STORYTIME: Why I Ended a 12-Year Friendship | Secret Animosity | Outearning Your Friends

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

To those who may have misinterpreted my message, I extend my sympathy, including to the friend mentioned in this video, who has seen it. As a result, you've been blocked across all platforms, and that status will remain unchanged. While I once knew her, I no longer recognize the person she's become. Her actions didn't align with my values, and I stand by my decision without concern for dissenting opinions. This is my narrative, and I appreciate your viewership. It reflects my truth, not hers. I was uncomfortable with the way she treated me, and I've closed that chapter. It's possible to offer condolences from a distance without reviving a relationship, which is precisely what I've chosen to do.

[@brownwollf]

Some people are meant for a season or a lifetime, her immaturity lead her to be a seasonal friend. That’s it, that’s all.💕

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

Absolutely, you hit the nail on the head! It's all about recognizing the different roles people play in our lives, whether for a season or a lifetime. Thanks for sharing your insights! 💕

[@Truthteller978]

After 12 years she treats you like that!?! She has always been jealous of you and comparing herself to you. I have had a friend like that and I’m glad she isn’t a part of my life anymore. Keep prospering❤

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

It's tough when friendships don't turn out as we hoped, but sometimes it's for the best to move forward without them. Thank you for your support and encouragement! Wishing you continued growth and prosperity too! ❤

[@courtz_]

New subscriber forsureee !! 💕😝had to tap that subscribe button as I can relate to some things that u said in your video . Keep pushing girl !

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

Thank you so much for subscribing! 💖 It means a lot to know you can relate. I’m grateful to have you here, and your support motivates me to keep pushing! Let’s grow together! 🌟

[@Pixelprincess3]

It sounds like you and your old friend simply outgrew each other. Aside from her shady comments and behavior, she is not on the path that you're on. Maybe it's time to surround yourself with like-minded friends. As she is apart of a season in your life that you've elevated past. Btw i love your channel & you are so beautiful!

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

Thank you so much for your insight and kind words! It's true that sometimes people just naturally grow apart, and it's important to surround ourselves with friends who align with our current paths and values. I appreciate your support for my channel, and your encouragement means a lot to me!

[@tatijas]

If it’s in your heart., I believe the only thing I would do.,since the passing of her dad., is send her my condolences and continue to keep it moving.

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

Thank you. I've made the decision to maintain my distance from her, choosing not to reintegrate her into my life. I believe the best course of action, especially since the passing of her dad, is to extend my condolences and focus on moving forward.

[@Truthteller978]

“ you need to recognize when certain elements aren’t being reciprocated.” Please take heed. You deserve love that comes in abundance,especially in a sisterhood.

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

Thank you for your insightful advice. Recognizing when reciprocity is lacking is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships. Your words resonate deeply, and I appreciate your support. Here's to surrounding ourselves with love and abundance in all our connections. 🌟❤

[@HughMadBro]

Okay girlie ;) getting consistent 😜😜 I see you 😘😘

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

Thank you so much! Your support means everything to me! 😊💕

[@HughMadBro]

@@PrivilegedBlackGirl girl we gotchu :) I'm trying to slide the story of ol short white sugar daddy to other people to push more subs your way 🤷🏼‍♀️😜 Cause I'm sure people cross ol girl on their FYP or if they're on the other side of yt. We got into the who tf did I marry & I think the other one is kinda juicy with her goofy ahh but I'm trying to align things that way you get a mass influx of girls who support girls :D & we can watch you flourish some more & another stream of income never hurt nobody😉🤷🏼‍♀️😘 && I assume my IG message got held or something I'll resend it as soon as I get on my laptop tomorrow I'm making myself a note now. I just won't mention YT cause it could've blocked it for spam also 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

Thank you so much for your incredible support and for spreading the word about my channel! Your efforts to share my content and connect with others mean the world to me. I truly appreciate your dedication to helping me grow and flourish. I'll keep an eye out for your IG message and make sure to check my spam folder just in case. Let's continue empowering each other and building a community of strong, supportive women! 💕😊@@HughMadBro

[@nautica.robersonrealtor]

What's for you is for you! I learned that years ago. Continue putting God first and putting in the work. You will win over and over again.

