Stand Up For Yourselves Men!

[@betteryoubetter]

This guy literally gave me my life back! Thanks Corey!

[@Gianne0923]

Excellent video Coach!!! I appreciate the fact that you inspire & empower men to stand up for themselves. Like I have heard you say before, "If a woman doesn't respect you, she can never love you." I have never allowed any woman I was involved with to jerk me around no matter how much I liked them. I am very much in love with my current girlfriend and no matter how much in love I am, I will not tolerate any disrespect from her if she were ever able to attempt to do so. Luckily, God has blessed me with a beautiful, sweet, affection and giving woman. I present Alpha male qualities in anything I do in my life. One of the reasons my girlfriend said she fell in love with me is because of my confidence. After all a man has only got his word and his balls. Thank you for all you do Coach!!!

[@BoneMaestro]

This was one of the greatest comments ever written in the history of youtube. Your word and your balls.

[@rockn1677]

It always made me feel better when the girl was pursuing me than me pursuing them. Everything just seemed more in sync that way, but when they would back off and if I called one too many times, I felt odd and weird, like it just wasn't right. I felt I wasn't a challenge anymore. Also the buying of gifts and giving money to these girls is what the black guys call being a "Simp". Its weak behavior and its like Corey says, it comes off like a bribe, great video Corey.

[@rockn1677]

***** Yes most certainly you can't predict a girls behavior and there's no guarantees that if you simply back off, don't call that they will instantly be drawn to you again.Sometimes they are on rebounds and trying to attach themselves to another guy but those old feelings creep in and there they go. All you really can do is control what you do and don't make a fool out of yourself chasing someone who was just temporarily in the moment with you and bounced back to the ex.

[@robertjimenez9067]

contacting a woman to much ruins attraction

[@christopherarmstrong2710]

2:08 The proper courting process: "Women don't want to make the decisions. They want you to come up with something great and fun to do that you think they might like, and invite them to join you for that. They want to show up, look hot, have you handle all the details, have a great time, and successfully get seduced." 13:50 Gifts are a form of compensation, like feeling needing something outside of yourself. You've got to see yourself as a gift. You've got to see yourself as a prize. In other words, I'm going to be spending time with her. I'm a fucking awesome guy. Therefore, she should love hanging out with me, and if she doesn't appreciate me, I'm going to find somebody who does. 21:40 Never agree to be friends when you want to be lovers. That's the weak b**ch-ass move. 24:40 You gotta see yourself as the prize, see yourself as as a gift, see yourself as someone who brings a lot to the table. You should have the attitude of - SHE needs to earn my time as well. When women treat you properly, they get your time. When they're rude, they're disrespectful, they're bitchy, unappreciative, uncommunicative - they get the gift of missing you.

[@carlosbza]

After 6 years of a long marriage breakup and reading your book and listening to your videos I found out how I was mistreated by my ex. I amresponsible for letting things go so far at that time one, because of money and insecurity. Today I'm a new man, learning each day how to set boundaries. I'm happy with myself. Thanks Corey! Carlos, from Rio de Janeiro

[@brasileiroloko5375]

boa carlao, o livro desse cara funciona

[@brasileiroloko5375]

sou do rio tenho 22 to usando td do livro e da certo

[@treanthony9831]

So women work through their problems by talking? Gold mine! Genius Corey! No wonder women talk so much. Im learning.

[@zizzolizzo1]

Tre Anthony duh ya women talk to work out their feelings and issues!! lol sorry but that’s just so obvious no!?

[@nl6049]

This life changing is hard,man...I'm total different person now,but i needed like one year to change my mindset,and to learn how to act around girls,but i lost all my friends (if you can call them like that),and still every day is struggle...Guess this is how it look like when you get out of comfort zone.I'm on right track,i suppose

[@Corebear81]

You didn’t lose them, they lost you because you outgrew them

[@nl6049]

@@Corebear81 that's true. Man, I'm so lucky that I found coach's work. Looking back at my comment from 6 years ago I realized that it took me exactly the same amount of time to get where I want to be. And there's still more work to do. Setting high expectations is a good thing.

[@christopherarmstrong2710]

@@nl6049 Great story! How have you been doing recently, man?

[@guitarforfree]

I naturally stand up for myself with anyone. Over the years I have been harsh about my boundaries. I am not suggesting it. However I was doing something right. Woman want a man. Stand up ! They dont want you to take their shit.

