Stop Being Cringe in Public

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[@Ísisイシス]

you are free to be cringe anywhere you want, but people around you are also allowed to look! She didnt cuss or anything, just looked!! She even got filmed and psoted without her conscent, Wtf????

[@v_bunny]

right, i hate calling people cringe just for having fun, especially because it’s clearly rooted in making fun of neurodivergent people (especially autistic ppl). i absolutely do draw the line at filming strangers in public though, again especially those people who film others being “cringe” because you always know they do not want to be filmed unless they do it themselves. also this lady is very annoying and shouldn’t be on the internet per her comment replies, but not for just being excited about her food and doing a silly dance. edit: if someone is purposely being annoying and being a bother to everyone else (think those alpha males) they absolutely are cringe lmao.

[@rusteddamsel5848]

Yeah, if your not disrupting or hurting people be as ‘cringe’ as you want. Like fucking go out in cosplay or do a dance but don’t film people and post it without consent. Like…. I know I’m cringe as a human being, but I don’t drag people into it.

[@chocolatequickness1575]

Yea if she wanted to, the lady in the background could be able to get her for slander since she reposted her

[@abbyz13]

If I saw someone filming me as well as themselves you better believe I’m making a stank face 😂 god forbid you place your phone to only show yourself, oml ppl are inconsiderate

[@davidhughes4089]

​@@chocolatequickness1575I don't think you know what the term slander means

[@RecRoomPlays]

the stare from the background was honestly a million times funnier than the tiktoker ever could have been

[@SisselSasha]

don't disrespect Kuromi /j

[@RouxColdMilk]

​@ville__this is a master bait

[@bigshot2907]

@@RouxColdMilk🤨

[@newhorizonsforfifty2833]

But that's not what a person is supposed to be there to watch. Why make that shit funny??? No decorum to it whatsoever.

[@pablokult248]

equating systemic racism to internet strangers thinking you're cringe is nuts

[@luizairinam2136]

FR

[@hektorsehmsdorf1336]

that was so unhinged

[@Aaditri44]

Especially after what she wrote at 6:38

[@Aaditri44]

@ville__ bro what is this spam omfg

[@ProfNDKai]

Yeah annoying spam that’s always found in nick’s comment section as well… I’m about to make reporting him a new hobby

[@nekovalley]

“Cringe culture is dead” works for like, people enjoying a video game they like or being a furry, not for filming people against their will because you just had to have the shot of you dancing like a dumbass in front of your pancakes

[@sophitiaofhyrule]

this!!

[@CharlesWawa]

literally

[@lemonmeat]

THIS

[@itsthealaskanbullworm]

Pretty sure it also works for autistic people who don't show emotions in 'normal' ways, and making fun of people for 'moving like a toddler' and calling it cringe is harmful. (Autistic adult here. I happy stimmed in an IHOP the other day during breakfast with my parents in a manner similar to the video. I agree that filming other people sucks, but making fun of people sucks just as much.)

[@Claire_Loves_Music]

​​@@itsthealaskanbullwormyou're not doing it on purpose while filming yourself and others who didn't consent though. That's the main point.

[@victorialg]

I used to work at a thrift shop. One day, a carful of dudes pulled up to the donation door. One got out, stripped down to underwear, and handed over all the clothes, while another filmed the whole thing. I should have legally been able to hunt them all for sport at that point.

[@amandarae2755]

i swear every time a small tik toker randomly blows up in a controversy there's always a little bit of racism in there like WHY

[@lemonmeat]

LITERALLY LIKE HUH?

[@OkaroShinn]

without fail

[@ObeyLucifer]

It's so easy to not be racist too. They HAVE to be doing this on purpose.

[@Randomjackass135]

Because America is racist to its core and it’s a part of literally everything

[@TheBanana93]

Exactly they know how the internet works. Outrage @@ObeyLucifer

[@Honeymooncake]

I'm on the spectrum and I have extremely animated reactions to things like yummy food. Never Ever have I gotten a reaction like that from someone else in the restaurant. It's 100% the fact that she is filming herself and playing music. People don't hate happiness they hate influencers

[@ciciamanda.]

"people don't hate happiness, they hate influencers" sums it up so well mate!

