Stop doing these mistakes after marriage || how I changed myself after 15 years || MENTALLY STRONG

[@herfablife]

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[@handembroiderybysam]

Subscribe kia hua hai 😊

[@mansoorali1464]

Yas 🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@AsifAfridi-z7g]

Yeh video m 4 dafa sun chukii hn

[@AsifAfridi-z7g]

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[@AsifAfridi-z7g]

Plzzz mujh koi mashwara de plzz boot zarurat hin mujh

[@rajshri19y]

such a great video...I sacrificed so much after my marriage even to the point of leaving my job to move with my husband to a different state where he was offered a good paying job. Sadly he never cared for all I did for him...then I decided to enter medical school, took entrance exam being 7 months pregnant, finished 4 years of medical school in the US at the age of 40. I totally agree how important it is to be independent. U become stronger and a role model for your kids. my daughter looks up to me and dreams to be a doctor like me.

[@herfablife]

That's great dear . so proud o f u

[@mediteach2305]

Great job

[@rabimalik6545]

I agreed but I am in a situation I can't leave my kids behind so I don't know what to do and how .. secondly kindly elaborate how to give respect to yourself??? Pls

[@AsifAli-ty1pj]

Well done soo proud kindly let us know what qualifications you had in Pakistan as I wanna start my education or career in uk

[@asps270]

Wow!

[@rosemariefernandes6600]

Thank you for sharing your story with us. It gave me courage. It's not only your in-laws who can make your life miserable. Sometimes your own mother and siblings can exploit you and make you miserable.

[@vrindalulla6664]

Very true I can co relate myself to this it's true when ur own mom or dad or siblings wants to make ur life miserable it's worst

[@nishakhandekar1303]

I can relate too 😢

[@pollytheparrot8929]

So true.. I'm facing same.. I have narcissistic family

[@mairach1854]

So true yr 😢 inlaws to in-laws apny parents b masha Allah h

[@seemakhan7322]

Omg this the reality of every newly married girl Aap kitna na cover karte ho har cheez openly batate ho Jazakhallahu khaira ❤

[@navgul6398]

Me India se hu baji or apko dekh kar mere life bhot change hue thanks dil❤ se allah apko khush rahye

[@herfablife]

Great 👍

[@jannatadnan1389]

Yes u r right sis. Before and after too much difference hota hai. Kam iz kam 4 5 sal lagty hain chip reh k bardsht krty krty phr jb Samjh ati hai na k humry sath galt ho raha hai to banda in sb sy fed up ho jata hai aor bol parta hai. Bohat tuff hota hai jb bechy bhi na ho ap chup kr k rishty bachany k liy jb har aik ki sunty jao to sb apko aik faltu chez Samjh laity hain. Apko apni life better kr ny k lit strong hona parta hai aor akila rehna bhi a jata hai. Bohatt achi video hai sis. Allah pak saaaab beityo k naseeb qismat bohaaat achy krein ameen sum ameen. Unko apny mah bap jaisy hi log mily mahol mily ameen sum ameen

[@Sheikh777-v7e]

Bahut impressive baat ki hai and motivate Kiya hai aapne .it's really true for our life❤.meri life me bhi behad struggle aaye hai.or aaj main bhi desperation ki tablet leti hun last 6 years se.but aapne mujhe himmat di hai. Thank you so much ❤

[@areebasuleman9813]

Watching from USA l am mother of 3 at age 24 I am so glad that I discover your channel plz make more videos on mental health love your vlogs

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@shllshockers9033]

U r such a sweetheart Talking to us like a sister❤ Such a sweet voice n heart.. JazakAllah plz continue it....

