Steve Harvey Confronts a Male Serial Dater!

Topher has an awful habit of treating women he dates terribly. Steve is on a mission to change his habits and isn't holding his feelings back! #steveharvey
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[@andreajones886]

guys like Topher are the exact reason that I choose to stay single

[@naoremtyson3154]

😢

[@Moiselle555]

Right

[@thyristo]

Good for you. Good relationships are an illusion anyhow. The only way a relationship is good is when the partners barely see each other...maybe once every two to four weeks.

[@alluringbliss4165]

me too

[@AbbyJesusgirl]

Same for mee

[@jerritanner275]

Topher acts like he’s Michael B. Jordan. 😂

[@homonaledi640]

I must be boring. I never dated more than one girl at a time. I got married at 26. Im now happily raising my 2 daughters with my amazing wife. Topher needs a male role model.

[@OneWomanMan888]

Too late for regrets, I've countless dates before I got married.

[@CryMeARiver13]

My husband was 26 when I married him, very responsible and had his life together. 11 years later he is still the most responsible man I know after my father. Even Steve is enabling him for saying yes you are still young🙄 I’m like yes 26 is young but old enough to be responsible.

[@homonaledi640]

@@OneWomanMan888 Read to understand. I have no regrets. I had many dates prior to meeting my wife. In fact, I was casually dating someone when I met my wife. I ended that relationship to persue the lady that is now my wife. The only thing I couldn't do is seeing 2 ladies at the same time. I neither had the time nor the energy to manage 2 relationships at once, especially at 26. At 26, you are a grown man, can't be dating like a high school teen

[@OneWomanMan888]

@@homonaledi640 You're dating someone when you met your wife, is that a joke. LMAO 😂

[@OneWomanMan888]

@@homonaledi640 So you married your wife when you're dating someone else.

[@marjoriealieh8161]

He doesn't even look like he's paying attention😂

[@name9601]

he's planning his response.

[@alicesconstantinescu]

It just flew over his head. He just likes to be a player and save money, by making women pay 😅

[@dikeatukunda1612]

Topher is 90% of men, the difference is that he has come out.😂

[@armandosuba3427]

You're projecting Obviously you are the same 😂 You really justify cheating and playing games as relevant to 90% of men That's your EGO Justifying behaviour which will in the end leave you alone Bank on it

[@alluringbliss4165]

@@armandosuba3427 Most men cheat

[@Dee10294]

😂😂😂

[@SarahMakesSense]

Yep and the second problem is the numbers/imbalance....

[@MyWayWendy]

He didn't took a lie detector test, he is too honest.😊

[@maryannconmy5807]

He didn't take not took

[@MyWayWendy]

​@@maryannconmy5807He didn't took a lie detector test is correct, according to my comment.

[@MyWayWendy]

​@@Sarah-y5wThat's what my comment is about.

[@MyWayWendy]

Do you understand exactly what is my comment about?

[@Sarah-y5w]

@@MyWayWendy yes ❤️ 😍 💖

[@StAr-sp4cm]

Cheating on ppl isn’t right…

[@Regalem3]

All that, and he's not even cute. 😂

[@marjoriealieh8161]

"I have already forgot more than you know" ouchh😂

[@Sakana_Ren]

They are honest about being dishonest. 😮

[@maryannconmy5807]

😂😂😂

[@LindaA1124]

I know right?😂

[@mimboyce6643]

He is a bad guy. Dont try to make him feel good because he is showing off speaking the truth!!

[@user-bu3un5yl8f]

Like is is literally walking around like he sold his soul to Satan 😂 No care in the world for anyone else but himself

[@clarencedeanjr3862]

Preach Mr. Harvey!! This is so true!

[@summerrain6125]

I dont get it. He looks like a more cleaned up Trinidad James. Not sure how hes getting all these ladies. And his name is not Topher.

[@csmith2484]

Riiiiiight!Knowing damn well, his parents named him Christopher

[@name9601]

may be that part was the lie.

[@superadders19]

Do you really think all these ladies are Victoria secret models? He's probably attracting 4's and 5's at best.

[@marjoriealieh8161]

You don't get points for being brutally honest on deal breakers. You ought to be honest. ❤

[@orangeyellow-me1pz]

They weren't deal breakers for the at least 4 women he's seeing.

[@Hope0702]

Dolphin Smile, that’s what he’s trying to distract with the big hair and big glasses

[@tamaratea]

Very true uncle Steve ✅

[@Jackie-plus]

I really like this guy - one can tell he's an honest person doing horrible stuff. Happy Steve will help him to go back to the right track.

