Some Women Can't Stand Successful Men That Have Strict Standards In Their Dating Preferences

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

Stick to your standards, fellas. Period. If you do not want her, DISMISS HER. No arguing, no debating, no answering questions.

[@TLACY606]

Exactly.

[@yohan1996]

Facts

[@keturaequalizer]

And the same goes for the women. If he doesn`t meet your standards - DISMISS HIM! No arguing, no debating, no answering questions. 🤷🏽‍♂

[@Panafrocanam2]

Too many in the community don't have standards hence we have the women with worst standards and asks. Phil mentioned lower claiber women from other communities picking BM for that reason, I see it daily in my state sadly.

[@TLACY606]

@@keturaequalizer Stop the cap 🧢. You know damn well, y’all women can’t resist arguing every chance you get. Other than that, y’all “standards” are UNREALISTIC. Maybe not you specifically, but a lot of your fellow modern women are absolutely ridiculous. They will be old women still waiting on some rich Prince Charming to come settle down with them. Time waits for no one.

[@charlesdci7120]

Hyprocrisy: Belittling men who "sleep with anything" and then belittling men who won't "sleep with anything".

[@yuNGDeLaPhoNtE]

Girl Math….

[@daveblackman816]

It’s only ok when they have standards. And their standards are basically 4% of the population. But if we have standards, the audacity!

[@FordFitness334]

Right wtf wrong with them bro they trippin trippin

[@bfer95]

Facts 💯

[@trw4war322]

Yep!!! Great Point!!!🥳🥳🥳

[@chucky3285]

Blame these weak ass simps that enable this behavior

[@iceman_2360]

Be unapologetic with your standards men. These women will have no problem telling the world what they won't settle for. Don't feel bad about about having the preferences you want.

[@theoriginal668]

As a man gets older his standards go up. You have less tolerance for the bs

[@mopheousredpill7462]

I been like that since HS !!!

[@RTA6226]

Me too. My dad (and mom) raised me that way.

[@ntokozosibanyoni1421]

The problem is in debating these hyenas. Ignore em and stick to yo principles.

[@trw4war322]

Great Point!!!🥳🥳🥳

[@matthewwilson228]

Now women know how it feels to be filtered out by our standards

[@TommieGun71]

Having standards is new to you?

[@matthewwilson228]

@@TommieGun71 not new to me but everyone has standards every individual has a set of standards including me.

[@tayloreasley3419]

I know that growing up that way I am still single. Even though I am a good woman with a good heart I don't meet some men standing. Just good enough to be a good friend and sister.

[@Jay7682]

I'm not ever going to apologize as a black man myself for my standards.

[@dave3987]

The rule for success is structure and discipline

[@moto3463]

I know my worth ladies, pass NEXT!

[@Nightrain349]

Me Too!!!

[@TCR2025]

This woman is 100% right and on point.

[@Judah_773]

Man when i was broke, i wasnt putting up with ish. Now that im 6 figures up a year, im def not putting up with a damn thing. Either they gon cooperate or have a good day

[@coreyoliphant3268]

Yup bruh. either cooperate or agitate the gravel.

[@yaadythommo5548]

Yes brethren, it's the Golden Rule. He who has the gold makes the rules.

[@CC-cg6uc]

On lord

[@alanduff1054]

@@coreyoliphant3268kick rocks huh lol

[@alanduff1054]

Say that shyt bro

[@hareemobduljawon]

And women always hollering about equal opportunity. Man please ! Fellas especially my black brothers keep doing you. 💯

[@coreysanders6197]

We are

[@Dwbulldog04]

To be fair it’s not just a black woman thing but a western/liberal woman concept to shame men for their preferences. Fresh and Fit and Whatever podcasts call it out as well. Somehow parents and society has told girls and eventually women that they should be “accepted as they are”. When reality hits them that’s not how the world works they act irrationally, so if they can shame men those women can be considered instead or having to improve.

