Harry Chapin - Cats in the Cradle

"My child arrived just the other day,
He came to the world in the usual way.
But there were planes to catch, and bills to pay.
He learned to walk while I was away.
And he was talking 'fore I knew it, and as he grew,
He'd say, "I'm gonna be like you, dad.
You know I'm gonna be like you."
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then.
You know we'll have a good time then."
My son turned ten just the other day.
He said, "Thanks for the ball, dad, come on let's play.
Can you teach me to throw?" I said, "Not today,
I got a lot to do." He said, "That's ok."
And he walked away, but his smile never dimmmed,
Said, "I'm gonna be like him, yeah.
You know I'm gonna be like him."
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then.
You know we'll have a good time then."
Well, he came from college just the other day,
So much like a man I just had to say,
"Son, I'm proud of you. Can you sit for a while?"
He shook his head, and he said with a smile,
"What I'd really like, dad, is to borrow the car keys.
See you later. Can I have them please?"
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then, dad.
You know we'll have a good time then."
I've long since retired and my son's moved away.
I called him up just the other day.
I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind."
He said, "I'd love to, dad, if I could find the time.
You see, my new job's a hassle, and the kid's got the flu,
But it's sure nice talking to you, dad.
It's been sure nice talking to you."
And as I hung up the phone, it occurred to me,
He'd grown up just like me.
My boy was just like me.
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then, dad.
You know we'll have a good time then." "
/Lyrics from The Harry Chapin Archive at Harrychapin.com\

[@John-zh1ud]

The saddest part of this song is that it wasn't any one bad thing, but a bunch of little things and he missed it all. No hurt feelings, no family crisis, nothing... just the slow realization of having missed having a connection with his son.

[@sanchoporkwiches9871]

I feel this hard. My dad was always busy working. I kept moving on but eventually one day my dad didn't understand anything I was doing. We are total strangers. He doesn't have many years left I Really need to reconnect with him and make a couple memories before he passes on.

[@iamella7001]

Thank you to all the Dads that actually take time to spend with their kids.

[@USA__2023]

Our children were our # 1 priority. When not working we spent time with them. Camping, road trips, the park... How could a child grow up without that? Too many do.

[@TheTaloooly]

Sadly not all of them had a good father, some of them usually abuse their family and barely talk to their kids.

[@teletuby5338]

Exactly, this song is the a Opposite idk why people dont understand that. The dad never had time for the kid because too busy, when the kid grew up and the dad wanted to have a litle conversation the kid rejected the dude because he was too busy fo his dad who never gave him quality time except commodities. How fkn sad!

[@neilmalyon8784]

His wife wrote the lyrics. Brilliant song.

[@davidprovan5650]

I think you mean about almost all of Dads. The bad ones do not count of Dads.

[@EdLassley]

I once was listening to this song with my son and I started crying. He said dad that’s not about you and me. You’re a good dad! With God’s grace I wasn’t that man though my dad was. My son is now 28 and lives far away. We see each other and talk to each other regularly ! God bless Harry Chapin -Harry Lassley

[@daepicpigeon3274]

You are a blessed father. I say this as a 21 year old man with a completely dysfunctional divorced family.

[@daepicpigeon3274]

Please set the example for your kids...

[@exhibitionistyogapants1220]

same thing happened to me

[@tristanzegethm.n7649]

Same here, same here. He read my mind as I wondered if I was a ……….😢😢😢

[@canwejustloveeachother2550]

Beautiful, Mr Lassey. Great health and lots of love to you and your family❤❤❤❤

[@anthonyduell2075]

Here I sit on fathers day! Listening to mine and my dad's song. He died almost 7 yrs ago. Balling like a baby! I miss you so much dad. Happy Father's day😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@223Michigan]

My father passed away24 years ago, was our song as well. Tears in my eyes when I hear this

[@AntZvonick]

​I live Gypsy 😊I die Gypsy...😮@@223Michigan

[@user-vo2iu2jh8y]

I lost my father to about little less than a year and it hurts

[@johnlord5303]

I lost my dad feb 4 2016. I completely understand how you are feeling.

[@AntZvonick]

@@anthonyduell2075 hey nigga-I let you know the truph- you story had me sad, sad

[@34stzoo]

My 6-year son was at a sporting event over a weekend. I didn't attend because I've worked all week and wanted to enjoy my weekend. I told my wife I didn't have a father growing up and he'll be okay. I was at work one day and this song came on, and for the first time, I really listened to it. I stopped what I was doing and started crying... I never missed any of my son's events after that! Both my boys are out of the house now and I cherish every moment, every event, and every school trip I took with them. Thank you, Harry Chapin, for making me understand how lucky I am to be a DAD!