[@waqasgillani2309]

Assalam o Alaikum sister maine ajj hi apka channel dekha hy or yaqeen karen mujhy bht motivation mili hy please humary liye asi mazeed videos banati rahain apne experience sy 💖 JAZAKALLAH sister 😊

[@easyrecipieswithazra6246]

May Allah bless all daughters. ameen.its hard to recover from damage that negative people do

[@herfablife]

True

[@memesboys175]

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[@namramahmood6442]

Kuch b nahi bas alot of hugs to you😢 ap meri strength hain Allah pak apko salamat rakhay❤

[@herfablife]

Aameen n jazakallah

[@Ummhunain-c2w]

میں نے ابھی آپ کی ویڈیو دیکھنا شروع کی ہیں بہت اچھا انداز ہے بڑی بہنوں جیسا ز ندگی کو ایک سمت دیتی ہیں ہر وقت شکایت کرنا اپنے آپ کو بھی برا لگنے لگتا ہے عام یو ٹیوبر جیسی نہیں ہیں اس معیار سے ہٹیے گا نہیں۔

[@noman9035]

Mam maine b apni married life main bohat problems dekhi hain ... bohat choti age main hi....lekin ab maine b apni boundaries set kari hai.....aur bohat acha laga apne apne bare main bataya hamein.....

[@herfablife]

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[@jenniferkhaswala9674]

I'm from vadodara Gujarat.. I'm now 42 years old n i can relatable to your talks..

[@HomemakerMehak]

Bohat struggle karni perti hai susral mai😢mene b ki apni jithani ki waja se😢har waqt mujhse apna mukabla karti thi😢or saas 😢jab husband mere pas ate to unko bola liya karti thi ya mujhe😢Hume sath rehne nai deti thi.kam Kara Kara k itna thaka Diya jata tha k kamre Mai jate hi sojati thi😢😢😢.ab sabse Jan chot gae Alhamdolilah.har bandi bohat struggle karti hai shadi k bad

[@gpsschool6435]

Merey Sath b esey e hy

[@MRsKASHIFvlogs]

You are really a good speaker I feel that I listen my own story from you.. that was a worse time of my life still I don't forget that time while I thought I feel anger n aggressiveness ufff thanks to Allah now that time is best but not better انشاءاللہ it will be changed soon

[@herfablife]

In sha Allah

[@ambreenkhan8303]

Thank you so much, sister. I watch your video and I learn agonizing. You know how to stay but some time again I go down then I watch your video. Make me lots of motivation. I try to be stand up for myself and my kids. Thank you so much.

[@herfablife]

You're welcome! 😊 Keep going strong, you've got this!

[@manishasharma-bu2dy]

Bht shi bat boli mam.aur jb insan pr gujarti h wo waqt k sath strong ho jata h

[@herfablife]

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[@niazkhan4387]

Aj wala vlog bohat zaberdast tha, apne jo batain shear ki bilkul sahi kaha..esa hi hota ha jab nayi nayi shadi hoti ha kuch time k bad himmat ati ha ye sab kuch face karne main..

[@herfablife]

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[@madihacookingvlogs1512]

Thnax dear for sharing.aisay lagta meri e story ap ne sounai ha start mery liye b bht mushkil tha .bht motivation milti ap ki batun se . Allah apko khush rakhy ameen 💕

[@sowebashahid32]

Allah pak nazry bad sy bchay ap ko or hum subko

[@ayeshazarreen684]

Thanks for this video and I agree with you 💯 ❤

[@wardahlpzafar6828]

aoa.im in lhr.mujy ap ki vedios boht motivat karti hn.apki hr vedio sy muny kuch na kuch sekhny ko milta ha.thanku sooooo much

[@yasmin-zaf]

So true Same situations in my life love you sister many many love blessings respects to you and your family love from india ❤❤❤❤ 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

[@azankamran583]

Ap k vloge to jesy serf mujhy motivte krny kly hi boht kuch sekhny ko milta hi boht sy change Lai hon ap ki bato sy ❤Thank you give us good life love you dear sister iam from kohat

[@herfablife]

Thx dear

[@ahmadjamshaid7679]

Good ye hi sab se achi bat ha khudh ko mazbot karne ❤😊

[@herfablife]

yess

[@masratasif6185]

Asalamu alaikum dear ,mai bilkul aap ki baat se sehmat houn kunki mai b aise halaaat se recently nikal k aaye houn ...aap nai sahi kaha hum kisi ko khush nahi ker sakte balai he hamare Jaan nikal Jaye behtar ayhi rehta hai khud per ore apni family per dyaan de ore doosroo ko khush kerne k bajai ignore kere ye best formula hai khush rehne ka😊

[@herfablife]

True

[@bjs6394]

Superb vlog, superb points, superb explanation... mashallah... impressive and ifective... 👍

[@mohibrehman6121]

G sister ap bilkul sahi farma rahi hn...hm ne b shiro mn bhot tufftime guzara alhamdulillah Allah ne bhot asanian ata ken...mushkil waqt guzr hi jata hy....i,m from abbottAbad...idr b mosam bhot acha ho gya hy Allah k karam se❤umme mohib❤

[@herfablife]

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[@haniakhan140]

im newly married mjhe bht acha laga apk vd dekh k. mre sath bhe same masla he mai khi se peshwar shade ho k aye hn or yahan or wahan k chezon mai bht farq he . or jab mai kse chz ka pochte hn to aise he react karte hen ajib sa.

