Stop negotiating your standards with people who can't meet them!

[@yvonneneal8063]

The "potential" that we see in these individuals we want to date and marry is actually a projection of OUR OWN potential onto them. Let's begin to see AND live into our own potential. May we finally believe these individuals when they tell us AND show us who they are and may we be able to release the guilt and anxiety of releasing them from our lives.

[@QIKWIA]

💯🎯🔥 Most of these men are broken, above and beyond repair...like a shattered glass broken into a million pieces... Definitely not worth fixing..

[@MarieN8959]

Negotiating your standards to please and give access to people who are not worthy of you is an act of self betrayal. (Quote made by me ) 🥰

[@julieevans3110]

😊✊🏼

[@KKP20111]

Somebody needs to tell us the truth.

[@isabelpina1953]

My dear brother you are anointed 🙏🏽

[@roselyndavis7663]

Stop allowing the distractions to hypnotize or block the big view in front you because you keep looking in the rearview at the NOUNS that are behind you for a REASON!!!! #Wake Up & Let's Gooooo, my sisters!!!❤

[@brittanyfletcher7287]

Yes !!!! This got me crying 😔thank you for giving us this advice

[@ludwinedejean]

Not enough to liking a man. Not enough.

[@yolandaparker7854]

Needed to hear this message Thanks for caring so much 💗

[@missyfoo6568]

Truth!!! Wow!!!! 👀. I love that you don’t candy coat it. True facts!!!

[@_Knowledge_Is_Power]

Ace, you’re the best and tell this s*it matter of factly. My issue is with a widower I’ve been trying to deal with for 6 years. My story would blow everyone’s mind. I’m not sure what to do anymore when I’ve set boundaries, been honest, called him out and been there for him and his kids.

[@julieevans3110]

Remember @ Knowledge Is PowerX : much as hurt to admit it to myself; ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER. Words are Cheap 😒

[@alesheanicholson8426]

😂😂 The you put things into perspective is funny yet need to be heard I love it….i needed to hear this some years ago but it’s never too late….

[@nikkimonroe1982]

You anit never lied.. sad truth but women need to hear this...

[@Cherryblossom-fg1pl]

You have said it like it is Thankyou so much

[@julieevans3110]

Knowing it’s Actions Not Words, how Can Female See his Actions are Lying? Doesn’t that take time. 😤

[@basicinfo2022]

#1 provider. If he's not providing for you, he's playing you. #2 he wants and values commitment with you. #3 he always says yes to you when you need help or at least later will #4 has traditonal family values and morals

[@julieevans3110]

@@basicinfo2022 🙏🏼

[@anicialugo8997]

You is RAW🎉🎉🎉WORD for Real

[@herbs4life]

I’ve stayed in relationships because a guy loved me but I didn’t love him back and that is hurting the soul as well..some stuff is common sense we as men and women have to do better and work on self healing and peace and meeting each person as they are and how the spirit leads the situation..if it is not of the same spirit it is not going to work..

[@jujubee90275]

Ace keeping it 💯

[@MT-hk9cp]

Lord the women i wish i could send this too. Is there an anonymous sender button sonewhere that I can use?😂

[@goddessgood118]

F’n Reggie from down the street!!! 🤭🤭

[@anicialugo8997]

Preach it 🙏

[@Lexi-R3s]

how can a marriage last without souring,you get to familiar, you become to ordinary predictable, always there boring,so it basically it comes down to that famous expression familiarity breeds contempt which is a very strong word it's worse than hate,at least hate engages you contempt means your completely turned off what's worse then the couple living together in the same room for the rest of their lives how can it not go sour but what happens in simple language,they lose respect particularly for women if she loses respect for her husband,she can't be his support,she can't be his fan she can't be his groupie she can't even be intimate with him, because without respect,a woman can't maintain the relationship

[@Keyamazing]

You are wild!😅

[@Lexi-R3s]

all human beings need to be needed,men more so then women, because men can't seem to justify their own existence,when a man gets married he needs to know he's useful and necessary and important and he's needed,so the worst thing a wife can say,to her husband never mind I'll do it myself, anything the husband offers graciously except it give him credit for it even if it's not exactly what you need from him,what if you except what he is giving,then you can make him do what you really need from him,but if you reject what he is giving, he'll quit you will emasculate him

[@charliesmith6564]

Much love..

