"strict parents protect our physical heath but always fails to protect our mental health" ( à kind girl)
@anam_mirza7Ай бұрын
I know how it feels
@GOLDYLOVESJESUSANDALLАй бұрын
very true
@MrNormeenАй бұрын
I accept that it has a boy
@Oreomilkshake-bp2vrАй бұрын
You just tell my feelings 🙂🙂
@mansoorahmad1320Ай бұрын
FR 💔 felt it
@angshrutafiveswarnabhone2858Ай бұрын
This overprotectiveness may lead to destruction of the poor child😢
@anjuk2478Ай бұрын
And this is the reason that I hesitate to go anywhere, I think a lot to do anything. They never allowed me to go anywhere since childhood and now they say to me to do a job, I always think abt doing a job but something is stopping me and now i feel like a useless
@robloxsimpleairАй бұрын
It's not the parents fault, it is the childs way of thinking, If he has problems, why not go to someone, if they have no freinds, the beauty of Islam is that in my case, where I have no friends, I always have someone to go to.
@janetbadiable9234Ай бұрын
Parents doenst want there children to end up like a criminal or drug addict i hope you understand, these kids are out of control, my parents is also over protective but I understand it
@PercysADHD_KloeyMatthewsАй бұрын
@@robloxsimpleair God ain't helpin' no one. 💀 I've prayed before, I've tried transitioning to Christian before, and nothing helped. In fact, it made it worse. It is the parent's fault, because their children are literally taught how to behave and think by them. Clearly, you're a spoiled child.
@Hikari_Heart1210Ай бұрын
@@janetbadiable9234 Did you know that when parents are too strict as soon as their child gets the smallest bit of freedom they go wild? Along with how most kids with overly strict parents are more likely to be depressed, have anxiety and they are more likely to just follow authority without question because they were conditioned to do that? Which, it might sound fine, but if that authority is misplaced, if the authority figure isn't a good role model, the person will collapse easier under peer-pressure then others. Overly strict parents set their children up for failure, whether they mean to or not.
@akalkasreejith2260Ай бұрын
Birds born in a cage think flying is an illness.. ~a wise person
@shauquinraza3381Ай бұрын
And one more point : - They have a kid who forget to live his own life 😔🥺😢😭.
@hiraumar7084Ай бұрын
Their caring but the don't know what there kid is feeling from inside depressed and lonely ...
@LordOfWar225Ай бұрын
After seeing this short, my family has no right to question why their 22 year old (me) committed suicide Edit: someone fucking help me because the struggle is not a struggle no more, it's a damn psychological war
@e-girl6969Ай бұрын
@@LordOfWar225dont you dare doit,dont give in.We need you,i need you... My life is also kinda trash(im 15),feeling pressured and uncomfortable around my family, lately i feel more free and comfortable when i am at school (mostly brats are there) than my own home. Last year,i also had thoughts about suicide but i never try to do anything i was only thinking.You know what kept alive and made me keep going,my thoughts about me being a model when i grow up,my thoughts about the school i will go next year(we are moving out so i won't have to see those brats again😍,i hate them with all my heart), thinking about the glow up im going to have(i have already started it),thinking that i could truly be my self there, propably brats will be there too but i won't let them take me down,i won't care about what anyone will think about me in a bad way.Thinking that if i actually manage to become a model,the brats that laughed at me will see me on tv one day and be like:"wait... isn't THAT!!"(i want to prove them wrong,they dont know anything about me). I know life is hard right now,but think about your future,your dreams,the future that you want to have not what your parents or some random brat tells you to do in few years(they don't really want me to be a model).Think about the people you are going to meet,about beautiful moments that you are going to have in your life,think about the right person(your soulmate). No matter what is happening,never surrender... Killing your self its the easy way,you want that way?That you gave up?that YOU killed your self? I know its hard but...we need you to survive,I need you to Never surrender...
@LordOfWar225Ай бұрын
@@e-girl6969 you don't even know me tho....m Besides, I'm just another terrestrial creature breathing air (yes my value is that meaningless) and you don't want ppl to die but guess what, 450K ppl die each day
@LordOfWar225Ай бұрын
What's the harm of +1 to that number
@LordOfWar225Ай бұрын
Plus I actually don't have anyone who cares about me bc I cut myself off from everyone.... Too much backstabbing
@raojaved-jq4nkАй бұрын
They say "we are just protecting you" but reality is that "they are just raising liars"😞🥺💔
@Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiii541Ай бұрын
I had a friend who's parents were too strict and she acted like she listen to her parent but she still do things that her parents don’t allow.she is hiding things from her parents.by watching her I was thinking strict parents can't stop her at all🤨
@Babydoll-prettygurl.Ай бұрын
@@Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiii541yeah I’m also that person for my bsf, she watches me do EVERYTHING I’m not supposed to, and her mom is kinda laid back. Like when she came out as bi she was excepted, but my parents hit me into a wall for it. So me and her have opposite lives kinda, her mom still has rules but she’s not strict. I’ve always been kinda bold, in the popular group. She’s very quiet and doesn’t really hang around the popular kids (except for me) so we’re opposites in certain ways. We have some things in common but when it comes to surface behavior we’re total opposites.😅
@Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiii541Ай бұрын
@@Babydoll-prettygurl. I Don't have that stirct parents.and Iam quite too😅
@adogiguess22 күн бұрын
So now yall hate ur parents?What a bad world we live in.
