STALKING A 12 YEAR OLD...

[@Sheena000]

Be afraid of strangers not your parents.

[@AllAboutPurple]

EXACTLY

[@monique8682]

Sharina The world is not that straightforward.

[@madamluis2537]

Sharina some parents are not easy to talk to, and they make things worse putting the blame on the child. Speaking from experience 😒

[@Sheena000]

i know that its not but even if you are in the unfortunate situation where you have reason to fear your parents it does not negate that a stranger stalking you should be feared more.

[@Sheena000]

i understand but its better to be blamed and safe than whatever the stalker could do to you. plus if one cannot speak to their parents there is always the authorities or other family members.

[@yousafmohammed7646]

Hana is so lucky to have parents like you guys.

[@user-jc6kh5bk8v]

Yousaf Mohammed so true, they're so understanding and protective.

[@faizahussain6079]

Yousaf Mohammed ikr

[@janinebuksh6486]

Yousaf Mohammed i agree s&d are awesome parents mashalla xx

[@Rabyyush]

I hope you guys email her back to make sure she goes through with reporting/telling someone, its very serious.

[@b.s2511]

burganza bollywood yes we need an update ! I hope she is okay

[@RJAlover222]

burganza bollywood +lllll+

[@curtain2222]

Mama bear and papa bear coming out in Sid & Dina!

[@sehjfjkunknown9917]

The title actually gave me shivers 🤔 There's so many weird people out there. May Allah swt protect us all

[@bellaib3662]

Amen

[@sehjfjkunknown9917]

sa excuse me? Well, tbh so did your ancestors so stfu

[@rubeelajaved8342]

+sa pls go educate yourself

[@nimrajabbar4152]

Saira K Ameen. May Allah swt educate everyone as well.

[@bbgg8175]

Saira K Ameen

[@Mlbruna]

I can totally understand why she's scared of telling her parents about it. Basically girls under this situations many times feel they're going to be blamed for a man chasing them, many of them feel guilty about that and let's be honest we all know culture still blame women for being harassed. Even if it's with a 12 years old girl. And I'm not trying to suggest it's because of her being muslim, I live in Brazil, an opposite culture and it's like this, they always try to make us feel blamed for everything that happens.

[@RumiKhan]

I totally agree, that's exactly what I was thinking when they read out the email and she sounded like she would be in trouble for attracting attention, our society is so twisted, it makes me sick.

[@madamluis2537]

Faatema Tutorials Exactly! it happened to me and I was yelled at as a child by my mom and it made me never open my mouth again and that made the harassment happen over n over again💔

[@RumiKhan]

Madam Luis I'm so sorry you had to go through that 💔

[@gabrieladias6651]

I always tought I was the only Brazilian here! There is never only one of us!

[@haleema919]

Bruna Lack r

[@cisian1]

the fact that kids are more likely to ask for help or advice random people from the internet instead of their own parents is devastating. Muslim parents need to work on their relationship with their kids, base it on emotions and trust rather than fear.

[@cisian1]

to the girl who emailed: Tell your parents and call police or child protection services. this isnt a joke and you cant handle it on your own. think about your safety first and not what some gossip aunties will say.

[@aimansteele]

I ABSOLUTELY AGREE. however you said Muslim parents, i think you mean Asian culture. This has nothing to do with religion. Please get that head educated.

[@cisian1]

sarah michelle i'm muslim and bosnian, and it's not JUST asian parents. it's muslim parents all around the world be it arab, indian, pakistani, bosnian, turkish or what ever most of them have same views and out dated thinking on how to raise kids. there's too much taboos and it needs to be fixed. culture is heavily influenced by religion and vice versa. get you ass educated, felicia!

[@PotatoChipse]

I'm asian i'm too scared too tell my parents about my Bosnian lover because of culture clash i just have to keep it a secret for now because i know it's not worth hurting them. I hope to marry him one day in the future though.

[@maliika]

When I was 10 I had a similar situation. After Islamic School on the weekend, there were men who had vans who would transport students back to their home for a fee. Usually, you'd get into the car with people who lived in a similar area as you. Then my designated driver started putting me in the front seat with a group of kids who lived in another neighbourhood, so I'd be the last one in the car each time alone with him for some time each time. He'd make small talk with me, and I knew something didn't feel right. Wallahi I was terrified of telling my parents because I thought they'd be upset with me for allowing myself to be in that situation, or even for not telling them earlier, or them just calling me irresponsible with gender interactions. I was so scared of telling them .. but when I did, they didn't show an ounce of anger. They got upset with themselves for not knowing earlier and made another arrangement for me to get home safely. Please don't be afraid of telling your parents! They will appreciate you feeling comfortable enough to come to them!

