Storytime: My Fans Caught Me in a Gay Bathhouse

  Рет қаралды 57,573

Tokyo BTM

Tokyo BTM

Күн бұрын

Пікірлер: 284
@bathhousebabylonbook
@bathhousebabylonbook 2 жыл бұрын
As someone that once managed bathhouses for 13 years in North America (and released a book about it - Bathhouse Babylon), eventually, everyone gets seen or caught out at a bathhouse. The ones that try to hide while going into or are inside a bathhouse, tend to stand out the most. It's all good, as long as you are having fun and keep in mind - if they recognized you, they are in the same place too. Nothing to be embarrassed about, unless you get up to something you shouldn't and it becomes the talk of the steambath...or makes it into a book. ;) Love you guys and your videos!
@danielintheantipodes6741
@danielintheantipodes6741 2 жыл бұрын
I am going to find the book and read it! Can you send me the publisher details?
@dbutler85
@dbutler85 2 жыл бұрын
@@danielintheantipodes6741 it's on Amazon and was independently published.
@danielintheantipodes6741
@danielintheantipodes6741 2 жыл бұрын
@@dbutler85 Thank you. I will order it from Amazon!
@bathhousebabylonbook
@bathhousebabylonbook 2 жыл бұрын
@@danielintheantipodes6741 Thank you so much! Meetings have been taking place with Netflix about it so you never know...;)
@oenrob98000
@oenrob98000 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 💖
@ecmon
@ecmon 2 жыл бұрын
Can you imagine if Andrew continues to be recognised but nobody recognises Meng? 😂 It would be so funny, I think Meng would get jealous (in his adorable way).
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
😝I am already so jealous! 😱😱😱
@michaeljordan5224
@michaeljordan5224 2 жыл бұрын
@@TokyoBTM I would totally recognize Meng anywhere! (I'd love to recognize him in my bed)
@Cdcd4444
@Cdcd4444 2 жыл бұрын
Meng should get bald first like shao lin bald
@obiwan007
@obiwan007 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaeljordan5224 Same here :)
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
Miss you guys so much! 😋 Hope this spicy story makes you guys laugh a bit
@digby_dooright
@digby_dooright 2 жыл бұрын
You guys are so cute in this. I love your animations. ;p
@danieldavis3035
@danieldavis3035 2 жыл бұрын
I just noticed that Andrew has beautiful hands.
@zalanahara270
@zalanahara270 2 жыл бұрын
love it!
@klingkliang
@klingkliang 2 жыл бұрын
@@zalanahara270 and the imagination runs wild with what those hands can doooooo......
@Gr95dc
@Gr95dc 2 жыл бұрын
it did made me laugh a lot, I really admire how you guys are so open about your experiences and I love how you make an embarrassing story become a super funny one
@zdaladorsey1152
@zdaladorsey1152 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome back guys! It’s been 74 years since we’ve seen you! I was dying at Andrews Bathhouse story and it completely reminds me of why I stopped going in general. Running into my college professor there was enough embarrassment for me for a lifetime. 🤣😱☠️
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
Haha did he recognize you?
@zdaladorsey1152
@zdaladorsey1152 2 жыл бұрын
@@TokyoBTM He did. He witnessed me playing some flutes for a few guys. We never spoke again all semester after that.