[@cidevant002]

Exactly! Like, someone being happy about their food is fine, but if you are putting music and also filming then I don't know what you expect!

[@zoeelerby2423]

This one, this comment

[@AnnikaVictoria24]

Yesss! Me too, I dance like this and get so excited about food hehe. But I'm never filming it. It becomes so... Performed once it's being filmed.

[@offbranddorito9668]

I’ve had people make fun of me because I talk with my hands as a form of stimming and that is hurtful, but what’s more hurtful is my struggles being compared to this weird influencer lady who isn’t autistic.

[@isle-delfino]

i think if you're recording tiktoks in public you have understand and accept that you are in fact in public. people are going to see you, and some of those people are going to think it's ridiculous.

[@skeletini9836]

i’ve seen the hate go both ways though. there was a girl filming herself at a baseball game for a couple minutes and these girls in the background where making faces and being silly and the whole internet decided they hate those girls. but now we hate the original poster in this situation even though it’s the exact same thing (filming others and being cringe). we just hate whoever we’re told to. whoever makes the biggest stink is the bad guy. there’s no consistency almost like it’s not based in reality and we all just go with whatever the top comment tells us.

[@cloudstrife4534]

⁠@@skeletini9836They’re not the same thing. I think both people who were filming should have tried harder to not include other people in the background, to be fair. But the girls in your first example were bombing someone’s video by making silly faces to draw attention to themselves. The girl in the background of this video is just minding her own business at an IHOP, while having a normal confused and annoyed reaction to someone making a disruptive TikTok. Those are so clearly not the same situation, and a bad example that further goes against what you’re trying to say. People aren’t “hating whoever they’re told to”, they’re reacting differently to different situations. That’s pretty normal. And the person who “made the biggest stink” in this situation will obviously be seen as the one in the wrong by most because she’s doing nothing but make herself look bad by reacting childishly and defensively to criticism, further dragging the person in the background who they filmed without their consent into the public via the other TikTok zooming in on her in order to shame her for a normal reaction, not to mention saying something weirdly racist to a commenter just because he’s black. If she reacted to criticism with more maturity and self-awareness, this could have been a non-issue for the majority of people very quickly. Again, even though these are different situations, I think the person filming the video at the game should have tried to make the video a closeup instead of including people who didn’t consent as much as she did, so I’m not defending that. And I do think that while video bombing can be annoying, people overreacted a little bit in how much they directed hate at the background people doing it. But the way people reacted differently to the background people makes complete sense, because they’re not remotely the same. It’s strange that you say they’re the exact same and people are only acting how they’re told, but even your descriptions are so radically different that it undermines the attempted point.

[@MadGunny]

@@skeletini9836 nonsensical comment. People dislike this dancing pancake girl for genuine reasons.

[@thatoneyoutuberfan6900]

i mean it’s fine she’s having fun…but she didn’t have to put that girl on blast, she had a very normal reaction to a confusing - from the girl’s pov - situation 💀

[@fontanna888]

Exactly. And all she did was looked for a few seconds, with a neutral face expression. Yet she gets called "so mad" for that and told that people like her should go to therapy?? I don't think she's the one who's reactions are a problem here 😂

[@charlodynatimberheart4860]

I love how instead of actually discussing the issues people have and defending herself shes just deflecting every point of criticism with personal insults.

[@tn420animations9]

I knew she was going to do that

[@Luckyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy]

hi hook

[@lemonmeat]

right like thats only gonna make her look bad, also wtf was with the "ur a black guy" comment tf??

[@pre-deadghost]

​@@lemonmeatI did not understand what she was trying to say with that

[@elegantdisarray]

​@@lemonmeatThat and the gamer word comment really says a lot about this lady.

[@jadegreenleaf781]

Also, the whole "is she having fun" topic aside, you cant just film people. as far as we know maybe the girl in the back is annoyed because shes currently in centre frame being filmed.

[@Elle_Like_The_Letter]

She is clearly side eyeing the camera/phone so yes she is annoyed because she is being filmed...

[@jadegreenleaf781]

@@Elle_Like_The_Letter is this just oddly worded or are you trying to be sarcastic

[@Elle_Like_The_Letter]

@@jadegreenleaf781 I'm dyslexic so oddly worded sorry...