[@coachinvest9322]

❤

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

🚨♥️‼️

[@MaryJaneBriggs]

Hello.. 🙂

[@roses4me451]

It's like you're advertising a Rolls Royce for sale, telling all the selling points of how expensive the car is and why its worth the price; but when a customer comes to buy; you sell the car for less than its worth. Any man who wants you will RISE to the occasion to meet your standards and respect you. 2024 is just around the corner. We are NOT: "Holding a brotha down", "Building a Bear", "saving any seats", "Going 50/50", "Letting you move in, borrow money, or drive our car!" You come to the table fully ready, willing, and able; or leave us the hell alone! (Ace, thank you for keep it 1000)

[@MT-hk9cp]

And can I add to your perfect post: We ain't "Ride or Die" either GTFOOH!

[@basicinfo2022]

He knows your value and worth, he hopes you don't...

[@julieevans3110]

@@basicinfo2022 Good one! Solid.

[@shanellem6310]

Yes!!!!🎉🎉🎉💯💯💯💯💯 I couldn't have said it better myself! 💯💯💯💯

[@NARCASSASSAIN]

Omg he said "when you break 💔 up you u got to break the F UP"!! Come on ace tell us!! 💯💪🏿 Keep it moving express. Break Trauma Bonds. We have to get away to break every chain ⛓️ 🙏🏿

[@shanellem6310]

That Is the one thing I've done right. I've never gotten back with my exes. Once I'm gone, I'm gone. It's a wrap & I have no regrets. They always come back to me, though, only to get firmly shut down. Once we break, I move forward, not backward. Period.

[@kimberlyb6522]

If he is not ready to commit, communicate or be intentional, he is ready to waste your time 😮

[@latonyabrown840]

I loved this podcast. This truth was a helpful part of my healing process. It's a little triggering and brutally honest. Thank you ❤

[@masont7759]

😂 the hard truth yet pure comedy! 🤣 I can’t stop laughing but you are so right!

[@basicinfo2022]

His rhymes are so creative and natural lol

[@dusacuplutapeluna]

This is fucking raw, brother. Thank you. Love you ❤

[@Bellafiredance]

I like the background on your video

[@justtisha8592]

That walk away speech took somebody’s soul!!!!😂❤

[@segoniacameron3818]

🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@x__lexx]

Man these videos ain’t for the weak😂 please only watch this if you ready to let go and commit to making a change in your heart and in your mind

[@WhitieLuki]

😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@zarieaLondon]

Praise God ……. I finally got it. Thank you for sitting me free

[@beverlybryant8327]

Thank You Sir for your Honesty and letting the Queens know what's up👏👏👏

[@rishardalyles8971]

Preach thank you🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@shanellem6310]

Ace, I wish I had found your channel in my younger days. I had to find out things the hard way. I will be passing along this knowledge to my daughter so that she can identify her future husband.

[@herbs4life]

The emotions don’t cloud judgement it is just simply not using judgement and discerning the situation for the reality of it is that cloud judgement..

[@Loveforchrist158]

I love the way you preach! 🤣Straight facts 🗣️ please never stop

[@VonnaBlessed]

2 years too late..but now I know better.

[@dawnfinley1166]

❤❤❤

[@keekee38]

Please address that saying "you cant help who you love" 🤷🏿‍♀️ And u can talk all you want. Folk need to absorb every word! Please continue......im here for all of the reality of us!

[@beverlybryant8327]

👏👏👏

[@juniorhendrix642]

I, feel every thing you said...which is correct.