@Gr95dc
@Gr95dc 2 жыл бұрын
@@zdaladorsey1152 hahaha omg, I don't think i could recover from something like that 😂
@tampachaz0870
@tampachaz0870 2 жыл бұрын
I understand Andrew's reaction completely. In my younger, prettier days I was the manager of a gay adult webcam house. I lived in the house with the guys and spent years on cam, mostly clothed (thank goodness) but gained some unexpected notoriety. The first experience was at a local gay bar when some out of town fans had come to vacation ( this was Orlando Florida) and we were all out at the bar. A site member walked up to me and with tears in his eyes and a shaky voice he said, "I can't believe I'm actually getting to meet you in person and shake your hand!" I literally looked over my shoulder, thinking he was talking to one of the boys who was standing next to me, leaning on my shoulder. But no, he meant ME. I didn't know how to react or what to say. I felt like an idiot and even introduced myself! AWKWARD So I can only imagine Andrew's surprise while in more "intimate" atmosphere shall we say. Loving the videos as always. I would never reject Meng, but I'll never get the chance to prove or disprove that statement, LOL I have no desire to spend thousands of dollars and hours of travel time to visit a place where I'd be discriminated against around every corner. I can get that treatment right here in the U.S. much cheaper! 🤣
@vampyyrism
@vampyyrism 2 жыл бұрын
Been waiting for this video for so long, for Andrew to share his experience and knowledge haha Bath houses in japan is so wild and frustrating as a foreigner.
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
Andrew definitely has a lot to tell ;)
@wjjrwjj
@wjjrwjj 2 жыл бұрын
Must go there a lot bathouse
@treehuggerdude4
@treehuggerdude4 2 жыл бұрын
Thats pretty cool that you got recognized though! That means the channel is doing quite well!
@TroyKristoffer
@TroyKristoffer 2 жыл бұрын
When I first turned 18, I was very nervous to go into an adult store in case someone I know was in there and saw me. But then I realized... well THEY are there too, and I would be seeing THEM. :P
@ReunionMana
@ReunionMana Жыл бұрын
ok you say that but what if its like ur fuckin mom or something, then it doesnt matter that youre both vindicated because that makes it even worse
@moncilu
@moncilu 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who is too shy to even step into a place like a gay bathhouse, Andrew's story terrifies me. Even the part about someone crawling over to see his face and then leaving 😨 don't think I can deal with that. And being recognised during group sex 😱
2 жыл бұрын
I've definitely been recognized more than once before as "that Pokémon GO guy", especially on apps, and I can say that was very intimidating... I can only imagine what that would feel like if it ever happened in person.
@LanceoftheNoe
@LanceoftheNoe 2 жыл бұрын
While living in korea, I was very briefly on an extremely popular television show and got called out at a bathhouse. I was extremely embarrassed, but they were exceedingly excited and very forceful to continue. Others who would not have given me the time of day a week before we're suddenly very curious to meet me. It's a weird situation.
@cwebb6341
@cwebb6341 2 жыл бұрын
So many random thoughts. I'll try to be concise: - Andrew: Thank you for being so transparent re: your experience. It makes total sense. - Meng: The hair determination as a barrier to entry is unfortunate. I am a bigger guy and have been rejected from a few places. I get it. - Popularity of theme: Yes! The BJ bar is my favorite video. I missed those opportunities when I was visiting. I'll have to fix that. - Exit music: I love it! Cute, fun, and poppy! (I know it's not new, but I couldn't resist commenting on that)
@nelsonoverse
@nelsonoverse 2 жыл бұрын
Saw the title and had to click for the drama. Big Meng Energy. 💅
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
Haha amazing! Hi big Drama queen✨😚
@hangma3
@hangma3 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Andrew and Meng, thank you for another great episode. It makes me sad that we judge people sorely on the look and it only takes a second to "judge" someone. It's sad to hear that Meng was rejected by his hair length. I hope that the LGBTQ spaces could get more inclusive and that we don' have to fit in some pre-defined category to "fit in."
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Chris. I wish the same ✨ I think Japan definitely has more filters than other countries, and I am so used to it. 😅
@JuustJayden
@JuustJayden 2 жыл бұрын
Yay new content, Thank you boys! I feel like it’s wrong to assume someone is very calm and composed in a public channel (Andrew) means you’ll be demure sexually. Our social behaviour isn’t a predictor of our sexual behaviours. Similar how quiet ones are sometimes most kinky! That respectfully seemed more of an assumption on the fan’s end IMO - you didn’t market yourself as nice = vanilla gentle lol. You’re too kind and even the apology shows your depth of character Andrew ^.^ and Meng’s humour lol Depp 😂 sorry bout that experience 🐢 armor!
