Story of my 4 Failures at UPSC Prelims and mistakes that beginners must avoid

This is my story where I have traced journey of my 4attempts at UPSC EXAMINATION. A story of rising every time when I hit the rock bottom aspiring to clear this exam one day . There are thousands of stories of successful UPSC aspirants who could make it to the holy pdf of UPSC. But the other side was not given the required attention. Maybe not everyone will be able to relate with my story but those who are on the same boat as me might feel it. I hope this pain helps us realise our Lifegoal and we all may have our happy endings.
For beginners in UPSC journey..they need not fear but just to see what mistakes I committed and they have to avoid it. This story is not to discourage anyone in any manner.
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[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Hlo everyone! I posted this video just 2 days after when the results for UPSC prelims 2024 were declared on 1st of July. It was very disheartening for me and eventually that got reflected in my voice while recording this video. Missing the Prelims on the margin is very heartbreaking and results into low self esteem. But post 1 month of the results I'm here realising one thing that nothing is made to end on a bad note if we rise again and eventually we will end up where we are meant to be whether in civil services or somewhere else. My request to beginners is that do learn something from it if you can but do not let your confidence go down just because someone else could not clear it. And request to warriors who are still in this journey that do not let this failure question your self worth. I've faced low self esteem issues because of these failures without realising that unless you follow a right direction and see this exam no more than just an academic endeavour, you're gonna end up nowhere. I failed because of so many reasons but yes I can definitely say that with each attempt I've seen progress in my personality as well as my knowledge. So, yes here I'm again with the same energy that I started this exam with. Lastly, Thankyou everyone for the suggestions and the much required motivation for me to get up again. 🙏

[@SUPUNGBULYANGCOUNCIL]

Myself is from Arunachal Pradesh and father of upsc cse aspirant who couldn't clear prelims 3 times. This time 2024 she score 105 + in CSAT but couldn't find her name in list. So I understand the pain & situation you are passing through. So, dear beti, don't give up.... try again with more dedications and I am sure that we will find your's and my daughter's name in the final list of UPSC CSE 2025. May God bless you .... & ..... Wish you all the best for 2025 CSE

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Thankyou Sir for your blessings..🙏

[@richapal2152]

Same here

[@ashutoshr.tiwari8051]

Dont give up Sister just give your attempts you have by God's grace hope you will make it. Don't disappoint and I think SSC cgl demands more time for maths, reasoning so it willbe better to go for state pcs like MP,UP,Bihar along with upsc which I can say you have studied since long and have pretty knowledge

[@bhavanijpasme]

Start preparing for next attempt.... Don't give up your dream... definitely you'll get success❤🎉....

[@KailashiRajhans]

You are not 24 you are just 24 and most of the people start giving exam at the age of 24 do not give up now give all the 6 attempts that you have I am sure you are mains ready ek bhi prelims nikla you will be under 200 rank for sure 70 percent of the people clearing prelims have not written a single answer for mains and you have hussled for 3-4 years just believe yourself.Just one tip for prelims-Do research on the pyqs between 1995 to 2024 along with options ncert based research + read india year book(please read it nicely ) these two will take you through prelims do not do over analysis in prelims jaise baaki exam dete ho waise hi do aap isko bhi hoga prelims.

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Hmmm I'll find a way out

[@RAMANKUMAR-lk6eg]

I'm 29 sis and last year i give up on upsc but u are still 24 please go ahead u can clear it.. but now u can prepare it with a job in your hand

[@Epiphany_Sohel]

This time too shall pass ❤

[@aalpha_romeo]

Even this was my second attempt, I also scored around 87 marks. I attempted 95 questions I feel because this year's paper was like state PCS Question and directly 4 options, which made it more factual I feel given the fact this was your 4th attempt , your mains must be prepared and prelims basic foundation is ready. you can prepare with less time, so I think you should focus on CAT, Banking or other exams which will give you job security. And further keep attempting this with full vigour. This year 2023 UPSC AIR 83 is a girl who couldn't clear 6 prelims But in 7th attempt secured 83 rank. 😃😄 , when we look at struggles of others we feel relaxed that our struggles are not as intensive as others. So go out take a break and come with a Bang And talking about attempt sake, Gunjita Agarwal in top 100 rank , 5th attempt and first 4 attempts couldn't clear prelims but in 5th in top 100 So life goes on Mona , do us I would recommend you to go to Vipassana Retreat for 10 days, its free register there and attend the course. You would come out stronger

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

@@aalpha_romeo Thanks for showing me the positive side of it

[@ramanverma6991]

Focus your Aim god bless you 🇮🇳UPSC🇮🇳 best of luck

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Ji bde Bhaiyya 🙏

[@virtualrealistic6242]

It's my 3rd attempt but not in the list despite the efforts that i have made. I am planning to give SSC CGL for Divisional Accountant post where i can get study time. So that i can get secure both financially and mentally. I will prepare UPSC again with fresh and hunger mindset. I have left with 6 attempts more and 8 years. But if you think you're ok financially and with your mental health then you can continue your preparation friend. It's just my suggestion, think 360 degree with both pros and cons and decide wisely. Pradeep AIR 1 cracked UPSC while being Income Tax Inspector (SSC CGL)

[@sidd6192]

It was my 1st attempt but by looking uncertainty of this exam I m thinking to study ssc cgl and upsc simultaneously is it possible ? How's your plan ahead

[@eyeopenerupsc]

Consider state pcs strongly, Hard work is rewarded there as the questions are not dynamic which Upsc has. If you want to keep the dream alive, secure a job in state PCS. Also, sit for NABARD Grade A, the main syllabus closely aligns with the GS3 of UPSC mains.

