stepping down from frenemies | Trisha Paytas Re-upload

[@adh3247]

“it’s not about money, I don’t want more money” *Quits because he takes 5% for production costs*

[@MultiMaverix]

And she was getting more overall.

[@nobodycares1134]

Creates huge drama for more money and veiws lol

[@LKZ405]

@@nobodycares1134 typical drama queen

[@poopoohead4455]

if u rlly think thts why ur delusional

[@Yo-sj2fp]

@@poopoohead4455 sure it’s not the SOLE reason why but it is obviously a big reason for her. She brings up money NUMEROUS times throughout the frenemies episodes and she’s mentioned it in her blowups on the show as well.

[@tris-chan6419]

I just watched the entire frenemies podcast for the first time, finished it, and went to find this video to see if Trisha could convince me that she was in the right. She could not.

[@montej2218]

I just did the same thing. It feels fake why would she just leave lmao

[@nobodycares1134]

@@montej2218 her whole career is based off of being fake, she fakes disorders and does outragious things for veiws. She is a digusting women

[@MissSpaz]

@@nobodycares1134 I mean there's a difference between Trisha being fake and being a troll. Her Trump video? Troll. Her "DID switch" video? Troll. Her talking about staff behind their back? Fake. Nearly everything to do with Ethan and Hila? Fake. Her lying about being abused by her teacher? Pathological lying.

[@kristiekane3735]

@@montej2218 she lets comments dictate her life. Making this video killed her career. She deserves it

[@antis0cialangel]

Same

[@sheri226]

She had SO many ideas but didn't want to put in the work to make it happen. Things don't magically appear just because you have an idea.

[@tiarra03]

Right and now she has the freedom to do her own thing and it’s the same boring recycled content

[@dragonlady3278]

@@tiarra03 not to mention the many q&a videos she’s done since throwing a fit about that segment 😂

[@enchantedrockview]

Her beef with E (basically, money) just reminds me of Jennifer Lawrence saying she was upset at herself when she asked a producer why they pay actors more money and they said it's because they actually ask for more money (or something like that). Ok, like if you feel that you are worth this amount of money and conditions why not ask for them or leave? Instead of creating so much drama because you felt you had to accept his terms and were never happy about it.

[@transcendcapitalism]

@@enchantedrockview you're bringing in an example of misogyny. it's complex, particularly when it's internalized. women get a lifetime of messages that they're of less value. so society teaches them they have less value.

[@autumnatamelias]

This is all bull. It was not her idea. Why would it go on her channel? She did not in anyway “build the show 50/50” The attention got to her head and she inflated her importance there. Yeah frienemies was successful because of her chaotic energy, but that is as far as her contribution went. Also evident by her low views now and h3 still doing fine.

[@sarahelizabeth8585]

She should have invested in their channel if she wanted so much control. She’s literally a GUEST, not an active investor. It’s not HER channel lol. It’s literally Ethan and hilas. Imagine if we all had this energy at our jobs, trying to control our manager and try and sit in interviews feeling like we had a day to who they hired when we’re literally a part time employee like she was there for 3 hours a week max 🤣🤣🤣 it’s not even like she was doing a few shows a week or something.

[@I_am_milan]

Ethan should've had contracts & policies in place to avoid Trisha's lunacy.

[@jakestroll6518]

Contracts would only have trapped him. Trisha was always gonna do whatever she wants even if he threatened to sue.

[@amandaconner7563]

He should have had a contract so she would have to pay him, he did all the work him and his team she just showed up and walked off she's such a liar....

[@cristinal919]

@@amandaconner7563 Precisely. It's easy to say the words "contracts would only have trapped him." Easy to say it, doesn't mean it's true. They could have added a stipulation that she has to pay "x" amount if she leaves before episode "x". Of course all in retrospect. I don't judge him for it, just another lesson learned on the path of life, but yeah fuck she was a tornado haha

[@Apk1991]

Let’s be honest, Trisha was the whole focus of the show and the reason it was successful. She was the cash cow (not a fat joke). Besides his really old videos, the frenemies podcast was his biggest success on KZbin to date.

[@2458merions]

He should have never partnered with a certified toxic narcissist. Same with Tana. They need to kick the addiction to toxic whack jobs, period. Did they learn nothing? Gawd

[@eliza448]

This was such a mess. Just rewatched frenemies and Ethan rehabilitated her image and career so much and she just couldn't help herself

[@tiarra03]

Omg can you imagine if they had hired a whole separate staff for frenemies? People with families and fucking bills to pay on edge bc they don’t know when the show might end bc Trisha just storms Off on a whim. They would have been out of a damn job in the middle of a pandemic fucking around with her unprofessional ass.

