Stop Talking To Those Who Aren't Listening | Jordan B Peterson | Motivation

[@yatooxx9316]

When you are a good listener and supporter but your friends aren't, it is the most lonely feeling in the world

[@uhdobo7]

Currently dealing with this… hang in there friend

[@ananyaj8065]

@@uhdobo7 dealing with the same thing here too T-T

[@russellwestbrook5632]

@@ananyaj8065 It’s hard man, it don’t feel right 😔

[@ananyaj8065]

@@russellwestbrook5632 IKR 😭😭

[@mr.incredible1944]

Yup feels real shit (T-T)

[@Kamo766]

My Mom always say “Never be afraid to raise your voice for honesty and truth and compassion against injustice and lying and greed. If people all over the world...would do this, it would change the earth.” ― William Faulkner

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@bettywhite8407]

Exactly. Righteous Indignation is required: Letting duds off hook is what they're counting!

[@Aya010]

Your mom is william faulkner?

[@McD-j5r]

But people got to hate the truth.

[@danloyvales2017]

“They may bury you , But they don’t know that you are a seed “

[@zawmom1]

thank you Jordan for Allll you do for me.I listen to this particular lesson every day!! XOXO LOVE u 💘

[@joshuaalestre5102]

Smart

[@arsenialuzanas9281]

Well said. True

[@WilliamWakefield-l4w]

Love this

[@SemperReformanda17]

❤❤❤

[@AhmetKaan]

*Sometimes when you are in a dark place, you think that you are buried but you have actually been planted...* If you are going through that hard time, *just know that I am cheering for you...* 🖤

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@rosalindearl6054]

I needed this. I am definitely at the end of my rope....No.hope left...

[@brianlachowskysr.1642]

@@rosalindearl6054 Rosalind- I will pray for you and your needs. May The mercy of God find you and remain with you now and forever. Amen

[@rosalindearl6054]

@@brianlachowskysr.1642 thank you very much. 😔

[@skelley164]

@@rosalindearl6054 don’t give in. I’m in a challenging place at 55, feel borderline hopeless and overwhelmed with what I’m facing (potentially). Whether good or bad, nothing lasts forever. I’m also rooting for you and you can face this temporary position you’re in, just don’t let go of that rope and climb back up. You can do it!!!!!Remember, “if nothing changes, nothing changes.

[@jacksmithers8575]

People who refuse to listen have to see it first hand for themselves until they understand.

[@BernieThompso2]

Trueee

[@steveunderhill5935]

I have been trying to tell the whole truth since 2002. Liar liar style, it’s now unstoppable, sometimes borderline callous. It’s the people I love not listening and/or ignoring my advice that gets my goat… And then they come to me to fix all their problems.

[@wannabmaritimer]

I really needed to hear this. I’m done with being angry. My visible anger and rage is destroying me. Far more than taking this advice ever could. Of course I’m still angry,, but I’m going to take this advice. And I’m going to finally grow in the way I want to.

[@cosmosemancipated8528]

I hope you are ok mate. You will do what is right for you.

[@Mstrofpup]

One moment it's a normal conversation between adults. After a few moments I realize the person I'm speaking to has been looking at the ground with brows raised as if they're a 4y/o getting lectured by a grandparent. Awesome convo.. I'm done talking 😅

[@NathalieLazo]

Incredible person reading this, you have everything there is to succeed in life, whatever that is for you. Go after the life you truly want NOW! ✨ I believe in you! Love - Nat ❤️

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@reneewilliams7425]

I don’t know you, however your post is so divine to my spirit right now thanks I will go after the Life I want I will continue to stand on principal 🙏🙏💗

[@NathalieLazo]

@@reneewilliams7425 That is awesome Renee! Thank you so much for sharing! Keep doing great things! I do believe in you, sister! ⭐️❤️

[@lindan8729]

😭

[@GrowthMindsetChannel]

“Work as hard as you possibly can on at least one thing and see what happens.” ~ Jordan Peterson 💪🏻🚀

[@cosmicsprings8690]

He definitely only works hard on his egotistical narcissistic delusional self..o yes and Asian rent boys .✨🤔😂🤣😂✨

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@lindan8729]

Omgoodness . It’s right in front of me. That’s what I needed. 🤔

[@Miaka61]

Needed this right now. Wasting a bit of time trying to talk with someone. But, I'm not going to anymore

[@paulmeyer5482]

I like the closing quote. I have worked to be a good human with many flaws. It is me. I have had to fight a few times in long winded battles to stand my ground. I will not be played with more than I accept. You may not have a profitable life. However you will be the wealthiest you can ever be. Stand.

