Strict Muslim Man Asks TOUGH Questions On Speed Date That WOMEN Can't ANSWER!

Welcome to the Pan-African Dating show "Love Across Borders"! This show follows a group of single people as they embark on a journey to find love within the Pan-African community.
In each episode, Issa will go on dates with potential matches from various cultural backgrounds. Along the way, they'll learn about each other's traditions, values, and lifestyles as they navigate the complexities of dating.
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Girl No.5 (Speed Dating) - 16:33
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[@tyepat7931]

What is the man Instagram?

[@ddavis8988]

Why would a guy like him even go on speed dating? That's like a vegetarian going to a butcher's shop and being surprised they got meat.

[@lorainez007]

Fr like if u want a Muslim girl with hijab go find her in a mosque I don't know lmao why coming to a speed dating 😂

[@expatbiker6598]

Most people waste over 6 months dating without getting the answers Adam got with just a few minutes chat. Honest and to the point.

[@oneman.1780]

My best advice for adams is to go back to mosque to find wife because here is not best place for him to get woman. It can’t work without no drama.

[@olayiwolasegun1392]

Who says he will find a good woman in the mosque?

[@hanifahnantongo3261]

Wama thanks 🥰🥰🥰

[@queenlii4334]

@@olayiwolasegun1392 😂

[@ericjackmann1130]

This is the madness religion can cause Africans, He has also vaulet the law because according to the hadiths taking pictures is haram.

[@princesssophiaismailmayah8690]

Hahahah naye mukama

[@Abeisgreat1]

Solid brother with his stuff and standards together. He picked the right one that matched that standard.

[@ckbond41]

He picked the right lady that would bring him happiness. And she seems like a honest and straight talking lady that say what's on her mind.

[@Go-Getter]

I fuck with bruh lmao. He got straight to the point and put the pressure on them 💪🏾

[@jamaicanegril9512]

He needs to realise that not all young women are up for patriarchy or religion. Some of these men live to stand on the heads of women!

[@Kris-ym2zr]

It's not that he's not aware of that, he's just vetting who aligns the best with him like we all have to.

[@Just-an-average_FBAB1]

They picked all wrong women for this man. None of them even want what he is searching for...

[@digi9ten]

Yeah, I'm wondering the purpose of this episode. 😂

[@MegaAli213]

Facts

[@visiow2691]

They should have brought some Muslim women

[@victoriatessie6054]

Jesus Christ 😂🙏

[@shadiakayaaya5299]

Yaaa

[@nankingamariam6620]

He's right, religion first and the rest follows

[@gideonwoods8834]

If he's a muslim why don't he ask his parents to find a wife for him or go to the mosque and make his intentions to know to an unmarried woman.

[@LindsayAmelia]

“Are you into fitness? Are you sure?” Lolll

[@itskarungi]

He’s made his whole personality being a Muslim

[@USERZ3RO]

its a way of life and a massive part of your life. theres no way around it

[@bran_rx]

istg bruh, he is dry...

[@saliem5880]

As it should be

[@KenKaneki-xh7by]

Alhumdulilah as he should 👏🏾

[@sodvine3486]

Sometimes the cover displays whats in the book 😂😂😂. It's true!

[@joanitahfelisca563]

True 👍

[@musafarukhussaini3363]

I like how he set his standards straight

[@CousinMukisa]

Take a shot every time he says "Muslim"

[@franciskizito]

😂 He’s deluded!

[@Tanyebwa]

Am drunk

[@bran_rx]

also, "engineer"... my man is trippin, he sells engines he's not an engineer

[@bran_rx]

"this is more of an interrogation than a date" - Sun Tzu, Art of Trust me Bro

[@JBCEmperor]

I'm no Muslim but I really respect the way he vetted the women while standing firm on his beliefs although he was really repetitive with it. Within 4 seconds of the conversations I knew which women were a no go for him and though not nearly to his degree my mindset is similar and leans more traditionally. I would've picked the last girl too.

