Start life from scratch in late 30s | new country, change job (moving vlog)

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Hi lovelies, Hi lovelies, where you live can significantly impact your personal growth by giving different opportunities. Early last year, I realized I needed a change, so I decided to relocate. In this video, I'm talking about all things going through my mind as I'm starting life from scratch all over again in my late 30s.
Love, Poppy xx
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[@tahirisaid2693]

My outlook on money changed when I realized someone making $300,000 can retire broke & someone making $80,000 can retire a multi-millionaire. Living within your means and living a frugal lifestyle is the first step to financial independence. I just hit the one million mark last year, cheers to everyone striving to get there someday.

[@Williamesq12327]

Wow! Congrats on that. Is it preferable for me to save money or allocate a significant amount of my salary to stocks in order to accomplish this goal??

[@tahirisaid2693]

Varied sources of income is wise and especially living within your means. My net worth is over $1M and I can pay my bills with no stress, but I don't live like I have that. I have no complaints.

[@SherillTellington]

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[@SherillTellington]

Wow, her track record looks really good from what I found online. I'll take a chance and see how it goes. Thanks for the info

[@crislorenzoowsi5874]

I needed to read this.

[@wiohrwqihr1329]

I'm 37. I'm financially broke. I don't really have a career. I'm taking care of an aging parent. But I will try my best every day. Currently learning a new skillset to do freelance online. You're not alone in this.

[@Kadilamri123]

This was a very relatable comment, I wish you the best on your journey 💗

[@MotoM0nk]

Everything is going to be all right. Human intelligence is so developed that you only need a very small portion of it to make a living. This is not going to be a problem at all. Check out what Sadhguru speaks about this

[@javeriakhan5849]

I am 44 single and planning to move to other country and start my career from scratch. Its difficult but when I saw your video and comments, I realize there are so many like me.

[@littlevuggey93]

But if you don't have the money, then it's hard.

[@nativestrong7253]

Make sure to master as many aspects of your field in the interim. Most countries require you to demonstrate that your competence is superior to their current populations before offering up certain visas.

[@DurainMontong]

They say its 40 percent of women now die alone without marrying or starting a family

[@morechitoge8700]

😆😆😆😆😆😆​@@DurainMontong

[@violetsky6335]

You are not alone! I’m 38 divorced single no house no kids and exploring career change - life is beautiful and can begin at any age - the show is not over until we say it’s over! Keep going everyone - your mental peace is invaluable 😊

[@agl5132]

By the time I was 45 I had lived in VT, NH, CT, MA, FL, NC, WI, AZ, NM, and Vegas twice. I'm now 65 and the past five years have lived in Mexico and twice in Europe. I will have another move by the end of this year to a sunnier climate. I've done this alone with only my dog. We go through growth stages every 7-10 years. We are constantly evolving. I meet so many women travelers along the way. I never want to be that person on my death bed thinking I shoulda, coulda, woulda but I was too afraid to try. At 38 you are still learning so much and grasping what is important to you. You have so many wonderful moments ahead. You will be a full powerhouse with each evolution. Try different things and do not consider anything a mistake. You are learning what you like and do not like. That is valuable. I have changed careers. From psychiatric caseworker, fashion industry and now I am working on my first fictional series.Congratulations and safe journey.

[@DurainMontong]

Dont you ever get that coulda woulda feeling about starting a family.?

[@yinyang8997]

@@DurainMontong that's a mean q

[@agl5132]

@@DurainMontong I did have a family. I'm even a proud grandmother. Many women travel with their partners, alone on vacations, after divorce and after a partner dies. I've had a divorce and a partner die. Sounds like you missed the point. Women can do anything, they have choices. You jumped to the conclusion that I've not experienced other aspects of life. I also have friends who married their high school boyfriends and never moved at all. They are perfectly happy. However, this conversation is about those who are making different choices and overcoming those fears.

[@agl5132]

@@yinyang8997 She's making assumptions without the facts.

[@lindsayc377]

@@agl5132 I find your story inspiring and empowering. Women can do anything they'd like, whether they ever choose to have a family or not. It is always the insecure men or brainwashed (by patriarchy) women in the comments trying to shame women about having or not having a family. It's just tired! I'm about to move out of country and it's scary but continuous growth and learning is so worth it :)

[@AllisonSherman657]

"Starting life from scratch in your late 30s can be daunting, but it's a fresh opportunity to reboot. Ditch the old life, adapt to a new country, and switch to a new career. Focus on investing in your finances, building credit, and creating a secure future. You got this!"

[@kaylat63]

I agree with you and I believe that the secret to financial stability is having the right investment ideas to enable you earn more money, I don’t know who agrees with me but either way I recommend either real estate or bitcoin and stocks.

[@face2lune]

I invested 10k in Robin hood and 401k about a year ago and it steadily went down, now my portfolio is down to $800. I don't know what to do and i am in between jobs

[@AllisonSherman657]

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[@face2lune]

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[@AllisonSherman657]

@@face2lune I get guidance from *Susan Tori Davis* Most likely, the internet should have her basic info..

[@xoxolorae]

I am 36 and have started my life over once every few years 😂 I hope all those who are watching this truly truly believe my words - 30s is not too old. 40s is not too old. Anyone can start a new page anytime. The ONLY thing that truly stops us from doing what we want is money and opportunity. Society can say you should do this or do that by a certain age, all they want. It’s your life to live not people around you. At 32 I moved from California to New York. Because of a new job opportunity. At 34 I moved to Canada and I’m starting over. Like the wise Natasha Bedingfield once sang, “Today is where your book begins, the rest is still unwritten.”