[@SimranPahwa]

They wouldn’t have lost their jobs cause as Ethan stated they work on his team for stuff too

[@adnanbashir1756]

@@SimranPahwa um that's what they're saying.. what "if" they had a special team just for frenemies

[@kertousss2021]

so true omg i didnt think about that aspect

[@elisabethochoa1125]

She really thought they would crash and burn, running back to beg for her

[@AnonymousA5]

he takes that 5%

[@jennifervazquez8669]

TLDR: "The crew got upset with me, so instead of apologizing, I quit"

[@amna6024]

just finished rewatching frenemies and this is an essential part of it lmfao

[@cbockiii2514]

"I hope it doesn't affect our personal relationship"....you called her a C-word on the air!

[@macaylahastey6012]

who?? Did trisha call Hila a c word? cause if so thats fucked

[@xsamicidex]

@@macaylahastey6012 she sure did and called her a b______

[@cathim1796]

It was all about money and lack of control for her!

[@enchantedrockview]

Which are fine (wanting money and a sense of control). It's not a bad thing just because it's *her*. What's wrong is that she dragged her dissatisfaction for so long, while making all those nasty comments throughout many episodes as retaliation, instead of making her demands clear and sticking to them so they would be met from the start. They could have even proposed a trial run, a limited number of episodes, so both of them could see the results and then review their terms.

[@LKZ405]

I believed I'd have more of a say. Asked for the staff to get changed, ETHAN AGREES. *Leaves without elaborating furthermore*

[@LKZ405]

she really just never gets better

[@trin8456]

Ethan had to walk on eggshells the entire frenemies series. She was totally gaslighting him the entire ep. She was totally unfair and broke up a family for no reason. Her going to keem is unforgivable. She was a contractor… why is that so hard to grasp.

[@mrs.-rw8tl]

Hila and Ethan are the ones who cut Moses off. She didn't force them to do it. Ethan recently said he missed Trisha. Hila didn't like her either... let's not blame their family drama on her.

[@macaylahastey6012]

wait she went to Keemstar? Thats so awful.

[@carleymillard2919]

It boils down to jealousy, she wants to run the show without actually doing anything. I rewatched frenemies recently and i can’t believe it ended over something so small and stupid. It’s like she’s just chucking her toys out of the pram but can’t accept she’s wrong.

[@RandomPerson28337]

what you expect? she looks like she has a mental disorder probably several

[@specialjess]

It seems that way by watching the episode, but if you look into it more deeply, Trisha has real emotions as a complex human and so does Ethan and crew. In my opinion, Trisha did self-sabatoge with an emotional outburst, but the underlying feelings were justified for her in wanting more autonomy over her life and building her career (if we all had hindsight on such things, huh?). Also, it coming from someone who has trauma and cyclothymic emotions, I know how hard it is when triggered not to be hurtful when hurting. Give a little grace to folks that are going thru shit. She's doin' her best, and her best is good enough.

[@sarahelizabeth8585]

Literally all Trisha had to do was put out a basic statement saying she was quitting, she enjoyed the experience and best of luck to everyone..but no she handles it in true Trisha fashion and exposes behind the scenes like the financial situation(totally inappropriate!!!) text messages etc. i truly think if she just left like a normal adult Ethan and Trisha would have still been friends. It’s none of her business what that 5% went to. It’s HIS podcast, HIS platform and Trisha needed to know her role. If she wanted to make all these discussions she should have talked to them about investing into their brand. she has no right to control all this kind of stuff when she’s not even investing in their company. Like who else does this kind of stuff lmao? You don’t see mike on Logan’s podcast doing all this stuff and I doubt anyone who’s doing this kind of situation was getting 45% of the revenue +memberships.

[@rambi1072]

Yeah I agree they even said on the podcast that Jason on Views only got 10% lmao. Obviously Trisha was more important to Frenemies but 45% of revenue is so much money, like they to pay staff, rent, taxes, electricity, props and everything else not to mention the like $50k they spent on the set and stuff in the beginning so the business as a whole won't even be making 45% let alone just Ethan. Trisha was great on the show but it's a shame she couldn't just chill with the ego a bit.

[@sarahelizabeth8585]

@@rambi1072 that show made a LOT of money..But if you really think about it, did Ethan really make that much once you take into production and payroll? Like I’m sure the 5% was even barley enough for all that.

[@sarahelizabeth8585]

@@rambi1072 don’t forget she got a decent amount of subscriptions. If she wanted that much say in stuff she should of invested in h3 productions. Like at least that would of made sense as to why she got so much. She’s such an entitled brat.

[@rambi1072]

@@sarahelizabeth8585 yea that's what I mean, there was quite a lot of production value seen as it had more to it than just being a podcast really, so yeah paying for all that is going to be considerably more than 5 or 10% so Ethan will have made less than Trish. Yeah Trish was great on the show, but it really is so entitled to be expecting nobody else to be making money and her to be earning potentially almost half a million per annum + exposure for her merch and channel. Rip Frenemies anyway I just watched if for the first time. But yea like you say she could have put money up at the beginning too and invested money for operating costs, but even then she might not have made as much seen as 45% is so much lol

[@sarahelizabeth8585]

@@rambi1072 it was good when it was airing for the first time and now looking back on it, it’s kind of disgusting how Trisha was and how she just lied so much and hurt people that actually cared about her.

