"Some Struggles Are Invisible-My Tic Disorder Isn’t." Ep (6)

[@grantbradshaw7907]

Good that she is sober and getting her life together

[@antioxi_group]

Haha, yes, she's really "kicking the habit" one tic at a time! 😆

[@WilliamHunter-hw6iu]

I've got a tic and it manifests itself in my speech... so people think I'm a stutterer... it ebs and flows and some days I can't string two words together... there is some words I cannot verbalize at all... and I know some of them..but I cannot remember them all...most of mine start with an...i. however this has had a massive impact in my life.. I'm 68 now so iv had a lifetime to refine the way I speak... and I discovered that the only way that I could get my point across is to raise my voice...and this has some serious consequences, because people think I'm angry....even my wife and children don't understand me...or it... when I was child it was very bad...and the result was that my teachers said I wouldn't amount to anything in life... but there is a staffie in my heart and I'm as tough as nails because of it... I won't back down for anybody.. I was raised in family of 3 sisters and 3 brothers....my three sisters haven't got this problem, but my brothers and I have exactly the same condition.. that tells me that it's a genetic problem that is dominant in the male gene. Anyway.... Jesus Christ created me this way for his glory and purpose..

[@antioxi_group]

Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. It’s truly inspiring to hear about your resilience, especially in the face of a condition that has affected so many areas of your life. The way you've adapted, from refining your speech to developing that "tough as nails" spirit, speaks volumes about your strength and determination. Since you’ve had so much experience living with this challenge, I’m curious-what advice would you give to younger people dealing with similar struggles? How can they stay hopeful and live a fulfilling life despite the difficulties?

[@Betttty]

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[@GordonPaulsen-k6m]

I was told that being depressed after years if not functioning and battling to be educated through severe learning disabilities adhd and then depression, stress, two strokes and being looked after by family when all I've ever wanted to be is self supportive has led to now bipolar, personality disorder where I believe that with the right help and support could be helped and I would be fine but nobody and Noone is loving enough to realize that eople like myself are marginalized and told we have nothing wrong with us are purposefully ignored and told its mental when it's not and that we should seek help wich we do just to hear we that there is nothing we can do if we don't change the circumstances. I've been really ferverant including going to the university to do teats and other professionals that have diagnosed that I have this disability but because I don't show symptoms and I'm a believer in doing whatever I can to not have it be something that I'm embarrassed about they then say it doesn't exist becauE it's not noticeable. If I've been looked at and asked so many times and have proof then WHT am I being looked after by family and can't find employment no matter how I've tried when all it would take is a program where I could be helped to learn and study and find a way to qualify myself this would all be a thing of ghe past. I'm not lazy or don't want to work but that's how I'm treated. I put in above average hours and have worked hard to find a way forward, I'm sitting at home wanting to take care of my family bur Noone is prpRed to help. My life has passed me by and I've lost so much because of all the mental and health issues including losing my loved ones because I'm just to damaged now after so many years that I cannot function and have to much hurt and pain in my heart, soul and body. Pls I'm 52 years young and have not changed my hearts desire, have no money or any assistance to overcome this horrible life of being pushed aside and then when everything gets out of control I'm considered mentally unstable and referred to the same system that hasn't worked and will never work. Can anyone tell me how to find the help needed because I'm now suicidal and broken with to many issues to even have the strength to follow what simply hasn't offered any help. Pls if anyone knows how to change my circumstances as I've Bern told if that doesn't change I won't recover and putting me on meds that cause more mental issues than actually helps doesn't help. I have no idea how I with no funds and government hospitals haven't got what did work they pit me on epileptic drugs and others that cause me to go insane and even get violent but that's what's offered and if the side affects are bad that's not concerning to them. Pls I am begging openly for help what can I do. 0799218989. My number.

[@antioxi_group]

Hi Gordon, Thank you for sharing your story so openly and honestly. It takes a lot of courage to put your experiences into words, especially when dealing with such challenging circumstances. I want you to know that your voice matters, and there are people who care deeply about what you're going through. From everything you've described, it’s clear that you’ve been fighting hard to improve your situation and navigate a system that often feels dismissive and unhelpful. Please don’t lose sight of the strength and resilience it has taken to come this far, even when it feels overwhelming or hopeless. - You mentioned that you're struggling to find resources and support, so here are a few steps you might consider: Reach Out to Mental Health Support Lines: If you're feeling suicidal, please know that there are people who want to help right now. In South Africa, you can contact the Suicide Crisis Helpline at 0800 567 567 or reach out via SMS at 31393. Explore Community Support Groups: Sometimes connecting with others who have faced similar challenges can be incredibly healing. Look for local or online groups for ADHD, bipolar disorder, or other mental health conditions. Organizations like SADAG (South African Depression and Anxiety Group) can provide guidance and resources. - Most importantly, you are not alone in this, and your pain is not invisible. There are people and organizations that can help, even if the journey feels daunting right now. Please consider reaching out to a crisis helpline or a trusted professional as a first step. You deserve support, understanding, and a chance to heal and thrive. Sending you strength and hope. 💙

[@MarkoPoloMG]

One of My Favourites 🙂

[@annaliengrensemann4534]

So proud of you

[@antioxi_group]

Thank you!

[@theodosiusreachable6961]

👏👏Great episode!

[@antioxi_group]

Thank you Theo!