STAN WEEK #2 HAPPY BIRTHDAY Eminem - Headlights • REACTION!

[@LFRFAMILY]

*I think this is probably the most Mature I’ve heard from Eminem. Of course you guys know of more “Mature” songs, but this was the one for me. What do you think!?* Also, THANK YOU FOR WATCHING!! 🖤❤️🖤❤️

[@munyaradzitmoyo7035]

It was great, I've listened to it a couple of times, he came as Marshall for this one, please react to Arose, it's also a good song

[@munyaradzitmoyo7035]

Your story is touching man, i hope you call her and talk things through, Thank you for this reaction, it's mych appreciated.

[@ryanettel6701]

Love ya Van. God bless you and yours.

[@11amanda2011]

Van you've made me cry 😢 great reaction, you're the best ❤

[@hoopsfreak5]

Thanks for getting to this one!!

[@samstacey2829]

I didn't talk to my mom for over a decade. I heard this song, stopped everything I was doing and called my mom. She passed away at the first of this year. I love you mom

[@blinkgames4385]

I’m so sorry to hear that.. please don’t have a negative thought about it throughout your year, be a good person

[@Richard__Cranium]

❤🙏

[@cr-nd8qh]

Yeah I just talked to my mom for the first time in like ten years. We never got along I guess I was just a bad kid my whole life is fukked

[@mostblunted_211]

@@cr-nd8qh your not a bad kid bro we got dealt shitty cards in life. We are who we are is in the lyrics as long as you can acknowledge it you can make shit change but if it’s not possible to repair relationships just make it better for the next person you love

[@agape843]

I’m so glad you did.

[@ToneLone69]

He released this on Mother’s Day, “I gotta call my mother now” ran through everyone’s mind

[@p1mmyt0w3ll]

no life shaq?

[@hrsh.6556]

He didnt release this on mothers day btw

[@hrsh.6556]

Released February 5, 2014

[@jzrit580]

@@hrsh.6556 Every day can be Mother's day so I think it's okay. Worth it nonetheless

[@onbored9627]

thank you for reacting to the full song and not just the "Music Video" like a lot of other youtubers. the full song really captures it all. Especially the end by Nate Ruess it really, really brings it all to a perfect conclusion.

[@ethanlafontaine2055]

Forsure

[@coreyrees840]

Seriously man, I know music is all about preference and personal taste, but if someone says Em is trash or doesn’t give him the kinda credit he deserves, I usually assume they haven’t heard much of his catalog. Once you sit and actually go through it piece by piece as you guys do here on KZbin, how can you deny this mans talent?

[@shuaibshadyy1633]

Talk yo faxs💯

[@rwarren6849]

You couldn't have it better facts

[@tutukz6250]

Because they hate em. Haters always gonna hate and blinded by facts

[@badgerfan3328]

It’s usually a sign of an unintelligent personal lol

[@CadillacJak]

Exactly

[@I_Stay_4_SKZ]

This song makes me cry every time

[@mariavaughn1163]

Me too

[@iulia.bianca.b]

I had to listen to this song maybe 50 times before being able to hear it without crying. Ugly crying, bawling my eyes out. Shit. It's a really bittersweet song.

[@I_Stay_4_SKZ]

@@iulia.bianca.b Understandable! I’ve had a rocky relationship with my ma & this year we’ve gotten closer bc she was diagnosed with Breast Cancer in Feb & it’s been hard trying to fix fucked up relationship issues without actually acknowledging them right now. 🤷🏼‍♀️ idk but at least were on good terms for the time being

[@shuaibshadyy1633]

I feel uu>_

[@mywetnoodle]

Me too hun. My mom and I have been through a lot and myself and my children have as well

[@hollysalatino8950]

He adopted Nate as soon as he was able. He is a good man.

[@huro1845]

He got custody of Nathan. He didn't adopt him. He's his brother.

[@hollysalatino8950]

@@huro1845 became his guardian to be more accurate.

[@Tigeraxgg]

He also adopted aliana. Em is a great man.

[@dudesonismyhero]

@@Tigeraxgg Alaina* And don’t forget about Whitney

[@Tigeraxgg]

@@dudesonismyhero don't be that guy.

