Stormi to Mom: You Weren’t There For Me When I Went to Jail! | Love & Marriage: Huntsville | OWN

Stormi opens up to her mother about not feeling supported after she had to turn herself in to jail… and the conversation snowballs into other instances of friction between the mother-daughter pair. Tune in to Love & Marriage: Huntsville on Saturdays at 8/7c and catch up on the Watch OWN app: bit.ly/2hr1nX2.
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[@latetulip67]

Stormi's mom is the perfect example of: just because you're old, it doesn't make you wise.

[@motivatedwoman3065]

😂😂😂facts

[@catali033]

🎯🎯🎯

[@pamperedgurl]

perfect example!

[@JadeHEALINGYOULLC]

We gotta start accepting people for who they are and stop seeking love/approval from them.

[@nune2429]

👏

[@tgrant6518]

Period this is the truth. Once you do this, the hurt dissipates.

[@truelife974]

That's a mother and daughter relationship. We may not understand it, but it's their relationship. It was actually a win for Stormi because she got what she wanted from her mother, an apology.

[@t.c.5456]

We??? That is between them 🙄

[@iamtinaexeinmyopinion]

💯🎯

[@Thedancingdoc2028]

I’m confused how we got on Mel when your daughter needed you. SMH it’s sad to see

[@nune2429]

Yea Miss Betty started deflecting

[@lady-k1]

CAUSE SHE CRAZY THAT'S Y - ABSOLUTELY CRAY - CRAY!!!💯🎯🤬

[@ashlynjohnson479]

It came up bcuz it was one of Mel fans that cause the whole warrant thing as to why she had to turn herself in

[@moniquewatkins9952]

@@ashlynjohnson479No, Stormi did this to herself by coming for an elderly woman acting ghetto and ignorant when they were at the same event.

[@trease83]

@@ashlynjohnson479lies… that lady is a fan of the show

[@Nayahpooh012]

How did Mel get into this conversation? The jealousy is REAL

[@lsmith1233]

Bettie is insinuating that it was a Mel fan who confronted Stormi at her place of business and that Mel's fans are like a cult meaning they do things like that when she says the word, activate.

[@jasmineferguson7343]

I don’t see what Melody has done to have fans.

[@lsmith1233]

@@jasmineferguson7343 it's because she's pretty and dresses cute. Her fans are easy to impress.

[@officialcherry730]

Deflecting trying to dodge the real problem which is her..

[@stephanyhunter9551]

True

[@GoddessPower777]

It’s crazy how people are genuinely jealous of Melody. Her mother is dark spirited!

[@shayy4280]

So now her mama is blaming Mel for her going to jail?? You have to be kidding me. And Stormi knew her mama was gonna do that. Stormi cant control her own mama but wants Mel to control strangers. I didnt even know Stormi was arrested until this episode.

[@hevel4383]

What, I'm so confused? How Melody has anything to do with Stormie sharing with her mother she is hurt and not feeling supportive. If anyone need an example of deflection, here it is. Stormie, please do not replicate this with your child. Break the cycle!

[@harriettacarrecter3822]

I’m very confused and I totally agree what do Mel has do with her incident. Her mother is jealous of Mel and her own daughter.

[@milliereese6579]

Her mother should be ashamed of herself. She not only blamed it on Mel she also blamed it on when Stormi went to jail at 18. It says a whole lot about her being a mother to Stormi. I just hope Stormi don’t treat her daughter the same. This should definitely be an eye opener for Stormi. Her mother needs therapy to let go of some issues she’s dealing within her.

[@cubbyg23218]

I was confused as well.What Mel had to do with this.She have a lot of hate for Mel

[@QueenSugar72]

Her mom is vicious! No compassion or anything. Smh

[@randihoward1061]

And she STAY gaslighting poor Stormi. I think she's jealous of the younger girlies n it shows!!! Such a shame.

[@ltimore451]

NO COMPASSION AT ALL!!!

[@QueenSugar72]

@randihoward1061 definitely jealous! She telling Stormi to get off the show knowing full well if they extended an invitation to join the cast she'd take it!

[@adrianarnold1239]

The sad thing is I see me and my mama in these in this particular skit and it's sad to hear y'all say the mother is jealous but I've always felt that way about my mom but to say it out loud it makes you feel even worse

[@QueenSugar72]

@@adrianarnold1239 🙏🏾

[@BlackIsBeautiful-qg1lx]

What Mel had to do with Stormi confronting her about their personal relationship as a mom& daughter ??? Wow this is foolishness

[@TAY-TAY249]

Motherless daughters ummmm

[@truelife974]

The conversation was not in its entirety. What I get from it is there's been a bigger discussion between Stormi and her mother way back when before she joined the show.