@jimchuah
@jimchuah 2 жыл бұрын
Giggling funny in the office watching this video, more story time pleasee!
@thomascrouchpiano
@thomascrouchpiano 2 жыл бұрын
These stories were so wildly different! Great to see new content out again!
@user-sq2fo2vn6h
@user-sq2fo2vn6h 2 жыл бұрын
Now, I'm waiting for those fans to reveal themselves and comment here 🤣
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. 2 жыл бұрын
I’m LIVING for Andrew’s bathhouse story. 😂
@garssympa500
@garssympa500 2 жыл бұрын
Meng always cracks me up... and so there are two thing he could for me. And, the second is make me laugh out loud!
@silasmoreira7149
@silasmoreira7149 2 жыл бұрын
Both of your skins are glowing!
@malcolmledger176
@malcolmledger176 2 жыл бұрын
"You are Tokyo BTM?" Good ice-breaker! Go with it.
@erich7861
@erich7861 2 жыл бұрын
I miss these kinds of videos! Meng's "you like that you little bitch" pretending to be a top has me dead lmao.
@jeremyv12
@jeremyv12 2 жыл бұрын
Commenting to increase engagement! Love these videos
@russellnoland3355
@russellnoland3355 2 жыл бұрын
Difficult to believe this was the first time either one of you guys have been recognized
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
I believe it was the first time Andrew got recognized in a bathhouse. Sometimes we get recognized on the street
@YoSoyDavidGalleta
@YoSoyDavidGalleta 2 жыл бұрын
I totally understand why that would be awkward and embarrassing for you, but I would definitely still be surprised/excited to run into you. lol
@Brainstorm411
@Brainstorm411 2 жыл бұрын
As Andrew said, “life’s not that serious”. Always good to remember!! Another great video you guys! 🌈❤️👍
@club17rob
@club17rob 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome video guys. Love the Club One Seven cover photo. 😁
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
Awww thanks 🙏🙏🙏
@mattfurda366
@mattfurda366 2 жыл бұрын
Omg I remember you telling me this story! 😹
@nigelbond4056
@nigelbond4056 2 жыл бұрын
There are some crazy people out there! Who, in their right mind, would reject Meng? 🥰. Andrew’s story was brilliant. You’re famous in all the best places 👏👏👏
@user-tt5xj5ib1e
@user-tt5xj5ib1e 2 жыл бұрын
The last time you posted I was a Twink, now I'm a Twunk, glad to see you back :) Great video guys :) 😍🤩😍
@johnr8844
@johnr8844 2 жыл бұрын
AAAAWK-ward! 🤣 Anyway, the reason for my comment; I want to know where I can get Andrew’s mug. It’s so cute.
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. 2 жыл бұрын
If I was in Andrew’s position, I’d have a conversation and leave it at that and look for people who have never heard of me. Manifesting fans who make a decent pass at Meng.
@rayolivarez3106
@rayolivarez3106 Жыл бұрын
Meng & Andrew, I LOVE your vlogs about Gay Japan & I Love Japanese Culture! Am a New subscriber to your channel since last 3 days & am so thankful for your honesty, candidness, fun, sincere & meticulous approach to your topics. When I was younger, I used to be a Total Bottom; however, as I got older & wiser I evolved into a Total Dominant Top! Having said that, I've had my share of being totally embarrassed & rejected inside a gay bathhouse. Thru the years, I've learned to accept the fact that "I'm NOT everyone's type." As for Meng's experience with his "long hairstyle," that would NEVER happen here in the USA bec that would be catergorized as "outright discrimination." I'm extremely surprised that gay establishments in Japan STILL employs such practices!
@evansun2833
@evansun2833 2 жыл бұрын
Never been to one and can’t go to the one in the city since I work in a gay bar pretty close by, will be weird to see my regulars there LOL
@thrillhouse4151
@thrillhouse4151 2 жыл бұрын
1:52, hahahaha I started doing that too, if I see someone I like I’ll kinda casually sexily pull my mask off for a second and pretend to adjust it.
