IT ENDS WITH US - Colleen's Mom

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@CiaraNelsen 4 ай бұрын

This movie made me tear up. It’s the best. Lily was so strong through the whole movie when Ryle was abusing her. This is a good movie for moms or even for relationships that are hard rn. Good job

@mmeadows1014 5 ай бұрын

This movie was really really good. HOWEVER, be prepared to cry, especially more so if you’ve gone through/dealt with certain situations. My friend actually grabbed my hand when I started having a panic attack and didn’t let go. Just be ready for some serious triggers. (If you read the book, you know)

@Yas-meira 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for the warning! I really want to watch it cuz I know I will relate and sometimes it feels good to relate but at the same time I’m worried about the triggers

@mmeadows1014 5 ай бұрын

@@Yas-meira I was the exact same way! Just bring someone you can rely on to cry on their shoulder/hold your hand like my friend did. She literally just reached for me and knew I was about to cry and freak out.. it’s a great movie though I promise ❤️

@TrashPanda_lvl15 5 ай бұрын

I didn't like the book, but my mom's making me watch the movie tonight, I'm prepared to cringe rather than cry ngl

@marimangoshvili7703 5 ай бұрын

I read the book before and when I watched the trailer it affected me so much I just knew I had to go and face it. I warned my friend I might get triggered and he said „no worries, do whatever feels natural, I’m here“. I had 2 near panic attacks, had to breathe trough multiple times and started crying once. He kept hugging me.

@mmeadows1014 4 ай бұрын

@@TrashPanda_lvl15 I think you have to have been through certain situations to enjoy the movie/book. It’s not easy for a lot of people! I hope you like it though

@e.c.1975 5 ай бұрын

A movie of breaking the cycle. Something that most of us struggle with.

@kimberlyzambrano4919 5 ай бұрын

God bless you girlll so proud for sharing this !!! This brought me on a roller coaster of emotions, but I’m so thankful that there’s women like you standing up for Moms when they couldn’t

@sandysilva5659 5 ай бұрын

I 😊feel sorry for this actor who is the director of the film and holds the rights to adapt the book to the cinema. He shows the reality of the film and speaks out against domestic violence very accurately. Very disrespectful for this actress who wanted to take over his film. He talks about domestic violence, the main actress is more about selling the film like Barbie and selling the beverage products and hair products along with the film's premiere. And the book writer is selling nail polish and coloring books.

@Rappereditz679 6 ай бұрын

I can't wait for the movie, I literally just saw the trailer on YT and Started crying because I never thought they weren't gonna come out with a movie

@susanschuck8841 6 ай бұрын

What’s the book name

@Rappereditz679 6 ай бұрын

@@susanschuck8841 It Ends With Us

@snehabanothu752 6 ай бұрын

It ends with us @@susanschuck8841

@beeeeez9598 5 ай бұрын

@@susanschuck8841 it ends with us

@Arcticmonkeysversion0114 5 ай бұрын

@@susanschuck8841it ends with us and the second book is it starts with us

@somethingcleverrrr 5 ай бұрын

I haven't yet seen the movie, but just watching some shorts like this one has opened my eyes so much to what it must be like for those who are in these toxic relationships. I don't know if anyone will read this comment, and I guess it doesn't really matter. I'm going to leave it anyway. My big brother is in an abusive marriage. It's not physical violence as far as I know. However his wife is the closest thing I have ever known to an actual sociopath. She has always been difficult, and they have been together a little over 15 years. They didn't get married for a long time. Before they got married they were constantly breaking up and getting back together and my brother would leave whenever things got really bad. He didn't want to marry her but she wanted to get married so eventually he gave in. When they did finally get married he took his vows very seriously and decided to truly commit to her in a way he had not done before. Now 6 years later, my sweet gentle and easy-going favorite big brother has turned into someone who I don't even recognize. He is angry all the time, and even though we used to be best friends we don't even speak now. His wife has been cheating on him for 2 years. He lost a ton of weight because he was so sick about the situation, he cried himself to sleep every night for so long that eventually he actually lost his job. He begged her to stop because he loves her. At this point most of the people in my family have given up on the situation because they're tired of telling him to leave just for him to back to her every time. It took me seeing some of these videos talking about domestic violence to realize that if he were a woman he would be treated very differently. Nobody would be asking him why he was staying or why he keeps going back if he was a woman. The double standards are not fair.

@BrigetteOgden-zs6cv 5 ай бұрын

He is trauma bonded to her. Your own mind works against you. It’s like kickn an addiction. He needs to see a trauma counselor. No one could make me leave either. Everyone has their last straw though. The moment ya realize~ This is never gona change. And at that point nothing can make ya stay anylonger, the fog has lifted & there’s no going back.! One has to change to survive it. Then once ya heal you change again, into someone who will NEVER go through that crap again...

