Things I'm Not Buying in 2024 - SAVE YOUR MONEY!

[@ClassicClaudine]

The Hermes shopping game (it’s not a ‘journey,’ is a game) is by far the STUPIDEST thing ever. “Buy 100k of stuff you don’t really like so maybe, possibly, you could be offered a bag in a size or color that you don’t like.” It’s a handbag version of an abusive relationship. They can keep their stupid bags.

[@StellaConnolly]

I feel like more and more people are feeling this way. 😔

[@nasamanithorne2600]

I so AGREE!!!…..come to think of it, other than the Hermes Lindy, I really think the Birkin, Kelly and Constance are straight forward designs, of course there are the good quality leather and craftsmanship, but it really does not warrant a 5 figure sum for some of the Hermes bags, ladies don’t be fooled.

[@debihaywood5454]

Well said. So silly.

[@katemiller7874]

Lol right. Smart women know this already

[@Yourbagmybagreview]

It is 101% not true that you need to buy stuff just to be offered a kelly or a Birkin, it's just happened that the bag is so popular then when you go to France botique they cannot offer/give to you because it's most of the time sold out. But the moment you will tell what you like color, design, the SA will keep that information and will definitely call you and offer you the bag through call then that's the time you'll get your dream bag but it takes a lot of time, and disappointment in the beginning, but the said purchase first any stuff before offer a bag is not totally true

[@hawnair6624]

I am beyond words HAPPY that you’re back, Stella!!!! Your energy, smiling face, your spirit!!! Fellow FA so very grateful for you!

[@PenniP]

Welcome back lovely! I am a retired F/A (from your airline). About 15 years ago, I stopped buying luxury brands, even “on sale”, books, candles, etc. I basically spent intentionally, before it was even a “thing”. I started putting the money into my 401k and I was able to retire (after flying 30 years) debt free, with a big chunk of change in my 401k. I retired 10 years earlier than the normal retirement age and I am loving life. I applaud you for making the changes AND congratulations on your backyard! 💖✈️💖

[@Gigi-VG]

Bravo!🤩

[@shamrockgirl6595]

Stand your ground, Stella! Don't let Berkin, Louis Vuitton or Chanel wrangle you!! lol

[@debthomas9903]

So glad to see you again! You helped get me through cancer treatment, now just had heart surgery and your back!! Love hearing your excitement and laugh!

[@katemiller7874]

Hope you are feeling good deb

[@Bk-uz3pk]

Sold all my bags. No interest anymore. Stopped shopping at Sephora etc, drug store only for skincare and makeup. Gave myself a buzz cut 2 years ago. When I moved, realized how much name brand stuff I hardly used. Hair was long and always in a bun and minimal make up but spent so much on hair care make up etc. I am trying to find my one “signature” fragrance, that will be my luxury 😂

[@StellaConnolly]

I love your journey. 😊

[@Beswift1989]

@@StellaConnollyyou make the world better ❤missed you

[@dollymadeson3963]

After years I found Valentino Born in Roma Intenso… its unisex ( or for males, lol) walked around Sephora and asked which smelled best. Love!!!

[@lore.35]

Fanny looks so happy in that yard! It’s good to see you in good spirits again Stella ❤️ I am so happy you are back! 🎉

[@StellaConnolly]

It warms our hearts so much that he finally has an area all his own 🖤🖤

[@Priscillaa143]

Omg I never even knew that’s the way Birkin bags were bought. At that point though you’re better off paying extra for the item you actually want. Loved this video Stella! Glad you’re back!

[@StellaConnolly]

Thats why the Birkin and Kelly bags are so expensive on the pre love websites because they know you have to buy a ton of stuff at the store before you are given a chance to buy the bag you really want.

[@TravelwithTasha393]

I am obsessed with reading on my commute to and from work. I am always at Barnes and Noble. I need to go back to my local library. I used to do it during the pandemic, but now I go to the bookstore. I can drop some serious cash on books so I am with you.

[@KindnessMatters_]

Two hundred per month is a lot! In ten months that will be a savings of two thousand dollars! Great video, Stella! Aww, your doggy is so cute! TFS!

[@mandy6313]

I needed this energy starting 2024!! Resist the cute water bottle temptation! 😂

[@StellaConnolly]

It takes all my strength not to buy more water bottles! I love them so much. 😂

[@shamrockgirl6595]

Sooooooo happy 😊 to see you back Stella.

[@StellaConnolly]

Wow you have been an a subbie from the start! 💚. Thank you for the support throughout the years!