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@Guddilove801]

Just brilliant!! A keeper for life. Thank you

[@BigDaddyStev-O]

i was brought up basically being told to not talk, that my opinion doesnt matter. i had my voice taken away from childhood, i wasnt even allowed to be a single digit aged kid and make any noise for fear of being punished. that stayed with me through my high school years where i actually failed class assignments that required debating or arguing different points because i didnt do them. i never spoke out on my opinion. i am grown now (35) and as much as ive asserted myself and tried to take back my voice as an adult now people dont listen to me. its not that i FEEL that people arent listening, its literally that people do not hear me or listen to me speak. i mean it doesnt matter what the question is if i give an answer it is overlooked and the question is asked to someone else and their answer might as well be written in stone even if mine was the exact same or the complete opposite. it has really taken a toll on me to not feel but know that i waste my breath every time i speak because nobody is listening to me. and then people have the nerve to ask me what is wrong with me when i get angry because of it. i am not exaggerating when i say that literally every time i open my mouth nobody listens to what i am saying. whether its answering a question, solving a problem, giving advice, whatever the case is i am not listened to. there is a saying about something going in one ear and out the other, but for me all i see is it never going in the first ear. its frustrating because no one is listening to me, its frustrating because i will say the correct answer or give the solution to a problem for no one to listen and i have to watch them do the wrong thing anyway even after i said the correct thing. i make a joke about always being right. i say stuff like, "im not saying i know everything about everything, but i do know something about just about everything." it truely hurts me because im a good listener. i make it a point to stop what im doing in order to hear what someone has to say, but i never get that in return. instead people keep their eyes in their phone. i start off saying something then i purposely start saying gibberish and nonsense because im not being heard and a lot of times i will start to say something, realize im not being heard, then just stop mid sentence/word and just get up and walk away. i have enough mental issues as it is to have to endure this as well. im talking about even my own mother and stepdad are doing this to me. the person that you should never have neglect issues from is almost the main one doing it.

[@izio1111]

Whether or not you listen to someone shouldn't depend on how old they are, what they look like or how they sound like. You should listen to someone based on what they're saying. My dad gets offended when I try to give him advice or even slightly disagree with what he says. He always says that "You're a kid. Why should I listen to you?" Hearing what people have to say won't hurt you...

[@ADevilsHollywood]

My dad said this to me too when I was a kid. It led to a really deep conflict within myself as an adult, feeling like what I had to say didn't matter but simultaneously desperately wanting to be listened to and doing anything to make my voice heard.

[@izawaniek2568]

Every piece of advice in this message is priceless. Thank you.

[@caprisun5331]

i feel like sometimes I need to prove myself and sometimes maybe seek validation, for i have knowledge as well, I'm a good listener but everytime I talk in group gathering I feel rejected or ppl wouldn't listen or start interjecting to start their new conversation, I don't feel too bad but I do feel neglected sometimes, as if my words are not worthy, and if I will be listened than I'll be judged ! it can be suffocating

[@Lynn-jl2yz]

i hear you

[@Tutume1111]

I'm bilingual and even thou I'm fluent in both languages, my accent remains foreign while speaking English.I face ignorance so often that's what lead me here

[@DemetriPanici]

*"You can never quit. Winners never quit, and quitters never win." - Ted Turner*

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@suiemmawi5903]

Thankyou

[@stevemwangz7449]

, es

[@MLFG]

No no no. Quitting is an important when used wisely. Read Seth Godin’s book, The Dip. Seems to me that quitting and never quitting can both be very dangerous operating systems. Seems to me that generalizing, in some cases, can render truth quite elusive. Am I wrong? What might I be missing?

[@sharonmarie4785]

100%

[@Lulu_de81]

The first advice is what I needed to hear. Voicing my mind is a risk. Either I put up with it or cry about the consequences and think that everyone is against you. Its something I had failed countless of times. And had been my problem since I was young.

[@claytonvolner5950]

I wish I would have known that a long time ago. I’m to the point where I’m seeing the results of what he said happens to those that never stood up for themselves.

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@Hy-Brasil]

No one told me either. Which makes me want to share this with every kid i meet. Someone should have warned me, someone should have warned you. They had this information. JP had it and shared it! But the problem is the message stopped with those individuals. They apply it to their own personal bubble... that's good for them but it doesnt help the next generation.

[@claytonvolner5950]

@@Hy-Brasil That’s true. Some people are like that. But others do share, like us, if they ever find it in the first place.

[@tpespos]

@@claytonvolner5950 it’s not too late to turn things around.

