Spiritual Balance In Relationships (How-To Guide)

[@heatherkornfuehrer7453]

I'm living proof that your method works because I've been listening to your teaching on spiritual balancing to depolarize myself with regard to politics. At first it was difficult to saturate myself in information on the other side of where I was standing. I felt allergic to it which let me know I had a lot of work to do. I've been working so hard because I love my family and husband so much and wanted to understand their pov and meet them with love and compassion. I finally had a major breakthrough in the last week and I did it by following what you've been teaching on it, plus asking God, and my light team to bring me everything I needed to open my heart, see what I have not been able to see, etc. I got exactly what I asked for because I was sincere and devoted. Thank you for your help!

[@AaronAbke]

Incredible! Way to put these teachings into practice and doing the deep inner work they require. Now you can enjoy the eternal rewards of your upgraded state of consciousness 🙏🏼💚

[@NoniCatty]

I totally hear this !!!!

[@NoniCatty]

Yes … 🙏

[@lesleehelen5732]

This is so beautiful! Thank you for sharing this.

[@Maria-h5n3b]

Is anybody else completely mind blown by this information? I feel like my soul was deeply craving this explanation.

[@AaronAbke]

Truth resonates 🙌🏼

[@platome4795]

Im very thankful having found this Channel on Christmas ❤

[@PepperyPete10]

“You can kick someone out of your house but don’t kick them out of your heart.” - Neem Karoli Baba.

[@TrueSeekersAssemble]

Aaron just casually dropping golden nuggets ... "All perspectives are relatively true and absolutely false." Profound🤯

[@SpiritualNotReligious369]

I wrote that one down too ❤

[@LoveCoveredLifePodcast]

Me too!

[@rhondam2571]

I always say.... everything is a paradox

[@dkliberty6797]

Anyone else notice how these videos always seem to drop a perfect topic for the individual on a mass scale? The collective consciousness at work. ❤

[@d4dd7wh0]

I was litteraly struggling with this exact topic, i asked the universe for guidance, then let it go... After a bit of scrolling past poltical videos searching for some light, I was inspired to check out what Aaron had to say and this video is absolutely nail on the head perfect! I had to laugh and thank the universe for its magical ways, the blessings are always there for those who seek them!

[@dkliberty6797]

@d4dd7wh0 Ask and we shall receive! ❤️

[@Theoramma]

"Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose." -Master Yoda

[@maryquilao]

"The essence of who you're being towards them is what you're offering them."❤

[@AaronAbke]

You caught the gem! 💎

[@katiewarren443]

I've wanted you to cover this lesson for ages and you did it so thoroughly. I had to cut off my narcissistic mother and often worried if I did the wrong thing. I still love her but she can't hurt me anymore. I'm so happy and relieved and grateful to these teachings. Thank you. 💕

[@TheArtistOfLove7777]

Aaron....I wanna be just Like you! Your teachings and your videos always show me how to be the best I can. It's hard practicing what you teach but I know it's what is right and I'm learning to know myself and love myself. Accepting the people is harder at times. Thank you for your videos.

[@Golden.Love.Cultivator]

9:37 I've been trying to live from this perspective as much as I'm aware. When an argument arises, I try to remain silent and recognize that the pain, anger or other emotions I see reflected in the other person are just my own thoughts and feelings taking form. So, I strive to stay on the path of love to handle the situation. Being loving to ourselves is the starting point for more peaceful and loving relationships, I think. Because there's no real other after all, only projections of our infinite egos. I loved the entire lesson. I had a lot of insights. I'll watch it again soon. Thank you for all the teachings 🙏✨

[@poem_andthepoetess]

This is the best video I’ve ever seen or watched on KZbin 💚🐉 Green shield 🐉💚

[@theoneasD]

everything you said applies to my relationship with my parents, since my first spiritual awakening everything in my life changed, starting from the end of a relationship, dropped law school to focus on my online business and moved to a different state in my country. none of my choices made sense from my family´s perspective and slowly they started cutting me off because i wasn´t meeting their expectations. at first it was kinda hard to face that, but at the same time i get that they´re coming from this extremely materialistic perspective of how things should be! to this day i don´t have any contact with them (not because i don´t want to, but because whenever i tried reaching out to them the interaction was so dense and they would just repeat the same arguments over and over, it was pointless to keep trying) they clearly don´t accept that i have free will to live my life in a way that´s aligned with my values, but i do respect their free will and never tried to enforce spiritual principles on them. it´s been two years since all this started and i have no regrets! sometimes we just have to accept that life will naturally remove people who aren´t meant to be in our paths, the fact that we´re not in touch doesn´t change how much i love them! thanks for the teachings!