[@je-suis_Tati]

You know what Stella? That’s called maturity! Yes, that’s being mature and responsible! I applaud what you said about the Birkin. I bought into the stupidity and bought one preloved for a lot more than retail, guess what! I didn’t feel right, didn’t have the excitement and didn’t care for it plus I felt STUPID, so I sold it after hating what I did, not the bag but what that represented and I lost a lot of money 🙄but never again! I am a chanel lover for years (was my first love and still is unfortunately lol), and I have a sufficient and lovely collection of ONLY what I wear, enjoy and loveeeeee., but I completely agree and understand what you said 😂.

[@yuyugo62]

I didn’t know about the hermes system, very manipulative and “breadcrumbing” 😠 but I’m not surprised 🤷🏻‍♀️ don’t play their game Stella! It’s a trap! 😤

[@tinag7381]

I think that's so silly that anyone can't just walk in and buy one without building up a profile for Hermes. I'm glad you addressed this as well☆

[@sue6487]

Yesssssss! Frannie is back too!!!❤❤ Frannie looks good and happy in a grassy backyard!!❤❤

[@ruthbickerstaffe1915]

So wonderful to see you Stella and Franny. He really is enjoying his backyard. Dear puppy really needed his own garden. Very sensible Stella to cut out non essentials. I think most of us have started doing this. Looking forward to seeing your videos every week. Blessings🌠🙏💗🐾🐾

[@PinoIcepop]

Yes, the library! Also if you have a kindle or want more audio books, then maybe join a bunch of libraries on your layovers and browse their digital and audio books so you can have a bigger selection.

[@StellaConnolly]

Great idea, thank you!

[@lupecrisp5808]

Stella!!!! Missed you!! I have been watching you for years and glad to see you back! I started watching you to unwind from work and I’m so interested in your flight attendant life, your lifestyle channel, and love your personality! Hope you guys are doing well! Take care and welcome back! 💕

[@JetSettinGio]

My friend bought an Hermes scarf and had it framed. It looks really cool displayed as art.

[@terireid651]

So happy to see you back again. Smart move on less buying. I try to use the saying “do you need it or just want it?” Looking forward to a house tour soon. God bless.

[@daleparker515]

Missed your videos about you and your life. Hope you, Bart, and Frannie are doing well. Wishing you all healthy and blessed 2024.

[@christycotton4200]

❤❤❤ loving that your back…missed you! not sure what happened in that year and a half but I’m loving the change! In 2020 my family and I realize that we didn’t need the things of the world. It was a small things that made us happy and went back to living old-school (if anybody knows what that means) you just look so happy, and I’m glad you’re back

[@wb-lr9ig]

That scarf is fabulous. No idea what to do with it but it’s beautiful

[@Francestnlv]

I will never understand why people don’t use there library. I would spend 100$ on books every month if I didn’t use the library.

[@katemiller7874]

Some people have shelving and a library. We like to read our books over and over and loan them to our children. We like the way they feel and smell. That’s why

[@kathy3178]

Some areas have very small libraries and the selection isn't always the greatest.

[@Shippingnews]

I intentionally did not comment last week because while I was over the freaking moon with your return to YT, I absolutely did not want you to feel pressure to return to a regular posting schedule. I still feel that way, but I did admittedly squeal with excitement when I saw another video this week!

[@In2makeup87]

Horray, I am ecstatic to see you posting again! You were missed. I still watch your older flight attendant vlogs. Thank you for being a bright spot on KZbin!!! ❤

[@gemmabenson6426]

Love this! I’m doing a no spend year! Only purchasing to top up or replace! I want to enjoy what I have and not spend anything on things I do not need!! I want to save money!! It’s too much!! 😂💕

[@vhoov2218]

Half Price Books - I purchase a book, read it and sell it back. I love physical books and there are great options - libraries, online used, sharing, etc

[@danam8450]

Where do you sell your books after you’re done reading?

[@melissamoeller9608]

Welcome back Stella (and Bart & Franny)! So good to see you again. I’m sorry that you’ve been through so much. It sounds like you’re making some really great decisions on how to spend your time and money. I’d encourage you to have some sort of reward system (something free or cheap) that you can look forward to because you get a lot of dopamine from retail therapy and fast food. So proud of you 👍

[@josimpson7999]

Wow Stella! You’re going to able to retire early if you keep this new regime up! I’m way too parsimonious to be so extravagant with my spending - although I do have a couple of LV bags (I’m a handbag lover too). You’ll be amazed at how much you’ll save 👏🏻. Good to see you back BTW 😊🇬🇧

[@katemiller7874]

Thanks Stella I appreciate your honesty. We all have flops. Very understandable.