[@doomedinhell2113]

this conversation should've been had with a therapist, trisha, not to a cemera for the public.

[@lindseyitamoto]

cemera

[@rosietheservant7857]

Trisha, you could have clipped your own highlights and put them on your channel! You're given soooo many chances, and you fk it all up! My gosh.

[@nickjjismyhusband]

Self-sabotaged one of the best friendships she had, one of the best jobs she had bc she was extremely high maintenance and wanted more $ and credit for things she didnt do. Trisha....

[@-VOR]

If trish ever needs money, she could teach a masterclass in the Victim Complex. And another masterclass in logical fallacies, she uses more than Ben Shapiro does.

[@enporter]

Ben Shapiro would never do that!!! Ever!!! You stop that!!!

[@MS-nl6yz]

@@enporter You're a buffoon .

[@thixiemattel]

looking back I still think this was a classic textbook rejection sensitive bpd meltdown. she talks about the walls closing in before she splits and you can just feel how much she’s not in control she’s fully on the ride. as a passenger not a driver. not an excuse at all and I don’t personally agree with really anything she said in the fights or the aftermath but you see the deep regret she feels after lashing out. her splits are always triggered by some perceived rejection and feeling like she doesn’t fit in.. at least until she fully re-writes the history and moves on almost as if it happened to someone else. like a movie you can only sort of recall but confidently speak about at length and you’re just wrong the whole time about the plot lol.

[@leela8641]

Thanks for reuploading these!!

[@dragonlady3278]

She wanted crew that she could manipulate and have on ‘her side’ because she ‘hired’ them. That’s why she wanted a ‘separate crew’. Did it finically make any sense? No. Does she care? No cuz a child manages money better than her. Ethan knows how to manage a successful channel and keep a show moving and on track. He wasn’t shutting her ‘ideas’ down he was keeping a show on track and knowing what the audience would and wouldn’t watch. No one wants to see her do aerial anything 🤮

[@mrs.-rw8tl]

her podcast is great

[@dragonlady3278]

@@mrs.-rw8tl her ‘podcast’ is trash just like her

[@cbockiii2514]

How long do you think it took her to realize she blew an incredible opportunity? Ethan clearly bent over backwards to give her this opportunity and she spat in his face.

[@deyu546]

why in the literal heck did ethan give her half of the members? I think at the time he was putting out 5 shows a week? THEREFORE, she should have only got a 5th of the membership… THEN THAT, HALVED so that’s it’s split between her and ethan!!

[@EddieStarr]

Was all of this drama trisha’s way of getting out of paying for the pizza ?

[@macaylahastey6012]

LMAOOO

[@hildacastro3986]

Wait they were giving her half of the membership revenue????? For one show she's in when they do like 3 more a week?????? Wtffffffffff

[@I_am_milan]

She doesn't know how to compromise.

[@coffeeandtruecrime2754]

Dang she wanted all the crew fired … wow

[@Greasy.Sweaty.Rat.Child.]

Cold blooded

[@kristiekane3735]

She ruined her life by making this video. Serves her right

[@Bluewaterbottle]

Facts. In her own words, mental illness doesn’t excuse sh*tty behavior

[@kekolber868]

An irretrievably broken human.

[@anima6035]

Hateful comment

[@kekolber868]

@@anima6035 I thought it was a generous assessment, honestly.

[@gabriellaaversano7155]

This is the definition of self report lol

[@evem6890]

The money was an issue

[@laura72339]

He takes that 5% 😂

[@erinashlee2690]

you ruined a beautiful friendship

[@ghostymeow]

Comedy

[@jenn9432]

Trisha… you lost a good thing. Ethan’s friendship was worth so much more than gold.

[@idkijustbehere]

stfu you know nothing

[@deirdresouza2769]

Says “ I’m not a child! “ then proceeds to act like one for month’s! 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@eliza448]

5:41 LOL omg this is so infuriating the more I watch the more it is both hilarious and just crazy

[@NatureLoverSFL]

I’m glad she made choices that felt better and more comfortable.

[@iceyiana]

It seems like Trisha thought it was their show but she was on h3

[@jaicosmetique]

I am just watching this now and ignored frenemies altogether and I didn’t know who Ethan was except hearing about him through this. I have grown to really like his specific content. Honestly, I think Trish struggled with not caring about the money, but also wanted some control and not to be taken advantage of. 100% of the highlights seems like something people keep missing. I really like them both and hope they repair their relationship.. on screen or off.

[@ChicagoWest-y2z]

I get it . Frenemies separate from h3 and it's own entity.

[@kayleenorth7839]

There's a reason her deal with podcast one didn't work

[@batboy0707]

I laughed when she said she’s “capable of having the podcast on my channel” like girl you post rants on your kitchen floor and hot famous because you’re white 💀

[@noodlecup3088]

Now she just sits in her car and stuffs her face so she doesn't have to feel anything

[@iceyiana]

And now she has her own pod

[@janab.919]

Trisha wished she had more control over Frenemies. The only problem is that Ethan didn't set up Frenemies that way and would've never been willing to invest and risk that much - because Trisha can be quite volatile and unpredictable. Trisha never realized what a risk Ethan was putting himself into by getting into Frenemies - she only knew of her own risks and possible dangers to herself. Overall, this all could've been avoided with a more open and transparent conversation BEFORE Frenemies even started.

