StoryTime: Finding Out My Husband Told His Side Chick I was Barren

[@noziphothusi529]

If you don't know what it's like to go through something similar you'll assume she talks about because she misses him. This is part of her healing. I went through an almost similar experience and all I wanted to do was talk about it, it was a part of my healing. I had to allow myself go through it, feel every emotion, every chest pain, vent about it to people I trusted, their responses gave me comfort. Now I'm okay I barely even talk about what happened let alone mention his name.

[@Laughs_and_Harmony]

💯 you are right. Talking and sharing your experiences help.

[@OwamieEntertainment]

Soon i will be with a new man and I don’t wanna talk about the past, this is my opportunity to let it all out and i am♥️

[@MissTinky_OG]

You are right Nozipho

[@noziphothusi529]

@@OwamieEntertainment exactly, we don't talk about exes with our new partners.

[@Magcuda]

I love so much Owami ! ❤️

[@primmycooks884]

Hi Ninja. You are not going to believe this. I stay in Swakopmund Namibia and i was listening to this(without earphones 🎧 ) whilst taking a walk. 1 old lady passed me and i tried to keep up with her because i normally walk slowly, i dont have a big pace. So i guess she was also listening 👂 now. All the way until the video ended. Then she stopped and asked me, what was that story you were listening to, i then told her its one girl who is a KZbinr and she is going through a divorce. Oohh u should have seen the hurt on her face. She was like mmhh ive been listening, she is going through a lot but God is going to bless so much. And she took you name and said she is going to subscribe. Its only that she didnt have her phone with. You are touching a lot of hearts Ninja.

[@OwamieEntertainment]

😭😭😭😭😭

[@Bahrain-kv7uk]

😫😭😩🥺this!🙏🏽

[@ndilimekeitembu6904]

I'm also watching from Namibia😆

[@valenciam125]

South Africa is blessed to have Namibia as a neighbour. There's always something positive from Namibians. God bless you❤️❤️❤️

[@lucillajenny7456]

Proud Namibian too 💯❤️

[@NaomiShapumba]

I was trying for 2 years , in those two years we had 2 miscarriages. Then there were people telling me that I won’t fall pregnant easily cause my period pains are massive. 2years later I’m a mom to a baby boy. God’s timing and God’s plan sthandwa sam.

[@Naomi-qv2wc]

congratulations mamma❤️

[@NaomiShapumba]

@@Naomi-qv2wc Thank you so much sis 🙏🏾💕

[@NaomiShapumba]

@Msfriyay's Channel♥️ Hey sis, thank you 💕🌼

[@thandekamdlovu5212]

Praise The Lord

[@NaomiShapumba]

@@thandekamdlovu5212 Amen sis 🙌🏾

[@pm1647]

Keep milking this story cause wow 😂 if he making the divorce difficult get your money girl

[@finance-talk]

I said the same thing ey

[@carolmalesa6791]

I love the way you unconditionally loved your husband. That kind of love is rare. I pray that God send someone who can love you with the same energy 🙏💕

[@leefortunate5764]

My mom had me at 40 years, don’t let society pressure you

[@aarongunnz9513]

My wife is 41 and we are trying

[@jud.asecariot]

I have personally grown to love you. You are an amazing strong woman who went through a lot and yet you remain standing.

[@justtrendingnews5754]

I personally love this kind of content. So candid and so true.

[@simphiwer8970]

Owami must write a book or movie script. She's sitting on gold.

[@AutoReview_By_Fundy]

The sound, the lighting, the visuals💯💯💯😍

[@sibongileperish8515]

Beautiful

[@ahviwe]

I’m enjoying these storytimes so much. Forget the entertainment gossip. Let’s do story times full time 🤣🤣🤣

[@wendithwala]

I totally agree with you, azikhale akuze more story times 😉

[@ahviwe]

@@wendithwala yayivah!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 singo nondaba

[@wendithwala]

Lalela mtase,, umgosi wama celeb sowubamba ngamanqampunqampu emzini yabantu but la ekhaya sicela the unfiltered stories that hasn't been told by anyone b4 plus we are learning life lessons from these stories.