[@p1mmyt0w3ll]

one of my favourite Eminem songs of all time.

[@jaaptendijk7192]

Em made another song apologizing to Kim on "Bad Husband" and to D12 on "Stepping stone"

[@bigcraiggles9838]

Bad husband is gnarly gets nevin the feels

[@jaydove7478]

This song hits me hard my mom isn’t around she is heavy and reliant on pills so sometimes I cry to it thinking she will change. Me and my dad are closer than me and my mom which I kinda hate. But today is not my day it’s Eminem’s day. Happy B-Day to an icon that has inspired me to work hard to be a musician. Thanks Em. 🙏🏼

[@bsbznumber1fan]

Yep i know how you feel all my life alcohol was more important than me the bar and guys were and still are more important than me. She even said i was a mistake to my face that hurts and haunts me till this day. So this song hits me hard too. I'm in tears as i listen to this. And my dad left when i was 4 he used to beat my mom and cheat on her all the time. I haven't spoken to my mom in years i tried a few times but she just doesn't give 2 shits about me so i said I'm done trying.

[@jaydove7478]

Winchester girl I had the same thing but I stood strong and I’m living my life. I’m sorry that happened to you and just know that you’re worth it. You are enough. 🖤

[@jaydove7478]

CoDGplays yeah I know and I will always have a love/hate feeling for her. Plus my dads married now and I call her my mom because I have no one else there as a mother figure.

[@cbtowers4841]

This gives you a glimpse of how the Stans are born. Eminem is an open book. He shows you exactly who he is and we got to see him grow through his music. It’s not the same blind hero worship some have for some other celebrities (although there may be some of them in the ranks I don’t know) but it’s about him showing us who followed his career all this time how he has evolved. He took us along with him on his journey, through his lyrics, interviews, videos. That’s how we can shut down haters with such a sense of authority hahaha. 🤣

[@113Branty]

Much love buddy. i gather you had a rough childhood. from what i seen of youre family on youtube, you've done a great job. Got so much respect for you, you've raised two amazing kids there.

[@jjpvp361]

This whole song was actually a letter to His mum I mean a literal envelope

[@ashleystewart2857]

I think the fact that he bled on revival and everyone trashed it was part of the reason he got so mad as a fan I think revival was his most heartfelt album and I enjoyed the insight into his mind and how he feels now

[@jeffbrown8117]

Definitely. People wanted REAL because “Em doesn’t say anything meaningful blah blah” and then when he does, they trash it. Fuck them.

[@mzlynzy]

Thank you for being your authentic self. It shines beautifully!

[@herrzimm]

The maturity of Em as both a rapper and a person. Cleaning Out My Closet: Still to this day one of the tracks that a lot of people see as Em's most "personal" track. It really touched the root of his anger in his family, his life AND in himself. It was a rapper going "behind the curtain" and showing the man behind the mic as a human being, not as just an entertainer. And it is one where you can hear that "anger of youth" in him. Not just by what he said, but HOW he said it in regards to the inflection of his voice and intensity. It clearly showed that he had a large amount of "built up frustration" inside of him about a ton of issues that weren't properly dealt with at the time they happened NOR as time passed. Headlights: Again, one of the tracks that a lot of people see as Em's most "personal" track to day. Yet, this time, instead of the "anger of youth" it is the "regret of maturity". Not entirely regretting what was said WHEN it was said, meaning he doesn't regret doing Cleaning out My Closet AT THE TIME HE DID IT. But he DOES regret the impact that song had on him, again, both as a person and an entertainer. It was a big song in his career at the time, and night after night he would have to go out on stage and sing the song, constantly drumming up the same feelings inside of him to do so. And yet, as time moved on and different songs entered the rotation at his concerts, he was able to put that anger aside and realize that there is more to life than just anger of youth. And now, as he looks back on things, he truly regrets that his relationship with his mother wasn't as close as it could, should or would, have been if they were able to address the underlying issues between the two of them. Now, he knows that they can't be "close" like they want to be as mother and son, but there is no need (or desire) to be HOSTILE to each other. And that alone is a massive step forward in their relationship to bridge a lot of the divide between the two of them over all the years. I bring this up because this is the type of relationship that I have with my older brother. We will NEVER be "close" to each other. And I honestly believe that we both know this about each other. Yet, when we have to be near each other, we can both avoid being hostile. It makes it easier to get along for "short periods of time", but there are still too many issues between us to be together for "long periods of time". And the "short times" can be longer and longer the LESS we are hostile to each other. Maturity. It isn't just "growing older". It is "growing WISER" and understanding BOTH yourself and the situations that brought you to where you are in life. AND being able to address them directly without having to hide how you feel about it in the process. And with Headlights, we truly saw an "entertainer" mature in front of our eyes that you RARELY see in real-life, let alone by a "celeb" doing their craft.