[@audiophileman7047]

I had the same experience with my son. The song changed my life and my son's life. That's what great music does.

[@russvorhees8985]

We will never meet or get to lnow eachother, but i hage love for you and all the other fsthers in the world, i love my father desrly and as a son i love all fathers. Your comment has warmed my heart. I hope to be a great father some day. God bless you pops.

[@brigittebeltran6701]

You are awesome! 👏🌹🙏

[@lloydchristmas1086]

As a kid my Dad cheated on my Mom and moved out of state and was never around for a few years..I would hear this song and it always made me sad. He finally came back and ditched that woman and has been around and very involved and suportive since I was in high school..so maybe he heard this song too lol.

[@TexasCat99]

​​@@lloydchristmas1086 Great that your dad learned early that he was throwing away something he would never get back. My own father was never around. When he passed there wasn't anything to cry over. I caught my wife cheating and she was removed from the family home. I lose time as a single dad because I work more and it is a single parent household now.. Every time my son goes away for visitation weekends, it angers me. That it is time that is taking away from MY SON. I have primary custody for a reason. I recently had to spend 5 months working 70-hour weeks. I explained to the company that had to stop. I told them my son is asking for more of my time with him and it was no longer acceptable. I take my son to school everyday, and I do school volunteer work so I am there. I taught him things like riding a bike, reading, fix things and he teaches himself computers and Even though I'm in that field, he is able to show me things and I tell him I am proud of him.

[@thomasmckenzie4584]

My 13 year old son and I took a 7 week fishing trip this summer and fished every morning and evening together. We must've listened and sang this song together 100 times. I never really listened to the lyrics before. It was the best summer of our lives and I'll never forget it.

[@X1mi]

best summer yet*

[@SoullessxDream]

And he'll never forget it either.

[@johnsutherland2456]

@@SoullessxDream 0

[@kenlovelady7820]

This song is so true!

[@SoullessxDream]

@@shootmcrunfast better than 7 weeks of working and then coming home to sit on your phone the rest of the evening. Lol

[@rosiegigglesestablished1969]

I'm a woman. I grew up without a dad and this song has always hurt. Girls just like boys need their dad's.

[@greg2976]

🙏🙏❤❤

[@mickjagger8439]

Sorry, I was so lucky to have two good parents, but unlucky they passed away too young. Life isn't fair :-(

[@sherylsocia4496]

I am sorry. I can't imagine how you feel. So sad. My dad was around, but we weren't close. Finally, we were able to patch things up before he passed

[@sarahmathews3]

Same. I was just telling my husband how little girls always pictured time with their dad's like tea parties and stuff. I never had that. My great uncle is the one who taught me to fish and my brother, to throw a football when I was 10. I always get envious of wishing I had a dad. I love this song but I always cry when I sing it too (my siblings are very talented in the nusic department, and I'm also talented in the artist and writing department)

[@sarahmathews3]

​@@mickjagger8439so sorry for your loss, I couldn't imagine losing my mom. I lost my grams and that has been hard enough on me recently. My prayers and condolences to you ❤❤

[@elprado1963]

Any Father who listens to this song and has a young Son please take my advice and spend as much time as you can with him because all too soon it’s gone and his life no longer has you in it. It’s just the way it is the circle of life..

[@MmM20978]

Very true! My Husband abandoned his five sons! They hate him

[@johnhamilton7797]

“It’s too late, when we die.” The Living Years, Mike and the Mechanics.

[@MmM20978]

@@johnhamilton7797 it is

[@kyleseabaugh6220]

What if the mother is keeping the good dad from the child

[@MmM20978]

@@kyleseabaugh6220 What if sons have had it with Dad

[@thinkingandwondering4725]

I am a Young Man. 25 years old and now I am crying like a little girl. Thank you Dad. Thank you that you drove Home 45 Miles evry evening... Just for me.

[@SomeGuyWithaPC]

W father.

[@Taluta394]

❤️

[@ge2623]

My Mom put a quote on her fridge years ago that read: "A child comes into your home and for the next 18 yrs makes so much noise you think you can't stand it.....Then they leave, leaving your home so quiet you think you can't stand it"

[@jorgetanchez8754]

Now that's nice sir...

[@jp-mc2bp]

God bless you my child.

[@SUGAR_XYLER]

😂 I wouldn't know..... *I was smart enough not to have kids*

[@ge2623]

@@SUGAR_XYLER I appreciate that. Me neither.

[@cathyeason9493]

So true!

[@michaelkeeble1480]

This song is gutting as I can imagine some Dads making this mistake. Im one of the few men that raised their Son alone ( since he was 2 ) Hes now 26 and a better man than I ever was. What more can a Father ask for.

[@Psycedilla]

the mother of my child doesnt want me around him, some fathers dont have a choice. atleast i get to see him every other week.

