So did mine. I'm corn beef in my right ear. (Corn beef = deef).
@lukecloudstrider88303 жыл бұрын
Yea i got 12 seconds in
@mattykevlee3 жыл бұрын
Ironically, the right ear has just gone on my earphones.
@adeldelion10 жыл бұрын
Stephen Fry would be such a delightful person to know. Imagine for a second if he was your favourite uncle... You'd never read a stupid self help book again. You could just ask him for a piece of his mind. I'm really glad that he is out there on KZbin, we are all better for it.
@qwertyness413 жыл бұрын
"the worst thing you can do is set yourself goals" GOSH is that true and i wish i was told this years ago when i was young (instead of the exact opposite again&again), would have saved myself a lot of grief
@stephaniebisoni965211 жыл бұрын
He's so intelligent. I wish he could be my friend so I could ask him advice for everything in my life...
@MigueldelaRochaGplus10 жыл бұрын
I've thought about that more than once :)
@JoeJones300111 жыл бұрын
I could listen to Stephen Fry talk for hours. I found myself pausing the video regularly just to think inwardly about the points he's made and it's wonderful to listen to
@CyberDeadly13 жыл бұрын
Such clarity of thought. Fry you really are extraordinary.
@reviewsvoiceontube13 жыл бұрын
of course it`s good to hear the many similarities in thoughts and attitudes towards different subjects I found with my own whenever I listen to a person as likeable as wonderful Stephen Fry. Thank you.
@petestrat079 жыл бұрын
When this video finished I said to myself "damn, I wanted to hear more", and then I saw the rest of this conversation is available. Thank you!
@Ogrematic3 жыл бұрын
I met a guy at a wedding. We spoke for a while and he told me he was in a band. I went to see him play and eventually became their roadie/security for a decade.
@paloriggs14 жыл бұрын
we are huggable and lovable and we want to love and be loved
@StephenTurnerVlogs11 жыл бұрын
I think you're right, my Uncle has Aspergers and he is an awkward person to be around and a trial to talk to. I do however do try to talk to him, he comes up with things that make me think once in a while. He's not a techno-literate person but he has nearly all our family history in his head.
@annikee5913 жыл бұрын
Hugs and love to Stephen and everyone- and I love the long hair on him in this!
@jizzbucket500013 жыл бұрын
The editing at 8:20, in context, is incredible. 'I' do Love Stephen Fry.
@darbone13 жыл бұрын
Best example of evolved humanity on the planet. Kudos to Stephen Fry.
@pfflam12 жыл бұрын
The best run-on sentence, with a galaxies worth of tangents, I've heard in years.
@liamboltonboy12 жыл бұрын
I didn't notice that the sound was only coming out of the left ear until it fell out no when it got fired out by Stephens awesome speech, this just proves he is god
@jeanash95022 жыл бұрын
What a great intellect he has, helps me get through yet another covid day
@christinaaudet113 жыл бұрын
I love him ! I wish i could speak with him, or meet more people like him :)
@ignitionfive13 жыл бұрын
Such great and wise words by Stephen here. What an amazing guy. Wonderful video. james:)
@ericksonma0212 жыл бұрын
My right ear loved the little clicking/scratching sounds.,
@emmylow39212 жыл бұрын
Amazing man. His words and wisdom get me through my studies.
@vmet12 жыл бұрын
It is so lovely hearing mr. Fry speak ;)
@theone004414 жыл бұрын
we all have a will to get liked, we all are afraid not to be liked. those who do not have these things are the ones that will not not liked. those who conquer these things are the ones that become great leaders. those who embrace and study these things become great minds.
@milanmihai11 жыл бұрын
Of course you're right. Romania also has many great thinkers and many of them achieved important things.But the bottom line is drawn when the respective country acknowledges its smart people. Brancusi has his own museum in Paris, while in Romania they tried to pull down one of his sculptures with a tractor. I've lived in the UK for 3 years now and although some people still regard me as a low life immigrant, I've had a better time making a name for myself here.Enjoy your country, it's a good one
@TheConciseStatement14 жыл бұрын
All this talk as if Fry is some thug who won the jackpot. If he was innately odious he'd still be a criminal. This is clearly a case of a troubled (and to a certain extent oppressed) but talented young man, discovering a means of creativity and self expression. Once he mixed with similarly high functioning individuals surrounded by a vast archive of knowledge to stimulate him, he became hooked on good honest work. It means with lots of dedication and a bit of luck, you can turn your life around.