[@blackwoman_015]

Lol and looking at the views these story times are doing well !

[@mujecutie5235]

Ninja u are not barren God did not let you have a bby with Mr B because he knew your future was bigger and brighter. Mr B was just for you to become stronger and wiser for your future hubby. God saved you shibubu!Amen

[@rea9085]

Amen

[@Lynnh_trades]

It can never be said you didn’t try Owamie .. you loved that man with every fibre of your being and did so proudly and unapologetically . And I knw someone somewhere will come along and wipe your tears and appreciate the wonderful woman you are . 🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@matladimahlatse4808]

I pray you get a better man that loves you the way you deserve to be loved❤️

[@jozimashego1699]

My wish too lala💐🤞

[@tshebeletsorose1523]

The quality in this video😭😭❤🌻

[@spilleddiaries]

I love you for your honesty and transparency, Sis Owamie👌🏾🤎

[@naledindlovu976]

I don't even want to lie and say I'm here for learning anything...I'm here to listen to izindaba wethu...healing looks different for all of us ...do you Owamie 💕

[@andilengubane5178]

This guy was low-key resentful and hating on you, because of his own insecurities, he is still very upset that you got away, he was not done hurting you. Hence the dragging of the divorce.

[@thandekamdlovu5212]

Eish

[@motso-talks8002]

He was hating her big time and still does...

[@thembiecele1397]

Injalo nje kodwa kuzokubuya ngaye ngenye imini..

[@emiliapaulusspeaks]

I like how you own your story. For me, that's the beginning of healing. All is well with you ❤️

[@ncebakazitshangela1032]

Yesssssss!

[@LifeWithPiwe]

Ninja. Your miracle is going to happen. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us! we are learning from you sis

[@sabamakedah7910]

Every woman he cheated with. Actually fell for you not him. He was able to fund them with your money. You kept him afloat and he got big headed. I was in the same situation and I have pcos. Moghel fell pregnant and she thought she won. When I left the funds left. Lord if you can see her now. Ke sono.

[@logane_yourstruly]

The girl what she deserved

[@mimiminizer3538]

I also have pcos and that doesn't stop you to have a baby

[@sabamakedah7910]

@@mimiminizer3538 that gives me so much hope. It's just harder cause I can't track my period.

[@Moyawethu.]

@@sabamakedah7910 sometimes God and our ancestors block us from having children with men like this. See your gynae change diet exercise phuza amanzi enjoy your life just be happy. The rest is in God's hands

[@sabamakedah7910]

@@Moyawethu. I believe you!!! I would have been miserable if I had a child with that man. And he was going to he in my life forever. I dodged a bullet

[@mphomuthelo8717]

The Bible directly tells us that no matter what our plans, the Lord's plan is what will come to fruition. I guess God knew that you will divorce and He didn't want you to have a child with Mr B.. Stay blessed ninja😘

[@queenm5394]

Totally agree.

[@Mimik70-w3t]

The same Bible in 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 👇👇 "To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife."

[@bongiwemashiyane5056]

@@Mimik70-w3t Haibo it also does say ungahlobongi(cheat). Furthermore, it also says that divorce must be a result of infidelity and in this case it is

[@Mimik70-w3t]

@@bongiwemashiyane5056 it also teaches us to forgive one another. The man was remorseful and confessed and accepted his mistakes. Forgiveness simply means trying to stay positive and not allowing the offender's actions to bring you down. It i's a process. ... It's okay to take time to forgive a person after a divorce. Forgiveness is based on your attitude, not on the actions of others.

[@stephaniegati1051]

Plot twist: Owamie gets a new boyfriend and she actually gets pregnant but the ex still struggles to get kids meaning he IS the problem. That’s the best karma 🤣🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@blossom6235]

Imagine that Karma.

[@Leira6267]

I think the karma for him is already happening. Meanwhile Owamie is content & thriving. That is why he is not giving her the divorce papers.

