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@maryanndunne15942 жыл бұрын
I love your laugh it makes me laugh 🤣❤️
@sharonwillis-devose19632 жыл бұрын
Ordered a book in June never received it.
@carmel772 жыл бұрын
I want one can I have one please
@kdperry5912 жыл бұрын
Please don't take this question negatively: Why aren't you married/ engaged? You seem to have yourself together. You're intelligent and clearly understand relationship goals.
@hnfedge12 жыл бұрын
Pppppp pop power up 🔝 and I hope 🤞🏾 get to the next few hours soon 🔜 we are in good 😌
@sandragreen51462 жыл бұрын
Turn off when a man look and lust at other woman's in front of the lady he's in a date with even if it's not serious yet it's disrespectful.expecially when he knows she loves and care for him and she's a good women.
@MeetStephanSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@melluques84752 жыл бұрын
My ex husband was like that, one day I told him I recommended my stile, look from distant and with sunglasses on, this way was more elegant🤣🤣 after that he was more looking at me to see if I was checking another men🤣🤣🙏🏻
@miatoyniaramzy6292 жыл бұрын
True Story 😢
@PREACHYPREI2 жыл бұрын
@@melluques8475 mel, you are one cold lady 😎😂 Lol I felt this comment with all my heart 😂😂😂😂❤
@Mac-pluto2 жыл бұрын
@@melluques8475 your ex was disrespectful AF… have only dated 1 woman with the audacity to do that in front of me, obviously that shit didn’t last and she’s still single and for the streets
@bellakim94043 жыл бұрын
Everyday, Be Yourself. Don't change your personality, aesthetics, wardrobe, or adjust your outlook on life or hide the skeletons in your closet for another person. Be genuine. That uniqueness is a gift many can't master. Let your energy do the talking. Invest in yourself and do the internal work to be confident in your own skin. You Are Enough!
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right, thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤
@jayc57563 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!! Exactly That!!! Thank You!!!
@pmo77803 жыл бұрын
I hope you don't use that mindset as an excuse to not try to make him happy and to not grow
@JJ1213333 жыл бұрын
Thank you😪. Excellent messaging
@zeal4god4023 жыл бұрын
@@pmo7780 Amen. Both should always grow and bring healthy compromise, but there are core beliefs/attitudes/behaviors that should NEVER be dropped for anyone
@loviebello64082 жыл бұрын
She wasn’t being a tease, she wanted intimacy Not sex, there’s a difference. Learn the difference and if you still don’t know just ask her. Never assume fellas, always ask to make sure you’re both on the same page.
@MeetStephanSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that. Thank you for sharing ❤
@monicafrancNiki2 жыл бұрын
@Lovie Bello, then she could have kissed him by the car. Don't invite him to your house and kis him on a couch. Come on let's be real here.
@m.danielmills70912 жыл бұрын
@@monicafrancNiki Exactly.
@LoveQuestWithLisaConcepcion2 жыл бұрын
It's up to the woman to set the pace. Having a man over? Tell him that you're only having sex once in love.
@MaryMary-sn7hh2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you! I was cringing hard at Stephan basically hinting that just because I allowed you to come back home with me, it automatically means we’re gonna have sex….
@Mariah-ol4vw2 жыл бұрын
1. Being a tease 2. Focusing too much on accomplishments and money 3. Playing hard to get 4. Having a entitled mindset and not appreciative 5. Holding him to standards you won’t hold yourself to 6. Wearing TOO MUCH makeup 7. Being too hard/ “masculine” 8. Making it ALL about God 9. Being too damn independent Ok got it, thanks Steph!
@southerncharm15332 жыл бұрын
All of these tips are bad. 1 thru 9. If you're interested in attracting insecure, undereducated, broke men follow them but don't be disappointed with what you end up with.
@cwalker69112 жыл бұрын
@@southerncharm1533 😂 agreed!!
@lovelyIberia2 жыл бұрын
@@southerncharm1533 😂😂😂😂😂
@shebrownsuga2 жыл бұрын
@@southerncharm1533 I know right. My thoughts exactly.
@PerrySkyePhoenix2 жыл бұрын
Ladies, do whatever pleases YOU. You set the standards for what you want in a man. He has a choice as to whether or not he will meet those standards. Don't settle. It's not worth it, trust me. Most men in the dating pool today have nothing to offer women. They're looking for a woman to take care of them and do all of the "heavy lifting" in the relationship. SELF LOVE is where it's at. If a man can't love, and accept me for who I am and appreciate all that I've got to offer, he can go kick rocks. I'm good on my own. Yeah, I'm independent because I've had to be! I'm in my masculine because I've had to be! Men are in their feminine and that's a turn off! I wear a lot of makeup because I love it... and let's face it, most men that say that they don't like "too much makeup" are insecure and don't want other men looking at us... At least that's been my experience.
@IAmMonicaDenise3 жыл бұрын
I agree that women shouldn’t be a tease, but just because you want to kiss a man is not an invitation or assumption that you want to have sex. Unfortunately, many men feel that they’re entitled to sex because they treated you to a date or two. Mature adults should be able to enjoy one another’s company in the comfort of their own homes (especially in this climate of remaining safe in the pandemic) without viewing it as an invitation to have sex.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@gwendolynpierce63043 жыл бұрын
You're so right!!
@IAmMonicaDenise3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you for sharing insight from the male perspective.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
@@IAmMonicaDenise Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
@@gwendolynpierce6304 ❤ 🙂 thank you!
@RunninChic6203 жыл бұрын
I have 1 more to add: Giving too much too soon. Doing so when he is not reciprocating in the dating portion before a committed relationship has been established can make him lose respect for you and possibly take advantage of you. Sometimes this is done for fear of losing him. Don’t invest too much before you know you will receive a return on that investment. 🙏🏽
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
@phoenixrising80073 жыл бұрын
Unless you give freely without any expectation
@NoNipHamp3 жыл бұрын
Message!
