Some Parents Live Out Dreams Through Their Children. Sudha Murthy addressing parents.

[@natarajand6653]

This lady should be nominated for next president of india

[@prameelathiyya9520]

, exactly

[@sravanthidiaries]

Sudhamurthy..I would love to see her as President of India

[@Emnememnem]

Better to be the PM than be the President 😬.

[@neetagupta76]

I strongly believe so

[@adsaikiranreddy7242]

Why you guys want to push her into this dirty politics ?. Now she is doing good as mother, as wife, and also a good Idealogist. So I don't want to see her as politician....

[@jayashreeviswanath2028]

Women with beauty, brain and simplicity... Hats off to her humbleness and wisdom!

[@leelavathich4589]

👏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@kavitagodbole6413]

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[@jalajamullanezhi3321]

Very correct

[@yashiyadav1561]

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[@rashmisaxena5566]

​@@kavitagodbole6413 uhhuhuuhhuhu uhu

[@madhurakabasu7324]

"the child is the extension of her body" such a beautiful line

[@education-hub9830]

Exactly

[@bharathikuruganti3556]

Very true

[@sukanyadebidatta8800]

I tell my husband the same thing. I feel my child is my body part only

[@niveditajha4664]

Ya

[@sukanyabhat4180]

Very true...

[@JamesBond-ni3zr]

do not compare children, "every flower is beautiful in its own way", this had me crying !!!!

[@ayeshanasir9916]

I was smiling the whole time! As mother of a 9 yr old and a 2 year old... I have learnt SO much Thank you

[@straightpath8495]

Assalamu alaikum sister.may I Know how u cope up with stress during parenting.coz I get so much stress on handling them coz my first one is hyperactive..

[@dermatologist2152]

@@straightpath8495 dont ask ppl such sensitive questions on youtube. consult a professional pls

[@straightpath8495]

@@dermatologist2152 have consulted specialist regarding but iam not satisfied ...It's ok to ask PPL with good experience on parenting coz parenting is a technique not a disease....

[@sreelekhaharikrishnan2287]

Me also was smiling 😄😄

[@jyotiprashar3677]

Young parents should watch this video.

[@sachinkadam1445]

Every child is unique 🙏🙏 Respect every child 🙏🙏

[@leelavathich4589]

🙏👏👏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@Tulsi1894]

Yes. My Father never compared us. Each of us pursued our own interest. Today we extend the same to our children and grand children. Purpose of education is to handle situations wisely.

[@nooffence1976]

I am going to listen to her all day. This should be listened everyday like we listen to a Bhajan or sloka so it's instilled inside us. Thank you ma'am 🙏

[@chithrap8061]

Y

[@chithrap8061]

Y

[@chithrap8061]

Y

[@saritategwan1595]

I am speechless..she is such an intelligent,wise and kind lady and a super mother..hats off to you Ma'am

[@mayurisawant9018]

I was literally crying while listening. Great lady.

[@halimajetham5647]

I'm blessed to have parents just like sudha Murthy... never compared me with anybody else.... allowed me to do whatever I wanted

[@43hjk]

U r soo lucky

[@daminipandit8798]

The irony is i am watching this alone.. and cant show it to my parents.. Apt speech by Sudha maam...!

[@tamilpaiyan7470]

I never compared my child with other child on anything. I never forced my child to score more. But I always told child to learn things, whatever we had learnt is like the thing inside our palms but many things to learn. Bcos each and everyone learn in life. But take it positive God is giving chance and we have to use it. Participating in competitions improve ur self confidence, especially erase ur stage fear. My kid goes for Elocution and wins it. No frequent practise of it. But I made the child understand what we try to convey to the society. The child started giving expressions and Judges were surprised.

[@aquartz6348]

I totally agree. Parents aren't willing to extend their knowledge. But they are imposing their dream in their children. I m in my late 30s though I'm working but still educating myself with online courses.. parents Continue your ambition and learn new aspects. Don't set boundaries for education with age. Education is independent factor irrespective of the age. If parent haven't done any higher education they impose that on children. Parents - Get out of boundaries and achieve even if u reach that in age 50.