[@brendaw4401]

That’s what motherless daughters do.

[@tamarabello]

If the mother was so against Stormi being on TV, why was she in the thick of it last season? Don't blame someone else for your foolishness.

[@stephanyhunter9551]

Facts

[@JustmeGB]

So funny her mom says when I get online and bash Mel she should then tell people not to say anything back to me in her defense. 😂 😂 This show has some funny characters on it. It is so entertaining. I pray everyone gets back to being cool and having fun on the show again.

[@msfeefee9980]

Crazy to me! Smdh Btw- I thought she said “attack” her first.

[@shaychauntaye7047]

I thought I was the only one who caught that. Her mama is a hot mess.

[@shawnee0718]

I am left completely confused. Is it that the conversation was edited to cause confusion?😅

[@latoyajibodu5498]

It's even more funny that Ms. Betty said she goes online to bash Mel and . Stormi can't stop her mom from bashing Mel once again, how the heck can Mel stop her fans for bashing the other staff if they can't even control their own family?

[@officialcherry730]

Entitled and delusional

[@nishashawn2021]

She transformed into a little girl seeking mom's love, Stormy handled it well

[@msfeefee9980]

Yes, I agree. Bless her heart.

[@Stebbiejae]

No she did not. She needs to correct her mother.

[@brendaw4401]

@@StebbiejaeExactly.

[@bellalee6927]

A lot of black older women are this way, no emotions very harsh and cannot show vulnerability at all.

[@kayekaye08]

Her mom seems bitter

[@Incogn3gr0e]

I see why she doesn’t wanna be around her mama. & why is Betty messy self still mentioning Melody?? She has nothing to do with this

[@msfeefee9980]

💯💯💯

[@iamaminow]

Her mother wants Mel to protect her while slinging mud. Lady told Mel she don’t like, yet here again blaming her for not being there for her daughter. Stormi wake up. Your mom didn’t want to come.

[@therealistnatural]

Why is every single episode about the melometers?! You mean to tell me y'all got all these folks on the show and everyone’s storyline is about Mels fans?! Meh

[@Pwcbrcd]

The world 🌎 was 😲 shocked because Betty finally admitted that Melody Shari Rodgers made Stormy relevant

[@filmadcamp1512]

Melody couldn't possibly make Stormi relevant when Stormi is more successful and has been more successful before coming on the show.

[@kristee2947]

U made that ishh up. Stormie been that girl!! Mel fans are delusional with a capital D!!

[@FreeSpiritInGod]

She didnt make her relevant but def gave her a platform to grow, so lets not act delulu like the show aint help stormi and everyone else expand.

[@filmadcamp1512]

@@guestone4335 Stormi almost going broke wasn't the point in which she came on the show. By the time she joined the show her business was already thriving due to Tik Tok. She is the richest of everyone and her business has the highest numbers. So how the show pushed her business to the level it's at but not everyone else .... including Mel. Mind you Mel does well for herself but she is NOT pulling in Stormi's numbers.

[@brendaw4401]

@@filmadcamp1512Define success.

[@blessed9499]

Plz don't overlook when betti says, "When I go to attack her" meaning Mel, she activates her fans. So she just admitted that she's been attacking Mel. Mel in her 30's...... This the same woman that was foaming at the mouth on the last reunion

[@scorpiorules3709]

Heard it loud and clear.

[@stephanyhunter9551]

✔️

[@lsmith1233]

Stormie's mother lives in a different state and she is also the caregiver for her 80 year old mother who lives with her. That would explain why she couldn't just drop everything and come running to Alabama.

[@BadGal-2002]

Well some people built different because I would cross the ocean for my child especially when dealing with law enforcement.

[@harriettacarrecter3822]

I don’t think that’s a good reason because she has sister would help her out with the mother but is aways messy with the sister and causing chaos.

[@pamperedgurl]

and thats fine. But tell her "thats what you get" is not helpful. Don't tell me being a caregiver removes all tact and class from a person's brain!

[@officialcherry730]

So why hasn't she been there for her the other times Stormi said that she wasn't available 🤔.. probably had something more important than her daughter to tend to on those occasions as well.. Just a sad excuse..

[@jeanafuller3657]

OMG not her mom again!