@alexdbroad
@alexdbroad 2 жыл бұрын
Hi all. The restriction for individual travel is still in place. any suggestion how can I visit japan this september? I'm from Canada. Thank you for the help.
@astroworfcraig9164
@astroworfcraig9164 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe the loss of anonymity made things a little weird, but isn't it so Canadian of Andrew not to use his celebrity to his advantage? I probably would have been on a power trip. And how could anyone reject Meng? Oh well, their loss.
@focotaku
@focotaku 2 жыл бұрын
I think if I met someone famous (anywhere), I would pretend not to know them. I think it must be stressful to have people around you that feel they know you or that they are your friends, when you know nothing about them. I don’t want to be that creepy guy… 😅
@tonkatrucker
@tonkatrucker Жыл бұрын
That is my story... at a bath house ( 4yrs ago), and it was quite crowded. One guy stood out, very - VERY.,, good looking, and then I realized he was a big time celebrity. He asked to come into my room, sat on the end of my bed, we chatted then had wonderful sex. I never let on that I knew who he as.. and to this day.. he's been married/ in the closet and never has come out in any way. I take it as my own personal good memory.
@crowninthesky
@crowninthesky 2 жыл бұрын
7:09 the fact that my face INSTANTLY went 😲and 3 seconds later Meng is still processing...oh my.
@danielw3939
@danielw3939 2 жыл бұрын
Any reasons for it to be closing down. Is there one like Babylon(Thailand) in Japan?
@kbird2222
@kbird2222 2 жыл бұрын
Love to hear more "strangers" with input on things you talk about like bathhouses or gay bars or life in general. I know it seems like they don't like to tall to strangers there but work your magic!
@StripofPaper
@StripofPaper 2 жыл бұрын
Omggggggg Andrew nooooooo 😂😂💀 I was gay shrieking so loud at your story, my roommate thought he left the kettle on
@flojj
@flojj 2 жыл бұрын
Hahah we’re living for the spicy stories 🌶 🥵 thanks for sharing and being so funny while being kinda vulnerable and intimate. Your content and personalities on KZbin always feel like authentic, it’s so refreshing!! Love you guys xxx😘😘
@navypinkdesign
@navypinkdesign 2 жыл бұрын
First time here and can’t believe it took me so long to figure out what BTM stands for 😂
@papabenny0
@papabenny0 2 жыл бұрын
I missed you guys in a sit down convo talking about one's experiences. It's chill but definitely relatable. Honestly, I want to meet Meng and/or Andrew in person (not on hattenba though 😅)
@djcrumrine2150
@djcrumrine2150 2 жыл бұрын
I love Meng’s preppy straight boy look this video
@djcrumrine2150
@djcrumrine2150 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my god I typed this before watching the whole thing. That stinks that they thought your hair was too fem for the event. Meng you should dress how you want. But I do like the straight illusion, you can do it all
@djcat7184
@djcat7184 2 жыл бұрын
Great video.. shows how popular your videos are :) great to hear your experiences :).
@oceanwonders
@oceanwonders 2 жыл бұрын
Are the videos mostly edited by Andrew? HILARIOUS.
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
This video was edited by Andrew ❤️
@dramonmaster222
@dramonmaster222 2 жыл бұрын
This video just makes me even curious and want to go into a bathhouse. LOL! Poor Andrew. I can imagine that was both embarrassing and awkward.
@RYAN-pz8il
@RYAN-pz8il 2 жыл бұрын
I think the hatenba bathhouse experience would be too stressful for me. Not even because of recognition. I think my performance anxiety and imposter syndrom and all those disorders would suddenly manifest. I hope the new upload schedule works out well for you guys!
@johnwfmak
@johnwfmak 3 ай бұрын
I feel like your “fans” you meet need to have a behind the scenes studio tour, and maybe a interview of their review of you😂
@D3c3pTion
@D3c3pTion 2 жыл бұрын
Reading the comments to see if one of the guys from Andrews story commented.