[@Theincredibleme-98]

Like Anne Kansime😂😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@stephaniegati1051]

@@Theincredibleme-98 😂😂😂😂😂😂 she won 10-0

[@stephaniegati1051]

@@Leira6267 true. He’s holding on to them to feel he still has some power

[@sisichilli4835]

I love how you can look back and laugh.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Eunice139]

My mom had me when she was 42, God's timing is always the best🙏

[@criticallyspeaking]

I'm here for the personal videos. Keep them coming 😊

[@Chue_Misa]

Your videos are on point😍. You're deserving of everything great coming your way. Stay strong!

[@ncebakazitshangela1032]

" I wanted her to know that he chooses me then I dump him" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 love it!

[@Wyntah888]

I once did the exact same thing🤣🎈

[@foxi_likhona]

“You’re going to dump her now”🤡🤡🤡😂😂 I love these story times owamie🤣🤣🤣 we need more of them sis

[@naumiyomi15]

Ok ninja, I am by now going to ask you to do one of the stories while doing your make up hle. Always, always on point and you know your skin tone so well ✌♥️👌🥰

[@KayNaude]

So many women are struggling with fibroids, endometriosis and Pcos. Please ladies make sure you go to the gynaecologist if you suspect something is wrong.

[@ntokotom147]

I'm glad you're now laughing about it. Your healing has come. You'll meet your soulmate soon, you deserve nothing but love❤️❤️

[@ladye1253]

It takes “ balls of steel “ to be so candid and authentic. You know it’s of outmost importance To be real as people, these are real loves, real people with real challenges. God bless you Owami

[@fitnessfoodlifestyle157]

We saw the love you showed to this man. It was all on our screens. He cannot fault you Queen. His loss

[@lululala6911]

Umuhle okusalayo 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😍😍😍😍😍😍these days you killing it

[@nyikominaj2127]

She's pretty

[@lethabomotha9314]

My mom had me at 35 so ninja there’s nothing wrong with you. I pray that god blesses you with a loving and caring husband🥺✨

[@Eunice139]

Mine had me at 42🥺

[@queenzee520]

Had my son this year at 36...so have faith🙏

[@rememberrambuda2034]

Even God is in support of divorcing a husband who cheats. I don't know why people will wanna make anyone feel bad for leaving or label you as weak for not trying to fix it.

[@nduh2232]

Not Owamie disturbing my movie time, now I have to pause my movie and watch this bcos i won't be able to focus on the movie knowing Owamie has a video on😂

[@OwamieEntertainment]

😂😂😂

[@sanemshazi7000]

It happens hey 😂😂😂

[@tshiamomahape292]

Somethings can make u so toxic, a lot of women are so bitter especially married women because of men who have not grown

[@portiaphiri2682]

... At that timey friend's girlfriend acted bitter on my about her boyfriend 😂 married as I am, I managed to calm her doen instead of acting like all unmarrieds that claim that all married women are bitter 😷 Anyhoo... Rest Portia Phiri - Rest 😁

[@sontomtolo473]

Umuhlenike lapho🔥🔥🔥Keep em comin'. I personally enjoy them a lot!

[@jeanittengobilap9550]

Sis, your story is inspirational and thank you so much for your courage. Lesson for the rest of us, don’t marry down👎🏿

[@isabelherold8857]

So true, the guy just grows to resent you

[@nancygara7390]

husbands are so quick to blame the wife for not having a child before consulting the doctors, so sad that even your mother in law was quick to blame you Ninja

[@nobahlemjongozi1127]

“The one that fries the meat”😂😂 I love you so much ninja♥️

[@NaomiShapumba]

You are such an amazing woman ninja , such an inspiration. You are leveling and I love it 😻

[@ntandomdletshe]

Wow I always thought you had chosen not to have kids. Thanks for sharing queen ninja ❤❤. I love personal stories.