[@colingeddes2172]

Huge respect to michael. Predictably this song reminds me of me and my son. Hes 28 now and im glad to say hes my best mate and weve always had a great relationship since the day he was born, , but i know some dads and sons havnt been so lucky.

[@kevindisher6252]

could never ask for more man from a grown ass man. my dad joined the marines just to get away from his rough come up, i joined the army to pay for college but also to make my old man proud and to go through what he did and to make him proud as the youngest of his 3 sons. one day your son or daughter will see you the same way i look at my dad i promise man. Just seeing his face when i graduated basic training was all i needed to see my dad was finally proud of me and i had earned his respect. whatever you do as a dad as long as youre around the boy will turn into a stand up guy believe me youre doing the right shit.

[@DCJUNIOR2000]

I heard the saying the other day, When you bury your father, you bury the only man that wanted you to be better than him.

[@ValhallaBeckons]

I'm now faced with my Dad's mortality. This song now leaves me a wreck. Keep your loved ones close, peopIe. I'm nearly 35 years old, and I don't want to lose my Daddy...

[@Flips420]

I feel you ValhallaBeckons. You take care.

[@laurenraziz3032]

I’ve been struggling with my dad getting older too

[@Makujah_]

I've lost my dad a few years ago. He was almost 50, I was 23, my bro was 10. It still hurts regularly and I cope by means of nihilism every time so as not to lose my composure.

[@kevinespinosa9178]

My dad passed almost a year ago and this song kills me. I try to laugh and remember the good times but it's tough....please hold your dad tight. Some of us can't

[@vaderjones357]

It's been 13 years since I lost my dad....it never gets easier...we just figure out how to navigate through life never being the same again...much love to everyone in the club

[@airsickemu5809]

When I was 17, I stood at the shed with my old man. This song came on the radio and we sat and sung along, his Dad passed away before I was born and he loved him dearly. Saw him bawl his eyes out talking about the lyrics and how much he missed his Father, my grandfather. Dad passed away 3 years ago this year and I’m 23 now, I’ve got a 7 month old daughter, and I still ask “When you coming home, Dad?”. Miss you, Dad. I love you, Dad. Your boy still thinks about you every second of every day and how different life would be with you here. I listen to this song now and I get how much you missed Grandad. It hurts but I’ll hopefully grow old, tell my kids all about you and make you proud. You raised me and my brothers without the guidance of Grandad, so I know if you did it I know I can too.

[@theexiled473]

Beautiful 👏

[@matthewryan7281]

Yes you can. Great song my friend

[@AlexLozada-pe8zf]

this shit got me crying at work rs

[@argenta1933]

Bless you. You were clearly a good son and are now a good dad in your own right. I feel sure both your father and grandfather would be proud xx

[@auriannaharrell3057]

My Dad passed away 7 months ago and I feel so guilty because I didn't have kids yet. But I miss him so much. Love you Dad, JWH the 2nd

[@bluepower1177]

My dad died last summer. Happy Father’s Day everyone 🤙🏼❤️

[@michaelrosas9263]

Today’s my Dads Heavenly Birthday… this song hits hard. Trucker for over 30 years, I grew up fast while he was away. Last years of his life I was there by his side to catch up for lost time. If I had just 5 more minutes, just want to say I love you Dad, hug you and not let go. Love you Dad and God Bless all you truckers out there. Keep on Truckin’ Dad. 💔🙏🏼

[@ltkreg]

😊👍

[@michaelrosas9263]

My dad took his last breath 2/26/2023 @ 14:25. This song hit very hard today because it’s true, how fast life goes. Love and miss you Dad. 🙏🏼💔

[@cpusftwre]

This song came out before I had kids and I promised myself, after hearing how Sad this song was, I wouldn’t repeat that mistake. 40 years and two wonderful kids later. I cherish the time We have together.

[@Jabermania]

TEKKEN

[@BHK0000]

Nice to read one comment of a good story for once, thanks;)

[@Black8Sun8]

My dad should've done the same but now my parents are getting divorced and now when I'm 16 he suddenly wants to do stuff but now I'm done with him. I want to see him as less as possible

[@Black8Sun8]

I'm glad your kids have an amazing dad

[@jerrysstories711]

Did you notice that at the end of the song, he whines that his son was just like himself, when that wasn't actually true? His son has come about caring about his kids. He had time for them, not for the neglectful dad he hardly knew. His claim that his son had come out just like him was one last self-absorbed indulgence in self-pity.

[@user-qy1tj3ij7j]

I am 60 years old. When I was 17 I was a camp counselor on Long Island. On my way home during a horrific thunderstorm Harry Chapin had a heart attack in his VW bug and passed away. I will never forget the loss I felt. What a talented man. Hope you're looking down and smiling. God bless

[@gatormark]

This song almost makes me cry...every time. There, I said it.