@shondathomas78253 жыл бұрын
Agree, also this should go for men as well. I've been in that situation of a guy giving too much too soon and it killed my interest.
@SanctifiedLady2 жыл бұрын
I like this add... and it is a slippery slope. I have a guy that is showing some genuine interest (online) and I am definitely keeping the pace, reciprocating but not doing more or asking him more questions....right now it’s like a chess game and it’s his move to gain more information about me and he is stalled a bit not asking important questions so if he doesn’t progress he’s not interested enough to get to the next level. I’m not going to entertain this after this week. If he can’t set up a date then I’m Done. 🤷🏽♀️ I’m not setting up a date.
@abriaangel99863 жыл бұрын
I am an extremely late bloomer with very little dating experience so videos like this and the way you convey your points are genuinely helpful.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Glad it has been helpful to you and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤
@keciabrown83212 жыл бұрын
You are not the only late bloomer. So am I. I am really embarrassed by my lack of experience with men. I am learning as well and hope to get it right one day, with the right guy. Good luck too you Abria Angel.
@etcwhatever Жыл бұрын
I had 0 until I was 24. Youre not the only one 😅
@etcwhatever Жыл бұрын
@@keciabrown8321you dont need a lot of experiences, just the right one. And yes its very good you see these videos and build good bondaries. Men try to push them a lot.
@ericajanellelifecoaching3 жыл бұрын
Every time you post a video, im ready to listen and take mental notes! I appreciate the way you deliver the messages because it’s clear that you want us to grow and understand without putting women down! Your delivery is always done in love and I appreciate that
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 Glad to hear that and thank you very much I appreciate your feedback!
@ccrobinson5453 жыл бұрын
Much agreed! His genuine interest to assist in the improvement and upliftment of others is in itself addictive!!!
@nakeishahenry92613 жыл бұрын
In other words, thanks for not being like Kevin S. 💯❤
@thisismystone96583 жыл бұрын
Indeed. He communicates so well
@FieldTrippers2 жыл бұрын
💯
@vellevelle13 жыл бұрын
Sooo...I just recently got into a relationship after being single for a while! I admit I made several if these mistakes. And he had the decency to tell me how he felt...basically exactly what is being said here. It's been 5 months and I've had to really shed some baggage and FULLY show up in the relationship. The relationship feels like less of a push/pull and more like two people getting to know each other! He's a good man...and I almost messed it up.
@rosemariecampbell72052 жыл бұрын
Happy for you 😊
@snooty41803 жыл бұрын
Amen to #2! This goes for both men and women. I tell men who lead with money and accomplishments is that I date people & not professions. I want to get to know how do you have a relationship. It's not meant to be devaluing, it’s meant to not to talk about work day in and out.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right!
@karenwilliams20682 жыл бұрын
Correct...we want to know who they are at heart the secret person of heart not later if they confide they have money at an appropriate timing I the relationship it's shared for different reason other then leading with that
@LaTrav083 жыл бұрын
A woman that really is waiting to have sex doesn't put herself in situations where sex can happen.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right!
@jayc57563 жыл бұрын
True
@Mohammedalamidi103 жыл бұрын
So if I ask a girl to come over, and she does, does that mean she’s willing yo have sex even if she says she isn’t?
@tonettanhelms7943 жыл бұрын
That part
@jayc57563 жыл бұрын
@@RashaundaYeoman You wasnt necessarily giving that vibe. Thats just what it is. Don't mean they are bad men...just they wanted to get physical with you...like most ppl. It is what it is. I think Stephan or Kev or somebody made a vid on this maybe like a few weeks ago too.
@memereal78073 жыл бұрын
You have to be yourself and stop being someone that you are not trying to impress them.... You are speaking truth and helping a lot of us out... Be Blessed...
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 thank you very much I appreciate your feedback and may you blessed as well!
@andreacaldwell87193 жыл бұрын
"So, so true"!!! Being our "authentic self" is key!!! We have to look in the mirror at ourselves at the end of the day and stop being in "theater" for the world!!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@alwayssomething83442 жыл бұрын
My aunt told me years ago to never go over a man’s house if you’re not comfortable enough to have sex with him yet regardless if something happens or not
@daffodil37923 жыл бұрын
I think we actually behave with the right one. and we often behave awkward whenever we're into the wrong one because the right person will make us great unknowingly.
@georgia61273 жыл бұрын
Mixed messages. Don’t invite a date back to your place “ for coffee” or ANYTHING until a lot of time has passed and both of you understand what “ coffee” actually means.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@shutit40243 жыл бұрын
He’s going to pound town
@crystalcobette33573 жыл бұрын
Coffee should mean Coffee!
@kaceygriffin76123 жыл бұрын
@@crystalcobette3357 right I love coffee lol
@SanctifiedLady2 жыл бұрын
Dang! Coffee isn’t just coffee anymore?! I won’t be having coffee out of the public ever! Lol!
@delphinenewsum85812 жыл бұрын
This was shocking. I've been in this situation many times. It was not teasing. It was displaying genuine affection.
@MeetStephanSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@orlaw.82132 жыл бұрын
Totally agree. If a man is going to see me as a tease because I show affection but not give sex, why would I want to be with him anyway and if obviously doesn't genuinely like me so he is in the wrong for even being in that situation with me.
@JohnsonLee592 жыл бұрын
All these man want is quit f. Than their gone to the next sum woman who let's them
@kmikag883 жыл бұрын
I love to hear a strong man explaining how men think. My husband once told me we, as women, give men way too much credit. They don't think like we do. They don't analyze everything. They don't pick up on clues, etc. You basically say the same thing every day. That helped/s me so much.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help!