[@jadegreenleaf781]

@@Elle_Like_The_Letter ah no worries, was hoping so bc it makes far more sense than if it was sarcastic lol

[@frank6842]

Most states you can film in public. But it's still cringe

[@spamasparagus]

4:26 SHE DID NOT JUST COMPARE ACTING WEIRD AND FILMING STRANGERS IN PUBLIC TO SIMPLY EXISTING AS A BLACK PERSON AKSJSKJAKGD MY JAW DROPPED TO THE FLOOR!!! BABE THOSE TWO THINGS R NOT THE SAME

[@number1whalesharkfan]

why is she being racist in that one reply⁉️ also she’s a grown woman, she needs to start handling criticism like one

[@bammythegreat]

why is she acting like a supervillain LMAO

[@nonbinarymess]

I'm autistic (or maybe just a dumbass) so i was really confused on why people were mad about what i thought was just dancing but explaining it as, "people can tell it's fake joy and are mad about THAT" makes so much more sense. That's why it's annoying. Cool now I feel justified cuz damn i hate that video and didn't know why.

[@InaneBlatherPodcast]

Exactly, like if she was genuinely excited and doing that WITHOUT A PHONE recording herself, I doubt that people around her would give it one second of thought. It's the lack of genuine.... anything. Lol

[@abrasivesoup]

Yeah that was my thoughts too cause I've def stimmed worse than that in public lol.

[@DeLaSoul246]

I am also autistic and felt the same way. I dance excitedly over food allllllllll the time, and have done so my whole life. It seemed very plausible to me that it was genuine. Ultimately I'm just annoyed she was okay recording a stranger in the background. As far as her lack of being genuine? I mean jesus, thats just most people most of the time. Lol I dunno why she in particular is being put on blast for not being genuine. If I put everyone on blast who I saw being Fake, it would be my entire life's work and consume every single moment of every day. The supply for that is endless.

[@arenomusic]

Damn I didn't get it either until you explained it like this. Am I autistic?

[@DeLaSoul246]

@@arenomusicif youre really wondering whether you're autistic, you could google "embrace autism" and it'll lead to this blog site made by autistic people, many of whom are also scientific researchers. It's got LOTS of resources: tests, quizzes, articles, personal stories, etc. Great place for info and reflection. Good luck 👉😎👉

[@emperorblackman5710]

I fully agree it's the artifical joy. I had a similar incident at a BBQ restaurant my family loves. I did a lil jig as someone brought out my food and one of the employees asked me "Best part of your day huh?" and I was like "yeah", cuz I was genuinely excited. The difference though? I didn't film myself, post it to the internet and then desperately try to farm more engagement out of it. I was a spontaneous little interaction that ended when I grabbed my bag of food and got in my car.

[@cloudstrife4534]

Well said! It’s not the dance that’s the problem, just the inclusion of other people in the background without their permission.

[@emmao6578]

Exactly this, and I imagine the weird responses she had to every other comment probably didn't help her at all. That one where she somehow managed to make it about race was especially crazy but also when she responded extremely negatively to someone just saying the comment section didn't let them down, which could literally have been in support of her as there were many people in the comments who liked her video defending her. Like why jump to conclusions and react so negatively to a comment where it's impossible to tell if they're for or against you.

[@jacobjenkins7362]

also that wasnt fucking IHOP bro ihop is dogwater

[@genericname2747]

I do a little jig sometimes for no reason. Dancing is fun. Filming strangers makes you a jerk

[@RabidDisposition]

The worst part is how hard they try to make you believe that it's all spontaneous and genuine, when really they're just desperate for the sweet instant gratification of being an "influencer".

[@SierraRose98]

her reaction could have been to any part of what was going on.. INCLUDING BEING FILMED IN PUBLIC WITHOUT CONSENT! Its freaking weird and creepy. stop filming strangers

[@lemonmeat]

yeah and the fact the poster made another post abt her just to zoom in on her, like wtf is her problem?? how does she think shes the good guy in this

[@offbranddorito9668]

That girl didn’t even do anything! She just… looked! Didn’t even glare or anything. She saw movement, she looked, she got filmed and harassed on the internet.

[@ciciamanda.]