[@krismachado3038]

That's OK!

[@buckaroobaizuo25]

What do you mean ‘almost’?

[@gothfather8741]

This song can definitely make people cry...it is one of the most depressing songs ever written.

[@jfiyibclfjvqdcx6426]

@@gothfather8741 Not depressing..but the reality of life described in a beautiful way

[@francescosalvioli]

Same to me!!

[@lindcobbs4615]

I’ve been listening to this song since 1974 and it still brings out deep emotions. I’m soon to be 68 and I fully understand the meaning behind this heart felt song, which stand true today with so many of us. 😢

[@3DModelwerks]

1956 was a very good year. :)

[@Someyungrebel]

I’m 19. I’ve heard this song all my life, but yesterday it finally hit me how true this song is, and I bawled my eyes out as a result. I’m a splitting image of my old man, inside and out.

[@hal-rekabi6724]

Take care and give him a hug.

[@ethanmoua49]

you're a father at 19?

[@richardladow4734]

I’m 63, and I still do.😉

[@ritahansford8858]

I’m crying too. It’s broken but hard my son is one of the kindest man in the whole world. Hey, what’s good every minute with me he does everything to help me if there’s never a day and he’s a grown man. That I’m always saying OK honey I’m sorry I’m really busy. I got to do this. I got to do that. I’ve been doing that all my life to my son all of his life. I don’t know how to make up and I will stop being busy 24 seven.

[@ausername7470]

Give old man by Neil Young a listen

[@josephcook9559]

this song really hurts me for I wasn't the father I should have been. all you parents please learn from this song. especially young parents. I was only 16 when my son was born. sure wish I knew then what I know now. 52 years ago.

[@hunger4jsutice]

Tell him you are sorry. Tell him you live him. He needs to know.

[@ZachVanHarrisJR]

It’s not too late sir. It’s never too late. As sons, we need to hear this. Peace and one love friend

[@aaronschecter8498]

I exactly where you're coming from, I was just 18 years old when my son was born, finally reunited after 42 years

[@gandalfshakur8235]

Hugs for the daddy -son duo!

[@nutster9000]

Just be around, talk about any old shit & just enjoy life together. Just appreciate him for who he is. I can assure you that you were & are better at being a father than mine ever was. Despite me saying that I was still proud of him.

[@SharpShooter-NLD]

I'm a sergeant in the light mobile infantry brigade in the Netherlands. i lost my child because of a miscarriage i hope he will look at me from above and be proud of his dad.

[@FrankyCpunishmentSTYLE]

Yes sir I’m sure he is god bless yall I lost my daughter three years ago, god is good and everything happens for a reason stay safe sir

[@ericoakes-fr1cp]

I love my sons, and I'll never let this world get in the way.

[@mythtree]

RIP Harry. Hug your kids, even if they don't hug you back; someday they will.

[@dongvermine]

mythtree Harry was a gangster and a thief

[@DrMantisTobboganMD]

Don Workman fuck you

[@andyburns5356]

Sorry about your dad passed away. He was a good Singer.

[@Draven-tc3mn]

@@DrMantisTobboganMD lol

[@Draven-tc3mn]

Also it's almost been 38yrs since he passed away damn

[@KarenBass8822]

This song reminded me of my dad and older brother. My dad was a Church of Christ Minister and he didn't give us much time. I just imagined my brother wanting his time. Always in the Word. My brother died before my father at 27 in a head on collision. I cry every time I hear this.

[@GB-st8fp]

I am truly sorry.

[@jalapablocrypto]

As a dad, this song never fails to gut you. My dad was never around when I grew up, and it hurt so much that I told myself I wasn't going to be like him when I had my own kids. So, for the past 15 years my wife and I have brought the grandchildren around every year, and we all get to spend a few days with him. I'm 52 now, he's got Alzheimer's, but the memories this last decade have been good. He showed me what NOT to do as a father, and for that I am thankful, and love and forgive him.

[@ParanormalStudios.]

Thank you for sharing man my dad and I got into an argument an honestly lots of times we don’t get along or agree an I just wish we could thank you for showing me that I need to forgive him & be thankful for the things he’s shown me what not to do life’s to short to be angry or hold grudges an be upset an not forgive much love thank you

[@michaelcutcher8592]

My dad died from lung cancer when I was 8 in 1976. In and out of the hospital for months. This song means so much to me!

[@ChoppingtonOtter]

My dad always made time for me, and I've tried to for my child too. We have them for such a short time and they grow so fast every single minute counts.

[@mikecory179]

Yes

[@bud7707]

It’s like kid teen I gotta go

[@nutegunray34]

big brain

[@Flips420]

Fuck yes Choppington Otter. Fact. Ugh.