[@saniya.2905]

i think you should give next attempt in 2026... prepare 1 whole year for mains and next 6-8 months for prelims then give your final attempt. if not able to clear then you can consider giving banking exams which are comparitively easier.

[@exposed1949]

Go for state pcs. The subjects over lapse a lot so clear state pcs and hunt upsc. Never give up.

[@rohitkumarsingh5533]

Being a girl age matters for you i can understand it but dont let society take your decision take your own decision your haedwork will pay you my dear sister

[@rahulk96355]

Sister same here!! This was my third attempt and was scoring around 88-89 in gs and was at borderline line in csat!!! But on 1st july when result came i didn't clear!! What went wrong didnot know 😭 !! But will not loose hope started preparing for pcs prelims hope of clearing it

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

I can understand.

[@ajaygurjar7961]

Many aspirants give up at that stage Don't wary,failure is the part of life but if you clear this exam in your 5th attempt.then you will become an example for aspirants so dedicate a whole year for your dream and don't think about the result give your 💯

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

@@ajaygurjar7961 Thankyou so much for your inspiring words..I wish your words come true..this is the best comment of the day..🙏🤞

[@ajaygurjar7961]

@@Upscmainswithmonavermayour video helpfull for me because i am also an aspirant of upsc cse Thank you 👍

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

​@@ajaygurjar7961Glad that I could help. I'll keep posting more such informating videos

[@crediility]

Oh mental - isse give up nahi kehte , this is practicality , find out a job and then look for this gamble

[@socrates1285]

This was my 3rd attempt scored 90 in OBC category according to drishti still couldn't clear. But i was practical and before my 2nd attempt i had given SSC CGL 2022 which i cleared and now i have a backup and am not too worried about financial conditions and since I've given this much time to this preparation that i do not need to do full time prep and can manage it with a job and if at all there's any issue i can always ask for study leaves I'm not telling you that this is the path for you but this is practical. You are 24-25 now and being a girl you'll soon be seeing marriage proposals if you need the courage to even stand up for yourself then financial freedom is a must. Being from science background the other exams aren't 180° turn for you rather revision of old concepts Understand what you want to do in life UPSC is just one such way. If helping others is your goal then maybe upsc might've enabled you to help 1000 if not Upsc then try helping 100s or even a single person. Upsc cannot and should not ever be the destination. Please don't turn it in to an unhealthy obsession And main bhi yahi hoon fir se acchi taiyyari k sath dono agle saal dete hai. Tb tk thoda time nikal k kuch aur soch logi toh bura nhi maan jaegi exam.

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Right 👍

[@sidd6192]

I want to give ssc cgl along with upsc is it possible?

[@studypoliticalscience4250]

I feel a lot of problems while book reading and essay writing because my English is not so good what should I do please tell me ma'am I will give my 1 attempt in 2025😢😢

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

I'll upload a video soon on how to improve your English through reading newspaper and watching news on youtube..keep visiting the channel for more updates

[@studypoliticalscience4250]

​@@Upscmainswithmonaverma okkk ma'am thankyou

[@paridhisinha6609]

Heyy!! I don't know if you're going to read this or not but yes I completely understand what you're going through and it's absolutely normal to feel this way. Let me tell you the only difference between people who qualify and people who don't is that some people learn from their mistakes while others are pompous enough not to even recognise them. Through this video I saw that you're completely aware of your mistakes and you've put in a lot of time, energy & faith in this examination. So i request you to give one last attempt. DO NOT LEAVE ANY STONE UNTURNED THIS TIME. Do anything and everything possible so that you don't regret it later on in your life. Lastly, God will bless with everything you deserve and worked hard for. Don't lose hope and trust the almighty.❤ All the best ❤

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Thankyou so much Paridhi.. you're very right in your words..I respect your suggestion and will definitely make it this time. 🙏..Mere Mahadev sab thik krenge

[@Ansh-il3hb]

Give yourself some break.. may be a month or two, break means complete break... you will have clarity. After my third attempt i quit upsc, joined a private job, got married, quit job and now i am giving my 5th and last attempt (turning 32). All this while upsc never left me. It will always be your decision. If i was at your place, I would have enrolled in masters and after a gap of an year would have again started preparing for upsc. Regarding marriage, there are so many boys out there who would not mind if their partner decides for preparing and fulfilling their dream. I myself have discussed this with my husband before finalising our arrange marriage. You are so young champ. May be this is not the right time for upsc, or agar still you will presist or 5th attempt me unfortunately same story rehti hai then you know how it will be....risk logi toh fir fauladi bankar lena which you already are! ❤ but if you enroll in masters, or any job... you will definitely learn and explore, go out and horn your skills and then come back to upsc. Alternatively try state pcs eg uppcs exam, pre specially is much doable and you will definitely crack it ... mains likhna fir... abhi toh bht years hai, you are just 24, save your attempts and your mental Peace. Baki its always your choice and your calling. Remember its YOU who is attempting this exam, not this exam attempting you., your peace is most important.