[@nutech1810]

Wait until you hit your 40s. It's like being 80 to the western world employers 😂

[@SR-mv2mf]

I literally have a very similarstory as you at 29 I moved to California for work and at 31 moved to canada 😂

[@xoxolorae]

@@nutech1810 that’s true but that’s also why I work for myself 🤣

[@kazebaa]

Im 39, and moved from chile to france, to explore life, with a new job, language, and now im quit my job, and continue to explore what are my passions, and what i want to do on life ! It takes courage to do this! Congratulations!

[@genneyescalona5031]

Yes exactly!!! Same and we are doing as single Woman. It’s nice to have a partner too! Great to see both angles

[@Tiffany-dw1yp]

how do you do it? I lost my job since aug 23 and I have been in shambles since. Everyone told me to enjoy the time, and it's true that many months have passed. But even though its been months since my layoff, I've been worried and dreading every single day - not knowing when I'll finally get a job. I can 100% say that I did not rest at all during this time. I'd love to hear your perspectives on taking this leap, as I have not found the strength to give myself this grace to enjoy life as it is

[@wakil16]

the sad thing is that you chose France..

[@yinyang8997]

@@wakil16 why is that?

[@DurainMontong]

39 and still like a pre teen😂 mentally not physically

[@FlyffUniverse]

I'm much younger, currently 26. At 25 I decided to move across the world and start from scratch. No friends, no connections, just a job I had applied for before moving over. It's been a little under a year now and my life is completely different. I've accomplished so many goals, overcome so many challenges, and have even found love. I feel like moving was what propelled me into this future I have today -- and I am extremely thankful I made that leap of faith. Best of luck in America!

[@leebeaute]

I hear you, We thrive when we’re out of our comfort zone. Moving and residing in 4 different countries these past 10 years, the personal growth is worth all the hardship.

[@Arttaire]

I’m 25 and wish to move abroad. Any tips on job searching?

[@everydaysamething]

How did you find a job abroad? PS Flyff brings back memories

[@kiiki04]

Wow,

[@invinciblefeelings1439]

Inspirational 🔥😊

[@nenasummers-shanafelt5126]

I just turned 37 and just put in a months notice at the job I have been at for the past 16 years. I’m ready to let go of what no longer serves me and move forward with my life.

[@reinventingpoppy]

Yes girl 😍

[@VickieEB]

At 38, unmarried with no kids, I left my comfortable but autopilot job that didn't excite me anymore to pursue a Master's degree in a freezing country and change my career. I remember worrying If I made the right decision. But there was an excitement in me that something better would happen. I am now 40, single, with no kids, in a better headspace, doing a job I like, living in a country I love, with big hopes for the future. I am nowhere near figured my life out yet, and I probably never will, but I am trusting the process. You will be just fine.

[@sylviaschaffner2551]

This sounds inspiring. What country and degree may I ask?

[@VickieEB]

Thanks Silvia, Studying Human Technology Interaction in Finland.

[@sylviaschaffner2551]

@@VickieEB excellent choice. High quality of life. Good education and high salaries. You can be very proud.

[@scarlettkhan9667]

Wow, how did you do that though? Did you save a lot of money before you moved? I would be quite scared to do that as I’m quite sensitive and don’t like change.

[@sylviaschaffner2551]

@@VickieEB I m working at a Technology company in Amsterdam in clinical trials. Sounds like your field is very relevant to mine.

[@nylejnyla]

I am 36, and I felt lost and stuck too, that scares me. Your channel is a beacon of hope, reminding me that there's so much to look forward to. I have faith in what's next! Good luck with your move, and can't wait for your updates Poppy ❤!

[@celenesdiary]

I 💯 feel this 💖

[@speedyturtle1234]

@nylejnyla I can 100% understand… I am feeling so incredibly lost at the moment, I am learning to ice skate but as a 36 yr old even though this is the only thing that brings me “hope” when everything else in my life is stagnant and ai times I feel so judged… prob my own insecurities but I feel that people must think I am childish for getting excited to skate while they are buying houses and starting businesses

[@speedyturtle1234]

@@celenesdiarysame here

[@RemsRoom]

Genuinely in the same space after having a cry at work 😂 something needs to change

[@reinventingpoppy]

Thank you my love, an update to come for sure! 😍

[@shesonfire_]

You’ll be fine. Mel Robert’s started her life over in her forties. Vera Wang started her amazing dress line at 40. Morgan Freeman started his acting career as an older man over forty as well. The guys who made the hit song The Macarena were older men. lol. You can do it. We can all do it. ❤

[@Mwoods2272]

You are talking about the top 2%. Most if not the majority don’t accomplish anything.

[@-ASTROMAGIC]

@@Mwoods2272 Feel free to subjugate yourself to that thinking if you wish. Even this "2%" you speak of starts as nothing and becomes something. And you don't need to be famous or change some industry to live a quality life.

[@opticalraven1935]

​@@Mwoods2272then live in despair.

[@shirleywhitehurst7569]

Love this!!!!! Very inspirational.

[@scarlettkhan9667]

😂 you remembered the Macarena guys. They were great.

[@milatorres5899]

And here I am at 34 thinking is too late 😢… thanks for this video girl. You got this, in fact to ALL ladies out there giving their best, U GOT THIS!!

[@Silvia-jy8zc]

@@milatorres5899 Good Lord I wish I was your age again!! 😫😖🙂‍↕️ Life just flew on by and away from me and now it’s WAY harder than it would’ve been at 34.

[@chiyungwong3774]

On my 40th birthday in a month, I am moving my whole family to another country to start a new career and a new life! Talk about anxiety! Good luck with your reinvention 😊

[@chidenisee]

Good to hear. I am 44 and have a 4-year-old. I feel like I am stuck but I need to do a reinvention of my entire life.

[@sanjanaP.]

Could u pls tell me which country do u move? Nd from Where?