[@jamaicanegril9512]

He actually insulted the way these women dressed stating that men see them as (obscene) words!

[@Kris-ym2zr]

@@jamaicanegril9512 In fairness he just said the delicate truth. The shorter the dress, the more we'll see a woman as being comfortable with stoking extra attention from us as other men. That would probably not be the most congruent trait he could look for in a 'commited' wife.

[@nakawukiregina4400]

I have liked the second lady's confidence ❤️❤️💪

[@shalbec3232]

I love her she knows about herself

[@blockavelli]

Damn had to catch the replay, I’m sandaling it up in Nigeria 🇳🇬

[@FollowPickMeekPodcast]

0:38 every time Daddy Sims introduces herself, I always respond, “Hey Daddy” 😂😂😂😂

[@lemungagenu5103]

The weaves though!

[@fooliemane6156]

Lawwd even the African women done became city girls 🤦🏾‍♂️🤣🤣🤣

[@504Tendaji]

Because all the girls on this show live in the big cities. Most Afrikan women don’t live in cities.

[@jamaicanegril9512]

Why should they get married at a very young age and have lots of children when they can enjoy their lives the way they want

[@fooliemane6156]

@@jamaicanegril9512 they should do whatever they want because that is really making the world a better place 😒😂😂😂

[@jamaicanegril9512]

Why shouldn't they evolve like other women all over the world?

[@Kris-ym2zr]

@@jamaicanegril9512 Depends on what they want. Because female youth (and fertility) is a big factor for men who want to get married and have children, the women can secure their best options in their youth aka prime. To each their own though. They might not want kids or marriage for instance.

[@Johnyblac]

Awesome show! Great production!

[@thepanafricandatingshow]

thanks WE ARE TRYING!

[@FollowPickMeekPodcast]

7:35 how does wearing a short skirt cut into your personality? If perception is reality, and you must walk around with inappropriate clothing, you have to accept that you aren’t a wife. 🤷🏾‍♀️ wives worth having aren’t walking around exposing themselves. Keep it for your husband. You don’t have to show your goods to everyone in the world. That actually endangers your man. I like how he’s making his decisions. Don’t try to change these women, get you one who’s willing to get on your program. And like I always like to say, “You can take a woman out her element, but you can’t remove the impact from her.” If she for the streets, leave her ass there!!!

[@ronniewamala5768]

Very well said. 👏

[@ckbond41]

I totally agree with you..

[@Kris-ym2zr]

The commitment to the short dresses stood out to me too ☺️, well said

[@marvl6472]

The chocolate skin on these women..lawd... I like this background instrumental also

[@sneakypeete]

Nice streamlined episode with fresh-faced candidates. Mashallah!

[@migthulhu]

They couldn't find one, modest, Muslim girl worthy of wifing for this guy.

[@patriciafavour4956]

Kyoka Agie made my day 😂😂😂😂😂😂modering 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@taliaasims]

“Hi I’m Adam and I’m looking for someone who will do whatever tf I want” 😂

[@king99maximus]

I got lost there for a minute my guy said he is an engineer he imports car engines 😂 I’m a philosopher i sell sofas 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@Me-wd7ui]

Straight away: fair enough he is saying what he likes , instead of trying to just get a random girl... great Adam

[@anaranjado12]

Bruh if she corrects you and says “im a ma’am” don’t be so disrespectful and insist on calling her sir. It’s not a good look for you and makes you look like a dislike-able person....Totuswaaza.

[@HeWhoRemains42]

Very solid brother

[@MegaAli213]

Alhamdulilah finally a Muslim brother, perhaps we'll see a conversation around principles, morals and traditional family values.

[@leelee5593]

You’ve done a great show congratulations

[@roaringsun4743]

Dope show!!

[@princess_sowad]

I wish I could get him a very proud muslimah queens

[@bran_rx]

what type of an engineer, because a guy who sells engines is not an engineer bruh lmao.

[@FollowPickMeekPodcast]

5:25 I’ve only heard Andrew Tate say that word 😂😂😂

[@victoriatessie6054]

See after God I fear African men 😂

[@ronniewamala5768]

🤣 I'm guessing things are going well with your Hajj?

