven't you should it makes clean up so easy and it's faster !! I love them so much!! Sometimes I double them but you don't have to my daughter never does but my crock pots are all very old there over 20 yrs old and they get very hot that's why I do it! Walmart sells them!! Honey 8pm for bed time is not early except maybe in the summer on the weekend cause it stays day light so long and it makes it hard to go to sleep sometimes!! Unless you have black out curtains Lol and I do cause they help keep my house's heating and cooling bills cheaper!! Honey I was a single mom with 3 kids and I had to do it all so I know how you feel give your kido's a cup of water with a lid on it to put on the bed side table then they have no reason to get up only to go potty !!! I'm going to be nosey but is your husband the father of your oldest child father?

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Yes, I've used crockpot bags and ran out. It's one of those things that you can't remember to get more of until you need them lol. I don't give my kids water in bed because sometimes they have accidents if they drink too much at bedtime. My oldest daughters biological father walked away when she was 2 and we haven't seen or heard from him since. My husband has raised her since she was 4 months old. He is her only daddy. ♡

[@lisaveenstra7098]

Good Video:)

[@teddybear283]

I have a teen daughter too. It’s intense 😂

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Yes girl. It takes lots of patience and understand. 😅

[@michellelazarus7139]

Hey💛

[@SusanAragon-xk4rs]

Hello Marie can you please link the nap mats in the vedio we’re did you get those at

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

They are from lovevery.com

[@sharonedwards3372]

Where did you purchase your tumbler at?

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

It is from walmart by Ozark trail. I love it! It keeps ice for 2 days.

[@TheLadyBoss42]

Saw you purchased Gluten Free Brownie Mix. Does anyone in your family have a gluten intolerance.

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

No I just assume it's better for you.

[@happyglamper7412]

I know you say space was limited in their rooms halve you considered bunks for them? Twin over full for your daughter since she’s older she can have the bottom bigger bunk or bunks with desks underneath for each kid?

[@happyglamper7412]

It would free up floor space and give them their own space

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

They had bunk beds before and they didn't like them. They like having their own sides of the room. They feel like they have their own space.

[@kerryannntreasure2117]

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[@ThriveMarket]

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[@angid3953]

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[@leleedaniels2413]

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[@rumildafrancke9215]

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[@barbaraengel594]

What about him too. Every mother is lucky is to be able to stay at home. Hubby's have alot of responsibility on there plate too

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Yes did you hear the part where I said we are grateful for my husband? Yes he works hard, but I'm pointing out the appreciation for married single moms, those of us who feel this way. What about us as the default parent and all that we do as solo mamas is the point here..🫶🏻

[@michellekuglar5960]

Ok so I commented on the wrong video , been a long day meant to comment on recent video. 😂

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

😆 🤣 😂

[@Cissie514]

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[@ckarlossbaltazaro5458]

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[@darbibrumbaugh9956]

What does your husband do for a living?

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

He works in a metal shop. They make Harley Davidson handle bars. ♡

[@darbibrumbaugh9956]

@@MarieLoveAsbury cool two of my uncles have Harley Davidson’s

[@MunchKim0929]

How come you’re solo? Your hubby doesn’t help you with the night routine?

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

He leaves for work before we get up and comes home after I put then to bed.

[@TaneshaJones-o6u]

You losing weight gurl friend 😍

[@TaneshaJones-o6u]

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