[@abidabegum4836]

"Tell all the parents" - you can see the genuine parental fear and worry oh my; I hope this girl does stay safe

[@haleemaakram3015]

or she can tell the school to help her.. they can prevent him coming near the school

[@sharafamohammed7631]

haleema akram the predator will still stalk her in other places tho

[@BanaBerri]

a huge part of the problem is that he actually lives near her, though

[@aseeshera5998]

Sharafa Mohammed Imdadullah But the school will let parents, police aware of this happening.

[@ShakirahIbaad]

If he arrested, he'll be in prison and won't live near her any more

[@farhattoqueer6730]

call the police if you don't want them telling your parents I'm sure they won't tell them

[@dominiquepowell-saidykhan2916]

I'm having a hard time with hearing all the victims of these numerous videos saying they're afraid to speak to their parents... It's very disturbing that they have such a relationship with the first people that should be protecting them and making them feel secure in that relationship. The first time, her parents should have been told. For her to not feel comfortable, makes me very concerned for her.

[@Aleynaellah]

Dominique Powell-Saidykhan What's wrong with those Parents??? I don't understand that. It's her own child. So weird👎👎👎

[@ABirdOnTheMoon]

Some parents don't show love but control and require fear. Real parents are a bless. I can confirm, we all have come to earth the same way but we are not all have the bless of a caring loving parents. Some parents don't nurture nor care for their children. Very sad reality and surprisingly, dysfunctional homes are the majority. We did a study as a part of a health care campaign and the children we talked to where school 8 to 10th graders .. Most of them feel they can't be honest to their parents and while a third will tell a sibling, two-third were speaking to people online about it either friends or strangers. All of them know how to erase evidence and make sure no one know of their problems and a few of them practice cutting in certain areas that are not visible to eyes; like the thigh! O_O I felt terrified because they told me they read of this online and they were 12 of the 200+ kids but still .. 12 kids who had access to this material! :(

[@Ayanaskitchen]

I agree

[@anisahali9150]

Just need to point out that if you are alone or your friends are not with you, I would highly suggest that you go back into your school and tell a teacher immediately. Don't leave the school until a member of staff is with you. It's their duty to keep you safe and I promise it will help you. Just don't walk home alone. These things really piss me off. It may sound dramatic but you really don't know what this person is capable of doing! Better safe than sorry mate!

[@anisahali9150]

That's actually pissed me off now

[@aliyasamara298]

I hate talking about this topic because it is scary and can cause alot of anxiety.but this happens alot in different parts of the UK because your hear alot of stories of vans parked near by a flat or a car that is parked near by and there Is just weird people sitting in it and that makes kids less eager wanting to go outside. May God protect us all

[@nabilaxu]

If she's too afraid to tell her parents then definitely tell a member of staff from her school if it happens to her walking on the way back from school. They can ensure the site outside is clear. the school can notify other parents too for the safety of other children

[@rosykhan590]

The fact a grown man is asking for a 12 year olds number is extremely concerning. I was once in a similar position and I too was very scared to tell anyone. I know how difficult is can be to speak about something like this, especially at that age. People like that need to be taken seriously because they are capable of hurting you. Do not not speak to him or respond to him if he approaches you. Please note child grooming exists and he may be trying to befriend you so that he can take advantage. It appears to me for the past year he has been trying to gain your trust and also clearly attempting to get your number every chance he gets. I can't advice you enough to please tell a grown up, even if it is your teachers They can and will help you. People like that don't stop until they are stopped. Do not feel scared or ashamed, you have done nothing wrong. My prayers are with you!

[@abdullahalsbay14]

rosy khan 👍🏻

[@yaseen385]

When I was in year 7, I was walking home with two friends, 3 older guys (from probably year 11) from a different school followed us and asked if we have phoned, we said no, one of the guys grabbed me and tried pulling me into an alley so they can search me even though we were on a very busy road, not a single person bothered to help, apart from a lady who was talking on the phone, all she said was let him go and that was it

[@zozo1288]

Yaseen Hussain that's scary tbh and that lady should have acc helped tbh I would be soooooo scared

[@umelkayeryusuf496]

OML that's ridiculous! 😾

[@siminluta4968]

Yaseen Hussain omg that's scary

[@youtubelife1577]

What happened after that?