[@claytonvolner5950]

@@tpespos I’m definitely trying

[@quartzboye]

I felt like was talking to myself, texting myself and didn’t realize I was just being used for their selfish gain.

[@matthewking8269]

Success is a journey to life development and discipline

[@MotivationalShots47]

God bless u how r u

[@Ikaros23]

It’s the other way around

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@DemetriPanici]

*"Set your goals high, and don't stop till you get there." - Bo Jackson*

[@kcrystalbrowning8334]

Thank you for showing up on my phone I needed to hear what I listened too thank god and god bless you mr peterson

[@HighSpeedNoDrag]

I do not always agree with Professor Peterson but this video is one of his Very Best and Thank Youi Jordan.

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@jacksonfive197]

Amazing he’s actually saying the opposite to what most people including myself believe or have been taught to believe…I really like this guys intelligence … he makes so much sense!!!

[@misstigerbubbles]

It's literally basic phycology....

[@uhdobo7]

@@misstigerbubbles not everyone was taught well like you may have been

[@christophermason9141]

This was an amazing video I'm currently on a journey to break most of these bad habits that involve not speaking up lack of self-value and the unwillingness to cause any type disagreement or conflict so I shut down my own feelings thoughts and opinions in order to keep peace of mind only to realise I was destroying my own peace of mind by living this way by absolutely crushing everything that made me me Into oblivion out of fear of just about anything the part he mentions about there will be an outcome weather you do something or not it's the poison you wish to drink (not exactly how he worded it but you get what I'm trying to say lol)

[@aurimasvenskus7921]

Feeeeel U so much

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@JD97711]

"Cast not thy pearls before swine lest they be trampled under foot."

[@dorinbivolaru3330]

Thank you Professor Peterson and for sharing video. You are a real force.

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@MakeMeLo]

I love taking Jordan Peterson's tips.

[@Snazzmatic]

This what I needed at this exact moment 😭😎

[@jean-marcpourrier310]

Thank You. Dr. Jordan Peterson. Gratirudes & Blessings

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@fitnesssoup7553]

😅 If I only payed attention to those that listened I wouldn't be very attentive. It's maddening. People rarely listen anymore! The world needs truth for sure and people want to have their "realities" validated instead. Example: Recently I brought in parts to a business that I needed and specifically stated that i needed identical items and the quantities. What does the person do? He brings back a combination items different than what I'd asked for. So we have to go through the process of gathering what was asked for in the first place. I should've said, Is that what i asked for? There's so many things. I don't know where people's minds are at. It seems that our ability to concentrate is evaporating and that people are hell bent on doing things with whatever notions they get conjured up in their heads. If the prescription bottle says once a day of a particular dosage, you don't take it every other day with half the amount or, three times a day with a higher dose. Just like you don't put on any tire you want on your vehicle. It has to match the specificans for it or, within the parameters.

[@successmindset1964]

In Ur channel there’s so much value. 🔥🔥

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@kyledisney5200]

love this man.. One of the last Great treasures.

[@joelvasquez5196]

The words of this man is a piece of art.

[@aurimasvenskus7921]

He made his life story and gives to everyone. Love this man trullyyyyy

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@MotivationalShots47]

And if you think tough men are dangerous, wait until you see what weak men are capable of.

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[@Guddilove801]

👏👏👏👏

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[@ebikescrapper3925]

Weak men have nothing to lose as they have reached the lowest point, that is being weak.

[@criticreviews3903]

Simply brilliant!

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@victorjacobo5948]

This really helped me at work

[@ChildrenWithFaithAndHopeInc]

Thank you ❤

[@JimmyJaxJellyStax]

Great advice, made my life a lot more sane

[@Lalitajanette]

Thank you, I felt great listen to this.

[@izawaniek2568]

Thank you for great advice.

[@randymboyon5401]

Nice video for a morning motivation. Thank you Let's Become Successful

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@Leo-mr1qz]

Well put together. Thank you . 😊

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[@mawescott]

Powerful 💚💛🌻

[@bl2005]

Thank you..I really need this..thank you..

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@oscargluja426]

Look who's talking😊

[@aaronpreston2010]

take these down result i learnt so much so respect for this

[@aaronpreston2010]

Well all can rest assured no more of this i didnt mean it that way so thankful for ur help and much respect beyond above and beyond ones owns selfish mind now im keeping in line knowing truth ty

[@danarchambault8723]

I didnt realize this forever , i now observe first , and react by removing myself

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@jessicafrost9894]

Exactly!