[@ashleyp6182]

I feel like you brought in SO MANY fans/subscribers for H3 that they never would have gotten without you. I only watched them because of you. ❤Hope you’re continuing to heal ❤

[@sunflowerdragon7516]

I think Trisha is her own worst enemy. I hope shes doing real work on herself now that shes a mother.

[@mrs.-rw8tl]

she's doing great

[@lp74]

I liked the show and i watch the entire series and from the outside looking in . Trish basically wanted to take over Ethans business. She started making her clothes then she asked to get high cuts on the overall profit. O she was even given a report of the expenses. Wtf! And she still had the nerve to insult the entire staff including thier family members. She bumped her head hard some where. The fame got to her head and she wanted to be the boss of what ethan worked so g Hard to build. Wow !! that is crazy she actually was trying to compete agaist Ethan. But Ethan does not see her that way but it's clear to see her compliments were fake. She did Ethan a favor because she seems like a. Person that doesn't know how to move on. What she should have been doing instead of complaining. Is working on her self. Her weight!! It's very sad and depressing watch her gain so much weight. All becuse she's making more money. Ethan doesn't owe her any explanations. He needs to let her go out in to the streets where he she came from.She has zero class and verbal abuse is no acceptable. Now she has baby maybe now she can find better things to do then eat and troll on the internet. She needs serious help. Everything has it's time. Ethan your great guy. You never treated her the way she treated you. She is very ungrateful and iggnornant. Stay far away from her. She's not that funny or attractive to put up her shit.

[@nicoleplsstop]

I fully agree with this. She even changed her bio to CEO of Sadboy whatever when she was part of Frenemies and Hila's bio has always been Teddy Fresh CEO...the Sadboy thing isnt even Trisha's bio anymore. I think she truly liked what H3 and Teddy Fresh had going on and she wanted to either take it or infiltrate so much that she could copy it. She was jealous of the entire operation so she was trying to find weak spots. Thats the part of all this that always gets me.

[@silrojas92]

Imagine if she’s your sister in law 😳

[@Greasy.Sweaty.Rat.Child.]

Some fates are worse than death

[@sstaralien]

5%

[@tfristen]

Do you have her other videos that she t took down?

[@titfortat6324]

Which one in particular? Unfortunately I wasn’t able to get the series of ‘Ethan lies’ videos where she goes off

[@tfristen]

@@titfortat6324 the one where she responds to the "regarding trisha leaving frenemies" video

[@titfortat6324]

@@tfristen I wish !

[@qui_etes_vous]

whoah, she is unstable. he does not care. Thank you for uploading this! It does seem fake and like she is not really feeling these things.

[@mangopickle5339]

I’m sorry for disappointing everyone but I’m not sorry for what i did or said. Ok lol

[@Theeblaccking]

She’s such a child

[@_benn]

i mean lots of trauma and emotional disorders tend to do that

[@carrotstikzers]

"money was never the issue thats not the issue" ...is the issue in the room with now. 👀👀

[@whiskeydaddy4295]

Why did she delete it tho

[@nobodycares1134]

Because she got her money now rinse delete and act like all didnt happen until she plans her next scandel lol. All for the money

[@syd4788]

Genuinely watching this now I think Trish got sh*t on so hard for no reason. She’s just expressing that the popularity of Frenemies and H3 was because of her and the money gained from it should’ve never been used against her, and she was willing to pay for more if it was her channel, but it was an H3 production from the beginning which wasn’t clear to her, and no one took her perspective into account because they thought of her as a dumb extra for Ethan’s personal channel gain, so that’s how she was treated, and in turn her becoming upset for being unheard was used against her, when that’s completely unacceptable when it’s supposed to be a duo group instead of just what Ethan wants to do. Being emotional when you realize the people that are supposed to support you are actually against you hurts, they’d never treat any other girl on the show, especially Hila this way, and maybe that’s why she brought everything up.

[@sydney58279]

I would love to have a friend like Ethan… she doesn’t want to work on herself, she wants to be a perpetual victim. Trisha really believes that she can say whatever she wants without consequences. I truly believe Ethan’s mental health is better off without her toxicity. If she thought 5% was going to cover all of his employee’s salaries AND production costs, she’s lost it. Plus, she was getting 50% of all new memberships, even though Ethan has a successful podcast all on his own… It all boils down to the fact that Trisha really thought Ethan was nothing without her. I started watching H3 because I learned of him through Frenemies… came for Trisha, stayed for Ethan and the crew.

