taking myself on a date (since apparently no one else will)

[@CourtneyMiller]

Steph, you doing vlogmas this year means so much to me. I'm 28 and have been watching your videos for the last few years. My 4 year old son is currently battling cancer for the second time, and his prognosis is unfortunately pretty poor. We spend so many long days at the hospital as he gets treatment and I save up your videos to binge during those long days. Your calm, realistic, content brings me so much comfort when the rest of my life is feeling so out of control. Watching your videos feels like being on FaceTime with your best friend. In a way it feels like your videos help to keep my girlhood alive when it feels like the reality of adulting gets so overwhelming. You help me to hang onto the fangirl within myself who loves Taylor swift, harry styles, normal people, reading, etc, despite my reality being so heavy at times. I'm sure on your end it feels like just posting content about your life, but to some of your viewers you provide escape and comfort in the hardest of times. Going to join the fable book club right now! Wishing you well this holiday season Steph

[@StephBohrer]

sending you so so much love.

[@neo.olliee]

Sending my love to your family. I hope everything goes well.. 💗

[@strieney]

Prayers going out to your family girly! 💞

[@mariayakimova5286]

Sending love and prayers ❤️❤️❤️

[@Kimberlooo]

First of all I’m so sorry for what you are going through. I’m sending you so much love and prayers for you and your little one. I am 27 with a 4 year old and I know what you feel. Sometimes I’m so overwhelmed with life & I feel like I have lost that “girl” in me because I’m constantly stressed and I miss it. Watching her videos also help me in the same way they help you. Sending you love this holiday season🫶🏽

[@ananyagoel9865]

i think we all collectively agree when i say steph should post vlogs like these after the vlogmas is over too🥹 i hope you're taking care of yourself steph love you

[@amysmith1044]

Happily married to the love of my life here. Fun fact, our moms were best friends from the time they were pregnant with us. We literally spent our whole lives together❤❤❤ Been watching your videos since I was tragically single😂😂😂 I got married last year. Took us our whole lives to find our way to each other❤ A piece of advice, don’t give up on finding love…. I found my love when I turned 30 and I never gave up on finding them. He is better than any book boyfriend I could have dreamt of. You can have a storybook romance, don’t give up Steph , your perfect love is out there❤

[@augustsbestie]

omg you and your so is literally best friend to lover trope

[@amysmith1044]

@@augustsbestie yeah lol, I got lucky but I hope everyone gets their textbook love story, everyone deserves one❤️🤗

[@carachacon7191]

Answering the question of the day, I am on day one of my first ever relationship. I am so excited, and we got together after a painting pottery date that was inspired by watching your vlogmas videos!!!

[@hwlsgrl]

how is it now? wishing u so much love and happiness in ur relationship !!

[@scarlette5324]

as a fellow introvert watching you going into ur adult life and experiencing new things alone gives me comfort and basically tells me that’s it’s okay to live a quiet life and be happy and content. i always feel sad that i might miss out a lot by always being by myself but watching your vlogs it tells me that it’s alright to always romanticise my life to the fullest for me to be happy ❤

[@emmatwine]

We need a video where Steph gives us book recs based on each season of Gilmore girls!!

[@meandmymemories]

YES

[@aitanalover]

OMG YESSSS

[@viktoriamarth8052]

omg yesss!!

[@paige777]

the title is so real but also so needed every once in a while!!

[@heathertowe6280]

I've been married for 20 years, I am 45 years old and have a teenage son. I actually met my husband when I had stopped looking and kind of gave up on guys and focused on my career after graduation . I went to a new friends Halloween party and bam, I met her cousin and we had instant chemistry, got to know each other and have been married ever since. I know the majority of your viewers are probably young, but none of my friends like to read, and I find I like more of the younger booktubers' recommendations than people my own age. I have tried, but I'm just not a Debbie Macomber, Nora Robert's type of reader, which is what a lot of people my age read.

