Storytime My boyfriend had me crying on my birthday WORST BIRTHDAY EVER!

[@slimshala]

Hey y’all this video was a lot to tell and edit, if you watch all the way to the very end i appreciate it so much 🫶🏽 I put all the screenshots in one spot. I’m so sorry it was just become overwhelming editing this. Don’t forget mini vlog is at the end 😘😘

[@zaviithejawn6718]

We love you & appreciate the story babes ♥️

[@zaviithejawn6718]

I see you did the preview I asked about omg thanks SHALA🥺🥰

[@keishawnamuhammad3391]

Came here from your comment on ti’s video

[@jennay-mariestorm8141]

always stay till the end !

[@kenberlymartin39]

Whoever was not understanding why you had a problem with that is crazy. Respect is respect I don’t ever have to be in an exclusive relationship for a man to show respect when in my company. He was hella disrespectful and women willing to be accepting of that based on no title is exactly why these men act the way they do🤦🏾‍♀️

[@slimshala]

@@kenberlymartin39 right like if we out together why would you think it’s okay to talk to someone else out of respect like that’s crazy that’s like being on a date and your date get at someone else that sh!t would be wild

[@kianaLke]

I can understand why they would be confused tho no shade. You look at girls w your man & let them get danced on but, cross the line at face to face conversation and a slow grind? Idk

[@xy_3671]

@@kianaLkethat’s facts I can definitely see both sides.

[@xo_babymo]

I’m so disgusted. You literally told him how people ruin your bday and he clearly went out his way to ruin it. You deserve so much better ❤❤❤

[@SiahSiah]

Okay this makes sooooo much sense now! The backstory was definitely necessary lol. I was in a long distance relationship before we moved in together and got married and yes making them long ass trips most definitely makes you feel like they mess with you heavy. Gas is not cheap. Over an a hour and a half just one way is a mission. And the fact he knew what it was and yall had an understanding and he played in your face multiple times is crazy. Men so easily flip the script you be like woah who are you and where did you come from because this is not who I been dealing with.

[@slimshala]

@@SiahSiah yea I knew I had to tell the back story before I continue this birthday series so things made more sense.

[@slimshala]

@@SiahSiah yea he flipped so fast over something that was a miss understanding. Like this all it takes for you to twitch up oh yea I dodge a bullet fr

[@MzCorrieB]

I hate when people don’t get shit 😭 Keep it up girl you are doing amazing ❤

[@slimshala]

@@MzCorrieB girl fr some ppl just lack common sense like read between the lines

[@slimshala]

@@MzCorrieB thanks boo I appreciate your support 💕💕💕

[@giselleromero9350]

The rule to GIVING is to give without expecting anything back in return. so I feel like friend friend gave you things but with the expectation for you to give him something back in return. So what he did was purposely test you to see if you would follow through and when you didn’t, his little test backfired on him because in life shit happeneds that is out of our control! And instead of him being an understanding friend he chose to become bitter and he showed you his true colors. His lack of communication is the reason why you didn’t get him the glasses he should been told you about it since it was so important to him. Sorry you had to put up with that for your birthday sis love you girls❤🎉

[@slimshala]

@@giselleromero9350 facts he did not communicate with me about the glasses weeks had passed and he probably was only going to wear them one time so it would have been a waste of my health saving money anyways. And I went all the way out for him for his birthday bought him hella sh!t. But I just didn’t think the way he acted was that deep over some sunglasses

[@cecee510]

@@slimshalahe didn’t even care bout them glasses

[@sydneyrae3634]

he was lowkey gaslighting you by making the sunglasses situation such a big deal and then when you finally reacted he tried to take it back and told you that u were overreacting for crying and all over a gift you were going to give him on your birthday omg!!! the delusion in this boys brain im so sorry im mad at this dude for u

[@slimshala]

@@sydneyrae3634 right! Like wtf he definitely was gaslighting me mind you he was probably going to only wear them one time! And I did and got him hella shot for his birthday so it’s not like I don’t be doing and buying him stuff.

[@kh-di7pu]

Hey boo, I love you and your channel 🫶🏾! I can tell you have such a big heart, and I’m sorry you were let down on another birthday by someone you really cared about. In my opinion, it sounds like the situation leading up to the trip was mostly a misunderstanding. However, I do think you were unintentionally invalidating his feelings. When you say things like “over some sunglasses” or “it’s not that deep/serious,” it can come off as dismissive, even if that wasn’t your intent. I don’t think that’s the best way to handle your partner’s feelings, even if the issue seemed small. I know you wanted him to care about your birthday the way you did, but sometimes, dudes just aren’t wired that way fr. On top of that, he had already expressed feeling let down by you before the trip. Try to see it from his perspective, boo. On another note, I 100% agree with you that he was wrong for how he disrespected you in the club, and I’m so sorry you had to go through that. You deserve so much better 🩷

[@Sassi303]

Girl I’m all the way tuned in 💕. I’m not gonna lie the glasses situation would’ve had me feeling a type of way too, but I’m not gonna be weird about it on your birthday weekend tho. That’s petty asf If that’s really the reasons he did everything he did.