[@LayingInAMeadow]

So glad she left they were toxic for eachother they are both happier apart

[@bunnybubbles3974]

about two minutes in she says (something like) "It wasn't what I thought it was, (ethan) said "you are the talent and h3 produces it."" (implying she did not realize she was the talent) WDYM TRISHA??? how is that not what you thought it was?? be so fucking fr right now, Ethan pays for the entire set up, production, and employee cost with only a couple thousand dollars a month (I am 99% sure he pays for some of it out of pocket) AND it is literally uploaded on the h3 podcast channel- not a brand new frenemies channel- but the H3 PODCAST CHANNEL. how could anyone in their right mind (i guess the answer is that Trisha is not in their right mind) think that they have equal monetary/production stake in a podcast that they do not produce, or upload? The fact that H3 is uploading it to their podcast channel really cinches it for me, it is so clear the h3 is the production team and that trisha is the talent. (btw ethan has gone out of his way to make trisha feel like they are important and that their voice matters, it's not like trisha is some actor that is pushed around and has no say in this. Trisha just doesn't the work required to be accredited with being part of the production team.)

[@macaylahastey6012]

exactly. what more could she ask for?

[@kiyadixon9650]

I think she's someone who needs control to feel safe because of her past and even if conditions seem acceptably safe to the normal person, people with PTSD can be triggered by something that nobody else in the room understands. Something that they may not even be able to identify because of the brains ability to block out or burry things from the past that have traumatized us. Not taking sides I honestly love them both, I can see why both of them are upset, I just wish there was a way to mend where both parties can have a happy symbiotic relationship but...not everything works out perfectly unfortunately. Peace and love to Trish and Ethan (and Hila and Moses).

[@deirdresouza2769]

I do agree she wants control, but not feel safe ! She tries to control everyone in her life with,money ,threats, physical violence,sex,tantrums what ever it takes!! She is someone who always got her way, her mom gave her money, her dad gave her whatever she wanted , until she pushed him to far and quit college! She even called her moms friends to give her money!! When she gets what she wants she’s happy for a few weeks then she moves onto the next.look at her house they were gonna do all these beautiful things with it! It now looks like a storage locker, same with cars she gets what she wants then gets sick of it a few months later a new one! I don’t think it’s PTSD I think it’s SBS !( spoiled bitch syndrome)😂😂

[@graysonsturgill3873]

I mean he was taking all the highlights revenue AND 5% of frenemies for “production” but when she had requests for crew or ideas for videos they were shot down. She was under the impression they were building their own show together, this is her realizing ethan saw her as the talent and not his business partner

[@graysonsturgill3873]

And like she said, she’s brought this issue to Ethan before, to which he shot down. He said verbatim to her “why would you have a say who I hire.” All the while trisha has believed this was half her show too, ethan proved to her that he thought of it as HIS show that he brought trisha on.

[@stacyrect143]

"little episode"?

[@es0516]

If she “thought” everything was 50/50 without asking or clarifying that with Ethan that’s her fault. Also how could it have been unless she was going to split production costs with him. And it doesn’t sound like she offered to do that up front. So how are expecting its split evenly?

[@theariesexperiment4642]

Then build your own thing and stop complaining.

[@khanfam96]

Me me me me me 😴

[@kathrynwhitbeck9798]

Her mouth and tongue clicking sound were absolutely freaking unbearable throughout this video

[@nay-5978]

She wanted to add her creative direction, ethan said no and threw it back in her face that “she does nothing” on the podcast, and that’s why she got upset. There was a miscommunication clearly about their idea of how the podcast should run. I don’t see it as her being a villain in this scenario like a lot of people do

[@hamianagrande]

Ty

[@dailyicon]

Omg a celebrity

[@2nevermind222]

So delusional

[@nickjjismyhusband]

She wanted her ideas realized but didn't wanna contribute 5% for her ideas TO BECOME REAL? ummmm

[@citizenA-Z]

i get it though, it was stressing her out and he was disrespecting her position as a partner, shes rich and was likely pregnant, she doesnt need the stress

[@Amelia-ug6ui]

She wasn’t pregnant, around the time of frenemies

[@IdonthaveatwittersoFoff.]

Crack smoker?

[@scorpio.stellium]

these comments omg, y’all will never understand what living with bpd is like.

[@scorpio.stellium]

@amnd hllwr she is in therapy though. she says it multiple times during the show and i’m sure she’s gotten more therapy since then, considering she’s obviously found her peace in life; just look at her socials. she’s happy and stable you can’t make any assumptions about her child’s life.

[@scorpio.stellium]

@amnd hllwr also as someone with bpd and a bpd mom.

[@danaip.9501]

@@scorpio.stellium how is it possible for her to have gone to therapy 4 times a week like she said for months and make zero progress

[@scorpio.stellium]

@@danaip.9501 bpd is for life. you learn to cope and control your behaviour but it’s a different progress for everyone. there WILL be setbacks, a lot of them and you still have episodes. also, you can’t say shit about her progress, your not her therapist or her husband or mother. you don’t know her and you don’t know how her bpd truly affects her life.

[@scorpio.stellium]

@@danaip.9501 also months? that’s nothing. she’s most likely gonna be in therapy the rest of her life.

[@ratpuffshow7650]

Egos are one hell of a drug

[@Fee212]

Ach, just go!!!