[@OneWomanMan888]

Lmao 🤣 wrong track.

[@user-bu3un5yl8f]

Honest person doing horrible stuff-- Every bad person out there

[@OneWomanMan888]

@@user-bu3un5yl8f He's on the right track.

[@alluringbliss4165]

an honest thief, is an honest person?

[@vg___]

topher getting to next level with uncle steve. yeah!

[@donnierittenberry5515]

Time is your biggest asset in life use it wisely or you could go bankrupt

[@larrywilson6708]

He’s not even a handsome guy. So what woman is being ran over by him?

[@am7829]

These women make it too easy nowadays😭

[@reneethornton9228]

Your handsome is not everyone else’s handsome.

[@larrywilson6708]

@@reneethornton9228 you think guy is a good looking guy? His bottom teeth is the first issue

[@Melanie3581]

Usually a good looking man behaves this way lol 😂 he isn’t attractive

[@Moiselle555]

I'm wondering the same 😂

[@bessiemorrison4804]

“I done 4got more than what you already know!” Steve 😂

[@floram3722]

This man is Crazy as HE**!

[@jasonmoore3980]

Damn them ladies pumped me up lol

[@Hope0702]

Ha ha ha, refers to himself as “Topher” 😂

[@LindaA1124]

I know right? That's typical narcissistic behavior

[@bessiemorrison4804]

“Clear about your intentions, to keep from hurting others!”

[@Venicegeral]

Look at him, in a few years no one will want him, but then these women make themselves so desperate they accept anything.

[@anam289]

sounds to me like Topher doesn't have any respect or consideration for women and uses them like objects but he disguises it all under "I'm being honest" like boy please, people can be honest and not come across as dickheads. The question is who hurt you? or perhaps he's really doing the most of his youth but as Steve said, that's gonna come back and bite him in the ass

[@inspiredbydior5447]

Exactly! Just because you’re honest or come off as a nice guy, doesn’t mean you’re not toxic! Being single isn’t as bad as I once thought it was. 💕

[@thebadennio3353]

Great video Steve

[@mimboyce6643]

Steve should never have felt bad for him. You see how men protect each other?? If he is bad, he is bad. I also think he is scared of women

[@Losing_momentum]

Scared of women how when he's running the streets like this?

[@orangeyellow-me1pz]

The sarcasm just flew over your head, didn't it? You so badly want him to be punished that you can't see that Steve is clearly joking. Go get help. This man clearly tells these women what he's about yet they still pick him. Thats what women are like. They clearly like men like Mr. Topher.

[@name9601]

steve used to be him.

[@RTA6226]

Steve is right. He's gonna hurt a crazy woman one day.

[@bessiemorrison4804]

“You gotta Straighten Up & Fly Right!” Steve

[@wendyhestick8514]

Topher means player!

[@christinespiers-wy9kr]

My husband and I have been married for 55 years. We are very blessed!

[@OneWomanMan888]

The other 7 guys failed the detector test because they are lying. I'm with Topher.

[@maryostlund-wood984]

It was a LIE DETECTOR test. How did they lie and get away with it?

[@OneWomanMan888]

@@maryostlund-wood984 That's why they failed the lie detector test, they cannot get away with it.

[@OneWomanMan888]

@@maryostlund-wood984 True.

[@sorrywhoareyou887]

“I done forgot more than you know” is the best line I’ve ever heard 😭I will be using this in my more advanced years if I don’t forget it lol

[@phill5917]

These women are acting as if they’ve have never done anything bad to a man before in their lives… We can all bet that all 3 Of them have ghosted, had multiple sexual partners & lied to men they have dealt with in their past… so honestly they can’t say much but I do agree that you should let people know what your intentions are so that nothing gets misunderstood.

[@princesst1149]

No woman needs to be sent out on a date with him. What was Steve thinking? I guarantee you that he wouldn’t have sent any his daughters’ out with him following a “pep talk”

[@trishfischer4127]

Love you, Steve Harvey. Very wise man.

[@almaidajohn4594]

He's not a good guy. (His mama needs to put some sense into him).

[@elizabeth9345]

Where’s his daddy?

[@CaIiforniaL0VE]

There may be Men & Women like Topher out there, but never let them stop u from finding the one that deserves u. The moment u let someone stop you from finding the Love u deserve, ur giving them more power. The Topher’s of this world teach Us the strength & selfLove we need. It may be thru painful lessons, but these lessons show Us what we don’t want, what to change & how to grow from the pain we’ve endured.