[@pilargonzalez8442]

Eminem is the Greatest Rapper of All Time because he dares to go as deep as possible. Em is the realest, on top of his mad musicality, connection to injustice, while bringing his truth in every song, brilliant in lyrics, flow and rhythm, while battling an industry that was against him from the beginning. This man is blood sweat tears and growth in one sentence

[@beautifulcatastrophe]

Em is great

[@SaltyJennC]

It took many years for me to get to a place of neutrality with my Dad. I can’t allow him to make me happy or sad or mad. And like Em says, thank you for being my parent, you did the best you could, but I do have to love you from afar. To protect my heart and my children’s hearts. Love to you, buddy. You’re a great dad!

[@Jerseybaby19]

Finally... Love this!! My mom died last year and this song hits hard 😒 look after your moms... I wish I knew what I know now back then when things could have been different. Call your mom. U can't go back and it torments me every day

[@olajaggers]

I'm sending you a BIG hug!!!💚💚

[@betancourtj3]

Thanks for doing the whole song. It's unfortunate that the official video cuts Nate Ruess' part out at the end.

[@MasterRoshiSama]

That is why mature Eminem is my favorite. He gives you the right type of motivation and it helps me go in the right direction. Great reaction 💯

[@itayb8169]

at 12:00 I legit caught myself talking to video, telling you that i was sorry you went through that, that you clearly came out the better man for all that pain. Now im doin everything i can to not hug the tv. You are a good man, with all that shit behind you. That aint nothing.

[@taxicorky]

Awesome that you did the full extended version, i love Nate’s part at the end, it fits so well with the vibe of the song

[@illmindofshady4534]

“My Dads Gone Crazy” & “No Apologizes” 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@UltimateAPBTS]

Amazing track choices...👍👊😎

[@abdullahqethby640]

my mom left me when i was 3 and i was pretty much raised in foster care and i got adopted late like 16 and now im 22 and i found her then she said i dont want you and dont come here ever again it really hurt me but i did what i did so i can relate what u said man

[@iulia.bianca.b]

Parents like that are not parents. Just because you are related by blood, doesn't mean shit. My dad didn't abandon me, but I always feel we (me, my mom and my brother) would have been better off without him. Toxic people don't add shit to your life. I'm sure you grew up to be a better person without her resentment in your life, man.

[@fazlinlesar1301]

The video to this song is beautiful

[@jessicazhuwao5053]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY EMINEM

[@vick7848]

This reaction actually made me feel pretty emotional. Thanks for bein real and authentic about it bro, keep up the great work. Have a lil conversation with your mom homie ✊

[@AlwaysBeSmiling]

Love this song...Em maturing....Cleanin out my closet was iconic for me....that song led me to buy The Eminem Show......and the rest of Em's discography. Introduced me to whole hip hop scene

[@ChrisSons555]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, EMINEM!!

[@danielhellman9902]

Keep going and do what you’re doing bro!🔥🔥🔥 Your brother from another earthling mother!

[@ajamkechik2360]

I still remember when this song out it makes me cry like a baby 😭 😭

[@Sebshappytrees]

I’m glad I’m not the only one that tears up listening to this song every time 🙏🏼❤️

[@adrianpenalo2910]

Song makes me cry all the time 💯😪 there’s a lot me and Eminem have in common.