[@athi_G]

first of all, you look all sorts of amazing 🥰🥰🥰. Secondly, I will never ever miss a story time from you. You are such a great storyteller. Thirdly, God's timing is and will forever be perfect. Lastly, may the good Lord continue blessing you, adeke itafula in front of your enemies. You are loved ❤❤❤

[@nzeleomari419]

Can’t wait for the day you pull a Jeannie Mai on this man. 😌😊

[@LiveEnt_SZ]

Yasss

[@phiwemanzi9583]

They tell their side chicks everything 😭!!

[@OwamieEntertainment]

This is not funny but funny 😂😂😂😂

[@Being_Ray]

They honestly tell all their business, even before they cheat they use their wife’s “inabilities” against her by spreading gossip, family members / side chicks …it doesn’t matter …a man who cheats is not loyal and can’t protect his wife.

[@ntandoyenkosidube9702]

They don't understand that a man who undermines his wife also undermines himself as a man. Your wife is a reflection of you

[@sibongilemngomezulu3454]

That is why I find a man who talks ill about his ex a turn off,cause honestly it takes two to tango.

[@nelzg5819]

EVERYTHING. they will even talk about your silver stripes and cellulite. Amadoda😐😐😐

[@NangulaUahengo90s]

Yoh 😭😭😭 that face beat nkosi yam🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️ .. I’m so sorry you are going through so much love.. sending you love and light 💕

[@proxlee]

You have gone through it I am am learning alot. But I remember you where a little hard on Lerato one time. It also teaches us to be humble and good with one another. We honestly don't know what people are going through. I am learning alot from your story lines. And you are very brave. Wishing you well sweetheart

[@lulufierce01]

The qaulity of this video !!!!!!!! KEEP IT UP WAMIE😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

[@LIVE___]

I’m sure when he got to work he called her and apologised, and told her you forced him to say all that, and they got back together🤷🏼‍♀️

[@jabulindelwa9601]

Thanx young cc for sharing, what you went through is the very same shit i went through, i think God is using you to show me that its not me alone who went through what i went through....i must stop feeling sorry for my self and moveforwad....

[@nomsagumede6777]

U have such a contagious laugh 😂😂😂😂😂😂❤️

[@LifeWithZukie]

I really enjoy the story times.

[@buhlempungose552]

You should've seeked 2nd & 3rd opinion I don't trust Drs sometimes talking from experience.

[@lebohangramosunya2400]

Thanks for sharing, so sorry you experienced this, prayers all the way

[@dorahmothibi_]

Owamie you are a strong woman and for that I stan you ninja❤🧡🧡 I love personal videos because I get to learn something new everytime. 😌

[@mrsx2596]

Do men ever understand that playing with our heart , love and emotions is a serious harm to our bodies to the point that that this should be considered a serious crime because do they understand that doing such can cause you to even die because of the trauma and the hurt, to them it just a game 😩😩Tjoohhh Amadoda ayingozi worse than a poison snake I tell you 😩

[@chabalichabali8714]

Men will only treat you the way you allow them to treat you. What you allow continues. So dont point fingers, do whats best for you. Its your life anyway!

[@yolandenonhlanhladlamini1944]

This was just so relatable, the fertility topic is one that we need to talk more about as black women ❤

[@sunrise7640]

Thank you for story time. We are here to learn all the way....

[@pelomk9022]

Mr B was a wolf in sheep skin. A whole enemy masquerading as a friend. I don't know how you continued loving that man despite his numerous betrayals 😤😖

[@victorioussisters3307]

Owami, Owami my dear, you can feed your dog the best food because it’s in its nature to feed from rubbish bins, you can’t stop it from toppling bins in the neighborhood. You did your best. I’ve said it before, Mr Bin (pun intended 😂), is already suffering. Very soon you’ll get the news that he walks next to his shoes. Love 💕 and light 💡 to you on your beautiful healing journey.

