STORY TIME: WHY WE DIDN'T VAT 'n SIT |

It's story time! Join us as we discuss why we decided not to move in together before marriage. A term that we, South African's, use - "Vat 'n Sit".
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[@BenittaDanielle]

Honoring each other, honoring our parents, honoring God. Man, you guys are different. I love the content you’ve been serving

[@thatomayongo]

I love that you guys waited 😊 my boyfriend and I live with our parents and we’re waiting til we get married then we’ll live together. We want to honour God and our parents. Thank you for setting such a great example 🤗

[@RegoDise]

The wait is totally worth it 😍👫🏽♥️ May God bless you and your boyfriend 🙏🏽 #RegoDise #FamBam

[@zamambomochadibane7662]

My husband and I also only moved out of our parents' houses for marriage. Granted while we were engaged, we bought a house (closer to the wedding - 3 months to be exact), but neither of us moved in or had our things/items there till we got back from the wedding whatwhats. He went there to pray every now and again, so the energy in the house was right for once we moved in. The biggest ADVANTAGE for me: Exactly what you said, it was a thrill, it was a physical and tangible different between dating and marriage. I saw him in the morning first thing for the first time etc. The biggest DISADVANTAGE : Neither of us had any kind of furniture, so we started on ground zero. Whereas, had we moved out before that, we wouldn't have an immediate empty house. But because I just find a silver lining in everything, we didn't have to blend two different furniture styles I guess 😅🤷🏻‍♀️.

[@RegoDise]

Lol...🥰 It’s actually better to start a fresh with each other and discover a way forward. Building a home together is such a blessing and it’s memories that you two will cherish forever 😍👫🏽♥️🏡 #RegoDise #FamBam

[@paulinakalimbo1190]

"Marriage is a learning curve" I love the saying. Thank you. Love from Namibia

[@RegoDise]

You’re welcome Paulina🙏🏽♥️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@faithdoreen6989]

Thank you for sharing something that is considered now considered “outdated”. My husband and I also never lived together till we got married and it was based on respect for our God, ourselves and our families. One of the best decisions we made in our relationship.

[@deelight7825]

Absolutely loved this! 🥺❤️ #RegoDise #FamBam I'm 20 and I moved out of home at 18 (for Varsity) I'm not planning on moving in with anyone's son until I'm married which kinda worries me sometimes because I'm sooo set on my own way on living! 😂😂 It even becomes a problem when I go home for school holidays 🤦‍♀️

[@nandiphanandiiey3360]

Same age now that I'm about to finish my degree ngase ndsebenze ngk and have my own place

[@ThandazaMK]

Girllllll I been to boarding school and now varsity... this Lockdown is killing my order hhay

[@deelight7825]

@@ThandazaMK I actually left home and went back to my own place! 😂😂 I couldn't stand being home

[@tiyiselabaloyi3837]

My life only I still live with the rents 😂

[@ThandazaMK]

@@deelight7825 Motho ke wena hhayi👏👏👏you helped yourself.

[@naquellechikamba4817]

I am dating while we are both living at our homes.Its not easy at all but thank for the encouragement and inspiration with this video ✨In God’s timing ✨

[@RegoDise]

You’re welcome Naquelle🤗♥️ The wait will be totally worth it 🙏🏽 #RegoDise #FamBam

[@PatriciaSem]

Hey Fambam. Let's take the register 🎈😂😂🤗

[@friedashifotoka6556]

Present

[@muts_lady]

Present 🙋🏾‍♀️

[@RegoDise]

Always present! 🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♂️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@happylifechanneleswatini6676]

I've been waiting for you guys...i love you guys♥️♥️ And i am happy because you include God and the Word in your relationship...i am happy for you guys and may you be happy for the rest of your lives😗😗😗

[@neolerefolo]

You two are mind readers. The woman and I were thinking of moving in together but I think we will wait. 🙏

[@nolimaseko9484]

I love how your relationship started and how you fought to stay together . that's beautiful 😚

[@maatlathupane125]

These two are cute,Christian principles and foundation right there❤️❤️❤️

[@RegoDise]

🙏🏽♥️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@phakamamfolozi2224]

"Marriage is a learning curve". So true. I love u guys♥️

[@Chuma.N]

I’ve been missing this couple bathong!!🥺❤️ive been checking my notifications like craaazy!! ...and y’all are back with the BIG 40🎉🎈🙌🏼💃🏽 congratulations 🍾🎊 Fam, we are groowing!!