[@Silvia-jy8zc]

@@chiyungwong3774 Where do you live and what country are you moving to?

[@danad2307]

Magical year for me 38. Settled and also baby arrived ❤ Life since then turned 180 degrees but I am for sure more happy and fulfilled and finally I have a clear purpose, my own family 🍀🥰🥳

[@reinventingpoppy]

Aww that's beautiful, congratulations! Parenthood is such an important job and I honestly admire everyone that gets to do it! 😍❤👶

[@Poespita_Design]

I am 30 years old, a single mom of one son. These days I feel so down and so broke, I feel like I want to give up. But then your video popped up on my KZbin, and your sentence hit me so hard: "Whatever you're aiming for, keep trying and you'll get there. It's just a matter of time." Thank you for sharing this video with me. I appreciate you and hope you are blessed with joy and love.

[@SandraMehmet]

orang indo juga sini.

[@Silvia-jy8zc]

Don’t give up - you are a light for your son and you don’t know if you might be raising a future leader. Be true to yourself and don’t feel guilty for being a good mother in investing in yourself and your precious child. May you be successful, healthy and happy 🙏🏼❤️

[@Poespita_Design]

Thank you so much, everyone 🥺😍 your words mean the world to me 🙏 Terimakasih

[@CoffeeOn]

Keep trying and look into investing but please be careful as there are a lot of scams and misleading schemes. You could lose money so be careful and find the right resources.😊

[@Poespita_Design]

@@CoffeeOn thank you 🙏🫶

[@Lester-zg1jt]

I am a male, single, of the same age as yours and found myself watching this video and relating to each and every word you said. I just moved to Dubai to try to make a living. I had everything in my home country, cars, high rank title, nice office, a lot of friends, etc but early part of this year, I have lost everything... Except for the love of my parents and siblings. I'm trying to regain that confidence and start all over again. I am sure that one day, the Lord God will pave way to the plans He has for me. I am keeping my FAITH. ❤

[@shirleywhitehurst7569]

Blessings!!!!!!

[@Lester-zg1jt]

@@shirleywhitehurst7569 thank you so much Shirley. I wish the same for you and everyone on this page.

[@gloriaejeh7517]

Indeed, the lord will restore all you have lost in mutifolds... Keep trusting him

[@neeld.6649]

Wow now you have so much space for new friendships & experiences. Try to surround yourself with people ahead of you in life. And consume lots of wholesome content about the new country, it will subconsciously train your brain for positive experiences. Goodluck.

[@Lester-zg1jt]

Truly Jesus is a living God. Just last Monday, i started with my new job as an Head of Operations. I was just asking for a job but he gave me more than that after 7 months of the waiting season. There are times i want to give up but he kept on reminding me about FAITH through scriptures, videos on youtube and songs. I pray and declare blessings upon blessing, healing and miracle for people who reads this comment. God will grant your heart's desire in His perfect timing. I love you Lord and praise your name above all names. ❤️🙏

[@wluk.k]

Watching this at 24 and feeling like my life is over because I have not figured out yet what I truly want to do in life, this gave me hope and comfort. Thank you.

[@maleboramakoai3251]

I feel the same way, it's always nice to see that I'm not alone.

[@sotiabella2766]

Oh dear.. I am 38 and start over my life again with new job and more experiences on my back. Until you reach 40 you only learn! Life starts after 40 because you have the mind and experiences. Enjoy your youth and stop worry everything will fall into place at the right time 😊

[@agl5132]

You're in your 20's your not suppose to know. You're in a try it and see phase. Try different things and do not consider anything a mistake. You are learning what you like and do not like. That alone is valuable.

[@jvugaming]

read a book.

[@scarlettkhan9667]

Do lots of work experience (contractor temporary work on different jobs) to find out what you like. Save money where you can, keep learning You’re young you’re going to be fine xx

[@AnnalisaJ]

I am a bit older than you, I moved a few times (last one is from Italy to America), had some amazing careers from Public Safety to Artist, and I am about to pivot once more. This is what I have learned: •live a 1000 lives •people who think it’s “irresponsible” is because they are uncomfortable with themselves (you can’t change them) •it’s never too late to reinvent yourself and start over •age is a state of mind not the number of years on your ID •you will find likeminded people and it’s fantastic when you do ❤️ I wish you the world!

[@shans1986]

Older and so true.

[@NonyaMeeSiamLOL]

Where are you pivoting to? The problem is, what if you got kids?

[@thatgirljo2119]

I tuned 39 last month. I'm unmarried with no children yet...BY CHOICE! I'm going to start a Masters full-time in a whole new country within the next few months. I'm pivoting in my career to do what I want to do and not what I can bend myself into. You're going to be fine. We're going to be fine because we're living our own lives and not what is deemed as " settling down " by society. Continue to walk bravely!

[@Ta_bella]

Congratulations!! I am in a similar situation as you BUT really scared to make this step. Wishing you well

[@ShavonCastella]

She got a fiancé visa stop playing and then show running fast on the treadmill for 2 seconds for the clip then stops.

[@hannahbi4786]

Hi, my name is Hannah. I am turning 33 in the end of this year. unmarried with no children just like you. I feel anxious and I want to know if you feel anxious somtimes and how you handle a situation like this.

[@swatidogra2255]

I am in a same situation moved to pursue Masters at 38 and now started to work again from scratch in a new country after quitting job of 17 years. Not that easy but at the same time not impossible.

[@rajkumar-to3cp]

Let me guess, are you planning to go for masters in data science/ML and AI?