[@hollyc4624]

Love this! I’m similar in that I am older than 40…58 this month and been married to my husband for over 30 years and have 4 grown kids. I’m like Steph’s parents in age. But I agree that I tend to read a variety and often more inline with the younger BookTube folks. I met my husband to be in college French class (the only class he struggled through 😂) and have been together ever since. I initially thought he liked my roommate. It was like a romcom trope of misunderstanding. My kids are the same mostly Steph. My oldest married his high school sweetheart but the others haven’t dated much. Although my daughter told me about she and her friends signing up for some dating app for her aged people and everyone she seemed to match with were older and from a different school. She deleted her app. lol. You will meet someone when you least expect it. ❤

[@kirstycc]

My Question for you: I’m dying to know if you were to write a memoir of your life so far what would it be titled and what would the dedication be? I’m loving vlogmas❤

[@harshinia1324]

Steph i have to say, your videos literally makes my day 10 times better.

[@nadinemarie9071]

I’m 25 married for 4 years and have two kids ❤I was one of those kids that always dreamt of this life and now I feel content.

[@zarawaseem3026]

i love how consistent you are with ur posts!! you’ve made this month a hundred times better ❤

[@zarawaseem3026]

watching steph’s vlogmas video everyday has literally become a ritual

[@smashleyblue]

Omg i felt the same way about ‘my life with the Walter boys’ I remember reading it on wattpad and thought it was cringe…. but honestly…. the DRAMA really gets you hooked! i also really enjoyed other relationships in the show as well, and yes it’s cringe and there were times i had to cover my eyes, but the tropes in the show are honestly SO WORTH IT

[@whoisnikkita]

The way watching you has become a routine for me. I'll miss it sm when it ends :(

[@susanp7386]

OMG the Uber driver story! I was laughing as I watched you tell it. Your vlogs go up at 5pm UK time and I've now got into the habit of stopping what I'm doing to watch them :-) It's a nice end to the working day.

[@asofiarv]

my life with the Walter boys was so good! not cringy at all and i finished it in two days, i was invested. i think you would like it. i feel like the only similarity with tsitp is that they are both brothers with a crush to the same girl

[@bellarichards8619]

I’m almost 24 and have been married for 4.5 years ❤️ your vlogmas has been such a joy to watch

[@juliavittoriaofficial]

Perfect Christmas book rec for you: Lovelight Farms! It’s a friends to lovers, fake dating, small town romance

[@sophiem_98]

steph’s vlogmas is saving me rn ❤️‍🩹

[@farahfaisal3447]

I started watching vlogmas not knowing what i was getting into but now Im addicted ✨

[@autumndoss7210]

Your vlogmas is my favorite thing to look forward to everyday. I’m 23 and I’m in my first relationship ever. We’ve been together since august and he’s the best person ever. I honestly never thought I’d find someone because I had terrible luck with men all throughout college so I’m super grateful to be as happy as I am right now❤️

[@saanvinanda2480]

your vlogs are always so cute and wholesome as well as deep and meaningful..ilysm!!!!

[@whoisnikkita]

The mug looks SO GOOD

[@hijabiwithlove]

I'm 32 and single. I couldn't stop laughing at the Uber driver's statement. Crushed those dreams 😩 You'll find someone!! Ps the reading by the water 🥹✨

[@atharvapareek6630]

SHE IS THE MOMENT AND THE BEST

[@lucianadrago9675]

i feel so grateful to be here on your channel after so long!!! you’re like my older sister steph 🥹

[@novadilan11]

another steph vlogmas video is another smile

[@giovannaseabra]

OMG STEPH I just finished my life with the Walter boys and I was embarrassed with myself in the beginning BUT it was pretty good!!!! The family dynamic is adorable and one of the brothers gives cowboy Conrad. Anyway its a guilty pleasure lol

[@mk_beau]

I'm 27, I've been married for almost 5 years and with my husband for almost 10. We have 2 little boys that are 7 and 3. Your perfect guy will come into your life when you least expect it! Also, I take showers in the dark with candles all the time.. so comforting!