@fairandjustified13 жыл бұрын
@arsbroct I agree, with that, although to feel strong in ones own mind with wisdom, which one can share with others as a leader and a equal all at once, comes from the ability to know ones self entirely and to know ones self entirely while being able to share ones self with others is also one of the greatest things a human being can achieve, thank you for your inspirational comment :)
@Decimaster32113 жыл бұрын
This is a particularly good video to watch with the snowfall overlay.
@ShayMeFuel12 жыл бұрын
My left ear very much enjoyed hearing Steven's points of view.
@ruttergod13 жыл бұрын
Setting goals is fine. The problem is WHY we set the goals we set. For instance, if your mom needs surgery but can't afford it, and neither can you afford it, you might set a goal and work hard toward getting enough money to get her the surgery. That is a wholesome goal which I think destiny will support as you work toward it. Problem is we're a bunch of intellectual animals running around setting nothing more than self-centered, egotistical goals. There is little love in our daily motivations.
@fairandjustified13 жыл бұрын
Why does stephen fry care so much about being liked, life isn't about being like life is about living, being nice to each other, some people are introvert some extrovert, we all have different opinions that's what makes it fun, why just do things to be liked watching this makes people feel 10 again Oh OH no people won't like me. he did say a few great things and one was definitely talk to more people and be nice to each other and the more people you talk to the more you get out of life :)
@misanthropisteva5512 жыл бұрын
Mastermind.
@mecagoenlaleche9813 жыл бұрын
he doesnt only agree with the things that i believe, but opens my mind to new ideas altogether! love you stephen :D xx
@jemorrismmorris13 жыл бұрын
One thing I have recently come to realise in my 55 years is that is OK for a heterosexual man to love another man,and I love Stephen Fry!
@RobCarter0413 жыл бұрын
@phraedusthamusicdigr Very famous British actor, comedian, screenwriter, etc...
@AntoniaLY14 жыл бұрын
I know again why I love Stephen Fry. :)
@Talonades11 жыл бұрын
OK seriously can we sack the entire government and make Stephen king?
@nathansikner25604 жыл бұрын
Or can we make Stephen fry?
@akito70253 жыл бұрын
@@nathansikner2560 Hhaha nice once can we make Stephen Fry fry?
@MCshlthead12 жыл бұрын
bless you. im in the same boat. i wish u all the best
@JungleNunuFtw11 жыл бұрын
11 people disliked this video because they just learned what egotistical means and that it applies to them.
@slimak.4 жыл бұрын
Maybe missclick XD
@Sposchy11 жыл бұрын
He's right in saying that autistics don't have a talent for interacting with other people. But he forgets that we are absolutely amazing at interacting with all of the machines and protocols that enable all of this wonderful technological development.
@fritspas14 жыл бұрын
@Tundravalcoz That proves one thing! I have my headphones in the wrong way round.
@Articuno7611 жыл бұрын
"Ah Christ! I'm sure it's terrible for you dear, but just shut up". That sums up my attitude towards negative people.
@MCshlthead3 жыл бұрын
Shut up
@alixinthemiddle14 жыл бұрын
Stephen Fry is just so darn cute...
@scottecooke12 жыл бұрын
I have to say that i disagree on his point of view on goals because it isn't only the end result that matters. It is in my humble opinion the journey, the learning experiences and the getting to know ones self along the way that is almost always more important than the destination.
@mecagoenlaleche9813 жыл бұрын
"who would you want to hug more?" when i heard this i straight away said, "STEPHEN FRY!!" :P xx
@jullex9212 жыл бұрын
Pull out your headphones a tiny bit, you'll hear in both ears :)
@shirleyfrank62803 жыл бұрын
Such a nice man, it seems but honest and humble so therefore no king, nor a eulogised saint, just a human who has dug deep to try to understand himself and humanity 🙏👍
@KrikitKaos13 жыл бұрын
@Tundravalcoz You just made me realize my speakers are on the wrong sides...