[@AaronAbke]

What a blessing to hear! 🙌🏼

[@JudithvandeVijver]

Been there, done that. It's do good you made this choice. I found walging my own path brought me many blessings. Over a decade later I still stand bty the choices I made. Luckily that inner voice speaks to me more and more clearly. I hope you have the same experience. Much blessings!

[@YasileikiArdisoni-c4i]

I’m going through the same as you with my mother and that side of the family. It’s also almost 2 years. Everything Aaron have said is my story, even the way I have acted and feel. I have offer a loving and respectful relationship to my mother and nothing has work- as hard as it is I have peace in my heart but there still the mind that doesn’t want to understand it- I have much more to grow! ❤

[@theoneasD]

@@YasileikiArdisoni-c4i we did the best we could to have a healthy relationship, but like Aaron said: we can´t force people to have loving relationships if that´s not their mentality; we can only send love and forgiveness! at some point everyone will find Truth! Glad you had the courage to set boundaries 🙏

[@YasileikiArdisoni-c4i]

@@theoneasDexactly that! ❤ that’s where I stand! One day the truth will come out!

[@rhondam2571]

Im just so happy and grateful for Aaron and his concepts and explanations. They resonate so sweetly as the TRUTH! And I feel like we all have these truths inside of us. But our Ego's block us from these wisdoms . I guess until we have suffered enough to seek understanding......for me...instead of being understood. 😅 Thanks Aaron Abke ❤ you are a true blessing and teacher of Love ❤

[@mjjepson]

4 days ago, I texted a friend this, "I listened to Aaron Abke last night. He has a video on how to do Spiritual Balancing. It's nice to relisten because I forget easily. Plus I have a habit of listening but not embodying the action steps to really learn. I typically move on to the next video, then the next, etc. Loving the words but not teaching myself." Then hours ago, Aaron posts this video about further SQ balancing and said "We all know that embodiment is the name of the game that we are playing; not just learning, but embodiment. Then it is only how we apply a concept that really matters or benefits us in anyway." -Drop the mic! 🎤

[@nevaron7]

Karma is about bringing things into balance. It is neither inherently good nor bad; it simply exists as a state of equilibrium. We are often conditioned to label our experiences in life. However, there is no definitive right or wrong-there is only the journey we take. We assign labels to situations in order to distance ourselves from them or to draw them closer. Ultimately, nothing is as real as love, and even that can feel like an illusion in our earthly existence. Our purpose here is to peel away the layers of perception and gain a deeper understanding. We need one another to awaken to this truth.

[@lesleehelen5732]

This is such divine timing in my life, and I see so many others commenting the same. Thank you, Aaron.

[@sanaganjoo]

I echo the same sentiments! I really needed this video right now.

[@LoriSpurgin]

Beautiful practical essence 💞 let’s live like the kingdom of heaven.

[@merrillcopperfield5652]

I love and crave this immense beautiful, profound, and practical perspective that integrates _A Course in Miracles_ and the Law of One.❤ ❤❤

[@AaronAbke]

You have chosen the right path 😊💚

[@caitlinwierenga2864]

A bit off topic but - years before I read the law of one, I dreamed that I was being mentally attacked by “evil” or “hate”. To counter this, I said to the attacker - I LOVE YOU repeatedly, while being surrounded by different shades of green energies that were emanating from my hands. When I read the Law of One session on the thought wars, I cried remembering this dream. I feel I have been/will be/am a being who participates in these thought wars, and I feel awe and honor when I recall the dream 💚

[@rhondam2571]

Thank you. I now want to read the law of one! 😊 Thanks for your comment

[@JudithvandeVijver]

Thank you so much for this profound lesson. This helps me so much navigating going through a divorce with kids involved. I have been refusing to fight and be pulled into the negativity, so that is good. But this really helps me navigate this process better, especially for my kids. And that is what is most important to me. Thank you Aaron! To me you are a giant of wisdom. I don't mean to put you on a perdastal, but to have someone to turn to for guidance, practicle advice and clarity in line with the values of Christ... It helps on so many levels. It enables me to do better, not be overwhelmed, have peace and strengthen my faith and be the "rock" of a mom my kids need and deserve. Thank you.