[@itsharry6453]

Dont wry you have state pcs also, don't cry, believe in yourself, you can do it

[@FighterRee]

Hey we are in same boat, but don’t loose ur hope U r gonna Rock it, just don’t leave it at this stage, Failure changes ur perspective, Firstly heel ur self , take a break don’t rush Then cm back stronger U will see ur self in final pdf.

[@aayushmishra-9003]

You should go for a job first that will provide you a financial stability and a peaceful environment for your preparation you have enough time for preparation for upsc but your attempts are limited so in my opinion you should go for a job it doesn't matter how small it is then you can prepare in parallel for upsc

[@yuvrajsingh4498]

Dukh hota, dard hota hain par joh hona hain vahi honga. Jaise kuch log bolte hain ki mujhe 6 attempt lage main chahta hu ya chahti hu ki aapko na lage fir bhi lagte hain. Kyunki again joh hona hain voh honga. Aap jiske liye bane ho vph mil jaayenga in the end. So just keep going

[@dhanvimahajan]

I am 23 year old will turn 24 in November my life story is way different from anybody else i suffered from Lymphadenopathy after my 10th standard and so i had a huge 2 year break so when you were in 1 st year of college i started doing 11 .....in 2023 it was supposed to be my first attempt but i was unprepared and i knew that my attempt will go waste so i dropped unfortunately pressure of marriage started coming and so many different things in life happened i went into depression for 8-9 months ( i had sucidal thoughts ) i was behind compared to everyone with whom i use to sit till 10th ....but my family constantly supported me i took therapies , my mother said ok no marriage till you get success and now i am going to appear for 2025 .....i belong to humble background job security is what i need but still i will be starting at age 24 Aapka video dekhakar laga ki you are quitting at 24 while i will be starting at 24 ....i am way behind 😢

[@Epiphany_Sohel]

Please don't compare yourself with anyone.. Everyone's journey is different.. Everyone follows different paths..Gather yourselves and give your best shot.. I'm sure something positive will be the outcome...

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Do not feel bad about yourself..just pickup yourself and give it your bestest

[@vicharakias7946]

"जब तक अंतिम गेंद न फेक दी जाय,तब तक खेल खत्म नहीं होता।" - MS Dhoni अगर views और sympathy चाहिए तो बात अलग है अन्यथा खुद को बिखरने से बचाने की जिम्मेदारी आप की है। जब तक जिंदगी के गाड़ी का हैंडल आपके हाथ में है तब तक तो लड़ो बाकी देखा जायेगा क्या होगा क्या नही। अब एक भी पल बर्बाद नही होना चाहिए। आपको मौका इसलिए मिला है कि आप कर सकते हो।अब न करिए तो बात अलग है। Sorry for truth...😊😊😊

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

You're somewhat right in your words..time Mila h to use waist nhi Krna chahiye .. Views and sympathy Mera purpose kbhi nhi tha..I just wanted ki jo glti Maine ki usse baki sab seekh skhe..aap video ke description me bhi dekh skte hai ..🙏

[@vicharakias7946]

@@Upscmainswithmonaverma आपके एक एक पल की कीमत कोई नहीं समझ पाएगा।आपको हमारी बात बुरी लग सकती है लेकिन मैंने इसलिए कमेंट कर दिया कि क्या पता हमारा एक कमेंट decision making में काम दे। Job ,marriage and UPSC की तैयारी केवल दूर से देखने में अच्छा लगता है। इसका दर्द केवल फंसने वाला ही जानता है। मैं तो अजनबी हूं लेकिन सच बता दूं कि अभी पढ़ने के अलावा कुछ मत सोचो।ये तो public plateform है ज्यादा कुछ नहीं कह सकता लेकिन इतना जरूर कह दे रहा हूं कि हाथ में हथियार लेकर भी डरना गलत है...

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Thankyou so much sir for your golden words..I got your point. Last line of this comment will really made a difference in my life. Thankyou again. 🙏

[@vicharakias7946]

@@Upscmainswithmonaverma आप 4 attempt दे चुकी हो , कितनी बार अपने revision किया होगा,daily 8-10 घंटे पढ़ा होगा । ये Hard Work कोई नहीं समझेगा। आपने attempt खोया है ज्ञान नही। इस समय आपको भटकाव से बचाकर अपने ऊर्जा को संचित करके सही जगह लगाना है। एक ही attempt काफी है इतिहास बदलने के लिए। कोई ज्यादा problem हो तो मेल कर देना - [e-mail]

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Sure Sir.. Thankyou 🙏

[@piykum7]

Analyze yourself thoroughly, it will help you in deciding your next step.

[@SURAJKUMAR-cz7vw]

Keep fighting sister.you will achieve it.

[@m.h1705]

I will say that try to prepare for exams that have syllabus very close to that of UPSC ( along with studying for UPSC also ). This can help you and save a lot of time , like some State PCS exams or anything that closely aligns with UPSC syllabus . Also see what subjects attract you the most and see if there's any quick way to get job through preparing those subjects like Economics Service Exam which is separately conducted by UPSC you can Google it for further information, but I'll say that don't skip your UPSC CSE preparation also , just analyse all the options that are available to you right now and your priorities and accordingly take a calculated decision . All the best .