@highflyerl233 жыл бұрын
Work is more fun than fun. At least mine is 😋
@el61783 жыл бұрын
I live you Stephen. I really do.
@Kaalec13 жыл бұрын
He is extraordinarily insightful and erudite.
@fairandjustified13 жыл бұрын
@arsbroct while conversing and stimulating the mind with speech, the interactive outer senses are provoked in to responding to stimulation with another human being, while the inner being is also engaged in this interaction at a responding and engaging level, the inner being the higher self is seldom engaged in that situation. although often is the case, while a human becomes solitary, does the mind, soul and spirit become engaged, while thought and extra sensory, fulfillment begins to take shape
@swilson910013 жыл бұрын
amazing words of wisdom
@Zanian1912 жыл бұрын
The sound is only coming out of the left speaker.
@MordekaiGlint11 жыл бұрын
Can it be your headset, i only get sound from the one side of my headset.
@MCshlthead12 жыл бұрын
ok i can agree with what youve said there. and im not trying to say all introverts are nice and all extraverts are not nice. But it would be interesting for sure to see people who are great thinkers instead of great charmers get into positions of power. sadly i dont think it will happen.
@lonnwy5 жыл бұрын
Mr Fry thank you for saying loads of things that I have always thought but I'm not famous enough to be able to say it out loud, xxxxx
@nakilis12 жыл бұрын
i dont get this ear thing can someone explain it??please!
@bilos199313 жыл бұрын
@Tundravalcoz Oh sh..... I have my left speaker on the right side... which is also the wrong side...
@Zanian1912 жыл бұрын
Older model speakers can't differentiate what side the sound is coming from, so it'll come out evenly on both. That's the only reason I can think of.
@cordeliaistheone12 жыл бұрын
What Stephen says about technology reminds me of "A vote is like a rifle; its usefulness depends upon the character of the user." - Theodore Roosevelt
@Ligerpride13 жыл бұрын
@thebigdawg61 I suppose that's the thing about taste, everyone is entitled to their own preferences. I can understand why you'd think that way, but you'll find that anyone willing to given their views on things will be disliked by some, and there's nothing wrong with that. That's just human nature.
@TheThirdGerman12 жыл бұрын
I want to eat in that restaurant where everyone gets the food that another person ordered. That is an awesome idea.
@midcitygym13 жыл бұрын
Its one of life's irony's that Fry, an atheist, espouses more Christian principals and benevolence than most theological practioners, brilliant speaker.
@theGoogol12 жыл бұрын
I care for the well-being of our race and harmony. Happiness and richness are by-products.
@MCshlthead11 жыл бұрын
i should think most countries have great minds and thinkers, ours just get remembered more because they speak english
@phraedusthamusicdigr13 жыл бұрын
who is this guy never heard of him but he is very interesting.
@moeran194412 жыл бұрын
Stephen Fry, Melvyn Bragg, Brian Eno....as Ian Dury Once said, 'There ain't 'alf been some clever bastards'. Can you imagine any government minister talking like this? The very people who hold power and purse strings are nowhere near Stephen Fry's intellect and sheer human brilliance.
@b1ohazard00713 жыл бұрын
@Silver44Guy are you talking about Stephen Fry!? What have you achieved compared to him?
@agnesdeque13 жыл бұрын
Qu'est ce qu'il est bien ce mec !
@larrikins14 жыл бұрын
I love him :D he's amazing
@Amalekites13 жыл бұрын
@ruttergod Well said. And yes, there is too much "me, me, me" everywhere.
@delfin746114 жыл бұрын
he's just so wonderful ! smart and funny and insightful -- was PERFECT as Oscar Wilde-- wouldn't it be great if our political leaders were men like him?
@danyoogifletzet12 жыл бұрын
you just had the most impoderable joy of watching charlieissocoollike whech makes you like, cool
@MCshlthead12 жыл бұрын
great words. really made me want to become part of society that line did.