[@manpreetgill2921]

Love your vlogs n content❤Much appreciated n needed watçhing from Chandigarh India and am going through a lot 51 years single parents r no more n doing things singlehandedly thanku for all the motivation❤

[@herfablife]

Thanks a ton

[@mehwishimran123]

Mashallah i really like ur v.logs recently subscribed u i am 4rm lahore

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@suhelanoorkhan7049]

Apke vlog dkh kr bhut kuch lyf m sikhne ko milta h🎉 ki himmat nai harni chahiye...

[@herfablife]

Aameen

[@mcreativecraft9692]

amazing tips after a lot of time I have found your channel from where we can get a lot of advises to improve our personality.kwep up your good work .

[@masoomaghori7946]

Zabardast aunty me apke vlogs boht shoq se dkhti hu aur apki baton pe amal bhi krti hu boht kch seekhti hu ap se allah give u more happiness in ur life and akhirah as well.

[@herfablife]

Aameen

[@idearecipe4778]

Alhaaa .. jo batyin app bta rhi hyin m ye fhase sy guzer rhi hun... Mri shadi ka pehla saal b boht borra tha.... abhi b 4 saal hogy aysy hi situation hy😢

[@Titania-b2v]

What a lovely.and positive lady ur ❤️

[@PhoolgujjarGujjar]

Good talking and information I liked ur videos

[@farhanawasi8749]

Beautiful Bedsheet nd Comforter kidar say buy ke Ap nay ??

[@shadanghazal651]

Asalamo Alykum wa Rehmatullah... What ever you are saying ,all true... None knows the background of a successful and happy life.. Salute to you...

[@herfablife]

Tysm

[@anonymousshahana9134]

What ever we suffer we must see to it that our daughter in laws don't suffer.We must teach appreciate n encourage our daughter in laws.Its Allahs test and good n bad days r tests of Allah.

[@quratulainn6565]

M following you from D.G.Khan pakistan nd ur videos helping me alot

[@MothersProblems-MP]

You are describing true realities . i m mother of two under 3years of age and i am still suffering and struggling . but now i have started online job also started to work on youtube my channel.

[@glowpink3638]

Brilliant Ma'am...... You are amazing..... Stay blessed......

[@gulfishaadil7727]

A true inspiration 🎉

[@ayesharif1359]

Assalam O alaikum Hum Hyderabad India🇮🇳 se hai aap ki baatein sunkr relax feel hota hai . Daily kaam krte aap ka blog dekhti hu

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@Galaxyoffunn]

Assalamualaikum mai india se hu mujhe apki video bahot achi lagti hai ap hame motivate karti hain Allah apko achi sehat ke sath lambi Umar de ameen 💐

[@herfablife]

Aameen

[@asmaraafsaraislam2588]

Assalamualaikum.First time apko comment karrahi hu.apke videos mujhe bohut acche lagte hain.Main daily ratme sone k time apke motivational speech sunti rehti hu.Main mere married life me mere in-laws ki wajahse bohut struggle karrahi hu.Mere 19month k chota sa baby hain.They literally hate me & my baby boy. My husband does not tell them anything about their wrong doing.But main mere husband ko nehi chodhsakti hu.Please mere liye duwa kare k Allah mujhe himmat de,main mere baby ko lekar zindegi mein aage badh pauu..Mere baby ko Allah k nek dill insan banane k liye highest try kaarpau. Apke videos mujhe bohut inspire karte hain Thank you so much. May Allah bless you & your family. Lots of love from Bangladesh 💚❤

[@AimanFatima789]