[@TadiwaCharlene]

😍😍😍😍😍😍notification gang..liked before i watched

[@omolemomorethe2088]

I live with my parents and my fiance lives alone. Vat n sit was not a decision we would take because we didn't want to be wrong examples to the young people we leading at church. I just can't wait for us to officially be married after this lockdown and live together. I'm sure we will meet those roller-coasters but they worth it.

[@oleinfluencia5302]

I love that ausOmolemo

[@tiyiselabaloyi3837]

Besides what I have been told and African traditions, I made the decision to rather live alone or with my parents until marriage, I feel you can see how the person is via visits. Society now says it's good idea to know your partner to some extent by living with then before marriage what do you think?

[@RegoDise]

The wait will be worth it!😍👫🏽♥️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@RegoDise]

Tiyisela Baloyi Don’l allow society to decorate your way of living. Allow God, our Creator, to direct your life since He knows best and He knows what is good for us. 🙏🏽♥️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@leratoleonette4205]

This is a Godly relationship 😍❤i love you #famBam❤❤

[@MiyelaniRikhotso]

Vat and set is the worst thing u can ever do to urself. I did it, I had reasons but I still wish I never did it.

[@tiyiselabaloyi3837]

This is good to hear, society says it's a need so you know for sure who you marrying, what do you think of that saying?

[@RegoDise]

Thank God that we can always ask for forgiveness and despite the outcomes of our decisions, God still loves us and wants the best for our lives 🙏🏽♥️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@MiyelaniRikhotso]

@@tiyiselabaloyi3837 I'll be honest with u, during our vat n sit, I knew my boyfriend as a boyfriend, nothing more, we struggled with our roles in the house. But as soon as we got married, is then that I began to know my husband, when he started to act n do things like One, without questioning it. There are things that ul never know about a person until u are married n that's just that. No need to vat n sit.

[@tiyiselabaloyi3837]

@@MiyelaniRikhotso Thank you for this, I guess it is true when they say you can never be fully prepared for something. I guess its about if you are meant to be, and VAT n sit isny needed to prove that unless you actually want it

[@thamithelifeof4846]

Hey FamBam ❤️ Thanks for the video!!! I moved out of home at 17 to go to uni (where I lived alone because I'm also an independent first born lol) and going home for vac wasn't an issue because I maintained the standards I was taught growing up. At 22, I'm still living alone (abroad) and I'm worried that someone's son will have a tough time with me one day cause I really like my space and I'm so set in my ways 🙈

[@ramolwetsinkoana9355]

You guys are just amazing, learning so much from your channel.God bless you

[@desirekamya7621]

You guys are an inspiration of perfect love 🧡

[@gomolemorammile3658]

I love this ,I am growing within the love scenery the more I watch your videos🌻💕👐

[@peacefulngcobo4117]

I'm so in love with you guys,just your ways of thinking and doing things. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@akuagawe1480]

I always thought my boyfriend had excuses... but wow guys, I really get now.. thank you for this.. love you you two❤

[@neomabuya5005]

I’d actually like to know more about the holiday situation 🙈

[@kgomotsohlaka7755]

Thank you!!!

[@mantshankoana5831]

Even me lol

[@mandisasiphesihledlamini2531]

So do i

[@RegoDise]

Lol... 🥰 You and many others!🙈 #RegoDise #FamBam

[@nikitamnisi7737]

What an amazing video FamBam! I enjoyed it very much, thank you for sharing your experience. You two are just so cute and beautiful together. I would also like to experience the joy of leaving at home and only move out when I get married. Much love❤❤❤❤❤ #FamBam #RegoDise

[@masmodiba]

I love your videos! You guys are beautiful 😭😭❤❤ Were you celibate till marriage? If so, could you guys do a video for young couples who are celibate but know it's going to take a few years before they get married?