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

Absolutely! Thank you for the reminder. Trusting in divine timing and staying committed to the journey will always lead to success. Let's keep striving and believing in ourselves! 🙏🏽💪🏽

[@cuteyalexia]

I don't think that you should reach out to her because she's still the same person. I've been there where I try to maintain a friendship and then I realized that the person is never as happy for me as I am for them. I do answer when they reach out and do small talk, but I don't share my goals and dreams with them anymore.

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

I appreciate your perspective and sharing your experience. It's so important to recognize when a friendship may not be fulfilling or supportive, especially if there's a lack of mutual happiness and support. Setting boundaries and prioritizing our own well-being is key. Thank you for sharing!

[@brenrob1965]

Definitely shouldn't reach back out to her. I had a similar situation w/a former "bestie". I'm a single mother of two(both have same dad), at the time of our friendship I was estranged from my mom and didn't really have a relationship w/other family members. I could recall so many instances where she would make snide rude remarks. I would let it slide due to feeling like I had no one. When I gave birth to my second child. She showed up to the hospital and gave me a congrats card. Inside of the card she wrote, "Let's make little man the last one"😮Now at the time I didn't ponder too much on it. But now thinking back I'm like, that shady b****😂 Fast forward to today she has two children and TWO baby daddies. She reached out to me about 3-4 yrs ago. We spoke briefly, I was glad that she her children were doing well. But I just wasn't interested in reviving a friendship with her. If we have to fall out and come back together every 5-8 yrs just let it be. The rudeness, the passive aggression, the judgement.... keep it. Although I know people make mistakes that's just not it. Making a mistake is ordering us Starbucks and getting me the wrong drink. Not being a passive aggressive a**hole to me.

[@cuteyalexia]

Let's make little man the last one?! That's so damn disrespectful! Good riddance!

[@brenrob1965]

​@cuteyalexia EXACTLY! What man condemns in others, he attracts himself...bc her situation ended up worse than mine 😂

[@janelleb.9206]

I had almost the exact situation happen. I caved.

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

It's understandable how tempting it can be to give someone another chance, even if past experiences have been challenging. Sometimes, we believe in the possibility of change or reconciliation. It's all part of our journey of growth and learning. Thank you for sharing your experience.

[@rubigee4397]

If she wanted you to know her dad passed, she would’ve reached out to you herself; had you acknowledged it & reached out, she would’ve thought y’all were cool again.

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

You might be right. Sometimes, gestures like reaching out can mean more than we realize. Thanks for the perspective! 🙌

[@hairinhd]

New subscriber great video

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

Thank you so much for subscribing! I'm thrilled to have you join the community. Stay tuned for more exciting content! 🎉🌟

[@hairinhd]

She was not a good friend. If you want to reach out, you should(dad passing), but the friendship will never be the same

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

Thank you for your message. While I appreciate your suggestion, I've decided not to reach out. However, I wish her all the best during this difficult time.

[@YourFavoritePPL]

You choosing to post a video like this right after “your long time best friend” father passed away is Crazy(Especially because you met/knew him). The timing couldn’t be any worse. She held you down at your lowest and you not being able to hold her down at your highest says a lot. You letting 12 months tarnish 12 years of friendship just isn’t right. Either the way damage the damage is done, I pray your spirit leads you further towards the healing you desire. Alsalam ealayk.

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

Oh wow, thank you so much for your insightful comment! I really appreciate your concern for my impeccable timing and how it may have affected my long-lost friend's grieving process. Clearly, I have absolutely no regard for anyone's feelings and I thrive on causing chaos during sensitive times. Your prayers for my spiritual enlightenment are truly heartwarming. I hope my next video brings you even more joy and satisfaction. Alsalam ealayk to you too!