U r amazing......im in china for last 6 mnths.....ur vedios fullfill my craving of missing pakistan .....u r my positive energy......nw i also take care of my hands n feet.....i started watching ur vedios frm oldest to new....ur cooking grooming and this channel as well.....u r sweet heart 💞

[@herfablife]

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[@muslimahcornervlogs9791]

Its goosebumps for all girls❤❤ I m from india.. ❤❤

[@LittleeBirdd-i7v]

From faisalabad and I feel that I listen my story from you and thanks for motivation❤

[@herfablife]

It's my pleasure

[@abdulmanan547]

Mery kano ka msla ha mein sun nhi skti ap ki vedios dkhny or sunny ka dil krta ha

[@hinazeb6752]

Awwww that arvi story, i just want to give you a hug, actually you were too young to handle that mess, i handled that quite well as i got married quite late, sub ko set krdia shadi k pehle e saal😝😝

[@salehaumer4242]

I am from Lahore and very authentic tips

[@samiasaeed6727]

And plz share my story in your blog as I motivate me a lotttttt. Mai khush nhi rehty thy but aapney mujhe bht kuch seekhaya life me Allah aapko dono Jahan ki daulat really mere ankho me aansu hai sach me dil se dua hai aapko

[@margikulkarni3310]

Pehli baar kisi ko youtube par on laws m bare mein itna ho estly bolte suna....courage chahiye...❤

[@herfablife]

Thx dear

[@UzmaSaeedVlogs4892]

love ur vlogs dear from where u bought that bed spread

[@herfablife]

Kohnoor

[@AminaZimal-d3s]

Asslam o Alikum sister I was not your regular viewer...... But now days I am watching your videos regularly I am improving my self too love you sis❤ I am watching you from Karachi

[@hiramohsin1251]

Beri motivation milti h ap ki bato se m Lahore se

[@zsaeedjan3442]

Ap bilkul Sahi keh rahi Hain har Kisi ki zindagy Mai mushkil ati hai.

[@herfablife]

True

[@rabiayasir6290]

Gg shukarrr Allah ka...hr hall m krna chahiye.

[@aafreenkhanaafreenkhan2731]

Aapki video dekkhne ke bad meri zindagi Badal gyi mene apni life me bht sari chize khatam kar di hai mujhe bht kuch sikhne ko Mila hai thank you Me apse milna chahti hu

[@zainabsajjad7013]

Ap ny kese cooking seekhi...please is py detailed video bnyen please... I'm suffering same...

[@nusratjamil3978]

thank u so much sis ur videos are good teaching for me n grt therapy m from grw i always wait for ur new videos

[@momsparadisekitchen8575]

Even mine story is same as yours, I also started fighting against my rights after 15-16 years, really that was hard time after marriage can't even open your mouth, very true nobody will tell us all these points, not even ur mom ❤

[@VloggerSyedaFatima]

Ham Lalamusa sy ap ko dekhti h.mashaallah bhna ap ke mehnat or lgn nzr a rhi h bhna Jo himat or SBR sy Allah ko pukarta h wo kabi harta nhe Allah usy ghirny nhe deta or ap bht bht mehnati ho Allah ap ko slamt rkhy Ameen.

[@herfablife]

Aameen

[@rajadhrub1983]

Mam meri v story app se hi milti hai mera v marrige ka first year sabse dark year raha hai pure 1 saal aisa koi din nhi guzra jb mai roi na ho aur mai us time pregnent v thi mera v first year ka bahut hi bad experience hai jisko yaad krke aaj v meri rooh kaap jaati hai avi meri saadi ko 11 years ho chuke hai but avi v life me bahut saare sttrugals aur tention hai but aapke vlog se mujhe bahut motivation milti hai mai v apne aap ko strong banane ki koshish kr rahi hoon mujhe aapke life experiences wale videos bahut acche lagte hai kyuki meri v life v aisi hi hai. Love❤ from INDIA.

[@herfablife]

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[@mtouqir8174]

Allah pak mazeed khushiya dy

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@sarwatarif4319]

Peshawer sy. U r amazing God bless you all.

[@kamrankhan1495]

I am 34 n i really crurious to watch ur vlogs

[@samuelmasih579]

Ap k vlogs dkhti hn ..bht kuch sekhne ko milta hai.. thank apii ...from kohat city..