@raojaved-jq4nk22 күн бұрын
@@adogiguess I didn't say that
@__IAM4U__Ай бұрын
The every line even a every word gives me goosebumps 😭😭 it's 100% true 😢😢itd make me cry
@astrowayedАй бұрын
Fr😭😣
@lordDarkseidofapokolipsАй бұрын
if you have that strict parents then why do you have a smartphone and please don't tell me that i bought it with my own money
@astrowayedАй бұрын
@@lordDarkseidofapokolips it could be his moms or dads phone... i have strict parents but after a lot of convincing I eventually got my smartphone.
@lordDarkseidofapokolipsАй бұрын
@@astrowayed i know how it feels Like when they didn't do things according to your wish and it feels awful but after losing my parents i realised that everything they did was for my own good nothing less only more
@astrowayedАй бұрын
@@lordDarkseidofapokolips true, they do better for us but sometimes we feel as if it's too much ( strict ) and also I'm so sry for u that u lost ur parents man💔
@AGGAMERS451Ай бұрын
Me with 1001 problems but still vibing 😢😢😢 parent says kids have no problems but, the life of a kid = 😭🤕😢
@padminisriyalatha332016 күн бұрын
Same here😭💪
@danaegonzalez68555 күн бұрын
fr
@DexterEditsO2 күн бұрын
Hand it over to God 😊tell God all of your problems and he will remove it for you..
@lisa.shrivastaАй бұрын
Now they has a kid who lost all reason to live happily.
@KidlatChaseGVinasАй бұрын
Damn facts man.
@astrowayedАй бұрын
True
@Sophie_Afton7Ай бұрын
Agree
@RiyukiYamagutchi13Ай бұрын
True
@lordDarkseidofapokolipsАй бұрын
what is your criteria for being happy
@haniahayat1313Ай бұрын
its true in the past i was always upset an overthinker... etc but over time i learned to love myself i build myself without my parents help i was the one who picked up my shattered pieces nobody helped me😢 yet i still found happinness with my self ❤
@Dontmindme-_-0690Ай бұрын
Same girl ❤
@KimMahiXDАй бұрын
Ohh i hope I can do this too😅😭
@QtarosNormalTripАй бұрын
In the end it worked out
@snc_luvАй бұрын
How did u do it with no help? Asking bcs I'm in a dark place rn...
@haniahayat1313Ай бұрын
@@snc_luv it was pretty hard at first to hold my tears and control my emotions but as time passed i stopped overthinking, daydreaming, i believed in myself and in my thoughts to get better i started loving myself truely i no longer cared what others will think of me i took time for myself and every thing started when i first looked in the mirror and deep in my eyes and i said the i love myself, i believe in myself, im beautiful, i embrace the challenges in my life, i can do this, and I'm ready to get better and then i started saying these lines in front of mirror everyday and i worked it made me more confident and happier i also watched lots of youtube videos of how to be a better version of yourself and i did as they said like exercise, reading, and taking time to sit in a quite place and just relax my mind i also started to write my toughts down on a piece of paper when i was angry, it helped me relief all the stress and anger inside of me. over all i just believed that i can get better and i hope that you all can also love yourself and be happier. but remember that it will take some time but you will surely notice a change for the good in yourself and will mentally be more happier and stronger.😊
@sampasarkar1082Ай бұрын
My life is most appropriately defined by this 💔💔💔 I am a 17+ man who never got happiness for this main reason💔 who knows will i ever get happiness??
@michelehall4039Ай бұрын
You'll definitely get your happiness one day, just keep your chin up and it'll come.
@shristigarg9420Ай бұрын
in future there is someone who will give u much greater amount of happiness .......just wait for god's grace
@planteruines561924 күн бұрын
even in suffering you can have happiness , there is no need of despair
@Zeinsanemedic111 күн бұрын
There is one who wishes to give you eternal happiness and his name is Jesus Christ All things are temporary and will pass away But the things that come from God are everlasting
@Jisungsnoona668Ай бұрын
As a kid who has strict parents I relate to all of these, i don’t trust my parents at all and I’m very uncomfortable with them, i always have to lie to them. Everything else is true too.