@diff7491
@diff7491 2 жыл бұрын
I am always wondering where are you guys from originally? Very multilingual!
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
Haha watch more of our videos to find out 😁
@Love_TheArtist
@Love_TheArtist 2 жыл бұрын
Meng: always ready with the shade..."so you were putting on a persona"😅
@andrewzheng-macdonald9887
@andrewzheng-macdonald9887 2 жыл бұрын
I’m an Andrew too, I am a Bear 🐻. I tend to find guys liking for slim or athletic types (which I’m not). I used to work in a famous gay club, and down the street I would have people recognise me. I just go with the flow, as I don’t know them. 😁. I wait to hear, where there story leads to before I react. They also expect me to remember them out of 2,000 people that come through the door. So I fake it 😁
@sugar_shohei
@sugar_shohei 2 жыл бұрын
本当だ killed me 💀💀💀 I found it this is a part of benefits about being a youtuber. If you guys had a management, I can easily imagine they tell you not to go to bathhouses 🙃 Anyway, great stories guys! See you soon 😆
@tomyoung2935
@tomyoung2935 2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting subject. I do not think there are any of the bath houses left in the The Orleans area.
@charliehelmijr
@charliehelmijr 2 жыл бұрын
Such a gay sentence, haha. 'The people I usually have sex with, they usually don't know who I am.' 😋💘
@PurpleKaye_
@PurpleKaye_ 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome back guys! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 OMG Andrew, lol Im dying. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣this was toooooooooo funny! I watched this before my exam, great de-stressor!!!!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
Good luck with your exam !!! ✨
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. 2 жыл бұрын
Not Andrew sparking a war in the comments with the phrase ‘bottom spectrum’ HAHAHAHAHA
@CoreyChambersLA
@CoreyChambersLA Жыл бұрын
Gay bath houses are fun - like a haunted house.
@crecasens
@crecasens 2 жыл бұрын
The good thing is that they were both interested in you BEFORE you lowered your mask. So they weren’t exactly fan boys.
@mixboymakub
@mixboymakub 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome back boys! Is great to have your videos again and hearing your stories... Sadly I didn't get to know what Meng will say when I meet him 😥
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. 2 жыл бұрын
I missed videos from this channel! Of course I was sold on the title of this video lol
@Jan-cb5bn
@Jan-cb5bn 2 жыл бұрын
Hey guys I really want to go to a gay sauna... but I am actually to scared as I don't know how to behave or how to act or watch out for in a sauna. What are the rules? What are the do's and donts for newbies like me
@markmh835
@markmh835 2 жыл бұрын
There are a lot of videos on KZbin that explain the "rules" of bathhouses and what to expect. Search for them. Especially look for the videos of Patrick from Toronto.
@norab84
@norab84 2 жыл бұрын
Great video and I love hearing some of your more personal stories 😊 Weird question about the gay bathhouses in Japan... do they have a fake leg left in the open somewhere? It's a common 'joke' in Britain for the gay saunas to have a fake leg left in one of the rooms...
@CanadaKeith
@CanadaKeith 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful fun and honest vid guys!! You boys are the most unique and facinating channel!! More 'stories' from the bathhouses please :) Sounds with the long list of reasons to barr you there could be lots of stories there :)
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Keith. I am running out of bathhouse stories, because I don't go. 😭 Maybe I can just react to Andrew's stories
@ChristianRyanVlogs
@ChristianRyanVlogs 9 ай бұрын
More stories pleaseeee 🙏
@jacobalexander7642
@jacobalexander7642 2 жыл бұрын
Meng in your polo! It's just such a diff vibe I love it! So question, how would either of y'all feel if like you're there at the bath house, do the thang (not establishing who you are), and then afterwards that person is like "oh by the way see you in your next KZbin video"
@alberto.camposs
@alberto.camposs 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing guys! These stories are so much fun and really interesting, keep them coming please!!
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Will do!
@oscarp4328
@oscarp4328 11 ай бұрын
Can you guys make a list of gay bath houses in Tokyo? Thanks!