[@victoriatessie6054]

@@ronniewamala5768 Everything is in control 🥰😂

[@victoriatessie6054]

@@ronniewamala5768 Why everybody looking dope and I look so homeless & ugly my hair 😂😂😂 Jesus Christ

[@natashabarnnie2033]

Short men with strict ways eiiiiishh 😏😏😏

[@marvl6472]

Reminds me of some of the videos of big Shirleys with all the demands for a brotha..👀

[@andrewphillips6853]

This is wrong go and find Muslim women they are according to ur religion perfect

[@adan713]

But Islam doesn't permit holding women's hands and his doing it his also a fruad😂

[@franciskizito]

😂😂 He’s a fraud!

[@moniquetv5414]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@simonkalibwani5832]

Home girl said “as long as I believe in Allah, dressing code doesn’t matter” That man is a better man than me. I would’ve got up and left. 😅

[@thefactsdoctor]

K, ‘haudacity’ n ‘amnesia’, Simz, u know watchu doin😃

[@samarefaei212]

As a Muslim this type of dating is haram (forbidden) and the polygamy part is optional, so I definitely don't get where the man is coming from.

[@panashemapende1643]

Number 2 🔥🔥🔥

[@onyx51]

He called it for what it was. The term “Hoedacity” I thought was an American thing. African men are going through the same thing we deal with here.

[@aishanekesa9901]

I am loving this guy but polygamist 😏

[@darakeaddy6678]

We definitely knows he is an engineer, has money, and is a Muslim. I can respect the brother for having his beliefs and being strong in them but as a father there is absolutely no way I would allow him to date my daughter. I have Muslims in my family, two of my first cousins are Muslims, but he seems to be particularly traditional in how he sees the religion. He was a bit too judgmental for my taste and probably the least likeable bachelor so far on this series.

[@USERZ3RO]

tradtional is the best way :) i hope this brother finds the right one for him. the faith is simple and clear cut. no room for bending any rules

[@leveticus1461]

There are a lot of red flags. He says he's religious but what he says and acts does not reflect that.

[@bran_rx]

he is not an engineer... he sells engines, that's not an engineer

[@yannodemilano5739]

I really appreciate your comment 👌🏿😂

[@taliaasims]

I don’t like him very much but I can appreciate him by giving the woman the choice and opportunity on converting her religion. That’s rare

[@benitheisingizwe]

The guy here brags about money like he is the founder of money 🤩 Adam chillllll

[@duncanodhiambo5473]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@agather8]

ikr😂

[@icycaribe]

He knows what really matters to most women.

[@bran_rx]

that's his personality bro lmao

[@kasaggajovanbenedict7059]

this guy just learnt the word horam

[@warstory123]

she can’t cook so all of them were no goes

[@Spurious_Media]

He picked the woman he was probably the most comfortable with.

[@FollowPickMeekPodcast]

16:08 he is hilarious!!! 😂😂😂😂 the ho-dacity 😂😂😂😂😂

[@FBA-Renaissance]

9:15 - It's GREAT he's being HONEST!! 😎

[@hoodhumor7024]

It's true we men fear uncovered food it has dirty 😂😂😂

[@shalbec3232]

I would never date a muslims guy because they are too controlling🙄 they want to control your life in and outside of the house like i'm not a toy. Plus I don't like the second wife thing like they don't take marriage seriously, the first lady is chill about him bringing other womens,🥴 These ladies were calm the whole time😂 but I like.how he got straight to the point with the questions

[@KenKaneki-xh7by]

We have standards as Muslim men

[@corneliusharris2955]

I think he liked the hosts too. Yea, right. He will be happy though

[@TonnyOkello]

He is polygamous, you know 😂

[@mattmasteringer4399]

I’m worry about this guy. You gonna end marrying someone who just want nothing but money from you. And why you keep bragging about money.