[@Joseph-rg4ip]

Much respect to you Van. You turned out to be a fantastic man and father; from what I can gather from your videos. Thank you for the content and the wisdom. Love.

[@allbies]

Great song and so glad you did the full version. The video version really misses that extended ending with Nate imo.

[@lea88pu]

I always say I won't cry listening to this song and always end up crying...It's so emotional

[@jeffbrown8117]

Part of his recovery process (“the steps”, as they call them) is making amends. He did that with this song to his mom, Bad Husband to Kim, and Stepping Stones for D12. Brilliant.

The way you feel is the way I feel listening to this song.

[@phillpillay2051]

Em is a legend and will always be the goat of rap

[@samgarcia6268]

Wow you can tell this song got to him on a personal level it’s a great song and it touches a lot of people I grew up without a dad so I always thank my momma for being my mom And my dad

[@mattbirch4303]

GOAT. This is what music should do, make you feel a certain way. Yet critics say no one can relate to Eminem and what he writes...i think this proves every doubter wrong

[@1977twiztid]

Two things, Em and I share a birthday, exactly 5 years apart. 2... this is my favorite song by him because I can relate 100% because of the way my real mother was. Love the reaction, brother!

[@TheControlStick1]

This song hits different when you relate to what Em’s saying!

[@ToneLone69]

Yessir love the vibes man keep grinding ☮️🤟🏽

[@melissakennedy1506]

- Maybe the address was too sloppy when he jots them.. Seriously though, this song always gets me in my feels. They say Em has no content, but songs about bitches and bubbly don’t help heal. Eminem has a song for every occasion. And, I feel you with the bad parents. This song gave me a different perspective on how to put the hurt aside and have fewer regrets.

[@tommynelson8674]

THIS 💯

[@shuaibshadyy1633]

Yep, his entire catalogue is vast with lots of style and substance, he literally has done it all but isn't acknowledged for the best stuff

[@callabo]

This is my favorite Em song. Not most talented or lyrical but favorite. It shows his emotions at their finest. I cry every time because of my relationship with my mom in our own right.

[@zebrion5793]

Every single one of us heard this song and went and called our mamas and told them we loved them. Anyone who didn't doesn't have a heart. Eminem forever has my respect for putting it on wax and saying "I was wrong, I'm sorry" in the most public way he knows how for one of the songs that catapulted him to huge media success. For him to come out and say "I wish I never did that, I disown that song" is a big big thing. It shows that he has grown as a person, and he's learned to let go of his anger and replace it with love. I think being a parent taught him that trying to make it alone in the situation his mama was in put the stress on her that turned her to substance abuse. He lived the same life she did, repeated her mistakes. He was just lucky enough to catch it and turn it around. You have to respect that journey, and respect his willingness to share it with everyone.

[@jacobnv3944]

Man this song breaks my heart.... every single time

[@mihlaliralarala3340]

I'm glad the song touched you🌸. I think it's very brave and admirable to consider or choose to speak to your Mom. I think itll give you a bit of closure no matter what yalls outcome will be. I hope you have a better day🌻

[@mrdxreaper]

Eminem the G.O.A.T always will be

[@NOISEEROOM]

Never be afraid to cry on camera. You’re emotions are everything don’t let people take that away

[@jimmcnulty446]

Hate him, love him, agree or disagree with him…Em has always been real. He gives these insights from time to time to let us know that he had whatever troubles he had we do share them

[@sweetasnightshade6254]

So no matter how many times I listen to this song I cry every time. It hits to close to home not just like on the block but directly on the roof. Reading these comments makes me sad. It hurts my heart knowing that so many others have gone through similar. I wish yall the best in life.

[@INSANEhs]

Damn this song makes me tear up. Appreciate you being real at the end as well.

[@J-Tex-Corporation]

Same exact way I felt. Never expected to get chocked up during an Eminem song.

[@dianageanlynn7753]

This Brought tears what A Beautiful song

[@uncle_rick333]

Huge fucking respect man LFR for life❤️✊🏽

[@Jamesblonde1976]

This song makes me more closer to my mum and dad.. We use to fight alot and not talk for months but i always care for her.. Now its better we dont fight much..