[@Faltzerbeast90]

My pops passed away 4 years ago and this song always hits hard. We lived in different countries at the time and I regret not calling him more. "I don't know when, but we'll get together then"

[@michelleb1]

I lost my dad on January 20th he had dementia. I took care of him for the last 2 years my mom passed in July of 2018. I worked in the day and watched him at night and I am so glad I took the time to do all that I would not ever ever exchange that for the world. My dad knew I loved him and before he passed he thanked me for everything I did for him taking care of him.when I was a kid he would drive me around in his VW and let me put my head outside of the sunroof we had such fun. I wouldn't trade all those memories for anything. Hug your father always

[@user-fk8mc6lq2z]

Your a very kind and unique person, thank you for your comment. It is good to know there are people like you on earth.

[@michaelbond9953]

This song is truly a masterpiece and to all the fathers out there. Tell your children how much you love them and how proud you are of them.

[@kaybrewer8348]

It took me to the age of 33 to understand this song...and my dad. I was always so mad at him for never being there and always working. Mom said it was because he didn't know how to love. Now I realize that he worked himself to death because he loved us so much and because he was afraid that if he didn't he wouldn't be good enough Dad you were good enough and I grew up just like you. I am so proud you were my dad and I miss you.

[@JavierSanchez-zj6su]

Even a 7 yo kid could understand this

[@quackedout397]

Ohhhh this comment hit me in my chest. Yes.

[@PersistentPam]

I miss my dad. This was a song he used to sing. Time is fleeting. Remembering him and having a good cry right now. RIP Dad ...I love and miss you so much. 😭

[@captainfanta8641]

Many of us are there with you or have been.

[@peterm1826]

dads out there. treasure every moment you have with your children i know from experiance this song is true.

[@rnindless]

Not a father, not a son, not even a guy. This is just an awesome song. 10/10

[@miriamanastasiavirgadaula696]

totally agree.

[@frlouiegoad4087]

WRONG!!!!!! I LIVED IT!!!!! I did NOT go to his funeral! He was NEVER there for me!!!!!! The night mother died! He went with his drunk duds!!!!

[@NukesWarshipsBlitz]

@@frlouiegoad4087 so? There are bad people out there. Dont have to hate in people for your past. I am sorry for you and will pray for you. Also will pray for you to have the strength to not burn your energy on being rude to people.

[@Ha1cy0nN1gh7s]

None of that criteria matters as long as you feel the message...

[@RepublicConstitution]

You can only imagine.

[@arthurbishop3173]

An intensely sad song with timeless wisdom, along with being a cautionary tale. Parents and prospective parents should listen very closely to these lyrics, and decide what kind of parent they really want to be, and what kind of parent they want to be remembered as.

[@exhibitionistyogapants1220]

Song gets me every time. cried when I heard it when i was little, dad was gone alot. Cry now when I hear it because I dont know if I spend enough time with my son. We did everything together when he was little, but now he is 17 and is involved with his friends.

[@jImMiYwOnTtObE]

lost my father two years ago, still cry everytime when I listen to this song.

[@blairdickey1689]

Sucks, me too...

[@holydiver1375]

Prayers my friends

[@chrispurse3931]

I had to be the 100 like. Great tune.

[@MM-qi5mk]

Hurts when your old man face planted randomly from a heart attack when you’re 16. Shout out to all the good dads during their best. You’re the real MVP

[@audiophileman7047]

It is so easy to get busy with life. You even think that you're taking care of your children by being away from them. I'm lucky that I heard this song when my son was still pretty young. It caused me to change course and make more time for him, even when I didn't want to do what he wanted to do. It is about me loving him rather than myself, because he needs it as a growing young man. I also discovered that he's my treasure. He's 17 years old now, and I'm now teaching him how to drive as he prepares for college. God bless you Harry Chapin for writing a song that matters so much. May you rest in peace, dear brother.

[@chrislynottcomedy]

Spot on bud..Well done..

[@ltkreg]

I'm reading all these comments and it's obvious that this song has touched more hearts than any other song that has ever been written.

[@Soilyman1289]

I’m 27 and a father to be. This is my all time favourite song and hope my young one will like it as much as I do

[@somepersonontheinternet6879]

Hopefully

[@mr.e2962]

Congratulations

[@johncapobianco2527]

My Dad played catch .. took us on trips .. tried to spend time with us. He was ambushed by a serious cancer diagnosis in September and died on Boxing Day that year. I miss him so much. He used to cry listening to this song. His addictions caught up with him and stole 30 years from us.

