Some Parents Live Out Dreams Through Their Children. Sudha Murthy addressing parents.

#sudhamurthy
#parenting
#education
#sudhamurty
#bestspeech
A new, first-of-its-kind study in PLOS ONE today discusses sports dads, stage moms, and confirms a popular psychological theory - parents live vicariously through the achievements of their children and in fact, desire their children to fulfill their own unrealized ambitions.

[@natarajand6653]

This lady should be nominated for next president of india

[@prameelathiyya9520]

, exactly

[@sravanthidiaries]

Sudhamurthy..I would love to see her as President of India

[@Emnememnem]

Better to be the PM than be the President 😬.

[@neetagupta76]

I strongly believe so

[@adsaikiranreddy7242]

Why you guys want to push her into this dirty politics ?. Now she is doing good as mother, as wife, and also a good Idealogist. So I don't want to see her as politician....

[@jayashreeviswanath2028]

Women with beauty, brain and simplicity... Hats off to her humbleness and wisdom!

[@leelavathich4589]

👏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@kavitagodbole6413]

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[@jalajamullanezhi3321]

Very correct

[@yashiyadav1561]

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[@rashmisaxena5566]

​@@kavitagodbole6413 uhhuhuuhhuhu uhu

[@madhurakabasu7324]

"the child is the extension of her body" such a beautiful line

[@anushanookala5608]

Exactly

[@bharathikuruganti3556]

Very true

[@sukanyadebidatta8800]

I tell my husband the same thing. I feel my child is my body part only

[@niveditajha4664]

Ya

[@sukanyabhat4180]

Very true...

[@digvijaykapoor4071]

I left out a tear while listening to her. My parents have been breaking me down since I was a child. But now I know what to do with my children

[@Curiouskalyan]

So sad to hear that. More power to you

[@digvijaykapoor4071]

@@Curiouskalyan thanks brother.

[@chandrabhushanboipai6702]

Same here bro.

[@dysplasiaanaplasia4128]

Dnt do anything to your children.let them be , dny interfere or try to teach something. No need. They will learn yhemselves nd you should learn from them how to live.

[@475girish]

Same here my Parents were Shouting at me for getting Less Marks and they were Comparing with others when I didn't know what my Goal is...

[@sachinkadam1445]

Every child is unique 🙏🙏 Respect every child 🙏🙏

[@leelavathich4589]

🙏👏👏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@ayeshanasir9916]

I was smiling the whole time! As mother of a 9 yr old and a 2 year old... I have learnt SO much Thank you

[@straightpath8495]

Assalamu alaikum sister.may I Know how u cope up with stress during parenting.coz I get so much stress on handling them coz my first one is hyperactive..

[@dermatologist2152]

@@straightpath8495 dont ask ppl such sensitive questions on youtube. consult a professional pls

[@straightpath8495]

@@dermatologist2152 have consulted specialist regarding but iam not satisfied ...It's ok to ask PPL with good experience on parenting coz parenting is a technique not a disease....

[@sreelekhaharikrishnan2287]

Me also was smiling 😄😄

[@jyotiprashar3677]

Young parents should watch this video.

[@JamesBond-ni3zr]

do not compare children, "every flower is beautiful in its own way", this had me crying !!!!

[@Tulsi1894]

Yes. My Father never compared us. Each of us pursued our own interest. Today we extend the same to our children and grand children. Purpose of education is to handle situations wisely.

[@halimajetham5647]

I'm blessed to have parents just like sudha Murthy... never compared me with anybody else.... allowed me to do whatever I wanted

[@sonalgupta302]

Child is extension of mother’s body such a beautiful line 👌👌

[@sangeetharavindran87]

Agree. But we should not take that as an excuse to impose our wishes on the child because every life is unique and we should let them be themselves.

[@aquartz6348]

I totally agree. Parents aren't willing to extend their knowledge. But they are imposing their dream in their children. I m in my late 30s though I'm working but still educating myself with online courses.. parents Continue your ambition and learn new aspects. Don't set boundaries for education with age. Education is independent factor irrespective of the age. If parent haven't done any higher education they impose that on children. Parents - Get out of boundaries and achieve even if u reach that in age 50.