[@anirbanbasu8002]

Dear Sister, Prioritize getting a private job as soon as possible, even if it takes 6-12 months. Having your own income boosts confidence and a job provides a new routine, helping to prevent depression. Trust me you will have ample time to prepare for UPSC, as I assume you've already completed 60-80% Mains syllabus. Additionally, from my understanding, the UPSC board may favor a candidate with work experience, even if it's their 5th attempt, over one without a job." Best of Luck

[@deshrajpandey6940]

U can also do ma economics from IGNOU so that you can appear in IES ... Here only you need to work on mathematical economics if your mains are ready...

[@AkhileshSingh-ex8mr]

just become an independent women financially & go with your inner calling as simple as that because i also failed prelims 3 times now & i know how it feels like when you not in the list

[@PiyushKumar-by4sl]

Sister, don't worry. I can feel your pain. I'm also going through this. But aap bdho...kehte h n god help those who help them self. aur haan ssc waigrh rehne do atleast ye attempt aap upsc ko de he skte h

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Right

[@lokeshyadav2365]

Didi mere gs 1 me 95 bn rhe but csta me silly mistake se rh gya but kuch nhi app mains prepare rkho eventually prelins niklega ek dik us din apne ap se ek question puchna kya mera mains taiyar h ......

[@svr6682]

Your failures is almost same as my(4 successive prelims failure)but one thing is i am struggled lot for CSAT in last 3 attempt despite clearing GS but this time becomes reverse i am able to get csat 100+ but GS i got 84 to 86😢😢 I am also completely shattered by seeing this result but what i realised that there is no way to stop here my next steps would be 1 i dont want to give up this .give one extra chance by complete dedication 2 simultaneously preparing other exams by taking aside 2 hours daily for exta topics 3 extra book reading for taking care of mental balance which is becoming more vulnerable by this 4th attempt

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

I can understand..but we have to rise up again just like Sun does it every morning

[@svr6682]

Ray of hope we will clear next time now we have opportunity to strengthen mains preparation we definitely bounce back😊@@Upscmainswithmonaverma

[@craftykitten_777]

Plz sister aap meri baat maaniye … aap state pcs ke liye try kare …jab aapka state pcs me ho jaaye aur job security ho jaaye to aap phir se upsc attempt de diyega. ….I m damn sure u will crack state pcs

[@vaishalinirwal]

I can resonate with you , I too faced same thing 😞

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

@@vaishalinirwal it's okay.. we'll find a way

[@shriommishra4163]

Okay the same story as yourself... Graduated in 2020 given first attempt in 2021 got 43.05 Due to various problems couldn't able to focus on it's preparation Tried some other exam.. Cleared AFCAT, CDS twice.. Couldn't able to make it. Now I'm 26 way worse than you😅... Started preparation for plan B as UPPCS in January and some other state PCS... Applied for civil services as mine 2nd attempt...fortunately in the list scoring around 105 Advice - if you want to continue this journey find your flaws in prelims preparation... Practice as much MCQ as you can ( for static) of other examination conducted by UPSC as well... And most importantly start giving your state PCS.. You are way young.. Once and for all give your best in plan B... You are in dilemma cause of fear.. Overcome it first.. make a plan for future and stick to it.. Questioning and doubting yourself is a part of journey.. I do it much frequently.. Believe in yourself.. Yaha prelims ke baad bhi same hi situation hai logo ke..so keep going.. And again state pcs is not a bad option with UPSC. I had not suggested it as per your age but as you are already in your 5th attempt .. It's necessary from my side if I'm in your situation utilise your acquired knowledge in a field you are much familiar with.

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

All the best for your mains .. Definitely give your best as not everyone gets this opportunity 🙏

[@Kunj1245]

‘Ruk jaana nhi kahin tu haar ke’

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Don't worry I'll regain my strength soon

[@ZavariyaShakeel]

​@@Upscmainswithmonavermame apse kaise baat kr sakti hu mera bhi 4th Tha same 2021 first Tha 2nd me 6 months the 3rd exam pattern change or 4th lag rga Tha ho jayega bt ............... or Mera bhi science background Tha koi guide nhi thi khud se diye 2 attempt 3rd me only ias se Judi

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

You can follow me on instagram and drop me a text there thru msg request..link channel me Diya hai maine

[@RAMANKUMAR-lk6eg]

You can do it with job... find any job please then togetherly prepare for upsc ❤

[@MuzammilKhan-bc1qc]

Be confident.Give your 5th attempt and make your name in the list.In 4th attempt you are just missed by 2 or 3 marks.It is not failure according to positive peoples.

[@kartavyachaturvedi]

Hi, I am a beginner in this journey... just started my preparation this month. This video just popped up in my youtube homepage. It was very unfortunate to know u couldnt make it. But I am sure the knowledge and strength u gathered will bring confidence in your journey. Why dont u give state pcs exam, maybe if u qualify the prelims u can get your confidence back and a new energy will boost your chances of selection. Anyway I am just new in this journey so I dont have any suggestion regarding the preparation. Hope to see your selection in the future videos that's why I am subscribing ur channel. Best of luck❤❤

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

This video is not to discourage anyone as I made this video so that others do not fall into trap..as I have described in video don't sit for attempt unless you're prepared enough. Thanks for your encouraging words..I promise you that you'll definitely see me getting successful in my upcoming videos .