@adriannepaul92243 жыл бұрын
I am starting to have more faith in men again since listening to you, Stephan. And therefore, being more vulnerable. I believe you when you say there are good men out here and most of all increasing my faith that God will grant me my hearts desire of marriage. You are the GOAT🙏🏾🥰
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that and I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you the man God has for you ❤
@adriannepaul92243 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Yes, He will and is already making a way!! Location is key in being found and the way is being made for me to relocate real soon. I will have more opportunities to be more active in the community and hence not be so focused on being found. Thanks for being a breathe of fresh air in my time of need😄
@eettsd3 жыл бұрын
Please do it's so fun Just get off social media and look each day even post ads without seeing how the guy looks. I'm texting someone on and off and I'm an Aries this guy is addicted to me. I'm also enjoying him. We're just playing around having fun conversation no commitment. It makes your single life feel good that your in control of it. I'm a homeless mom been getting some great sex but it losens my worries a bit while I continue working to get established.
@eettsd3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks 1 question. I have a strong faith in God and also speak to the universe. I asked the universe that I needed a stress reliever. I told God if the guy I cared for come back around I'm going to rip off his windshield wiper. I felt emotionally angry. Then met a guy who favored him and had awesome sex. Stress where? Lol i feel bad that I feel good that this happened to me. I want more but don't think it's a good idea. It was 1 time
@sharondawilliams6243 жыл бұрын
🤷🏾♀️ Can I be honest? If I turn him off, he is not the man for me. He can keep moving to find who is... I will continue to be my beautiful self... And I say this with the same awareness of him being who he is presenting to me. If I can't accept it, I keep it moving. No love lost on either end... I'm sure this is another great video, but what I hope to do is to focus on tips that will help me attract the right man for me.... Thank you for your work.
@pmo77803 жыл бұрын
I hope you don't use that mindset as an excuse to not try to make him happy and to not grow
@sharondawilliams6243 жыл бұрын
@@pmo7780 No. I have another thought on happiness. It is not my responsibility to make him happy, but I can add to it. That is something I think is personal to him. He defines that for himself. As far as growth, that's not my job either. I am a vessel that can nurture and water him, but, like a plant, his ultimate growth is by God and himself.
@pmo77803 жыл бұрын
@Sharonda Williams I meant your own growth, not his. A lot of people just say "love yourself" to justify not bettering their bad traits and not growing as a person. And your answers are correct and I don't know you to be sure of what you mean but the words you use implies that you're looking for logical loopholes that say it's not your job to put effort into the relationship so you wouldn't have to do anything for him. On the other hand you said that you want to add to him and nurture him so it's most probably because we could only give little context and details in youtube comments.
@sharondawilliams6243 жыл бұрын
@@pmo7780 oh. Thanks for asking about my growth.... I am watered daily by God's love and I am growing.... My thought is from a place of understanding that you get the results you focus on... At this moment, I am choosing not to focus on mistakes, but rather positive actions.
@BM-wf8jj3 жыл бұрын
So you commented without watching the video and listening to what he was actually saying? He dropped some straight jewels in this one and he kept it very respectful the entire time. And any man that's being honest is going to agree with everything he said in this video. Any woman that has trouble finding or keeping healthy and happy relationships would do well to listen to what he has to say in this video. This is about identifying and correcting toxic and problematic behaviors that keep women from being taken seriously by high quality men that they meet and not about nitpicking little petty, superficial stuff.
@jacqueforbes49813 жыл бұрын
I feel lovingly checked. I learned about some of my mistakes. This was very well delivered and received. Thank you 🙏🏾
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤
@joyh.7292 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate the time, sweat and energy that goes into creating these videos. QUALITY material! Thank you Stephan. I’m open and listening to what you’re teaching and have been putting your advice into practice!🙏🏽🌟
@walkaminutewithme4787 Жыл бұрын
💯 ❤❤❤😊
@versatile31693 жыл бұрын
I love Stephan laughing.when we says something straight up. Got me smiling!
@snooty41803 жыл бұрын
Thank you for #3 ...now I know when I tactfully show a guy that I like him and he can’t handle it or maturely step up, I need to move on.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Glad this has been helpful to you be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@rashawntaylor43162 жыл бұрын
Good morning real good man will sacrifice too make you happy n also ask what ‘s you need help with n what ‘s your future goals . A real good man will put god first in his life n also make you properity , send your roses , help with the bills , keep gas in your car n car repairs , take you work on your off days , communcations is the key n trust . A real good man will work too bones make should everything is going well at home !
@reginadawson27002 жыл бұрын
That's right, the bottom line is people want to know that they're really wanted, not an option.
@tracylove77593 жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephan ☺️, you came into my life about a year ago, when I mostly need your advice 👍. Only today I was explaining to my therapist everything you are saying tonight! Most of it referred the person I was : I really needed time to heal 😉😊 and I very pleased to be the person I am today. Best regards and continue this great job : you are helping people worldwide Lots of love coming from France 🇫🇷
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Healing is definitely key thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤
@barebeautiful69893 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel. I’m so blown away , you truly are the best relationship coach for women. Please keep up the great content . Can you please make a video dedicated to being too independent as a woman . I fall in this category and really need help with it . Keep up the great content .
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
That's a great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done! Welcome aboard and be sure to subscribe and click the notification bell so that you can be notified whenever I upload a new video!
