Struggle of a Single Mom with an Autistic Child | Lhakpa Choedon - ​⁠

As a refugee who embarked on a harrowing journey to escape a troubled past at a tender age, marked by the absence of familial connections for countless years, narratives have become my lifeline. Without the semblance of a permanent address, stories have emerged as my sole asset, composed of dreams, hopes, and ideas-a treasure trove I hold in the highest regard.
My upbringing was steeped in the richness of narratives, acting as the driving force behind my pursuit of continuous growth and self-improvement. This journey has not only solidified my passion for storytelling but has also highlighted the profound impact it has on our scattered global community. This endeavor has served as a vital bridge, fostering mutual understanding among individuals from varying walks of life. It's been instrumental in bridging the generational gap, uniting the wisdom of yesteryears with the vigor of the present through the conduit of stories, experiences, and ideas.
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[@TashiPassion]

She is not just a great Mom, she is very honest and truthful. And most of people don't know that lots of inventions are done by Autistic minds. They have very sharp mind and can be very focused. So, respect all with Autism

[@pasanglhamo9442]

I am here for A for Ball. Nowadays its very hard to find the people who is very transparent and honest like you. Honesty never dies. Always stay like this and god bless you. We love and respect you ❤

[@tenzindorjee1909]

I respect for who helping for other beings practically. Mom like this I put in garbage 🚮 I think you enjoying her videos... Always Tu and Likpa all that words from her videos .

[@pasanglhamo9442]

@@tenzindorjee1909 if you dont like her why are you still watching her vidoes? Who is forcing you? You are just jealous of her. How do you feel when someone says i will throw your mum in garbage? Does that hurt you? If so same for her. She is also human like your mum

[@pasanglhamo9442]

@@tenzindorjee1909 why are you watching her videos if you dont like her? Who is forcing you? People like you who dont have anything to do in your life have nothing to do with her. Dont compare yourself with her. You are just too jealous of her. Do you like when someone said to your mum i will throw her in garbage? If you feel bad. She feels the same. She is also human being. Be nice to someone.

[@tibetan_sonam8615]

God gave her this child becuz god knew she will take good care of him…Be strong and avoid negative comments and people.

[@freetibet8133]

Thank you very much Bhuchung Kata La for interviewing Ms. A-For-Ball. I believe she is the most popular KZbinr in Tibetans. God bless her & her kids lives. We all love her so much.

[@tseringlhamo4583]

I am so sad to hear your story. I know what you are going through. I am also a single mom. It’s not easy to say but be strong, you are a pillar to your son. When he grows up he will be proud of you. Although he is an autistic child, they are more sensitive than others and he can definitely feel your love. Wishing you both a happiness in life. Everything will work out.

[@76xer]

R u dachen's mother?

[@tseringlhamo4583]

@@76xer no

[@Zey909]

Nyinjey … thank you so much for sharing your painful memories. You are really strong women. I really wanted to give you one tight hug for you ah lhakpa 🥰😍. I wish you will get succeed in drukta dream. He is very lucky son

[@tenzinydonchen429]

She is loving mom,beautiful and very smart ❤️❤️❤️👍

[@TheTsedorlama]

She is awesome mother. In a Tibetan society she is a one of best mother, ❤❤❤

[@Samurai-ke5ie]

Want to be like her ?

[@tenzinchoeden3166]

@@Samurai-ke5ie i got two words for you . Suxk it

[@user-ef8is1pk9z]

Yes I want !

[@tenzintopchoe112]

I also want to be like her.she is amazing ❤❤❤

[@tenzinpaldon7041]

Ur world is too small to see nothing but her as the best mother. There r lot of other mothers who have much harder life but since they r not on social media, u can’t say she is the best. I know she has an autistic son but she get everything free from the French Govt. In our society(India) there are mothers who have child with special needs who have got no help at all. They struggle to meet their ends meet. So there is nothing special about a for ball. She became famous of talking rude rubbish sexual things on KZbin. I guess that sums up her followers😂

[@Tseyang10]

She is really a strong mother . Very honest & straight.

[@Peaceful33517]

Thank you Bhuchung lak for covering Lhakpa lak’s life as a single mother with Autistic child. We need more awareness in our societies that Autism is not a disease it’s just that their brain functions in different ways and little slower but not less.

[@tenzindorjee1909]

A lot of tibetan single mother in India. Poorest than Lhakpa (phakpa). What you want to say about them?

