"Sometimes I don't love you"

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@MsFadir 4 ай бұрын

A child that knows how to express how he feels and what he wants, at such young age... and parents that listen and respect it... melts my heart 😭. Sandy, Mopani, great job guys ❤❤❤

@PinkHypatia 4 ай бұрын

“I want to kiss myself.” = self-love/self-worth. 😊

@lizgillies3564 4 ай бұрын

Ahh wee Kobe is growing up so fast, keep up with his hugs daddy mopani my boy is 21 now and I still manage to get a hug now and again 😜😜

@jennifergranati8096 4 ай бұрын

Kobe , the Remarkable. ❤ He is so self assured and well adjusted. Expressing himself clearly and with such intelligence. Lovely parenting 😊

@PAMBF67 4 ай бұрын

Kobe has not learned the difference between like and Love yet as is to be expected. But we know what he means . I know that stung a bit Dad but you are awesome and knew what he was trying to express. He absoulety Loves you. ❤

@PinkHypatia 4 ай бұрын

One of the most precious displays of emotional awareness and intelligence in a child his age that I’ve ever seen. Kobe is learning to set healthy boundaries, and you are teaching him to respect those boundaries. That said, if he were my child, I’d kiss him whenever I please. I couldn’t resist. My days to freely kiss him would be over soon, and I wouldn’t miss one of them. This is also an opportunity to teach Kobe about the meaning of love.

@ArnitaBranch 4 ай бұрын

We must all learn and know that "NO" means "NO". Learning this (appropriate TOUCH) yourself and teaching your children this is one of the most important lessons a person can ever learn and practice. I always taught my children that they should not touch or put their hands on anyone and vice versa without permission. Thank you Kobe. Dad, please be accepting of Kobe's feelings in order for him to be respectful of yours. Talking openly about how we feel is the starting point.

@tag2761 4 ай бұрын

This is such an impressive conversation for a little boy too initiate with his Hero/Daddy. Balance and Moderation is essential & important in every aspect of our lives. Thanks for sharing such an intimate, grow up, beautiful moment with your families admirers.

@101Tanyah 3 ай бұрын

I adore this kid 😂😂😂

@itspossible3381 4 ай бұрын

Mr. Mopani, thank you for this demonstration of respecting your son’s innate boundary. My father (an amazing hugger) once told me when I was very young that if anyone ever made me feel uncomfortable to tell a trusted adult. He was a police officer who had seen many things and I remember him emphasizing (even if it is me). He was informing me that no adult or authority had agency over what felt like a personal violation to me. That internalized experience gave me a voice and an understanding that I could communicate my needs and that they would be respected. Thankfully, this pearl of wisdom prevented a potential problem when I was age 12. Your children listen to the lessons you teach, especially the ones taught in love.

@L.Smith. 4 ай бұрын

He sounded like Sandy when he said not all the time lol. Same tone. Clever Kobe

@1gcoe604 4 ай бұрын

Our lil Kobe is growing ❤❤❤ It's beautiful that he can express himself. So Daddy Mopa, go easy on Kobe .. he still loves you but wants a lil less smothering 😅

@sunra7 4 ай бұрын

I get Kobe’s point and he’s being reasonable in his approach dad.That’s how he is showing you a form of love called respect.

@paulastafford1642 4 ай бұрын

Awe, my heart broke for dad. I've been there dad, mine told me I could only kiss them on their cheek. Kids probably teasing him at school when you kiss him in front of them. He's growing up. He's going to be jealous when you pour all that love into the new baby 😊 don't worry, dad, he'll be back.

@simplysondra9096 4 ай бұрын

Dad Kobe LOVES ❤U All the time ❤❤❤❤SO SWEET ❤❤

@fancyberry4046 4 ай бұрын

God's Love teaches unconditional love .🙏🙏🙏😇

@aymee7136 4 ай бұрын

When my son was that age I told him that hugging and kissing him was the reason I had him. 😂

@sherwood9917 4 ай бұрын

The honesty of kids!

@melbaknowlton 4 ай бұрын

Kids will tell you the truth!! I love how Daddy Mopa is so understanding with his son.

@dianneking3616 4 ай бұрын

Precious.

@bonnieharvey4775 4 ай бұрын

Awwww Kobe! He feels uncomfortable with the kiss. So Dad maybe teach him a hand shake and then just hug him. That could be y'all bond. He loves you dearly!!!