[@ShereeMiller-cq7cp]

Welll!!!!

[@tiamaria3123]

This is DEEP!!!... Never have asked myself this question. Thank you ❤

[@latoyawilliams8089]

I love how you just walk away or get very silent and just leave us in our thoughts😅! Thank you! Needed this!!!!

[@Evelyn-c3w]

Ace you are so right. I was supposed to fly where he was and the day before he tells me he has to go to his mama cause she's in a coma. He says let's set another date. Mine you I paid for the flights. Well I hurt for a minute but I moved on and I'm not looking back. His actions showed me he didn't like me all like that only what I could do for him nothing more. Lesson learned ❤

[@Lexi-R3s]

the only way a relationship is going to last a lifetime it can't be about you, you can't go into a marriage thinking this, it's going to help me, it's going to bring out the best in me,it can't be about me it can't be about you because your bringing someone else in your life it's going to have to be about the other person if you have what it takes, ask yourself how generous are you how generous are you of your time,can I give my time to someone else,can I tolerate someone else in my space how generous am I with my possessions, how generous am I about opinions your there to make the other person's life better what can I do for my wife what can I do for my husband not what I am getting

[@mariee3658]

Chile this man I’m not even with keeps asking me to move in and says I have to do the wifey duties cook clean etc but when I tell him he has to fund and take care of me he gets offended and tried to gaslight me into thinking I’m asking for too much like we’re not even together and you want me to do wife shit without any type of commitment this was the last convo I’m having with him about that shit I’m done lowering and negotiating my standards he can’t meet them fine somebody will

[@INofCO]

I COULDNT CARE LESS FOR WHAT IS IT THAT YOU SPEAK, SINCE WHAT YOU SPEAK, SPEAKS DIRECTLY TO MY HEART AND YOUR EFFING ENERGY HEALS, I AM GON BEGIN LISTENING TO YA MY BRUDDA AS THE BEST THERAPY I HAVE COME ACROSS IN YEARS, WITH OPEN HEART NEVER MINDING THE WORDS CHOICE YOU ARE ONE OF A HEALTHY RASCAL GURU EMBODIED

[@NDAsDontCoverIllegalActs]

There's a difference between standards and laws.

[@DebraGlushefski-o2c]

WHAT'S WRONG WITH BEING HONEST ACE... THAT'S ALL I ASK.

[@anicialugo8997]

What's ❤got to do with it like The Late Tina Turner would say

[@TanyaGadsden]

I broke up with mines already thank u boo

[@n.b.0212]

After a break up, it's time to grow up.

[@INTPinnerWorld]

Bet you got a lot of dms after this video! 😊

[@lizhzep]

You are freaking amazing

[@sherylcastro5688]

Such sad truth😢😢😢

[@LewisFortune-vy2rt]

💯say it again

[@tramellabrooks1710]

Well DAMN !

[@karenwhite8757]

Ommmgggg I loooooove ur wisdom❤tyyyyyyy

[@jessicablackmon7048]

Yes, yes.

[@S.c.7619]

Nuff Said 😂❤

[@tonyaparrott7242]

🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@jaquitaburgess-md5cd]

👏👏👏🔥

[@sherylbrinson1709]

Everything you speak is ABSOLUTELY CORRECT!!!!

[@jessicaurey8009]

I love your content! But nobody wants to ask you questions because you harsh, lol swearing at them and coming for their throat😂

[@DanettePeters]

That's right Ace keep it real. It is written in the Bible the truth will set you free indeed. Whom tve son sets free is free indeed. God bless you.

[@charliesmith6564]

Thank you. Needed to hear that.seasoned . So done.

[@JessicaHarris-g3l]

Who are u talkin to who asked you

[@anicialugo8997]

Your Right ACE

[@purpose2purpose]

❤

[@anicialugo8997]

Amen ACE❤🎉

[@anicialugo8997]

NO BREAD CRUMBS ACE!!!!