[@akshaya179]

M 30 ND I have 9 years old kid. I have a question. What s imp for a child. Success or happiness? If it is Success, then I have to be little strict wit my kid. If it is happiness, then I should let my child do whatever she wants. Now a days My kid s feeling lazy ND I don't know what to do? I feel so sad, depressed. Wen I read your comment I thought u could give answer to my question

[@aquartz6348]

@@akshaya179 don't set limitations with him. Let him have his choice. success is not confined with education, school and scores. Try to spend valuable time with him like library. Take the child out of gadgets. This can be possible only if we are away from gadgets. We should read books along with child. Make him to take responsibility like sending him to grocery purchase, taking him to bank, etc. Don't have expectation from him about achievements. This will disappoint most of parents.

[@akshaya179]

@@aquartz6348 thaks for the advoce😊😊

[@tejashreerathi3245]

​@@akshaya179 you have to make balance between success and happiness

[@nooffence1976]

I am going to listen to her all day. This should be listened everyday like we listen to a Bhajan or sloka so it's instilled inside us. Thank you ma'am 🙏

[@chithrap8061]

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[@priyankatalks2517]

Such a beautiful strong mother. I love her. I really do believe in what she said. But the world (school) doesn't accept it. recently I've gone through the same situation for being a good teacher and parent. Not judging a kid by their grades or scores. I was demoted to pre primary class. After listening this.. I felt I was & I am right. I'll be the same for the rest of my life. Thank you so much for sharing this.. love & respect sudha ma'am 🙏🙏💐💐

[@ashasinha2072]

Such a good lady& good mother she we learn many things from him

[@sunithagudur1524]

Yes Priyanka, be yourself. You have bright future

[@priyankatalks2517]

@@sunithagudur1524 thank you 😊😇👍

[@sangeetharavindran87]

That is so sad. When you are demoted to pre primary just for not judging kids, you don't belong there madam. Look for a place of work where you beliefs and values are respected

[@priyankatalks2517]

@@sangeetharavindran87 sure dear

[@mayurisawant9018]

I was literally crying while listening. Great lady.

[@tamilpaiyan7470]

I never compared my child with other child on anything. I never forced my child to score more. But I always told child to learn things, whatever we had learnt is like the thing inside our palms but many things to learn. Bcos each and everyone learn in life. But take it positive God is giving chance and we have to use it. Participating in competitions improve ur self confidence, especially erase ur stage fear. My kid goes for Elocution and wins it. No frequent practise of it. But I made the child understand what we try to convey to the society. The child started giving expressions and Judges were surprised.

[@saritategwan1595]

I am speechless..she is such an intelligent,wise and kind lady and a super mother..hats off to you Ma'am

[@komalupreti3867]

Love watching you Mam.. as a parent always learning from you.. and yes how beautifully you described a mother and a child bond.. thankyou so much 🙏

[@tech_aashish]

This moved me to tears... Thanks for this masterpiece

[@Srihari.K.R.]

One of the most brilliant, practical, wisdom ful speeches, Hatz off Sudha Murthy ji 🙏🙏🙏

[@basavarajnandargi4204]

Each sentence of her speech is worth listening and adopting in life.

[@roma8199]

Beautifully explained!!!Thank you ma’am🙏🏽

[@NANDULOVESALL]

The last comment (Enjoy your boy till 14 and girl after 19)..Awesome.. what a talk she had!!... Truly Inspiring Lady... Thanks Mam for sharing such valuable thoughts... 🙏✌❤

[@indrazatammina1047]

Am so blessed to have my parents they never compared me anyone, not even with my siblings.... They have always encouraged me to bring out the best I can do....and we're happy with the results.... Thank you God for blessing me with such wonderful family.!!

[@jothisaran5603]

Really I impressed in your speech mam. Iam a mother of 5 year kid.. here after I ll change some things in my kid study.. no words to express your speech...

[@daminipandit8798]

The irony is i am watching this alone.. and cant show it to my parents.. Apt speech by Sudha maam...!

[@sangitakar3143]

Words are so valuable to me as a Mother...thank you Ma'am ❤️

[@khushigurjar724]

Wonderful speech for learn to parents I'm totally agree every parent should think like that great lady 🙏 , she is just not a shuda Murthy but also inspiration to every mother and parents 💞 , love you a mam , I'm grateful that our India have this type of mahan aatma , pranam h apko mera 🙏

[@anitachopra8104]

Role model to follow,so realistic in her vision!!Humble to the core.