[@kyraparzer2127]

omg steph I hope this makes the question of the day tomorrow! - Please rank women main characters to who you most want to be to the least! I neeeed to knooooww :)

[@nicol_6957]

Steph you are the light of my life right now

[@lucianadrago9675]

hey steph! my question for you is who are your favorite authors? and do you like it when movies or series inspired by books come out? you’re my favorite youtuber of all time 🩷 i love that you keep me company with your videos

[@xofatima.x]

favourite notification ever 😫🫶🏼

[@Josephine-ml8zt]

Literally omg

[@ines.__13]

Watching this while doing my assignments is my motivation! Your vlogmas are so great ❤

[@TravelingwithCaseandMaddie]

2 year relationship with my gf this is our 3rd Christmas together 😊 the right one comes when u least expect it I swear !

[@emreads]

This. I am 7 years in now but then I was about to give up on dating entirely. I was so tired of dating the wrong people and trying to make it work. Right as I was on the verge of giving up, something in my gut and soul said "try one more time, this is the one." 7 years later and we are so happy we did it. Its work as all relationships are but we are support, laughter, memes, and everything. Trust time I swear ❤❤

[@h.bm03]

agreed. im in a 4 yr relationship when i least expected to find that ❤

[@shauni-ln4hp]

i love people that truly and pure appreciate and love the small moments like the sky and sitting in a park with a book. i love you for that.

[@Derbauer]

Steph, your videos are what i watch right before i go to bed, and ive watched them all 😻

[@nathalie5064]

I'm 34, I've been with my lovely husband for 13years and a half now (married for 8), no kids except my 2 fur boys (cats) ^^ I love that you are young, you work on social media, and yet what makes you emotional is sitting on a bench outside, reading a book and watching the sunset. Love that.

[@ZyzyMarieW]

Question for Steph: how do you separate real life expectations from book tropes. I’m single 20 year old and just started reading romance books and I don’t want to always expect book guys cause I know they don’t all exist

[@mael847]

stephs vlogmas is the best thing that's happened this year

[@jaimescupofcoffee]

I love how wholesome your vlogs are. You are the sweetest human. Also I am married! I met my husband in kindergarten and we've been together for a decade and married for 3 years 🌙

[@fifs7400]

omg thats adorable

[@augustsbestie]

1:57 WAIT LMAO when you said the barista remembers your order bcs youre a regular reminds me sm of the conversation i had w/ my friend yesterday. shes a barista at our campus' coffee hub and she remembers every regulars order and she sometimes want to say like "as usual?" or "sorry hazelnut latte is out of stock rn" but shes nervous bcs theyre strangers and theres other customers lining up to buy coffee lol

[@emms_lai]

honestly your vlogs make my day!

[@isabellarussosavoldi1702]

your vlogmas videos are making my december soo much better❤thank you for doing this

[@robinjones3767]

it's such a peaceful time for me to sit down and watch your videos love ya💖

[@ozatanvi]

Your content always hits the spot-seriously, thank you! 🤗 Your video's my go-to pick-me-up amidst the chaos. Can't wait for the next one! xx

[@go1denliked4ylight]

Stephh you need to watch my life with the walter boys in my opinion its better than tsip, but the misunderstood broken bad older brother trope is done perfectly. this show had me giggling and blushing at all times.

[@sophia_maria]

ugh i'm so excited for you to read tbosas! im reading it right now! it's SO good!

[@lilli-bn6nv]

I was thinking about the question of the day and just now realized that my current relationship is a classic book trope: brothers best friend. I have literally never thought of that haha. Anyways he is more than anything i could have ever imagined. I know him basically my whole life but we never really talked and once we did we simply knew this is it. We went on one date and we both openly said our feelings...no games, no long back and forth just immediate open affection and love. So what i have learned from that is that true love doesn't play around or makes you wait because thats the cool thing to do or makes them feel in control. You know you found the right person when neither can hide their feelings and intentions for each other. Also when you simply can't be dishonest with them about your feelings and thoughts, i could never bring myself (from the beginning on and now 2 years later) to say i'm fine when i'm not. The true answer just comes right out of me (he is the same about that too).