[@stephanyhunter9551]

Another Ms wanda

[@HyacinthFremont]

U cannot control people u dont know.u put your self on tv so u have to accept negative &postive fr the public.

[@Traciero]

Whew, her momma makes me feel so sorry for her🤦🏽‍♀️

[@anewmeIn]

Love the way you so careful with protecting yourself . Always put self first after God ❤

[@mrsp2047]

My mother's the same way. I had to draw a line. I love my mother but there is a line. I don't want to continue that generational curse or grow up being that insensitive, so I have to stay on my side of the line so that bad energy won't get on me.

[@rondas7772]

Pray about it, that's how u break generational curses

[@justdevine864]

Some cc take things too far. This went too far. They need to leave ppl and their livelihoods the hell alone.

[@ChristinaJenkins-pk3ty]

For me, Stormi is NOT a Melody replacement. What makes it even more the reason - Her Mother ( I no longer call her Ms. based on behavior) Bette.

[@Nayahpooh012]

Who said she was a Melody replacement?

[@jr5053]

Storming said intimate, private convo with ur mom...in TV...o...k...

[@plovie9376]

Classic narcissistic behavior

[@officialcherry730]

Fact💯💯💯💯💯

[@LadeeCrazee]

Me me me smh she so narcissistic 🙄😲🫣🤔

[@DamilaAyanna]

This was hard to watch. I feel bad for Stormie. Her mother is harsh and doubled down on not being there for her. This has to affect her relationships and may explain a lot. I hope she can get peace with the real possibility that she won’t change. Prayerfully she can manage it.

[@Simplegirl5251]

This show is now trash just canceled it. Nothing makes sense and the new castmates bring nothing to the show. Every time I try to watch it I fall asleep just boring.

[@vrobbee]

Ms. Betty is cold as ice.

[@latoniamiles6682]

I Think She Just Want Mel To Talk To Her.Dammmmm Mel Even Has The Old Broads Shook🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣That's Right Keep Your Foot On Their Necks Gurlllll🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@tameshiagodfrey4173]

Nobody wants to see Stormi every week. The plan for the entire cast to attack Melody & now Melody's fan base is going to get this show cancelled due to low ratings & no storylines from the cast. I can't wait until this farcse comes to a crashing end.

[@rondas7772]

The ratings are high it's not getting cancelled, but I agree, I didn't wanna see stormi every week either

[@rondas7772]

Just stop watching the show if u don't like it

[@FeliciaC-p2k]

We must accept how people feel. Forgive or forget. Let go of feelings that cause us to keep wanting an answer why. That's the past disturbing your peace!

[@SweetLadyM23]

Her mother couldn’t be around my children!!

[@px8778]

I do get where the mum is coning from. Mel has no physical control of fans. But till this day she doesn't tell her fans to allow attacking other cast memebers. Now this lady who approached stormi's warehouse had been a fan from mels circle

[@officialcherry730]

Narc's never make sense of why they're jealous of someone..and will never admit it neither, they just become obsessed with them... She can't think straight worried about Mel..😢

[@jowar8772]

Ms. Van would NEVA!!

[@sonecessary737]

Say it again‼

[@latoniamiles6682]

Facts

[@feliciarowser308]

Mel Mel Mel ! They keep Mel’s name in their mouth !

[@legal_beagle5294]

Just because you have a child and love them doesn't mean you 'like' them. Stormi's mother doesn't 'like' her daughter....she loves her, but doesn't like her!

[@officialcherry730]

Nor does she loves her.. she doesn't even support her.. he daughter is basically begging her to be a mom and she only agreed cause the cameras are there because I'm sure that not Stormi's first time having to express her disappointment for the same exact thing.. that's not how we treat the ppl we love..

[@ms.delll.wilson623]

I am glad to observe a happy ending and apology given. Continue to grow Ladies. Ignore the naysayers.

[@harriettacarrecter3822]

Stormi’ s mother did not really apologize her until kept asking her mother for her to apologize. Betty said she doesn’t apologize to anybody.

[@officialcherry730]

Stormi dam near had to pull her tooth to get her to apologize and admit she dropped the ball..

[@rondas7772]

Ain't nothing worse than a mean mom who takes zero accountability! People who operate like this don't need friends or family

[@starshine7005]

Her momma is old skool. When they say something they mean it. They will never take it back. Momma gives tough love. If you can't listen then you must feel. My mother was the same I knew as hard as she was with me there was love but she showed it in different ways. 💖

[@rondas7772]

Yep

[@GoodGurl50]

Her mother is awful a narcissist and so sick with jealousy of Melody she can’t even hide it because the way she incorporated her into the conversation out of nowhere just screams obsession…I believe she’s also jealous of her daughter too.