[@akshaya179]

M 30 ND I have 9 years old kid. I have a question. What s imp for a child. Success or happiness? If it is Success, then I have to be little strict wit my kid. If it is happiness, then I should let my child do whatever she wants. Now a days My kid s feeling lazy ND I don't know what to do? I feel so sad, depressed. Wen I read your comment I thought u could give answer to my question

[@aquartz6348]

@@akshaya179 don't set limitations with him. Let him have his choice. success is not confined with education, school and scores. Try to spend valuable time with him like library. Take the child out of gadgets. This can be possible only if we are away from gadgets. We should read books along with child. Make him to take responsibility like sending him to grocery purchase, taking him to bank, etc. Don't have expectation from him about achievements. This will disappoint most of parents.

[@akshaya179]

@@aquartz6348 thaks for the advoce😊😊

[@tejashreerathi3245]

​@@akshaya179 you have to make balance between success and happiness

[@basavarajnandargi4204]

Each sentence of her speech is worth listening and adopting in life.

[@sonalgupta302]

Child is extension of mother’s body such a beautiful line 👌👌

[@sangeetharavindran87]

Agree. But we should not take that as an excuse to impose our wishes on the child because every life is unique and we should let them be themselves.

[@TheMechmani]

Check in With Padappai....!!!! Stay Inside With Him Via Virtual....!!!! No Need To Truss Pass....!!!! Peace ####😂😺🤣✍️☝️

[@NandiniNair.31]

The last comment (Enjoy your boy till 14 and girl after 19)..Awesome.. what a talk she had!!... Truly Inspiring Lady... Thanks Mam for sharing such valuable thoughts... 🙏✌❤

[@SrutiTravelvlogs]

It is very easy to preach.. You need to study well unless you are 1) from a rich family 2) you have influencial people 3) you have reservation Every one mark is important. Imagine you are writing a competitive exam. You got 68 marks. Cut off was 70. Then only we realise value of each mark.

[@vigneshbvs6357]

Those who got average marks in school days only succeed lot in competitive exams....it is totally different approach towards exam when u are child and adult...look around the friends u thought below average would be in banking sectors would be studying in IITs would be a PSU guy.. because when u are adult our approach changes we study with understanding not mugging up...rather than concentrating on marks if parents insist about understand and study the things that would help lot... because in our state boards the boy or girl who mug up will beat the student who understands and study the things in Exams....so don't compare the schooling with the competitive exams...

[@SrutiTravelvlogs]

@@vigneshbvs6357 Even competitive exams test our memory more than understanding concept. I wish it should change

[@Humanityaboveall]

Parents and education system both should concentrate more on child ‘s growth and interest rather than marks . Junior classes marks and grades are not needed they should be taught in experimental way .

[@sohantiwade]

Our education system is flawed but as parents we shouldn't, the only thing she is saying is to open up your child's eye to the subject instead of mugging up,I teach in a academy where we conduct competitive exams and honestly I feel we are creating bookish nerds who cannot deal with practical problems or issues. So please approach the following video from that angle.

[@jayalakshmim9567]

Few students can't get more than pass mark or 50 percent. It may be beyond their own capacity and interest. So parents should understand their other area of interest and encourage. Sudha madam wants to convey this.

[@komalupreti3867]

Love watching you Mam.. as a parent always learning from you.. and yes how beautifully you described a mother and a child bond.. thankyou so much 🙏

[@indrazatammina1047]

Am so blessed to have my parents they never compared me anyone, not even with my siblings.... They have always encouraged me to bring out the best I can do....and we're happy with the results.... Thank you God for blessing me with such wonderful family.!!

[@bhawnamishra6681]

Fabulous maam ... you teach the lesson in a wonderful manner...lots of respect from the bottom of my heart...