[@naziashaheen6907]

Yaseen Hussain yup we have ppl who don't bother but you never know someone may come for help. It's still safer on a busy road than dead streets

[@Sab.86]

This made me soo emotional as a mother and as a daughter.. I feel soo sorry for this girl. AND SISTER PLEASE GET HELP!! Phone the police as soon as possible!!!!!!!!

[@Sab.86]

It's not like you asked to be followed.. and don't talk to him again...

[@kainatxkay]

People are calling this fake...? Are you kidding? This shit happens A LOT. It's not even an unbelievably crazy story. It's a serious and completely realistic thing. What the heck. Open your eyes people...

[@user-oo9mb8kk8x]

Kainat Qurashi You tell 'em girl!I mean Kainat is right cuz some stupidass people think none of this stuff happens in the world.Well too bad honey-it does happen!!

[@jonnywest1978]

Kainat Qurashi even if it is fake then it's still beneficial

[@RumiKhan]

KIDS PLEASE TALK TO YOUR PARENTS! PARENTS PLEASE TALK TO YOUR KIDS! A lack of communication can do so much harm, and more times than not situations can be extinguished simply by communicating. I can understand the fears this 12 yo has in talking to her parents, as muslim parents we are terrible with communicating and understanding our children, we have to make sure if our child is ever in a problem they will never think twice in telling us, we need to reassure and connect with our children on the level. And to those children who have parents who do their absolute best in connecting with them, please trust your parents and don't hide anything from them. They want nothing but the best for you. I really do hope Sid and Dina write back to the 12 yo and tell her to contact the police because this is a really serious matter and shouldn't just be left to chance if and when the 12 yo sees this. Stay safe everyone xo

[@Bbb82744]

WHOEVER YOU ARE PLEASE TAKE SID AND DINAS ADVICE SERIOUSLY. THIS MAN IS A THREAT TO NOT JUST YOU BUT OTHERS AS WELL!!!!!

[@neelamakram4534]

i was stalked this morning on the way to uni and i am 10 years older than you, first thing i did was tell my mum. It doesn't make you childish to tell your parents. Obviously after watching this video, you should be scared, tell your mum or an older sibling and call 999. I'm sorry but calling 101 makes it come across less serious and considering he has been after you for SO long, i think it is pretty serious. Be a strong young woman and don't be afraid to ask help... May Allah protect you. Ameen.

[@TheBonhamcarter]

thank you for being sane, normal people with good intentions, it's such an important thing you are doing.

[@thechezzagirl]

Telling this girl to call the police like it's so simple is not good advice. Firstly, if you call 999, the police may not take a case like that seriously because it's not an emergency. Maybe educate her further on alternative lines like 101. It's tricky to charge someone without any sort of evidence so the police legally may not be able to take immediate action and her stalker seeing this might get triggered, putting the girl in danger, especially if he is mentally unstable! I think in this particular video you should advise the girl on how to go about asking for help. I love Sid and Dina, but some of the emails they get, if legit, are pretty serious and I just feel like their advice sometimes in general could be dangerous as they're inexperienced in giving advice. Ugh no hate just my opinion that I've been wanting to mention for quite some time but thought it wasn't important

[@KS-nf6sb]

unfxir nbhd I don't live in the UK but in the States if a 12 year old calls the police and tells them there's a man following them everyday, the police will definitely take it seriously. They'll be at her door in 15 min to at least investigate and see if there's an actual threat. So I think calling the police is totally reasonable.

[@Sarah-qp7bt]

unfxir nbhd most likely they would do something as it is about a 12 year old girl... it is good advice also cos that's a safer option.

[@LDZeeTV]

unfxir nbhd exactly my thoughts

[@thechezzagirl]

I'm glad that you have that kind of security but I don't feel like that here, especially in London. This stalker could well be a dangerous man, so I could only hope that calling the police would scare him away, but it could do the complete opposite, you can never know! Also how can we know that it'll sit well with her parents, calling the police to her home because some KZbinrs told her to. I'm not saying she shouldn't do that, but seeing as though this girl values the opinion of Sid and Dina while she feels she cannot speak to her parents, they should encourage her to confide in them, rather than dealing with this situation independently.

[@__sababakhair]

Police would more than likely be able to direct her in the right way on who the appropriate authority is, even if she doesn't have an emergency on hand. So I definitely think it's good advice.