(autistic+adhd adult here) Seeing a stranger do a happy little dance makes me happy because you can see how joyfull they are, it just makes the world a little bit brighter. But when its purely performative and also disruptive it's not the same thing, especially not if they're filming strangers reactions while doing it. Seeing other neurodivergent people stim (or neurotypical people at that) is lovely, it's such a human moment if you get what i mean. It's wonderfull to see someone be so happy. This isn't that tho And important note: People wouldn't have been on her ass about it if it wasn't for her trying to shit on the girl she filmed. If it had just been her doing a little dance at ihop then yeah, she probably would've been made fun of a little bit but it wouldn't have gone nearly this far. The fake joy and annoying strangers would've gotten some reactions, but it's the filming and critiquing a strangers reaction that caused her to get as much backlash as she has.

[@moyaxoxo5923]

Adhd haver here …. I see a chick shaking her tits for attention and pretending to be quirky in public obviously for a TikTok . Very cringe not to mention I wouldn’t wanna be in that content

[@lucyservo6574]

I'm imagining she asked the waiter to put the plate down again because her first dance take wasn't perfect 😂💀

[@tn420animations9]

Food got cold

[@tn420animations9]

I bet the woman in the background seen her do it many times. Like she was already there when she got there.

[@larissabrglum3856]

The pancake girl's incomprehensible comment had real "why do they call it oven when you of in the cold food of out hot eat the food" vibes

[@weirdscience369]

the fact that she made a second video ZOOMING IN on this person to antagonize her is so cruel!

[@watermelongirl142]

I hate it when I share the miserables of my hearts 😢😢

[@efnfen]

you should try to have les miserables in your hearts

[@GenerationWhyMe]

If I ever saw someone filming a tiktok dance in public I would definitely be like the girl in the back

[@jerrylefleur]

This video will have 50+ million views

[@CurtainRack]

well right now it has 1,473

[@curlkatthekneecapthief8402]

Hrmm.. nuh uh

[@nickisnotgreen]

it’s so funny to me that you keep using the dracula sound when you say devil

[@Sharp22CatFish]

I think you stink

[@maxkanefield3775]

I think what's the most cringe about this is the fact she filmed it. If you do a little happy dance when your food arrives, good for you, go off, but if you set up cameras beforehand then you aren't doing a happy dance, you're doing an "I want attention" dance.

[@Claire_Loves_Music]

This^

[@tannerhuman]

My question is why she recorded a person who didn’t consent to being a part of the content. That’s where I cringe the most.

[@lemonmeat]

and proceeded to make another video about her,... over a LOOK.... what is the world coming to

[@tannerhuman]

@@lemonmeat truly. The disrespect and lack of self awareness burns my soul

[@brett8259]

Bro I get self-conscious enough about other people staring at me and judging me at restaurants. Let alone dancing and filming a tiktok

[@KestrelDC]

“People were saying she was overreacting and being rude” “Why she so mad?” Gee… wonder why someone being included in the shot of a video being posted online by some stranger without her consent would glance over with a confused and annoyed look…… And literally all she did was look over! She just had a reaction to what was happening around her. And for someone talking so much about joy this tiktoker sure is aggro and reactionary (not the political sense of the word)! She and her stans in the comments are legit getting mad at someone for just existing and being annoyed at being put in an online video without being asked! And acting like everyone else is ridiculous and “makes them sick” and “needs therapy”. I hate these types so much! Reminds me of Kurtis’s video talking about how someone got made mercilessly fun of for crying when some tiktoker tapped them on the shoulder but of course you never know what someone may be dealing with and in this case the person’s sister posted a video explaining they have autism and an issue with germs and cleanliness and touch so even little things like that can feel absolutely awful to them.

[@akiraeatsguitarpicks491]

“For a black guy” is the WORST way to start a sentence

[@ElixirSpice]

I can't tell you how many non Black people I've come across online who say something like that. They somehow think invoking the racism Black people face is a good rebuttal to a Black person saying something you dislike. 😂😂

[@genericname2747]

People really have the audacity

[@Dixiedingo_LBB]

Listen. Everyone is free to be cringe. I support being cringe. However! People can react as they please and it is entirely up to the individual how they respond. I say: kill the part of you that cringes when other people cringe if you're actually happy with what you're doing.