[@lalalevej2478]

Love this so much... seriously. Hug your moms. I lost both my parents a couple years ago, and that "I was not afraid to die" line hits so much harder now. Hug your mamas. Mamas, hug your babies. We all need a little more love in the world. 💜

[@raindeer2580]

Eminem is so huge because his songs are a biography of his life and so many people identify with his struggle

[@cathywilliams7636]

I have heard your story and you amazing and you have a beautiful family. I can see you put your children first. God blessed you with so much love..❤

[@richwheeler4696]

Thank you for being you.

[@Sanity851]

It baffles me whenever someone hasnt heard an Eminem song before.

[@timisthename]

Bro watched this at work and you’re the man for this reaction and you’re the truth reactor bro keep up the good work

[@ErmelindoBarreto]

Eminem is another level Legend. He get to us so deep everytime.... he is so crative and mature. So much respect. Portugal here for the Goat Eminem always since day one and forever.thanks for reacting. He must be the artist with the biggest heart in history, you mark that. He adopted everyone he could in his close family and made the day and changed lives. Mine too, the world too. So deep man...

[@trini_ray2730]

...man this reaction was deep. Call her!

[@ericmiller9331]

you did this song justice with this reaction 💯

[@jaaptendijk7192]

I hope things work out with your mother! Just know you're loved

[@lw-tv2496]

Thanks for being so open and sharing how feel on this. There’s so many people that can relate to this type of situation and it’s another reason why people love Eminem because he can voice things in a way that make people think about tough topics emotionally

[@daniellemcfarland873]

This is your greatest reaction. Thank you for sharing!!!!

[@wonders5700]

There are two songs that get me emotional.. this song headlights and how could you leave us by nf.. the emotion in both songs are raw

[@denzelekhongwir211]

Only the real ones can picture a song and understand it even tho they didnt go through it 🔥

[@thebigmexicantroll6581]

Such a touching reaction bro. I'm crying

[@patrickgolden8987]

Been listening to this song 🎧 since the album dropped. My dad 3-21-20. Then my mom passed 8-2-20. This song has a whole new meaning to it to me.

[@theboothakarichierich8129]

I feel you Bro I have same relationship with my family. Respect and Love.

[@MoeruHoeru]

Last part of eminem rapping always made me tear up man

[@pierocignetti8959]

Great reaction, hearing tht you grew without parents and you were still able to form what it looks and feels like a great family is pride inspiring, glad you could make it (with a little help of course 😂) one of my favourite songs from Eminem ❤

[@aprilboxton2284]

I really wish you'd react to EVERY track Em has ever made! I love your reactions. I'm watching this years after your reaction and still here looking for older sugar honey ice tea

[@canineneodeath]

I met my mother for the 1st time when I was 20 years old and found out I had 5 other siblings it broke my heart to watch the state that my mother and her kids are in tied up in drugs and my father left me at his brother's house to be physically abused and then put into a Foster home for him to come back into my life and 14 and then leave me for hair when again go into Foster care and live on my own at 14 years old and get back into school by the time I was 16 never had direction I understand

[@jaymzdeen]

That one gets me every damn time. Tears!!

[@artrobert0875]

Great reaction. Great energy. Great vibes. Im in and I'm now subscribed

[@LFRFAMILY]

Welcome aboard to the LFR FAMILY!

[@jamessmith7959]

I fought and went to jail 4 times for violation of restraining orders and 10 years in courts trying to get a visitation schedule but ultimately had to give up rights because I became disability and couldn't live on 250 a month.