[@refiloem9055]

We’re growing 40K❤️❤️

[@RegoDise]

Praise God 🙏🏽♥️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@friedashifotoka6556]

The wait is finally over and my popcorn is ready

[@OscarineMlisana]

I like what you guys did to continue staying with your parents, that's shows respect to you and your parents I am a parent I really know what you are talking about commenting from London

[@thepa_1622]

Tons of love for you guys,keep feeding us with the nice stories.Tell us more about ur hotel situation maybe?and I'd love to see Rego without makeup just once please.. #Regodise

[@lethaboprincess2676]

The way you guys look at each other 😢❤❤ Im with you guys on this one. 💯 But yes our experiences are not the same . It should be like that. I wish it be like tht

[@rethabilekhatlake8035]

I have had debates about the idea of Vat'n Sit and why I don't necessarily support it and finally there are people I can relate to in terms of this concept 😭😭Thank you for sharing this guys 😌

[@nolofatsotshwene7533]

You are really a couple of a different calibre! 🥺🥺😭❤️❤️ I love y'all.

[@RegoDise]

All glory to God 🙏🏽♥️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@funekatyawa93]

RegoDise

[@melaninpoppies5709]

Loved this video. As always, completely transparent. 🙏🏾👏🏽👏🏽How did you two get back on the path of abstinence? How did Dise deal with it? And how did you guys stay focused as a couple?

[@BenittaDanielle]

Man, I’ve been thinking about this a lot. This video could not have some at a better time.

[@RegoDise]

🙏🏽♥️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@preciousbmadikwane1389]

First time subscriber💃,,, I'm glad I found this channel

[@RegoDise]

Welcome to our channel Precious!🤗♥️ We hope you will enjoy our content! 💃🏽🕺🏽🎉 #RegoDise #FamBam

[@oratilechaoka3859]

Notification gang! My favourite people😍

[@tselanemolokoli3670]

Notification gang I thought I missed a video tjo😭😭 #fambam 😘😘😘

[@everythinglesso192]

I can relate😂 the holiday situation!😀my partner and I are waiting for marriage. And we do travel whenever we can!...quiet interesting I must say!

[@mrsgalimagura9172]

I like that you guys mentioned respect. Most people don't even consider that but their feeling before thinking about how also families differ in the mist of respectting family and yourselves as a couple. And..... a live too please in between the vlogs so that we can interact

[@PatriciaSem]

Okay Fambam, the normal me likes and takes the register even before watching the video 😂😂 Anyway, I love, I love old school love. I'd also like to mention that I'm 22😂. But I feel waiting is best way to do it, it's so rare to find girls and boys that would prefer to stay at home, everyone wants to go and rent and for most of them it's for wrong reasons. Wanting freedom to bring over whomever you want, you know to do the things. Not that it's a terrible thing but there are so many principles lost in this "freedom" we are seeking. Dise please teach these young men how things are done 😑

[@RegoDise]

Waiting for marriage is definitely best. It’s not easy but it’s worthwhile 🥰 Dise should seriously consider sharing some tips!🙈 #RegoDise #FamBam

[@lettiemayisela6303]

M just smiling alone now, kana you guys smiles are so lovely ijo.. Have never done vat n sit too, my hubby will be the first too.

[@lesegomalakalaka4914]

Notification gang✅❤️we missed you guys,been a while.

[@monicatunga4590]

Have been checking and checking ,finally 💃🏻💃🏻

[@RegoDise]

🥰🥰🥰 #RegoDise #FamBam

[@etherl.chakopo]

Your love for each other is amazing. .

[@lwazithw]

Thank you RegoDise for sharing on this topic from a Christian perspective. ❤️

[@tiisetsothato9082]

Our own Ciara and Russell and DeVon and Megan.