[@emilyannsarah]

All the melodrama is unnecessary. She could have made a video expressing her side calmly like Ethan did instead of crying for twenty minutes about it 🙄

[@eleventhecccreator]

She literally came onto a set in Ethan’s house with all the crew with a bias towards Ethan or was scared to speak against Ethan and on top of that it was posted to his channel resulting in his fanbase saying most if not all of the rude things about Trisha under the comments if their daddy didn’t like something Trisha said. And you can tell who’s which because there are the “we miss frenemies” comments which are the indifferent fans that Stan them together, but don’t watch separately and the mounds of “Ethan was so patient for so long I couldn’t have done it. Trisha having a mental health issue doesn’t excuse her behavior. What about Ethan’s mental health?” and it’s the same regurgitated comment from his foot soldiers that never opened their heart to liking her because he never did. He exploited her , constantly crapped on her ideas , tried to steal the spotlight, half-assed gifts when she balled out with money she said repeatedly wasn’t frenemies money because it didn’t pay enough, and regurgitated segments . He literally grabbed a chunk out of her birthday cake with his filthy hands and got her a hot topic eyeshadow palette….oh I’m sorry and spent $100 of them at Disney. She dropped more than that on him their first bet AND paid extra and I’m certain his Hanukkah gifts weren’t cheap either. The love wasn’t genuine ; his fans never welcomed her and he allowed his fanbase to demean her under every video before frenemies and after. But if you take a second and look at any other beef Ethan had, his stans paint him as incapable of fault , any mistake he had was a decade ago and to send all the hate towards his opposer that is by the way NOT ONLY DOWNVOTING ON WIKIFEET; THESE FOOT FET SOLDIERS STALK THESE PEOPLE AS YOU CAN SEE IN THESE COMMENTS ALONE ON A VIDEO THAT WAS TAKEN DOWN 2 YEARS AGO. The only difference between the beef with other KZbinrs and Trisha on frenemies was his foot soldiers didn’t have to travel too far to send hate and death threats because the link was in the bio. If it’s so bad that Moses kept count without telling them he was , on one of their game shows the count would have been off. Two of his crew had the same wrong score and when your only defense to your perspective is your boyfriend , it already seems biased when you actively work to give the perspective any take she makes is easily disproven and to take with a grain of salt . Nobody talks about how Trisha brought up having a say in new crew multiple times on their own episodes and she acknowledged she didn’t want to replace them she wanted to add . When Trisha storms off saying there’s no women employees, AB brought Lena and Ian brought Sam writhin the next few episodes . Nobody mentions that any person that makes a good contract has ever said “that’s a good deal”, “that’s a more than fair deal”. That’s never happened ever. If anyone told you that, you’ve met Matilda’s dad or someone similar to it. Nobody mentions Trisha’s ideas were doable and it fell off because Trisha finally understood his friendship was phony, the effort was lazy and he can’t TO DATE make up his mind if she was an employee or a cohost

[@macaylahastey6012]

are you dumb...? cause that's crazy, disregarding Eathen's mental health is crazy. Trisha was constantly racist toward the Jewish community, blaming just regular stuff on Eathens tourettes, putting out impossible ideas, and being ungrateful for all the stuff the crew does for her, not to mention her being so completely and utterly unprofessional. sure i wish the best for her, i still follow all of her social medias, but she was in the wrong when it came to frenemies.

[@ImmundaDeus]

When they wanted to move the production to a new location, she fought against it. It was posted to the H3 channel because H3 produced it. That he tried to steal the spotlight from her is just factually wrong because she talks for most of the entire series' runtime. That MCR palette sure didn't seem like a half-assed gift for her. A competitive bet is not the same as a gift. His fans loved and still do love her but just wish she would own up to her actions. Just like they hold Ethan's feet to the fire. No one thinks Ethan is untouchable, even himself. He's had to apologize for his behavior a few times. But that's just it, isn't it? He acknowledges his faults. Trisha just blamed all of her faults on her mentality, which is just flat out reductive and does nothing good for anyone, especially herself. This is coming from someone that still keeps up with her. I just wish she set as good a standard for herself as the fans hoped she would.

[@eleventhecccreator]

@@ImmundaDeus here you go doing the foot soldier crap step by step I iterated in the paragraph. Thank you for proving me right

[@Lia-uj7kl]

@@eleventhecccreatorliterally you aren’t proven right 💀💀 girl you are crazy for writing a whole essay defending someone who is just a shit person 😭

[@mel_the_chub]