[@joyjoy5689]

The sexual sin is the one sin that a person does unto themselves. He thinks he is messing with women but he tearing himself apart

[@danilaroche1156]

Precisely. He's in deep sin and it won't turn out well unless he repents.

[@nwilliams-rq8eq]

Topher doesn't have to explain himself

[@allanteetheridge4689]

It’s a thin between love and hate

[@jonathanhallberg3009]

Why do people like him bring god into their lives when they so obviously don't adhere to his words?

[@dom37262]

That what Christians do.

[@beckykaye7414]

At least he was honest

[@micahmcclatchie2413]

Watching this and just wonder what Steve tells Lori

[@natashac.975]

If he is just dating, there’s nothing wrong with that, IF the ladies know he is just dating. If he were in a serious relationship AND dating other women then that is wrong.

[@adaije4145]

These women are gonna finish you,Topher.

[@collab4042]

Gopher has baggage and that’s why he’s doing it. He’s not that easy on the eyes

[@Rashaadthegr8]

Bridgett looking good!

[@jennifers4392]

He ain’t even handsome who are all these women? 😅

[@danilaroche1156]

The thing is if you can sweet talk most women, they fall for it.

[@synchronicity67]

When steve goes over to his side..👍🙂 This guys kindaa funny but also smart ..I mean how did he manage to get away with dating more than 3 women at same time!😲.. I think he'll do fine soon ⭐

[@MissElla88]

So what the 3 laddies are saying here is, it's better to lie than to tell the truth.

[@jroc2k]

Yup!

[@shalonprice7480]

KARMA!!!!!

[@mimboyce6643]

"There is a thin line between love and hate" - listen to the song!!! - he is going to end up an old broke man. He will meet his match and it would take him ages to get out of it. She would turn him into a broken dude. He would never have anything.

[@Amine-Ra]

why so bitter chill

[@elisabethjones4917]

That woohoo at the end

[@bessiemorrison4804]

“I kinda learn that a couple times!”

[@BlackPanther-tt1vu]

The women out there are doing worst than this guy , the double standard & Hollier than thou attitude is crazy !

[@Lewis_The_Motivator_Dabangg]

Exactly Thank you very much.

[@suzannemuliolis6066]

When a man is with a woman and has asked her to marry him, it is not okay to continue talking to other women as if you want to have a relationship with them...

[@TobiasTheWolf]

I agreed totally with Steve but those women were so up themselves and self righteous. They came here to scold and not to inform.

[@nathanieljones4564]

LOL he just saying what alot feeling lol

[@aaronhall7862]

That last one a BADDIE!!

[@opeyemicoker9104]

Poor Tophy got setup😂

[@OneWomanMan888]

Topher did passed the detector test and you make him the culprit.

[@ebaby3022]

SPEAK STEVE 🎉

[@fabiancpt8278]

Homie confused. Like "Damn I'm on TV, I'm getting a make over and another date set up by Steve Harvey for being a player." 🤣

[@dklindo7554]

Let the man have his fun, instead of getting married then wondering what he missed

[@sorrywhoareyou887]

Imagine still feeling like you need to know about something outside of spending your life with someone who’d do anything for you. Y’all never happy fr . Another thing, I for sure wouldn’t fully trust myself with a guy who’s been with too many women

[@dklindo7554]

​@@sorrywhoareyou887 that's why its important for a guy to explore before he gets married. But men by nature likes variety, it doesn't mean that he likes the other girl more than his wife. So the wife's position is secure and stable, the other girl is just temporary.

[@sorrywhoareyou887]

@@dklindo7554 you can’t explore before marriage and still want variety in marriage. Otherwise have polygamous relationships. And you can’t excuse cheating by saying “it’s nature” because there’s men who can discipline themselves to not go outside their marriage. Rather not get married if you’re desiring promiscuity because it shows a sense of dissatisfaction with only one thing (and also greediness)

[@dklindo7554]

Men and women are different. I'm not saying men should cheat, but if a woman have a good man, a man that is better than average but he may cheat from time to time then she should be mentally prepared to accept this possibility. I don't hear any men saying that women should not want a tall strong man that can provide for their family in abundance. That is what is in a woman's nature to want that...​@@sorrywhoareyou887

[@danilaroche1156]

Fun? I don't think he's saving himself for marriage. He's sleeping around and that's sin..