[@herfablife]

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[@aqsasabir8455]

Apky vlogs mere most favourite hain❤ I follow your tips and tricks... love you❤ aj Ka vlog BHT important tha... dark phase of life...

[@herfablife]

Thanks a ton

[@ImuKhan-ox4ou]

MasahaAllah Allah appi your video ❤❤❤, I am live in Kolkata😊😊😊😊

[@mylordsworld4462]

I like your vlogs. They are very motivational. Love you from faisalabad

[@user-ov5wp2qc4s]

Mash Allah you are a strong lady.❤ from the uk. Jazak Allah for you vlogs i really appreciate them sister.

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@symabari615]

Itni zabardast life shairing par aik heart❤ to bunta hyy app ky ley

[@herfablife]

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[@hifzrehman392]

Rawalpindi sy watch daily

[@itzzayesha2121]

.ughe apka vlog dekhkr bohot sukun milta h

[@abaankhan1380]

Bilkul sahi kaha apne itni himmat karna chahye

[@herfablife]

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[@samrina4322]

Assalmulakum dear! I’m from Lahore, you’re subscriber nd fan of your vlogs 💖 Every women have a tough time!! Brave lady love you ❤️ waiting for your Shopping haul 😉

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@stargameropshorts2605]

You are really brave and confident woman ❤❤

[@herfablife]

Thanks a lot

[@mallikam1667]

Beutiful messages for women.l am from INDIA, TAMILNADU, MADURAI.Thank you for sharing your personal views,mostly women face problems,they might be of many types,as you know the social set up is that woman have to struggle for there rights and freedom,thankyou

[@herfablife]

True

[@afshansurain6048]

Sab k situations different hote hn...but fir b problems sabko hote hn...

[@QasimAli-j4e9c]

Can u guide me khnoor k bed sheet kahan sa milaen ge pindi mian

[@herfablife]

Peshawer road

[@abdulmanan547]

Mam plz jo bhi ap bat krti hain screen pr likha hua dikahein mjhy ap ki vedios bht achi lgti hain

[@kamranslifestyle1286]

Assalam O Alaikum dear sister may Allah bless you and your family . From karachi

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much

[@siddiqueehsan7728]

I m Ur silent subscriber and like Ur all videos.ur videos always guide me and give me energy.u r a good motivater ❤before Ur vlogs I was always in anger with my kids and don't show love with them Ur videos changed my personality and I learned many things through Ur motivation .my married life is now 15 years and I will try my best through Ur guidness

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@saniaayesha5745]

Very good her Feb life.

[@Hassankhan-ex3zv]

As a, I am from peshawar helpful vlog

[@foodandkitchen4908]

Amazing vlog.....truthful....luv the way you sharing your experiences ❤️

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much

[@Indianshorts918]

But i wil teach my twins daughters what i made mistakes in life that cooking is imp.

[@khalidmahmood2171]

I am from pindi infact living your aas paas hi as my daughter studies in sapient hall which is the best school in this area love your vlogs learned a lot from you regarding life style fashion and now about mental health ❤

[@moonkhan12345]

Amazingggg vlog .erum can u plzz make a detailed video on menopause. I am almost 41 and i get lots of mood swings, i get panic attacks, wheni see ur videos i get lot of courage. Its a request to make a video about menopause. I have seen lots of videos on youtube but none of them are useful i want u to make a video bcz i think u will explain each n everything in detail plzzz its a req .

[@rishakhan9215]

U also watch kari wright videos they r al on menupause

[@Mebellaandnature5535]

Thankyou for sharing your story💗lots of love 💗

[@herfablife]

My pleasure 😊

[@zarlalakhwaja3718]

From swat love your all videos and lots of respect ❤❤❤❤

[@RamaKumari-vr8bj]

Mam we r watching all ur videos from manila phillipines very inspirig all

[@mehjabeenqazalbash7446]

U r 100/correct honest guidance

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much

[@saminas11]

Same story of mine really hard to stand for myself no boday understand what is my place but now i left taking care of others now ....

[@herfablife]

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[@MrsSEmmad]

Erum where is this bedsheet set from? V pretty❤

[@herfablife]

Kohnoor

[@Oracle82]

Aap ke har video bohat achi hoti hae

[@herfablife]

Thx