@aalimasiddqui52012 ай бұрын
*And a kid who forgot to live his life!!* 💔😶😞
@mansoorahmad13202 ай бұрын
Same 💔🙂
@azadmahmud442 ай бұрын
Same🥀 💔😞😔😭
@aboutfacts786Ай бұрын
And a kid who lost all the reasons to live 😢
@MahiSrivastva-gb7hoАй бұрын
Same...
@user-ge2gr7go4vАй бұрын
Made us want to choose death instead being alive
@BillieMahabubul-em2jmАй бұрын
My parents used to be very strict when I was young but that led to me not having any friends, being unsocial, alone and feeling that something was wrong with me.
@favess81Ай бұрын
🙁🙁
@RiyukiYamagutchi13Ай бұрын
Same 😢
@kote_gamingpl4152Ай бұрын
Same😢
@RosereesesАй бұрын
Me too😢
@Tomoe-AkiraАй бұрын
Same they don't care anything with me. Sometimes i have to thinking they want me die, So they don't see anything what i do for they don't care my feelings if i have no friends I can't survive because they have hurt me, my heart, my body and everything. If they really protecting me why they did those with me. Why? 😢
@jxstlily_Ай бұрын
Omg this is so true...😢😢 They only take care of our physical but not mental health
@battle_ship_dragonsАй бұрын
I'm starting to realise how much I relate to this, since I hardly even talk to my best friend anymore, I dont vent, except to my online friend who has kinda left, my parents just blame everything on my phone, but I think it's more than that....I just wish I had an in person friend who i could just talk to...😢💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
@KimMahiXDАй бұрын
Frrrr😭💔😖
@PrishaPundir15 күн бұрын
Tell Mr about it I can relate
@AamirAban2 ай бұрын
I thought that i am the wrong person who don't tell anything about my problem and only lies to my parents but they literally never tried to understand.
@kabirkhidr5811Ай бұрын
true :(
@KimMahiXDАй бұрын
True 😭😅
@Cya-_-laterАй бұрын
True 😢
@Babydoll-prettygurl.Ай бұрын
True
@user-xu3sk2ox8eАй бұрын
I'm like this too. But I feel guilty for not telling My problems but something is holding me. So they never know how I really feel. and the most annoying fact is I keep distance from everyone. They never know real me. becouse of it i just hate myself and then I think : why can't I be like other kids? What's up with me? I really love my parents, but I never let them come in my zone and share my pain. But It's ok couse, I'm already used to it and also the fact I'm always at fault in everything..
@murugeshwarana41862 ай бұрын
It's true....I can understand their caring ....but they won't think about our freedom.....and our comfort.....they just want us to be their doll....
@MadiMichele-ft8dpАй бұрын
Fr that's how my parents are
@NkPandey-bx1knАй бұрын
True
@NkPandey-bx1knАй бұрын
😢
@Shadow_DeltoraАй бұрын
Lol yes I got strict parents too but guess what I'm introvert lol so idc about that just as long as they provide stuff that I need like wifi and games etc I'm happy alone lol
@farhinkathi0730Ай бұрын
Yeah maybe their approach is wrong but once you know you will be terrified believe me or not this generation is blocking their conscience and when you start to stay away from this dirty world you will eventually stay DISCIPLINED , IS DISCIPLINE NOW KNOWN AS STRICTNESS.... You Will know in the future mark my words
Ай бұрын
Bro explained me 100% better than myself
@GRACIEEEXАй бұрын
My parents were super strict and still are. I can definitely relate to the lying to them 24/7 part, staying in my room 24/7 part, and feeling like I can’t tell them anything.. it’s pretty sad to think about when they were just trying to protect from the evil and cruel real world but instead they destroyed your mental health..
@AhnafDeehanShah2 ай бұрын
This makes me proper sad yk cuz I tried to tell myself they are doing it for my own good but at the same time it's killing me
@PriyankaMishra-tp4suАй бұрын
🥺True i feel they are right. But my heart aches i need break
@IlarijaCeklic-vp8vrАй бұрын
I feel the same way...