[@priyankatalks2517]

Such a beautiful strong mother. I love her. I really do believe in what she said. But the world (school) doesn't accept it. recently I've gone through the same situation for being a good teacher and parent. Not judging a kid by their grades or scores. I was demoted to pre primary class. After listening this.. I felt I was & I am right. I'll be the same for the rest of my life. Thank you so much for sharing this.. love & respect sudha ma'am 🙏🙏💐💐

[@ashasinha2072]

Such a good lady& good mother she we learn many things from him

[@sunithagudur1524]

Yes Priyanka, be yourself. You have bright future

[@priyankatalks2517]

@@sunithagudur1524 thank you 😊😇👍

[@sangeetharavindran87]

That is so sad. When you are demoted to pre primary just for not judging kids, you don't belong there madam. Look for a place of work where you beliefs and values are respected

[@priyankatalks2517]

@@sangeetharavindran87 sure dear

[@prav_j5829]

i don't understand who must have hit dislike to this.. I've met this lady in person and she is truly a inspiration

[@chaitalijoshi7653]

Lucky you

[@heenatanna8874]

Ma'am you're the true inspiration for all mother Parent's. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@roma8199]

Beautifully explained!!!Thank you ma’am🙏🏽

[@MirzaSarkar]

Wisdom flows like river from Shri. Sudha Murthy ji.

[@sangitakar3143]

Words are so valuable to me as a Mother...thank you Ma'am ❤️

[@harishchhabbarwal7787]

sudha murthy maam u are the best and living legend on this earth .. u have filled fellow ladies with motivation , courage , power ,strength

[@Ankona_Vaani]

I heard same from a person in past beautiful motivating lines of being called flowers. Being mother is very strengthful. Marks are not everything rather child comes out as good human being. Parenthood definitely most challenging.

[@leelavathich4589]

👏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@jothisaran5603]

Really I impressed in your speech mam. Iam a mother of 5 year kid.. here after I ll change some things in my kid study.. no words to express your speech...

[@RadhikaKal]

You are very down to earth and very practical and simple. God bless you maam.

[@gaurichavan7981]

Life is a Thali. What a beautiful thought.! A real love the way Mam thinks so she is on that top of life today. An inspiration to all youngester.

[@kt252011]

What an insightful lady madam Sudha Murthy is! Absolutely loved her speech on raising the children and all the pressures that parents put on themselves and their kids. I feel better after hearing her advise on teenage girls becoming close to their mothers after 19 as I have a 13 year old who is just the way she explained.

[@leelavathich4589]

👌amazing speech 👏 #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@hazeldreams7873]

Each line she is telling is valuable. She is a treasure of wisdom. Truly a 'Ratna' on earth.

[@nidhikasharma713]

Such a humble lady .. Motivating line "child is the extension of a mother" Mother a bond which is filled with infinite love do respect becoz we are filled with joy when the word maa is used for us

[@pjoshi7758]

This the best example of educated lady, 👏

[@thevegkitchen8796]

Sincere respect for the lady from the bottom of my heart..

[@karanjitkaurmudhar186]

A beautiful lady with her personal experiences. Wish I can meet you. Beautiful thoughts of right motherhood. Love 💕 you SUDHA ji

[@vyjayanthikannan50]

"Legally and ethically should be right" nice values mam

[@leelavathich4589]

👏👏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@prachijayawant2184]

Sudha Murthy is my Idol ..I learn many books written by her..n too much impessed.... Nice thoughts ma'am..Thank you so much

[@nilighosh158]

So enriching. Thank you Ma'am 🙏. Children should be allowed to explore all options and parents too must be willing to adopt a newer thinking. Gone are the days when streams like science defined your intelligence and commerce and more so arts were for the low percentile students.

[@rajalakshmivummidi8260]

I miss my mother. Sudha mam your words are remembering my mother a lot. Thankyou mam for your good advice.

[@semmaaalu]

Wow I absolutely agree with her. Amazing video every parents must watch, who are making their children running behind marks.

[@remamenon6076]

Most knowledgeable ,simple ,perfect person of this era

[@akilafrancis5382]

A big salute and huge respect for you Mam.I was in lot of stress as my daughter will be appearing for her SSC BOARD exam in the coming year. So both children and parents are going through lot of stress becoz of pandemic situation .And luckily I went through this video and after watching the video I was at ease.