[@smileyriley930]

I'm going through a breakup after a year and a half long relationship. It's been unbearable, but watching your videos reminds me that doing things on your own is fun! It's nice to have someone to share it with but being enjoying time by yourself is way more important. Thank you for keeping me company during my single girl era, and inspiring me to be confident on my own ♥

[@veronicarvajall]

thank you for another vlogmas steph, highlight of the day ! 🩷

[@alejandrorodriguez4189]

Your vlogmas always makes my day better, to answer your question-been single for a while & currently living life traveling the world when I can and working on what’s next in life

[@anshikav5319]

Definitely watch My life with the walter boys. It's new york girl moving to small town. The family dynamics of the walters is so beautiful. It's definitely a little cringe but not in the way where you have to walk away from the screen because of the second hand embarrassment. Plus the choice between the boys is actually so hard as a watcher because you see both of them and you want both to get love and also not get their hearts broken. Unlike in tsitp where I'm Team Conrad and dead set on it. P. S. - Love vlogmas and love your videos so much. 🥹🫶

[@Magdalena_Lagos]

best part of the day

[@madalenadamasceno5882]

Best part of my day lately ❤❤

[@herm-io-ne]

Your sunset view today is giving Where the Crawdads Sing aesthetic 🧡

[@bridgeymae]

we need a PJ recommendation/haul!! obsessed with all of these PJs in every vlog!! 💤🩷

[@steph.n16]

Steph, your videos literally make my days a hundred times better. You’re always so relatable and answering your question of the day. I‘m single too. Also thank you so much for doing vlogmas❤️

[@irisbaas3694]

Your vlogmasses are part of my routine now, i dont know what i'll do after Christmas

[@victoriaa6412]

I love that there’s a whole load of us watching Steph everyday, I am living for these vlogs 💖

[@maddy3441]

in april my boyfriend and I will have been together two years! truly the most genuine, kind, caring human being I have ever met, soo excited to put him through all the holiday couply events lol! your vlogs are always the highlight of day, as a 23 year old girl whose always struggled making friends I always feel like I'm just hanging with my bsf when I watch your videos. thank you for being you, love you so so much!!

[@jiyamishra3199]

No way I have literally watched all th3 vlogmas videos like twice or thrice by now, binging your vlogmas while reading or just doing chores is my fav hobby rn fr 😭😭🩷🩷

[@Josephine-ml8zt]

Stephs vlogs are so comforting and inspiring 💞 Question: What‘s on your bucket list?

[@jazlynjanai1686]

This year I became regular at my local cafes and I am so happy about it. I always wanted to be one like in the movies :)

[@chloemclean8939]

Love the vlog! Something to up your hot chocolate is to steam the milk and make it frothy with the steamer on your espresso machine. It’s my go to!

[@ChicSabrina]

Between you and Clara Pierce, you make living in Charleston look so magical. It seems like it has a small town feel, the buildings are incredible to look at, and it's still by the water. I was born and raised by Malibu, so I've never really had the desire to leave, but Charleston has made my list of potentials lol. It just looks like it's straight out of a story! Every day I think about how there was one of those horse drawn Christmas carriages in one of your vlogs and you just have to be kidding me. It's the cutest little town!

[@dilnozaachilova3002]

you literally made my day, you making me so motivated to do somth, thank youuu💕

[@jazrodriguez2740]

The queen of vlog titles

[@laurencedassylva7355]

Hi Steph! I just wanna tell you that I've been following you on TikTok for a bit but really got into your KZbin channel for vlogmas and I feel like I've just made a friend! I look forward everyday to watch your new vlog even when life is chaotic and intense, it always calms and soothes me. Thank you for being real and for being you, sending you lots of love 🩷🩵

[@hamdii4444]

I remember when you would film in your cabinet in your last apartment making tea & baking omg nostalgia it's funny when we look back at our memories and feel nostalgic for them times even though we weren't doing our best then 😭😭

[@xoyma]