[@gayathri_devi]

Hi. I failed in my third attempt this time. But, I am very happy now. I again started preparing for one more attempt. I also, don't know what's going wrong? Be brave and have some peace. Take a little break and start again. All the best!

[@deshrajpandey6940]

Get a job for your internal upheavals i.e., IBPS, SBI and RBI as you are from economics and csat level match banking reasoning and quantitative aptitude. Also because they provide huge vacancies. And keep on your journey for your dream an IAS officer. As UPSC is a gamble until you are mentioned in the final list. So fetch a job that you can have with ease , one can't be sure about a service which is decided by anyone else like UPSC. Even the toppers in cse can't appear to cse again to even qualify the 1st stage. Having a vast experience and knowledge one can get many jobs after preparation of upsc cse.... So don't be soo small for your self... U already know

[@Indian_artVastu]

Hello my dear friend please don't give up, my situation is also like you because I have complete my 5 attempt but not clear any prelims my score also like yours but i am not thinks for give up . I will fight I will selecte for my dream job

[@Indian_artVastu]

If any prblm we can discuss

[@crediility]

Be practical , dreams don’t make you financially independent

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

You're very right sir ..but sad that I could not realise it 4 years ago

[@vampire-ww3vw]

Mera to 2nd attempt tha age 25 I'm planning multiple exams from now like state pcs, ssc, cat, tissnet ( for mba) ya phir next year ma kar ke ugc jrf ke liye sochuga agar cat me aache percentile aaye to mba kar luha

[@abhishekmalikabhishekmalik3451]

hello dear ,every exam require a different set strategy so i would like to suggest you to stick with your preparation while you can give state pcs , and analyse your preparation you will definitely find mistake and the way also to correct it .

[@ROHITMISHRA-er8jg]

Mere bhi 3 attempt ho gye mera prelims bhi kuch marks se ruka 2024 m mgr me ek baar or pure whi josh se upsc k lie prep. Kr rha hu. Or logo ko kahne do jo bolte h dec. Tk mains padho ap shuru se hi roj 10-40 mcq bhi solve kro or csat bhi 1 hr daily or sath m Mains bhi ready kro .or koi exam mt do last bar kr lo mehnat dam lgakr

[@Ironfist1109]

Dont think of getting into other govt service just focus on mains … prelims kya hai next year nikal hi jayega lekin mains ka tayyar takho ki jab bhi prelims nikle seedha fir final list me naam ho … agar abhi you will think of doing some job than aapki 4 saal ki mehnat pe pani fir jayega abhi ek attempt or do … mere ko ek baat batao dusri job mil jayegi to usse konsa aap ambani ban jaogi and me bata raha hu bahut mushkil ho jata hai job ke sath tayyari karna bas sunne me accha lagta hai me khud janta hu its very tough …. Aapki 4-5 saal ki mehnat pe pani mat ferna dusra job leke sahi bata raha hu …or iski kya guarantee hai dusri job ki tayyari karogi aap wo aapko mil hi jayegi Sab plan B ki baat karte hai are mereko ek baat batao Plan B koi halwa hai kya ki log aapke liye baithe hai ki ye lo plan B plate me saja ke uske liye bhi to aapko din raat 2-3 saal mehnat karni padegi tab jake nokri lagti hai. Plan B wali jobs me already log mehnat kar rhe hai to phle unka selection hoga na baad me apna number aayega logically hai ek dum …. To baat ye hai ki please abhi plan B ka mat socho just focus ok mains yar …. Kya aapka mains tayyar hai optional ready hai are you sure ki mains me 850 aa jayege ….. agar haan to or practice karo agar nahi to prelims me ho bhi jaye to kya fayda Meri baat maano just focus on mains … sab accha hoga

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Right

[@Upscaspirant1899]

Thanks yrrr need this much❤❤

[@adeshwarchaubey6729]

No issue don't consider this much, prepare for mains what be gone by gone thinks only in mains preparation faith of your yourself literally next year you'll see your name every list one more thing don't go for any exam it will help you to boost and consolidate your preparation

[@ankurblue3877]

Dnt worry and not loose hope

[@bishaljha7700]

Same hai humare saath bhi mujha bhi bura laga prelims 2times clear nhi hua age 24 but 2025 i will attempt ....hope you do the same without losing your hope......

[@souravsharma6086]

This was mine also fourth attempt and i also couldnt made it 2021 i graduated in june and in october i gave attempt i had only 26 marks In 2022 in june i gave attempt 95.64 gs 62. Csat 2023 75.14 in gs and 68 in csat 2024 again scoring between 90 96 But still couldnt make Its not a time to cry its time to take decision i am thinking to first go for job security than i will give my rest attempt i have decided to go for ssc for while because jobs are many so good opportunity for job security

[@haryanvi_tau_2024]

You are right bro 👍

[@seemashah579]

I'm also going through the same confusion it was my 3rd attempt in first 2022I scored 50.59 in second 2023 78.27in gs but couldn't qualify csat after that took mmp of edarthi and with help of satyam sir prepared mains and from Jan onwards enrolled in nirvana of edarthi followed satyam sir and revised many times as possible but lastly couldn't qualify prelims again because of my own silly mistake overexcitment, not reading question properly was scoring 85-88 range now have lost moment of studies puzzled whether to go for mba for continue with Upsc people are suggesting to go for state pcs for other exams also now my family has lost hope on me because the exam exam is so uncertain...