[@nelzg5819]

Mr B is just TOXIC. Pity there are so many more ladies lined up to catch such a man just to have a man. So sad indaba yabafazi This is 1 of the reasons why i respect Owami for leaving this man. He was gonna even discuss your short comings and how you dont satisfy him to his side dishes. Next thing u wud find yourself getting disrespectful calls from them

[@kholiswabhengu4496]

I always say women who do not know the pain of wanting and trying for a child are blessed, that pain cuts deep coz you get to a point of not even knowing who you are but ke we hold on... Hang in Ninja 🤗

[@prkhumzicles]

Can we please get a behind the scenes Owami Your game has changed sis and the investment will pay off. Not a youtuber but I am just intrested in seeing that part

[@julietedochem9041]

There's something us African People are ignorant of. And that is knowing that God gives children. Many times other couples are fertile but seize to carry pregnancy. Prayer and humility to God brings blessings. Your husband though, he was pressured by his family and ended up thinking about it a lot. And also, knows our hearts, He knew that man was playing his games and that your marriage wasn't meant to be. I believe that, the day a good man comes your way and love God and you, you will dfntly hold your Bundles of joy. Don't give up keep praying. Gynaecologist will only take your money. I come in peace from Cape Town ❤

[@thategomagane8838]

This is so true. I can attest to this, only God can release such a blessing in your life in His perfect time. ❤ I've been in serious long term relationships before and I was never able to get pregnant because these people and relationships were not good for me but at the time I didn't understand, I thought something was wrong with me because one of the ex's had a child but when I got into a relationship with my current partner, it was completely different, he's perfect for me and we were able to fall pregnant. ❤ This tells me that God was actually protecting me.

[@julietedochem9041]

@@thategomagane8838 Glory be to God dear... God's time is the best indeed. Just that people don't have patience. 🙏❤

[@preciouspearlmosemme]

i have been laughing the whole time when it came to the dumping

[@nomfundomatshika]

I will watch during lunch But already by seeing they title I can see that we indeed lose to gain First of all look at your glow 😍💋

[@queendorcas5815]

We like before watching ❤️

[@kamoseaka5571]

Owamie ke lehlanya neh 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂"the laughing part when Mr B was in the shop"

[@matladimahlatse4808]

I really enjoy story time 🥰

[@viriacssa2003]

Hi Owamie, have you tried checking Narcissistic Personality Disorder. These people are so hard to leave with, manipulative, deceit, cheating, greedy etc. Very difficult and dangerous at the same time

[@glow-raynkwana7910]

The fact that you're laughing about it now, shows that you are healing or healed 🥰

[@shataditswai2673]

The background baby gal it's so wooow 💯🔥💖

[@jabubuthelezi4822]

Honestly nothing that a man can do will ever shock ,,,am I a bad person to feel that way?

[@vuyomtshali]

Yhooo akusemnandi kwa Ninja Nation ❤️❤️❤️ I love these storie times.

[@mpumelelosobazile4785]

You are such a beautiful soul. Thank God you left him because you deserve so much more.❤❤❤

[@lalitaaysha32]

Sending love ninja ♥️ pls be careful of these helpers in future pls I'm here asking myself how on earth was that woman so comfortable talking abt you to your helper 🤔 n ur helper comes back to spill the beans to you🤔 I had a helper who wld tell my husband everything that happened when he was not around...N the worse part was when I found out she told my hubby to leave me she has a beautiful daughter he can take her🤦‍♀️

[@miss_pearl]

Why was the helper so comfortable talking to your husband like that. He does not have boundaries himself, most houses no matter how nice the husband is, the helper cannot be there telling stories to him about anything. If he had put her down the first time, she would have never tried it again.

[@naledindlovu976]

16:54 that laugh finishes me...I keep repeating it🤣🤣🤣 & 18:00🤣🤣🤣😂

[@nellygumede5597]

Girl, be grateful you didn't fall pregnant with this guy, as bad as it might sound, be thankful to fibroid for that period of trying. God will definitely give you kids, when you meet someone who's worth having kids with.