[@SuperNerd707]

I can totally understand the perspective of the 12 year old. As someone who has experienced abuse as a kid for years( and I didn't feel my parents were good 'listening' ears and were always dismissive of me), I would also suggest telling a teacher at school too. They might help. Might help re-enforce safe behaviours for the whole school so no one else gets hurt.

[@fae4652]

Sid and Dina every time you guys upload I love watching the great advice you give it really helps and gives such confidence, love you guys!

[@aliayasseen5830]

good advice guys . the same thing happened to me when I was like 14 it was so scary he was older man foreign and he used to follow me whilst shopping in town and once followed me home. it was sickening. I was too young at the time to know what to do . I just ignored him and ran off home. not a good experience. luckily one day he disappeared. I really wish I had reported him . my advice would be please report these people.

[@fatimabegum1149]

I remember an incident happened last year summer in my local park, a couple with their young child were sitting in the park and their 4yr old daughter was running around playing when out of nowhere a man came and picked up the little girl and started running off with her in front of the parents and a park full of people, luckily he didn't get to far as people stopped him and gave him a right beating and then handed him over to the police. Just goes to show how desperate pedophiles can be, if they can do something like this in a public place full of people imagine what they can do if they find a child alone in a quite place with no one around. If any child is reading this or watching the video please take Sid and Dina's advice and tell your parents, teacher the police or any adult that you can trust. Stay safe.

[@jahmed8963]

This is so real and told in such a manner someone of any age would appreciate the advice you give. Thank you and stay safe out there everyone!

[@tunerof430]

The most frustrating part is I hope she's watching, and I really hope she understands the seriousness of this situation.

[@ishqnoor]

Tell your teacher at school, if she doesn't call the police and sort it out after a few days, then call the police. This man is dangerous sweet heart, so please don't leave this alone.

[@ishqnoor]

Stalkers often become physically violent, they escalate quickly and unpredictably. Most rapes, assaults and kidnapping is done by people you know, not a stranger you've never seen before. Do not ignore this, tell your teacher and wait no more than 2-3 days, then call the police.

[@gr8teagazr122]

I've never seen you guys so serious- great advice too. If I may add anything it may be that one of the reasons that creeps like that are so bold is because their prey tends to be too polite when just the opposite is called for. What I mean by that is that not only is she to take busy routes with a friend, but if she is approached she needs to get loud with him as she uses those legs. The last thing creeps like that want is to be put on blast in public. He'd get away from her real quick! At the end of the day- she does need to tell adults- parents and/or the police. Sometimes the police can be a go-between with her parents too. They can act as a buffer with her parents. I mention this as a trained victim services advocate in Cali.

[@GlenGiGi]

To the little girl who wrote this e-mail, if you're reading this, please please please tell someone at school if you are afraid to tell your parents. There is help out there so please be courageous and reach out. At the end of the day, your parents will be on your side. Please stay safe.

[@mashael2243]

The real problem is when your parents don't believe you or just ignore you , I know a girl who was harassed by a relative and when she told her mother she said you're exaggerating even though at that time she was 13 y.o ?? And it wasn't just one time he tried doing things to her but when she saw that her mother didn't do anything to protect her she couldn't do anything else except avoiding meeting him /:

[@tnaz9258]

I understand why she's scared to tell her parents, some asian parents (Pakistani/ Bangladeshi ) are not very open with there kids and don't talk about important issues and the person following her could be a well known local man who is respected in the community and she could be scared she won't be believed as local aunties love a good gossip and parents are afraid of shame on there families. If this is the case she should speak to a teacher preferably who's asian so they can have a word with her parents or maybe a local youth worker or trustworthy neighbour/relative. Inshallah this girl remains safe and her problem is sorted out

[@maria_7888]

T Naz sooo trueeee

[@mattiea871]

EXACTLY! I hate when people say oh I don’t understand why you can’t tell your parents like you clearly don’t get it

[@NuraM444]

to the girl who sent this email, don't ring 999, ring the non emergency line to ring the police which is 101 (this is if she is in the UK) x

[@SimplyKemee]

fff fff are you just trying to wind people up here?

[@NuraM444]

no? looool i'm being fully serious. they told her to call the police but in this instance it's best to ring 101 rather than 999, as it's a non emergency and the police will still come and sort it out.

[@StayHuman2011]

Simply Kemee She is right. 999 is for emergency's. This is a serious case NOT an emergency. If your baby suddenly stops breathing, that would be considered an emergency. 101 is for serious calls but not emergency's. Ringing 999 could be a matter of life and death for some one else. Bear that in mind.