[@michelleduncan9965]

A passive man is an utter nightmare. The passivity & lack of assertiveness I mean truly HEALTHY & GENUINE assertiveness - affects every aspect of the marriage or the dating phase of the relationship. The problems that result ripple out & go on literally for years. If a guy is super passive & his girlfriend (or wife) is in the position of always having to be assertive, it won't work. If the two of them do manage to stay together - it will be a fairly empty &/or superficial relationship. Passivity is ghastly.

[@growing367]

Same similar situation as me. I flew a girl from the East Coast to here in Cali and let her lived in my home for 3 days. I know too very fast. We had the same chill vibe and enjoyed each other. But the moment that I was displaying weak behaviors, and then she started subtly disrespecting me and I was just letting it happen, she took advantage of me and became very aggressive/abusive. I thank God that I was just seeing these things happen on an observable point of view and I wasn't fully attached to her. She then madly packed up and left. But the fact that I was allowing this to happen to me, I just can't tolerate it anymore. Time to fully commit in being a 3% Man!

[@joshuaattractsmoney]

Corey i want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your book and videos and information. time to take the power back...or better yet utilize the power that is within all of us as a man. holy fuck it is time for men to stand up and act like fucking men!!!!

[@lifeofsam1227]

Hey Corey, you work is amazing man. It's really changed the way I see things. I used I do all these "weak" things, with out even knowing how bad it was making me look. I've been following all your advice, and ahh man I got all these women flocking me. I got girls trying to contact me left and right and I'm just sitting back and thinking to myself, "which one do I feel like talking to today." You can't be king with out pussy an ambition lol we'll anyways man appreciate what your doing for all the clueless men out there. I'm spreading your word and letting people know about your work. Keep the A1 advice coming.

[@adrianp2227]

Hi Coach, I have read your book many times maybe more than 10 times, but now I faced a topic new to me, my girl was sexually harrased while being abroad, she told me, left that place and is safe now....and I wasnt sure how to be supportive, I tried to find stuff from you but I couldn't...if possible, can you make a vide on the topic, how to be best supportive in this situations. Love you man, because thanks to your wisdome I habe grown so much.

[@chrisgraf1304]

I am stoked I came into your work Corey

[@GMacII]

I needed to hear this C-Dub, thanks bro!

[@caucasianafrican1435]

Now that I know why women test men, I think it's awesome.

[@levitrent4459]

"The past does not equal the future" "current events tend to form future trends" don't know if that's mentioned in this but I must say.. I have a lot of work and bad habits to fix to make those two phrases work

[@philipburdick8160]

I love your subtle way of expressing things...

[@bendikhogefeld4942]

Beautiful advice, Btw i love the opening melody in your videos.

[@pdvanzyl7973]

Thanks Deadpool, your vids helped me a lot! :)

[@thecobbstar]

Coach Corey !!! LOVE your stuff bro. Helped me through divorce and much more. Bought your book and read it twice so far. Can you do an audiobook version ??? That would be cool to listen to in The car !!!

[@abysmalvsmarcus]

My mother pulls this shit on me, it was hurtful when I was young, but now i'm like fuck that noise.

[@Twreckless]

man! it creates resentment too

[@abysmalvsmarcus]

Twreckless What you mean?

[@Twreckless]

+abysmalvsmarcus towards any woman that treats me this way! I can't stand them once they try to do this

[@abysmalvsmarcus]

Twreckless Exactly, I rather be alone than deal with that bullshit.

[@Twreckless]

+abysmalvsmarcus hell yeah, I'm about to let this lady I'm talking to now know I'm not having it then walk away!

[@AndyHoward]

The whole Passive-Aggressive thing: If that shit happens all the time, then it is PAPD, Passive-Aggressive Personality Disorder. Passive-aggressive personality disorder is a long-term (chronic) condition in which a person seems to actively comply with the desires and needs of others, but actually passively resists them. In the process, the person becomes increasingly hostile and angry. Some common symptoms of passive-aggressive personality disorder include: Acting sullen Avoiding responsibility by claiming forgetfulness (never owning up to their bullshit when called on it) Being inefficient on purpose Blaming others Complaining Feeling resentment Having a fear of authority Having unexpressed anger or hostility Procrastinating Resisting other people's suggestions

[@markgrant3629]

Andy Howard wow this is the definition of a girl I was recently with.

[@MarcKlark]

Finding compatibility isn't easy.

[@jasonbrowning546]

Great advise sir

[@davidjohnson787]

When you’re out on a date and she’s doing 80% of the talking; if it’s about her X. She may be working it out with HIM in conversation with YOU.

[@ab-mj3kg]

coach corey wayne , is awesome .....yes...