Another cute place especially around this time of the year is Hanahan Amphitheater!! the cutest place to walk and just relax

[@lupereadsss]

i love your vlogmas videos so comforting and wholesome💗

[@charleymarie]

Yes I think u should watch my life with the Walter boys, I’ve heard it’s way improved from the book and it like cute and similar to TSITP you might like it the romance is cute too ❤

[@kanakpoddar8367]

best part of my day🫶

[@meaghan9222]

dying for a curl/waved hair and makeup tutorial Steph!🙏🏼

[@esha2437]

steph i'm turning 20 in like 20 minutes, and I've been watching your videos since 2021. I'm so incredibly scared of not being a teenager anymore, and I've never not liked my birthday until this year. But I just wanted to say that watching you make your way through your 20's gives me excitement and helps romanticize a decade I'm so scared of. Thanks for being a friend:)) Happy Holidays!

[@shauni-ln4hp]

happy late birthday and i hope you have an amazing 20th year!!❤

[@BrookeHolmes0117]

I live in Italy so these come out at 6pm my time, I will make myself some tea and enjoy it so I can decompress after school.

[@airyedits_]

bye ur vlogs helped me survive exams omg

[@ambertaryn]

To answer your question, I am single and enjoying it! I am focusing on staying busy with work and enjoying time on my own doing the things I love. I loved seeing your solo sunset date! Such a pretty spot! I love my solo dates too.

[@elisazouza]

vlogmas from you is the only one ive been watchinggg

[@alexandria65]

Ok

[@elisazouza]

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[@Malak11.11]

First of all as usual your vlogs are the best thing that ever happened Watching them is the highlight of my day

[@ajhh13]

i’m so excited for your book club 🥹

[@tinafischer561]

My ex broke up with me about a month ago so I'm also Team Single wuhuu. You doing vlogmas is literally saving me right now so thank youu 💕

[@KrystalCharoite13]

Even if I had a bad day. Her vlogs made them really really great.

[@alexandrra.r]

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[@hannahhagedorn3380]

Okay if you really wanna be in the loop, you need to watch The Walter Boys BUT you have stick with it cause the lead up isn't great but the 4th episode and beyond is where I got hooked. Also in my opinion there is a clear winner. Currently going through your vlogmas so if you've already started it lmk who you like

[@airxez]

you're such a sweet and kind person. Your videos radiates such good energy❤

[@danielastorresss]

i'm in a relationship of 8 months :) he's like from a book, dead serious. i love love love your vlogmas, it reminds me to take it slow whenever I can

[@najaabdelrahman2087]

Hey Steph, thanhank you for all the effort you are putting into vlogmas. Its really appreciated. My question to you: Growing up, how was your parent relashionship, and in what ways do you think that influenced your idea of a good relashionship/boyfriends

[@annab2698]

just finished my last exam of the year! this is the perfect way to start winter break ❤️

[@prerza]

vlogmas with Steph. is >>>>>>>>>

[@kathygarnett5115]

I don’t know why your channel popped up but it did and I love it! I’m married for 43 years ! I’m 62 and watching your channel LOL

[@manuelahdezm]

steph tysm for vlogmas!!!💚❤️it's the only thing keeping me sane😩🤍 question of the day: what's your death row meal?

[@__fiema]

i got so excited when you said the book club book for next month is a ballad of songbirds and snakes because i’m listening to the audiobook!!

[@A.WarnersLove]

I love December so much just because you gave us Vlogmas🥹❤️

[@lidcall0909]

4:16 Wattpad comments and annotations were my life I wish every book you read online was like that

[@emms_lai]

the collective sigh is crazy! sorry that happened to you. you should do more storytimes.

[@elaynamatteoni8165]

Love all your vids girly!! ❤️❤️ I just turned 27, married for 5 years with an 8 year old and 3 month old girls. I’ve been watching since 2020, but with being in maternity leave I have been binging your videos 😅❤ sending love from Pennsylvania

[@elinverwaetermeulen1224]

I’ve been together with my boyfriend for over 4 years. Love the vlogs Steph!!