[@Mayonidas05]

These women are about to destroy Topher

[@danilaroche1156]

Hey seemed scared of the women. Geez...

[@christinespiers-wy9kr]

My husband and I were unable to conceive children of our own. We were blessed to receive our 2 sons when they were newborns.

[@SB-tc2jr]

He said he was "dating". Did he say he was in a relationship? ... If he is dating and upfront with the ppl that he selects - I don't see the problem. He's only 26 ... I say go for it! And when he's ready to settle down... Do That!

[@Wokewomen2024]

I hope when he settles down he won't have 5 kids & /or HIV.

[@TheJmax59]

I agree! He's 26 and dating!

[@SB-tc2jr]

@@TheJmax59 👍

[@user-bu3un5yl8f]

Dating? You mean lying to women, cheating and catching God knows what

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

​@marcysmith3955 Yep hospice nurse and purse.

[@alicesconstantinescu]

Any update on this, please?

[@freakplaza-fu3fj]

They would never ever do this to a women

[@christinespiers-wy9kr]

Why did he have to take a lie detector test?!

[@danielalovejesus7912]

how can he be a good guy when he is doing all those things?! that's madness!

[@shantakoa8596]

Topher need a role model…speak Steve “protect my 4 daughters from you”…I have so much baggage from men. I had 2 therapist tell me you don’t need me. That’s called self love and healing ❤❤❤

[@hazhu2153]

His name alone

[@William_fu]

As an English learner, because Chinese Mandarin is my first language, there're always some problems that confuse me, how to speak English naturally when i want to express things in english, i guess this is the biggest problem i have now😢

[@name9601]

keep at it.

[@LiciaY686]

Seems to me that he need a lot of self work to do and honestly I don’t feel like giving him a make over and sending his back out on more dates is gonna be the answer or “cure” to his ways. He has to find a balance between selfless & selfish and I believe it’s gonna take time not hearing women’s opinions and a makeover. Just my opinion🤷🏾‍♀️

[@gcute8425]

Steve is so great guy i hope he leaves long to teach us youth

[@topshelf6771]

Sex addict is the first thing that came to mind and secondly someone hurt him really bad.

[@danilaroche1156]

Most likely.

[@RTA6226]

This guy is going through a process that many men go through. They aren't going to change from a make over and one date.

[@ONEOFAKINDSISTAH]

You can give your last but God also requires people to use discernment in when and who to give to.

[@donnafuhrer5869]

I love you Steve

[@hesedagape6122]

36 or 26

[@Megan6772]

26

[@pippilangstrumpf4329]

He is a liar to all the women. WTF

[@GetTheGrandFunkOut]

That man came out of some woman's lifelood and she failed him from the beginning!

[@markeshiaanderson6781]

Mad respect for Topher being straight up

[@christinespiers-wy9kr]

My husband and I were unable to conceive children of our own. We were ab

[@kingdanielgaming]

Wow 😮

[@andreajones886]

oof,that examiner be cute,doe! we see you!👀👀👀👀👀🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@barbaraknight3361]

Sad that most of the people find honesty a disadvantage. People rather do prefer being lied too. Sad!

[@user-bu3un5yl8f]

No, I prefer a man to not be a diseased out of control human who loves making bad decisions

[@name9601]

@@user-bu3un5yl8f so a liar it is.

[@babybug7394]

He's not even cute.😂

[@bessiemorrison4804]

Make Over! 🙌🙏🙌

[@sandradee9193]

How can he be a serial dater, he ain't handsome at all.

[@perfectshotfilming]

He was honest, something all women want. Them old ladies made 😂💀

[@ToniJordan-z8m]

He seems of drank with my mom too

[@heatherjohnston5427]

These three women are aggressive!! I agree with some of their statements but would never put up with an aggressive partner.

[@Moiselle555]

These women are not aggressive. They are bringing up facts which you must take note of

[@richild3967]

I agree, even as a woman, I found them so annoying 😩

[@Moiselle555]

@@richild3967 They are not annoying. They are expressive. Maybe you should learn a two or thing from them

[@sorrywhoareyou887]

They’re aggressive for being vocal in their say? Lmao y’all kill me .

[@danilaroche1156]

They are probably because of frustration & hurt.

[@barrygolden9823]

Steve is a great role model......

[@Losing_momentum]

Shout out to Topher!

[@danilaroche1156]

Keekee

[@christinespiers-wy9kr]

Why did he have to take a lie detector test?

[@TobiasTheWolf]

Why do you have to ask the same question twice?