[@chuck9397]

I think of my dad every time I hear this. I looked like him and proud I can say that. He died July 13 2020. Now there is a void . Rest in peace 🙏 dad miss you. You were the best dad

[@daborshy4089]

I feel like it'd be dangerous to play this song on radios... last thing you want is a million drivers sobbing uncontrollably

[@RightOnTheBeach-bv6zw]

Yet it was a top 10 hit before seatbelts were mandatory.

[@ARessler95]

Yep. Couldn’t agree with you any more . Me and my dad never got to reach the last verse ir the second to last for the matter . Lost him before I got the chance to show him the type of man he raised.

[@nickdean3152]

It gets me every time

[@Rudy.843]

I cry everytime I hear this song. Life is so short. Time flies. Love your kids unconditionally & enjoy all the small moments !!!!

[@frederick2video]

This song has been making me cry each time I hear it for nearly 50 years. With each stage of my life it has a different meaning.

[@jordanvine4988]

this is a master class in parenting folks. don't read the books, don't listen to anyone, just put this on repeat a few times a year.

[@robertchflynn]

master class in what is not parenting...

[@mulalula]

mmmmm i would still advise for parents to educate themselves lol. but it is a great, great song nonetheless

[@Pink_gaming6171]

Didn’t work for my dad he liked this song but he abused me

[@JDurham4635]

@@Pink_gaming6171 ha. Same. 👊

[@veronicamoreno3635]

I loved my dad so much he was there for me always, he is not longer with me but will be with me forever!

[@renatonunes2550]

So many times as my son grew up I listened to this great song. It tought me some lessons and prevented me from being like the Daddy on the song. BEAUTIFUL.💖💖

[@davidp7037]

54 now. Things changed for me quickly, I am now wishing and wanting a family of my own. A song of my childhood that now makes sense and hits home.

[@FunkyDPL]

This song hit the radio when I was 7 years old and though time I resolved not to let this happen. 45 years pass, my sons are 20 and 22 now and we still hang out and do stuff together. Sons need their dads, especially once they hit the teenage years.

[@classichost]

You look up, and the next thing you know they are grown. Life has to be lived, needs must be provided, it all goes in a blink of a eye

[@Mr102405]

I hate this song. It rubs catch 22 guilt in your face. You want to spend every second with your kids but you have to sacrifice time to provide for them. Then they’re grown and gone

[@audiophileman7047]

@@Mr102405 This song isn't about putting you down for providing for your family. It's about spending what ever time you have with them and loving them. Even if you're on the road and away from home, isn't it possible to call every night; talk to your children; and wish them good night? It's about taking an interest in them. It's about loving them.

[@tymen9989]

Yeah im not a dad so..... Very epic

[@donnaodonnell290]

Im so glad in my blink I got to see Harry like 5 times. He passed to young. Such a nice caring guy.

[@donnaodonnell290]

@@Mr102405 just think of them first after your day working. Show them live take time make it you wont regret it and I really think the bond is stronger..you think no time I had 5 from 1980 tp 1993. I gave up a lot all of them were good. No real problems all through college. I gave up alot, but it was worth it.

[@tilico9499]

When you're dad left to get milk but actually comes back

[@mcborris6515]

My dad would often come back without the milk a few days later, but he would be drunk and have aquired a dog or a ferrett. At least he didnt come back empty handed!

[@bennyblanco4696]

you’re either too old to be memeing, or too young to be here 😂. Respect.

[@a_man_of_many_screams]

*:)*

[@leonie5291]

@@bennyblanco4696 lmfaooo

[@Mistamistadobalina]

simply: one of the best songs of all time. All parents should listen to this regularly!

[@danielburns987]

this song went to #1 on the pop charts in 1974!!!

[@aaronknudson7666]

The year I was born. I miss all these Great songs!

[@seanr8219]

Ditto

[@danucciguzman]

The ideal Father's Day song. All we can learn from this song is to still love and honor our father and cherish the time we still have with them.

[@joselugo5915]

Breaks me.😎😎😎😎😎😎😎

[@samtron5000]

This song hurts.. my kids dad was a workaholic in Japan but my son absolutely worshiped his dad. He’s not with us anymore and we don’t live in Japan anymore. My son is going into high school now…

[@alistairarchibald1312]

you're the new dad. do your best

[@happygoluckyscamp]

As someone from Northern Ireland who grew up in the 90s, my favourite past time is to put this on a Juke Box and watch the reaction. If you know, you know.

[@Tabsau]

Everybody: **is talking about experience with their father or having kids** Me: **sips drink while going thru recommended songs**

[@colemorini-topic347]

My dad sung this song to me when I was little... he walked out the door and never came back... this is what he left me with

[@docbohemian1328]

I hope you find him and get his side of the story- there is probably much more to it than you have been told- observationally in my life, this has been true over 90% of the time. As for me, my dad died when I was six by my mother's hand, and she got away with it. I think of my dad often, the fond memories, and how much time he gave to my twin sister and me. He was the best.