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Believing in yourself can be hard, especially when no one else believes in you. Just be proud of who you are ..keep improving on your past wrongs.. things will fall in place soon

[@mdwahidsarwar]

I am 29 , 2 attempt, left job , i am now nothing, failed this year prelims, i am in stress , anxiety and depression now, 😢😢😢

[@Memes_now.]

I am also 24 and haven't made any attempt as I took admission in MBA where I don't get time . Now I feel my Life priority is good life with good salary and not UPSC UPSC is a overhyped stuff and not meant for everyone.

[@exoticindiaa]

Exactly, local politicians will always interfere in your work and blackmail you even when you are corrupt, they will buy Mercedes but you wont be able to buy even a Fortuner. No holidays or vacations, even Income tax inspector is better in my opinion, because he faces no trouble in vacations or in life

[@Soumya0871]

Ma'am...I think you should prepare for State PSC exams as well.... it's just a suggestion 😊...All the best

[@vampire-ww3vw]

Ssc ka form filling start ho gaya hai we only need 1 month prep maximum for it we can try this pre September me hai cat November me our tiss net jan me you can also think about all these as I'm giving all this

[@DREAM_IAS_8128]

Don't give up yaar , try again an attempt along with state pcs and don't touch others exam as like ssc, bank

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Yes buddy.. I'll try to find the way out.

[@chandralekhachakraborty2551]

Even i am facing the same. But y did u suggest to not go for bank or ssc??

[@navneet.]

Go For State PCS. If you're good in aptitude(what's your csat score btw), you can try out SSC CGL along with PCS, this year there are 17k vacancies and its posts are very good. Also subordinate civil services also offer good career option in public service, explore them as per your state, UP has plenty of them.

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Csat I checked from vision ias key..shows me 70.. passages went wrong but in maths and reasoning I performed well..

[@navneet.]

@@Upscmainswithmonaverma oh dear that's not so impressive (but still look at the syllabus of CGL, solve some pyqs and see how it pans out). What about higher studies -- like the Masters, UGC-NET, PhD; route which will take you to teaching profession. See after giving 3 attempts it's important to think practically and look for backup. B eing 24, you're still young to try UPSC for another 2-3 attempts, but you've to ask tough questions to yourself about past 3 years {87 is a commendable score. What about mains prep?} The answer lies within yourself. There should be no shame in looking for alternate career choices.

[@kushidhiman9692]

You must prepare for uppcs prelims on 27 oct and side by side take admission in any professional course like mba, bed.

[@nasirrawte6336]

dnt wry….prepare for state pcs. n not tell anyone n silently prepare for upsc too….and if u need do any teaching jobs part time which can lighen ur burden….but hope is the light in darkness.(jab tk na safal ho sangharsh ka maidan chor mt bhago tm….kuch kiye bina yuhi jai jai kar nhy hoti, koshish krne walo ki kbhi haar nhy hoti.)

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

So true

[@manglamrastogi7023]

Mam I'm in same boat can I talk to you in anyway please.

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

You can comment what you want to know about.

[@manglamrastogi7023]

​@@UpscmainswithmonavermaI don't want to know about i wanted to discuss something can I write you a mail or some telegram thing?

[@himanshudwivedi4548]

I gave 5 pre. And i am one of the serious Student. (This year i didn't gave it). First attempt 2017 - gs 83( cutoff 105) csat cleared. Second attempt 2018- gs 96.6 missed by one marks, csat cleared. Third attempt 2019- missed cutoff by 2 marks in GS csat cleared. Fourth attempt 2022 - gs 118 (cutoff 84) csat failed by 0.03 marks. Fifth attempt 2023 - gs 112 (cutoff 75), csat failed by 1.3 marks. This year 2024 i filled only IFoS - gs 102-105 from various answer keys, was clearing the CSAT this time. But still couldn't find my name in IFoS list. Next year will be my last attempt both age and attempt wise in CSE. What am i doing? Completed MA in history. Presently in third semester of LLB. Learning various languages as part time hobby. Started giving exams of state PCS of various states...wrote 11 mains and gave 3 interviews in various state pcs like rajasthan, haryana, bihar, up etc. i agree i didn't gave my full focus on state pcs due to upsc involvement. But this is what it is. (Can't give and never gave army exams or police exams or even dy sp posts in state PCSs due to height issues.) So best option is to move towards state pcs exams. you'll already be in the same route...there shall not be any deviation except some state questions. You have age which is on your side..even if you give UPPSC and qualify it at your age...you can become DM for 20 years. UPSC is charm i know, but that charm of public service and involvement like DM remains till one remains DM which is usually for 7-8 years...after which they get promoted. Just see the return state pcs is offering you. -Home state. -Preference given to state officers while allocating field postings. -You can remain on field postings for max no. of years. So my suggestion you should also give state PCS. Don't get obliterated from the journey of upsc...next year fill just IFoS form that will train you to be in the cycle of UPSC and current etc which will help you in 2026 5th attempt. I am sure you'll qualify dude... it's just little road block of your journey. All the best dear 👌🙏 Wish you shine in future.😊

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Thankyou for your good wishes Sir.. I'm inspired from your hardwork

[@priyankachauhan3789]

I guess you should give exam focus on mains but you can still prepare for Cgl . you’re 24 I’m 28 given 3 attempts but still couldn’t make to list . You can give 3 months to cgl as it will also overlap with cast to some extent . You’re well read in GS .Focus on math CA and reasoning.

