3 RULES To Protect Yourself From DAMAGED MEN!

Get "He's Lying Sis" here 👉 bit.ly/HesLyin... - 3 RULES To Protect Yourself From DAMAGED MEN... In this dating advice video, I will be talking about damaged men and give you the three rules to protect yourself from dating damaged men. You may meet a damaged man on first dates, online dating, or you might even be dating one without knowing. Take heed to this dating guide and be sure to watch the entire video.
How to protect yourself from damaged men is something that every woman needs to consider when dating or getting into a relationship. I want you to know the guys to avoid and be able to protect yourself at all times. If you can detect the red flags in relationships then you can protect yourself from falling into the trap of dating broken men and damaged men.
I don’t want you to date damaged men without knowing. I want you to protect yourself from narcissists and also be able to protect yourself at all times. If you watch this dating guide to the end it will be much easier for you to know the signs he's damaged goods, which will enable you to avoid broken men as well as dating damaged men.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you will receive the man who is truly best for you.
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[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@urainaheyward190]

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[@rosemariecalumpangtapis6296]

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[@lisasmith75775]

How do I say this my heart actually let go of the men involved so I have to make sure my spiritual/religious connection is strong but since I at this moment don’t have or feel loved

[@lisasmith75775]

I am not interested

[@lisasmith75775]

I really don’t want to date right now. Remember I told you I didn’t want to do any dating at this time

[@Somuchtotalkabout]

I have dealt with every one of these men in my past. But I have to say ladies….when you have found the right one YOU WILL KNOW! His words will match up with his actions and he will leave no room for you to question who you are to him. You will not have to wonder how into you he is or how much of a priority you are. I have a wonderful man know and IT IS AMAZING! I manifest that for all of us!!! Please don’t overlook the good guy. He maybe your husband.❤️❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that thank you for sharing!

[@ReynaHoerdeman]

Agreed... the good guy is definitely your partner/husband. We have to make a shift in respecting ourselves to see that. I'm happy you found a great one!

[@annekajordan6952]

That is so sweet! Amen 🙌

[@thisismystone9658]

Amen. So happy for you .

[@chandreneethling2669]

Thank you needed to hear this.

[@marymoore6112]

I was dating someone and moved right into the relationship part almost immediately. He didn’t have any friends that I could meet, very secretive about his life and spoke terribly about his ex. These were already red flags, but then he would have an explosion of anger and yell at me about not listening to him and doing what he told me to do. He would then apologize, but it was a huge red flag to me. I saw those red flags and ended the relationship!! I have been in that situation before and I wasn’t willing to put myself through that again. I have learned to see my own self worth and am not willing to accept or allow that kind of treatment. I was very proud of myself for ending it!

[@deianelliott5006]

I have to be true to myself and end situations that mess with my sense of self.

[@lala5061]

I'm proud of u 👏🏽 it's crazy how alot of people deal with the same scenarios everything u wrote is EXACTLY a piece of my story...it's sad wow

[@k4xxxminecrafter792]

Well done.

[@Allwin.28]

I ignored the red flags from the beginning. Now, I am making those red flags my red carpet grand exit from the toxic, vicious cycle. I love my peace and independence days back in the day.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that, but I'm glad you are now on a path to healing 🙌❤

[@Allwin.28]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you. Your videos are a big help to many women.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

@@Allwin.28 I'm happy to help!

[@fonda7760]

Sis, I like your analogy ‘making red flags my red carpet grand exit’! Saying ‘Good bye’ opens up the heart to a new ‘Hello!’ This mindset entails self-awareness and healing. Like you, my peace is significant and for me, extremely sacred. Life is too short to allow a ‘grown boy’ to waste my time.

[@beatricelunkuse383]

Lol

[@AudreyWilliamsMusic]

Learning how to be alone is a great point. I had a pastor who would always say to run away from people who need you to complete them because it takes two whole people to make one whole relationship.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@micheyahyeshurunyisrael1362]

I have been single for 3 years, and celibate. I would like to be in a relationship with a righteous man, but just listening to this video is exhausting. I think I am so at peace with my life that anything that will disturb my inner peace scares me.