@naybug9238 Жыл бұрын
My suggestion is that if you are dating and looking for commitment and marriage make it clear in the beginning the process you would like to take towards a sexual relationship. My personal rule is that I don’t allow anyone I’m dating over to my home or vice versa until the relationship is serious and there has been a commitment established first. This has been a great way to weed out the wrong type of people and forcing a real conversation about the progress of the relationship beforehand. I practice this rule with dating because I need commitment and trust before a sexual relationship.
@alheribulus5397 Жыл бұрын
Amen Stephan!!! I love the way you stay real with your counsels. God bless you.
@teiganmichele24333 жыл бұрын
This is so informative for me because I have been out of the “dating scene” for several years.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@renee1673 жыл бұрын
Same here. I’m definitely taking mental notes!
@leahjohn71753 жыл бұрын
We need to form a group and encourage each other 😂😂😂
@miacarter53283 жыл бұрын
I have been out of the dating scene since 2005 & I'm starting to think I should stay out!! It's too much BS. It wasn't this hard in the 90s-early 2000s 🤦♀️
@nella1162 жыл бұрын
Dating sucks right now.
@katyt19043 жыл бұрын
Number one 1) she didn’t have to blow off on him and get mad. I agree. But as someone who is 21 this happened to me. Kissing is fun. That doesn’t necessarily means she or I wanted or was ready to have sex. Of course communication is key. But not every women who does this, is trying to be a tease or be mean to the guy. Sometimes we are just figuring life out just like you. Women don’t always do this to be a jerk.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate your feedback and I'm sorry about what you went through, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@TAJATee3 жыл бұрын
Agree a lot of us enjoy kissing.
@lmg42933 жыл бұрын
Katy T - exactly
@RunninChic6203 жыл бұрын
Kissing is fun, but not at your house or his. If you not ready for sex, don’t play with that kind of fire. Seriously, it’s understandable that you are trying to figure life out-but come on, an invitation to your house or his, 95% of the time is an open invite for more and that is how it’s perceived by 95% of adults. Perhaps it’s naivety-but deep down inside you know. The environment is prime for sex, if you don’t want to go there…then don’t go in that direction. Just sayin. The remaining 5% is when y’all have talked openly and plainly and have agreed to these environments (along with establishing some other safe guards) without engaging in sex. That’s different.
@katyt19043 жыл бұрын
@@RunninChic620 does not make any sense. So we’re not allowed to go over to anybody’s house until we’re ready to have sex? Couples are allowed to be alone together and not be ready to have sex. Like I said she didn’t have to get mad. Just explain herself like an adult. But just because I want to kiss or spend quality time with a guy doesn’t mean I’m ready for sex. You should be allowed to be alone with somebody without sex coming first to their mind.
@virgiltheodore42063 жыл бұрын
I just love your energy! Always make me smile or laugh ☺.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 Thank you very much, I appreciate your feedback!
@dama_shares Жыл бұрын
Aside from the awesome substance of these videos are the time when Stephan bursts out into contagious laughter. It makes the learning fun and doesn't take anything away from it.
@cpittman15272 жыл бұрын
As a mom to men, mentor to others....you speaking the truth up in here! .......periodt. Keep being a blessing!
@kimlaura8663 Жыл бұрын
Two perspectives are at play
@mevaughngarner2103 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the reminder. Been a widow for 13 yrs after being married for 20 years. Haven't been in a committed relationship since. I've become so disillusioned with whole dating scene. Must be and allowed to be myself and I want the someone who needs the same.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you the man God has for you 🙏
@PerrySkyePhoenix2 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@TynishaTalks3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with the sex part. Just like women don't like relationship-ish signals when the guy doesn't want commitment; men don't like vibes that sex is going to happen when women aren't ready for that step yet. I've definitely had to learn to exhibit willpower and avoid situations where there can be a gray area. So many valid points! I'd like to do a reaction video to this.
@albartpromise54272 жыл бұрын
Never knew this was a bad move!! I get this now.. Thanks so much Sir.
@orlaw.82132 жыл бұрын
Women want a man who can control themselves and realise that they are human and not going to be perfect lil angelic beings just cos they are not ready to have sex. Why do we treat men like they are animals and thick af?
@lindapowell40912 жыл бұрын
@@orlaw.8213 o
@sarahrobertson6342 жыл бұрын
Men need to just calm down. We can send sexual signals if we want, as we work up to actual intercourse, and they can just wait.
@etcwhatever Жыл бұрын
@@sarahrobertson634maybe.. but i wouldnt push it. I understand how difficult how it is for men as im too hot as well. But sex before commitment is a big mistake...its difficult for them to control. We need to set the boundaries.
@kortiniamartin96823 жыл бұрын
OMG! IT IS ALMOST FALL WEATHER! Football games have started, hay rides are coming and pumpkin spice is approaching fast! I hope you have had a wonderful holiday today! Stay blessed!!! ✌ 😇😊💯🙏
@RhondaR43 жыл бұрын
You and Rainie Howard speak truth and teach me. I’m one of the many that was never taught about self esteem/self love, or received love in a healthy manner. Kids today need your knowledge before they leave high school.🙏🏽❤️
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help!
@zeal4god4023 жыл бұрын
Yeaaaa they need this counsel!
@RhondaR42 жыл бұрын
@@zeal4god402 AMEN!
@RhondaR42 жыл бұрын
@@zeal4god402 Keep up the GREAT work Brother! Blessings coming your way! THANK JESUS IN ADVANCE!🙌🏽❤️
@Plush_queen853 жыл бұрын
Seems like we have to walk on egg shells to keep a man interested
@2sides_2everystory3 жыл бұрын
All games. 😕
@ellebee98643 жыл бұрын
Yes!! If you are feminine, you are too docile. If you take care of yourself, you’re too independent. If you are successful, you’re too masculine or arrogant. If you let him lead with contact and dating, you are not showing interest. If you show interest, you’re too thirsty. CHILE!!!! I do not have the time or energy to be doing all these mental gymnastics when most of them expect us to accept them with all of their flaws and baggage.