[@kevinw1822]

This resonates not only with a son. I have a daughter I didn’t spend much time with and have lost touch with over 9 years ago. I selfish act can lose a heart of gold for a loved child that didn’t feel appreciated. And you live with that regret forever.

[@allanburton8115]

My dad passed away in July 2009. The lyrics really hit home.

[@michelleb1]

God bless.. sorry about your papa

[@ozzied-uy6mr]

Sorry to hear about that man

[@legendary6790]

Possibly one of the favorite songs of my father. I don't think he will go for a while, but my uncle went two years ago, and he was the same age. One thing this song has taught me is to cherish every moment.

[@davenaranjo7686]

Miss you dad

[@dintelignt]

My Father passed in September. My older brother passed back in 99. He was 14. My father taught my brother to play this song on guitar and my brother then went on to preform this and got a standing ovation. Growing up, my father would regularly sing this. It's one that means a lot to me.

[@mccellen]

Still brings me to tears..all these years later..."when you comin' home son..?." "I don't know when, but we'll get together then Dad, you know we'll have a good time then.." I don't think it really works like that...sadly..

[@dontworrydehappy7104]

I'm so thankful my father always had (and still has!) the time, patience, love and kindness for having great times together and making great memories. And he'd always take me and my friends places when i was young - bowling, amusement parks, concerts, etc. I'd always assumed other kid's fathers did the same - but one time a few of my friends made a sand sculpture of my dad's face to show their appreciation for chaperoning a weekend trip to Lake Erie for my 10th birthday (we had a camper up there)...and to be funny. Dad laughed, thanked them and took a picture of it. It always makes me smile seeing that old picture. Lol.

[@janiceyager7897]

This song has been my husband and son’s song since forever. He wasn’t this dad-and my son has for so long how dad was always there for him and every milestone. Thank you HC for the song to make us aware!!

[@user-ov8zu6bi4j]

I remember when this song came out. I was about 13. It has always spoke to me. Over the years I would hear it and just go into deep thought. My Dad is now at end of life. We never got a chance to do the things together that we both thought we would. We truly lived the lyrics of this song😢

[@gary1961]

A song. A story. An anthem. Typical of the late, great Harry Chapin.

[@dannyfont305]

Beautiful song. I hope to be a great father to my kids when my time comes

[@birdofprey777]

My dad and i never had a good relationship but looking back after his death i realize, only now, how much he loved me. Id give it all just to wind back the clock and tell him that i love and respect him. If youre young, make sure to stick close to your parents.

[@jeancasola9340]

Harry Chapin gave his life to charity it's a shame he died so young. I'm sure when God asked Harry what he had given to humanity, Harry took much of the Lords time that day. Harry was a fine example of what a man can do to help his fellow man. Harry's one of my hero's, thanks for being born.

[@chinajoenotmyprez1371]

This song has always made me cry especially now that my father is dying of lung cancer. I love you dad💕

[@dongvermine]

The bondage of a father is something to always cherish-CATSTEVENS

[@SinjBanana]

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@danddan959]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@kishannaconandoyle1907]

💗💗💗💗💗💗

[@joannmorrow8713]

Sorry about that 😭

[@Marcomanexists]

Me and my dad smoked a joint at the campfire to this song this summer. I’ll miss you when you’re gone dad, you gotta stop drinking like that 😞

[@dylanpearson7735]

This song is a masterpiece, what a powerful story, it just makes you think how time flies and to always enjoy the little moments in life.

[@kaylavillines6881]

I didn't understand this song as a kid growing up in the 90s I thought this was some kind of nursery rhyme. Now I do and it makes me very emotional!😥 Such a deep song with a powerful message!

[@LegitMan335]

To all fathers and sons out there. Happy Father’s Day 2020

[@petervoss1288]

I'm really crying I never had a dad he died when I was two my mom never remarried I'm 55 now this is my favorite song I'm crying because I'm lonely I wish I had a dad Jesus loves you I love you too God bless you

[@blairdickey1689]

That's terrible, I feel for ya!!

[@cathyeason9493]

He was absolutely the best storyteller.

[@AndrewLoukidis-jr2bp]

I was teasing my wife singing this after we dropped our son at college I can say we always spent time with our son and did a lot together But they grow up so fast I wish we had more time where he was young

[@kellysmith4625]

Its been 10 years since my father went on to Heaven. He was the epitomy of a wonderful father. Now I'm 53 and hoping to God everyday that I can be more like my dad. Funny how life does that...

[@darriniverson9093]

My Dad ways said this song reminded him of him and me. He worked second shift pretty much my whole childhood. He was there when he could be, but we missed out on a lot. We lost him in 2018 at only 64 years old, but I'm proud to say that I grew up just like him. I played this song at his funeral in his memory.