[@kymmichanel]

Me too

[@ebierekoroye3436]

There are good men out there

[@laundrybasket2689]

Same here. Men come into my peaceful life and only left me in pieces. No thanks. No more.

[@laundrybasket2689]

@@ebierekoroye3436 Oh really? Where are they hiding? Oh that’s right, they are already married or they’re 3-4 generations older. No thanks.

[@sharonbraselton4302]

think jesus churstvaveilbel

[@claudettealexis8145]

“Going with the Flow” was 1 of the main red flags I ignored. I told him I wasn’t doing it, but still ended up staying and waiting for a commitment…Lessons learned!!..Currently Healing!!! 😔 🙌🏽🙏🏽💖✨🌟

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@claudettealexis8145]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thanks!!! How can I setup a session with you??!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@thisismystone9658]

Xowi boo boo...

[@fumanemantwa3477]

I find new relationships the man doesn't want to answer when I ask him about he married he avoided

[@TDavis-lu2rl]

This is why the "dating" process is super important. During this time, we can see how people act in public, interact with others and engage in an uninterrupted conversation. I've been left speechless after seeing how bad some people communicate...lol

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Communication is definitely key thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!

[@sunshinedayz7032]

Totally agree. We need to take time and see who the person. Really is.

[@laundrybasket2689]

Exactly. Because men are taught since childhood that it’s “weak” to communicate and it’s “for girls.” Boys are taught and encouraged as they grow up into adulthood to be macho, tough and strong and that communication and vulnerability is seen as weakness. As long as we have these HUGE imbalances in relationships there is no hope. Society needs to start teaching and encouraging BOYS from childhood the same things they teach young girls. If this never happens the toxic relationships will only continue and women will continue to be devastated by men until the human race dies out.

[@kikataye6293]

I admit, I’ve ignored red flags just because I want temporary companionship

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!

[@determined2win585]

I've done that as well.

[@kayfabulos]

That's deep

[@erinhappy-go-lucky5040]

In the reference to “going with the flow…” I have rushed into relationships in my past, later to find out that there has been a mis-alignment of values. Taking things slow gives a person the opportunity to observe and process if a relationship is right for them. I am still in the healing process from my last five year relationship, as well as healing my childhood and adult traumas. Growing together with someone is my ideal goal, as well as working together as a team.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@valeriesmith9031]

I feel the same wsy3

[@EllenMatos1]

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[@prakritidec]

More power to you 🌼

[@TowelaBanda-p5g]

❤

[@julissavasquez6074]

Thank you for this!! I was thinking he was my twin flame and here it is, HE IS TOXIC AS HELL!! No more crying over this clown!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@DouradaBambina]

Remember, kings have no nationality, race or color. Be more flexible queens, travel, move to a different city, expose yourself to a different environment…You deserve happiness!

[@middlesys9180]

Yes, yes and yes. Get outside of your comfort zone! Hiking, sailing, ax throwing, ifly.....etc.

[@operacentric6148]

Yea but a real African Queen needs a real African King!!!

[@middlesys9180]

@@operacentric6148 With respect, I feel like this mindset holds us back. If you open up the pool to all ethnicities you drastically increase your odds. Some women die alone waiting on the African King that never comes.

[@NashlieTewCuteJean]

@@middlesys9180 you sound right but i love black men too much 😍 i cant 😩

[@julowens8072]

Also I am in my mid 50s, still very active, ride motorcycle, kayak, target practice, and when I am home it is quiet and peaceful. I say no thank you to advances. Wish I would have done this in my 20s! 🧘‍♀️

[@sellinamartin6200]

U have my surname

[@Cat.Wmn.]

My ex treated others better than me. He'll go out of his to help them but when it comes to me, it's the opposite. He'll put on this persona for the public but at home it's a different story.

[@charlottetheartist327]

Same. He would get snappy, short tempered, and mention THEY PAY HIM MONEY!!!!

[@extinctionlevelevent1431]

That sounds like typical narcissistic behavior. Narc’s believe that if they give you everything you want then you’ll leave them…so they give you the least that they can instead. It’s just like “bread crumbing” to keep you hooked on them. Their treatment of other people is awful. I’m glad to hear that he’s your ex.

[@bollagurl]

Same, I swear it was like split personality this order. He was so caring about hurting others . But when it came to me it was purposely done.