[@kalukimutua582]

Much love from kenya ❤️I see you and see God's hand

[@philisiwedikane4120]

My favorite notification 🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️

[@alifewithhope6175]

The moment you said ' you family ' I felt the love from you guys. U warm personalities are so beautiful. God bless, bless, bless you two❤😭

[@RegoDise]

You’re definitely family Queen 🤗♥️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@phindilebosieloa911]

Regodise... Thank you very much for this interesting content, Thank you for respecting your parents and your culture by doing things the right way ,I am humbled by your responsible decision about your future, your children will be fortunate to be raised by beautiful grounded, principled parents. Thank you once more for respecting God, Christianity,and culture. Your parents are very proud of you. Surely the young generation is looking up to you. By the way I always enjoy watching you when you are interacting, I see Love and total Bliss. Stay blessed Rego & Dise... 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@luckymashiloane3877]

Last to comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣......Vat&sets are complicated hey, the right way Is the way to go.

[@JuliaNkota]

Y'all are so special 💗

[@SpheshylMbatha]

#FamBam we're here 💃🏽🔥

[@napsadinaps5518]

Honeng I missed Ya'll 😭❤️❤️

[@NomfundoMbatha]

Moved out from home at 25. Same town and all but I needed my space.

[@palesankondlo1395]

I really want to move out for that independency that Rego is talking about out, but I actually also love Dise’s perspective of having to take a woman from their parents home to get married

[@JustCaraDube]

Shortest video 🙏we need more of these

[@thivhafunimuthelo2461]

You guys are speaking my language so I've just subscribed 👍💃

[@skhulileubisi4677]

i love the honesty in this video

[@RegoDise]

Thank you Skhulile 🤗♥️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@SABIE_BELL]

Yayyy you guys have been missed

[@zusiphezuma1341]

I'm here too💃💃💃💃💃💃😍😍😍😍😍❤❤❤❤❤ lemme listen and learn something new

[@khamisaisha739]

As always 💙💙💙much love from Kenya 💕💕💕💥💙

[@cynthiacruz6234]

Good choice love you all ❤️♥️💜💚💛🧡

[@temabheleshabangu1554]

Notification Gangggg!!!!

[@noluntumabindla6244]

Yhoo I love you guys I enjoy everymoment to watch your video's you are so prety cute you look like twins may god continue to bless&protect you all the way

[@kojang_t18]

Thank you!❤️

[@neomabuya5005]

🥺😍you’re such gone people for each other😍😍

[@karabomaputla]

I’m currently staying with my sister and his stay on his own❤️

[@elizabethlizzy6764]

Nice one my best couple😍

[@Saucesity]

Good morals am learning a lot from you guys

[@rufaropraise1362]

I agree with you two. I only stay with my boyfriend when I visit him and I don’t allow it to exceed a week because we are in a long distance relationship even if I’m in SA for a longer time😂. I feel the disadvantages outweigh the advantages of it.

[@ngidohlelo9708]

Notification gang❤️❤️

[@annakapiye9678]

favorite couple ,i really learned a lot 😍

[@ThandazaMK]

The pillows😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏👏uyezwa nah future babasekhaya? Pillowssssss😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@gugu5557]

Iv been waiting for a video😭😭

[@loriamakhubele5404]

I'm just here to learn Man, and honey I'm learning🤗

[@RegoDise]

All glory to God 🙌🏽♥️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@nompumelelobokamoso3540]

Sorry I’m late🥺🥺.. data struggles.. but I’m here🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️..wouldn’t miss it for the world 🥰🥰

[@faithmudzingiri9812]

Yeah i am the first to comment❤️❤️❤️ hi guys

[@hlalelemaleshoaneselina2244]

My favorite people❤❤❤

[@tiyiselabaloyi3837]

I dont see ads, I watched the Whole video online

[@tsholofelo_m1]

#Regodise next ke kopa live. Gai 1 fela thle. KEA KOPA

[@RegoDise]

Hmmm...🤔🥰💕 #RegoDise #FamBam

[@mandisamyende5014]

For me I don’t even have a choice even if I wanted to I’m in Durban his in Cape Town😒😒 so it’s a matter of waiting to get married then we will get to be together all the time.