[@rondas7772]

That's not a narcissist behavior that's just old school mean Southern black folks

[@kimberlyDAVISMIMS-ds3ur]

What does Mel have to do with the conversation

[@daniellecoleman5120]

That’s what we ALL want to know!!!!

[@stephanyhunter9551]

Good question

[@totf6359]

Very sad… my heart goes out to Stormy. Her mom gives Narc energy

[@officialcherry730]

Def is💯💯💯She can't even pretend to like her daughter without the hate showing..

[@rondas7772]

That's not narcissistic behavior that's old fashioned Southern black folks meaness

[@sheliawilliams-lw2wi]

Mel do not have anything to do with your daughter please stop lying

[@MBCrusin]

Y’all can attack me and I don’t care. Stormi’s mom is right. She shouldn’t have came on reality tv, her business was doing numbers well before the show. Yall just don’t like her mother because she mother doesn’t like Mel🤷🏽‍♀️

[@juanitabryant9065]

Her business definitely took a hit by coming on the show. She was doing just fine without LAMH. She didn't need that platform.

[@truelife974]

That's all her mother is saying. Don't invite in the trash and then cry about the mess.

[@harriettacarrecter3822]

The fact is that Betty is very messy. Stormi chose to be on reality show and Mel doesn’t have anything to does not have anything to do with Stormi choices. Betty didn’t like Mel day one. Betty needs to get her a life. That’s my opinion

[@officialcherry730]

I knew her mom were toxic from the convo Stormi's aunt were trying to have with her and didn't get no where..and Stormi is use to her evil ways and just want her mom to be there for her once in her life and can't even get that😢

[@MBCrusin]

@@harriettacarrecter3822 I agree. I think betty was just hating on Mel but I think people are purposely not hearing what she’s saying, right now in this moment simply because of her problem with Mel

[@thomasinasykes]

Parents from her generation have little compassion and take no responsibility for their actions. They think they are RIGHT! All the time

[@eb4478]

The obsession with Mel from Stormi’s mom is two much

[@nataliesims6733]

Such a Stormy fan!!!

[@danadane561]

The obsession with Mel is unreal. 😂

[@daphney8604]

I feel like the mom is jealous of her daughter.

[@truelife974]

I understand that Stormi and her mother has had a bigger conversation about these things before she joined the cast. It's several things being delt with in this one segment.

[@FairlyWellDarling]

Defecting and shifting energy to Mel instead of showing empathy for your child.

[@angelaross3686]

Here we go again melody

[@scorpiorules3709]

This is a bad acting contrived scene. Stormi used her mother to say what she wanted to say about Melody and the Meters.

[@naphisa340]

There's something about this Stormi I like.

[@theresacormier2666]

These are grown women!! Why not discontinue ur relationship!! Period! Mama’s should stay in her place!!! Mind ur business

[@dhw7786]

This woman has been talking greasy about Mel loooooong before Mel even got her daughter on the show, so she really needs to come up with a different narrative.

[@SL-yi7rv]

Momma knows !!!!

[@ShirleneDodd]

How did u going to jail for something u did become a Mel don't like u convo smh

[@Nrhicks3]

Was Mel a bad friend when you used her to get on the show knowing you were close with Martell's mistress and never revealed it to her?

[@zaydankyle1]

Mel is not supposed to go out and speak about everything people post…. Nobody did it when she was being dogged out! She just kept it moving while the entire cast attacked her for making it

[@catali033]

Mom is toxic. Period.

[@vickijohnson3934]

Please do not give Stormi's messy bad attitide momma ANY TV time.

[@JamieJokesjong]

That’s not who she is

[@tgrant6518]

In my opinion, her mom is not wrong in this situation. Your mom wasn’t the one there with you to cause you to go to jail so woman up. Trouble does follow you when you want to be in the spotlight. I understand wanting support in that situation but you know who your mother is.

[@kimc.5625]

My pastor said he same thing today in his sermon lol

[@abbyem6380]

She sounds just like Momma Joyce 😢

[@taylorduvernay9789]

Baby boomers and their tough love 😢

[@truelife974]

They know nothing else, unfortunately.

[@TheDiaryofDestaney]

Gen X,too! Don't leave them out!

[@relaxwithnature6532]

I don’t think her mother likes her… But why is she continuously going to Jail?