@Theowlhawk 5 ай бұрын

Your brother is trama bonded to an abusive woman sadly. This pull, push, hot cold, brain washes the best of people. It's like an addiction, it triggers chemicals in your brain to keep trying to make the impossible work, it never will. ❤

@maggielinea 4 ай бұрын

She is so right. It is so hard to leave when you love someone even when they hurt you. It isn't black and white.

@gabrielbarreto5923 5 ай бұрын

Impossible not to fall in love with Lilly And what an amazing soundtrack Great movie Now I want to read the book

@sharrielee911 4 ай бұрын

OMG you're so right the soundtrack was amazing and of course the movie was incredible😊

@uptownqt 5 ай бұрын

I bought my tickets for tomorrow's early access screening. Can't wait to see it!

@ursularodriguez7947 6 ай бұрын

Justin and Blake, love them and the story seems interesting. Definitely can't wait to watch!!! ❤

@jacqjewel1 5 ай бұрын

I’ve left my marriage and it was confronting reading your book. I hope this book educates young women of all the multiple 🚩🚩red flags in his behaviour 🚩🚩

@vernal_blooms 6 ай бұрын

After reading the book,too excited for movie ❤

@AlenaPersaud-g3p 2 ай бұрын

I read the book on the second one now!! Love it!!! Haven’t watch the movie yet though.

@sueguerrero5913 5 ай бұрын

That was not love it was a trauma bond we have to teach our daughters to know the difference- love is not abusive.

@Speakup707 5 ай бұрын

The book was amazing and the movie was spot on!!

@sharrielee911 4 ай бұрын

Simply brilliant movie😊

@giraffewhiskers2045 5 ай бұрын

I do wish they added the moms conversation, BECAUSE THAT MADE ME SOB, the movie was amazing tho

@ChristineAlvino 6 ай бұрын

Amazing, I am instantly drawn in. Can’t wait to watch!

@TheLegendaryMovieCritic 6 ай бұрын

So excited to watch It Ends With Us next week!

@h.s.2958 4 ай бұрын

I just finished the movie and have not read the book yet. The problem is that most people don't leave as quickly as Ryle did.... they fight for custody, not really caring about the child, just using him or her as a pawn to continue to lure in and torture the other person. Lilly was brave to not f*ck around. She told Ryle straight away that she wanted a divorce and confronted him with clear examples of every time he laid a hand on her. That was brave (especially with her daughter in his hands) and it would just be a miracle if it worked that way. I hope it does for some people. It is heart wrenching to leave, but it is possible. I did it. Also, what you can't do for yourself, you will do for your precious baby. I'd give my life for mine.

@bonniejones6894 5 ай бұрын

This hits home for sure. My Pat never understood why

@misscomment8025 4 ай бұрын

Justin Baldoni ❤❤❤

@pricemoore2022 4 ай бұрын

Blake Lively did a good job in this movie!!!!!😊😊😊😊😊

@jennalamvidic15 5 ай бұрын

I CRIED

@aqalkhan6308 5 ай бұрын

I love this movie, but I don’t know why I’m so hurt by the end. Who didn’t watch it best of luck for them. and again I love this movie. Best movie.

@sabinasmailovic1982 5 ай бұрын

It would have been a good experience for all of us if they didnt act like a spoiled brats during the promoting Except for Justin, he took the high road and kept it proffesional

@rachelfajardo8821 5 ай бұрын

I saw this yesterday so good laugh and tears

@krystlegarcia3907 5 ай бұрын

I lovveeee this move, must read the book. ❤

@HOKUINHI 5 ай бұрын

Wish you care a better person than Blake Lively! She’s truly hurt all of us who are victims of domestic violence. Instead of using this time & her platform to bring awareness and stop the stigma of those hanging on & drowning in this abuse, she’s making it all about herself & a romcom like it’s something light and fluffy, not serious, not important, but just money in her pocket. She ruined it!

@danzorich 5 ай бұрын

You'll get over it

@yourfavperson3748 4 ай бұрын

You do know that the author also initially promoted her book like a romcom. Also did you know actors are often told what they can and cannot say. Wow hey it's like we are actually using our brains over here

@CarolineClinton-ij4mm 3 ай бұрын

Great movie

@savedsm 5 ай бұрын

I always thought Brad Simon would be a great fit for the role of Atlas. Literally when I read the book twice I always see him being Atlas.

@meganmaroneymusic8636 6 ай бұрын

This is all fascinating, because every colleen book I’ve read or heard about reads like she hates women. Every main woman has to bend over backwards to accommodate the trauma of the main man, and though this book ends on a different note, that ending even feels like a cop out for colleen to say “here, see! I don’t hate women cause she doesn’t continue to be abused!” Anyway, not a huge colleen fan.

@bellahuey1156 6 ай бұрын

This comment 🙌

@EveraWillard1326 5 ай бұрын

I dont think its hate I think its her own trauma

@yourfavperson3748 4 ай бұрын

She's also.. ✨️a bad person✨️

@rachelquinn9248 6 ай бұрын

Have all the books ❤

@ahlamhallah 5 ай бұрын

It was great movie now i get out from the cinema I really enjoyed every moment ❤

@esmeraldagarcia8905 5 ай бұрын

Good movie

@TheMainWildNcoolPal 6 ай бұрын

My sis has all these books!