​@@eleventhecccreator im sorry but while i agree the foot soldiers see no wrong in ethan, when he did and still does make mistakes. The idea you seriously criticised ethan for trying to "steal the spotlight" in defence of trisha is mindblowing to me. An shows youre just as biased as them, im actually a former day 1 trisha fan. Watched her since before her first boob job when shed pretend to be a celibate computer programmer. She literally would start getting snappy and rude on the show if the topic wasnt about her or what shes interested in, for 5 minutes. For example, her attitude about ethan talking about being upset with keemstar. Shes just like, just dont talk about this why do you talk about this cant you talk about this on a different episode thats not frenemies, I dont think you should talk about this. Same with logan paul, same with even talking about hilas pregnancy. When they spend episode after episode going on and on about dobrik and jason and anyone she has an issue with. She literally can not cope with it not being about her for 5 minutes. So to moan about ethan stealing her spotlight is truly crazy. also you cant say the frenemies money is barely anything, yet also support how she repeatedly states how that "5%" is A LOT. Also I actually think its a bit mean to crap on the MCR palette gift in such a snobby way, The gift was a kind gift because it showed theyd been listening to her desperately wanting it and not being able to find it. An tracked it down for her. Also that palette set was going for hundreds and hundreds on ebay, which is how they will have had to get it. Gifts are about sentiment and thought not price anyway, crappy of you to think that way like sorry it isnt bougie enough. And im not even a h3 fan, especially lately hes miserable.

[@MultiMaverix]

I can't believe she had/has an OF page 😳 eww

[@christinaaa_xo]

Has, she is very active in there and believe me.. you do NOT want to see the things she does 😬

[@melcrying162]

@@christinaaa_xo u both are losers

[@antis0cialangel]

Crocodile tears

[@ruchikasachdev1285]

this horrible women is a mother. gosh. Poor kid.

[@juanvalerio4482]

why you guys on here hating so much...leave this woman alone...go live your life.

[@michellemaybee4014]

The whole thing was toxic for you. Dont let it stop you from moving on

[@kristiekane3735]

Trisha has been toxic her whole life. It’s a ‘her’ problem

[@anima6035]

@@kristiekane3735 because your comment about an internet personality (=stranger) isn't toxic 😂 god help me

[@Greasy.Sweaty.Rat.Child.]

⁠@@anima6035I don’t think pointing out the obvious is toxic

[@noidawhore]

god the h3 fans in the comments are insane

[@totally_captive6870]

I feel bad on both sides Ethan was a great friend but he did his share on his side. we all know Trisha is a bulldozer because she believes if it feels too good to be true it’s not true. She does stuff that she regrets and feels sorry for. She is very hard on herself so she believes others have the same look on her as she does. She is human and just has her walls that even she won’t talk about to anyone. I won’t say what she wanted to do was good at all but Trisha just needs someone to listen to her and give her advice.

[@GlitterKitten1492]

💜

[@cithaang8107]

It all boiled down to Trisha has Ethan as her friend and whenever he does not prioritize her it triggers her so much, she really wants him to care. One of fights it starts with her mentioning makeup and that she told him about it and he do ant remember it and doesn’t care, at the moment you could see her getting hurt but then he said don’t talk about his wife and all hell broke lose. She doesn’t care about the 5% she doesn’t care about ideas and she doesn’t care about hella. It all boils down to her having strong feelings about how Ethan treats her as a friend. Finally when he tells her about the staff being upset, she finally gets it that he cares about them more than he cares about her.

[@CrityCrit]

I don’t like Trisha much but the one thing she’s right about is she brought life back to the H3 pod it sucks again now lol.

[@poopoohead4455]

frrr its so bad

[@2nevermind222]

I agree and same thing with Trisha’s life and credibility

[@macaylahastey6012]

you're probably just too immature to watch it lmao. u aint the target audience

[@CrityCrit]

@@macaylahastey6012 ?

[@ashlynvarner2826]

I was totally on Ethan’s side but after watching this I do feel for her. Not that they did her wrong but I think she realizes where she wrong. And she’s right, it probably would be too uncomfortable to go back.

[@adrianocampisi]

Yeah cuz she made a mess of things

[@laura72339]

I don't feel sorry for her at all

[@emmyemmy8669]

she only regrets it because she didn’t get her way. even after she made this video saying she said she hopes it doesn’t ruin her relationship with them…but the she made a video accusing ethan of sexual harassment 🤦🏼‍♀️ after this video.

[@ashlynvarner2826]

I definitely don’t feel sorry for her. When I said I feel for her I’m not sure what exactly I felt. It was absolutely her fault. I was just in agreement that it would have been too uncomfortable to go back. Ethan was very very patient with her. I still wish there were more episodes. The ones where Trisha made me cringe were the best. I did not see where she accused him of sexual harassment but I’m going to find it now! Lol she is a whole entire ignominious debacle.

[@juanvalerio4482]

Love you Trisha!