[@Peaceful33517]

@@tenzindorjee1909 Lhakpa is on social platform and I follow her as a very honest person who is not afraid of our society. I don’t know about poor jhichak poor people as I didn’t say that I am a millionaire lo… I am sure you are jealous of Lhakpa lak…

[@Peaceful33517]

@@tenzindorjee1909 what you mean by that? She is on social media platforms and I follow her because of how honest she is. Looks like you are jealous of her popularity. Injjay about your thoughts…

[@user-bt6fv3dq6q]

@@tenzindorjee1909you should never compare a parents struggle with one another , shame on u

[@ten_hype4207]

y, you mean that our society don't treat them properly.

[@user-lq1wu8sr7v]

Tibetan community should support our tibetan people like her😢

[@taidelek9994]

Why ? Have she done anything for society or for Tibet cause

[@user-lq1wu8sr7v]

To being a བོད ་པ།

[@user-ef8is1pk9z]

@taidelek994 , Oh WOW!!! all people have to do something for community tangibles and have to be seen by you. She has been a role model for 1000 more people. She needs our support ❤. First you must do your assignment !

[@kalsangdolma9312]

@@taidelek9994why. Have You did Tibetan community service and you have disabled kids. Shut up

[@tashitsentso3851]

Right ❤️

[@JampaKhundok]

Be strong and stay strong, Lhapa Choedon la . One day, you will have a better life, and your son will be alright. Don't worry . Love you as how you are !!

[@user-yu1ei2fp5v]

Makes me cry. Big salute to Lhakpa la. Superb mom, superb human being. Just live and peace to her

[@NgaDoma]

Thank you Bhuchung Kata la for inviting a for ball in your channel..❤

[@tashichodon1692]

She is strongest lady in Tibetan society You are the best Lhakpa la. Praying for your dream to come true

[@tenzindorjee1909]

Hahaha..... What a funny comment.

[@tenzintopchoe112]

Wat something smelling hahaha​@@tenzindorjee1909

[@tenzinchoeden3166]

​@@tenzindorjee1909 is the ex bf of lhakpa . She dumped him hence the sourness

[@dekyitashi434]

Lhakpa la we do understand what you are going through in your life. You are doing your best with love and care for your kids specially your son. You are brave and straight forward. It will take time and please continue with it a little more for your son. It will make a great difference in his life. Thank you for your sacrifice and take care of yourself.

[@user-pu8kd8cm2r]

I think she’s a brave mom, frankly,truthful and I truly understood her emotional as a mom.

[@longlivehhdl5479]

I think all her old friends must be friends with her always. like shame on lobsang 22 becuase she show her attitude but in reality she live on someone else money which is big shame...

[@Tenzma]

Are u here to support Aforball or belittle Lobsang22. Please keep ur hatred for Lobsang22 out of this important Topic. Shame on u for keeping His Holiness name as ur profile name and defaming a Tibetan girl. 🫨

[@WaNgMO542]

She is so genuine and amazing especially very patient mother ! My role model ❤ Thank you Kata la worth to watch !

[@whopawmo]

I’m glad your Daughters are very thoughtful and help you in need. I hope you get what you pray for. Stay strong and we’re all rooting for you. 🫶🏼

[@devloggirl_]

She is really strong mother and women ❤she direct and honest.she is funny also.

[@tenzinphentok]

❤❤❤❤ she is the real mother she have been through a lot n lot that no other momma ever has. Love n support for her

[@jetsun685]

This is to all the haters and who have posted negative comments here. First and foremost my heart goes out to you for judging her and pointing fingers at her. I suppose u are someone with no private parts in your body, for that again my heart goes out to you. She smokes. she drinks. uses swear words but that doesn't make her a bad human being nor is she failing as a mother. She's in no shape or form promoting foul languages or smoking and drinking. This is her life and her struggle. If u have problem with that then don't watch, if your life is so pure good for you but my humble request is please don't be a coward and hide your identity behind and post all the negative comments. At the end of the day, she has feelings just like you have too. Please also remember that your life might be very happy and satisfied today but you never know what tomorrow holds for you. So please think twice before pointing fingers and judgemental. Thank you.

[@yangchandolma309]

ངའི་སྙིང་གི་སྐད་ཆ་དེ་རང་གིས་ལབ་སོང་། ཐུགས་རྗེ་ཆེ།

[@user-ef8is1pk9z]

I agreed with you and thank you

[@hellohi_____________4089]

@@yangchandolma3090k

[@deckyiboom204]

You're fighter , strong, honest, supermom and good human being. You're giving 100℅ unconditional love❤ care and compassion to your son . There's no doubt the day of your success and dream coming soon . One day Dudak will stand🧍 in front of you handsome 😍 independently boy. God bless from Delhi❤

[@SarvaMangalam22]

As a mother I completely feel the emotions and pains. I appreciate and respect her for sharing the journey to the us viewers. Very strong woman.