@l.jvd1 6 ай бұрын

There are two of the series but Colleen has many more on hard, complicated love. I discovered her thanks to seeing this trailer on Blake’s page, read this series, ordered more books last night. They’re written so well! Easy to read for non-English speakers (aka me)

@yourfavperson3748 4 ай бұрын

Yr sis has bad taste.

@TheMainWildNcoolPal 4 ай бұрын

@@yourfavperson3748 my mum read them too, I personally don't think I want to read them. Not my style of book

@TheMainWildNcoolPal 4 ай бұрын

@@yourfavperson3748 She doesn't. You just don't like the book, different people have different opinions, more people like the books and less people hate it

@yourfavperson3748 4 ай бұрын

@@TheMainWildNcoolPal I'm saying her support Colleen. Colleen is a rlly bad person

@lizziecross8149 6 ай бұрын

Most of her books fetishize abusive relationships, but it ends with us was a bit different.

@EveraWillard1326 5 ай бұрын

But honestly doesnt it make sense on where she came from I mean her dad was the first man she loved

@lizziecross8149 5 ай бұрын

@@EveraWillard1326 oh it certainly does make sense. And I’m the type of person who loves dark romance, so I get the appeal. But I just can’t enjoy her books.

@soniav8078 5 ай бұрын

Blake ruined your movie with her immature ways - we don’t care what happened between your cast - this should be kept private.

@jevinacomaren1270 6 ай бұрын

My tears ricochet ❤

@denisadellinger4543 5 ай бұрын

A love story with an abuser. No thank you.. Not entertaining to me. Just a lot of pain.

@aanya9677 4 ай бұрын

Nobody knows the person is an abuser until you get close to them

@ashmakharpran7714 5 ай бұрын

I loved Ryle, but when i read the part when he was abusing her, i was literally trembling and crying.

@annelawrence8063 5 ай бұрын

Can't wait

@larrainewong 5 ай бұрын

I wonder where I can find the book what is the title of the book?

@Florida_Fam1 4 ай бұрын

fucking hate ryle, atlas is so kind and lily and atlas’ relationship is just so wholesome. this movie is so good, wish I read the books. 💗💐

@odejepun 3 ай бұрын

Real story?

@HG-kc5ut 28 күн бұрын

Why couldn't it have been marketed like that instead of directing Blake to tell people to grab their girls and floral dresses and go to the movies or whatever she said

@ElianaDomiciano-h4l 5 ай бұрын

Quero saber o nome da música por favor

@_Meretricious 5 ай бұрын

I read half of the book, dropped it when I found out the ML(I forgot his name) became abusive, but the writing was decent so I looked at her other works. This woman is not trying to shed light on domestic abuse. She actively glorifies abuse and uses abuse as a “romantic” trope in most of her books. I personally find her disgusting, but you are entitled to your own opinions. Just form them after taking the due diligence to research her before praising her.

@manuelaarmando8367 4 ай бұрын

maybe you haven't understood, you have to see with the eyes of a person who finds himself in a life so often these people give more importance to love than to beatings.... my son spent three years with a person who manipulated him and he attacked and yet he didn't see these things in the same way we saw them from the outside....

@_Meretricious 4 ай бұрын

@@manuelaarmando8367 You should search up reader’s summaries on her books. One of them includes the FL ending up with a guy who’s genuinely obsessed with her and burnt down her house if I remember correctly. Capturing abuse is about capturing the feelings the victim has, the denial, the confirmation bias, the self conversations that illustrate how complicated abuse is. Most of Hoover’s books utilize abuse not as a plot device, but a trope (I changed my wording to better illustrate what I mean) and it’s disgusting. It Ends With Us is probably one of the only work of hers that doesn’t glorify abuse, so thankfully that’s the one that got adapted, but any other of her book butcher how abuse should be portrayed so I’d rather no one support such an author without the full knowledge.

@steventipton5130 5 ай бұрын

I am very sorry for any abuse any women suffers the problem is then that women blames all men for the sins of a very few then that ruins this men then those men go out and ruin other good women

@perpetualsick 5 ай бұрын

Wtf?

@yourfavperson3748 4 ай бұрын

Oh yes because men are abusive because of women. Because men can't think for themselves🙄 also change yr "some men" to "most men"

@jsahumanfis 3 ай бұрын

Honestly the movie wasn’t very good however the book is very good & I do warn u it’s a bit hard to read

@eliziadossantos6901 5 ай бұрын

Some firmes recomendes me this movie 🎥 but I’m not sure if I should see it ! As a domestic violence victim I’m afraid can bring me triggers 😢😢😢😢

@LittleSprout1013 5 ай бұрын

The best of the best book I have ever read in my life ✨

@marydarnell973 5 ай бұрын

Well then why are you going along with these fake people that just don't care about what this movie is about you have been so disrespectful towards your Mother which is disgusting