[@Snny123]

I know Trisha wasn’t in the right with this argument but I can see how she felt trapped and knowing her history of mental health he surely knew how easy it would’ve been to upset her and she clearly didn’t realise how little input she would be having on the whole podcast , she wasn’t necessarily in the right but neither was he

[@laura72339]

She totally realised how much input she had and she was fully aware... even in earlier episodes of frenemies where they discussed the Ryan Kav lawsuit she said herself that was just a talent and not affiliated with H3 productions. She understood completely and is back pedalling now to fit her own narrative

[@laura72339]

H3 went out of their way to accommodate her, what podcast do you know where the guest host who shows up for a few hours one day a week gets a 45% cut 😂😂

[@anima6035]

@@laura72339 was she a guest host though? They were co hosts, there's no frenemies without Trisha, they both made it what it was - equally. Ethan could find a new co-host but it would never be the same. Personally I can totally understand why she was upset if they were talking about who would date her/sleep with her and there's a whole big group of them but its just her and Moses. I would feel super intimidated and it's like ethan just totally dismissed her feelings about that. I also think she feels different to all of them and, although that was a huge part of what made frenemies so good, I can see why that would be hard for her. It's not fun feeling like the odd one out, all she wanted was some more power over the situation which is totally fair - Trisha is an extremely successful business woman so why tf would she want to feel diminished on a weekly basis by a bunch of kids (sorry h3 crew but facts are facts)? She deserved to have some control and autonomy in the whole thing.

[@laura72339]

@@anima6035 how can they both have made it what it was 'equally' when Ethan/H3 are the ones who invited her and paid for all the setup and were ones paying her the wage

[@laura72339]

@@anima6035look I don't like that woman and the things she has done other the years. But yes, absolutely she has the right to refuse to talk about certain subjects, no one should feel uncomfortable in their place of work. she had the right to leave frenemies but the way she went about it was all wrong IMO (and that's putting it lightly)

[@rosaartemis]

Who was the new hire btw?

[@sierrabartlett3033]

Sam. One of crew members girlfriend, who had been helping freelance for several months of Ethan's other podcasts. She finally was able to become full time, so she was able to work on Frienemies.

[@MarticeKnowsIt]

Do she know how she looks right now? 50/50? 9 subs? 🤐

[@liliannastanwood3338]

Trisha has above 5 million subs this isnt her channel

[@MarticeKnowsIt]

@@liliannastanwood3338 Oh

[@liliannastanwood3338]

@@MarticeKnowsIt her channel is blondesundoll or something like that

[@JA-zh8dg]

@@MarticeKnowsIt Her KZbin is dieing her videos barely reach 50k and every single video she posts has more dislikes than likes people are finally seeing her for the pos she is

[@MrMikkyn]

She should go back on frenemies. They had such a good chemistry

[@Vixyvix01]

She'll never be allowed back and that's the right decision.

[@S1NNZ]

Don’t think so. The mental damage and unnecessary stress she put on Ethan, his family, and the crew was unfair and disgusting. She constantly got triggered and excused it on her “dissociating”. It was a constant cycle of Ethan having to apologize first despite her attacking him constantly and making hostile comments towards him, his wife, and their parenting. They had chemistry - but it wasn’t good.

[@Raven-ti6tf]

I thought the same but no. Trisha was incredibly toxic to Ethan and you could tell he had to walk on eggshells with her.

[@cannibalgirl4717]

she was right.

[@saborokichannel4946]

It really really makes me sad , I doubt one person has met her yet you all know her... You honestly and truly have no idea but have a good say and focus on you more than you focus on others 👌

[@norajane8139]

For me, my issue isn’t why she’s acting like this or why she feels this way. My problem is how she handled the situation. Posting a video without telling the crew and H3 beforehand is completely childish. I don’t know her, I don’t assume what she’s going through. There’s a more responsible and mature way of handling things. It’s difficult to console a person when they don’t try and understand how much pain and grief they are causing to people on the opposite side of the conflict.

[@maddierlewis]

i highkey see where shes coming from… she comes up with ideas and that is the extent of it but the production team is supposed to create the vision thats what they get paid to do. if she thought they were 50-50 on the show it makes sense why she felt blindsided by the ideas and hiring.

[@User18277]

Trisha has said times and times again that she had a spending problem. Her ideas were way to expensive. She doesnt understand that ethan has to pay everyone a livable wage

[@Sofia-qn8ly]

When this first came out i thought ethan was in the right but honestly he did do a lot to make her feel like this and all his buddies in the crew probably were jerks to her just how they made fun of her when frenimes was over

[@olly3231]

I mean, Trisha wanted them to be fired and replaced. They have all the right to dunk on her. This is people's livelihoods we're talking about.

[@jenmyeon]

Team Trisha

[@cadencefoss78]

No one on Ethan’s side understands Bpd. He triggered her telling her how she feels when she was trying to have a discussion. End of story

[@jennl93]

It’s no one’s job to tip toe around one’s triggers. It is up to us who get triggered to learn how to navigate them. BPD doesn’t excuse someone from acting out the way she did and treating not only Ethan but the crew and Hila too. Mental illness isn’t an excuse to be a shitty person to someone who has been nothing but good to you, point blank period.

[@extramagnus4528]

bpd, anxiety, ocd, etc... all that is just what white women use to excuse their shitty behavior. Not being a B and acting normal isn't hard. And if you can't act normal, then stay in the house away from others.

[@Greasy.Sweaty.Rat.Child.]

@@jennl93mental illness gives you a pass to do whatever you want to whom ever you want, pretty sweet deal.

[@jennifergomez4973]

Professional victim