@user-me7jt8mu7tАй бұрын
Yeah
@AptVictor776Ай бұрын
I know they are telling it for my good but my heart is dropped and there's no way of getting the positive side I am smiling in the outside but not in the inside
@LifelessonbookforbeginnersАй бұрын
Its a heartbreaking thing .. we'll are facing 🥺
@shamimanasrin34502 ай бұрын
I'm a girl but I can relate this. My parents literally blames me for everything 24/7
@its3ha2 ай бұрын
same girl
@user-qy5kl2gd7j2 ай бұрын
Me too
@user-qy5kl2gd7j2 ай бұрын
😅
@pinkychoudhary68662 ай бұрын
😢😢
@9bansariashfan7382 ай бұрын
Me too my sis
@brocklesnar3269Ай бұрын
Its 100% true with me 😢.......i spend the whole day in room ..........i feel very shy to talk to relatives and friends...........i would like to be alone all the time.......i wont get proper sleep most of the nights........ anxiety.... depression.......sadness..... failures.....are weakening me everyday 😐😢
@astrowayedАй бұрын
You just basically stated my whole life😭
@WasnikRaviАй бұрын
don't worry, time is powerful charcoal makes diamond who are you
@Animelover9MАй бұрын
Same here lol
@-Spooooooky-Ай бұрын
Same
@ImagineBeingArtemisАй бұрын
As someone who has strict parents, we can: -recognize people's footsteps, and voice instantly -we can easily hide stuff -we can easily make up stories in seconds
@JPlayerTheGamer2 күн бұрын
sadly, the only benifits
@Literaturelara2 ай бұрын
Anxiety seeps into the children who are not given a chance to overcome it, locked away in a house with no where to go and no one to call.
@mansoorahmad13202 ай бұрын
So true 😞
@KidlatChaseGVinasАй бұрын
Damn facts.
@luvdiarytihaniАй бұрын
My BFFS and sister helped me battle anxiety.
@LiteraturelaraАй бұрын
@@luvdiarytihaniThat’s wonderful! I have no one..
@DevilSwapnaАй бұрын
Same
@ArunaD-tq7juАй бұрын
Being strict is not like caring just parents think that they are keeping their child happy .but the truth is they are hurting their child more . Now the child will be depressed,sad, lonely, crying, over thinking etc everything negative in their life . Those children need love,care,and support from parents. Please try to understand 😟😭😭😭😞😞😓
@vkexposeАй бұрын
I understand
@vkexposeАй бұрын
I am boy i am boy
@Emissary_EditzАй бұрын
Strict parents help us build hardship and hardship brings success. I have somewhat strict parents but they are hard on me because they went through hardship like being broke and being bullied and death of loved ones. They just want to see me succeed
@astrowayedАй бұрын
This is so true and relatable fr, and they still do not realise this😭💔
@MalxvkaahАй бұрын
It's true tho :( There was a time when I didn't had anyone to share my thoughts.All their silent expectations and pressures are still killing me.. And thats totally unbearable man!!🙂
@Muichiro-lf2uАй бұрын
They're killing me to but I'm sure u will get threw it 😊
@dipalijena7063Ай бұрын
That's me 😢 They may be protecting us but they hurt us mentally and physically 🤕
@KimMahiXDАй бұрын
True 💔😭
@afiaazizaaАй бұрын
My parents were strict too. But I'm both physically and mentally happy and healthy. It's not about being strict, it's about not caring each other's feelings and happiness.
@EdweffHasEditz22 сағат бұрын
“A parent's love is whole no matter how many times divided.” -a wise man
@djkilla54302 ай бұрын
It's all so true, I do get what they're trying to do. But now I'm scared to ask them for anything, and I'm absolutely terrified to tell them anything about my feelings. I've shut myself out of everything because of them.
@InspireSphere_uiАй бұрын
Song name please
@azadmahmud442 ай бұрын
Why is this so true 😢😞😔 I have strict parents so I never really had the life I wanted 😞so I promised myself at a very young age (I think 6 or 7) that when I'll grow up I'll give myself the life I wanted the most, but it still break my heart 💔 that they say their protecting us but in reality their destroying us 😢 😔😞 like what about our freedom ? what about our lives ? what about our feelings ? 🥀😢😔🥀🥀💔💔💔
@Shadow_DeltoraАй бұрын
Freedom there is no freedom in this Damm world even if u grow up you'll still not be free we r alll just dreaming of freedom no one even knows what's real freedom lol btw I got strict parents too but idc now I'm an introvert so I don't go outside even if thry beg me I'm happy with my games wifi and being alone is just peace ✌️
@user-iy6fj8ip9wАй бұрын
No worries bro. Your gonna achieve it
@pratidnyamohite3755Ай бұрын
But mr shadow…… now you got the habbit of staying home not him have it
@Shadow_DeltoraАй бұрын
@@pratidnyamohite3755 first it's my personality to be alone I don't like crowded places like for example I didn't attend any events in my school cux I didn't like it my mom was begging me to attend our farewell party 🎉 I didn't attend it and it's not cux my parents r strict I was like this since childhood no one ever forced me to act like this it's my personality that I like to be alone that's what an introvert means and by strict parents I meant they let u go outside but thry ask u where r u going and with whom you'll be going out be I think they r just doing their work as parents nowadays young teen r doing alot of shitty things so idc what parents do I'm just an introvert who's happy in his small world
@Shadow_DeltoraАй бұрын
@@pratidnyamohite3755 and what I said is true just think for once what's ur life purpose why r we not thinking this and he said something about freedom and I told him there is no freedom in this Damm world ur only freedom is either u die or ur rich enough to leave the matrix we're all slave to our respective governments etc don't ü see what's happening right now the wars everything ppl don't even know why r they fighting they just listen to the governments so tell me isn't this slavery that's all I'll say
@user-sg5pt1fc5jАй бұрын
I also have strict parents, but im happy with them. Cause, they don’t let me go to the wrong path. They are the true lovets❤
@lasmurallitas65967 күн бұрын
You are totally right!