@animeprince7866
@animeprince7866 2 жыл бұрын
Andrew, tis the hazard of trying to have anonymous sex when you are a public figure. It's like Meng said it is embarrassing and people tend to avoid it who are public figures. I hope you can get to where you have fun with people and deal with being somewhat known. I want to see what those guys have to say! I do hope they go public in a good way that helps the Tokyo BTM image. Thanks for sharing another fun video with us. I appreciate the hard work it takes to make and edit these for your followers.
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
Haha glad you enjoyed. Andrew definitely now is having a lot of fun
@Globalastral5
@Globalastral5 2 жыл бұрын
I’m imagining this entire scenario playing out at 24 Kaikan
@dragonsashimi
@dragonsashimi 2 жыл бұрын
Ok if i cant get more vids for now, kindly send me the link for your (eng) podcast!🤗
@mattmcsherry
@mattmcsherry 2 жыл бұрын
This was a lovely video and a great story. It does seem to be a gay men's culture to look for sex with people who don't know you, who you will not form bonds with. I wonder if that comes from the shame gay, bi and pan men are made to feel about same sex attraction? If someone knows we do "this sort of thing" then they will think les of us? I don't think it's necessarily bad or anything, I just think it's interesting. Turning a feeling of shame into excitement is very powerful. Sorry for over thinking it :D
@USCanthony
@USCanthony 2 жыл бұрын
@ Matt McSherry For some gay men, going to bathhouses and having a "one time" anonymous sexual encounter may very well be tied to repressed feelings of shame. If you grew up in a catholic household and went to church every Sunday, you have a so much guilt and shame rammed down your throat your whole life and there probably isn't anyway to escape those feelings. I can easily see how some gay men will fall into that trap and the only way they can survive the shame and guilt is not to face it afterwards. They will repress their shameful and guilty feelings and after a almost sleepless week, those thoughts and feelings will almost be forgotten. Until the next time they have a desire for human contact beyond a handshake or hug and then that cycle will repeat itself. Not having to face the person you did that shameful and dirty sin with simply helps the mind forget quicker. All gay men do not view their lifestyle or sex as shameful though. I was born gay. At 3 years old I knew I liked other boys and seriously used to fantasize about licking one of the neighbor boys nipples when I layed in bed at night. Yep, seriously...3 years old. Because I have always known that it is not something that was ever under my control, I have never felt guilty or shameful about it, It is what it is and it is what I am. There isn't any way I could have changed that so why feel guilty or shameful for doing something that is (at least for me and many other gay men) natural. Having sex with a woman would feel wrong and unnatural to me. Many gay men feel this way and the further you get from coming out, the more you accept it. Those very same gay men that feel that way also go to bathhouses A LOT. SO if they do not feel guilt or shame about living as a gay man and having sex with other men, what is the lure of the bathhouse and anonymous sex? Men, be it straight or gay are sexual creatures. Some more than others but all men are somewhat ruled by the head between their legs not on their shoulders. Women are not highly sexualized like men are. Sure, women enjoy good sex just like men do but women can be satisfied with a sexual encounter (be it good or not all that great) and they can go a long time before they need to satisfy that urge again. Young men can't even go a day without trying to find a sex partner. The urge lessens in older men but older men usually can't go more than a few weeks before needing to satisfy the the building desire to have sex. Straight men are in an unenviable position. Because they are straight, (as in not bi) they need a woman for a sexual partner. Some straight men have women FWB's but still....it isn't going to happen as often as they want it too. Gay men on the other hand simply need another man to quench that urge. And guess what? The other man (or just about every gay man) is also looking to satisfy their urges. And they are always looking. That is why the bathhouse is such a big deal in gay culture. Long before there was ever an Internet or "online" sites. There were gay bars/clubs and the bathhouse. Those