[@slimshala]

@@Sassi303 right like I totally got why he was mad over the glasses I was wrong. But he was too mad over something that was a miss understanding but I can’t tell know one how to feel about something so I gotta respect that. But how he did me on my bday trip was crazy

[@sb_333]

“i got the screensharts” ctfu ! funny asf

[@slimshala]

@@sb_333 no fr cause like what 😂😂

[@TishaShNiece]

Ok first off you never gotta worry about me not finishing your videos lol because once I lock in with a KZbinr, I’m not stopping in the middle of no videos. I finish my WHOLE cup of tea 😂😂 2) I completely feel you on the birthday thing. That’s my story too. My bday gets ruined every year. It got ruined THIS year ALREADY and it’s freaking 2 months out! Smh so I get it, and it don’t feel good because you go all out for everyone else but the same energy isn’t there for your bday. So I get it. And 3) Idk what’s hard to understand about why you were upset about how he was cutting up in Vegas at that club. I would have been upset too! Because that was bogus of him! Smh

[@natunfiltered2.0]

He’s weird and was making your bday trip about him. He coulda went to a store, got shirts off Amazon, or looked through his closet. It was his responsibility to touch back with you and see if you was gonna get the glasses. I woulda told him to stay his ass home lol.

[@sandycalifornia]

You’re adorable 💜💜 I’m sorry you felt bad on your birthday 😔.. but don’t worry you’ll have SO many more AMAZING birthdays !!

[@slimshala]

@@sandycalifornia awwwww thanks Sandy I appreciate you so much 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@slimshala]

@@sandycalifornia facts definitely will have many more great birthdays to come

[@SaluteMarie]

Really felt like he never really wanted to go from the start after the glasses situation and all the things that didn’t go his way but just sucks because it wasn’t that deep for him to reschedule his flight and just be all about his self and in his feelings on your big day just felt like he could’ve put his feelings on hold or get over it cause it wasn’t that deep you can always get glasses or shirts . But you can’t get that bday back or the experience. Next year you gotta go all out and make it up ! ❤🫶🏾

[@slimshala]

@@SaluteMarie he didn’t and he could have just been straight up about it, even though it was his idea for us to take a trip for my birthday 🤦🏾‍♀️ I was gone buy the glasses but when he started getting sassy I was like fuk no! And he was only gone wear them like once he not even a glasses person!

[@sdot1822]

It’s a pattern. You offer something or he asks you to do something then when it’s time for him to confirm, remind or communicate he doesn’t or waits last until the last minute & then it’s your fault. Communication goes both ways you’re not a mind reader.

[@slimshala]

Yall gotta chill it’s okay I’m currently happy healthy and flourishing this situation is old. If you comment I’m going to respond I’m okay with yall disagreeing with me but I’m going to respond we just having friendly debates/ conversations. I’m not offended i promise 🙏🏾🤞🏾🫶🏽

[@tedrekaadams6216]

Hey girl I enjoyed your story time friend is really messed up for even treating you that way on your birthday month and on your birthday over some damn sunglasses he definitely was acting like it was all about him. And it's so sad that people can't come through for others like they come through for them. I had to also learn that everyone is not like me and they won't do the same things that I might do for others. I hope you have an amazing birthday next year. It's so unfortunate that people start acting different when you ride for them it's really sad

[@slimshala]

@@tedrekaadams6216 right he was acting like it was his birthday and I was messing it up for him! Over some glasses he was gone wear one time damnear he wasn’t a glasses person!

[@rye6777]

you can’t cry about your bday hair but he can tweak about some shortsssss

[@slimshala]

@@rye6777 lol girl right like ninja really he really was irritating tf outta me

[@TARRIKA]

No lie I was happy to hear you bought yourself an extra pair of glasses, I were glasses and that shit not cheap. Don’t feel bad cause you brought it up more times than you should have and nobody going to keep offering cause clearly he didn’t care.

[@slimshala]

@@TARRIKA right definitely not cheap very pricey even with insurance

[@slimshala]

@@TARRIKA and I feel like if he really wanted them he should have checked back in with me way sooner than he did weeks had passed

[@TARRIKA]

@@slimshala EVEN with insurance girl lol.