@LOST_FRАй бұрын
Protecting child❎ Ruining child ✅🤡
@astrowayedАй бұрын
Fr
@KimMahiXDАй бұрын
Frrrrrr😅😭💔
@indahfitriani1824Ай бұрын
nope
@ButeraRoseАй бұрын
@@indahfitriani1824probably cuz you don’t have strict parents noobie
@lasmurallitas65967 күн бұрын
@@indahfitriani1824sigma
@haniyanoor3576Ай бұрын
Strict parents are protecting us form our happiness, freedom,joy and our love form them 😢 Edit TYSM for 32 like this is my first time (。♡‿♡。) (✿ ♡‿♡) (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤
@Aadya101_7 күн бұрын
Yes this is so true they always say there trying to protect me but in reality they are the one hunting me😢
@superstar4340Ай бұрын
Finally the best related table short I ever seen in yts and it's not only short it is reality..... of every child which have strict parents.....
@mansoorahmad13202 ай бұрын
What about the depression we get because of them and strict parents then slowly turn into toxic parents felt it 🙂💔
@Matt_Anims12342 ай бұрын
True have had depression for a year
@mansoorahmad1320Ай бұрын
@@Matt_Anims1234 me for more than 2 years not comparing ok btw you are very strong ik how it feels 🙂🤧
@aboutfacts786Ай бұрын
And we can't even tell them how we feel 🥺
@mansoorahmad1320Ай бұрын
@@aboutfacts786 true 🥲😭
@Matt_Anims1234Ай бұрын
@@aboutfacts786 fr So sad
@mehakpreetkaur7148Ай бұрын
Locked birds will always be sad and depressed no matter how many reasons make them inside bars
@Zhuine_dontmindmeАй бұрын
Oh... Time to let go my pet birds then
@astrowayedАй бұрын
Exactly😭 It's so sad they still do not realise it, or even if they do, they do not try to change it💔
@user-qu4tn5dn1rАй бұрын
I didn’t think I had strict parents but all those things you said explain me and my parents so now it’s changed my mind
@sheelasrinivas9053Ай бұрын
Very true bro but don't forget parents only do something for u if they know it's the right thing to do
@Shiningstars946Ай бұрын
If your sister is only the one who is strict. 😢
@user-oh9rr9ik7yАй бұрын
TRUE strict parents wants for us to do not learn bad things but their mistakes lead us to this situation 😢😢
@Artist_S.029Ай бұрын
" Don't curse the life you are born into " -Mitsuya -Tokyo_Revengers
@Animelover9MАй бұрын
Beaten boy
@Artist_S.029Ай бұрын
@@Animelover9M Its not like a beaten boy , just sharing my viewpoint .
@user-tp2rx2wi8v26 күн бұрын
True but still we can just talk about it here there is no one we can tell this about plus it is not like we will see each other again
@Nikola9.sАй бұрын
I am happy that I have such parents that never let me fall in the problems ❤
@lunnarisAlive2 ай бұрын
I am going through this every day
@mansoorahmad13202 ай бұрын
Same 💔😭
@KimMahiXDАй бұрын
Sameee😭💔😖
@QasimMehtab-hx2yx2 ай бұрын
always try to find a way not to talk to them
@azadmahmud442 ай бұрын
Yes so true😢 and sad 😭
@mansoorahmad13202 ай бұрын
Same 🤧
@oliverpate6724Ай бұрын
Same..
@KrishnaDevi-ej8udАй бұрын
I liked to say I have to do homework or I am going to play with friends but I wasn't doing anything...