that are feeling picky and are not at a week without sex yet will go out to the gay bars and clubs. As long as you don't keep turning people down thinking that your ideal perfect man is just around the next corner or at the next bar, there is a pretty reasonable chance that you will pick up a trick and spend the rest of your evening shagging away (not if you live in Japan of course. Japan is a whole different animal). If you don't feel like playing coy cat and mouse games and you just need and want sex as quickly as possible, the bathhouse is the place for you. It is still the one place where a gay man can go and as long as he is open minded, he will get some d**k and @$$. Once again....not in Japan. If you are a foreigner in a Japanese gay bathhouse you only have a 25% to 30% chance of hooking up with a trick. If you are Japanese the odds get better but you still only have a 50% to 60% chance of hooking up with a trick. Unless you are the proverbial always on your back slut but much like the unicorn everywhere else, that type of slut is never a Japanese man. Ironically, unicorns do exist in Japan but not the rest of the world. "Alway on your back" sluts are a dime a dozen in most other countries but only exist in Japan as the tourist from another country (America, Canada etc...). I was obviously bored here and was waiting for a friend that is always late so I got carried away with what I have written. I could have just said that not all gay men feel guilty or shameful and all gay men are horn dogs so for many gay men the bathhouse is the easy outlet to satisfy their sexual needs (daily for some). Why type the easy reply when you can write a book though. My late friend has arrived though so it is time to finally get out of the house, If some of you actually read this far, hope you enjoyed the story.
@alexterieur8813
@alexterieur8813 2 жыл бұрын
@@USCanthony what’s a always on your back slot?
@CoreyChambersLA
@CoreyChambersLA Жыл бұрын
Fascinating
@davidwoodford1814
@davidwoodford1814 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your candor! You both are disarmingly forthright!! Both of you are delightful but Meng is totally hot!
@aT3s2
@aT3s2 2 жыл бұрын
This was indeed very fun, thank you guys for sharing! 😄
@USCanthony
@USCanthony 2 жыл бұрын
Andrew's story was hilarious. If I had been in Andrew's position, I think I would have gotten out of there as quickly as possible. It just seems that the other person knowing things about you while you don't know anything about them puts you in a vulnerable position. At least it would seem that way in the moment. Those two guys may have only had the best of intentions and may have been a bit turned on by thinking they were going to get together with a KZbin celebrity. In the moment though I am sure that what goes through your mind is your exposed vulnerability. It does make for a very entertaining story though. I am not a celebrity (KZbin or otherwise) though so that type of thing has never been a concern when going to a bathhouse. What concerns me about going to a bathhouse is running into any of my close friends having sex in the public areas. I just know I would go hysterically blind and might even pass out which would not be good in the center of a bathhouse.
@quantafreeze
@quantafreeze 2 жыл бұрын
I missed you boys! So cute!
@jaruchaohjanmekha1215
@jaruchaohjanmekha1215 2 жыл бұрын
Sad I have tattoos lol. Thank you so much for both of your sharing this. I can't wait for more stories.
@Erigato2010
@Erigato2010 2 жыл бұрын
You can go to these bath houses with tattoos
@mousykatka
@mousykatka 2 жыл бұрын
Tokyo BTM?...😂 ....do you know who I am! 😂 Oh gosh what a stories...thanks for sharing! ❤️
@happyhappyaus2128
@happyhappyaus2128 2 жыл бұрын
I fell asleep in a Hattenba and woke up and some guy was licking my feet lol
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
😱😱tell us more !!!
@Jupiterprince20
@Jupiterprince20 2 жыл бұрын
when i went to 24 kaikan 2 weeks ago, nobody was wearing a mask once they changed into their robes. ;P
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
Good to know
@chrispnw2547
@chrispnw2547 2 жыл бұрын
I think Meng should ask the handsome tall guy at the Conrad Osaka if he has a gay brother as the two of them looked so attractive together. Meng needs to go-tall.
@im.ralphn8
@im.ralphn8 2 жыл бұрын
ok. I need to know where Andrew went. May travel the end of this year!
@DelphicExpanse
@DelphicExpanse 2 жыл бұрын
Yay glad to see a new video, and great stories from both of you.