[@NuraM444]

fair enough but it's not a case of which one is more "serious", both can be called for serious cases but one if for more urgent emergencies. if she is ringing from the safe space of her home then it is not needed to be a 999 call basically. the 101 phone number means she can then report him and they can deal with her report.

[@StayHuman2011]

I've already explained the harm to you. Whilst your call is being dealt with some else could be ringing because their baby is having difficulty in breathing, or in the case of domestic violence, he could have gone to fetch a knife. Seconds is all these people have. Seconds. It is no exaggeration to say it is a matter of life and death. The scenario the girl has described to Dina is 101. The police will come to her house and take a statement and then pay him a visit and take his statement.They are still taking it seriously, they will still follow the set legal procedures. It would only be a 999 emergency if he started breaking into her house. Anyway you have reinforced my view that you live in a dumb ass country. So if you have a minor accident, where no one is hurt you ring 911 and if you have been stabbed and bleeding to death you still ring 911.

[@chrzrd.]

You guys are the parents of KZbin

[@aynurr694]

just as they said. no matter where you live and think it's a different position for sid n dina. No no and no get help from adults. especially your parents! even if they get pissed at least youre safe and they'll get over you, because in the end they want your safety.

[@meera9061]

i love how Dina just went 'tell all the parents!' 😂💕

[@kczi5316]

I wish you guys had been around making these videos when I was 10-16 years old, oh man, what I could've avoided experiencing. If you're young please listen to them, you really aren't as clever as you may think you are, people can be unpredictable and have no shame, no self control, no limits.

[@dicuteness7027]

I need an update video of this. I hope that she spoke to her parents. I know that parents can be scary but if your father sees the fear in your eyes about a grown man following you they will listen to you.

[@Zahraa786123]

this entire video was helpful with my university module about children's rights. Young children get exploited all the time because they are vulnerable. My advice would be for the girl is to tell your parents no matter how hard it is. i hope things get better for you soon

[@Sarah-qp7bt]

If you're reading this, like Dina said, tell your mum or dad trust me you'll be relieved and will feel like you did a good thing by telling ur parents , otherwise it would get a lot worse and god forbid something bad happens you will regret not doing something ... you need to do something now! May allah protect you and insha allah everything will be ok🙏🏻

[@CleoJin]

thanks for speaking about this topic!! I remember when I was 16 and everybody in class hated me cause I told the teachers that some kids bring alcohol to school and they tried to make me the bad one, but they didnt want to realize that it destroyed them...10 years later I am still not regretting that cause I am always confident in work to say the truth and still some are hating me for that but other people do not have the confidence for that and respecting me for my boldness.

[@chaimajalili6514]

For parents reading this, please make sure you're close enough to your kids for u to be the FIRST ones they run to when such things happen. Sid&Dina said it, it ain't a joke! these things happen every single day!

[@lo3203]

Listen Lovely, and anyone else who is in this situation, or is vulnerable to being so, Sid and Dina's advises here are spot on, but if the guy (or any suspicious guy) ever confronts you face-to-face again or is close to doing so, then one thing I learned from a short self-defence course is to keep your head up, carry yourself confidently like you can both defend and handle yourself and be loud and clear (as Sid said). One of the things I was advised to do by my teacher is if someone ever followed me, turn around swiftly towards them and yell "Excuse me, are you following me?!" It'll catch them off guard, and attract public attention. Catching them off guard is key, even when physically defending yourself. If someone ever tries to abduct you, or even simply tries to attack you, it is also completely okay to pee yourself or whatever. That might even gross them out. Go into survival mode, it's okay. Try and find self-defence classes around where you live too, it's especially important for girls to learn self-defence. Try and hinder their vision, and get them off balance, but don't hinder your own balance in the process. Don't be afraid to yell and growl! Also, personally, you should tell people you're closest to where you're going whenever you're out (i.e. your parents), but avoid doing it on social media. Call them when you reach where you're going. Give them an estimate of when you would get to and from your destination. Look up apps that might help other people find your phone, or give off loud sounds in emergencies etc. like "find my phone app" (a lot of the times these apps only work if you have data, unfortunately). And hence, keep your phone fully charged if possible. In Shaa Allah, everything will be fine. Have the courage to tell people, and also to stand up for yourself. Stay safe. And be careful. I really hope this was helpful.