[@lashondafoster88]

SO INSPIRING AND WITH ONLY simple,logical, crystal clear... Stay true & may it set you FREE!💯👑💪🏾💕💕

[@justanotherperson584]

Thank you so much for this.

[@MrJoker-]

I agree wholeheartedly!

[@yulia7396]

Great telling the truth..😋😉But everybody have their truth manipulators have theirs dominators have theirs.. Creators have theirs.. Dont be afraid to live your truth fully!

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@jaykayz6590]

I love this

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[@janine1111]

This my advice I needed.

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[@justsmileyGM]

gem!

[@memorychilambe3842]

Amen, powerful advice

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[@gajendrakumar3079]

Such an inspirational video.. ☺☺😃🤘🤘

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[@brodydaube5312]

Hey Jordan needed this thanks mate

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[@kellye.274]

Someone got mad at me earlier today because I disagreed with them out loud when they told me that as I got older I was going to have all kind of health issues with my back. Because this woman is dealing with all kind of health problems, she spoke that over me and I, I told her that that was not going to happen to me and that I wasn’t going to agree with what she said. Anyway, after some back-and-forth and my trying to explain where I was coming from, in a kind but firm way, she looked at me and said well you keep doing that and you won’t have very many friends. She said it was ok to disagree, but do it to myself. So it’s OK for her to speak crap over me, but if I say out loud that I’m not going to agree with that then that’s not right?! I’d rather have quality friends over quantity any day of the week. I’ve decided she’s a toxic individual and I want nothing else to do with her.

[@roxannerobertson554]

It’s not you, my friend….people now are more attention deficient. They also cannot sit silently be themselves and think….They lack the adult ability to handle rational debates or disagreements…..people became….weird and selfish, as well as childish after covid…. It’s everywhere….it’s not you……

[@TheAdhdGardener]

THIS💯🙌🙌

[@guitarguy5]

Despite some of his opinions, he does make some good points

[@itsrosario]

Exactly

[@FaithFashionFinances]

Great insight!

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@aaronpreston2010]

totally understood its ok if u want to do things legally but it must be something u want and deal with adultly nah u know wow ty

[@staceyblack683]

I really wish that Dr. Peterstone didn't get into politics because as a Psychologist I love to start my day hearing him. As a person hearing him defend Trump, and I have no political affiliation or allegiance, it just smudges him in my mind. I get disappointed. I trust and enjoy his psychoanalysis and interpretation of this day. However, the emergence of his politics seem insidious with both in consideration. His capacity to champion Trump devalues his work, in my limited opinion.

[@marcorodriguez6897]

Thank you nice

[@marvinlaudinez1518]

Very Good! Thanks Bro.

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@dilloncyr8022]

Great stuff.

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[@jogour6399]

Well.. everyone has it’s one truth, if you stand you want to say whatever it’s on your mind, because it’s your truth doesn’t mean it’s truth.

[@michellewhetstone]

F#%& I love this man. So grateful for this message. I only wish I heard it sooner.

[@Williamb612]

valuing yourself is bs. Value being productive, learning, interacting etc. Sometimes you feel good about it, and sometimes not, don’t let your emotions and feelings about yourself rule your life. Beethoven created the most beautiful intense music while often feeling both good and depressed about himself. This is the Problem with the self esteem movement in schools…teenagers often have ups and downs…if you have to feel good about yourself always, it teaches to not achieve or do unless you feel good. This is why in schools today everyone gets a trophy 🏆 regardless of whether the win or loose in a sports event.

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@coachbilly6058]

Amen!

[@autobahnwaybab7608]

Honestly my situation was and still is that i be with my friends and one of them asks a question and i answer it, i get fully ignored. However if someone else says the same answer i said they respond. 🤷🏽‍♂️ I dont know the solution for this

[@arigawyc9632]

Wisdom reloaded

[@tonyhooyer8997]

Reading about people grabbing multi-figures monthly as income in investments even in this crazy days in the market,any pointers on how to make substantial progress in earnings?would be appreciated...

[@sandraken5250]

You have to have an idea on what you wanna invest in carefully before going in.

[@georgewilson2434]

@Michael, You make it seem unreal to make up to that as a passive income annually,when it’s clearly possible. I have made over 1Hunnid thousand dollars from January till now with no joke game plan. She’s a masterpiece and her name is Christiana.😁

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[@georgewilson2434]

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[@albertpitts417]

This lady right here,I tradr with her she’s inventive and the P.O.T are no jokes, I won’t look awestricken u made mention of her,

[@pantheryolo3348]

WTAF! I'm listening to this and it's like I'm jumping from a "situation" to another with comparisons that had nothing to do with what was said 30 sec ago. Edit: didn't realize it was a bunch of sound bites.

