Story Time: Foreign Men Preying on Liberian Women/ Ride Along 📍Caldwell

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Story Time: Foreign Men Preying on Liberian Women/ Ride Along 📍Caldwell
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[@otiskangbaye2425]

Joyce, I am so proud of you and keep on telling stories about guys who taking advantage of our daughters, sisters, cousins,...thanks

[@sayecarrie]

Joy, Thank you for sharing with us the clinic in Caldwell. I love Liberians who are giving back in a great way. Regarding that borgor I am not surprised. A lot of them have a history of preying on Liberian women and using Liberian women as a play thing. Some will allow it because of lack of resources and other's won't tolerate that. As stated, he wont do that nonsense to the women from his ethnicity but will try it with us. He will go through his rude awakening one day.

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Exactly. He never would have disrespected someone's wife from his ethnic. It's sad that in their eyes they have a lowered view of Liberian woman.

[@ladydf7219]

Joy, Thanks for HETA Clinic debut. Proud of our Liberian own-Yata & hubby commitment to their community. Speaking from experience regarding men in Liberia, foreigners or not, some have become so disrespectful to women and have the audacity to think every woman is desperate for a man. Regardless of poverty (Especially amongst women) in our country is no excuse for any man to impose or assume he can get any and every woman, especially when she is married. This is how rape and other crimes can fester in a society. You handled the situation very well. Instead of jumping to conclusions, you let him put the noose on his neck, then you yanked it. Kudos! Continue to be respectful to others because it’s from within, but know when to be assertive and cut out their BS. If possible, block his number because his intentions are not pure. Networking should be a comfort zone. Thanks for sharing and take care👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Aww thanks for understanding. As it was happening, I was so confused. I'm like "you know in married right". I agree with everything you said. And many thanks to Yatta and her hubby! They're doing great work in her community.

[@christoperbazen5912]

Love your channel Joy. Thanks for speaking out about such injustice. He is most likely a racist and he would disrespect any black woman. Thanks for representing African women well. 😊👌

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Thank you for the support!

[@experienceliberia5632]

Thanks for sharing the clinic with us. Proud of you, you handled it well. Those foreigners think it's ok to disrespect us in our own country, very sad. Hopefully this should be a lesson to him. My husband and I enjoyed watching your videos.

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Thank you for the kind words. It was very disheartening. I thought about the women he had taken advantage of based on their economic circumstances.

[@experienceliberia5632]

@@SheSpeaksToo I know right

[@normagibsontv9797]

I believe like you he has tried it several times and gotten away with it. Put his name on blast and lets shame him. That should teach him a lesson. 😀

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Haha my Sis ready for him!

[@normagibsontv9797]

@@SheSpeaksToo , yes oh 😂😂

[@gmatwegbe3770]

Hello Joy I think you handled the situation accordingly, however I personally believe that based on your encounter, these things do happened all the time with our Liberian women. My wife is one who is a go getter and like to handle her own affairs especially when it comes to construction she loves getting involve. This same scenario almost played out but what I did with the foreigner at city builders, I had to check his ass from gate, no chaser! When he called I picked the phone up to put him on notice that Homie don't don't play that shit, excuse my French! Men will be men and the cheating he was trying to do with you he did not expect you to rebuff his advances. He thought you were in need. In the future I would suggest that you have my brother give him a quick call, and ask him if he is in need of medical attention! Also some factors you should look at or consider, he is in a foreign land and he is doing what he probably would normally do if he was back home. They do that with our sisters because it's safer for them to go outside of their own communities because it is safer for them not to get caught. Liberia is a playground for them. Keep in mind I'm not condoning his behavior. I believe in protecting my wife when it comes to things like this. In the beginning she used to say it was jealousy and I don't trust her, but as time went on she got to know that man will take her kindness or her being polite as a green light to proceed with the nonsense. Anyway let me stop here before I say too much.

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Wow, you said a mouthful my brother. But nothing but the truth. This guy did indeed take my politeness for the greenlight for foolishness. Thank you also for protecting your wife.