[@venkateswarakumar9903]

Dear Madam We don't have words to praise your speech. Especially the way you delivered is fantastic. Thanks

[@namitakareem8130]

Im blessed with parents who tried to provide me with more than they could their intention were always pure but i grew up with the pressure of saying yes to everything my father said and if i gathered the courage to say i want to do this differently i had to bear with a lot of emotional pressure thats why i never matured and had trouble making my own decisions was this right

[@geetpune9668]

First time a saw better half of The Murthy. Being mother it is great lesson by mata

[@leenasivakumar2159]

What wonderful thoughts and expressed so beautifully.

[@girijarajashekhar5424]

ಮೇಡಮ್ ಅವರ ವ್ಯಕ್ತಿತ್ವವೇ ಹೆಮ್ಮೆ ಪಡುವಂತಿದೆ, ಅದರಲ್ಲೂ ಈ ಮಾತುಗಳು ನಿಜಕ್ಕೂ ಮನ ಮುಟ್ಟುವಂತಿವೆ, ಈ ಮಾತುಗಳನ್ನೆಲ್ಲ ಕೇಳುತ್ತಾ, ಮೇಡಮ್ ಅವರ ಜೊತೆ ಒಮ್ಮೆಯಾದರೂ ಮಾತನಾಡಬೇಕು ಎನಿಸುತ್ತದೆ 😊

[@priyankabiswas5968]

Ma'am👌👌👌👌👌👌.. Golden words really an eye opener.. "Child is extension of her body🙏👌🙏👌🙏👌"..

[@naveen4830]

Great madam , i like the point that its parents responsibility to look after children without expecting back something from them .

[@myviews9667]

Excellent madam. Perfect advice to the parents and children as well.. Your idea of parenting is really essential now a days NOT to PRESSURISE kids for marks or ranks .Instead encourage them at their interest . Ma'am very well said life needs thali that includes money as well. So parenting should guide the kids for a complete life. 🙏

[@vanithathota1672]

Excellent msg madam......i Love your simplicity,smile and confidence madam

[@monikanavneetsethi8015]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@NiteshYadav-tm4mz]

Amazing voice and simplicity on her face...good to hearing her voice

[@yeshaswiniraju7732]

Perfect speech mam.. every parent should view this and understand

[@sarbanichatterjee8449]

Mam you are os um.This lady should be nominated for next president of India.I support this statement

[@selvijohn3896]

Baby is God's gift to us.our care for them is ,our gift to God.

[@sanjaylearnautomotive8340]

Agreed Sudha ji....completely.......every flower is buetiful in it's own way

[@angelofpeace9220]

Sooo beautifully explained we need such people to be our leaders to run the country. Who will see all the communities in india as thali and like a loving mother hatsoff to her with loads of love💓to such a mother

[@anusuchprak]

Really? Such people send their children to Harvard and Stanford only.

[@sarwatsafia8832]

Real life seen through eyes of sudha murthy .clarity honesty reflects in her talk amiable pleasing tone and depth in every word that she spoke marvellous

[@Rekhasharma-uj9ir]

Completely agree.....every child is unique in their own way ❤️❤️❤️❤️....loved the way you explain everything..........

[@khushigurjar724]

Wonderful speech for learn to parents I'm totally agree every parent should think like that great lady 🙏 , she is just not a shuda Murthy but also inspiration to every mother and parents 💞 , love you a mam , I'm grateful that our India have this type of mahan aatma , pranam h apko mera 🙏

[@bonappetitbonvoyage3781]

True words Comparisons are major reason for more negativity in life

[@pradnyaacharekar6952]

बहोत सन्मान Dr Sudhaji 🙏🙏🙏 वंदन

[@dhanalakshmisnathan600]

Amazing.. Explained so well .Loved listening to you Ma'am.

[@leelavathich4589]

👏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@vandanasingh-sn7mf]

Whatever she says ,she says from her heart, no show off... Great!!!