[@AtaraRenee]

I just love the way you teach. The way you make all these daily practices for a lot of us sound absolutely absurb is just the medicine I need lol You're awesome! Thank you brother!

[@joncowan8081]

Thank you for this, Gods perfect timing. I just had to end an 18 year marriage with my wife who is a fundamental Christian. I did hold place for her to seek truth but for some reason she cannot do the same for me. I didn’t ask her for anything or need control. Love and light to all. We are one.

[@sharonjohnson2309]

Synchronicity this morning- your video came up as first to watch this morning my husband is in his yearly spiral down with alcohol. I can now loving say ‘no thank you’ to his requests for me to gather his alcohol for him I feel more enabled to hold space and set boundaries this year for the sake of him, our relationship, our family and those who interact with Thank you for all you do for others!!❤

[@KaraKahn]

Good for you. It's not an easy situation to be in, but by saying "no more," you stop enabling him.. you stop helping him hurt both of you. I highly suggest joining Al Anon, so you can get support and someone to sponsor/coach you through the 12-steps, which is shadow work; it will help you so much on your spiritual journey. ❤

[@kunahs_ohana]

Aaron this is absolutely amazing and so perfectly true. This should be taught to all humans on this planet.

[@meetbhuva9856]

this video literally came in the perfect moment in my life, love you

[@theresavezina4665]

Thank you Aaron, such a blessing of a guidance to wholeness in a relationship with everyone including self....I so appreciate your teachings💗

[@shirleysmith9421]

We are All growing in understanding of reality and we all have Our own Pat 10:24 h

[@Shadowdaddy87]

You sir, speak truth better and more on time than anything I've ever experienced. This message has so much synchronicity in my life right now. It is scary

[@larissaopenheart]

Right there with you! ❤

[@prairievintage]

Liking this before even watching it because I know my brother is always in flow state. Thank you Aaron for your beautiful Being presence.

[@treypvortex5437]

Bro that’s how I feel down deep too. He can speak with such exact wording to make the message vibrate to harmonize with the truth inside us already. The gift of embodiment is found in him because he has been doing and is the work. I’m forever grateful to have found him and to be on this journey at this time.

[@prairievintage]

@treypvortex5437 me too. 💛🙏 bless you!☀️☀️☀️

[@TanjiDark]

Hmmm… if you are struggling in a relationship with anyone I would recommend listening to “self talk” by Neville Goddard. Or “God is all” by Lillian Dewaters. It’s our own negative interpretations of “others” and inner arguments with them that creates that version of them. But if we can see only God/love in “others” they will reflect that back too! It’s a shift in perspective. And it works fast ❤

[@brianmaguire8254]

I wish everyone as much suffering as neccesary to wake up to the truth of who they are.. Spiritually, regardless of how much understanding I have for the ignorance of the ego, I should not allow another ego to take advantage or be abusive.. ❤

[@youareyourownbeloved]

If you are constantly being "triggered" then it's you that needs the inner work. The goal is to not have triggers.

[@richardallen9467]

This one is a banger! So much wisdom. I used key points from this in my presentation at work this morning. Working on unifying my coworkers. So much realization in my relationship with my wife. She has been a catalyst. It is so true what is mentioned later in the video with close relationships. Thank you Aaron for all the expansion offered here.

[@Amillie529]

Aaron could you please make a video about spiritual fasting to release negative thought forms/blockages?

[@meeshadonohoe1641]

This is gold! It is 100% accurate based on what I've witnessed in my own relationships. Thank you!