[@miss.n6582]

....because we believe you Dise “ahem” re kgopela go bona you cooking your fav meal without any help. Rego wena shapa 4 dear and wait to be served. I’ll pray for your tummy in the meanwhile:) Ps : patiently waiting for that testimony.

[@MissElla26]

Dise: I can cook rice, I can cook pap, I can make steak, I can make anything... Rego: I am yet to see this🤔 Dise: I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me! You guys kill me 😂❤😂 Thank you for this video! I've been feeling kinda insecure about being still living at home and how things will be when I get married. But now I see its a *positive* thing cz I know how to run a household, house maintenance along with taking care of my baby girl. The Godly, respectful way is good❤ Thanks for your fresh perspective & honesty guys!

[@tsheplodlamini7311]

I am always a late comer tlheng 🙈😢.... Love the topic ❤️but i love u guys more 😚💖

[@pearlmlangeni4311]

When Dise said "You have to understand their sleeping habits..." 🤣🤣😂😂😂

[@ginaashimosi6133]

We love you Fambam from Kenya❤

[@dahlia-florachidimuro2701]

I Comment before i watch kkkk

[@orefileblessedmaragelo5942]

Hi fam bam, Please do a challenge of modise cooking 😂😂❤️

[@tshegofatsomodisane6428]

@RegoDise.. Parents at times wish their kids marriage mar ere fela "katla bae o kamontle..." you are considered disrespectful or even denied permission at times (due to having strict parents, This happened a lot to my cousin when we were growing up, our Mamogolo was heish soo anti boys😅) How does one balance respecting folks still staying at home and on the same breath being allowed to date and i guess avoiding telling lies whenever wanting to visit their boyfriends or even girlfriend? .. Most of my female friends speak of being soo scared of having the 'adult' conversation with their parents about boys, i guess this is how some people end up in vat n sit situations whenever they move of home for varsity or whatever reason.. We need to normalise these convos with our families stru!

[@baaromantwaetsile1122]

Notification💪

[@vhonanimatodzi3966]

My favourite couple on KZbin 😍😍😘😘

[@nolimaseko9484]

I've done the vat n sit thing and I ended having to take care of everything and the guy would literally do nothing. unless he was wrong or did something wrong. I wish I never did it thought coz it took a lot to adjust to living alone again after the break up

[@RegoDise]

Now that really hurts...😔 Well all we can do is live and learn. Now that we know better, we can make wiser decisions next time. 🙏🏽♥️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@dorcasziwa5276]

Dise: Do you wanna sing for FamBam Rego: No Me: 😭😭😭 I still love you Rego 🥰🥰 But Y'all still owe us a song we have not forgotten 🤣🤣🤣

[@RegoDise]

Hahaha...😂🤣 It’s coming!🥰 #RegoDise #FamBam

[@wandiswahlabe]

@Regodise please tell us your wedding story, how God provided after Dise lost his job.

[@RegoDise]

Oh what a testimony that is!🥺🙏🏽 We will share it some day. ♥️ #RegoDise #FamBam

[@wandiswahlabe]

@@RegoDise God bless! Can't wait😊

[@dimakatsosenne1164]

@@RegoDise can't wait as well

[@lungilebuthelezi4957]

Mhh can't wait

[@nothandomakhanya7517]

Cant wait

[@noluntumabindla6244]

Am from Tsolo in Eastern cape

[@smartandmarried9373]

One of our favorite topics 🙊. Hey fam Bam, we can’t wait to hear your views on this

[@nonhlahlapreciousmatamela9231]

Im literally going through previous videos😔i miss you ReGoDise😔😔 #FAMBAM

[@RegoDise]

Ahw...🥺💐💕 We’ll be back very soon!🙏🏽♥️ #RegoDise

[@ethelgware7156]

I miss you .my inspiration people I love you guys

[@RegoDise]

We missed you too! 🥺💕 #RegoDise #FamBam