[@believeinyourself999]

She should become the next Prime Minister of India

[@TheDreams1512]

Thanks Sudha Aunty for your inspiration. Essence of life which I have understood. Please correct me if am not. - You do 1000000000000000000000000000 things and do only one and ONLY ONE mistake due to so many factors. Everyone sees that ONE mistake that you didn't do you don't know how to communicate, and you doesn't know how to work or take care of home and have headweight after you joined the job. No one understands mom's feelings. Still mom is ready to learn the new ways and finally, I learnt - do whatever you like - zero expectations - 10000 critics and saying I am wrong - finally, I came to know best communication skills is MOUNAVRATHAM and stay in corner room at home all the time talking to urself inside voice only.

[@RadhikaKal]

Very good inspirational speech and needed for parents like us, thank you so much maam, I always love to listen to you and your speeches.

[@leelavathich4589]

👌👏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@anitachopra8104]

Role model to follow,so realistic in her vision!!Humble to the core.

[@karimasamnani4669]

I had such great voice and wanted to be a singer for sure..my music teacher told that I had voice like Lataji and have God gifted art...he appreciated me n taught me music and in school n colleges I won many awards...I thought I would pursue my hobby further and started working as software engr as my father wanted me to be one just like my elder siblings... one day i heard of indian idol auditions n i practiced a lot but my father didn't support n scolded n shouted n I couldn't go...I saw Sunidhi Chauhan,Shreya Ghoshal and Sugandha Mishra etc rise in the music industry...I had much better quality n melody in my voice..every sense of sur n taal...now after marriage n kids, even if I try singing the way it was,I can't now...i could have fought for my passion but who would've listened... i listen to good music as music is my soul

[@pasalaanthony8347]

Tears and tears

[@Hleagh]

Pahari family are very burden filled on their girl children. Do not be born a Pahari I had a Pahari music teacher. One day she said her children are growing up she can't spend so much time. She gets scolded by her husband for ignoring her household duties.

[@starwinsr6046]

Try now sister

[@rajiabraham8939]

Age is just a number... Start ure passion now.. U can use social platforms to showcase ure talents.... U will surely become famous

[@sangeetharavindran87]

Please don't give up dear. You can change your life at any point that you decide to change. Just take that decision. The power is only within you. Better late than never. Use social media, Things have high potential to change now than ever before. Don't give up.

[@ramareddy7525]

Well spoken. You are something special. We are happy to listen to your message. Thanks.

[@arpitamondal3266]

As a mother, I pursue the path that you delivered to us.Thanku 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@leelavathich4589]

🙏👏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@bijukp1551]

​@@leelavathich45891:18 ❤

[@spiritualconnect957]

You are present Ahhilaya bai mam .charan sparsh with whole heartedly. Love you so much. God give you entire happiness. 🙏💐💐

[@sumithradevi8965]

Exactly mam. Awesome speech whereas all young mothers of this generation should listen.

[@leelavathich4589]

🙏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@ajitvankudre2115]

Reading comments give more insight of speech. A great reach Bhartiy

[@siriworld8294]

U inspired me n my Parenting.... A huge respect for you

[@leelavathich4589]

🙏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@ritasharma3267]

Great lady. I have no words to describe her personality.

[@vigneshbvs6357]

I wrote poetries in my school days...my mother saw that and she itself judged that I may be in love... when I was searching for my poetry note one day I can't find it...I was so upset I felt like I lost some part of me...I was also can't ask to my mother about it because she was not that friendly with me....one day I witnessed the ashes of my poetry in the area where we burn woods for hot water...my mother burnt my poetries...if she would have appreciated my poetries and acknowledged my talent for that...I would have been someone else today...it is very important for parents to acknowledge their child's talent towards any art apart from studies.... achievement of child is not only related with marks...hard thing is most of the parents think we brought up our child very happily we gave them good food studies money but still they can't realise these type of small appreciation matters lot!! And that is what a son or daughter excepts the most from their parents especially from mother....

