Stop 🛑Being a Nice GIRL| How to slowly become a b‼️tch as the nice girl

[@cosmiclight5429]

IT WORKS LADIES.......IN MY SIX YEAR RELATIONSHIP IVE BEEN THE SWEET NICE GIRL......A FEW MONTHS AGO I WOKE UP AND WAS OVERRRRRRRR BEING NICE. I COMPLETELY. SWITCHED UP TOLD HIM IM MOVING ACROSS COUNTRY AND I JUST DONT WANT TO DO THIS ANY FKING MORE . IM EXHAUSTED BEING THE BATTERY SOURCE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP . I FELT LIKE A FILTER HAVING TO CONSTANTLY FIGURE THIS OUT AND THAT OUT . CONSTANTLY BEING THE POWER SOURCE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP MEANWHILE THE ESSENCE OF WHO I AM WAS DISAPEARING. IM DONE WITH BEING EVERYTHING FOR EVERYONE BUT NOTHING FOR ME. IM SOOOO EXCITED FOR THIS NEW SELFISH CHAPTER IN MY LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@amandaquest105]

Good for you 🎉

[@fifidefreitas1045]

Go head girl!

[@LucaRedTarot]

🎉🎉🎉

[@awasynthia813]

Saying this out of respect, most men fumble the good woman

[@MississippiGirl0013]

💯💯💯💯

[@KevonnieElaine]

Exactly!

[@pettypattytheprincess3784]

They want the good women when they start breaking down physically and need a nurse and a purse

[@SR77736]

​@@pettypattytheprincess3784 exactly. But when they are younger and better looking they don't want the nice girl even if she's beautiful

[@gracefullyrachel6573]

Always come back begging.

[@awasynthia813]

Remember to put yourself first. Stop pleasing people cuz you’re just seeking validation from the wrong persons

[@SynthiaAwa-b9i]

@@awasynthia813 ❤️❤️

[@OhNoSweetie...]

"Treat them mean to keep them keen"-an important lesson we all have to learn

[@awasynthia813]

Remember that you’re good enough.

[@gabrielamartiniuc6322]

Yup, say no. I had a guy ask me for a picture and I said no. He didn’t ask for an inappropriate one but regardless I didn’t want to send one! He told me later that was super attractive. I say no , and I always will when I want to. I set standards and I speak up when I need to.

[@SynthiaAwa-b9i]

@@gabrielamartiniuc6322 and that’s what differentiate a boy from a man

[@sarah-janepryce821]

Omg yes ❤. I had a guy tell me that it was attractive I put him in his place as he was making sexual remarks and I said to him that’s the first and last time you do that as I don’t like it 😂

[@alchemicalsoul]

I have decided to exist on this planet the way I desire. I will ascend my soul and help humanity evolve by working on myself. If that means I live out this life in solitude, so be it. Boundaries are our salvation.

[@digimonalvatrax2738]

its hard being that when all your life people have inentionally intimated and yelled at you as a child and you grow up with anxiety sigh

[@amandaquest105]

You will get there...just take your time and remember that if the shoe was on the other foot, at least 90% of people are choosing themself first period.

[@kantik2118]

Hum don't forget to mention the harassement, stalking, intimidation and bullying because they don't take a "no" or they will try every tactic to throw/ force themselves at you and break your boundaries. It's not that easy as people think.

[@Atlanta718]

Be respectful and generous Have empathy Stop being a good girl Have boundaries

[@SynthiaAwa-b9i]

@@Atlanta718 you got it🥰

[@Atlanta718]

Prioritize yourself Be disliked and stop people pleasing You don't need their approval You are worthy

[@SynthiaAwa-b9i]

@@Atlanta718 yeah yeah🥰

[@Sanderson5CLC]

May I add the fact that they dislike us anyway, and that right there is my power base. I could zero 💩 these days about being “nice” to the detriment of my physical, mental, and spiritual wellbeing.

[@Atlanta718]

Respect yourself and take care of yourself ❤

[@alnonegiz-j3j]

Idk why women with high empathy will be mistreated and taken as stupid kindness. So yeah. Don't be a caregiver or independent because men are children who needs to do more works and feel validate as a man. Smh. Be more selfish for energy vampire.

[@PGOuma]

This world is mostly filled with darkness and selfish, greedy manipulators so they view things like empathy, sympathy, and kindness as “weak”

[@sweariefaerie9621]

Shit, even being nice to my family gets me nothing but disrespect. I'm so tired of thoughtlessly doing for them when I get disdain in return. SO tired.

[@LolaTVll]

Facts! I cut mines off two years ago because of that can’t take that shit no more..

[@LolaTVll]

Facts! I cut mines off two years ago because of that can’t take that shit no more..

[@wathettaramey3520]

I think you can be you with boundaries and accountability

[@angelan1458]

😊

[@jasminem1499]

bingo

[@dineosibiya2123]

Great content as always, thank you

[@hatshepsutiv]

1st woman ✌🏾

[@SynthiaMenyen]

Spot changing who are in order to be accepted by others. Learn to say NO

[@LeahIsHereNow]

2:38 I thought that was Jay Z.

[@Bed_kingnoob]

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