[@stephaniejonah1479]

I'm glad that people are speaking on this, and your response is just everything! Thank you!

[@juliabee7762]

Thanks for sharing little sis, next time, please block him, those people are used to preying on our poor and needy women. I am so proud of sis Yassa and her husband for such a wonderful work.

[@cece179-p7l]

Joy, you’re an amazing, beautiful, intelligent, loving and caring young lady. Thank you for exposing this idiot. Your husband should have called him and speak to him about his inappropriate messages.

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Thank you so much for your kind words. I appreciate it!

[@musumorris1761]

Sis our people have serious problems, they hit the truth , some people are very crazy in that country

[@askannaj]

It's completely disrespectful! They have no respect! I'm so mad like it was me. 😅

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Girl...I'm telling you.

[@nyemadyeslifestyle]

These men are off the charts!

[@stephaniejonah1479]

I wish I could say all my heart wants on here, but let me summarise: this is the kind of videos that should be going forward but we can just hope Liberians support by sharing this video. First of all whatever he's wealthy" of should never be that high that he should have the right to talk to the women from the country he's surviving in - if you were in/from a European country, he would have been happy to have your number with sincere respect just for the prestige that comes with it but that's a whole different story! They do worse than this: I saw a video from another Liberian KZbinr telling us to buy their appliances when it was ONE Liberian I saw in the company T-shirt, when from the cashier to the tour guy are all from the Middle East!!!! I was paste that nobody could see that but me in the comments. So we the poor people (Liberian) should use our money and buy from them while we're not worthy of working in the store!!! Matter worse, it was a Liberian advertising the store products 😢😒🙄

[@stephaniejonah1479]

*Pissed* instead of *paste*

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Thank you so much for watching and I appreciate it! He did feel he could disrespect me because I wasn't one of his kind.

[@stephaniejonah1479]

@@SheSpeaksToo you're very welcome. My apologies to you and your husband.

[@johnbyrd3553]

Great video as usual Ms Joy. I am trying to visit your country sometime between Jan.and Feb.of next year(Please keep your fingers crossed for me) Your friend- John

[@navystubblefield388]

You are right regarding foreigners positioning themselves to take advantage of our women because of the low level economic status in Liberia. Please also be noted that similar situation like this is very common with men in general. Men do this kind of stuff regardless being a foreigner. When the invitation to take you out was presented, letting him know that your husband was going to be a part of the date, should had been your response. I believe that would had been the way to ease him out without being disrespectful.

[@boogsybrooks]

So him going after a married woman isnt disrespectful? He obviously had zero respect for her marriage and her husband but she is supposed to be polite. You must be some type of clown.

[@darlinkwawood2296]

Yes let’s talk about the clinic please. Don’t blame that Middle Eastern fellow. You have no idea how many married women he has been with. Blame your Lib married sisters.

[@georgetamba2960]

U did the best thing by informing ur husband about ur uncomfortable situation with this middle eastern man

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Thank you!

[@petertarpeh1636]

That guy is crazy!! Too many red flags!

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Yep! I should have been on high alert from the jump.

[@daniell.johnson5225]

Thanks for sharing ☺️

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Thanks for watching!

[@Bibleinformationandhelp]

You must be refferring to a Lebanese man.

[@patricialogan326]

You are awesome my sister ❤️ 😊

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Awww thanks!

[@patricialogan326]

@@SheSpeaksToo I live for your realness 🫠 Can't wait to come LIB and meet you 💗

[@Kalagenesis]

He is lucky I wasn’t there

[@Kalagenesis]

So disrespectful to such a virtuous woman

[@SheSpeaksToo]

I appreciate that 🙏🏽

[@ceanehswen7233]

Some married men are very shameless

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Very!

[@adolphuszuo5811]

You give your number to guy , what do you expect?

[@SheSpeaksToo]

Have you ever heard of a networking event? Have you ever been to one? The whole idea is to exchange numbers with individuals in order to have business opportunities. Your response is ignorant.