[@Mistyy00001]

Dear Dii..I understand..your situation, the pressure, sbkuch ..being a girl, it's not easy to carry your preparations after many attempts..Pr do you know.. what makes us different?? Our patience,dedication,devotion towards our goals..If we think about something and do dedicately, we achieve it sooner or later..but we achieve...😊 To isiliye, yhi khungi ki..don't you dare to loose your patience..kyuki jb apka selection ho jayega..tb, jo log apko other jobs ki suggestions de rhe h..whi ap k upar proud krenge.. isiliye keep going.. Kyuki- वसुधा का नेता कौन हुआ? भूखण्ड-विजेता कौन हुआ? अतुलित यश क्रेता कौन हुआ? नव-धर्म प्रणेता कौन हुआ? जिसने न कभी आराम किया, विघ्नों में रहकर काम किया। Keep going didu..is baar na shi.. next attempt me pakka apka ho jayega..bs right strategy k saath krte rhiye😊😊 Aor agr zyada pressure ho, to side by side State PSC ka preparation kijiye.. That's it..kyuki..ab, apne upsc domain se hatkr agr ap kuch kroge..to mehnat double se bhi zyada lgega,aor may be manchaha result na aye..kyuki cut throat competition hr jagah h.. To isiliye abhi bs apne UPSC pr concentrate kijiye😊 At the end, itna hi khungi..😊 बढ़कर विपत्तियों पर छा जा, मेरे किशोर! मेरे ताजा! जीवन का रस छन जाने दे, तन को पत्थर बन जाने दे। तू स्वयं तेज भयकारी है, क्या कर सकती चिनगारी है? You can do more than you think.. All the very best Dii!!😊

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Hey thankyou so much for your beautiful and powerful words..😊

[@user-wq1nu3ok1x]

Do master in economics and prepare for NET JRF , you will make it. Along with this give 4-5 hours for UPSC as well on a daily basis. Don't leave UPSC at the same time go for PG and NET JRF as well . If a person with a job can clear UPSC then you can also do it with your college. And the most important thing is that you are not going to start from zero you just have to revise and practice so you can definitely do it. One more thing do you PG with sincerity and it will be very helpful while preparing for NET JRF .

[@namandubey20]

Which persons cleared upsc with job ?

[@user-wq1nu3ok1x]

@@namandubey20 Animesh Pradhan AIR 2 UPSC 2023

[@namandubey20]

@@user-wq1nu3ok1x He did it with gov. job where there are a lot of extraordinary leaves for prep, tell anyone with pvt job.

[@Sonifamilyvlog-o5o]

Age badho bache keep it up👍👍👍

[@maheshmisal7277]

Mam apka csat clear huaa please guide

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

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[@maheshmisal7277]

@@Upscmainswithmonaverma sure mam

[@Officer627]

Di please focus on easy exams now which u can think to clear in next 1-2 years ...bcz your prime target should be to get a job for becoming financially independent...u will be stress free then again u can focus on CSE .

[@crediility]

Find out a job , prepare with it simultaneously

[@Rocky-me8kd]

Upppcs is best options along with it

[@user-svhhh]

Mam this was my first attempt and i am getting 110 in gs but CSAT mein nahi hua...

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Try one more time..next time hojayega

[@MudasirJaveed-gg9wg]

Rise again

[@Shubhamdevdangi]

Can people from general category go to JAMIA RCA?

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Males only SC,ST, Minority and females all categories are allowed.. But you can apply for Hamdard Study Circle..as males also eligible there

[@lonesurvivor6067]

if u filled the uppcs then go for it and crack the exam prelims is in oct and mains in jan mid it help u to be in produtive cycle and try 2000% and crack uppcs then dont give 25 upsc pre enjoy training and prepare for upsc 26 with pcs job . and if not up try any other state mppcs bihar pcs

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Okay thanks

[@StrangeThings_985]

Main khud lga hu agle saal mera 1st attemp hai. Aaiyega maidaan me milke ladte hai , haar mat maniyega main kamzooro ke saath ldai nhi ldta

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Sure

[@shekharsuman303]

Bpsc try kijea, same situation with me😢

[@EnFranc]

I feel ur crying and pain in making the video.

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

When you don't get for long what you aspire for, this situation is normal to be in..as we know.. नित जीवन के संघर्षों से जब टुट चुका हो अंतर्मन, तब सुख के मिले समंदर का रह जाता कोई अर्थ नहीं।

[@mohitchhabra8886]

Mam listen properly first. We dnt knw each other but i tell u one thing plz thyan se sunna u r just 24 yrs not a big thing m 27 yrs old mam nd age doesnt mattrs srsly. U r filled prprly with mains once that gate of prelims u will get very very easily. I neveer commented on any posts ur post is the first one. Ucan talk any tym nd srsly u will get our of this fear of prelims. My best frnd is an ias officer i talked with him about u so dnt worry practice mocks near about 150 thia year Nd listen ur bottle is filled with mains. When u practice mocks ryt then ur cap of bottle gets open nd u just emit mains very very easily sooo srsly age dosnt mattrs just rank mattrs nd hn 5th attempt ma agr AIR 1 aagya dnt frget my msg oka till then bcoz jiska prelims nhi hota baar baar uska jbh hota fir peak pa hi hota hai. ....plz ignore grammqtical mistakes if u feel comfortable can ask anything nd heal urself it is just 24 yrs m 27 yrs bt jbh hoga yrr exam hmara dekhna wewill sail easily. I wrote such a big comment dnt judge me through this okay i felt so i texted just b happy visit relogious placesnd han just practice 150mocks u r very closw yrrrrsrwly

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Nothing to be judged about Mr. Mohit .. you're very right in your words..