[@tulkipper3555]

For a society that preaches tolerance and acceptance. Ugly and broke men aren't tolerated and accepted as potential partners. 🤔

[@momann1822]

Tolerance does have it's limits.

[@arthurwilliams7307]

They know men with standards will not tolerate that bs from them, he will kick them to the curve real fast. The ones that complain are the ones that know they cannot meet his standards and it triggers them

[@sazodada6549]

Facts!!! Now that my status is in the 10%, there are just like 95% of women that I have no interest in. I'm not even ashame to say that because I had to work very, very hard for my achievements so I'm not seeking a woman who's only mission is waiting at the finish line only to f*ck the winners. I travel the world solo, meet people of various cultures and my memories and adventures suits me fine. Sure it would be great to have that special someone but I'm not sponsoring anyone and I don't need anyone to checking my coming and going. I'm good, thanks.

[@LilT9180]

You sound well accomplished and well travelled. Stay single and just focus on yourself. Its better than bringing drama in your life, when you already have peace.

[@TheMegatron673]

And it be them same women who would think they deserve half of what YOU built.

[@Spooner125]

“Waiting at the finish line to fU@k the winner”. The definition of a lazy ass gold digger. Most will call this hypergamy!!

[@nomadictravelerfromTx]

Get those passports fellas...You'll thank me later!😊

[@Fitblkdad]

I mean A man who has work hard and achieve his success, he is and can exercise his options and have his standards. No need to shame him into lowering his standards!

[@nonyabiz12]

This is why I always say a woman has the right to want the high earning "high value man" that most women want. The issue is she has to be the woman that that man is looking for to get chosen by him.

[@godsson1110]

More women than men in the world. Not enough men to go around lol they better chose fast. Cat piss is in a lot of their futures

[@katyarnold-ji8sv]

That's true!!!! 100% agree with your comment.

[@momann1822]

That's funny as hell.. women don't think it works the other way as well.

[@nonyabiz12]

@@momann1822 ...Right. It almost seems like they just know these high earning men that most women want want them. They never think that those men have standards as well.

[@mikehill584]

Hypocrisy, at its finest. The MAW can have all the standards they want, but if a man has good standards and boundaries, he is a PROBLEM or he is being DIFFICULT!!!!

[@deondimicks8159]

Of a woman that work at walmart can demand a man that make 6 figures then a man doesnt have to exceot a linebacker

[@33690]

Yes Keep Standards Men Especially Black Man

[@Caligirl1977]

No issues on my end. I think women and men should stick to their standards. This goes both ways

[@khalidrashada5989]

This is a new day.

[@crystal.holmes]

People don't know how to mind their own business.

[@mizzodotcom2]

No people don’t know how to mind they business when it matters and vice verse because u know like I know if you’re woman/man was fucking around and your neighbors knew it and they minded they business and she/he said u have no cred no evidence but you seen it but couldn’t believe it but those who know knew but won’t say anything to save your life u be singing a different tune

[@HarryClipzFilmz]

Women today aren’t sticking to Sister code. It’s over with they’re tired of consequences of believing lies and being silent

[@leekydun]

Work on your self and raise your standards young men

[@martajajackson1836]

I LOVE YOU Mr.Scott. THANK YOU for speaking LOVE and EXCELLENCE to my brothers and sisters. I thank Jesus Christ for allowing me to be born in a time to see the rise of black excellence again. Its coming y'all. Don't lose hope. 🌅🌅🌅✝️

[@nellywilliams2776]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@terencew7716]

If women can have high dating standards then men can have high dating standards

[@nrkgalt]

For the modern woman the ideal romance movie is one starring Denzel Washington and Lizzo.

[@truthhurts3305]

Fellas, notice the lack of comments from women here? It’s very telling LOL

[@franklinbrandon5283]

Lol Our Brother giving out Gerald LeVert vibez ain't he 😂

[@glory_citi]

Women forever had strict standards. Now the shoe is on the other foot and these women can't take it.