[@EvilDrHousegaming]

I also just hate how many tiktokers film random people and make them part of the video without consent.

[@lemonmeat]

the amount of times people say "seek therapy" over a girl giving a weird look is baffling. like wtf are you on about

[@mightymeatymech]

people don't even mean that anymore. i've been in therapy on and off my entire life, anytime i mention the things that put me there, i get snarky kids telling me to go get therapy. i'm sick of that line.

[@ChamomileT]

@@mightymeatymechLiterally! Currently being spammed on Instagram telling me to “go to therapy” all because I made a comment (relevant to the post) about something I’m going through, solely with the intent of finding community in people going through something similar. Like thanks, I AM in therapy

[@lemonmeat]

@@mightymeatymech FOR REAL

[@briana1273]

@@mightymeatymechHonestly eating healthy and working out is far more effective and affordable than paying thousands of dollars and countless hours just to hear platitudes that I can listen to on KZbin. I mean you can’t get a sexy bod by just talking, lifestyle changes are important to development and are currently being stigmatized

[@mightymeatymech]

@@briana1273 if your goal is having a sexy bod and you feel like you don't need therapy, that's amazing for you!! some of us have PTSD. my therapist doesn't just tell me platitudes, and i already have a sexy bod with a malfunctioning mind. healthcare is great, too.

[@Bou_Diran]

I hope your son is ok, thoughts and prayers 😊

[@floppy_hands1770]

Sorry whet

[@slugcrud]

i honestly feel mixed about this, i agree fully about the farming content aspect of things and for this particular incident it totally makes sense to be upset over it. but as an autistic person i really get scared when people lump movements they arent used to seeing into being "cringe". me personally, i have tremors and sudden jerky movements that i cant control that're triggered by strong emotions (i.e., getting a favorite food given to me. i have like four foods my brain will let me eat. im 23 and i clap and bounce heavily in my seat. i have a hard time controlling my volume. i dont really go to restaurants anymore partially out of fear of being filmed) and i know i'm not the only one. while i know thats not the case for the poster here, i would just say for anyone who sees movement they don't understand in public, please give them the benefit of the doubt, be kind, and Christ Alive Do Not Film Them

[@melanieg.9092]

Yeah, Ethan's reanactment seemed like something I would do...

[@slugcrud]

@@melanieg.9092 yeah.. :( same here i know he didnt mean it that way, but it's hard not to feel self conscious. i hope youre alright! please dont stop dancing when youre happy :)

[@TheChibiAerith]

It's different when you see someone neurodivergent doing a little dance, no one is going to judge you for that so keep being yourself. The girl in the back cringed because the lady was filming herself for a TikTok

[@slugcrud]

@@TheChibiAerith you cant tell from a glance if someone is neurodivergent or not and people Will judge, as i very much have been both as a child and adult. i shouldnt have to say im autistic for them to not glare or scoff or laugh at me. just because you would be kind, doesnt mean society follows. :( like i said, in this instance it's totally understandable to be upset i just was warning against generalizing movement you arent used to seeing since people were picking on the dance itself in the comments, and in ethans response. thats all :)

[@letterborneVods]

Personally, as an autistic person, I just can’t help but feel uncomfortable looking at this dance because it feels so forced and performative (plus filming herself, proving that) and it feels like it’s making a mockery of us 🙃

[@mtlewis973]

with respect ethan i cannot imagine possibly caring about that tiktok

[@ashleyisakittycat]

her clapbacks just feel like "nuh uh your mom"

[@derptomistic]

It being recorded in silence somehow makes it so much worse

[@psid9907]

It's not the excitement in the original tiktok that is cringe. It's that it's so obviously scripted and rehearsed and they're trying to pass it off as genuine.

[@sparklebailey_]

this video imbued me with odor and renegade

[@tobyzooey]

so goddamn real

[@angelaa7388]

I've had a few public freakouts, and I finally sought help because I didn't want to end up on some viral video.

[@pebabmey]

yeah we've all felt like that when we finally get our food at restaurants but that is the least authentic representation of the scenario I have ever seen

[@SuperNicktendo]

I'm glad I saw this before going to pick up my pizza from across the street. Now I can do a little cha-cha slide and be tiktok famous because I got hit by a car.