[@ppongnoparat7035]

I’m 8 yrs older than you. Last 10 yrs I transformed myself - from living in a temple as a nun to the worldly world. I’ve been struggling in life for a big while after that since living so long in the temples. But last 3 yrs I got a new job and I love doing it very much. I can also have time to meditate as I like and freedom as I want. I don’t know what the future lies ahead but I do love what I have today even no husband and no kids. Have a fun journey in the US 😊

[@rcjacksonbrighton]

Hello! How are you? Good to hear your words! I would love your perspective on life as a nun vs a lay person? I am involved with a Buddhist community and I love it and often consider becoming a nun. Then I think, I can just be deeply spiritual but live with my partner in an apartment as a lay person. How have you experienced the both ways of living? X

[@fairytale143]

I’m 37 too and relate so much to your message. My biggest concern is financial and career related. My career is going nowhere and I need to make more money. I feel so stuck in my current situation, and having no money doesn’t help. I would love if you could touch on your career change and how to start. Good luck on your next chapter. I teared up when you cried. It is exciting to start something new, but so very emotional to leave a big part of your life behind. You’ve got this!!

[@Iusuallydontcommentbut...]

you are not alon. I feel the same, stuck in like but for moving on I need more money but it is soo hard. Stuck on there also, how to make more money.

[@yourstrulybooks]

I am also 37 and have zero income 😢😢😢

[@Rosie_0878]

Same 😢

[@silynita]

Yeah, the money will solve 99% of my problems. Trying to find non conventional ways to make money because a regular 9-5 job here in our country just isn't enough for the future that I want.

[@thesocialintrovertchronicles]

Same boat

[@sarokitas89]

Thank you so much. I resonated so much with this video and encouraged me. I live in London, UK and im single and 35 years old. I'm feeling comfortable here but lately I've been thinking about moving to the US and restart from scratch because I feel I need to take risks and do something else for my personal and professional growth, change environment, etc. It's great to see that same mindset and other people going through this.

[@KingaGorski]

I love seeing people self-aware and dedicated to personal growth, so much so that they can recognize within themselves when they're being complacent and then challenge themselves to make a significant change. Best of luck with your move and next chapter in your book of life ✨🦋

[@reinventingpoppy]

Me too! It's a trait that resonates with me so much. Have a wonderful day!

[@Ruby-kr6fh]

This is inspiring. I’m 29 relocating from the US to a Caribbean island all by myself while also making my next career move. I have had to navigate a lot of challenges in the past year and it’s just so overwhelming but this video gave me some reassurance. All the best on your journey!

[@cafekath]

Currently 32, moving out to a new apartment, finally living alone and getting a dog! I sometimes feel stuck, seeing all my friends have kids and get married. In the Philippines there is also a pressure of being able to settle at this age, this still affects me at times. Thank you for sharing your video!

[@Hedera-v1w]

Completely empathise with you… they have backward mentality in ways that restrict to age and society’s beliefs I ignore my Filipino family and their limited beliefs and thoughts. I will continue on my own path. Cut their negativity out, they may never understand.

[@melynaestrada2150]

I just turned 30 and have been having a hard time accepting it and feeling like it is my too late but when I see you able to live your life the way you want makes me think you are so cool! keep following your dreams girl 💗 you are definitely making me see things differently

[@FeyreArcheron741]

I just turned 30 too and I feel the same way!

[@fatisummer9106]

Girl , give ur self a year and that feeling will go away, and will start to accept a new chapter of ur life,I I just turn 32 and i feel much better now

[@Toxic-skeptic1]

I am turning 30 soon. There is no need to regret the past as it is a part of your life and your story. What you will do and what you have done is what you were going to do and would have done because all people always make the best decisions in their lives at that point in their life.

[@fatydream]

thank you so much for this video. I don't know you but your video came up randomly. I will be 36 in July and I have struggled to change my career for years. I finally went back to uni a year ago to pursue my passion but I have been totally depressed because I have had no lack in finding any job at all. I left a career were I was stable and had good income(but was so stressed I could not sleep at night) but now am back living with my parents cause I can't find a job. I keep trying but nothing seem to work. For society and many people around me, I am crazy cause I refuse to go back to my previous job and often I question myself too. I hope something will change soon. Changing successfully career at our age is not that easy and what is worse is the way all this is making me feel ashamed and like a big failure. Thanks for your words. They made me feel a bit better.

[@scarlettkhan9667]

You’re not a failure, you’re a hero! It’s inspiring that you left something that didn’t suit you and you started at the bottom. That’s fine. At least you get to spend time with your parents. Just keep trying, mix with people and make friends and they could open doors for you in the career you want. Try and get a non paying work experience in the field you want to get into

[@fatydream]

@@scarlettkhan9667 Thank you so much for your kind words. I am not sure how things will go from now on, but at least I have found an other job in the meantime and don't feel absolutely useless. For all the people that continue to struggle: do not give up. Even if I am still struggling I do not regret quitting my previous stable job because it was not sustainable. I gave myself an other chance. We all deserve it.

[@TatianaKurnosova]

Been moving between countries most of my life and to be honest I've never really wanted to ""settle down", it always felt like I would "limit" myself and my opportunities. I love the freedom and being able to travel and work at the same time (so grateful for this opportunity), yet I have a country I can call home, even though I wasn't born there. Wishing you all the best in US - starting a new chapter in life is always exciting. Love your videos 🤍

[@leebeaute]

Totally Agree, when a door opens go for it! Living in Asia, Europe and the Middle East has opened my eyes to the greater world.

[@AG-so4gl]

30s - 50s and 4 different countries, 20 years later Im now back in the UK. Ive given it a go but really cant wait to leave again (and I will!)