[@heatherj9029]

My best Hermes purchases are from Heathrow Term 5. The most used Hermes items I've actually used are the dinnerware pieces. They are used almost daily. If I have them, I'm going to use them.

[@StellaConnolly]

I LOVE SHOPPING AT HEATHROW!! Vat taxes come right off the price! That airport is one of my favorite places to buy designer anything.

[@gwynethglas-brown9171]

Franny sure loves her Garden 🥰 200 dollars thats quite a saving every little penny counts these days . We gone through abonnement etc stop thoses that were absolutely not necessary any more . My Goal is to get as much of my Painting by numbers & Diamond paintings done with out buying any more Make the time to sit relax doing them. Lovely to see you Stella have a Good week 🥰

[@reidmoraske7036]

I’m so happy to see that you are back! I completely agree with you about using the library instead of buying. I buy all my books and then save them, don’t need the clutter. My goal for this year is to get rid of things I don’t need or use! Welcome back!!!

[@Franniiv3]

Happy 2024, Miss Stella! I'm also staying away from 'Trendy' items like SLG I don't need more of. Or 'It' Jewellery, as everyone seems to have them, they're not unique, are only expensive due to the Brand, and I don't love them. Plus the quality of some Luxury items has been going down so much over the past few years, and they're not worth it. If I fall in love with a piece and have to have it as I'll enjoy it forever, then it'll always be worth it:) Aww I love the end footage of Franny running in your new Garden! xo

[@Mimlou]

Girl!!!! Where you beeeeeennnn???❤❤❤

[@Sk__10]

I also have a tip, since you know the products that you want to restock don’t go to the stores order everything you need online that helps me alot with not being tempted to buy anything extra or adding an item I don’t need to my endless wishlist

[@StellaConnolly]

That is such a good idea! I love going to the stores because I like to see all the new things but in reality I don't need them. 😔 I'll just want for the Sephora sales and order online! 💪

[@carolynfoster3513]

Hi Stella. I’m so glad you are back making videos. It’s fun to see you. I hope all is well.

[@stephaniesodre5027]

We would love to see your new house tour video!!! Welcome back!!! Happy that you’re back to us!!!❤

[@user-wh8er7jx1k]

I am so so so glad to see you back!!! I had followed you for years and was so sad when you quit posting..I am so happy to see your smiling face again Stella.😊

[@kkyles605]

The Birkin game is ridiculous! So much to go through to then pay a ridiculous amount of money for a bag. I love handbags, but I resolved when I retired last June was not to purchase anymore luxury handbags. I'm holding firm so far!

[@michellekoh1183]

I’m so glad I bought luxury items before the crazy price increases. I’m so over the ridiculous prices they charge now for lower quality materials. Every time I get an itch, I will just be more diligent in rotating my current items and learn to just be thankful for what I already have.

[@lauraholloway6986]

I love the library too

[@Katie-dy5vh]

Always love your content Stella! So glad you’re back

[@StellaConnolly]

Thank you for coming back and supporting! ☺️💜

[@debwlv]

Very sensible list❤❤❤❤. You can do it, at the very least, you will make a big difference in the quality of your life by making an effort to cut back -- good luck! P.S. lovely to see you again!❤

[@NaomiJones-pc3bz]

Stella, your 2024 resolution video is inspiring! It's refreshing to see your honest take on resisting the urge to buy impulsively, especially with luxury items like the Birkin. Your approach to reevaluating necessities versus desires, and the emphasis on conscious consumerism is a valuable perspective. Also, kudos on cutting down subscription costs - it's a great reminder for all of us to reassess our own expenses. Keep up the fantastic content!

[@KenyaG.]

You got this, Stella! 💪🏾 And you'll see the difference in savings after cutting out the unnecessary. I'm working on getting a pouchette though. 🤭

[@user-xg8gj2ol3s]

he variety of textures in the #kkuwan pack is impressive. From smooth leather to textured suede, there's something for everyone.

[@kathy3178]

I don't remember they name of it. There is man here on KZbin who makes leather goods. He takes apart the designer leather goods to see if they are worth the money. Several of the pricier ones had cheap materials in the inside and were way over priced. It was very eye opening for me.

[@gaillittle1700]

Franny your mom and dad got you a yard, and you look so happy. Stella good luck on your not going to buy list. At the end of 2024 you'll have to let us know how you made out?.