[@Claire_Loves_Music]

Don't forget to also film all the strangers reacting to you.

[@onfire1174]

Personally I could not get over the fact she never touched the pancakes with her silverware. They just hover above it and she fails to mime cutting into them.

[@froggiepie]

whenever something like this happens I think about if it were to happen to me, I wouldn’t even know about it unless one of the KZbinrs I watch talked about it because I’m not on tiktok and I live under an online rock

[@gothbimbo9470]

I think we shouldn't judge strangers even if we think theyre weird. But we also shouldnt film them either. Like thinking of this from a perspective of someone who has adhd (possibly autism) when im stimming or doing something "unusual" in public i dont need people staring at me and judging me and junk. People need to mind their own business even if you perceive someones actions as weird for yourself.

[@gothbimbo9470]

The girl was also in a private booth it looks like too

[@gothbimbo9470]

And now I'm watching more into the video and she said a racial slur 😭 Jesus Christ that's definitely worth judgement and dirty looks over wtf

[@MechanicalShockwaveBow]

I think if someone is filming a tiktok in public then any weird looks are justified.

[@seguaye]

to be fair she looked for like, five seconds then went back to her meal. I would probably do the same

[@lemonmeat]

as someone with adhd and autism who would be taken pics of/filmed at school leading to my drop out at 16, i agree we shouldnt judge people for being "weird" obviously, but the way people reacted to the girl giving a quirk weird look is ABSURD. i would do the same thing too, and i dress up in the weridest shit in public. all the girl did was look at the filmer weird, (probably noticed the camera and felt weirded out by that too, i know i would for sure.) the girl giving a short weird look did NOT need to spark shit like "you all need to go to THERAPY" or those weird insults the poster said, esp the random "black guy" comment?? people are overreacting over a girl thinking something was strange. she literally did nothing else but give a weird look.

[@AnnikaVictoria24]

See like - I act like this in public coz I get really excited about small things. But I am not filming it. I think a huge difference is that's it's a very performative act once it's being filmed.

[@Ozzan]

even if it was the best thing ever I wouldn’t be doing a happy animation while eating my food lmao

[@moxiemaxie3543]

Its just IHOP lol

[@abbyz13]

i know i sound like a boomer but being chronically online is ruining us. ppl were cringe when i was in school but at least they kept it to themselves, filming strangers then making it the stranger’s problem is insane.

[@ChamomileT]

A lot of people who have autism do this, so I don’t think judging her for doing a lil dance is right. However judging her for recording strangers in public without their consent, being racist and generally insulting in her replies, and being as performative in her “happiness” as she is, is something worth judging.

[@Ozzan]

@@ChamomileT as an autistic person i agree actually good point

[@Noooiiiissseee]

The fact that there's even a debate as to who's worse - the extreme cringelord or the person looking at them with a SLIGHTLY upset face while they do something like this in public - proves that social media should be banned lmao

[@tomisaacson2762]

Yeah, the internet and smart phones were a mistake

[@SeanOGallchobhair]

Americans are a strange bunch, chronically online weirdos where adults seem to never grow the fuck up, no shame. Spending most of their time watching the brain popcorn that is tiktok, staring blankly into their screens, absent of any thoughts and drooling onto themselves. Start learning Mandarin now lads the Chinese will be running the show in 30 years or less. If humanity survives that long that is 😂😂

[@schmumlauf]

Artificial joy made for consumption is annoying. I waited tables for a summer once, and seeing people get excited for their food made my day sometimes - but that was pretiktok so it was all sinvere

[@sco145]

It's a conflict of values, I feel like people should be allowed to be cringe in public, but they should choose not to, I dunno.

[@zephyrschiesser5408]

i think you can be cringe all you want, but recording strangers without their consent... that is a step too far.

[@strawberrywheels]

its also so weird to assume that someone staring in a confused way is automatically a hater or mad or some shit like ur really not that important. it could easily just be a neutral or confused stare and its weird for ppl to go out in public assuming that every stranger is either an adoring fan or a malicious hater who doesnt want you to be happy or whatever

[@armomines8272]

Woke up to go to my 8 hour mc maccas shift thank you ethan good timing gonna watch while doing my makeup :)

[@thatvidwasweet]

She wasn't bitter about comments. She was just hangry and hadn't gotten her IHOP yet

[@thelittlestpika]

The secondhand embarrassment is causing me physical damage. Thanks, Ethan.