[@leenasivakumar2159]

What wonderful thoughts and expressed so beautifully.

[@nilighosh158]

So enriching. Thank you Ma'am 🙏. Children should be allowed to explore all options and parents too must be willing to adopt a newer thinking. Gone are the days when streams like science defined your intelligence and commerce and more so arts were for the low percentile students.

[@vandanasingh-sn7mf]

Whatever she says ,she says from her heart, no show off... Great!!!

[@selvijohn3896]

Baby is God's gift to us.our care for them is ,our gift to God.

[@bhawnamishra6681]

Fabulous maam ... you teach the lesson in a wonderful manner...lots of respect from the bottom of my heart...

[@thevegkitchen8796]

Sincere respect for the lady from the bottom of my heart..

[@kashmeera6786]

Thanks to much Mataji for sharing such precious wisdom ❤🙏🏾🌻

[@nagavallicherukuri6600]

Wonderful, yes my role model is my mom..... I am glad my parents were what ma'am described, and u followed the same towards my kids

[@akilafrancis5382]

A big salute and huge respect for you Mam.I was in lot of stress as my daughter will be appearing for her SSC BOARD exam in the coming year. So both children and parents are going through lot of stress becoz of pandemic situation .And luckily I went through this video and after watching the video I was at ease.

[@Rekhasharma-uj9ir]

Completely agree.....every child is unique in their own way ❤️❤️❤️❤️....loved the way you explain everything..........

[@MirzaSarkar]

Wisdom flows like river from Shri. Sudha Murthy ji.

[@twinsisters9217]

Thank you mam.I m mother of twin baby girl. Its so helpful and motivational fr me.enjoy ur daughter after 19 is a good line.

[@semmaaalu]

Wow I absolutely agree with her. Amazing video every parents must watch, who are making their children running behind marks.

[@yeshaswiniraju7732]

Perfect speech mam.. every parent should view this and understand

[@sarwatsafia8832]

Real life seen through eyes of sudha murthy .clarity honesty reflects in her talk amiable pleasing tone and depth in every word that she spoke marvellous

[@Snowflakes_7]

You have transformed the lives of so many parents after this video 😊❤

[@kaverithakuria4670]

Always inspiring n motivating...can listen to her on and on...👌

[@priyankabiswas5968]

Ma'am👌👌👌👌👌👌.. Golden words really an eye opener.. "Child is extension of her body🙏👌🙏👌🙏👌"..

[@remamenon6076]

Most knowledgeable ,simple ,perfect person of this era

[@venkateswarakumar9903]

Dear Madam We don't have words to praise your speech. Especially the way you delivered is fantastic. Thanks

[@vaidehir4977]

Hello mam great inspiring speech, you spoke the reality , very very good mam but I think every parent should listen to your speech everyday . Thank you mam

[@All_in_one_for_all]

I just love the way you explained the tough matter in such a beautiful manner.... 😇😇😇😇.. Blessed to hear you... 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@leelavathich4589]

🙏👏👏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@geetpune9668]

First time a saw better half of The Murthy. Being mother it is great lesson by mata

[@heenatanna8874]

Ma'am you're the true inspiration for all mother Parent's. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@nidhikasharma713]

Such a humble lady .. Motivating line "child is the extension of a mother" Mother a bond which is filled with infinite love do respect becoz we are filled with joy when the word maa is used for us

[@gauri6563]

Each and every word is priceless ❤️❤️

[@shilpishukla9427]

Excellent advice for all parents specially for mothers. Thank you so much my mother (mam) Jo bhi mujhe good advice deta hi I see my mother in her eyes ND you are one of them .

[@prachijayawant2184]

Sudha Murthy is my Idol ..I learn many books written by her..n too much impessed.... Nice thoughts ma'am..Thank you so much

[@Ankona_Vaani]

I heard same from a person in past beautiful motivating lines of being called flowers. Being mother is very strengthful. Marks are not everything rather child comes out as good human being. Parenthood definitely most challenging.

[@leelavathich4589]

👏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@RadhikaKal]

You are very down to earth and very practical and simple. God bless you maam.

[@firuzadegamwala4731]

Thank you for you....the world needs more people like you.