[@xo_babymo]

Super cute airport outfit 😍😍😍😍💜💜💜

[@Sadayah]

Ok he definitely was tripping. If he was a true friend, he wouldn’t have put all that on you on YOUR birthday. As a friend, his job was to make sure you enjoyed your moment and to alleviate any stress he could have. How is he this sassy on your birthday?! I don’t even wanna call him Friend-Friend no more, he had you messed up!!

[@slimshala]

@@Sadayah right he was acting like it was his birthday and I was messing up his special day. I was very appalled especially when it was his idea for me and him to take a trip for my birthday

[@jrdn.mariee]

I love the vlogs at the end of the story ❤

[@tyanal3402]

We finally get to hear the whole intro song 🔥🔥🔥

[@naomibrathwaite1755]

Hey Shala, I love your channel i'm always tuned in ♥♥

[@slimshala]

@@naomibrathwaite1755 hey Naomi girl❣️ yes I definitely be seeing the love you be showing I appreciate it so much 💕💕💕

[@koyanc3]

You handled things well and remained composed. Im proud. But pur your foot down. Niggas will test you to see how much bullshit you will take. The glasses situation i would have told him, he the reason he didnt get them and should have followed up period. 01:05:00 Thats called a lack of discernment. While we cant tell peoplw how to react it is your responsibility to yourself to not allow people to mistreat you regardless of their emotions. They should have emotional intelligence.

[@slimshala]

@@koyanc3 thanks you i feel like I do to cause usually i be quick to fight a ninja or yell and cause a seen but I just had to chalk it to the game and take my L. But I do learn and grow from the experience with him and i know way much better going forward

[@slimshala]

@@koyanc3 thank you for the advice aswell I appreciate your delivery very respectful and helpful 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@elisha2175]

What’s the science behind hating ass men ruining the girl birthday???? ive seen it happen too many times 😭

[@100nikhollywood]

The full intro song thou 🔥🔥

[@coldyuyu9958]

Listen to Monaleo-Crying on your birthday and I promise you’ll never go thru that again lol

[@slimshala]

@@coldyuyu9958 girl I love that song. And trust never again will I let a ninja have me looking crazy like that

[@lashonl4412]

All i know is it wasnt his birthday he would have been X'D out.

[@slimshala]

@@lashonl4412 girl I know better now

[@lashonl4412]

​@@slimshala ❤❤❤ That's great

[@Redbownee]

Your brothers song is so good

[@Brooke-en6ks]

I like your brother song even more now that I hear the full thing

[@marainagreen2249]

Loved the vlog at the end❤❤❤

[@xo_babymo]

I loveeeeeeee that song!

[@NikkiVibes]

Wassup like wassup likeeee wassup ? Lmaoooo. So me. Becauseeeee at 5 months, put my head inside the washer please 😅😂😂😂

[@slimshala]

@@NikkiVibes right especially since I was doing it with nobody else at the time 😅 like boy stop play and drop them pants now!!😂😂😂😂😂

[@jamicah.j]

Ik u was a Taurus by your energy 4/22 here❤️🥳

[@xo_babymo]

The song is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@shaudemarie8844]

Shala we love you, but the way yall were going back and fourth beforehand was giving, you shoulda never stepped on that plane. But it’s definitely hard to foreshadow things going this left when you think you have such a deep connection with someone that you wouldn’t believe they’d do you this dirty. Sorry he ruined your birthday girl. But like you said, just because you wouldn’t do something like this to someone on their birthday doesn’t mean they behave the same way. 💔

[@slimshala]

@@shaudemarie8844 girl I was gone go with or without him I wouldn’t have minded going solo he shouldn’t have stepped on that plane. But I knew it was gone be kinda awkward but I didn’t think it was gone go so far left

[@josephinesjoint]

Hey lady! Friend Friend makes sense. It's cute. Bday tears are real!

[@slimshala]

@@josephinesjoint hey boo 🫶🏽 yea I thought it was just a cute lil nickname to call him

[@josephinesjoint]

@slimshala and is! I have a cutsie nickname for some old yeah yeahs so get it totally.

[@PinkkMarieTV]

🎉we here ✅

[@slimshala]

@@PinkkMarieTV thanks boo I appreciate you 😘😘😘

[@tblowe6258]

I love the intro song so bad lol

[@slimshala]

@@tblowe6258 right it’s so catchy so glad my brother told me to use it

[@sw33tbrown3y3s]

🔥🔥🔥

[@breannebegaye]

I love me some Slim Shala ❤❤

[@slimshala]

@@breannebegaye loved you too boo 😘

[@dayjamoore]

“ like comment, share and subscribe , but only if you want to , only if you want to, only if you want to.. i love when you say that but i always be like man yall BETTER at least like the video lol.