[@nakawukiregina4400]

He is just exaggerating

[@billygoat300]

He picked the one I would've chosen 😋

[@user-gt5zz7ze6t]

Am just in Love with the Presenter 😢😢😢😢

[@officialshiddy]

Adam Kajoba the Engineer😂

[@selphaadweya]

Should look for women in the mosque

[@cw5971]

Bruh, just go look for Muslimas.

[@ruthnantongo8014]

Am searching dea and how can I do

[@fahimanamwanje5480]

Am enjoying this Adama come fr me😂

[@trueblueeducation161]

Insightful show but the background music is unnecessary and distracting.

[@ashabnansimbe1862]

Big up broo

[@alphamediaug]

Religion is limiting him from getting what's good for him, anyway everyone has their own preferences

[@ATSdream]

Just because u think u know what’s good for him?

[@alphamediaug]

@@ATSdream because he's an authoritative type of man that's why I can't think for him

[@icycaribe]

His faith is actually the best thing he has going for him. Not money or his skill. He should learn more about than he displayed but if he does, he will choose the best woman, not just a lot of hoes.

[@shalbec3232]

​@@ATSdream nah he is letting islam stoo him all muslims choose religion over love ,like he gonna miss out on the love of his life😂 he dating women only caring about islam and himself but not the lady hell nah

[@saliem5880]

Religion is life, if she doesn't fit religiously she's not for him

[@ladyd8028]

This episode had me nodding off. How 'bout some grown folks looking for love/companionship?

[@tkhannibal2476]

What do you mean grown?.

[@ladyd8028]

@@tkhannibal2476 40/50+.

[@shalbec3232]

​@@ladyd8028 who would watch it?

[@ladyd8028]

@@shalbec3232 GROWN folks. 😏

[@agaming3731]

Isn't dating haram 😅? So what is brother here expecting

[@ainemarvin]

He's very judgmental; he needs to mature. He also does not appear to be as athletic as he says. Don't let such men into your lives, ladies. This is a tragedy waiting to happen.

[@kevinb3588]

I really like this show and I would love to be apart of it, but I’m literally not attracted to any of them.

[@Kris-ym2zr]

Contact the hosts and see what they can do in regards to your tastes. Good luck

[@mesoanto1031]

Same

[@gkat5860]

Very surprising how many women don't mind side dish 🤔

[@raewangaritv]

They don't mind extra WIVES

[@superiorquality7157]

He's lame

[@jibril2473]

Should’ve found some Hijabiya women for the brother

[@thepanafricandatingshow]

but then it wouldn't have been so exciting. He actually came at the last minute to replace the guy who we had PLANNED for in the beginning but he did a great job.

[@jibril2473]

@@thepanafricandatingshow oh I see still it was a great show I enjoyed it!

[@Fari-100]

If he's so Muslim, why did he think he could go on a dating show and find someone? 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@drexdrenan1903]

Hostest doing the mostest 😌😌😂 But is daddy simz up for a blind date😞🙂😎🤪

[@cmartin5903]

Reading, praying, reciting, etc...what about the personal relationship with God?

[@jayjay7978]

I'm a Christian man and I agree with alot of what the Muslim man is looking for. If more people who claim to be christian lived the Bible, then they would see alot of similarities. Minus the peligamy part

[@fatmahnakazibwe5151]

King solomon is in the bible

[@jayjay7978]

@@fatmahnakazibwe5151 nope, I'm talking about the new testament not the old

[@fatmahnakazibwe5151]

I didnt know that u choose to follow one, not both. Thats new to me about christianity. Sorry

[@jlking8724]

@@jayjay7978 where in the new testament is polygamy not allowed?

[@jayjay7978]

@@jlking8724 you can start with adultery and go from there. Everybody who has something to say about the Bible or Christianity in general should do their research first before speaking on it. But you have to keep your biasness out of it.

[@user-tl2jm3sk5c]

Wow the show was amazing though am a moslem too l follow the shari'a law's but I can't accept the man to add for me another woman you have to love me only period ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@aiollieshalton1480]

What a control freak this program is not for him,seems his here to interrogate and make fun of these girls. These girls stood their ground good on them.