[@ramareddy7525]

Well spoken. You are something special. We are happy to listen to your message. Thanks.

[@bijalparikh9005]

Beautifully explained 😊 Thank you Ma'am ❤️

[@RadhikaKal]

Very good inspirational speech and needed for parents like us, thank you so much maam, I always love to listen to you and your speeches.

[@leelavathich4589]

👌👏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@harishchhabbarwal7787]

sudha murthy maam u are the best and living legend on this earth .. u have filled fellow ladies with motivation , courage , power ,strength

[@educationistfsd]

Wao what a beautiful way of talk.i heard this lady first time but she made me inspired.enjoy your daughter upto 19 and enjoy your son upto 14 years.beutiful explanation

[@namitakareem8130]

Im blessed with parents who tried to provide me with more than they could their intention were always pure but i grew up with the pressure of saying yes to everything my father said and if i gathered the courage to say i want to do this differently i had to bear with a lot of emotional pressure thats why i never matured and had trouble making my own decisions was this right

[@kt252011]

What an insightful lady madam Sudha Murthy is! Absolutely loved her speech on raising the children and all the pressures that parents put on themselves and their kids. I feel better after hearing her advise on teenage girls becoming close to their mothers after 19 as I have a 13 year old who is just the way she explained.

[@leelavathich4589]

👌amazing speech 👏 #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@thakurjyothi3220]

I was feeling sorry for my children by listening your more valuable words

[@NiteshYadav-tm4mz]

Amazing voice and simplicity on her face...good to hearing her voice

[@bonappetitbonvoyage3781]

True words Comparisons are major reason for more negativity in life

[@pritisinha9511]

Nice to hear you mam.Your speech is superb.Really every child is unique and as a parent we have to give full freedom to our children to pursue the studies of their choice then they will certainly do well.

[@shalinisharma3603]

Your thoughts and words are so precious and nice to listen you ma'am.

[@pro369]

One in a million if not a trillion. Great words, great wisdom , a fabulous talk

[@ashwinvis52]

Salute to you ma'am, you are a true gem for this country, parents should follow her advice in bringing up children.👍👍👍👌👌👌

[@brightstarsworld9544]

She is awesome as always ☺️

[@tamphasanarajkumari3623]

Thank you for your invaluable advice, Madam....I have learnt a lesson from your speech...Never to underestimate, or pressurize my child...Respect!🙏

[@rajalakshmivummidi8260]

I miss my mother. Sudha mam your words are remembering my mother a lot. Thankyou mam for your good advice.

[@FooodZee]

EVERY CHILD IS UNIQUE 🙏🏻🙏🏻 RESPECT EVERY CHILD🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@angelofpeace9220]

Sooo beautifully explained we need such people to be our leaders to run the country. Who will see all the communities in india as thali and like a loving mother hatsoff to her with loads of love💓to such a mother

[@anusuchprak]

Really? Such people send their children to Harvard and Stanford only.

[@pro369]

Every line uttered by you is gold, thanks

[@guruprasadbonthala4942]

Every child is unique.... It is absolutely needed to understand parents about child... Good message madam...

[@mandirabagdas4935]

Thank you ma'am for changing the perception of millions 🙏

[@bhanuseri]

Thanks for sharing experience and wise wisdom of values which are small but matter in longer run.

[@gulibhimadhuri6792]

Thank u mam, for your valuable speech.

[@garhbaggaupperschool4908]

Motivational, energetic n useful speech,in some parts of speech I become speechless (having no words for your valuable advice)

[@rohitlaspal]

Sudha murthy I have read your book grandma’s bag of stories . And I loved it. I am six years old 👨‍👨‍👧‍👦💜

[@karimasamnani4669]

I had such great voice and wanted to be a singer for sure..my music teacher told that I had voice like Lataji and have God gifted art...he appreciated me n taught me music and in school n colleges I won many awards...I thought I would pursue my hobby further and started working as software engr as my father wanted me to be one just like my elder siblings... one day i heard of indian idol auditions n i practiced a lot but my father didn't support n scolded n shouted n I couldn't go...I saw Sunidhi Chauhan,Shreya Ghoshal and Sugandha Mishra etc rise in the music industry...I had much better quality n melody in my voice..every sense of sur n taal...now after marriage n kids, even if I try singing the way it was,I can't now...i could have fought for my passion but who would've listened... i listen to good music as music is my soul

[@pasalaanthony8347]

Tears and tears

[@Hleagh]

Pahari family are very burden filled on their girl children. Do not be born a Pahari I had a Pahari music teacher. One day she said her children are growing up she can't spend so much time. She gets scolded by her husband for ignoring her household duties.