[@slimshala]

@@dayjamoore lol right like at least like if you tuning in

[@annabella7188]

Shala, can we get a look book of your work?

[@slimshala]

@@annabella7188 my nail work or something else?

[@chytaviauneayke3475]

Hey Shala 💜

[@slimshala]

@@chytaviauneayke3475 hey Chy happy WastedWednesday

[@shaudemarie8844]

Hold TF UPPPPPPPPP!!!! I had to come back for a 2nd comment… this dude did ALLLLLLLLLLLL this trippin over some shirts just to show up in a white t shirt in the photos? Are we serious rn??

[@slimshala]

@@shaudemarie8844 girl no fr im thinking every shirt he put on gone be some sh!t fr not 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@SiahSiah]

Right I’m thinking he got some custom or name brand stuff coming lol. White tees are sold everywhere.

[@oliviar2650]

💖⭐️💞

[@jordynd8362]

I don’t think you were crazy at all! He just seemed selfish tbh! I’m coming in from the middle and catching up, but I feel like even though yall said y’all weren’t ready for a relationship you both were doing relationship girlfriend boyfriend stuff for each other without the title. I honestly think that he was cool with receiving the benefits of being a boyfriend without having to give you the commitment. So when it got closer to a year of talking and the conversation about being official coming after your birthday, he started acting funny bc he knew he didn’t want a official commitment. I just hate that he took your birthday trip as the opportunity to act up. Like the glasses, the shirts, all that other stuff was just dry arguments. He could’ve been honest about it way before your birthday. Again I’m commenting just from the middle perspective but yeah you didn’t deserve this especially on and around your special day 😕❤️‍🩹

[@RoyalEnterpriseConstruction]

The title says my boyfriend but youre in the comments telling people yall weren't together but exclusively dating 🤣. No wonder people are confused. Including ol boy

[@slimshala]

@@RoyalEnterpriseConstruction lol it’s just a title everyone knows that’s how you work KZbin! KZbin is all about grabbing the viewers attention with the title that’s why I clearly explain the situation in the video a lot of ppl must be knew here cause it’s really just common sense…

[@slimshala]

@@RoyalEnterpriseConstruction the situation is old anyways it’s not that big of a deal really just listen and or watch and keep it pushing it’s not that serious

[@RoyalEnterpriseConstruction]

@slimshala usually when I see those type I count that as clout chasing. Make me side eye the whole story. Looking at these comments you either lying or just ain't know what y'all had going on for real .

[@slimshala]

@ lol you assume I’m lying from a title when I put screenshots lol you take the internet to serious. I’m not here to convince nobody anything so 🤷🏽‍♀️ I don’t need to clout chase I’m just a regular girl with a KZbin if you don’t like something then you just move along it’s very simple

[@slimshala]

@ wtf I need to lie for that’s silly and I did know what we had going on just things went left it’s not that deep. You too invested if you feeling this way about things on the internet touch grass 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@Moochistrawberry7021]

❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@slimshala]

Hey boo thanks for tuning in happy wasted Wednesday

[@BooLadybeautycare]

I Dnt think he wanted to go on the trip n he was trying to make something bigger than what it was , I’m surprised he Really went with Tht bad attiude

[@slimshala]

@@BooLadybeautycare right he didn’t want to I felt that he didn’t! he could have just said that like he said everything else he wanted to get off his chest

[@alientingz7733]

YESSIRRRRR 🤍

[@slimshala]

@@alientingz7733 ayeeeeee thanks for tuning in love 💕💕💕‼️💕

[@lashonl4412]

Eh that wasn't said in the other video. Even when you were talking to the girl you said she kept asking if yall were together and you said NO. Now if it was a relationship maybe but if I'm thinking we just friends I'm going to talk to whoever I want. It aint disrespectful cause you ain't mine and don't own me. And same goes for men. That's just my take.

[@slimshala]

@@lashonl4412 I never said in this video we was together so what was your point? I said we agreed to exclusively date meaning we only sleeping with each other!! I never not once said he couldn’t talk to other ppl! I said I was mad that he was booed up with a b!tch in the club on my birthday weekend where we are supposed to be celebrating me! If you was out with a guy you were dating you would be okay with him talking to other ppl in your face?? No you wouldn’t so what are you talking about??

[@slimshala]

@@lashonl4412 we wasn’t in a relationship i clearly stated that many times but we were dating!! So yea I can be mad if I’m out with someone im dating on my birthday and he in another b!tch face on my birthday

[@smartandlovely3890]

@@slimshalaThis is so valid! Like he’s obviously was more than just a “friend”!