[@jeannechristensen7459]

Be aware of the red flags... usually there is a narcissist in your path

[@2888HA0264]

CLASSIC NPD BEHAVIOUR!! A REAL NARC!!!

[@georgia6127]

In my experience when you catch a partner out in lies, it doesn’t stop. Ever. Red flag zone.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@luci5660]

“They lie about the little things”! Say it again for the younger Sista’s in the back row!!!! Please heed this wise counsel as Stephan is absolutely correct! If they’ll lie about little things they will absolutely will lie about bigger and/or more important things!!! Ima witness 🙅🏽‍♀️

[@JamaicaLove876]

Excellent video. The company a man keeps will speak volumes about his life. The people we surround ourselves with have the greatest influence and impact on our lives. Yes, agree lack of accountability often means they find fault with the other person and never examine their own mistakes. A person who can never learn from their mistakes will keep repeating the same patterns of behavior. Also, a person who is dishonest can't be trusted. Trust has to be the foundation without that it cannot progress. A person who jumps from relationship to relationship lacks stability and is often running from something within themselves they cannot deal with. Also, a man who lacks emotional intimacy is one to avoid as they do not have the tools to maintain that level of intimacy and vulnerability needed in a love relationship. Thank you for the video. Keep up the great work. Blessings of abundance, peace, and light to you, always.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much and may you be blessed as well!

[@JamaicaLove876]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks ❤

[@Officialmilag]

ppp

[@niccijanelle8319]

Tyyy

[@kristenhadassahpolanco6719]

I have been watching your content for days and you are like the big brother I never had. On behalf of all of the women without a male influence to help us, thank you. I grew up in a toxic relationship, left 3 years ago I left and he’s not letting go. Your videos are really helping see why I need to cut communication and walk away! Your page is now my dating / relationship bible!!!….that’s a book!! The relationship bible!!

[@tanehasingleton]

I ignore all the red flags because of how good of a man he was treating me and had the nerve to keep blocking me for no reason and coming back with no explanation of why… I’ve learned to not ignore red flags because men that I have loved has been a pattern of hurting me I love myself first. It all make sense now that I’m healing

[@GodsFavourite2024]

Been there, done that. Made me realize not all sick people can be helped. Some people we are just better off without for our own good 💃💃💃💃💃💃

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

[@Ohkeh640]

100%

[@sandrabridgman3965]

You are so skilled at pealing back the layers in people's lives to reveal the root cause of the red flags. I look back at my past relationship when you are sharing insights and I'm able to see my blind spots. Wow!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

[@GisPondering]

This is so true. People who do not know how to be alone is a big, big red flag.

[@Sherraysmiles]

Great advice, I totally agree. I always say this a guy or woman who has to has someone all of the time aren't serious about themselves. The Bible teaches not to be anxious for nothing...

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@kourtney101]

Seems like the 🔑 thing is to be attentive in everything. ALSO, Relationship Detox should be an entire course! frfr. 😊🧐

[@elainelester7016]

The most difficult process of dating as an older woman Is trust issues

[@jessicamorales2555]

I have found Stephan recommendation about own healing, as very important. And we can work on that, in many situations. We just need to be patient and committed.

[@lynnmcmillian5137]

My rule is simply this, be true to Thyself and if they’re liars let it go! Love Thyself No Matter What!

[@yyl7076]

Tbh, I wouldn’t call it trust issue sometimes. Believe in your intuition. If you feel someone is not trust worthy, he probably is 💀

[@ericajones2537]

I feel you on that. As an older (widowed) woman. I don't date because I'm calm, peaceful, unstressed and SANE. I trust GOD. I trust my intuition. Also, I KNOW once a woman is older (senior) she is either #1 purse #2 nurse or #3 "invisible". NEVER SETTLE!!!! Go to GOD first, know yourself, BE YOU, love you. Don't put yourself in position to be abused, used just to have a relationship. This ain't relationship ---this is "situationship". Feel me????

[@zaragray6199]

Ur not the only I do not trust men

[@fanicemaxwell3201]

ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT YOUR EXTRAORDINARY!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@ilenek.5428]

Right person.. wrong time :( ... breaks my heart.