[@goffsgetawaygardenhomestea5997]

It’s cool when they do it , it’s a problem when I do it…🎉🎉🎉

[@jaymac8496]

When a black man is successful, *HAPPY* knows his worth and sets boundaries he becomes a threat and a dangerous man to WS and Modern BW

[@MisterE1976]

Say it again, say it again!....in Pinky's voice!!

[@devilsadvocacy]

That one isn't race-specific. It applies across the board, although in the Black community it is particularly acute

[@allegrap1054]

Everyone should have and has the right to standards. Many people feel entitled to their preferences and standards but feel others aren’t entitled to theirs. For example, if non-black people prefer non-black people, if mixed people prefer mixed people or if light skin people prefer other light skin people all hades breaks loose and it’s racism or colorism. Let’s keep consistent energy for allowing standards and preferences.

[@feelewis9298]

It’s ok to have preferences it’s not just for women

[@quantumsolace5864]

Women should be supportive of a brotha that has standards; this way as a woman, you don't have to worry about him breaking The Moral Code on how he's moving in life. As a woman; this should make you have a Peace of Mind when it comes to your stability, trusting in him.😎

[@smitht1988]

If a high value man goes on Kendra G’s show and says he wants a fit, childless woman, he’s already eliminated 98% of her audience 😂😂.

[@offdatgogo]

This quick glimpse of her character made her several times more beautiful than what she is physically. Teach your sistas, sista!

[@coreyoliphant3268]

Fellas stay on your purpose. Continue to build Y.O.U ..

[@Dewane1511]

✊🏾

[@rollandcurtis874]

2:13 That “ick” thing is so wack. It honestly sounds like something that whîte people, likely a snowbunny, came up with. No wonder it didn’t get much traction in popular/hip-hop culture.

[@momann1822]

😂 Women hate rejection 😂

[@CopperJ-s7p]

Ironic that those same sisters have no problem with standards clearly outlined by a company for a position. They're not going to holla at hr regarding they're standards. Hilarious.

[@purple1cole]

On the subject of multiple children and picking up a lady with multiple children as well as outside of what the men's standards are. Well a hit dog on holler and that goes the same for the men as well. But we're talking about the lady so that's how that is coming from a man

[@julianbeasley2097]

Shes a gorgeous woman too and she called yall sisterhood out..

[@rrickarr]

I am so looking forward to black men all over the world stepping up and shining their brilliance and worth and feeling it deep within themselves and letting that vibration radiate so powerfully that people in their vicinity just have to stop and admire.

[@anthonybates7307]

Many of our women are still believing that "Zaddie" will be there for them. That is ending.

[@traindawg21]

The no high body count is the one that really drives them nuts. They only mad cause many of those women don't meet his standards and they know it.

[@roachesratsrepellentpack.9304]

GOD BLESS BLACKMEN WITH STANDARDS!!!! B1

[@logicalman1172]

A real man will save me from all the mistakes I have made !!!

[@moneychaser2430]

Who? Jesus?

[@paul4cager0]

nope ....

[@oyedejishobande7389]

@@moneychaser2430 he never stayed in his hometown. He a passport bro

[@richiexp2]

​@@oyedejishobande7389😂😂😂😂

[@bigwalt3898]

​@@moneychaser2430"If Jesus can't save these *oe's, what makes you think you can! You ain't greater than Jesus" Minister Jap 😂

[@wood4902]

I watched a segment of The Kendra G Show where a brother with his stuff together was laying out his list of expectations. He wanted a woman with a minimum number of kids, no tattoos and wear her natural hair. The women in the comments complained that "he must be looking for a white woman".

[@learhaynes1002]

I remember when that happened.

[@ogpirons]

The women in the comments came to that conclusion due to the fact they don't have standards (discipline) that they adhere to for themselves.