@astrowayedАй бұрын
Yea😭
@umacherman8488Ай бұрын
Yes it's TRUE. Parents are thinking , if they do like this then our life will good. They are right our life will be. Good. BUT NOT PERFECT and BEAUTIFUL ..😢❤️🩹💔
@RaptorUniverse28 күн бұрын
The fact I actually cried watching this...I can relate with every single one..
@alshareeraАй бұрын
i honestly understand both sides of the situation. i grew up with strict parents and felt like i couldn’t speak freely and couldn’t do things other children could do at my age. now that I am older and have a little brother, i can’t help but feel extremely overprotective of him and I dont know how to get rid of this feeling.
@rihankulkarni692Ай бұрын
But not all parents strict if they experience their time they will not be strict they will give space , freedom of expression etc❤❤ A GENTLE FATHER
@kishorkumarpoddar3757Ай бұрын
Count me in, I'm also child of strict parents. All symptoms are mine. I can't able to make friends as well. You should add it tooo
@sakshigupta60323 күн бұрын
Today's parents see smile on their children's face but doesn't see the pain behind it..😢
@gousiya784Ай бұрын
When You will become parents,You will know the value of your parents,, We teenagers feel sometimes like this..that our parents are not allowing to do this that.. but when you will reach the age of 27 30 , you will know the real meaning of good upbringing..
@SONAKSHI_Ks007Ай бұрын
Underrated comment. Idk about other's parents but yes i used to take things on heart that they used to say ...I am still a teenager but slowly my mindset has changed..i mean they are not our enemies . it's the gap between our generations which makes it difficult for us to understand them or Vice versa... Truly ..except for parents no one wishes for your success more than they do .
@user-ph5xv3kp7jАй бұрын
So you are saying distancing someone from all their friends not allowing them to go anywhere and know because of spending their whole childhood living in home and being lonely who didn't have anyone to trust cause you made rules like that for them made them anti social and all of a sudden asking to be social without any support for what I have to do giving me stares like I am worthless even though trying my best and not even listening to my mental social or just any problems and any thing which goes wrong even because of being blamed on me or if they get into a fight becoming the mental punching bag even if I was silent and didn't do anything in it is my fault or them protecting me how can you explain they say grief makes you strong but from my pov it looks like it breaks you your emotions you social life and real life.😭😭 I am sorry if I seem rude I am just telling what I have saw so sorry if you don't get it .
@indahfitriani1824Ай бұрын
finnaly the comment saying truth
@ArunaD-tq7juАй бұрын
Yes it's true they always fail to protect our mental health. But I am happy that others parents are not strict, their children should never feel this pain. That why parents have to be good, they should love their child 🥺😔😔😥😢😣😣😣
@astrowayedАй бұрын
Exactly
@HelloMello-wh3cd9 күн бұрын
I randomly found this video and i don't know why tears are falling down my eyes...
@subashchandra579419 күн бұрын
Bro you described my whole life in this video 😢❤ parents always compare us with other children .they didn't see the pain behind our smile 😔🥺
@Roshni_rm375Ай бұрын
Their expectations are very painful..... But we can't do anything.... Cause they gave us birth.. And I have a responsibility to fulfill their dreams 🖤😔
@SUDARSHANAGUPTA-ey9ukАй бұрын
Dear, your responsibility is to fulfill your own dreams not your parents. Your parents' responsibility is to help you to fulfill your dreams, take care of you, try to understand you, keep you happy and always try to guide you to the right way. They bought you in their life, you, yourself didn't appear out of the blue. My Mom always says that it's her responsibility to take care of me and if I take care of her too then it's her good luck. If a parent can't be their child's first friend then they fail to be a parent as well ❤
@Roshni_rm375Ай бұрын
@@SUDARSHANAGUPTA-ey9uk my parents are different.... I'm girl so they always say... I'm letting you to do everything so don't talk to much.
@SUDARSHANAGUPTA-ey9ukАй бұрын
@@Roshni_rm375 I'm a girl too and my parents always guide me about what's wrong and what's rigth. They let me do anything I want cause for them my happiness matters the most. All I want to advice you is : don't let your own dreams fade away. It's your life and you have full rigth to live it the way you want to.
@BennyiscoolafАй бұрын
" the bird in the cage thinks he being trapped and he wanted to be freed" "The bird outside thinks of the safety being in the cage"
@dhruvikadhruvika408522 күн бұрын
Dude you just explain my whole life 🥺😭😭😭😭💔
@Vaidehikushwah77Ай бұрын
I really love my parents but sometimes I also hate them 💔😢
@nishantagrawal6507Ай бұрын
They do this to make us a better person who understands how the world works and not everyone will listen to our problems. They teach us to deal with our problems without seeking for others' help. We should see this side of picture too.