[@2760db]

Im turning 30 later this year and it's incredibly daunting and scary because I still dont have a clue what i want to do in life in terms of my career. I'm also single and can't see that changing any time soon because of my lack of social life. I think it's comforting to know that others are experiencing the same problems. I don't think I've seen the best version of myself since i was in university. I've wanted to live in another country to push myself out of my comfort zone, but I've been too lazy and procrastinate too much, so it never happened. I hope we can all find that drive and ambition that we need in life

[@SynapseSecretz]

I completely understand how you feel-I’m in a similar situation myself. Turning 30 can be intimidating, especially when career and personal life goals feel uncertain. It’s comforting to know we’re not alone in this. Just remember, it’s never too late to push yourself out of your comfort zone and take small steps towards your dreams. We’ll find that drive and ambition together. You’ve got this!

[@2760db]

@@SynapseSecretz thank you so much for this ❤️ We've got this 💪

[@g.quotes.oat1894]

Me too 30 now, long term relationship ended, was just removed from my job 😭 I'm thinking of going abroad now .. We can do this!!

[@SynapseSecretz]

@@g.quotes.oat1894 I'm really sorry to hear about your relationship and job-both of those are incredibly tough to go through. It sounds like a challenging time, but thinking about going abroad could be a fantastic way to start fresh and find new opportunities. It's great to see your determination and optimism. We absolutely can do this! Sometimes these big changes can lead to the most rewarding experiences. Stay strong, and know that you're not alone. We're in this together!

[@2760db]

@@g.quotes.oat1894 travelling is a great way to just escape and take some time for ourselves. I'd suggest doing it sooner rather than later though because the longer you leave it, the more you'll try and convince yourself that you don't need to go..

[@lunarae8037]

I’m here because my partner and I are moving across country to move in with my sister and her family. I never thought that right before my 40th birthday this would be what we are doing. It’s the only way we can see as two successful persons with degrees and long term careers as how to open opportunities and move away from some of the hardships we shed from our childhood and 20s. We are ready for adventure but also just want some reassurances and to know we will have security and stability. What you said resonated. This place is no longer serving us for our personal growth and growth as a couple. So…we are moving across the country!!

[@trishabanerjee8333]

This resonated with me so deeply! I have done the same, moved from Australia to Europe at 36 this year. Moving out of Australia was my dream for years and I was feeling so stuck and lost. This year I finally took the plunge and left everything I knew. Now thinking of an entirely new career and life here in Europe. I am both scared and optimistic for the future. Thank you so much for sharing. Good luck!

[@samanthajungkim8653]

Im 29 and feeling unsure or what’s next decade going to be. Happy to stumble upon ur channel!

[@Breannanpr23]

I think it's really amazing that you are able to start over, I was 27 when I moved to another state from everything I have ever known and am still "establishing" I suppose. In this time since I have started over and moved and changed jobs and everything, so much has come from it - I met my person, I am working to build a life I have always wanted and its like I am rediscovering myself for the first time here again. Never stop starting over from scratch, like code or even art there are many iterations of the best version of you! Which I am still trying to give grace to. Love your content, thank you for motivating me as well. It's easy to become complacent.

[@oreposh]

I love watching videos like this cos it resonates with me so well! Was just chastising myself for not moving to a new country in 2016 when I had the financial capacity to do. This video(and the comments) made me realize it’s never too late!

[@alexiszakarra1532]

I'm 38 and the urge to move away from Canada is immense, no savings to my name, married and also lonely at the same time. I'm thinking of returning to the UK where I did my masters, I loved living in Scotland during grad school. You being 38 just resonated something in me and my desire to reinvent and reconnect with myself again.

[@mindful_wander]

Being in a relationship and still feeling lonely is TOUGH. Hope you're able to uncover the root of whatever stuckness you're going through.

[@AllisonBalanc]

Girl as a 37 year old - I deeply relate. Our lives are our own to design. I agree that settling in something just bc other people said so isn't a good enough reason for me.

[@ClaireandNanami]

Who cares about others' expectations about where you should be at this point in your life. It takes guts to make a change at any point in your life, so good for you. I hope things work out for you in your new career.

[@Loub12]

Thank you for making this video, it came up as a suggestion in my notifications, I’m not even subscribed to your channel. I’m sure that this is some kind of message to change my perspective, I’m living in my father's house with comforts and I am afraid to leave because I don't have a job, and what is limiting me right now are material things. When you mentioned that the environment doesn’t allow you to develop as a person, something woke up in me since I don’t have the freedom to do what I’d like. You made me understand that it’s not about material things and comprehend the true importance of changing people and places. Thank you for making this video, it helped me more than you imagine.

[@charlottelisewilliams]

Am so grateful that I found your channel, I am currently going throught the transition form my 20s to 30s its hard but am realising and learning at this point is that you can build yourself up in a soft way. I think that everyone is just on the hurry up and make it happen and forgetting to take care of themselves!

[@ThePatriciaPatrick]

I’m 39 and I am starting over again and I am so looking forward to it. I absolutely love your thoughts ❤❤

[@ron_ald3020]

Your story resonates with me. I oddly uprooted myself at the same age as you just a few years ago to pursue my dream to go back to graduate school. It may have seemed irresponsible to others, but despite the challenge of quitting my job and leaving my home, I’ve received so many blessings and met people that have changed my life forever. Thank you for your video and courage to inspire others. 🙏🙏

[@LifeSimpleJoys]

At the same stage thinking to go back to graduate school start a new life. But not sure of how it will be to study in your late 30s. I guess it will be all okay :)

[@reinventingpoppy]

I'm so happy that worked out well for you and cheers to following our own path and dreams! 🍾

[@ron_ald3020]

@@LifeSimpleJoys I feel it is better in your 30’s. You’re more mature, focused, and purposeful. Your network and relationships will be deeper, and I think your growth will be much faster. Good luck!

[@ron_ald3020]

@@reinventingpoppy Thank you. You are very strong. I’m rooting for you👊🙌! Can’t wait for your next videos.