[@ShirleySmith-p3r]

This show has become toxic even Kimmie is messy Mel and Tisha always been messy Tisha is so imature nothing positive a lot of gossiping

[@MrsSkittles916]

Why are you all getting mad at this scripted BS??!! You as the audience is being played by every cast member including Mel. Laugh at this $h!t, it’s entertainment.

[@angeltillman1323]

Stormi momma is a lot I think it angers her that she can’t control stormi so it’s kinda like a get back cause she won’t follow suit with what her momma wants her to do and not do it’s sad her mom is probably very nice but she holds a lot of anger and it shows

[@mirabella2154]

What ? She went to jail ? Why ?

[@harriettacarrecter3822]

Because a lady was stalking Stormi and she can to her warehouse went Stormi curse the lady and the lady taken a warrant out on Stormi for disorderly conduct

[@rondas7772]

Watch the show she discussed the whole episode

[@mirabella2154]

@@rondas7772 No, thanks. I have better things to do.

[@rondas7772]

@@mirabella2154 apparently you don't that's why you asked the question and actually made it a comment post 🙄🙄

[@mirabella2154]

@@rondas7772 Right, Sherlock...

[@LaQueta2011]

Period! And wait til your kids make decisions you told them not to do but want you to save them ONLY! No need for us until what we said was gonna happen DID! Now you made at her! lol

[@dorothyhamilton6327]

Her mana is way pass a hand full..i could not deal with ha.

[@ollitesheema2309]

Hello 👋 ❤

[@nune2429]

👋 happy Sunday

[@brielax4441]

Hey

[@Estrellitawilliams]

Stormi’s mom is only around because Stormi has money

[@officialcherry730]

Fact💯💯💯.. and she secretly wish Stormi were as successful as Mel.. which is why she's so obsessed with Mel and hate her so much..

[@rondas7772]

She loves her daughter, she's just mean spirited

[@Texasbama2]

Wow. She birthed her but she's not a mother

[@W.I.F.E]

I mean if we are repeating a lesson our parent seen us learn the hard way before acting as if not seen before wouldn't be authentic. Some people don't listen and get mad at you because of the outcome. Parenting is not all about kissing boo boos

[@FreeSpiritInGod]

Except for this has nothing to do with what she did in the past. But someone harassing her. Her mother then made it about her getting on television as if it wasn’t a blessing for stormi, just because of the person who helped her get on it. Stormi can’t control her mom, Tisha as well but everyone wants Mel to control her fans it doesnt make sense. I dont see Beyonce telling the beehive to settle when they come for anyone who comes for Beyoncé. Especially when people are watching the show and not just pulling ish out their assets.

[@teeburdtalks]

I can’t stand Mel’s fanbase! These people are a Melocult in my opinion! Yes I have a problem with Mel never saying anything, to her Stan’s about some of their egregious behavior! I can speak my opinion base on what I see on the show.

[@MJ-0007]

A lot do you in the comments are slow. Yes Ms. Betty is wrong but it is important to acknowledge that it was Mel’s fan to cause this distress. Why didn’t Mel come out and ask her fans to stop??

[@latoyajibodu5498]

Like she has the power to tell people to stop doing stuff. These are grown people that watch the show and are fully attached to the show and see what Miss Betty has done to Mel as well as stormy

[@juanitabryant9065]

I agree but Betty should take her own advice. Stop with all the vitriol! She's been dragging Mel, her mom and kids for years on Facebook.

[@lsmith1233]

​@@latoyajibodu5498actually Mel does have the power because some of her fans are mindless and hang on her every word.

[@harriettacarrecter3822]

Mel really can’t control her fans!! Period

[@harriettacarrecter3822]

Mel can’t control her fans.Stormi told her everything she looks up she’s always on facebook. Stormi can’t control her mother and Mel can’t control her fans. Betty is jealous and doesn’t want Stormi and Mel to get close. That’s my opinion

[@RalphLarge]

What she go to jail for?

[@MrsSkittles916]

Why are you all getting mad at this scripted BS??!! You as the audience is being played by every cast member including Mel. Laugh at this $h!t, it’s entertainment.

[@melthegamer_xo]

What did Stormi go to jail for?

[@rondas7772]

Do u watch the show lol lol she discussed it the whole episode

[@bridgetteyoung1930]

Who cares 🫤

[@brownsugarzeze2330]

Her moma trying to live her life through Stormy sad

[@brownsugarzeze2330]

What never gone say I’m sorry sad and pathetic