@astrowayedАй бұрын
Yea, but fo some kids their parents are a bit TOO much strict which is ngl bad
@TimmyLittle-bt6khАй бұрын
Strict isn’t necessarily bad but when it becomes too strict it will not make you a better person.
@user-sg8wx4ks7kАй бұрын
True, l am also having strict parents 😢💔 😭 I have been in a hard depression of crying because of overthinking all the time
@mxs13867Ай бұрын
Every.single.time i see these types of videos, i always wonder how much kids are like me
@ashokkoli42872 ай бұрын
and we are alive for those strict parents 🙂
@farzanakhan9959Ай бұрын
Fr
@ashokkoli4287Ай бұрын
@@farzanakhan9959 🙂 sad reality
@farzanakhan9959Ай бұрын
@@ashokkoli4287 😔
@user-sm5hb9nv1sАй бұрын
Then GROW UP WITH YOUR GRANDPARENTS THEN IF YOU HAVE NO GRANDPARENTS THEN GROW UP ALONE
@ashokkoli4287Ай бұрын
@@user-sm5hb9nv1s living alone is better but i am just a teen
@Aesthv_7Ай бұрын
Always remember that DIAMOND have more security than iron❤
@chickenbutfakeoneАй бұрын
My parents are strict and thanks to them, I have no problems or enemies and always thinks of "WHAT IF OTHER UNIVERSES ARE JUST DIFFERENT VERSIONS OF EARTH AND HUMANITY!??"
@ayatmasood1520Ай бұрын
They compare me to others it hurts me 😭 my cries from inside and from outside pretending after that I am okay
@mahimathapa8239Ай бұрын
They don't know us from what we are suffering from 😢❤
@user-tn4ub1rx3cАй бұрын
Yes
@Bellgol355Ай бұрын
Bro forgot our parents suffered too
@TimmyLittle-bt6khАй бұрын
@@Bellgol355If they did, then why are they trying to make their kids suffer too?
@Wofreadr._1232 ай бұрын
Strict parents:We're just protecting you My mind:Protecting wme from living
@Kkhopeworld07Ай бұрын
I have strict parents but still i love them they are reason i live in this 🌎 Parents are the first who protect u in every difficult situation but sometimes they become rude & strict to protect ourself We have to understand 😊😻them and love them 💘😁
@MrShadowMaster847Ай бұрын
Who wants to be friends, before i say my final goodbye...
@BalaTorer2 ай бұрын
They never understand me 😔
@astrowayedАй бұрын
Ikr same thing here💔
@KimMahiXDАй бұрын
Frrrr💔😭😖
@mlverma82552 ай бұрын
Please can you make more videos on strict parents
@artificialgamer3920Ай бұрын
Dude just explained my whole life. My parents blame me for everything 24/7. Whenever i feel stressed or sad. I avoid going out but they blame me for everything, for example:- 'why did you not go to classes' or 'why are we wasting our money and time on you'. Well now i lie to them majority of the time and they call me a liar.i overthink everytime i am not doing everything,i overthink whenever i think about doing something and my parents blame me for that too. I just need someone who i can talk too and who really cares about me and my mental state. I just had another sleep paralysis 2 days ago....... I wish i was not born as a human.
@KimMahiXDАй бұрын
Trueeee😭💔🥺😖
@muktakhatun9735Ай бұрын
This is very relatable 😢😢 thay protect our physical health 😊 but fails to protect our mental health 😢😢😢
@KimMahiXDАй бұрын
😖🥺💔😭
@SleekElderbyАй бұрын
Advice: Stand up for yourself, Don't let others control your life.
@selenophile7338Ай бұрын
I'm afraid to let them down while I'm drowning every second 🙂❤️🩹
@_skylar_sky_Ай бұрын
I’m literally crying this is my thought whenever they ask me to do something when I know I have 10 other things I have to get done
@selenophile7338Ай бұрын
@@_skylar_sky_ I hope God may look at us and reward us for not letting them down ❤️🩹
@slack1104Ай бұрын
@@_skylar_sky_ it's called responsibility and growing up
@user-wc6xj9wu4jАй бұрын
Every time when I say the truth, my father and mother beats me. That's why Now I always say lie. It's not my fault 😭😞
@KimMahiXDАй бұрын
Frrrr😭🥺😖💔
@x22_Prime11 күн бұрын
When I thought he couldn’t get more relatable…
@SanjanaDevi-ef3ni2 ай бұрын
Seeing kids these days ...I'm thankful for my parents that they were strict 😊. They just gave me a wonderful life ....I'm grateful
@CLCN3Ай бұрын
W fr
@iconiverseАй бұрын
Yeah 😊 they saved us from harm. Then We destroyed ourselves.