[@lashonl4412]

​@@slimshala yea i know thats why i said if it WAS a relationship i would get your point. Its free game to me if theres no title. I never dated around. If i do ever date im going to assume they are doing them if they aint my MAN with a TITLE on it. Im not a jealous girl so i wouldnt have approached him with that girl. Would i have maybe been IRRITATED he was getting bood up YES but for the reason its my day and we supposed to be turning up for me. Even if it had been a female friend it would have been irritating.

[@lashonl4412]

​@@slimshalaand from the sound of it he was in BS from jump.

[@koyanc3]

I dont get people confusion on this. It dont matter if yall was FWB, acquaintances, coworkers, or strangers. Its principle. Do what you say, dont last minute eff up the plans, and dont be weird. I would have never continued the trip with him acting like a ho3. he was probably loving the over explaining and draining you was obviously feeding his ego.

[@Lynda-ro2lh]

For y'all to supposed to been so close he played U

[@slimshala]

@@Lynda-ro2lh right hella played me

[@crystallopez7223]

🖤

[@Kejahmonae]

i don’t like the way he was acting. & I feel like you should’ve just let him be instead of sending all that u sent in the messages. it gave begging lowkey

[@slimshala]

@@Kejahmonae girl it happened already so 🤷🏽‍♀️ we live and we learn

[@Kejahmonae]

@ I like the video im just saying lmao. girlll why everytime somebody comment and they don’t agree with your side you get offended? 🤣🤣

[@smartandlovely3890]

Remember it’s always easier to speak on leaving a situation when you’re not in it. Sometimes you want to hold onto the good times, and try to brush off the bad things. You live and you learn 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@slimshala]

@@Kejahmonae im not offended im just saying we live an we learn

[@RoyalEnterpriseConstruction]

​​​@@Kejahmonaeexactly If this a channel where she want everyone to agree with her she need to announce it. Everybody on here ain't kissing ahh on here lying. These KZbinrs need to realize most of these people just want to be their friend. They don't really agree with them lol and y'all for sure not right in all these situations. Appreciate the real ones

[@tavillan30]

Hey girl just n time for my long drive home

[@slimshala]

@@tavillan30 okay period❣️ hope this helps get you through your long drive and keep you entertained 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@tavillan30]

@slimshala thank u sis 😊

[@keesmith3296]

It’s sholl is some sassy niggas in Cali, gahdamn Shala.. I hope the next dude you talk to is better my goodness and Crazy ass looked throwed, why you talked to him? he not even that cute to even deal with girl, you are too pretty for either one of them

[@TrendyT.]

36:30 thing is you shouldn’t have to feel bad for using YOUR health savings on YOU. Yes, you offered to get him glasses and he passed up on it and then never mentioned it again. He the one missed out. He acts entitled. Ion like that. 47:38 ngl Shala, he pissing me off. Cause, I feel like you being way too considerate of this ninja and he wasn’t being considerate ENOUGH. Ninja PMO. 1:00:21 aww shala, he a lame. You didn’t deserve that. If he didn’t wanna go he should have said that. He seemed like he started turning into a opportunist.

[@slimshala]

@@TrendyT. right like he let weeks go by before he brought the glasses back up you snooze you lose. And I was still gone get them but he started acting hella sassy like boy by it’s some glasses he probably was only gone wear one time

[@slimshala]

@@TrendyT. I was being very considerate and I went all out for him for his birthday and mad his day hella special

[@slimshala]

@@TrendyT. naw he really did wait till you hear the rest it keeps getting worse

[@TrendyT.]

@@slimshala It’s ok shala!! Don’t let nobody make you feel stupid for having a good heart . Just be careful who you share it with next time. Good people are so so hard to come by nowadays. Don’t let nobody make you feel stupid for having a giving and loving heart. Nb perfect we live and we learn. & yeah ik that’s the type of energy you was coming with cause if you willing to pay for it with HS , I’m sure you wouldn’t mind paying out of pocket . He was just entitled . Can’t wait to hear the rest. Keep up the consistency Shala girl 💞

[@BooLadybeautycare]

He was wrong girly Like all this over sunglasses

[@slimshala]

@@BooLadybeautycare girl over some glasses that I was still going to get him unti he started acting sassy

[@nubianprincess9216]

🩷🩷🩷

[@slimshala]

@@nubianprincess9216 hey Anita 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@Bill-x7r]

Girl work it a little more

[@sw33tbrown3y3s]

🤎🤎🤎

[@slimshala]

@@sw33tbrown3y3s hey girl hey thanks for tuning in 💕💕💕