@MrPrankmastergeneral13 жыл бұрын
He is in Hobbit 2012. World rejoice !
@brollan123412 жыл бұрын
I've thought that exact same thing!
@ElMufro13 жыл бұрын
Fantastic
@mercedescl13 жыл бұрын
@sethkasketch The bankrupted one perhaps?
@unclepic112 жыл бұрын
He is the most british looking man ever. He is really not handsome, but for some reason he is extremely charming :)
@mreawsomeman12 жыл бұрын
yes i find the human obsession with oneself quite interesting in the fact that we say say things like my computer or my house which in a way does belong to you and that there is no other way to put that without saying my but then we say thing like MY girlfriend or my father or my mother or my pet, instead of I am her boyfriend or I am his/her son. Another thing i find interesting is our obsession and yet shame of sex but i don't have the characters necessary for that!
@MadOldPete12 жыл бұрын
In my experience, emos tend to be negative and endlessly self-pitying in the face of their relative privilege, but what Stephen Fry is saying is very positive and life-affirming. Don't you think it's a bit shallow to dismiss it as "emo" whenever someone talks about the fundamental nature of human experience? Is there anything more important, when you come down to it?
@BeorhtFrognostic13 жыл бұрын
Agreeable words
@MCshlthead12 жыл бұрын
i am with you. i mean the guy has an incredibly fortunate and privileged background and so i really dont think he can offer good advise to the vast majority of people. If you see some of his other videos and then this one He seems to contradict himself so much its unbelievable.
@MistaMase10214 жыл бұрын
@MCshlthead yes but the "popular" people you speak of are simply people surrounded by others that yearn to be like that person. people simply with a mentality that looks up to the alpha male or woman, and make it their goal to EG be adored, have money, popular with the opposite sex etc.
@paddygilbert12 жыл бұрын
If everybody got what the guy next to him had, everybody'd have the same dish and you'd only have to prepare one dish. What an idea :D!
@WafflesAreLol12 жыл бұрын
One*
@314jake12 жыл бұрын
While I do ostensibly agree with the general points made here, I felt that this was both more aggro and more sanctimonious than I expect from Stephen Fry.
@tsaotsaotherebel12 жыл бұрын
Love it...
@FutureAbe12 жыл бұрын
Thats Numberwang!
@MCshlthead11 жыл бұрын
you have i list of traits that if people have you write them off as negative. let me tell you. a few years ago i had a mouth virus unbenknownst to me because i didnt floss. during that time i felt tired constantly physically and mentally irritable got angry over everything and felt like shit 24/7 it was only a matter of pure luck that i tried flossing one day and my condition disappeared. if you had known me during that time you would probably have written me off but does that make me worthless?
@chaosdecides13 жыл бұрын
We shouldn't be introspective?
@ExtacyOfThinking12 жыл бұрын
Thumbs up for Stephen fry for world leader!!
@senorretard13 жыл бұрын
damnit you cut him mid-sentence
@MCshlthead13 жыл бұрын
@MistaMase102 ok thats maybe, so how can you say that isnt true for all popular people??? and why are some nice people so inherently unpopular???
@MadOldPete12 жыл бұрын
I have heard of the Sadhus and I do have admiration for them, but I don't see that their thoughts are mutually exclusive from Stephen Fry's. You seem to be quite preoccupied with the idea that actors have nothing to contribute, but the fact that he's an actor is pretty much irrelevant. He's also a writer and a comedian, two groups of people who tend to be particularly perceptive and insightful.
@Kitti_B14 жыл бұрын
I wish I could afford to travel :(
@blackgoldtexast14 жыл бұрын
Everyone associates him to Steve Jobs. And even though that's only partitially true, steve jobs saved and built the greatest film studio ever: Pixar.
@MessedupMurphy12 жыл бұрын
cool story bro, needs more dragons.
@HOlSWOOLF13 жыл бұрын
This saved me
@JustAnotherDrummerJG12 жыл бұрын
Was my right ear o.0 , i think i better swap them around cheers lol.