@jo8n972 жыл бұрын
Seems draining…
@Nuray9077 Жыл бұрын
😂
@shayj043 жыл бұрын
I hate dating. I live in South Florida and it’s a different type of terrible here.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Before you give up on dating try changing your focus from dating to learning and you will start to see positive results in your dating experiences!
@jayc57563 жыл бұрын
Damn!
@jayc57563 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks True
@shayj043 жыл бұрын
I haven’t given up. I believe in love wholeheartedly. But at almost 36 years old, I’ve had enough experiences to write a best-selling novel lol. And I’ve learned from them. I just want the real thing.
@jayc57563 жыл бұрын
@@shayj04 Lol. Same age and yeah. Lol. I feel you Shay. Haven't been that active dating these last few years...more focused on my goals and stuff...although I did talk to a few though. But it is what it is.
@mw78823 жыл бұрын
This is so terrible because women are conditioned to control their appetite. We don't always know when we are sending men an invitation to have sex because we expect men to control themselves too. A friend of mine was invited to a party. She showed up alone and was raped. Those men felt justified because she had the confidence to go by herself. Why are some men so fragile and self-centered?
@ellebee98643 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry about your friend. I agree with your views on the “tease” topic. The way it is presented, it sounds to me like it promotes the message “if a woman is raped, it’s her fault.” I know that is kind of extreme but men need to understand just because they always think about sex, does not mean they get to presume women want it.
@shariekahwooten31513 жыл бұрын
I love the sense of humor you bring with your advice very refreshing and insightful
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
@renee1673 жыл бұрын
Great advice Stephan! I agree that you have to make your intentions CLEAR in the beginning. If you’re celibate make it clear on day one. You definitely don’t want to send mixed signals. I’d rather be honest then lead someone on.
@zeal4god4023 жыл бұрын
AMEEEEEEN 🔥 🔥 🔥 Being alone, ya'll think playing monopoly and watching TV and playing patty cake will be the only things done/considered
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that. Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤
@vanesak83563 жыл бұрын
It helps get rid of jokers
@nataliepinon4533 Жыл бұрын
“Dating is an art … and some of you don’t know how to paint!! “ 😂 I can’t with him. 😂🤣😂🤣
@dianaperez6369 Жыл бұрын
I like to kiss and not want sex. I told this guy that and we kissed but he got on top of me, I asked him to stop and he didn't. I learned to never put myself in a situation where someone can over step my boundaries. I don't want to kiss someone in private again unless I'm in a relationship and I am open for sex and we talked.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@maryhudson8531 Жыл бұрын
That's scary. Sorry that happened.
@daniellesmith46883 жыл бұрын
I will tell you the truth! I got that book "How to Get a Man to Cherish You " a couple of years ago. Funny enough I am usually extremely bubbly etc in general. I was in a long distance relationship for a year and a half and I promise you! He unfortunately revealed a secret he had been lying about and I broke up with him. He begged me back and listed many of the things that I did and was and it was things in that book! And it really opened my eyes to understand that these are real things that will make a man adore you! Just the right man to give it to.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!
@pamelawhitfield94062 жыл бұрын
Never invite a man over to your place if you're not going to be intimate with them. It is a tease and you just may have the wrong man in your home, be safe
@MeetStephanSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@absolutenyne3 жыл бұрын
When dating just be upfront and honest from the get go. Put all the details on the table like a contract from the start. Explain why you're doing what you're doing. Explain in detail. At least both or more parties know what to expect, they can choose to move on or stay. Common sense. It's not difficult! Blessing and love to you all 🥰
@LoveQuestWithLisaConcepcion2 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@PerrySkyePhoenix2 жыл бұрын
Dating today is a sh** show. In a perfect world people would be upfront and honest about their intentions and desires.
@jacquelinenoakes86733 жыл бұрын
You never know what to do. Either you say too much or you don’t say enough. This is so crazy.
@lward73053 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the time and perspective you share! In all honesty this video is applicable to male or female. I can name examples in which a male has acted in the same ways. May we all learn and grow!! It is a hard time to be dating!! So many of us are broken and trying to just move on bc that is what we are used to. Let us break the cycle ❣
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that, thank you for sharing ❤
@ksquareshow44803 жыл бұрын
I really respect your ability to make women your main audience without pandering to them. Other dating coaches need to take your approach.
@barbw58053 жыл бұрын
FRANKLY STEPHEN I DO NOT GIVE A DAMN WHAT MEN THINK OR IF MEN LIKE ME OR NOT = WOMEN SPEND ENTIRELY TOO MUCH TIME CATERING TO MENS EGO ENTITLEMENT ISSUES AND PRIVILEGE AND ENTITLEMENT ISSUES
@ellebee98643 жыл бұрын
Say that again for all the self-proclaimed “alpha” guys who are actually losers who wouldn’t know a GREAT woman if God dropped her in his lap.
@ellebee98643 жыл бұрын
Most men who are Alphas never have to go around saying so. Others recognize it and deal with him accordingly. I don’t go around proclaiming I am a lady-I conduct myself that way. I am getting so fed up with all of this “alpha” (misogynistic) rhetoric.
@LoveQuestWithLisaConcepcion2 жыл бұрын
You need to handle whatever wound is at the root of your hatred of men.