[@TheCjbowman]

It's the simplist of things that are hardest. 😂 Live. Love. Laugh. Love and Light 💕✨

[@espucs]

Since my spiritual awakening, i have been gradually feeling more and more distanced from my wife (she is not in the same path right now). We now live like roomies in the same house. After almost one year of therapy, things have not improved. With two kids, I have not had the courage to leave her. Tough times 😢

[@rosebud1958]

Your heart will be ur guide. Meditate for answers during the quiet time. Could be in ur car alone. I understand you have kids. Needs to be alone. You will make the right decision in ur heart and mind. Blessings 2 u and yours. ☮️❤

[@espucs]

@@rosebud1958 thank you for your loving advice 🙏 blessings to you too.

[@rosebud1958]

@@espucs 🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😊

[@elfiee-maria1965]

Living with people on a 24/7 basis is the most challenging I find. If one is working away from you there’s time for you to integrate any negative energy. 9:31

[@feleciah8639]

It never disappoints to sit down and join your teachings. 💫💖

[@asabovesobelow420]

Thank you tremendously for your works Aaron!!!! So much gratitude for you and everything you are doing. And your humor is on point 💚

[@solidsnx]

"All perspectives are relatively true and absolutely false." This... this hit me like a ton of bricks. All at once, so many things make sense to me now regarding beliefs. Thank you Aaron, truly!

[@AaronAbke]

You may have plucked the best 💎 of the whole lesson 👏🏼

[@solidsnx]

@AaronAbke Thanks for replying, Aaron! I haven't stopped thinking about it. This was a light bulb moment for me. Thank you for all that you do. You are greatly appreciated. 🙂

[@francovers22]

Thank you Aaron! This came exactly in the right moment

[@jakegaming248]

Becoming a Reiki Master has helped with this so much!❤

[@tanara4069]

This is incredible!! I’ve heard it so many times and this time made so much sense. Thank you so much! You are a Godsend 🙏

[@peterkoehling]

Not only would have acted like Hitler, we were Hitler. We are all one. So we were also Jesus, Moses, Mohammed, Gandhi, Buddha…

[@AaronAbke]

Yes 🙏🏼

[@fasted8468]

"Jesus answered, “You would have no power over me if it were not given to you from above. Therefore the one who handed me over to you is guilty of a greater sin.” Jesus knew how to distribute blame.

[@davidscott5266]

Yes, and because of the veil of forgetting, we all have been everything. We have been murderers molesters and all kinds of sinners. We also have done many good and beautiful things. A teaching of theosophy given by the Masters is that the evil or sin that we do does not become a part of your soul expression, only that which is good and beautiful dose. The evil only follows as karma, but it is not the real you.. Seen from that perspective, we can drop all hate and embody the "love your enemies" command of Jesus

[@andyyoung8341]

@peterkoehling yes absolutely

[@RS1988-g9x]

@@AaronAbkeNot mohammed he was a war lord 😮

[@emalanispeaks883]

It is so true.. the moment I decided to let go, forgive and move peace came to all involved. Everyone just relaxed and even tho I have not physically moved yet we are all still at peace ❤

[@donnamckissack2184]

God bless your beautiful heart and soul brother! Thank You 70x7!

[@LoveCoveredLifePodcast]

Thank you so much for this!

[@magentabyrne5238]

"Let us never get too big for our britches," 😆😆😆 I enjoy your teaching style so much, Aaron 🕊🙏🏻👏⚘️💜✨️

[@ElevateMindMasteryTV]

I enjoyed this so much! I truly feel I am making some amazing shifts spiritually because I could understand everything he was saying from having to do those things myself in my life with people… detaching but forgiving them… it’s amazing how everything else outside yourself change once you change ❤ thanks Aaron

[@kirstenearley662]

Case in point of "ask and you shall receive." Thank you. This confirms the approach I have been trying to navigate through a conflict with my Mom. I have gotten triggered and made mistakes and go back and apologize but had also been feeling it is important not to collapse and deny my feelings about the situation just to end the conflict. This feels like some deep family patterns coming up that we have the opportunity to heal and I feel much more clear that love will see us through, one way or the other. ❤

[@amberherrera8411]

Thank you Aaron, hearing this message was in perfect timing with what I’m experiencing in relationship to my parents. Much love brother, your work and example are truly meaningful in at this time ❤️

[@IsralWaris369]