[@benferris2764]

She could of atleast tilted the camera to another angle so no one else was in the shot!

[@SolInvictusLeatherWorks]

Dude some of those edits you did of her with the crazy voice modulation had me literally cackling out loud! 👏🏼😄

[@wormslime]

the single image slideshows are more embarrassing than the viral tiktok

[@pinkiepiiieee]

The fact that the dude who said people hate seeing happiness was on her side.. she told him he wouldnt be able to get a job bc of his cringe tattoo like girl

[@AccordingToWillow]

i really Really hope that she took the food from the waiter in a regular and normal manner and then waited for them to walk away before having a friend “serve” her from out of frame

[@megand12345]

Guys im autistic too with stims and weird dances. Its not judging people with autism, its filming yourself and strangers doing something clearly obnoxiously fake. It's more mocking than anything. If your stim isnt filming strangers trying to eat and making thing racist then you're good

[@6Shooter28]

ok but then i don't get the opportunity to performatively declare that i am autistic and then give a giant spiel about how making fun of anyone in any context is hurtful to me personally

[@babiec4t]

@@6Shooter28they literally didn't say that

[@HermitKeys]

What if you’re cringe? What if you’re not the Cringe Authority?

[@greenfelix7065]

I'm pro being authentic even if it's cringe. I support people stimming in public. But that "dance" felt so forced along with everything else she did in video. She's not being authentic. She's being weird on purpose and that's when it's actually cringe.

[@Elizabeth-iu7lf]

I was honestly just surprised to see this video coming from an account that, by first glance, looked like a pro ED account with that name. I now realize her name is actually Ana but I genuinely thought it was pro ED rage bait when I saw it and swiped before it finished

[@Lee-wf4kr]

Yooo I needed an Ethan video right about now lol

[@SantaFishes101]

this is making me want pancakes so bad I'm siding with the dancing lady tbh

[@thecrypticqueer]

Im autistic and I tend to do a small dance when I eat or have my food and if I saw someone look at me like that I'd shut down for the rest of the day and not even eat my food. My whole take on "cringe" is that it's just an excuse to hate on things people enjoy and hate on mentally or physically disabled people . Just let people enjoy things.

[@jake9107]

i came her to say something similar, the only part i have an issue with is that shes filming herself doing it

[@Emberbun]

Yeah a lot of ableism is going on here :/ I think filming a person in the bg so prominently is shitty but the reactions to her movements are disheartening tbh

[@ChamomileT]

I agree that if she’s looking at her like that over her dance, it’s wrong. But it’s also totally possible she’s looking over with an annoyed face because she can tell she’s being recorded in public by a stranger (which is exactly how I’d react too)

[@dunkingtruth]

the editing on this vid is top tier :3 keep up tha good work peethan

[@pssurvivor]

OMG I saw the first one on ig reels just a while ago and cringed to the deepest depths of my soul I i don't have tiktok). that's why i love watching cats on reels, no artificiality there, just genuine joy

[@JustAnAntiGod]

Peethan thank you for the kuromi pillow in the background it makes my day ♡

[@elegantdisarray]

It's funny how the IHOP dance turns out to be the least offensive thing about this lady.

[@lucyh9051]

i love that ethan's a kuromi girly, i feel validated

[@keithheinz2120]

If i saw someone doing this i would smile at the silliness. If i saw someone doing this with a camera on a tripod facing directly at ME on the table, my face would twist like a lemon and id probably flip off the camera bc wtf freak

[@lintheelf]

I agree a lot with what Ethan is saying, but the thing I have a problem with is people calling the movements she’s making “cringe”. The reenactment Ethan made, looked exactly how I look when I stim. Even when he said “I’d give you an even dirtier look because, why are you moving like that” or something to that affect. Because most people in public who do that are stimming. And I would push myself to mask even harder if I was stimming and someone gave me a dirty look. And I understand how she shouldn’t film people, and that is wrong and she is in the wrong place 100%. Even if you don’t understand that you are making fun of stimming, it could cause someone to mask harder of fear of getting dirty looks from it.