@constancethomas27823 жыл бұрын
I love love love every video i watch... i have a book that i write everything down in. I take notes in my phone and i practice what you say. I listen every morning whatever video pops up on my feed... i have your books and currently going thru love after heartbreak because i recently went thru a very bad breakup with a narcissist and it was draining and tiring 😫. I was overwhelmed and my mind was in a complicated place. I felt devalued and confused because of how things happened and exactly what happened . I was left with questions and uncertainty. I was left feeling like i poured my entire life into this man and he discarded me. And it has now been about 4 months and i have recently been feeling better and uplifting. I am doing my proper healing with God and not another man... i dont talk much to my girlfriends about it because ive just always been that way and i am doing the self reflection, the growing,, the listening to my intuition and strengthen my patience, peace, embrace what happened and making my necessary changes to make myself better for the man God has for me.... 🥰🥰😍😍
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy that I have been helpful to you and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the man who is truly best for you the man God has for you 🙏
@zeal4god4023 жыл бұрын
Amen! Constantly stay constant Constance
@tiffanyarmstrong86403 жыл бұрын
I stumbled across this site and truly appreciate Mr. Stephan authenticity, transparency and funny real talk. Relationships requires genuine work. It's a business if you want success hard trust worthy work must be a priority. So many individuals fail due to pursuing a treadmill relationship. If you don't make the necessary change nothing will change.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback and don't forget to subscribe and click the notification bell so that you will be notified each time I upload a new video!
@nicole85763 жыл бұрын
Stephen thank you 🙏🏽 so much! I’m currently in counseling for some healing from a marriage many, many years ago. I knew I needed it after a man I was interested in said that I had a lot of layers like an onion. Going forward, I said I didn’t want men to feel that way. Once they got to know me it was already too late. This touched me with your analogy to the financially stable man and his appearance 🤗
@NoahsArt933 жыл бұрын
I needed this. These past few weeks been terrible for me for dating (mainly Online dating). The communication lesson was great. I got no sign after a couple text saying I messaged to a girl online saying "Hey how are you?" I was ignored and bummed out. I was praying, asking God, "What am I doing wrong?" Then it came to me; I wasn't doing anything wrong. I said if she liked me, she will come around. 2 weeks and nothing so I moved on. This is a major turn off for me. Now, I'm more careful with this and keep asking God to help me not to fall in these traps again and lean on Him for whatever happens.
@mimi.w6673 жыл бұрын
Online dating is a little different. Sometimes people just aren't on there apps and don't check them like that.
@NoahsArt933 жыл бұрын
@@mimi.w667 that is true. A couple days, I can see if you are working and busy, sure. Leaving someone hanging for a period of time is a turn off. Mine was a couple weeks and that was long.
@ellebee98643 жыл бұрын
@@NoahsArt93 Sorry that happened to you. If she was not interested, she should have just told you instead of ghosting you. It’s so hard to find a praying man who is proactive with contact and consistent with it these days. So good for you! Don’t let that change you. I hope your prayers are answered and you find a love that’s right for you dear. ❤️
@NoahsArt933 жыл бұрын
@@ellebee9864 thank you for your kind words. I’m praying for patience and thanking God for me to not worry about this stuff rn and wanting to love and focus on Him and me
@ellebee98643 жыл бұрын
@@NoahsArt93 ❤️❤️
@atsanik48383 жыл бұрын
I love your advice and I absolutely love your t-shirt! Thank you for all you do ❤️
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
@Sarasarah33 жыл бұрын
Being a tease is fun! I like teasing and being teased, however that’s nuts how that girl responded with anger in your example. Just have fun, play
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@annporter14723 жыл бұрын
Games are for kids! "Just have fun, play!?" What are you twelve?
@Sarasarah33 жыл бұрын
@@annporter1472 you need to read about the Art of Seduction. Different strokes for different folks my lady
@annporter14723 жыл бұрын
@@Sarasarah3 Perhaps you just need to grow up! Seduction is what it is. And playing and teasing isn't it! Good day!
@Sarasarah33 жыл бұрын
@@annporter1472 I can just imagine you clutching your pearls against your chest. The subtle art of teasing is what many Americans don’t understand and Europeans learn early on in life. Americans are disadvantaged because of our puritanical background, you barely understand romance and seduction and therefore culturally there is a deep shame around sex, even our culture always sexualizes nudity and we never discuss sex in a romantic manner with teenagers, their only insight is porn which is FAKE - where women are objectified and there is no focus on our pleasure. You do not know me and I do not know you, however I think you should have an open mind and quit making assumptions.
@phoenixrising80073 жыл бұрын
For the girl who is fine with kissing, had she clearly communicated her needs by expressing a firm boundary, that she enjoys kissing but sex is not an option for whatever her reasons, then asking what he thinks/feels about that opens the dialogue preventing the bait & switch mentality/resentment/confusion. Setting clear intentions /boundaries prevents most misunderstandings from occurring especially pre conceived notions of expectations before things get hot n heavy 😉 Men that push the boundaries are self revealing
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that, thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤
@LoveQuestWithLisaConcepcion2 жыл бұрын
She never should have had him over her place until it was clear that she's not having sex until she's in love.
@zeal4god4023 жыл бұрын
We need God in the center of our daily decision-making processes and we are made in His image and likeness. We are married to Him in the highest sense and married to a person He created in the secondary sense. While it is excellent to know more about God and keep exploring God together, we are His creation, united, yet distinct from God and we also desire to be known in a delightful variety of ways and lovingly explored
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
@zeal4god4023 жыл бұрын
@TERRI SPOKEN Thank you. I appreciate it. Praise God!
@micheleprice97713 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING ENLIGHTENING WORDS OF WISDOM! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY!BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!PEACE and HARMONY to EVERYONE IN the WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
@wakeshamcgauley57213 жыл бұрын
G gg. G g
@lydiasmith57393 жыл бұрын
Llll
@Perfectliliies2 жыл бұрын
Honestly one of the things that i’m super insecure is being too hard and too independent 😢 idk how to be vulnerable and soft I’m very sensitive and I fear getting hurt so much
@lw4294 Жыл бұрын
Me too 🥹😞
@Lynnejordan12183 жыл бұрын
I've been on several dates and I will Never invite anyone to my home.......