[@LifeSimpleJoys]

@@ron_ald3020 Thanks :)

[@Missgorgeous-p3c]

Beautifully said,I am very happy to see ladies understanding that 38 is not old to start over,we have a whole life ahead of us. Congratulations to your new chapter,wishing you peace and more self discovery

[@mindful_wander]

I love videos like this where someone is just being open and honest, and sharing their personal decisions and experiences. I also love reading the comments that are simply cheering someone on, hoping that they find what they're looking for and live their best life that is true to who they are. No judgment, just valuing someone's own journey.

[@Justaddwineandlove]

I am turning 38 this year and really admire and commend you. I really hope to have your peaceful confidence and courage. I also am a married, dog mom without the ‘conventional’ nuclear family but am so at peace being with my little family. I look at you and I know that it’s possible to be happy. You’re amazing. Hope your fur baby is ok and settled in usa❤

[@NurseJason2012]

I'm 38, too, and this has been the most challenging year (personally and professionally) for me. I'm ready to make some changes soon. Best wishes to you!

[@JazminMmasechaba]

Congratulations on the leap. I am 40 and will be moving continent myself. Alone! You're brave. I too will share my journey soon.

[@CoachCocoy]

Good luck on this adventure! I left my country at 35, without really wanting to, with 1 suitcase and 200 euros, but with intact dreams and the will and determination that I was going to achieve everything I dreamed of.

[@azikiel1286]

I am 39 and starting over again with a new career. Cheers to us moving forward with a positive note ❤🎉

[@ayumiyanagisawa3242]

I completely agree with you❤️I’m 39 and now moving to New Zealand with my husband and dog:) All the best💕

[@IntentionalLivingWithAnjana]

Hi Poppy! My journey feels so similar to you. I moved on from my job and have been reinventing myself and understanding myself better over the past months. Nothing is as beautiful as defining happiness for oneself rather than running behind the society’s notions of it. I’m Living that happiness now. ❤

[@reinventingpoppy]

Yas girl, I'm so happy you've managed to do that for you!

[@IntentionalLivingWithAnjana]

@@reinventingpoppy Thank you..💖💖

[@patrice6139]

I applaud you for having the courage to start over despite uncertainty! 👏🏾 I'll be going on my 1st solo trip overseas to Japan later this fall after years of wishing and talking about it. I'm terrified of all the what ifs, but I'm going to accept the fear and move forward instead of allowing it to keep me from doing what I've wanted to do for so long.

[@danyalexys4956]

I've had the same dream of doing this myself! Good luck to you - hope it goes well :)

[@InLovewithLife888]

After having 10 yrs of depression i finally made a move to new city and started new job.. it is better since than.. i moved when i ws 30

[@huntingform9224]

Hi Poppy! I am turning 38 as of tomorrow (in a few hours)! And your video popped up and I believe the universe is also sending me a message with this! Your video really resonated with me. Similar to you, I am Australian born Vietnamese lived in London, Paris, and Dubai, pivoted my career just shy of 2 years and been feel some friction the past month. I know I need to take action. That fear you mention... so REAL and I know it to well! I just have to remind myself to trust the path. Thank you for sharing this and showing your vulnerability. Best wishes and congratulations with your next journey of life! You are deserving! P.S This is my first comment ever on KZbin, I went against my grain X

[@justynas561]

Happy Birthday :)

[@RobDeMann]

This is so relatable. Making a big step towards something new is so intimidating but often times its worth the shot. "Failures" build you, an accomplishment towards something greater

[@turkeytraveltips]

I moved 3 countries settled in 4th Finally in Turkey 🇹🇷 I can understand in my 40s its 5years already n now m in 45 🥰😄

[@jovanarichard]

I change country two years ago and are living in France now. Definitely the most challenging period of my life! Becoming a mom , learning the language, integrating, adapting, accepting the weather 24/7 😅☔️☔️☔️ omg was a lot to pressed but i can say that finally after 3years i start feeling better here. Also i’m 36 years old , and this is something that is coming from the person who traveled the world 🌎. Is not easy but but you need 3 to 5 years to integrate and adapt ( it’s a long process ) but it’s totally worth it! Good luck 💕💕💕

[@musicreboost]

So great you created this video! Thank you so much for your example! Definitely there are more and more people who care about themselves and start thinking critically… Who said that settle down brings happiness and wealth - it can bring deep depression which is worth! Wishing you a great journey and lots of success! You are the best! ❤

[@DearworthBooks]

What I wish more people understood is that we no longer are forced to live only one life. Starting over should be a triumph! I've cycled through three lives already, and each iteration of myself is better than the one that came before it. I become a better mother, a better woman, a better lover, a better employee, a better leader... Life becomes less scary and daunting and more imaginative and available for possibility. Honestly... staying stagnant is more shameful imho

[@siobhanhumstonart]

It’s so good to see this and read some of the comments! In summer 2020 my two year live-in artist residency contract ended so despite England’s guidelines saying you couldn’t kick anyone out, I asked to extend my stay by a month and was told no. I applied and was accepted to do a PhD in Scotland while house sitting in Ireland but with the pervasive lockdowns I would not have been able to access the uni studio or supervisors in person so I made the tough decision to return to Canada to help with my elderly parents. After years of living in several countries and doing artist residencies in order to continue to evolve as an artist, I found myself grounded in a place that the circumstances provided. Three years later, some great things have happened but I’ve spent lots of time admonishing myself for my years of wanderings, what others see as instability, and now, after putting together a museum exhibition I’m ready to find home. It is so helpful hearing the stories of others and how they manage to stay focused and evolve. Thank you!

[@fabifernandes2024]

I just turned 36 and I’m in the process of changing careers, from logistics to tech (completely different industry) and I moved to the UK 3 years ago. I totally relate with your situation

[@anastasiascutelnic6951]

What did you study to work in logistics?