[@PinkPulpito]

3 seconds in and i know its an ihop ad. You could choose any pancake recipe online and get a better pancake.

[@WhatTheKel33]

8:38 would have been a perfect time to do an ad read for a deodorant company

[@PeachesNCream444]

I'm crying, this type of shit is why if I ever make contact with aliens I'm not claiming y'all(cringers) I'm not human lmfaooooooo💀

[@Beetlebutterr]

That poor girl in the background looks uncomfortable and angry because she was being recorded without her consent for it to be posted on TIKOK ACTING LIKE A TODDLER DANCING AROUND ABOUT PANCAKES, AGAIN-FOR A TIKTOK??? Girl was just trying to eat

[@3mindrebel]

So fucking what she's "acting like a baby?" It had nothing to do with the lady in the back.

[@Beetlebutterr]

@@3mindrebelif I was trying to eat some Ihop late at night I wouldn’t be happy some lady was visibly showing me in her stupid tiktok 😭😭I don’t care if she’s having fun, she can enjoy her pancakes all she wants but she’s literally just fishing for clicks through overreacting in her stupid tiktok, she obviously does not deserve the hate she’s receiving over the tiktok, but I think the entire video was unnecessary. That girl in the background was visibly annoyed yet she still posted that, like girl keep it in fucking drafts it’s why it exists 😭😭

[@Beetlebutterr]

@@3mindrebelas an autistic person who visibly stims (similar to how she acted like in the video) it’s embarrassing, I’m heavily criticized for that, but no matter how happy and excited I am I’m not gonna exploit random strangers trying to enjoy a meal

[@HobieInTheBox]

This has got to be the dumbest tiktok drama I've seen yet

[@ragingwoodcock]

Shit like this makes me so glad I live in an all party consent state.

[@10catsinatrenchcoat97]

sadness does petty girl!

[@hankkingsley2792]

Her A.I. sounding responses didn't help. "To be sorry feels for you I'm. Treats other the way you wan't to be treats."

[@supermaryg]

I have been known to do a little shuffle when eating satisfying food. Didn't really realize I did, til I had a small kid who started copying me. It's like a small shoulder bounce that doesn't involve scary arm movement and awkward mouth positions. No one else has ever reacted to it, so yeah it's possible to be excited (even about sh*t food) in a completely non-embarrassing way. I also agree with the comment that she basically wouldn't do this exaggerated nonsense without being filmed.

[@miempire9198]

Yes i think she’s having fun, she’s cringe tho but she’s having fun

[@laurelfisher5932]

you only cringe because at some point, you felt joy and someone made you feel ashamed for it

[@nickjames1362]

What's with the hard cut after tok around 00:40 ?

[@briclare]

maybe people should stop recording others without their consent if they don’t wanna get judged

[@no1legobatmanfan]

“or should i say devil!” was actually kinda fire i won’t lie

[@CalebThomasMedia]

As someone who spends far too much time on TikTok live, that is 100% what TikTok live is.

[@arthurneddysmith]

Her complaint boils down to this: "I cannot control the reactions of people around me and if their reactions displease me, they have miserable lives and need therapy". There's a strong hint of sociopathy in there.

[@GootGamer]

I'm so glad for being Spanish, cause there just arrived the video and people hating it, nothing about racism

[@angycumber]

the sketch was awesome 10/10 sketch

[@jordana934]

help me the fact that she’s responding do ineptly to every hate comment

[@chris135x]

So f*cking WHAT, my guy? Why do you people constantly seem to have problems with anything that anyone does?

[@LouiseBelcher69]

Well Their goes my career

[@erin1569]

We need "Do not smoke here" signs but for videos

[@silverofthesunbears]

“Do not cringe here”

[@jfinney225]

It would REALLY strange if I was unknowingly being filmed in a viral TikTok RIGHT NOW. I’m in my living room… 😵‍💫😱😬

[@_ramm]

Love the kuromi pillow

[@readwrecks]

I don’t know about the dancing, but I’d eat the hell out of those pancakes

[@brazoshopper5081]

the real Hangryness is the cringe videos we made along the way