@Bellgol355Ай бұрын
W
@Kakarotgeta_CCАй бұрын
I know I have strict parents. I know they still love me unconditionally 😌 ❤. Always obey you're parents. Find you're own hobbies instead of crying all day and night . Earn money . Change your parents mind . ❤
@astrowayedАй бұрын
Ik true for some but it's not true for every1 ig
@Kakarotgeta_CCАй бұрын
@@astrowayed yh
@AestheticXanimeАй бұрын
Agree but it's not easy
@happybhattacharjee7673Ай бұрын
And, there are the parents who want you to be a doctor Instead Of your passion 💀
@Kakarotgeta_CCАй бұрын
@@happybhattacharjee7673 exactly
@user-zp7gf9pn7gАй бұрын
This is me I literally trust people I know online more than my own mother
@KimMahiXDАй бұрын
😖🥺💔😭
@s.padmaja5616Ай бұрын
If you have strict parents who protects you always......don't think that they not allow you to do the things you like to do.....they just protect you because you are their Diamond💎💫 only diamond 💎has the speciality to be protected not other metals.... Think that .YOU ARE SPECIAL😊💫💫
@AestheticAura910Ай бұрын
I do have a strict parents but the last one made me cry
@user-ft5mj3cy3oАй бұрын
Strict parents make me cry a lot I don't want to stay with them
@mizardgamesАй бұрын
Talk to me
@harshbhti691Ай бұрын
I will gives a life to my child that my parents are unable to give me 🙂↕️
@KayGyi-qy7slАй бұрын
@@mizardgamesCan I
@KimMahiXDАй бұрын
@@harshbhti691 true 💔😭😖
@harshbhti691Ай бұрын
@@KimMahiXD 🙃🙃🙃 thanks brother....
@love_art_____________Ай бұрын
My parents aren't strict,but I am like this too😖😫😭
@eneliazulu932219 күн бұрын
True,and when you wake up quiet they think you're upset and shout at you for being quiet🤦🏿♀️
@Aisha...98762 ай бұрын
It's true my parents think that our daughter never lies , is very strong and open to them but the truth is I have lied , I'm weak , I'm broken , my bestfriend knows literally everything about me but my parents don't even know that what's behind my 24/7 smiling face
@ahirshyam9545Ай бұрын
Imagine your parents reading this... Your life would change if they somehow read this comment...
@Aisha...9876Ай бұрын
@@ahirshyam9545 I don't think so this is not my real name they will never be able to identify
@sanshray9099Ай бұрын
I see myself in u..
@user-lr7ff1jz6yАй бұрын
Same
@unknown-wz1jgАй бұрын
Same
@snehalmishra80762 ай бұрын
By looking at this generation I will say they are definitely saving me ❤❤
@kanchanabuddhini9565Ай бұрын
Finding a hobby is the best way to cope up with this situation .
@maricelamares3971Ай бұрын
It's a mad destructive world out there😢
@shakilabegum371Ай бұрын
Strict parents says we are just protecting you What actually happens our heart gets broke into pieces the pieces are getting hurt our heart can not pump our sadnesses well 💔 so our heart can not be fixed like this ❤️🩹😭
@MahiSrivastva-gb7hoАй бұрын
Explained my life in an edit....
@yashaswim9969Ай бұрын
Mashaa
@MahiSrivastva-gb7hoАй бұрын
@@yashaswim9969 😅
@MahiSrivastva-gb7hoАй бұрын
@@yashaswim9969 well it looked fabulous so i 😅😅😅
@yashaswim9969Ай бұрын
@@MahiSrivastva-gb7ho but why she staring at my soul it's creepy 😳
@samuelfernando19Ай бұрын
I want to say that this is soo true man, Those of us who can relate to this knows how it feels GOD bless you
@CatzsuneАй бұрын
I don't even know what they're thinking, they thought with being strict can make us a great kid but it's just ruining us
@darchanvlogs922 ай бұрын
Honestly I don't have strict parents, but I have all of those problems, including few other like depression etc.
@FF_GAMER_FFGuАй бұрын
Me too
@darchanvlogs92Ай бұрын
@@FF_GAMER_FFGu finally I found my twin Well no one knows how others feel unless and until they face it Idk why everytime I lose someone i care about, pray for, like, want, trust Well the life of an depressed person, and an person with anxiety is really hard, no one understands us, but we understand everyone 😭, I wish we all could get a friend who is God gifted, i am sure we will get a person like that, let's have patience and wait 😊