@deniseatlanta6102 4 ай бұрын

Aww, that breaks my heart.. 😢 It's hard not to shower your little one with all the Love in your heart.. When he becomes a parent, he will appreciate all the hugs & kisses you gave.. 🥰 p.s. I would still steal kisses every now & then.. Lol..

@maryannlee4751 4 ай бұрын

Love that you give Kobe the freedom to express his needs..his needs are his and need to be respected...Beautiful Parenting ❤

@paulinejackson5489 4 ай бұрын

It's a blessing to watch the conversation between you both 😂❤

@pattywilliams788 4 ай бұрын

Awww! He’s so earnest but I can tell he doesn’t want to hurt his daddy’s feelings. 🥰🥰🥰

@thomasvanantwerp728 4 ай бұрын

What a dear boy little Kobe is!!!

@AngelaMillerR 4 ай бұрын

Aww, Kobe is so sweet. Mopani you are so good with him.

@allankimani2724 4 ай бұрын

He's developing a strong sense of agency...

@Angela-cd9bj 4 ай бұрын

Yes he is.

@yolinagarr5144 4 ай бұрын

Oh my God! Kobe doesn’t want you kissing him every day! 😳 You’re in trouble! 🫣

@debbiescott9377 4 ай бұрын

My kids are 30 and 21 years old. They still hug and kiss me. Don’t feel bad dad. Kobe still loves you.

@patp6835 4 ай бұрын

I feel your pain. I always initiate the hugs and kisses with my 21 yr old son.

@carinejarbath940 4 ай бұрын

Sweet Jesus! Don't make daddy suffer

@susieadams1553 3 ай бұрын

Not today daddy 😅😂

@blackprix 4 ай бұрын

Smart❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️‼️‼️

@omololakeleko3558 4 ай бұрын

Adults need the kisses and hugs more than children. There's something inside them that feels repelled by it most times particularly if it is the adults initiating it. Their spontaneous show of love is worth more than gold. Truly you don't need kisses and hugs to show you love them. They instinctively feel and know when they are loved, also kissing them on the lips is something that should be avoided at all costs. It's not healthy, cheek maybe but occasionally. Great lesson for dad from Kobe and I hope you got it. Children live more in the Substantiate world of what we adults call " make believe " but trust me, that world actually exist for them and adults who are childlike. Please respect his wishes even if you don't understand it !

@debradoernbach5548 4 ай бұрын

Fantastic conversation

@danielflament4877 4 ай бұрын

Kobe did something stupid... and dad was angry ? No more kisses, NA ! Fortunately the children have a memory "like a sieve"🤭.

@setaparttoserveYahauh 4 ай бұрын

If he says that it means that you are over doing it. Give him a chance to run after you. He is s man and he wants some pace. I agree with him !

@cosmicwisdom999 4 ай бұрын

Maybe if you do it once on the cheek is maybe ok. He just doesn't want you to smothered him with kisses all the time. Maybe you do it too much? Not sure. Kobe needs his space..lol

@NigelWood117 4 ай бұрын

Did you see the one where he pushed Daddy Mopani out of the bedroom and closed the door giggling. Mopani was shocked and telling him, "You're not a teenager yet."😂 My son said that to me when he was around that age. He came to me one day and said, "Mommy, will you love me even if I'm naughty?" I assured him by telling him, "Mommy will always love even if you're naughty but not love the naughty thing you did."

@galeajavon9315 4 ай бұрын

❤

@wanir 4 ай бұрын

It might have stung a bit when he said that.... but I'm willing to bet that you are doing it in front of his friends, huh? 😅 JK....Mr. Kobe, mommy and daddy will always love, hug and kiss you 🤗

@daddams100 4 ай бұрын

Regardless, it still stings…some children love all the hugs and kisses where others don’t…just wait when the new baby comes he’ll be all over you! Sibling jealousy is a game changer.

@wanir 4 ай бұрын

@@daddams100 Ooooowee.... Daddy Mopa will be overloaded with 🤗 when "Ani" (Kobe's name for the baby) arrives

@DaddyMopa 4 ай бұрын

Hmm never thought about it. Usually we do a fist bump when dropping him off at nursery. He jumps on me when I pick him up and gives me a hug so not sure 😅

@panitapad 4 ай бұрын

Sounds like this coming from school or child minders because they see you hug him all the time and so somebody said something because they don't get hurt and kissed all the time but it's okay It breaks your heart when they first say it to you but it'll be okay I know which is a 13 and April they don't know who you are that's the point that I am right now😂