[@Flosseveryday]

Knowing all that I know because of Corey;when I have a beta moment it stings even more, because I know better than that; but as I heard Corey say just use it to grow and improve. Fuck it. Learn from it.

[@krystofcharles8798]

This is Spartaaaaaaa

[@TVinmyEye]

You da real MVP.

[@iwantit162]

I'm on a date night tonight I told her I was going out she got all grumpy because I wouldn't say where or who with and told me to just go so when I left I went got a bottle of wine flowers and chocolates drove home sent her a text to put little one to bed your dates arrived so we have xmen apocalypse on now drinking wine and I'm waiting for her to come down from the shower lol she was amazed and soo happy

[@iwantit162]

@@williewill1237 nah it was a surprise it wasn't a bribe for anything. As a couple with limited funds and 2 little boys arranging for babysitters ect isn't easy. So I done a home date a £3 bunch of flowers and a £5 bottle of wine an a few bars of cheap chocolate (not even a box) and it set a nice atmosphere and was a good surprise for her. It set off alot of different emotions got her jealous and possessive thinking about me who I'm off to meet are they more attractive etc and then I roll up at home to see her 😄

[@addarealest2287]

So what if she calls 10 mins after you leave should you still go out or invite her ?

[@Jack-gq5vm]

"Gay male girlfriend" Ouch Corey. The truth hurts man

[@kimrok1]

This was a good one. I have made big changes in my life because of Coach. I hate to see my Dad still suffer from this behavior. No wonder my mom was such a bitch growing up and still to this day.

[@tgarr2537]

Ha! Damn right stick to your guns. There are many situations in life where you'll be damned if you do and damned if you don't, so make the best possible decision and stick to it! lol

[@MarcKlark]

You deserve a donation 🙋‍♂️

[@macioluko9484]

@22:00 That would be like signing a 25 year rental agreement on a place you're dying to buy... You'd never do that right? So why would you agree to be friends if you really want to be lovers?

[@blackquiver]

Haaa!, I'm buying your book while I write this. Hahaha. Cory u worte that in..lol

[@wearelengend]

You're like a more mature Tom Leykis

[@arthurjackson8302]

Waaaaay more mature. lol

[@cuchullain27]

@@arthurjackson8302 Fuck me ain't that the truth.

[@3oxisprimus848]

A more patient one. Tom is RAW & I like it. Shout out to Coach Corey for being himself.

[@sonofpopekyrollos6]

I don’t know how to stand up for my self that’s why everyone around me push me a round

[@Mazon99]

Great video, thanks

[@MarcKlark]

ANYTHING

[@ab-mj3kg]

both things i did, i got divorced ,,,

[@bobschnittman2856]

Hi Coach- You talk in this video about courting a woman properly. I just watched another one of your videos where you talk about putting yourself first. I messed up with my last girl friend. She had 1 weekend a month without her kids. She didn't have anytime during the week to go on dates. I work 2 jobs trying to put myself through my MBA and gone both Friday and Saturday nights working. The only time I had that we were both free was Saturday during the day and Sunday night, at which point her kids would be back. I did my best to take her to lunch and do something nice on Saturdays, but she would always be bitchy. Should I have re-arranged my schedule to fit her needs and availability? She couldn't have gone on a date Monday, Wednesday or Sunday nights when I was free and she was only free 2 nights per months for a date.

[@rustymertz]

Find another one that can see you more often, hopefully one without kids.

[@mememhehehe8015]

I wish women did say ''GIVE IT TO ME BIG BOY''

[@TVamboi]

21 & 30 no man

[@MarcKlark]

Pause for what ? Say SOMETHING

[@Arthur-ib6iu]

I would make a move on one of my ex’s but she wouldn’t make out with me or have sex with me. We would kiss but it wouldn’t go past that, and I never understood why…. It was like I had to force myself on her but I didn’t want to do that…..

[@globallyunited677]

Hello Coach, Would you be willing to help me to create cartoons on this subject?

[@themusiccritic902]

well if he is not doing enough why dose?t his life say something?

[@TruthAplomado]

I miss the clean shaved version of Corey

[@jonah6853]

Your fucking hilarious lmfao

[@shotty2164]

His fucking hilarious lmfao, what?

[@thienanvu163]

21:45 absolutely lol.

[@tw16mock]

Good title. Lol.

[@RazeRoses]

haha you da best coach

[@jordanjmdjmd74]

You're basically saying that she's allowed to treat you like crap because you don't act the way she wants lol

[@henrytaff8067]

Damn dude that's great advice. Nothing wrong w being yourself. Like it or don't. Haha right on