[@nw3877]

yea acknoledgement is enough! no need to make it out a profession

[@chaitalijoshi7653]

SORRY to hear THAT..now you can START again your Hobby..all the BEST STAY HAPPY

[@groledo]

"one day I witnessed the ashes of my poetry in the area where we burn woods for hot water." My heart pained reading this...

[@manjucmenon]

Understand your feelings perfectly well. Some parents do such things out of their lack of experience and knowledge. All that we can do now is move on and forgive her for this one mistake she committed out of her ignorance.She might have surely done many more good things as well. You can start working on your poetry and bring it to even greater heights. And we will never be doing the same thing to the next generation. Hope the deal is not as bad as you thought ... Good luck!!!!

[@bharathir.s3062]

Wonderful speech ma'am

[@faheemakhther7801]

Wow, wonderful, no words , speechless, you are the Kohinoor of india , having accurate vision, about life , parenting , children, with ultimate , facts , hat's off n congratulations ma'am , you are the inspiration, to all ages .🎉🎉🇮🇳🙏💐💐🎊🎊👌👍🤗🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟❤️❤️

[@All_in_one_for_all]

I just love the way you explained the tough matter in such a beautiful manner.... 😇😇😇😇.. Blessed to hear you... 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@leelavathich4589]

🙏👏👏amazing speech #shrisha #shrishafoundation

[@bennymathias8032]

with grate respect I bow before God for giving us such a holy madem I have no words

[@pushpamistry2044]

🙏 Bless my son (19), he has Looked up on parenting skills... pointed to our mistakes. So understanding has forgiven us, we have a more peaceful relationship, let him enjoy life together with helping him find a suitable career.

[@rahuldilip3241]

Let him figure out what he wants...Parents should have no say in that

[@indusmk3863]

Wonderful speech on do's and don'ts of motherhood.

[@vaidehir4977]

Hello mam great inspiring speech, you spoke the reality , very very good mam but I think every parent should listen to your speech everyday . Thank you mam

[@bharathymaths]

Very attractive makes me to think a lot. Thank you mam

[@gauri6563]

Each and every word is priceless ❤️❤️

[@simmigarg5357]

It is very difficult to find such a beautiful soul..so proud of u

[@kaverithakuria4670]

Always inspiring n motivating...can listen to her on and on...👌

[@nagavallicherukuri6600]

Wonderful, yes my role model is my mom..... I am glad my parents were what ma'am described, and u followed the same towards my kids

[@ShubhaSenthil]

I very much agree to mam's point that we shouldn't pressurize and compare our children for marks. I regularly view her posts and look upto her for inspirational videos on parenting. On a lighter note, when I shared this video with my friend, the feedback I got was, though she says this all, in her very own Infosys, the hiring criteria is minimum 70% for freshers even to qualify for a written test, that too right from 10th grade :) :)

[@indranirao4092]

Absolutely

[@Iso-Assassin]

Irony of life

[@ronee587]

I have learn from you how to deal with my child.Thank you so much madam.May God bless you.

[@manikakaushik9646]

Enjoy your boy child up to age14 and enjoy your girl child after age 19...this line explain everything. Beautiful message for parents.

[@shreyashreya1328]

Girl should enjoy at 19 and a boy should enjoy upto 14 double standards women 😂😢

[@twinsisters9217]

Thank you mam.I m mother of twin baby girl. Its so helpful and motivational fr me.enjoy ur daughter after 19 is a good line.

[@ashwinvis52]

Salute to you ma'am, you are a true gem for this country, parents should follow her advice in bringing up children.👍👍👍👌👌👌

[@roshankarna1954]

This women is great must be given noble peace prize, God Shiva bless her

[@mandirabagdas4935]

Thank you ma'am for changing the perception of millions 🙏

[@mangalraut5177]

Really, she should be nominated as the President of India.. I like each n every word of her speech n it is a Golden word ....

[@brightstarsworld]

She is awesome as always ☺️

[@anupamagilotra7702]

Such a humble lady,she tells the reality of life with such simple examples like thali of our life