[@kittenklub1964]

😭 My heart goes out to you Van....it's not easy to forgive past wrongs. I cut my Dad out of my life - as young girl, I couldn't forgive his violence & selfishness....it's hard, but it was my way of coping. Em is a wonderful person with an amazing talent that speaks to so many ppl.....I could see the pain in your face. Thank you for this reaction 🖤 and HAPPY BIRTHDAY Marshall - you are & always will be THEE GOAT❤️

[@kbh4bratz]

Coming from a tumultuous upbringing myself I've always understood EM and his actions. To this day my younger brother still acts like the younger EM. EM had to do those tracks, it was pivotal in his healing process. Not everyone can do the therapist thing especially when trusting others is such a problem. The two people in life who are suppose to protect and hurt you the most it's hard to trust everyday people enough to open up. He will probably always have trust issues towards women( my brother also still this way in his 30's) because the #1 woman and first woman in a mans life crushed him. Those tracks provided therapy and a healthy way to express his rage without holding it in and blowing up. Now the drugs and alcohol and rage have subsided and he's been through the addiction he knows what had a hold of hs mama. Kinda hard to keep that rage and not feel a whole new world of shattered from guilt. Broken people can't fix each other without taking each other down! I adore EM and the "knowledge" you speak of is what most of us survivors do, you look for answers in every book and you become a recluse to shield yourself. I myself went 10 1/2 years without speaking to my father, 4 yrs ago I let him back in my life, except I am mature enough now to love my dad and remember who I'm dealing with. Call your mama because you want and need it emotionally for yourself, not because of an emotional moment because it's easy to feel sadness from someone elses experience and match their guilt with yours. It's not the same and you won't be ready! Be ready and strong enough to make that call. I always say I have no regrets for the way I was raised because that made me the parent I am! That I thank my parents for .

[@dennisplesz9487]

I said it a million times already happy birthday Marshall Mathers Eminem Slim Shady B-Rabbit Rap God goat on the highest level at 48 still killing it this song puts a tear in my eyes I know his mom is not right in the head not all of us are and LFR family thank you 4 representing the goat it's been great you could be the first one to react 2 all his music still got a lot to do there's so much out there peace homie keep it real this edit is cause i just got another tear for this.greatness ps dude you great call your mom where here 4 ya

[@nathanm9212]

This Hits you in the feels

[@myrakimbrough6612]

💜 This track. TY Van and Boss Lady Dee! U guys r doing amazing, 💯.

[@oROBBIEo]

I feel this song gave you some kind of feelings. It's that good of a song, especially when you can relate. Guess I should've watched to the end before commenting. You definitely shared some personal feelings.

[@Sanity851]

My dad did the same to me and my brothers. I was 5 when he bounced. Never saw him again and i found out he died a year ago. I hated myself for being devastated about it. I was mourning something that i never had, but at the same time i knew there was never gonna be a chance for me to talk to him, to ask him why... Why he didnt love me enough. How can any parent not realize the shattering effect this has on a child??? I have 2 kids, and i agree, i would do anything for them.

[@sike-mf1820]

That “god damn bruh” at the end 🤣🤣🤣

[@potatowhat8119]

I still cannot understand how people cannot give Em his roses. Or at least respect him. There are people out there who hate him just because of his color or how he raps. But you gotta understand that Em put his entire life on wax. And not only that, we are only getting a glimpse of his life through his records. If that's not what Hip-hop is, then idk what it is. Because Hip-hop is expressing yourself through music. People these days need to stop playing and give that man his roses. He respects the game and built his legacy and the game grew with Em. Give him the respect he deserves man

[@mandanicole9104]

My mom wasn't there much growing up. Whenever she did come around I was always forgiving. And to this day I'm one of the few kids who still talk to her from time to time. People don't understand why I do. She's my mom. The only one I'll ever have.

[@jennaraurusrex]

I love the person you are that I see, keep being you 💓 We are not where we start - we just had to start somewhere 💙🌷💐🌺

[@philyerington1163]

Very thought provoking song. Love this shit.

[@robynmawer769]

💕You can do it, Van. Some people aren't able to give what they're not capable of. You'll feel worse and guilty if you don't call her. Been there. She's got problems of her own. Some mothers are not maternal. I wish you luck my friend. And peace. This song hit me hatd. I cried. I cried harder for you. You got this. 💕

[@mirandaroney3751]

I know this comment is on an old video but I swear eminem saved me. I sent this song to my brother on the anniversary of our mothers death and this was our life. My brother cried and we wish we could have said this to our mom

[@mariavaughn1163]

Great reaction!