[@steadmoney3431]

@@ogpironsthey jus knew they couldn’t compete. As a brother them comments should let y’all know. They thing we’re suppose to settle for anything

[@ogpirons]

@@steadmoney3431 Thing is the brother was being flexible. He didn't say no kids, a minimal number. No tats on a white woman is becoming difficult but not as much as a woman of ethnicity. As far as natural hair, that's becoming subjective. Nevertheless, these should be easy boxes to check for a woman that is sure of herself and comfortable being a woman but you aren't going to find that in the Kendra G demographic.

[@technofilejr3401]

Those hyenas told on themselves because they know too many of our women match what he doesn't want.

[@dahoodmusa3714]

No head bonnets no eyelashes no nails

[@holland9199]

He doesn’t have to settle for anything less than perfection😄 his game his rules, NBA players are good example of not having standard and other men giving there life experiences to these young boys/men😮. Andrew TATE comes to mind he rules his mind/world 🌍

[@markjones741]

My woman can't be ignorant. TV is not a Black man's friend, BTW. Children and a lot of ignorant women watch lots of television, in my opinion.

[@antares3097]

An elder BW said the same a few weeks ago, most women hate a man with standards and self confidence...

[@4bnfree]

This is why the Bible says to be equally yoked. If you want better become what you want. This goes for everyone.

[@DeeKay-yy7op]

How is it hard to simply reject the unwanteds and move on...in the end, the market self-corrects...with no further intervention... But of course, the problem is weak men that will take anything, and thus propping up the low standards...

[@Rjcuatrocinco]

It used to be easy once upon a time, but men raised by single mothers, a feminized media, internet, TV has put a lot of men in a state of sad desperation where their only goal is to get a woman, any woman instead of caring about and improving themselves. That's why it's so easy for women to behave badly and not respect themselves these days. It's enabled.

[@Rjcuatrocinco]

Women are great, but imagine being a man with nothing going for him, no confidence, no self respect, no self control just an emotional mess chasing any woman who will give him a little attention good or bad like a starved puppydog. Very sad and pathetic existence.

[@CryptoPump610]

Only men can say what a "Real man" is, women need to stop that bs.

[@goyoy6433]

That woman is 100 percent correct and very attractive to add.

[@hoottasshell]

Women had, and have the right to be picky or even "narcissistic"and rude about it. Just can't be mad when men with options act the same.

[@ThetrueTeddyB]

Just ignore them and keep your standards up brothers.

[@julianbeasley2097]

Guess what bros..they hate anything we do thats nothing new..but isn't it amazing how when they're successful they have their heads in the clouds like if a man ain't making this if a man ain't driving that living here he can't say nothing to me..so keep your high standards Kings we deserve humble Queens..

[@krayzie11]

“Dear Mama” era is over!!!!! Select right!!!

[@CHI-TOWN-CHICAGO]

Viva to Brothers with Standards! As for me she must be: An FBI & 34-30-36! AMEN-RA! ASE!

[@carl5438]

All praise to the Flying Spaghetti Monster.

[@LMLification]

Well, people want what they want. Whether or not they attain it is another matter. Now if you meet an upstanding potential partner that might be heavyset or working on other health issues, maybe you both could work together over time to do better. If you meet an otherwise great potential partner who is not at their best financially but is determined to do better, then maybe you both could work together towards improving. The guy who is rich today could be broke tomorrow. The woman who is a 10 today could be a 6 at some point. People oftentimes want someone who has it all together right then and there, which is their choice, no doubt, but they could be missing great potential partners.

[@dwayneglover914]

STAND STRONG GUY'S DON'T ACCEPT OVERWEIGHT WOMEN OR SINGLE MOMS NUFF SAID.

[@AnthonyPate-bc1tw]

Hi Phil Scott! Great advice to men! Especially Black Men! We are supposed to be the bottom of the barrel! We are not and have never been the bottom of the barrel! WS is not superior to us, and has never been superior to us! Kemet/Egypt, Kongo kingdom 1390-1914, Kingdom of Zimbabwe 1220-1450, Axum/Aksum Empire 150 BCE-960 AD, Benin Empire, Kingdom of Ghana, Mali Empire, Nok Civilization 500 BCE-200 BCW, Kingdom of Kush 780 BCE-350 AD, Songhai kingdom 1464-1591, Land of Punt 2500-BCE-980, Zulu Empire 1817AD-1896AD, Ancient Carthage 650BCE-146BCE. Where Hannibal Barca ruled in North Africa/Akebulan, one of the most dominant ruler's of all time!