[@orwellhuxley6301]

Lose the background music. It will be more effective in the conveying of JP’s message.

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@avvfd]

What's the music? 🤔

[@rivers3603]

It is not safe to speak. It is even less safe not to speak.

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@arachnipope]

It sounds like " don't cast your pearls before swine."

[@nancyk5203]

At least the first 32 seconds!

[@lotus7516]

Good advice, but ho do I stop talking with my mom? I'm 17 and still live with her.

[@Valentinfj]

Find your Niche.

[@Notmyrealname099]

Can the editor of the video please remove the music from the background?

[@nothing-b2n]

How it is now,,with myself

[@Channy11-z2b]

My extended family doesn't listen to me. I feel disrespected. Recently when 5 of my extended family were at the table, I was interrupted several times. I was overpowered in voice tone and volume by all of them. I stopped talking, walked away and sat at the kitchen island. No one even noticed. I'm tired of being the childhood scapegoat all grown up and not respected. I don't know what to do. Not talking or shutting up doesn't feel like the answer. Any advice is appreciated.

[@OdiaShembo]

Yah values you. That’s all you need. He will fill you and bring those you need.

[@EQOAnostalgia]

As for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.

[@Fauxkerykes]

I'm having this problem with my wife right now. I want to do what's best for my children and family and not have them eat ultra processed foods. All these chemicals and and try to live more naturally and she is pushing back on it says I'm being a conspiracy theorist. Says that processed foods are just too convenient to give up - it's been such a struggle.

[@FlynnRenning-im6yg]

Jordan Peterson doesn't tell you what you should do if a grand total of 0 people value your words.

[@fightthegoodfightoffaithmi8676]

John 8:32 And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. John 10:26 But ye believe not, because ye are not of my sheep, as I said unto you. Hebrews 11:1 Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. 1 John 4:20 If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?

[@rnt45t1]

I have no friends now that I have followed his advice. I have no one in my life.

[@heelayahbahtisrael8438]

I am at peace because I chose myself over having unhealthy relationships. Not an easy choice but it's worth it:) Now I am learning to love myself.

[@markdelgado6984]

Were they not listening to you? Then they were not yiur friends. Do you habe any goals?

[@enaasica9109]

You have yourself in your life, start from there.

[@hillcityninja3155]

What about the people you work with when they switch back and forth between wanting to talk to you especially when they've been around certain people

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@jessicafrost9894]

I’ve learned to pull myself away from those type of people. Because I see it quite often. I don’t worry about giving no explanation. I take their behavior towards me as closure.

[@BoondockMysteriesYT]

I notice I state what I think is truth, then they start arguing. That's the point I should stop talking about that topic with them. But for some reason I feel I have to "make them think" like me...that needs to stop.

[@madison_drew]

I feel like I really like don’t matter

[@sheikadamyousraa2261]

Hi How do you make these kinds of videos, just audios??

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@AmanSS890]

I was telling my cousin to invest in apartment rentals in the long run he will be better of I did it and it worked out for me.he did not listen to me. he just pulled the covers over his head and did not listen. way should i give smart advice to someone that dont want it. I have multiple aparment rentals have 2 other business that give me money and I did not go to colleage he bought a house but him and his wife are asking me for money know.... I just said i invested everything dont have anything. "people only like you when you are on there level as soon as you move up a level they start to resent you.... best thing dont tell people what you are doing.

[@ruthjobs6650]

How to convince some one or get to know if they not ready to listen

[@earnyourmotivation6602]

What if that person is my own mom. Keeps hurting me and stopping me from everything. What should I do then? Please tell me

[@PaperRaines]

Shut her down and/or cut her off. She's a person like anyone else, like you. You and her are equal human beings, the only reason she's hurting you and stopping you is because you're allowing her to. Doesn't mean you stop loving her or she'll stop loving you Also, I don't know you, but you can also ask yourself if you're letting her behave that way because you prefer it. As long as she's behaving the way she is, you have a built in excuse for anything and everything. Maybe it's safer being beneath your mother than standing on your own. Something to think about

[@earnyourmotivation6602]

@@PaperRaines wow I never thought like that. Like this was deep. This is really true

[@footballstrikedaily1518]

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[@mimiapples5994]

I have been saving up to move to the UK for two years now but Everytime I get to my goal some big situation comes up and I end up using all my savings 😥😥

[@adamroth719]

It’s all about our moral intent. Stick to the truth with the intent of your words that project morals that align with the Fruits of the Spirit.