STAY AT HOME WITH ME | COOKING, CLEANING, CHILLED AT HOME VLOG

[@Willowbear0701]

I love these kind of videos Ruby! It's so cosy. My little girl is a few weeks younger than Goldie and I'm watching during her nap. It's so nice to see a realistic side of motherhood, makes me feel like I'm doing ok ❤

[@sanghasheena]

Thank you for recording a realistic day of being a mum! I feel your energy! 🙏🏼 finding my village is what I need to do for my sanity 😢

[@user-vi4sh]

I was sat in bed feeling down & 10 mins into this video i got up & started cleaning then popped my diffuser on 🥰 love your videos ruby!

[@RubyHolley]

Awww I love that!! ❤️ glad it made you feel better! xxx

[@mandyjohal1193]

Well done Ruby, very realistic mum life and great you shared your true feelings, such a nice watch x

[@katepalmer5630]

Hi Ruby. This took me right back to being on maternity leave. I remember those days of having to pack so much and spend so long to be able to get out of the house! But it doesn’t last long. By the time they are 3, you hardly have to take anything. And now, the time has flown and my boys are 11 and 8 and it’s just a case of telling them to get their shoes on (on repeat!) I remember following the Gina Ford weaning guide. It was a life saver. Even if you don’t want to follow it rigidly, there’s some brilliant recipes in there for weaning and also, it’s fantastic for food quantities and milk reduction. I wouldn’t have had a clue without it and it worked so well x

[@lornaColton]

Loved this video! A proper realistic day in the life of a mum!! X

[@harrietpatchett1561]

Love this style blog, super comforting! Also love your high street try ons x

[@eimearmaccumhaill7180]

I loved this vlog. WOW, Ruby you snapped back. Thank you for sharing how organized you have to be. Very entertaining vlog. ❤

[@fionaparry6042]

Hey Ruby. Great vlog 😊 I'm a mum of 3, I found the Wonder weeks app really helpful. Its probably a developmental thing for Goldie being so clingy, not just due to her only being with you (which will obviously be a factor aswell) but wonder weeks gives you loads of info. Also I found it really helpful when my health visitor told me "food is for fun" up until 12 months. I got obsessed with trying to get 3 full meals down my 1st baby when really it should just be to introduce flavours and textures. The majority of their calories should come from milk until 12 months, perhaps something to bear in mind when you were unsure of wether to increase/decrease for food/milk. You're doing great x

[@samanthabreeze1422]

She will grow out of it my first daughter was the same it’s just she feels safe with u and Sam because her world is only small at minute as young don’t worry u sound amazing ❤

[@snapdragon89]

Hi Ruby! I have the rapid cool too and I’m just wondering why do you fill it with cold water?? x

[@shelbycranex]

what do you ask for when you get your hair?x

[@Lucy-op5bp]

Love your vlogs so much!

[@valeriehill6382]

Always fab to see you xx

[@laurens2318]

You’re doing an amazing job! ❤️ 🏆 x

[@lucindamay5461]

Love this vlog! ✨ Always look forward to your uploads ❤ xx

[@sophiemasters4543]

Ah was happy when I saw your video pop up! ❤ xx

[@mustafafamilyvlogs1321]

Very nice blog ❤👗❤️❤️👍

[@leonieanson5237]

Ruby, what is that gold appliance behind you? I think its a toaster (not 100% sure) but its stunning, do you mind me asking where its from? Thankyouuu xxx

[@lebudgets]

Loved the video 💕can you link the grey jumper you were wearing during the haul xx

[@carolannmurray4024]

Really enjoyed your video xxx

[@sammymumford9604]

Heyy how come you filled the rapid cool with cold water and packed it? I’ve just got one and find it so confusing when it probably the most simple contraption ever 😂 xx

[@RubyHolley]

I filled it with boiling water - we have a boiling tap! Then it will cool down and I’ll do a hot shot of boiling water from a cafe or whatever in the formula bottle and then top up with the cooled boiled water xxxx

[@sammymumford9604]

Amazing! Thanks so much 😊

[@CharlotteHulse]

Hi lovely what was the app called for the weaning

[@RubyHolley]

Solid Starts xxx

[@ashleajones9431]

Where is your grey knitted top from ? So lovely xx

[@RubyHolley]

And other stories lovely x

[@calvinliu6304]

Hello Happy 🐣 long time no see hope you have a great day.

[@samanthabreeze1422]

U got a family now I will let u off By the way u look amazing hope all ok ❤

[@emmagrovesport6938]

Sorry if i missed when you spoke about this. Have you stop breastfeeding? X

[@hellogorgeous101]

That whole mom math stressed me out. This is not for me 😅

[@pw4200]

Girl get yourself some help, a cleaner a couple of days awake

[@EJH989]

you should wash the clothes before putting on baby

[@Vickiboe592]

You sweet girl. Too much “single parent” whining. Young mothers today have no clue about doing parenting mostly alone. Had my kids in the 70’s. Whole different era. Raise 3 kids with hubby always on the road. Worked full time and kept home and children responsibilities mostly alone. Had no family near …. Count your blessings. 💕

[@maus4970]

Please don‘t mom shame her. Every mother is different. Some are resilient to stress, others not so much. And there is nothing wrong with whining from time to time. All my respect to you though for raising 3 babies almost by yourself. Love only to you

[@naomiramage4950]

This is not a nice comment and does not have the intention of making a mum feel good about herself

[@princesskaideka]

Good for you ,what an awful negative comment ,mother hood isn’t a competition !

[@Vickiboe592]

I was waiting for your negative comments to my opinion. It’s just sometimes you need to remember just how good you really have it. Stop going on and on about how hard life is. Seriously ladies. 🩵

[@RubyHolley]

I wouldn’t normally reply to a comment like this but I couldn’t help myself because whilst I’m sure you feel like your comment came from a good place, I feel it’s hurtful and patronising. If I came on here and bragged about how amazing life is and lied about how easy I find it all the time and how perfect everything is you don’t think that would be more damaging to people out there who are finding it hard? I’m honest and I speak my unfiltered mind about motherhood because it’s important to show that not everyone you see on social media lives a life full of happiness and perfection 24/7 and I think it’s so important to be open and honest and admit that being a mum is bloody tough, and whilst it’s the best thing that has ever happened to me, it can also be really hard, and for me and I’m sure plenty others, I find it the hardest when I’m doing it alone. I can be grateful for my life and my wonderful baby and still find things tough at the same time - the two feelings don’t have to be separate of each other. I hate this toxic way of comparing and invalidating women’s feelings because someone somewhere has it harder. Someone somewhere is always going to have things worse than you do and whilst that can help to put things into perspective, it absolutely should not invalidate your feelings. It would have been much nicer for you to be proud of the way you handled your motherhood journey whilst also supporting other mothers and not trying to belittle their feelings and make them feel guilty for feeling a certain way. There’s enough to feel guilty about as a mum without other women making them feel worse. I don’t think your comment was made with ill intent but I think it’s important to address it.