[@alicesmith4547]

Stephan.. you are amazing!! I have learned sooooo much from ALL your videos! I’m in my 60’s and so much is new to me. Thanks for ALL your knowledge!

[@georgia6127]

Agree 100% . don’t ignore the initial red flags. We rationalise with the “nobody’s perfect scenario” Save yourself the heart ache. DONT ignore the red flags.

[@wendieveliz1733]

Thank you! I listen to many of your videos. I noticed I no longer feel uncomfortable to start a conversation with a partner, when I notice what may be a red flag. I pay more attention and engage in conversation I normally would brush along. 🙏🏽

[@alegnarolyart5133]

Some men will say you're in a relationship together because they know you don't have sex when you're not in a relationship.

[@lottesrensen8004]

Sometimes your fault is to being too naive, groomed by the society you grew up in to believe in the good in people and keep trying harder if there are issues. We should teach children and young people more about abusive and good behavior, reading others behavior, groupdynamics ect not like textbook teaching but as natural part of interaction and by bringing attention to and in a good manner addressing and talking about what happens among people ect

[@Stainless009]

True talk

[@schokococoa575]

Yes, my parents just said don’t date until you’re older, and now my mom’s asking if I have a boyfriend. Like, idk anything about dating, I didn’t know the questions to ask, the things that were worth working on or that were signs this person was not for me. I didn’t even know what I liked or not in a man til I interacted with one in that way. I’m glad there are videos like this made by men and women that can give me perspective on what to avoid, etc

[@janetlis2613]

I should have listened to my mother she knew and was correct.

[@melissaszarka5718]

It's great to hear from you speaking about lies....a constant history of lies can only lead to trouble for you. Let go!

[@RoseRose-ow5zy]

Yes!!! People don’t know how to be alone! I’ve always said that. Learn how to be happy on your own. I’ve told people that and they still don’t get that. They keep jumping from one relationship to another. They are co-dependent.

[@boostmobile9249]

Live CAUTIOUSLY. BE ON GUARD. Keep ALERT!

[@yolanda5756]

This needs to be a required class, taught in middle schools! 🙏To everyone reading, may God bless you and strengthen those that are hurting❤ Jesus loves you. Accept Him as your Lord and Savior

[@barbarabrown2277]

AMEM! AMEN! AMEN!

[@heavenlyd611]

Wow! This is so true. Never ignore the red flags...💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right never ignore red flags. Always address the red flags.

[@mangoesnbreadfruit01]

"Birds of a feather, flock together" - it's SO TRUE. I've learned to also take note of the circle of ppl a guy hangs out with. Guys lie all the time and try to paint themselves as someone they're not. So if a guy hangs around friends who are all in their slut phase...chances are the guy you're dating is too. Rich ppl hang around other rich ppl. Fit ppl hang around other fit ppl. Entrepreneurs hang around other entrepreneurs, etc, etc.

[@rpw6033]

Yep! Number six-hiding someone is part of some kind of crazy. Period.

[@elainelester7016]

When you get older this behavior doesn’t change as we age

[@consciousofthelightinside5235]

OMLORD!! Soo true on the not trusting part. Ive been acused of texting, calling, lying, going dates during lunch times, dressing up for someone else, and about to cheat when I am not doing any of those things!! When this behavior became more on a time to time basis, I started to feel apprehension anxiety for things I am not doing and being acused.

[@julowens8072]

I have chosen to be alone for 8 months now. I gave myself 1 year to heal and get life in order so that I may except someone great into my life. NOW I like being alone, hmmmm.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Healing is definitely key. Thank you for sharing and I pray that you receive the partner who is truly best for you the partner God has for you!

[@thistruthisfree4079]

I'm going through this right now. He says "I'm not into doing labels but we will respect each other" ugh this sucks.

[@Giftis2sing]

#7 is so on point!! People who aren’t use to being alone will never take the the time to heal from the previous relationship. They’ll just sweep all the pain an hurt under the rug and carry all those issues into the next relationship and ultimately end up hurting the next person!! It’s so sad. My EX use to always say his dad told him the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else, which is the dumbest statement ever!!

[@a.4536]

You are a simply amazing person, Stephan. Your knowledge is excellent!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you very much I appreciate that!