[@CodnGta]

Ofc what type of man isn’t controlling? A beta male with no authority in the house is the only man that isnt controlling

[@gladysivy3173]

Ur right.he would HV gone to the mosque directly.oops

[@shadiakayaaya5299]

I like that man🙈😘💕

[@eddiebarisiima]

Naye banange Hajji Adam is not a joking Muslim hello 😂 . Who doesn’t like Arab Ugandan money ??? 😂😂😂

[@shyletlupa5453]

This one is crazy .Come to UAE and see how the muslims ladies put makeup and nails here and still wear their Sheila and abayas

[@icycaribe]

He chose the most foul-mouthed one.

[@thandicandy5452]

Lol I think she's okay

[@icycaribe]

@Thandi Candy of course you do. Women who curse like that are nasty and unscrupulous. She will use the same language when she sics the family courts on him.

[@queenbhinta60]

Is this platform met for only Eastern African pls?

[@charlescharles6191]

I'm a muslim man!

[@Indigo947]

He's an engineer because he imports engines from overseas. God forbid he designs and or actually engineers something.

[@bigzee8907]

He said 'I do business, though I am an engineer.'

[@kingof-queens7758]

God Abeg With This Comment.

[@mattmasteringer4399]

He brags about it way too much.

[@klopcodez]

What’s so special about being an engineer is that something to really keep bragging about having money this and that

[@bran_rx]

he sells engines, that's not an engineer

[@bran_rx]

why'd he smack her hand like that tho lmao, people lack basic manners bruh.

[@shizz789]

To each his own, but the overly religious thought process seems to be trapped in a box as opposed to critical thinking.

[@ibrahimhellen9395]

This Muslim guy wants a lady with artificial nails 😂😂😂 really

[@rrw1981]

Even when these women disagree, they still remain softspoken and feminine. The last woman was somewhat vocal, but compared to American women, she's still very feminine.

[@thandicandy5452]

Good notice lol. Alot of women are very combative. I believe as long as you state clearly what you want and believe and stand for your words, you can be understood without being loud and combative. But some some women are naturally loud.

[@hajarnampewo3322]

If there is any way to contact this guy am a Muslim lady who practice Islamic culture. If he is still available I need to talk to him in privacy

[@AbdallahEsa]

Assalamu 'alaikum sister. Ramadan Mubarak. I'm available for contact if you like.

[@jamaicanegril9512]

And yes, he needs to go to the mosque to find his 4 wives instead of looking at women in mini skirts!

[@chopgotsauce6812]

Are these women from Africa or America?

[@mattmasteringer4399]

Are you serious bro. Why you say that.

[@chopgotsauce6812]

@@mattmasteringer4399 She said she like wearing mini skirts in public, she's not changing for a man, and to take her as she is. Sounds American to me.

[@lennylink8772]

Ugh! I can't tell... It's so disappointing! They have been corrupted by feminist worship. I'm going to have to travel to a remote village to find a good woman

[@fooliemane6156]

My thoughts exactly 😂

[@mattmasteringer4399]

@@chopgotsauce6812 ohhhh I get it now. That’s modern woman for y’all. They are nothing compared to their grandmothers. They have know idea what a man want from the woman, they’re just empty minded. Few years from now, a lot woman going to be either single parents or they’re going to get a dog and die alone.

[@rahmahsharifnajjuka9946]

Come to me am a Moslem and am looking for a serious Moslem man🥺

[@luswatadanav9542]

This guy should go to a mosque. These shows are not of that of bukedde or something. He is a true moslem and he is criticizing these girls yet he is in a wrong place. Let him go to the mosque 😅

[@milarsejemba313]

You sound ignorant for a Muganda man...and why do you think Bukedde TV is the most watched Tv station?

[@joshuaokoli4236]

The African Andrew Tate 😅

[@uncommontherapy6547]

Lol. Andrew Tate thinks critically and is not religiously minded