[@mohitchhabra8886]

​@@Upscmainswithmonaverma just stay focused again after 5 or 6 yrs sbhne rankhi dekhna hai age nhi koi puchega. So video ko mtt dekho targets bnao or acheive krte jao but make sure mains ho rkha ho. M b december tk mains krunga aftr that pre

[@nehapawara6438]

Apke pas ek attempt hai to dijiye mam....u are derserving candidate ❤

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Thankyou..yes I have attempts

[@rajkumarsaw9706]

Try mhcet law mam it's an easy am exam to crack for you.

[@bhav893]

Mam m to khaunga upsc hi do bs ho jayega❤

[@himachli677]

Hii dear mne kbhi upsc prelims toh nhi diya but ek entrace jrur diya hai mne usse fourth attempt me nikala tha but chorda ni usko uske liye pdta rha finally fr ho gya tha toh apke next atrempt dena chey jrur dena chey all the best 👍💯

[@ankurblue3877]

Dnt divert,focus on UPSC only,one advice try to attempt more questions in prelims

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

I will try my best

[@ankurblue3877]

@@Upscmainswithmonaverma one advice please don't mind, See Full Videos Of "how I cleared prelims 6 times by Shubham Kumar sir on Forum IAS". You will get to know new aspects of solving prelims, available on KZbin

[@ankurblue3877]

@@Upscmainswithmonaverma buy a book by Anudeep Durishetty AIR 1,2017,it will be of immense help,

[@ankurblue3877]

@@Upscmainswithmonaverma I am telling you all these Bcz you are very sincere hard working but without Guidance

[@mohammadnajamudin5790]

I am also given 4 attempts and not clear prelims.

[@RAMANKUMAR-lk6eg]

You are 24 seriously...you have lots of scope and this age is where people start to prepare for this exam...mene diye the attempts 4 aur ab m 29 ka hu lekin mene upsc chhod diya...tum toh bss abhi 24 ki ho..abhi bhut zindagi padi h

[@richapal2152]

I lost hope .... Bt i try again

[@rachnabhukal5648]

Bro, relatives are right don't leave your UPSC Journey. But start giving other exams as well like CGL, CAPF etc. We cannot stick to one exam only. Once you will get a job then you can prepare for UPSC wholeheartedly. And if you have taken CET of Haryana then start preparing 56/57 Group exam like Excise inspector, Patwari etc Don't be sad dear. Failure are part of journey. In the upcoming years you will surely crack UPSC as well.🙂😊💯 Just regain your energy and start takling other exams as well and don't Quit UPSC journey prepare simultaneously. (Its only a mere suggestion from my side ) Have a great journey ahead 🙂😊🤗

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Thankyou.. I'll definitely move ahead.

[@itsharry6453]

Nothing happens, sometime things are not in favour of you because may be it is not in our deatiny, ur are from science background, even if you are not able to made ( that should never happen) but you have a lot avenues prepare from some other exam, it will be lot easy for u, as you have read gs, you have just maths for other competitive exams, that too is easy, why to cry and ary, when you have studied maximun thimgs which come in govt exam

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

I agree with you

[@MilanKumarsahoo-tw3rs]

Same here 😢

[@anubhavchaudhary1081]

Focus on uppcs Exam will be on 27 oct

[@kaifirahman5148]

MA IGNOU SAY kar kar NET/JRF liye try kar sakti ho

[@ik7100]

Waha aagye phd main admission main problem nahi hoti? They prefer regular students,see i am saying ki kyuki i am doing the same.

[@dhanvimahajan]

​@@ik7100plzz let me know if IGNOU is better than regular college or not??

[@maheshkumargurjar1257]

Same here

[@EshikaSingh-j8p]

You should go for online MBA along with that prepare for upsc. Atleast after two year you will get a private job easily. Govt. Job ke chakar kuch nhi hoga .

[@chethankumar6547]

Very sorry.... Why online?..She has enough caliber to get in to IIMs...Even BLACKI.. She is OBC.... She is just 24..

[@EshikaSingh-j8p]

​@@chethankumar6547​ I recommended an online MBA because it doesn't require you to attend classes on campus. Upsc nakalne ke liye time to chahiye hoga.

[@chethankumar6547]

@@EshikaSingh-j8p okay i get it... 👍🏻

[@mkgandhi_killerboy]

lessons noted

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

@@mkgandhi_killerboy Glad that someone understood

[@bhaikhatusham798]

❤❤❤supr

[@bhawanakumari9401]

Just trust god

[@supriyasuman1010]

Mera bhi nhi hua 😢😢mujhe lgta tha ki ho jayeaga 90 ke aas pass the

[@Upscmainswithmonaverma]

Hoga is bar jrur..hum firse koshish krenge