[@jessicamiller9268]

She is absolutely disgusting! God knows she spinning the narrative like crazy, she (who she speaking on) is not who she making it seem. The person she is speaking on has a heart of Gold and is going through one of the hardest and worst times of her life! (I know cause it will be a year for me next month) And she picks now to do this bs. And people in the comments believing the shit. But it’s ok, the Karma she has opened for herself is crazy. And when God turn them tables and the pain hits 10 fold, let’s just hope she is as strong as who she is speaking on. May God have mercy on her fr!! 🙏🏽

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

Do you know me or something? Losing a parent is an incredibly difficult experience, and my heart goes out to you, her and others. While I can relate to the pain of losing a father, I agree that it doesn't justify disrespectful behavior towards others. It's unfortunate that you're choosing to spread negativity during such a sensitive time for yourself. Let's hope that you realizes the error of your own ways before karma catches up with you. @@jessicamiller9268

[@jessicamiller9268]

@@PrivilegedBlackGirl I’m far from negative. My God is amazing… truth is truth…So stop acting like you’re such this great person while being condescending! If no one knows our hearts it’s God. So i have no reason to worry. You on the other hand should be. Be blessed tho!

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

@@jessicamiller9268 girl, shut up.

[@jazstyles8410]

12:59 could of been spending all that time praying, all that wasted time on manifesting from someone other than god. Then realizing who she is just after she introduce you to that new age ritual stuff. May God bless you.

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

I do not understand where you are coming from. May you help me understand?

[@jazstyles8410]

@ i mean, I wish she told you about manifesting from God cause it’s so much more powerful. Usually when ppl manifest, with out God, other entities will answer to your request and it always later comes with a fee that’s costly. God has the most in-store for us at the price of his love. A blessing from God thats meant for you is only for you, & is so powerful, that no one can stop it. Praying and talking to God is what does it. He want us to have happiness in life on earth and internally after death. so all the things you manifested could have came with out the negativity and could have came with gifts that you needed, like decrement. God sending you discernment would have told you about your friend long before you even got that deep into the relationship with her.

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

@@jazstyles8410 Thank you for sharing your perspective-it’s so important to keep God at the center of our lives. 🙏🏽 I wholeheartedly agree that God’s blessings are unmatched, and His love is the ultimate gift. I also believe that discernment is a key part of that blessing, and I pray every day for mine to grow stronger. Oftentimes, even when we’re in prayer, God will use people to deliver His blessings, and sometimes we don’t fully see someone’s true intentions or ‘face’ until those blessings come through. Everything happens in His divine timing, and I trust that He reveals what we need to know exactly when we need to know it. 💕 Thank you for your insight-it’s always good to be reminded of the power of God’s love. ✨

[@jazstyles8410]

@@PrivilegedBlackGirl yes sis!! Amen to that! may god continue to bless and guide you and your loved ones through all your hardships in life. I pray you have fulfillment in your heart and soul. I pray God to keep your enemies and wrong doers at bay, and for them not to parish but for them to find the love of god also. I pray you have all the protection and love that God has to offer you. God bless you Akiela.

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

@@jazstyles8410 Wow, thank you so much for such a heartfelt and powerful prayer! 🙏🏾✨ Your words truly touched my heart. I receive every blessing you’ve spoken, and I pray the same for you and your loved ones-may God’s love, guidance, and protection always surround you. May He continue to pour abundant joy and peace into your life. God bless you too, Sis! 💖✨🖤

[@WinRegardlesss]

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[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

You must be her.👋🏽 🥴✌🏽 Glad you watched. 🫶🏽

[@TeriMYaki]

Hey Akiela, your story is very inspiring. I would like to reach out to you for mentorship. I’m pursing a similar niche. If it’s ok, please provide email.

[@PrivilegedBlackGirl]

Hi there, Thank you so much for reaching out and for your kind words! I'm glad to hear that my story has resonated with you. I appreciate your interest in mentorship. Please feel free to email me at [e-mail]. I'll take a look at your message and see if we can find a way to work together. Looking forward to hearing from you! Best regards, Akiela