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
sorry for the long wait
@karenavey2183
@karenavey2183 2 жыл бұрын
‘Crawl in a little hole’!! You are hilarious!
@fidelguer
@fidelguer 2 жыл бұрын
It happens in USA and Europe as well. There are places which are very precise about the profile of the people that they allow to enter in bathhouses, bars, clubs, etc. The gay community is too complex and boring sometimes. Love the video.
@nickyyuenyuen
@nickyyuenyuen 2 жыл бұрын
is it possible to share with me which bath house ? I'm planning my first visit to Tokyo ... thank you
@TokyoBTM
@TokyoBTM 2 жыл бұрын
we shared in one of our most recent videos, on thumbnail it says "Japan is OPEN"!
@andrijor
@andrijor 2 жыл бұрын
That sounds like a crazy experience omg 😅 but I hope it’s not awkward if you have any experiences with fans again!!!
@alkey29
@alkey29 2 жыл бұрын
Have you ever accidentally interacted with each other in a hattemba in a dark room then realize it later? Considering that you're friends in a plutonic way I would probably be mortified 😱
@crestonediamond
@crestonediamond Жыл бұрын
Andrew, I'm thinking you are overthinking the whole encounter in the bathhouse. Just enjoy.
@danielintheantipodes6741
@danielintheantipodes6741 2 жыл бұрын
I would have been much more embarrassed than you. I think you handled it super well! I have never been to a bathhouse and this story has reminded me of why I haven't! I get it, in theory, why be embarrassed if you meet someone you know because you are both there for the same reason, but I would be embarrassed nevertheless! Thank you for the video! Have an amazing week!
@stevemerrifield5580
@stevemerrifield5580 2 жыл бұрын
Fun video. Anyone know where can I get that mug Andrew uses? So cute.
@senju2024
@senju2024 2 жыл бұрын
I never go to 2-Chome. I only stay around Asakusa for the older mature crowd. No Gaijins around here but I guess that is the point.
@SrGianniSchichi
@SrGianniSchichi Жыл бұрын
Is there a foreigner bear friendly bathhouse in Tokyo? I will be going in November!
@justmike1753
@justmike1753 2 жыл бұрын
It sounds like bathhouses require a lot of confidence😅
@dagontheseatitan7846
@dagontheseatitan7846 2 жыл бұрын
What great video guys love the stories shared today.
@martip2736
@martip2736 2 жыл бұрын
me too! haha
Answering Your Assumptions About Us (The Truth is...)
19:01
Tokyo BTM
Рет қаралды 44 М.
Why Gay Foreigners are Not Popular in Japan
28:17
Tokyo BTM
Рет қаралды 179 М.
One day.. 🙌
00:33
Celine Dept
Рет қаралды 56 МЛН
I thought one thing and the truth is something else 😂
00:34
عائلة ابو رعد Abo Raad family
Рет қаралды 12 МЛН
Sigma Kid Mistake #funny #sigma
00:17
CRAZY GREAPA
Рет қаралды 9 МЛН
Tokyo Gay Cruising Spots RANKED! Ultimate Hattenba Tier List
34:30
Q&A: Untold Stories from Our Gay Cruise Adventure!
33:32
Tokyo BTM
Рет қаралды 38 М.
Storytime: I Slept with the President of my Frat
21:12
Chariotz
Рет қаралды 506 М.
A Gay Bathhouse Employee Explains the Absolute Basics
20:13
Locker Ninety
Рет қаралды 171 М.
5 Straight Girls vs 1 Secret Lesbian : Find The Hidden Gay
22:10
Storytime: BJ Bar for Gays
16:20
Tokyo BTM
Рет қаралды 120 М.
Dating in Japan went like ⤵️💔
21:54
Tokyo BTM
Рет қаралды 37 М.
Life as a Gay English Teacher in Okinawa, Japan
21:30
Tokyo BTM
Рет қаралды 116 М.
One day.. 🙌
00:33
Celine Dept
Рет қаралды 56 МЛН