[@peggyberger6403]

It swear, it is so good to see you! FRAN FRAN!!!!! 🐾 sending hugs and nose boops for Franny

[@brandyrobinson9014]

I agree! Definitely going into 2024 down sizing especially the subscription services 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Posh_CZ]

We are literally on the same page! Small leather goods and Birkin. Ugh I have so many slg’s because I love them so much. Hermes, I will still buy a birkin, but will not buy things I don’t want.

[@helmtl1234]

Omg Franny… made my day 🥰. So glad you’re back Stella and fam 🎉

[@jesssmvlz]

Loved the message behind this video, Stella! I stopped lusting over insignificant pieces and am now trying to curate a more classic/timeless collection 💖

[@KewpieGirl]

Its good to see you again and fanny, too! Very helpful to think of what not to buy again for this year, its almost like refreshing start. I will have to cut back of not spending of what Im not using it. This year I didn't buy new makeup and skincare, I only buy what I need for daily use.

[@nikkiburton8811]

Happy New Year Stella I’m sooo glad you’re back you were definitely miss😊❤🎉

[@claudiarusso6702]

So nice to see you back Stella! You, Bart and Franny were sorely missed but you're back!!! I'm in the same boat as you, trimming down alot in the new year. Thank you for your good pointers, yes, I knocked off some subscriptions, a huge savings. Happy 2024! It's already a good year because you're back!!!👏👏👏👏😊❤

[@barbarakongslie2187]

Love your personality.. it’s so nice to see you again…hope your extended family and friends are doing well.

[@NaturalBohemia]

Oh Stella, you spoke to me! I went into Cartier about 2 years ago and went in thinking I was going to buy the "love ring" and once there I saw how many people were buying it or wearing it and I had a change of heart. I ended up with the "trinity ring" large model and I love it!

[@StellaConnolly]

Love the trinity ring!! You made such a great decision. I've thought about adding that one to my life but I'm not buying "designer jewelry" in 2024!! 😂

[@totysucre]

Franny!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ happy to have you back Stella!

[@DaisyGNgo]

❤ yes to the library!

[@pagingamber]

Hi Stella! Great to see you back! ❤

[@jesusisfaithful7]

THAT'S GREAT, I HOPE YOU STAND YOUR GROUND👍🏼😁

[@MyDreamIsAStory]

Same with me. No water bottles. I bought a Yeti last year and I really like. I put some stickers on it and it’s been my go to for the last few months. So I don’t need anymore. That and the other two I use for coffee at work.

[@lindapadilla8393]

You’re blessed to be able to buy luxury items, but at the end of the day they are just things we really don’t need!

[@Anonymous-zi5wr]

If you aren't interested in viewing luxury items, why are you even watching this channel? Really bizarre behavior.

[@meeganmuse7305]

Oh em gee!! I so needed to hear/see this! I, too, need to stop buying stuff/cr*p I don’t need! I have so much of it all too! I just need to use what I already have. Wow. So enlightening!! Thanks , Stella! Glad to have you back! 😊🤗

[@ryanspiralke5306]

Stella, I'm so happy to see you and Franny! Look at that yard, no more NYC dog parks. I stopped doing the wallflowers about a year ago, it's to much and always something new or on sale. I also have a dog, and it's not the best for them, I heard. I'm really loving my candle lamp warmer I got, which makes the candles last longer.

[@claudineignarski8496]

So glad you are back! Love your videos! Happy 2024!!

[@MadamMMStyleIcon]

I’m on ban island 🏝️ so this is also applicable to me 😅thanks for your video 😊

[@shonnie089]

All great ideas! Someone is really loving their backyard to run around in!

[@Cotswoldblonde]

Good positive changes 💛

[@MamaEH90]

Yes Stella we hear you and could't agree more!!!! Say we create a luxury goods account and at the end of 2024 we splurge on that one expensive item and for me I told myself if I lose my prior baby weight then yes Mama will treat herself to a prior loved birkin or some red bottoms ... What do you think? 🥂

[@Kelly-Kay]

So happy that you’re back Stella! Love that you’re cutting all these things this year. You can do it! I’ve been doing the same trying to cut costs with subscriptions and various bills. I never got into the high end products but I’ve definitely wasted some money on home scents, etc. my husband and I both agreed this year were completely cutting out the fast food. You’re right, it’s no longer good or worth the price.

[@StellaConnolly]

Good luck to you and your husband! We can do it, NO fast food 2024 🤗

[@ShareeArmstrong]

Way to go Stella, Bart......and Frannie!!! Always good to do a little financial housekeeping. Once things are set to auto, we tend to forget about them and don't realize the duplicates are draining our wallets every month.