[@cynthiawarren9379]

You cannot control the family you come from- but you can pick your friends.

[@KWin-ik5cl]

A man who has had nothing but series of short relationships. I'll ask a man "How long was your longest relationship"? Very telling when he says 6mos or a year.

[@cordeaniaknox4158]

When your boyfriend suddenly stops texting, calling or responding to yours. Then says it’s because of family problems. Then turns it on you asking “ have you told me everything?” 🤔😡

[@DivinelyGuided777]

I agree, and you never allow or let anyone infiltrate in on your relationship, whether by mouth or actions❤️👑🙏🏻

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

[@DivinelyGuided777]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks You’re welcome Stephan🙏🏻❤️👑🙏🏻

[@michelledouglas-thierry3143]

You are so on point .... I'm now learning how to be alone with myself. It's hard but needed. Thank you❤❤

[@loripeloso6678]

Being alone I found is critical in loving yourself and learning what is truly important to youn

[@honeyb2917]

I love your wisdom, the advice is always on point. It's respected, appreciated and much needed. Thank you 🙏🏾❤️

[@shannonlilia]

Stephen, I just love your laugh! Thank you for always bringing us the raw, unfettered advice. ❤️

[@sandramoore1391]

Good video. Wish my friend would see this video. She’s naive about so many things that I try to help her as much as possible about ignoring the red flag. Thank you . Your videos are helping me to help her . Blessings

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help!

[@blondieb.harris1330]

That's true the saying goes; you tell one lie you got to tell 2,3,4, maybe more; you hit a home run with that one. Little lies add up to make a great big one. 💖

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thanks for the view I appreciate your feedback!

[@prakritidec]

Everytime I watch your videos, I am amazed by the intricacies of modern relationships. In every video, I read the old message of “having rationale with one’s heart” in a relationship. You share true wisdom to take back home and reflect and be better with time. Thank you so much, it’s relatable and so damn true 🙂

[@3pministry-passionatelypur475]

Mr. Labossiere you preaching and teaching in this one! Especially the part on why don’t men/women just leave instead of cheating. 💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@sharonbraselton4302]

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[@sharonbraselton4302]

tv shows cheaters

[@shaec8498]

I’m one minute in and it feels like you’re talking to me directly. Damn this has been a LONG lesson 🥴 this is why it’s important for fathers to be present!! I literally have zero understanding of men!

[@jacquelinenoakes8673]

Stephan, I go through periods when I think 🤔 I am ready then my mind digresses and I second guess myself and become afraid. That’s when I am ready to run 🏃‍♀️ away.

[@boostmobile9249]

Substance Use for confidence. Red flags!

[@GurlPlz4321]

Facts about nothing having a good group of friends. I’m so glad he touched on that. It was such a problem between me and my ex. They gave him terrible advice and led him to a destructive path

[@jdglen24]

I see a red flag and I hightail out of there...I only do this because I know codependency is terrible to overcome...

[@shealawilkinson7474]

Ignored red flags. He never took accountability. So lying, cheating, were all ok to him.hed just 1. Not even acknowledge 2. It was my fault. Just know... Thank you for another great video!!

[@Melissa.Universally]

I Believe!! The dept given here is MUCH APPRECIATED!! I will be walking in this Today!! Grateful!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!

[@Melissa.Universally]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Done!

[@felicialefkowitz2560]

So truth in everyway we have to love ourselves 1st the sad thing is people who dont love themselves will allow there partner to do certain things because they dont value themselves we all have to stay by ourselves to value & love us 1st spirituality is a blessing no joke ur a blessing just saying I thought I could never be by myself because I was always in a relationship married for 23yrs & I left him he lied cyber online & said it wasn't cheating yes that is in my eyes he said it wasnt like he slept with the person not ok sorry he stole $ from me & lied about it lied about other things I 4gave him because we were together for yrs but it still stayed in me I got tired I couldn't do it anymore so I left the relationship & healed me & I love me to much to not be happy or except anything that I wouldn't do to sum1 else u love it's not ok but sum people dont have the strength to leave because they are comfortable in that situation that's why I stay by myself to keep healing but ir a blessing men & women need to know there with & heal inside thank u sunshine ur a great spirit 😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback!