I don't think love can encounter conflict. By the defenition alone it break the structure of love. But when conflict encounter love, i can see the conflict is forgiven. At least i can imagine that for the fisrt time, Conflict will start to notice that it is noticed, heard, and obviously loved.. coz that what love is.. love is loving.. conflict's seperating.. When we see something new, therefore learning and that learning is conflict.. Listening is one of the way.. As one IS love.. any conflict wont be seen as conflict but a sorry that worth every forgiveness 🙏 Love you All.. Thankyou for the service ✨ ~Whenever Loves forgive, something is silent, something is put to salvation ❣️

[@badmotorbreath5206]

14:20 Everyone is right from their perspective…Let’s build a bridge (between us) and get over it! 😇🙏

[@SpiritualNotReligious369]

Thank you for your service Aaron Abke ❤ I sent this video to everyone I know and love. To share with them, NOT to shove it down their throats!! 😂❤ I love you and hope you have a beautiful day.

[@heathermcdermott2171]

😂 this is great and I appreciate everyone here who is in this process of dilation~ The humility to live in a higher consciousness and allows space for those that may not have the same subjective lens as self is huge ~ after six decades of circumnavigating earth. I have innerstanding that life is happening through me not to me, and I will always focus on the currency that I’m vibrating in at the moment. The more whole I became the less I even noticed because I focus on divinity in other not their character defects ~ principals before personalities ~ living in a proper heart posture is more action than thinking. It just flows through you somehow maybe that comes from inner unity and pure intentions and motives in my moments. Enjoy the process SHLAMA SHALOM NAMESTE dear ones

[@vil4038]

Good message, Aron. Another example I can give about depolarising yourself is something that happened to me yesterday when I was watching a movie at the cinema. This movie seemed to me very annoying and pretentious, ostentatious, meaningless and it was really annoying me. I was complaining in my head about how it wasn’t my genre of movie, and as I did that I felt a really painful sudden back pain, and my stomach started bloating, my throat started belching. Basically my body reacted so terribly to this I had to run to the restroom to calm myself down, release the resistance, and then everything settle down. This happens to me whenever I complain or am resistant to something, so I know it’s wrong.

[@tuesdaycurtis163]

Thanks I needed this today. I was being horrible to people in mormonism today.(I am ex Mormon ) But felt bad after. So I need to let them do their thing and me mine. It's so hard to love people who have hurt you. Anyway thanks for this slap around the head to wake up.

[@angelaped]

Wow! Fantastic- thank you 🙏🏼

[@sharonackerman9721]

❤ GOLD!!

[@FiilmGirl]

Thank you, Aaron Abke!

[@nskaconfession]

You gave me hwat is the real meaning of "if i were in your shoes" thank you

[@harmonizauk]

thank you aaron. this helped me so much. you have a beautiful soul

[@Danajosh]

You are amazing Aaron ♥

[@rebeccashearer7768]

Oh man. I really needed this. Thank you, Aaron.

[@hdspacechic]

Really needed this~ thank you❣️

[@jeffgadbois1707]

Thank You For Your Time And Knowledge 💯🤝

[@myahluv186]

you are a great reminder Aaron, thank you for being you.

[@concreteshamanism]

Very good work Aaron, we love you 💕💕💕 You make it so clear.

[@nataliaprodan9335]

Thank you so much Aaron ❤️ This was so beautifully presented 😊 My situation is different: I don't get enraged when I am in argument with others and they all have a problem with that🙄

[@crystalchild1111]

Thank you Aaron!

[@fasted8468]

I talked with a man (exorcism) who was struck by lightning afterward. I understand this more than anyone alive and you are more correct than you can even know.

[@Masonoliveaux]

Thank you Aaron, I have been needing this one 💚

[@susansomersjohnson8748]

Wait till that baby grows up, that mirror is stronger than your partner’s! Triggers are coming:) 😊

[@missannelee9575]

🙏🙏💚💚 Its so logical, but I tend to forget it sometimes... Thank you🙏

[@saara.]

Aaron, thank you for these teachings. 🙏

[@misspattifromcali.6955]

Doing this work is NOT easy !! But doable!!! Ty🙏ty🙏ty Aaron 💜

[@laurenroyal9095]

Thank you for your work!