[@starwinsr6046]

Try now sister

[@rajiabraham8939]

Age is just a number... Start ure passion now.. U can use social platforms to showcase ure talents.... U will surely become famous

[@sangeetharavindran87]

Please don't give up dear. You can change your life at any point that you decide to change. Just take that decision. The power is only within you. Better late than never. Use social media, Things have high potential to change now than ever before. Don't give up.

[@dhanalakshmisnathan600]

Amazing.. Explained so well .Loved listening to you Ma'am.

[@leelavathich4589]

👏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@sureshbn8842]

This is going to change the way I bring up my children thank you Madam 🙏🙏🙏

[@meenakshikrishnamoorthy4841]

Madam sudha is always an inspiration, thank you mam for your valuable speeches, every time i get impressed 🙏

[@siriworld8294]

U inspired me n my Parenting.... A huge respect for you

[@leelavathich4589]

🙏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@prav_j5829]

i don't understand who must have hit dislike to this.. I've met this lady in person and she is truly a inspiration

[@chaitalijoshi7653]

Lucky you

[@SharmaClassesFam]

Your words are truely remarkable.. Appreciable and touching... Specially last few lines are heart touching

[@sai3339]

Even after listening to such beautiful speech why can't I change my behavior towards my child.

[@poojabharadwaj7152]

She explains everything soo beautifully!🙏

[@myviews9667]

Excellent madam. Perfect advice to the parents and children as well.. Your idea of parenting is really essential now a days NOT to PRESSURISE kids for marks or ranks .Instead encourage them at their interest . Ma'am very well said life needs thali that includes money as well. So parenting should guide the kids for a complete life. 🙏

[@vanithathota1672]

Excellent msg madam......i Love your simplicity,smile and confidence madam

[@monikanavneetsethi8015]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@bindhuravi7688]

I listen to her speech and mostly share the link to young parents very inspiring speech 🙏

[@humeraanjum6290]

Ur top mother , and n inspiration .. for a mother to be atop mother …we respect u a lot ma’am … thanks u for ur precious advice…..

[@vigneshbvs6357]

I wrote poetries in my school days...my mother saw that and she itself judged that I may be in love... when I was searching for my poetry note one day I can't find it...I was so upset I felt like I lost some part of me...I was also can't ask to my mother about it because she was not that friendly with me....one day I witnessed the ashes of my poetry in the area where we burn woods for hot water...my mother burnt my poetries...if she would have appreciated my poetries and acknowledged my talent for that...I would have been someone else today...it is very important for parents to acknowledge their child's talent towards any art apart from studies.... achievement of child is not only related with marks...hard thing is most of the parents think we brought up our child very happily we gave them good food studies money but still they can't realise these type of small appreciation matters lot!! And that is what a son or daughter excepts the most from their parents especially from mother....

[@nw3877]

yea acknoledgement is enough! no need to make it out a profession

[@chaitalijoshi7653]

SORRY to hear THAT..now you can START again your Hobby..all the BEST STAY HAPPY

[@groledo]

"one day I witnessed the ashes of my poetry in the area where we burn woods for hot water." My heart pained reading this...

[@manjucr6933]

Understand your feelings perfectly well. Some parents do such things out of their lack of experience and knowledge. All that we can do now is move on and forgive her for this one mistake she committed out of her ignorance.She might have surely done many more good things as well. You can start working on your poetry and bring it to even greater heights. And we will never be doing the same thing to the next generation. Hope the deal is not as bad as you thought ... Good luck!!!!

[@bharathir.s3062]

Wonderful speech ma'am

[@believeinyourself999]

She should become the next Prime Minister of India

[@veenarao6532]

Great lady 🙏🏾🙏🏾I really love her simplicity ,knowlede about life as well as in profession, she deserves to be the president of our great country 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

[@naveen4830]

Great madam , i like the point that its parents responsibility to look after children without expecting back something from them .