[@fanizahlatshwayo5168]

My sister how i so wish u become a marriage counselor because u have been through a lot in yo marriage. M so grateful that u r nw speaking abt yo difficult part u went through,what i know is that in God there's no burren instead u r a blessing n encouraging people who went through like u. Accepting the gift that God gave it to u n never blame God either yoself,ngithi loku okuhle okwenzayo kusho ukuthi unezingane eziningi n ubusisekile kanti baningi obasizayo ngesimo ondlule kuso. Lots of blessings are still coming to u 🙏🙏🙏

[@zama1629]

I cannot imagine of what you must be going through and I love that you're sharing about it so it can leave your body and soul, for some kind of healing. You'll do just fine without him. ✨✨✨✨✨💕🙏

[@keneiloemyoli]

We also tried conceiving for a year and a half so I totally get what you went through.

[@anitatumeka1466]

I like the cuddles behind 😍

[@noluthandomasondo]

I know exactly what you are talking about. My ex and I tried to conceive for over 5 years and it never happened. He had a child from a previous relationship and I did not have so basically I was the "problem" I was even told that "isibongo siyaphela" because he was the only son kubo and he had a girl child from a previous relationship, so I was supposed to bear him son's so to grow his surname. I did every fertility test, took medications but he failed to do his semen count, and I took all that blame until we broke up, but because God is God...........hmmmm.😊😊

[@sbaniominathi8803]

Qhubeka phela Thando, silalele. Ave ingidina into yabafazi abathathelwe ukuzala a bafana ngalesoskhathi kwahluleka abozali babo

[@simphiwer8970]

Owami must write a book or movie script. She's sitting on gold.

[@NaomiShapumba]

Yoooooh Owamie 😔😔😔 I’m so sorry 😔 that’s not a mother in law , she’s so heartless shame 😭

[@patiencenyamushanya1879]

Love you Owamie... You strong mugirl all the best with the divorce... You really need to shake off this leech🐞

[@Luckypetunia]

Vho nakesa weeee, I don't know if I concentrated on your story or your beauty 💕💕💕

[@blossom6235]

this is really deep, I can relate to this subject, my ex did exactly the same thing to me, the worse thing of having an ex is the day when you break up he knows all your secrets, I really hate that there's someone out there I use to know, who knows so much about my life, I can remember he use to threatened me if I don't agree to give in to his demands about money or giving him my car he would expose things to my family about me, bear in mind I use to keep things a secret to protect my family and don't want to worry them with my issues, I also went through health issues and decided i'm gonna keep it to myself and not worry my family by telling them, I was living in a different country I knew they would worry, so the minute we separated Ex went and told his whole family and everyone who he knows knew me all my secrets, and his side chick as well.

[@inovermyhead3947]

Im so sorry. Dont let it get you down or stress you out that it affects your health. God protects and defends those who cannot defend themselves. All of the bad happening to you will work itself out for the better, and you will be amazed at it in the end. Keep it moving sisi. Good things are on their way.

[@blossom6235]

@@inovermyhead3947 , Thank you so much for your kind words, God bless you.

[@irenenonodintwa1195]

Owami your make up today is amazing,wahoo!

[@noxolomahaye5612]

God bless your helper

[@lindiwekhumalo7988]

Can we talk about how beautiful our Ninja is. Kutondlula mama

[@sonton9059]

The good thing about you is you talk which is healthy for you

[@thatobaloyi6194]

I'm glad you're making these videos because there are always these evil spawns in the comment that are like you didn't fight enough for your marriage when they don't know what they're talking about

[@finance-talk]

What! He was going to get her to come to your house?! That's disrespectful on a whole other level. Cheating is not 1 lie. It's multiple lies to cover your tracks. It's a whole betrayal 🤧. I don't think I'm built to handle such betrayal 😪

[@lelonajones]

You are sooo beautiful.... Love this backgroung

[@motshedisihatane5671]

MEN WILL EMBARASS YOU! unprovoked nje.

[@LumkaJwara]

At this point he has called you by everything under the sun.... why is he still holding on. Yoh it's so annoying. Sending so much healing 💗 to you

[@MahasheS]

I won't lie, I'm not someone that follows entertainment/ news channels (intentionally so). But I've always known Owamis channel I just never watched but watching her carry on and push through everything and be so honest about everything is inspiring. We deal with things, we go through things and we carry so much shame but uThixo carries us through.