[@cynthia6055]

Happy New Year Stella.....so good to see you back! Agree cutting what we can live without.

[@terrygivens132]

What happy Francie!

[@kathymartin812]

That Chanel lipstick with the gloss is my favorite. I have used it for years. It truly has staying power. I have found nothing else like it. The product lasts a long time and because of that I think it’s a good value.

[@kimberlyfamoly5863]

If you get to buy the Birkin or Kelly you should, because you can re-sale it for even more than you purchase it for.

[@silverranger4294]

I always like looking not buying better for the wallet good eye candy but not necessary!

[@J.ElizabethB]

Your videos always make my day. The Hermes earrings are so cute, hope you wear them a bunch in 2024. Glad you’re back ❤

[@StellaConnolly]

I can't believe I forgot I had those earrings. I've just bought so many random things throughout the years I don't even know what all I have. 🤪

[@crazylvlady]

Great goals! They are good ones.

[@MariaRodriguez-om1yi]

I think if you didn’t buy on the secondhand market already then it’s too late now because prices are higher than I’ve ever seen them for definitely the 25 and even the 30s are pretty high. The 25s then all of the most popular colors which are neutrals are going for $30,000 and the size 30 are going for 25,000 and these are obviously both in excellent like new condition. I’m sure you can find better deals if they’re really used and old.

[@ritabenaglio4518]

So good to see you back on YT!!! 💜

[@49erfaithfulforever]

I cannot express enough how happy I am to see you back on KZbin. I’ve missed your videos and have thought of you often. I would still love to see some flight attendant content, as you are one of the OG’s that inspired me to take the leap. I’m currently flying with ❤️💙💛. Still so glad to see your beautiful smiling face either way.

[@stacywheat]

I do the same thing- I get sucked into buying gift sets and things I don't really need. I love them, but I have more than I could ever use. Bags, but especially Lancomb skin care and makeup. Hopefully my resolve is as good as yours! We can do it!!!

[@katrinse7123]

Love it how you analyzing and seeing what to cut off! And - another good thing of less consumption is it is healthy to our environment and earth! I know that it is only a tiny bit what a single human can do to change it, but I hope that lending 10 books saves one tree, not buying a plastic bottle, going to grocery with your own tote or cloth bag - less plastic, etc etc. If you begin to see what you can do, then you get sort of positive addiction - what else can I do?🤭💚 Love that you are back - sharing positivity, boomerangs positivity back, I hope💗

[@tammypearson4500]

Franny!!! I have truly missed watching your videos, Stella. ❤

[@StellaConnolly]

I snuck him in at the end 😆🥹

[@tammypearson4500]

@@StellaConnolly I love how Franny is running in his own yard! He needed that very much 🐕❤️

[@jillwhittington5822]

Welcome back!! I have missed watching your videos but your mental health is more important. I feel like I’m going through the same and have been for almost two years. Take care of yourself first and foremost!

[@ritafehrenbach7744]

So glad you are back! I can so relate to this video ❤ especially buying books , water bottles and the limited edition skincare/makeup. Excellent advice .

[@adrianna1289]

Hi girl, nice to see you back. I love this list. It’s great to do a refresh list every year. Every penny counts 😊

[@amermexian]

Oh Stella, love your personality!.... "...I have one Stanley. I don't even know where it is"

[@Renna-j]

OMG -I miss you! I’m so glad that you’re back Stella 🤗 looking forward for mote videos. And miss your TRAVEL EDITION must haves. 😂

[@latashahoward3943]

Awe Franny loves having a yard to play in❤

[@lisasouthern7202]

I'm so glad you are back * I love your videos and petsonality. So sorry for whatever happened in the past year !

[@oriettacdiazp.6979]

Estoy flipaaandooo! She's back! 😱 OMG..first here..what a nice surprise! 🎉 we missed y Stellaaaaaa

[@StellaConnolly]

Thank you for coming back to support after all this time. 🥹

[@raeahthewriter8082]

I was so worried about Franny when you were away. I was worried that maybe something happened to him and that's why you took time away. It brought me so much joy to see him running in the backyard.

[@oliviaacosta6239]

I’m not buying luxury no more. I’m done. I will enjoy what I have. This year is about saving and enjoying nature more

[@patseyvetter552]

Stella so glad your back. I did the cut back on subscriptions several years ago. I would get magazines. Flip through and never got back to read.