[@SmileyCentral123]

Gave me goosebumps, I swear. Ya Rabb. I'm so so glad you two made this video.

[@asimonna1]

I've heard way too many children/teens saying that they are afraid to talk to their parents. How can they not listen to you when you need them the most??? This is a major lesson for future parents/new parents. BE YOUR CHILD'S BEST FRIEND not enemy. Let your child know that they can trust you and count on you in any situation and be open about everything. I'm not even a parent but this got to me really bad

[@thebloomingbookshelf2683]

This video is such an eye opener to young people and probably one of the best videos yet!!

[@pinkkstarlight.3314]

I hope you guys know that your are huge inspirations and young/old people look up to you! Alhamdulliah you guys spread islam in a positive way and that is how the world should see it. Just a reminder that you guys are great parents not only to hannah but to your young followers also!

[@AntoniaBeese]

I feel like a really important lesson for children, especially girls and even women is that you do not have to be nice and polite to everybody. If someone is making you uncomfortable, you are perfectly fine if you tell some stranger to pop off. If someone is harassing you, you don't need to smile and be nice about it, you are allowed to tell them to leave you alone. If someone touches you in any way at all, you shout your damn head off and cuss them out and let everybody know what they just did. Don't be ashamed or think about not wanting to emberass anyone. Your safety and wellbeing is and will ALWAYS be more important than etiquette or someone else's ego.

[@burcucetin2479]

i think you should contact the girl with email to call the police this week and then send you an email to make you know she called the police. If not you should call the police sid and dina and give the girls email adres to the police. Thanks for your great advice.

[@aqsa393]

wohoo 00 great idea personally thinking:) but police can't do much with the email address :/

[@murty5344]

emraan hashmi I'm pretty sure they can use IP address and all that. I may be wrong idk

[@burcucetin2479]

Muhammad Ali Yea i hope so. But now i am not sure if tue police would take sid and dina serious, since they arent directly involved in the Situation.. the email could be fake and it would cost the police investigation money for nothing.. well, i live in germany and that is how german police acts :/ The 12 year old girl if you are reading this honey tell your patents and call the police it is the best solution!

[@notusinganymore6024]

3 advice videos in a row, were truely blessed😌✨😂👏🏽

[@brownsugar5974]

Ya Allah...May Allah protect her ❤ Besides telling her parents nd stuff always read ur azkar 💓 استودعتك الله الذي لا تضيع ودائعه

[@genesisaguilar3583]

Dina is queen, fact

[@Nuriyya91]

You guys are so true. I had a friend in primary school. I think the was about 9. She always catched the subway to go to school. One day a man was sitting right next to her and touched her between her legs. She always sat in the back with her school bag on her lap, so nobody noticed it. She was too afraid and too shoked to shout at him, so after about 5min she couldn't handle it anymore and told him she has to go out know. So she left the subway and waited for the next one. She told me in school what had happened and I told her to tell her parents too. It is so important to tell kids to SHOUT THE HELL OUTif they feel unsave. It was so sad a young girl was abused in a train full of people and nobody noticed it = C

[@nataliehomer9549]

I love you guys for this

[@lailar8907]

Absolutely agree with this advice! It seems like sid and Dina were ready to beat the stalker up! 😂

[@Zee-s9q]

Omg this scares me like when i was little i am happy that my parents took me to school every time and this was the exact reason why my parents didn't let me go alone this happened then too, and these things happening a lot now a days too.. Don't wait for something to happen.. Just call the police they will help you don't be afraid, its for your own good..

[@SonaKhan93]

To the young girl who wrote this email, please please please speak to your parents. I know it's scary but Sid and Dina are right, your parents may get shouty but it's only because things like this are scary for them too. At the end of the day, that's your mum and your dad, they love and care about you and will take care of it. If you are still scared to just go straight up to them then speak to an older sibling/cousin. Speak to a teacher at your school. I'm happy to hear your friends walk you home and if those friends are reading this, or friends of anyone else in a similar situation, take Sid and Dina's advice, tell your parents, tell your friends parents. I pray Allah keeps you safe. Please follow up and let us know you are ok xx

[@waywardson292]

please don't stop making these! love it

[@naziashaheen6907]

Thank you sid and Dina!!! A very helpful video for all the kids out there x

[@maysashanell8430]

Sid is so cute and serious haha when Dina was talking in the beginning his concern was so real hehe

[@pgroh224]

Thanks Sid n Dina for sharing this important and scary topic. Stay safe to all.

