Reason I cut her off is she divorce me. 24 years of married I'm the one that always care for her. She silence me, no contact, blocked me from her social media so I gave her the space. If she wants to contact me, I'm always at home after work. I don't go out looking for love because I love her. It would be a sin to go out and have a third party. She should leave the pass and concentrate in our relationship. We are married for 24 years, why think of the pass. Is that mean she still love that person in the pass? I don't get that. It's been 9 months now that we have not communicate.