[@kellyellis6080]

So many red 🚩, but I chose to believe the lies instead! Ladies ( and gentlemen too ) , if it walks like a duck ( and you know the rest ) , it's a duck!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!

[@bserene6328]

Preach Stephan. I enjoy this video. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.

[@AB-wk6sm]

What is it within me that ignored the red flags? Giving someone the benefit of the doubt is not good. The moment he lied about being married for a second time .. that was my green light. I should not have let others talk me out if my gut feeling. I ended up regretting and paying for it in the long run

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It is always important to listen to your intuition. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you!

[@thegreatconsciousnessrenai7221]

Background checks

[@barbarabrown2277]

Words of Wisdom: Tell the TRUTH. Shame the Devil.

[@dorothysambucci9468]

Thanks so much! I really appreciate you knowledge and wisdom! I can see the mistake I have made in my past! I’m just focusing on me and healing and growing! I can only take care of me! Fir the first time in my life I’m focusing on my growth and my life! God bless you! 🙏😇👍

[@tmed362]

Even "Lie" by omission

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Yes, it definitely isn't an easy situation.

[@africanqueen5292]

Yeah lies of omission are the worst. My boyfriend lied to me about being a jail. I found out by doing my own background research on him. He told me he didn’t want me think of him as a bad person that’s why he lied

[@Portia620]

NOT ALL MEN CHEAT BUT A CHEATER WILL SAY THAY! Its ingrained in my brain

[@germainenorthcross9118]

LOVE IS REAL LOVE IS IN ALL OF US WHO CHOSE TO BE HEALTHY.

[@lissitoj3428]

You are so knowledgeable, Stephan. I know you are speaking the truth because I had all these experiences in a toxic relationship I recently came out of alive. I love your podcasts because you only confirm my way of thinking wasn't wrong at all. Thanks for sharing! 🎯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👑🤴👑XOXO 🤗😘 (Then he would say he was the bad guy to make me feel sorry for him, so he could keep getting away with his bad behaviors.) It wasn't the right timing, I guess. He had a lot of issues, like no discipline, no boundaries, no limits and no structure. Oh, he started changing alright, towards the end of our broken relationship, but it was already broken and it's hard to forgive and come back from harsh and hurtful words already blurted out. I made him see his worth but for the next woman that came along after me, not for me. I believe if the relationship starts out on the wrong foot, it'll end up on the wrong foot too. Time to disengage.✌️💯💓

[@sheilaboykins9544]

You know I saw the red flag's and I wanted to burn the damn flag's. And because I was hard headed that's why Im in the the hell that Im in now and have a whole lot of healing to do. Thanks Stephan.

[@stacybrauner9070]

I should have paid more intension, however at the same time I begged God to let me fall. I was in a year and half relationship with a scammer. We never argued and things were just too good to be true. It ended in epic flame. However, I discovered myself in the process and came out better for it. I have more peace and wiser. Maybe God intended for me to go through it because I see the blessing through the tragedy.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad you were able to come out of it and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@kaymornasinclair5088]

Talk truth…I just live listening to this gentleman! I agree 💯

[@reginarain8545]

Stephan Thank you for taking the time to be a great teacher God bless you 🙏 in your gentle teaching skills as a coach and teacher.

[@marycolinet2563]

Stephen I would like to say Thank You for making this information available to Us. I have struggled with some of these very issues with Men. The information you have provided is very sound Wisdom, as well as a wealth of knowledge. I am amazed at The works of Gods hands as I listen to Your vast knowledge mixed with wisdom, spoken so very elegantly/clear, it is everything We need with God out here as We try and decipher Who is The One for Us, and how to avoid the traps of the devil. I have never had any Formal training as it relates to the information you've provided, May God bless you for being so open and honest with Us. You have made everything so plain even a child seeking this type of knowledge could not error. I pray The Lord continues to bless and establish You in every way possible. Thank you for giving Us the knowledge We need for growth and opportunity. I will definitely be supporting you and the work you're doing to help build and change the lives of Gods People, You have certainly changed mine. I'm looking forward to hearing more from You. Thank You again! Kingdom Blessings to You🙌

[@Wrightn221]

I saw many red flags, and I got rid of him, in 30 days!!! I heard him say that every woman was selfish but then I saw it was him!!! Oh, and his mama didn't show him love. Major red flag~ He was a habitual liar!!! I called him and he told me that he was talking to his 90 year old mama. Boy, you ain't talking to your old mama at 11:00 at night! I got rid of him with the quickness. I told him not to post any pictures of me and vice versa because things could go left real fast. I knew he was shady, and was waiting on my exit.