[@sylviaschaffner2551]

I loved this. I moved from South Africa to the Netherlands at 38 and solo and had lived in two different countries before that also. This time the pressure felt more heavy and daunting largely because I think I let societal pressures get to me. But I also didn't want to stay in a country that didn't serve me as you said. It was either stay there and hope for the best or proactively do something different again. I loved your video and salute. ❤

[@HerNewHabits]

Thanks for this video. It's true what you said about failure. Sometimes things don't work out how we want, but that doesn't mean they are failures. They are great opportunities to learn. And even if it doesn't look like we are making any progress, we are. The process is different for everyone, and we shouldn't judge others or ourselves at any time.

[@magdalena9346]

I am in same situation as you are right now. End of month, we are moving to different city, we will rent a house for a first time in my life. New job, new position that I never had before. The mix of feelings and emotions is so real. When we got this opportunity, I said no. Then I sat on the thought and I think the same. Not always but often is good and better to just do things against the fear we feel. And same as you, I just hope that this is going to work out as it did in a past. Good Luck! 🍀

[@anthonysakin1151]

My very best wishes to you Poppy. What you're doing is great and I'm sure you'll do well. I'm 60+ and have lived / worked in over 20 countries (including Thailand) though 5 careers (more or less 😅). And thinking about moving to Spain next year. Never regretted a single move. Some were worse than others but all a learning experience.

[@beerbkk3474]

I stumbled across your video and we have so much in common! I’m 38, married no kids. I moved to the US from UK 9 months ago. I have lived in Thailand, UK and now US. I have changed my career this year. Wish you the best of luck na ka.

[@princesscloudberry]

"Absolutely captivating video, I must say, the introspection is simply riveting. It's all about striving to be the best version of oneself, and I couldn't agree more. It's truly remarkable how much a person can transform in just five years. The journey of self-improvement is a lifelong process, and it's wonderful to see people embracing it. Kudos to the creator for sharing such an inspiring message!"

[@riyabejoy5158]

From everyone who say am starting over, remember you are starting with experience and that makes a lot of difference. Wishing you well in your journey ❤

[@mindful_wander]

Good point! Great to keep in mind. Thanks.

[@jerrrytran5487]

I settled in New Zealand for 15 years now and never regret 1second about it. changing and exploration are good but need to consider everything. base on the facts, financial, environment , people the old place vs new place ( that is the catch) . Think carefully before you do and be careful what you wish for, good luck to all

[@sandrakay1789]

This video resonates with me in so many ways. I love how you reflect on the path of life. I recently turned 30 and life has been really scary since because of all the expectations that people throw at me. I am far away from being settled but I am glad that I have the chance to pursue my dreams now. I am still on the way to build up my career towards that goal and I think that it is really important to be kind to yourself while consistently trying your best.

[@ko_grindz]

I’m wishing you nothing but the best for your move

[@reinventingpoppy]

Thanks so much!

[@lenamonique18]

this is powerful! im in my transitional phase at 31 and i connected to your story so much! thank you!

[@Family_Thais]

Cheers and good luck It’s funny. I’m 42, grew up in Thailand (though in American), came back to the states for college and business, and now looking to sell my business and relocate to Thailand with wife (Vietnamese but spent her whole life here in the states) and kid. Life is a strange journey, and sometimes things happen in life which can be the spark which send you on a completely different trajectory. Enjoy the ride, and without challenges there are no victories. Best of luck! We are just beginning our journey of wanting to move overseas with the family (maybe 4 or 5 years out). So we have a long road and patience and planning ahead

[@joannaopowiada]

I'm really glad I find your channel :) You inspire me in my early 30s

[@kimgroslouis5587]

I am 31 and the way it goes in my life and with everything I have lived in my 20s I extremely relate to this thought of starting over completely. Like a big reset like nothing excited before 31. I've been thinking of this since at least 2 years now so maybe it's just a matter of time until I do it.

[@haaniemperrow1105]

it takes alot of courage to change careers and to move, you are living your life so well done to you for making changes as you see fit to do. good luck with all your set out to do, you are amazing

[@astrostar49]

Beautiful video my friend. I must have said thank you quite a few times on your previous videos, but I won't stop saying thank you for the insight you continue to provide. Might have mentioned I'm 36 myself, trying my best to change my destiny. And your encouraging words have been on my mind for many days since I stumbled upon your channel. Enjoy yourself in the USA Poppy. I wish you all the best, and hope you continue to share the chapters of your life with the universe. I'm sure I speak for a lot of people when I say that you truly are helping people with what you have to say. And the quote you have for a tattoo is just a remarkable statement I'm glad I heard today of all the days. Best regards from Macau, and thank you again :)

[@Sofia__901]

I'm surprised you didn't move to Dubai, the lifestyle appears so much nicer (new subscriber)-than London, I wanted to say thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your life, it makes me feel less alone!

[@reinventingpoppy]

Well now that you mentioned, we were weighting between either Dubai or Florida and ended up choosing the latter! :)

[@Sofia__901]

@@reinventingpoppy Florida sounds amazing too!, I would be worried about the crocodiles! haha,

[@miav7160]

@@reinventingpoppyGlad you chose Florida and not California. My family immigrated from Thailand to America in the early 90s to Cali, USA. California has changed so much since then. ❤

[@jeannydiary]

I am 37 I am separate, living in Germany and lost the job last month … ❤❤ I moved out from Thailand went to UK and now end up in Germany. I don’t know what’s next 😢 thank you for your videos. ❤❤

[@Tanakaxox]

You’re so brave, I’m looking forward to following your new journey in the US! Wishing you guys the best ❤

[@reinventingpoppy]

Thank you so much!

[@palmacate]

I love your reasoning in this video. And for those that think that changing career or place is failure, well it's their problem. You are being brave, and I wish you all the best!