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@gonzalezjustine1133 жыл бұрын
I'm happy to see you reply to your subscribers. I don't see that in youtubers often. 😁
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy to help and I try the best way that I can ❤ I appreciate your feedback!
@ellebee98643 жыл бұрын
The replies seem generic to me-like a bot is sending them out.
@MT-yx5cu3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, these are generic generated messages. He's not writing them personally.
@jayc57563 жыл бұрын
Stephan Speaking All Facts here! Thank You brother. If women understand all of this and adjust a little...I believe this dating scene will improve dramatically. Too much game playing out here. So it can get kinda difficult in this dating scene for a good solid guy. FR
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it would really help when they embrace that.
@phoenixrising80073 жыл бұрын
Accusing others of what you’re guilty of is a double standard You teach ppl how to treat you by what you choose and refuse to tolerate. Keep your standards high and your tolerance low ✊❤️🙏
@lovelyIberia2 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@ieshafloyd7303 жыл бұрын
Gotta say, I be up here cracking up when you say something and then start laughing! 😂
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed watching the video thank you for the response I appreciate your feedback!
@charmakafloetry2 жыл бұрын
I go into a relationship with my mind and heart clear. I do not drag anything from previous relationships with me. That being said, in reference to #5, I believe that women of substance, are generally more keen than men, no offense men. So you should go into a relationship doing/ showing that man what it is that you expect of him. Not OVERDOING it but, let's face it, we speak a different language from most men lol. And some men truly do not know how to express what they feel, or how to function in a actual serious, loving, caring relationship, YOU phenomenal woman,must be able, and humble enough to show/ teach him. The key is to be very sure that he is a REAL man. He has to be worth your efforts. Watch & Pray ladies.
@MeetStephanSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing healing is definitely key ❤
@eva-nr2bs Жыл бұрын
Wow! Your videos are so so so helpful!!! So so so helpful !!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@zoezoe51252 жыл бұрын
You smile or lough out loud and the world becomes brighter!!! You made my day!!! Thank you! And thank you for the great advice!
@ItsAllBeenDecided Жыл бұрын
I have so much respect for you, Stephan. I don't miss a video!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that ❤ 🙌
@tamekabeavers38133 жыл бұрын
I share the same sentiment as everyone else that’s posted and agree your insight is invaluable. I’m in a season of self discovery to why relationships haven’t spanned out the way I wanted and stumbled across your videos. I appreciate this and finding it very helpful in my future relationship. Thank you!
@candacesmith55723 жыл бұрын
I tell the guy before we even go out on a first date. I am abstinent. No reason to waste each other's time.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.
@nadinemartin95123 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! We appreciate you and your videos. We have so much respect for you
@vashtikelly68373 жыл бұрын
AGREED!!!!!
@ericajanellelifecoaching3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! I love the way he speaks respectfully
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 I appreciate your feedback ❤
@vashtikelly68373 жыл бұрын
STEPH THANK YOU....
@vashtikelly68373 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I'MMA ALWAYS SAY THANK YOU WHEN YOU GIVE ME YOUR HEART.....
@BrileyGabriel2 жыл бұрын
On the make up thing, I think "too much" makeup is more about, does the wearing of makeup handicap your life or affect our interactions? For instance, I dated a woman once, who would not allow me to kiss her once her lip stick was applied. That relationship did NOT last! If I want to kiss you on your forehead, am I gonna get a mouth full of foundation?? If we go to the beach, are you not going to get in in water because of it?? That's what "too much makeup" means to me..
@MeetStephanSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@maryhudson8531 Жыл бұрын
🤣
@haniyyahharps98463 жыл бұрын
I needed this video and advice. I’m currently in the dating stages and realized a lot of things lol.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help!
@sandragreen51462 жыл бұрын
I've noticed though...a lot of guys will make an assumption about you before actually getting to know you.that is a huge turn off for me.yet once they get to know me, they're shock to learn certain things...because they never tried to generally learn and that takes time.
@melissamac24782 жыл бұрын
#7 hits hard. This might have been covered in another video, I don't know. But as someone who has been called detached, or "she's a tough nut to crack ", I believe women who act masculine/overly independent, often come from homes where a father was not present or available; same idea applies to men who had absent mothers. For girls, their fathers are their first protectors, and the ones who teach young ladies both how to act around men, and what to expect and what to give in return. Lacking that reinforcement and assurance, many women grow up believing that they need to build walls high and strong, to become the protector they lack. In my experience, men with absent mothers tend to struggle more with emotions and the ability to be vulnerable. They never received the nuturing component, so when meeting an affectionate, feminine woman, it feels uncomfortable. Stefan, you are absolutely correct when you explain how essential healing really is. Unresolved issues have a long, sad history of ruining relationships that could have been something beautiful. Love shouldn't feel as though you're marching off to war. Thank you for *gently* reminding all of us, men and women, that we play the leading role in our own happiness, and to hold both others, and ourselves, accountable.
@rosemariecampbell72052 жыл бұрын
So true so true so true 💓
@amerebumpintheroad3 жыл бұрын
So kissing a man means it has to lead to sex? ?? What is wrong with people?? Good God!!
@ellebee98643 жыл бұрын
Yessss!!! What is wrong with people. Sounds kind of RAPE-y to me. If a woman gets raped, it was her fault because she invited him over for coffee. Kissing has to turn into sex?!!!!!!! Wow 😯
@orlaw.82132 жыл бұрын
Totally agree. That's a load of shit.