[@sarah_kt7582]

Loving these regular video advice

[@ilminiaessentials6335]

Good job Sid and Dina ! Normally I don't command on your video's not because I don't think your advise is good, because it really is, but this time I felt the need to let you guys know what a good job you did on this one 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[@jallevee1738]

Great job sid n dina! good words of advice n encouragement! !! SAFETY FIRST! !!

[@hheebbaa1993]

I know Sid n Dina just want to help, but I think it is quite dangerous to advise a 12 year old what to do in this specific complicated and dangerous situation. What if this child listens to Dina's advice and tells the man "I already called the police, leave me alone" and this man feels threatened and takes her? I hope this child finds true guidance and can live happily. May Allah help whoever is in need for help.

[@aqsa393]

hheebbaa1993 that's what I was thinking but hope Insh'Allah everything goes well soon and that he may just stop however if she finds it hard then she shouldn't go anywhere alone if u go out and about with the same person they might pick up the fact that the "stalker" is following them so they themselves would tell the stalker to back off if not inform the police just DO NOT BE ALONE!!!!

[@mageillus]

hheebbaa1993 she could you know ... not tell the stalker ?!?! Why would she tell him ? Surprise attack that b**ch

[@sarasiddiqui3879]

hheebbaa1993 so what do you suggest. I mean if she tells her parents and they happen to go off on him and he's crazy and hurts them then what? a man who is stalking a young child is sick in the head and the cops NEED to handle this creep

[@hheebbaa1993]

Sara siddiqui If I were the child, and I was afraid to tell my parents or the police, I would have told the principal at my school. Perhaps they can handle the situation confidentially without putting the child at risk. It is indeed a tricky situation this child is in, but hopefully there is a solution.

[@koolgal103]

I know that when someone is going to be crazy, you can't help anyone, but if the predator is being logical, telling them you've called the police (whether you have or haven't) might scare them away. Like would they be more likely to snatch you up knowing you haven't told anyone about them and people will never associate them with the crime, or if they think the police already have their description, etc. I might not jump in with the police card early in every situation, but if I really sense impending doom, I'd say it as a last resort

[@tannaz1262]

"Tell all the parents" best line! Re watching and learning 😌

[@mrshajjar]

Thanks for replying to her email, I'm a mother to 3 girls and this is the scariest nightmare of my life! I honestly hope she listens to you and takes your advice and be brave about it, Mighty Allah please protect her and all the girls of the world.

[@SurayaSharin]

First of all, if you don't want to tell your parents, then find someone else in your family who you trust that can help you or help your parents understand what's happening. Tell a teacher at school who can make sure this guy doesn't go near any other students. You have to call the police, at least they can sort the situation out and if not, get a restraining order. If he approaches you, don't talk to him, because he can easily make it seem like you are engaging in a friendly manner so if worst comes to worst, he can't switch it on you and make it seem like you indicated that you 'liked' him. Be safe and caution and if he's following you, and you're alone, call someone whilst you're walking and let them know where you are, just in case something happens- I call my mum all the time, if I think someone is following me or getting to close, like they're trying to rob me. REMEMBER, YOUR PARENTS WANT YOU SAFE.

[@solitairesmith3553]

very GOOD ADVICE! !! IM SO GLAD THAT YOU 2 ADDRESS THESE SITUATIONS.

[@mkhennaxx8482]

love these daily videos. bless both of you In sha allah😭😍

[@cheekykitten25]

If you find it hard to speak to your parents, leave them a note, Text, tell a friend to, a sibling, a cousin or aunty etc. Trust me, as a parent there's nothing worse than not knowing if my daughter is in any kind of danger. I would want to be the first one to know. May Allah protect you.

[@cocodiva893]

You 2 are such cool parents!!! Hannah is so lucky and love your advice

[@Nazihabz000]

I had similar experience as this 12 year old (26years ago and i remember it very clearly) i was 13 years old that man was harassing me everyday on my way to school or home,as a teenager i thought i can handle it by myself without telling anybody but it got worse, he was trying to grab my bag or my hair when no one was around it got to scary for me to hide from my parents.I found a courage to tell my dad about him and he took the matter in his hands he called the police From that day i haven't heard about that douche bag never again

[@purplecarrot7809]

I like how they are just straightforward. Simple.

[@simplyart24]

This is a very serious issue and it needs to be handled right away. There are sickos out there and he needs to be dealt with or brought to attention.