[@Jeffro696]

Great Advice Once again. Thanks

[@misskatej1179]

This was so beautiful and very much needed. Thank you

[@briandonovan4620]

Such a beautiful n profound teaching Aaron and EXACTLY what I needed to hear 😊. This has been one of the most challenging areas in my life for good reasons I am sure Your always teaching the exact thing I need to hear ❤. It wd be helpful to me if you cd do a video everyday lol. Thank you for everything you do for your community.

[@Self-ish]

Would love to see more content on relationships Aaron. My partner and I are on the spiritual path but sometimes feel a little lost with what to do

[@XenaTron7]

So perfect, thank you!

[@fillyfresh]

This was excellent. Thank you.

[@jennifermorrison9686]

Is the closing of polarity witnessed in the encounters of Paul and the encounter of positive polarity and was struck blind and then the shedding of scales and then awakened to the true light

[@erniejudah6976]

Balance brethrens ⚖️✌🏽

[@kalynkilgore9164]

It's like you are in my mind my life at the moment...it's not easy..but I'm doing my best..I AM

[@JoannWoolley]

Your most important video to date! Cheers

[@yuna-sv3ht]

Aaron, how do apply this for parents? How do you teach and parent a child without infringing on their free will?

[@Blossom0490]

Thank you 🙏❤

[@innosense74]

Wow! 💚 ✨🙏🏼Thank you so much!

[@CaptainPhilosophical]

8:18 I currently struggle with this because I am not accepted for who I am. The ego wants to defend itself.

[@_itshadee]

Powerful insight

[@annikabirgittanordlander6887]

Love and compassion to all non-physical Consciousness/Awareness currently expressing itself in human form, animal form, insect form, planetary form, alien form; all physical form 👨‍👩‍👧‍👧 🐷🐮🐣🐟🦋👽 👻🤖💕🌎😘

[@redvette2466]

I always wondered if the negative polarity especially of the 5th density are so powerful why do they feel the need to have to enslave anyone? Doesn't true power lie in self-sustainment? At least for the negatively oriented being. So why the constant need to go around and enslaving others? All this shows is that you are dependent forever on someone or something else for purpose. Thank you yet again my brother for a profound message 🙏

[@AaronAbke]

The only means they have to demonstrate their true power and intelligence is by enslaving others. They cannot use their power to be of service to others, or they lose polarity. Eventually the 6th density negative entity gets bored of the power chase, admits defeat, in a sense, and reverses their polarity to the positive.

[@zacharyjackson7584]

In addition to Aaron's answer, the negative polarity is disconnected from reality. It is the path that is not and yet is connected to the whole. You must understand that the negative polarity, unknowing that it is one with and a part of god, tries to become "god" in a sense. Instead of allowing the powers of god to flow through, it tries to "back engineer" god and recreate those powers itself. God's power lies in all and unseeing this and wishing to become god the negative tries to take that power for itself. Thus it tries to "gain god's power" so to speak by taking it from others. These poor and ignorant souls are trying so desperately to gain what they already have if they were on the path of light, to acquire what is already there's, to complete what they already have. Once the negative being's foolish errands of trying to become god has run its course it will concede to the path of light.

[@MurderLake_TTV]

Thank you

[@judydejulio]

When you have narcissistic and sociopaths in your family their is no balance.

[@fritz-creates]

what to do if you have a narcissistic brother who blocks every attempt to resolve conflict and wants to hold on his pain dearly? he’s 12 years older and tormented me heavily as a kid. i tried everything i can to create peace. gonna watch the vid soon, can’t wait!

[@NUNYABIZFLORIDA]

When you left the church where did you start your spiritual journey? Gnostic gospels?

[@whoseagender]

The abuse balance piece just isn’t that simple Az. How often is it NOT the case that you just have one willing abuser and one unwilling victim? Nuances you said. When you’ve got a trauma bonded couple, deeply in love, both sincerely wanting the relationship to work and for the partner to be their best self….but the unconscious programming/triggers etc take over. And the subtleties of the interplay can make it very hard to work out how much ‘staying in it to assist growth’ vs just getting the hell out of there (only to recreate it in the next union)….. I feel like I’ve been working through my karma by staying in relationships with people with trauma (often abusive) because I’ve learned enough to be able to give them some significant help along the way. But the cost to me is enormous. What does Dr Joe say? “BECOME the person you want to be with…..THEN find a mate”