[@ajmartineau8221]

Cute

[@yinq7558]

While moving is enriching, staying in one place is not necessarily settling for everyone. Having some roots allows you to deepen your relationships with friends and family, and give you the stability to improve yourself. Sometimes we move around to escape, but the truth is we cannot escape our own thoughts…

[@pavithrajanarsan1940]

I am 37 with dreams to move to Europe. Being an Asian i was conditioned into so many stories and thinking patterns which acted as a self-sabotage preventing me in pursuing this 5 years dream that I had.Finally i am waking up to it and want to make this happen. Have been preparing for it, but the surge of fear and sadness that comes up thinking that i will be leaving the old life and old me is surreal. This has became my comfort zone and leaving the comfort zone comes with all sorts of mixed feelings. But i love you said that better things are awaiting. Thank you for this message. Sometimes it feels like its too late for me to make a move like this. But watching people like you working through this challenges gracefully even though emotions may come up, are really uplifting. Thank you so much! ❤❤❤

[@linda_and_tony]

This video resonated so much with me thank you so much for articulating your feeling so eloquently. I’m currently about to embark on a very scary but exciting adventure and I couldn’t for the life of me put those emotions into words. I wish you all the best on your new adventure!😊❤

[@jesselleedulsa5628]

Hi Poppy, I'm so glad I've stumbled upon your video. New sub here! ❤❤❤ Thank you for sharing this with us, I'm sure a lot of people can relate and find inspiration to this. I'm a 31-yr-old female, no kids, never been married, and currently being in the healing process from ending a decade of live-in relationship. It sucks becuase it feels like my life has no direction but at the same time it's exciting because I get to do things for myself and plan my future. 😊😊😊 To everyone who's watching Poppy's vid and reading this comment - we got it! We're brave, resilient, and strong! Onward we go 🙌💪

[@reinventingpoppy]

Hey my love. Yes onward we go!! ❤️ I'm married but no kids yet and I'm excited for your journey in healing from part relationship!

[@mindful_wander]

Sometimes we need to get lost in order to truly find ourselves. Moving away from a decade-long relationship is a huge change for anyone. All the best to you on your new journey! I'm sure the person you become in the next 5-10 years will look back and be surprised at how far they've come and what life has brought them. 😊

[@jesselleedulsa5628]

Thank you both for your kind words. Wishing the best to everyone ❤️❤️❤️

[@Keshiadalton]

I’m 37 with 3 children. Seriously thinking about relocating. I live in a state no where near family and it’s hard. Videos like yours has been popping up on my timeline so I will take it as a sign.

[@themacocko6311]

I disagree with the earlier in life you make those three choices, the better. Doesn't really matter when you make those choices because your preference for those three things will change all throughout your life.

[@reinventingpoppy]

You know that's true, we change as we grow don't we

[@markcastillo3490]

I agree. Life is not a race. Everyone go through it at their own pace.

[@kiruthigakuppuswamy3711]

I am 39 and moved to UK from France 3 years back. My first 25 years in India, 10 years in France, now been 3 years in UK. I am enjoying my stay in UK with my son and husband. We did plan to settle here before we moved. But life has plans , In 3 years time we are planning to move to Asia, either Thailand, India or Indonesia. I am equally excited and worried. Its a blessing and a curse to have plan B. All the best . When you have the confidence, it becomes like a obvious reason to move. Go with the flow, life is going to be beautiful.😊

[@shamiskarohith599]

At 35, i moved on my own from South Africa to Ireland to better my career opportunities. Almost hitting the 2 year mark now...still single and trying to make new friends. It's definitely not easy, and I've had ups and downs. In the long run, I know it was best for me.

[@kelliroberts]

I am so glad I found your channel. Your videos are so calming.

[@Happy-B-W]

I remember a quote I read when I was about 35 : « What if fail ? What if you fly ? ». When you talked about failure I remember it vividly. So what if you fly ? ❤️

[@reinventingpoppy]

Yes!!! Thanks so much for this!

[@saturnroyalty]

thank you for making this video. as someone going through something similar watching this has been super validating and comforting. ❤

[@axisblue]

Omg! This is so beautiful channel ❤❤ thank you for sharing. I believe in living life for full potential. Its all about energies which are circulating within you. No need to be scared of leaving built life. That journey helped you to extract and polish all necessary qualities required for the next level 😊😊 Long live USA journey 😁😁

[@reinventingpoppy]

I’m glad you love the channel! That's it, no fear, only fabulousness!

[@B00TY_MASHER]

It takes a lot of courage to start over. It’s a risk many are afraid to make. Most would rather be miserable in a job they hate because of the “security” it offers. Having faith is risking it all with no guarantees!

[@yashodararajapakse3181]

Wish you well with your new chapter in life Poppy. So grateful that shared about the initial struggling days. When you said what happened in 2009 it literally felt like god talked to me through you. That's where I am at right now.. 💓

[@Julia.Zykova]

Thank you for your video and your words! It was very timely for me! Sometimes we don't know what is the best decision to make. But actually everything happens at the right time. We just need to be patient and keep going🧡

[@ClassyCheapskate]

Hi Poppy! Congratulations on your new decision and career! I'm a KZbin creator from the US. I welcome you! Thank you for putting out great content that I can listen to while I do my costume making business. I consider you one of my go-to podcast type channels. It's nice seeing your views and similar eating style. Keep up the great work!

[@nankfbhx]

so excited about seeing whats next for you! thanks for taking us with you on that journey. love from germany

[@neildavid409]

I can relate to all you have been going thru and I cried too when you were sitting down on the floor in your bare house. Currently, I am in the UK but I was previously working in Abudhabi. I went to the same thing and you inspired me. I wish you all the best!