@LoveQuestWithLisaConcepcion2 жыл бұрын
If you aren't clear that you are not having sex until you're in love, then yes, men will try for sex. Enjoy your power as a female. You set the standard of respect by how you respect yourself.
@pennylovelace11113 жыл бұрын
"I wanna stress TOO MUCH" 😂🤣😂 I'm dying laughing at the MAKE-UP "A lighter level of makeup" Lol!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
lol, 🙂 thank you for your feedback I'm glad you enjoyed the video!
@chinyereotaka75173 жыл бұрын
Awww! I'm so blessed to hear your words of wisdom. Thanks alot @StephanSpeaks . Love from Nigeria.
@fayehenry61272 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry. I do appreciate you taking this time out from your busy schedule to help women like me find true genuine love. You're great!!!!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤
@odessa87673 жыл бұрын
I come to your page to watch you laugh, every time you laugh at something I can’t help but laugh too. Your laugh is infectious, cute...
@lisam69073 жыл бұрын
Another awesome video Stephan! You really make me think about things I never thought of about us women before!
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help, thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤
@shay8782 Жыл бұрын
I keep wanting to comment about how valuable the work you’re doing is after I finish a video…but then I find more of your content and get distracted.😅
@fionalynskeyy3 жыл бұрын
I get put at such ease when the most natural state of love, support and feminine energy is what is desired from a masculine man. When I lend myself to that state I get great results with my future husband. The career stuff is what I can confide in him, but figure it out with God
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@debsmith2789 Жыл бұрын
Many women do this because their childhood provider is gone and they do not have a good man who has stepped up to care for them. Men ought be providing and speaking of their wonderful accomplishments . I like that .
@jessicajurado20863 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the topics you cover and how you dive into issues and questions. You have a gift for presenting.
@gerdiewilliams1154 Жыл бұрын
I have been rejected by men when I spoke of my feminine characteristics when they asked the question of who I am. I thought being a compassionate, loyal, monogamous, loving woman who is open and supportive would be a good thing. I keep hearing that masculine men want this...where are they? Seriously where?
@inconnu4961 Жыл бұрын
Players want to play the game! Make sure you arent trying to entertain players ( I will assume you are, as those guys are most attractive to women). Most average guys DO want all that. But most women do NOT want most average guys. So many of us have removed ourselves from the dating market due to lack of interest.
@lovelight74823 жыл бұрын
it seems like a big competition in the dating world.. these tips will come in handy for when i start to date again, gracias. you're a great coach!
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching I appreciate your feedback!
@beautiful8822 жыл бұрын
Personally i need to heal & I surely have a lot of things I need to work on. Stephan you broke down No.8 excellently & realistically well, I too at a point was really hiding behind God & it's one of the things am working on, to just be sincerely me & am glad that am single now while working on me. Your channel is truly worth subscribing to bcoz you are truly worth listening to. I find U clear, point on & realistic, relatable, unbias & ur videos help me look at myself to see my flaws, errors & work on myself. All I have to say is; THANK YOU & GOD BLESS YOU.
@samanthamcgrew52212 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate the realistic way you break things down. Because you stay authentic to what men want and don’t want, but you also acknowledge some of the concerns women have about those preferences and clarify the nuances. Like with the makeup for example. Because I can’t stand when a man says he likes a natural woman. Because no that’s not necessarily the case. Makeup is supposed to enhance so of course if she looks better with makeup or is not that cute without it, a man is going to respond accordingly. So thank you for emphasizing that there’s levels of makeup and emphasizing the functionality of makeup and where it becomes problematic. That’s much more realistic than “I hate makeup, I like natural women” 🙄 irks me lol
@elizabethlane20572 жыл бұрын
Love the shirt! What better cause to be Alpha for? 💗 Great video too, as always
@shanicewith6amazingkids3003 жыл бұрын
I needed this . I have an amazing friend in my life who Jehoavh bless me with and I never meant anyone like him. I am healing from my pass and taken time as friends and doing things to get me on the right track is something I need than rushing into a relationship. I need to learn more and this is great information because I don't want to push a great man away. Lord knows this time this is a great one.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@laraoneal72843 жыл бұрын
Stephan you have it all? Even ur sense of humor is adorable and makes you so approachable.
@wadakealotswe47843 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, changing lives! All the way from Botswana
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!
@hebastreats98302 жыл бұрын
Sis 😂❤️
@wadakealotswe47842 жыл бұрын
@@hebastreats9830 my American Uncle
@amystewart41642 жыл бұрын
These can be confusing. I wish people would be more up front. I think some women play "hard to get" more so because most men make things sexual to early and some women feel if the play hard to get and the man is still pursuing them then they are really interested in them. I guess dating just got more complicated lol I was married a long time and now trying to date its so confusing and hard
@kashifabbas61733 жыл бұрын
As guy i always use to go self kill, thinking it was my fault that i dont/cant like certain girls. Your videos make me feel relax. I am working really hard on myself but on and off i also need to know that its not my fault.
@missj55643 жыл бұрын
I will be glad to meet a masculine and provider man, so that I can be feminine, not saying I will not bring my fair share to the table.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
@missj55643 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thanks.
@joynkindness2 жыл бұрын
I miss the men from decades ago that didn't assume a kiss meant sex. M arr
@MeetStephanSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@leticiajackson22373 жыл бұрын
Make up is not a problem it’s a personal preference. I’m a no makeup natural Queen and I see beautiful queens who wear both makeup and very minimal makeup. If a guys doesn’t like a little t if makeup why are you going out with her? I’m sure she probably wore makeup when he met her.
@Va13chka2 жыл бұрын
Right that’s like him trying to change her then complain that’s she’s a certain way when that’s who she was from the get go 😂.