[@annnaeko1244]

To the girl that sent this question! Please tell your parents! Do it right now! I was 11 and in the same situation i was scared but only later you realise it was never your fault and when i told my parents years later they seemed so angry at themselves that i didnt trust them! Your mom dad love you! Go and tell them right away, tell your such school, tell a teacher who can tell your parents!!!! Tell another grown up maybe an older cousin or an aunty who can tell your parents for u but either way tell your parents!!!!!

[@meetthevloggerssnapchats3141]

This video was a real eye opener.That alley way comment by sid really got me 😮😮😮😯 I'm definitely changing my route home now Hahaha.

[@rifasul8247]

Also, abusers are often people who we are close to / related to. I think many girls who go to their ancestors country and get molested can relate to this. It is so difficult to tell your parents if it happens due to victim blaming and shame etc. Please aim to stay away from secluded situations with people you barely know. And parents, if you're planning to take a holiday with your kids, talk to them about their safety x

[@incognitoincognito7500]

I think Sid and Dina should of informed the police straight away about this email, so they could track down and help the kid

[@mayraali6831]

this is such great advice Sid and Dina

[@naasiraamin3241]

Please find out in a few weeks if she is ok and it is sorted? I will be worried about her, people are dangerous and it's better to be safe than sorry xxx

[@naziahussain6671]

i love how we are all here for her :) like one big family ayyy

[@hannak2112]

she needs to tell someone ASAP to help her get action. He could seriously harm her if she keeps letting him do that.

[@imogenthegr8145]

Telling parents really isn't that simple. You can't understand it until your put in that situation

[@e.a3968]

Poor girl. Hope she gets the help she needs. Parents really need to be more understanding. If a girl is too scared to even mention a man is following her to one of her parents then something is seriously wrong. Parents are to blame here to be honest. They can't just water, feed and dress their kids and think 'that's it job done' they need to be consistently in their kids business, what they do after school? Who they hang out with? Do they have stresses and worries etc something needs to change in society, especially Muslim minority cultures and their attitudes towards men women and children. Inshallah the girl stays safe.

[@mirwamahmood396]

You should tell your parents nd then let them deal with this, its a cruel world don't let anyone put you in a source of danger Xx

[@chloe8480]

I 100% understand her being scared to tell her parents. If it was me, I know my parents aren't strict but it's just facing the issue and confronting the man and dealing with the aftermath that's terrifying. I can only imagine how scary it is to even bring this issue up to parents, regardless of how strict they are. It's just the fact that you're suddenly throwing this at them

[@silviana105]

love you guys! honestly you guys are not crazy you guys speak truth

[@Nomad314]

You guys should do your ancestry DNA & film getting the results 😍

[@hirasaeed2220]

Love there advices that they give💕💕💕.. it actually helps.. may Allah reward you☺❤❤❤

[@sameerafaizy1282]

I love how concerned they are 😭❤❤

[@unknown-ot6ce]

Hun if you don't tell anyone about this it could be really serious and if you don't it could get out of hands. If you don't wanna tell your family try telling your siblings or any other family member. Don't leave this last minute problem. Good luck 😉

[@IAFoodReviews]

All this is great help for her. Also, parents needs to talk to their kids about these things that happen, what they should do & etc.

[@fatimxh]

Dina sounds like the sweetest mum EVAAA💖💖💖💖

[@noori1992]

I had a similar situation to this when i was younger, he would wait for me after school, it got to the point where my friends would have to walk home with me and then get the bus back to theirs, after maybe a month we confronted him and told him we would call the police, and he never showed his face again!

[@m.a.l5874]

once a guy added on facebook, and typed to me that he wanted to know me . I just blocked him. a few months later he came to me and asked about my number while i was eating with my friend at burger king. i kept telling' him to leave, my friends tried to in english, cuz she is a foreigner and she can only speak English" in the end I said it louder then some guys came and told him to leave me alone. while he left, he said " I Will find, I will find u" srsly I was so scared. I couldn't go home alone for months. I don't expect u to read this ´. but girl don't be afraid to call the police and tell them. I was stupid to not do so:/ Just listen to dina and sid. :))

[@maryamalisiddiqui2758]

I'm a muslim from pakistan,and i love sid and dina. You guys absolutely rock.

[@tarabee3350]

I don't know why but as children, there is this fear that it's your fault when something bad happens and you get scared of getting in trouble or causing drama. If you are feeling like this please DON'T. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT! Your parents love you no matter what and will always stick up for you. They will fully support you and believe you. Trust me :)