[@uriandropov8039]

No lies detected here.

[@AndreaPortley]

Pookie and Ray Ray have multiple women and children! Simps are yes men and will take a single mother with multiple baby daddies! After all, cheap items comes in large quantities!!!

[@Big..Rank..52]

Value is important to add to Life Factz 🔥🔥💯 it work both ways # factz 🔥💯

[@prodigalson1500]

I love it when men have standards. Most men, unfortunately, don’t.

[@anthonymckibbins5926]

Jedi mind tricks work solely on the weak minded.😁

[@t.p.m.414]

You have to change but they don't have to. They're the stars of their own delusional show...

[@RandallGay-qx1uc]

Facts i agree some black women can deal with sucessful black men.

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

Exactly 💯 agree with the video.....

[@selfoblivionalex6262]

Imagine if all men began calling women lesbians for not giving em attention lol

[@anthonyhayes930]

Oh well if they don't like it go find someone else

[@David-h4l8o]

Make sure you demand what you want, they do it.

[@curtiswatkins1192]

I don’t even allow my food to touch each other.

[@3ShadesBlack5]

Stop answering questions and playing the games women like to play. If she refuses to follow your lead, release her back to the streets......let them deal with her.

[@bert891]

It took hard work, discipline, sacrifice, etc for those men to achieve that level (legally), and they’ve seen and heard stories of the men who brought undisciplined, unruly women around and how it affected those men. In dating, those men are the equivalent of beautiful women who have the pick of the litter. The difference is those men actually provide tangible things of value.

[@alanduff1054]

I was brass tax biz, "We need mo unity!" but since black women won't let the black man lead there IZ no black community

[@TONY-fw6bk]

PREACH BEAUTIFUL ❤❤❤❤100 💯 %

[@latinagibbs2770]

The same way women have standards, men have standards as well

[@you_mustbeBrainwash]

LMAO i thought that was you on the plane 🛫 Phil 😂😂

[@dahoodmusa3714]

I have strict standards myself

[@MariaHeredia-dw4id]

No hymen no diamond 💍

[@denzel9455]

😂

[@Thedevilisaliar23]

Why not! 🤣 and ladies can say no 7in penis no I do

[@yuNGDeLaPhoNtE]

Nobody: Women with baggage: accePt me or you like men!

[@MrBucketlist]

Amen. These MWs got all types of ridiculous standards for men....BUT* as soon as we tell them our own standards, it's a problem. Thank god for places outside of the U.S. with some quality, respectable women. 🛩🛬

[@michelegreshan1539]

That’s sad. I’m successful. And I love to see successful men as well. I guess the only ones that are not successful has a problem with it. LOL. SMH. Sad

[@khalil_SRT]

She talking about Kendra g🤦🏽

[@ByronJohnson82]

Simps created this problem

[@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L]

THE LAW OF DETACHMENT ... ( STANDARDS ) .. PERFECTLY ALONE .. SALUTE 🫡

[@mizzodotcom2]

It’s funny how they say that but they be on the same tip in vice verse

[@isaacharris5729]

Men know your worth and keep your standards high

[@Irvington81]

Simps don’t have any standards

[@robertepps2834]

Put in or type in Black and single on Christmas ask a Black husband. Watch that video everybody! The sound will kick in on Two minutes and thirty nine seconds.

[@jacindapeters2303]

It's their right to have standards.

[@cautiontothewind277]

Im tired of MEN saying, just because a woman is a single mother, the Man left...no the women leave the Fathers majority of the time.

[@tmac3549]

To the younger guys if she isn’t a team player from day one, has bad girlfriends and family that will be the signs to cut that person from your team. Let her sing with a new team.