[@hollydayblues8482]

Darrin Iverson, that took courage and strength to play at his funeral. Sorry for your loss. You sound like a fine man x

[@gatormark]

Holy cow! There's no way I could've played this at my dad's funeral. I would have never recovered.

[@crimsonscorpiwolf8389]

I like your last name

[@trevortomah8508]

I'll let this song speak for it self, enwrap yourselves in this song and thoroughly enjoy, y'all have a great 2024.

[@dancantstand1612]

Every time I hear this song, I cry because it reminds me of my own dad, who wasn't around very much because he was a trucker who'd sometimes go on the road for a week at a time. I hope we can bond some more sometime soon as he's getting up there in age.

[@joanjett8814]

Definitely one of the most incredible songs ever.. love my classic Monday morning..

[@MrCjchamp]

Happy Father’s Day

[@ChuckyD]

Cats in the cradle: a powerful song written by Sandy Chapin and made famous by her husband Harry Chapin in the early 70’s. It’s haunting story of a father realizing his short comings too late with the iconic refrain, “My boy was just like me.” In consideration of the story line, it seems the boy did have many problems and shortcomings, but in all irony the boy did not become like his father. He seemed to still admire his dad, but when he became a man he understood that his family was now his priority and came first. For those that have felt loss due to family shortcomings, consider that though blood may be thicker than water, how much better is that bond that marinates into your heart and soul. In your definition of family, include those that truly matter, those who as the Clampetts might say, “relax, take your shoes off.” Some may dispute the meaning of the first part of Proverbs 18:24, but almost every translations agrees with the latter, “...there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” That’s the person, who ‘coincidentally’ out of the blue calls to see how you doing-especially when you are not doing well! The person who lifts your spirit, and does not leave you disheartened because of some personal failing. I’m not talking about your dog, though they often put us to shame in regards to devotion and loyalty. It’s the person in your passing thoughts, who was probably thinking about you already. People in our lives will come, and like some with kids, they grow; cherish those of your yesterday, who are still vital parts of your today and most likely to be there for your tomorrows!

[@HAVOCSLEGACY]

I'm so happy to have my Dad just the way he is

[@wickedsnipes5714]

I envy you..

[@HAVOCSLEGACY]

@@wickedsnipes5714 it's okay dude, just be the Dad you wanted growing up, for YOUR son. That's what my Dad would say anyway.

[@wickedsnipes5714]

I'm unsure of the fact that I'll bring life onto this planet. Because I'm too afraid I'll become a perfect replica of my father before me..

[@davidboynton7486]

Wicked Snipes Don’t be afraid. Make a change and be a great father. Your future kid will love u

[@cuddly2003]

this is a nice comment, it made me smile

[@TRIPPYHIPPIE-bc2mt]

This song hits me heart I lost my dad to lung cancer two years ago this coming December third my heart still breaks every time I hear this😢😞💔

[@dylancolon-r2w]

I love my dad, even though he wasn’t around a whole lot because he was in the Air Force and worked at later worked at TSA so that kind of sucks you’ve been at my school Father’s Day donuts events. My dad didn’t show up. It was just my grandpa, but I still love my dad know he did his best and was saving people from terrorism.

[@aydon1276]

We were coming home from a day at the park when this song came on the radio. My dad turned it up and told me to listen carefully. When the song finished he asked me about the song and when he was satisfied I understood he said something along the lines of "I don't want to treat you like the way my dad treated me and I always want to have you in my life." I'm not even listening to the song, I just clicked on it to add it to a playlist, but tears are already in my eyes. I love my dad so much.

[@pokedude104]

This song terrified me as a kid whenever it came on the radio I didn't want to get older. Actually older now I realize how lucky i was to have a dad at all let alone one that always tried to make time for his kids.

[@honeywest69]

This song is so true , time fly's by . They are young one day and next , they are gone !

[@brunop11]

This is one of the saddest songs I've ever heard. It always made me think about how much I love my dad though.

[@lucboss101]

I love how life related this song is! It tells a powerful story of how your kids can grow up and before you know it, they are on their own! They start out as a baby, then as they get older they are in elementary school through high school, then finally college! Then they come home from college and are already in a full time career and have kids. The most heartfelt part is the hanging of the phone as this kid is all grown up and has moved on. Very powerful for life. Harry Chapin will never be forgotten.

[@karencalifano6132]

One of the greatest, most wonderful songs of ALL time!! Sad and great. Such a lesson for any parent!!

[@Kelly-nm4kw]

Hello Karen, How are you doing?

[@renaultman4230]

You know when you hate a song cause of personal relation to it but your in awe of its brilliance...