[@EllieM_Travels]

My guy and I addressed our red flags together and worked through them. We broke up for a while to let God work on us individually, and it’s made us stronger. Had we not addressed these things, it would have torn us apart.

[@monicaruiz9829]

I’m glad we have you 🙂🙏💗

[@delcorrea1617]

Thank you very much for sharing.. God bless you always

[@lavonnethompson3243]

It hurts to hear this, but this video is true! Thank as always Stephan. ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@toymonah5214]

Definitely... lack of self-discipline is a MAJOR character flaw/flag...

[@KashyGhislaine]

Thank you for giving advice from a place of love and fairness. God bless.

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

Be broke is the worst thing ever as a high value man ! high value man with financial security won't date broken women !

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate your feedback!

[@hienienguyen6766]

I shouldn't have ignore the red flags but now that I do. I have made my mind up. Im tolerating BS anymore. I deserve more and I won't let this past to hinder me. Im working on myself and not lingering onto it.

[@Sara-world]

Love your videos! I've definitely allowed some of these types to waste my time in my life and that's on me. I'm glad I have a checklist now and awareness.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy that this has been helpful to you ❤

[@Dreamchaser2010]

Awesome job, all these red flags will present themselves while dating. Intuition, vision and interaction plays a great role. I believe I can go to a relationship with a clean slate but not blind. Actions that present themselves in other relationships,may not have the same result. White lies are they from childhood, trying to be someone your not or wish you were?. Thinking that the person cannot handle the truth due to how others responded to the truth?.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I feel you it definitely isn't an easy situation, but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!

[@Daisylove6387]

Little lies is spot on. He lied about the smallest of things that never even mattered. My son (19) said to me one late night…mom why does he lie about stupid stuff? Me: I don’t know they are so small that it’s dumb and ridiculous. My son: mom if he lies about small is he lying about bigger ones? Me: I don’t think so I have never found or seen a big one. One year later (23 yr marriage) I find the big one. Emotional affairs with past high school “friends” for ten years. I knew he told small lies before we got married. I let the white stupid lies slide. I don’t regret my children but I wasted my love on this man. I chose potential and constant promises to do better. I was a fool.

[@taniaharrington8210]

I really appreciate your wisdom, articulated thoughts and specific high vocabulary.

[@rachelwhipkey1029]

In reference to #6...You had me laughing🤣 with you as I thought about similar past hurts/situations. Which had me realize I've healed a lot thanks to you advice .🙂

[@michellegirau8136]

Other people can definitely get in your head especially when you are a teen. I listened to this person and I started seeing someone else while he was in basic. I loved him so much and im sure this hurt him so badly. He never spoke to me again. If I could go back I wouldn't have done that.

[@sharonbraselton4302]

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[@hateisforlosers6116]

He was so on !! With the neglect . When men lack and we aren't talking about men who are just out there on the foolishness. They eventually will find away to fill that void. They are wired differently and even the best of men will fail in this area if we aren't on our job and doing our part!!!!

[@kiawas1]

This was on point ❤

[@angelinatorrens854]

In regards to number seven there is emotional cheating and physical cheating. They both start out small e.g. compliments, staring too long, close proximity, light touches when no one is around, going places without telling your spouse. I'd say emotional cheating is worse since a person is basically saying who they're with isn't enough so they want someone else to fill in the holes they want. But I'm the type of person who doesn't believe you're supposed to marry it be in relationship with them expecting to heal or complete your life. We need to heal and grow personally or we can dump those things on the person we're with.

[@sharonbraselton4302]

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[@amellybk8783]

Thank you for this amazing video, I identified myself in many situations, a'd that's a lesson to learn

[@juliagoolia5604]

You are so right about being okay to be alone. I need to follow this advice this time! Im ready now to get to know me