[@Babytenxyvlog]

Very excited and waiting ❤❤❤❤

[@dikeyyangzom2561]

Can’t wait ❤❤❤❤

[@karmawangdu3637]

you are real hero, god bless you.

[@samtenpalmo1323]

She is very strong mother and honest mother too. I really appreciate her great patience with her little son ❤

[@tseringkhangchen2641]

I'm a big fan of her..makes me so emotional. Thank you so much Bhuchung la for inviting her in your show🙏

[@jangchupdolma1122]

Thank you so for inviting A For Ball❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@tsomotsering1787]

May A for ball dream come true.🎉🎉❤❤❤❤

[@Jutho529]

Stay strong!I know what you are going through. I can feel your pain.

[@immigrant-nurses]

I just love her for being real! I pray that Drukdak gets his therapies and get better every day. Stay strong acha lhakpa la❤️❤️

[@Tenchi143]

So touching,emotional and very inspiring..lots of love ❤

[@tsetendolker5943]

Thanks for interview my favorite person❤❤❤

[@Lob-sang584]

She is very strong mother she is an inspiration for all young single mothers …..very pure heart 👏👏👏 keep going Acha …n love you so much be happy and healthy ❤❤❤

[@BhuchungTsering-pz3dd]

Bhuchung lak thanks for invite Afor ball in your channel lhakpala keet it up God bless u always

[@tseringdolman2807]

Thank you for sharing her story. She is always strong and good heart inside and outside . Love you alwys my friends

[@yeshibhutia4103]

Thank u bhuchung la for inviting lhakpa la, she is very strong women, I appreciate the way she take care of her son, may guru rinpoche bless her to fulfill her dreams, I always enjoyed watching her videos.

[@MsTenamo]

Single moms are the real silent heroes 👍👍👍 especially like yourself with a specialneed kid more power to you and your kind✊✊

[@tenzinnakshoe4308]

I just wanna say Aforball is the GOAT. Best interview. Made me go thru all types of emotions. So happy that I never judge her. I always knew straight forward people are the realest.

[@passtens]

Thank you for being you! Best wishes to you and your son. Stay strong and keep going. One day at a time..

[@nimadorjee8267]

The best, touching, honest and most inspiring episode of Aha. Thank you very much.

[@chozomchozom5633]

I salute acha .I can feel your pain can’t continue my emotions ❤❤❤

[@metokla7781]

Amazing video to watch! Very inspiring to watch and learn!👍👏🙏❤️

[@norlha4168]

Bhuchung la thank you .that interview is awesome ❤

[@dolkartenzin3523]

This whole interview being raw was very engrossing and as usual, I really liked this ep.

[@tseringsangmo]

Loads of luff nd support to Lhakpa nd more power to all the beautiful moms who has an autistic child or children

[@jtseten1]

As a Functional Nutritionist in integrative Medicine, we all must know that Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is a range of neurodevelopmental conditions that affect communication, social behavior and knowing the causes, symptoms and natural support strategies. Besides social deficits, systemic inflammation, gastrointestinal immune-related problems, and changes in the gut microbiota composition are characteristic for people with ASD. Interestingly, studies have shown that mTOR activation can also be modified by nutritional stimuli, in particular by amino acids. Moreover, specific amino acids are demonstrated to inhibit inflammation, improve gut barrier function and to modify the microbiota composition.

[@Chupsssse]

v interesting . pls make Vlog on it

[@Me2yota]

Did you read what you have written? No one asked you to share your assignment

[@dzeners]

Are there tests that ASD can be detected during pregnancy?

[@bronxtomzee8778]

tell me you googled without telling me u googled 😂😂😂😂

[@Me2yota]

First time watching your channel. Here for this amazing human, who loves sticking out and speaking up in our rather conservative society . Lots of thank you for covering a heat tht we need not the heat that will destruct.

[@kelsangyoudon8272]

Superb Lhakpa la, hats off to you... you are a great mother. Being a mother to an autistic child is not an easy task. Love you... give my big hug to your son... I really like your attitude.

[@kalsangyangzom4611]

Lhakpa la, You don’t have to answer anyone. You have best intentions for your own children. As far as I understand after watching this episode, you are doing everything in your power to help your child. Your plan to put him in special care school is fantastic. He needs to learn to be independent. Good luck with your future plans.

[@tseringtsesang4724]

She is super mom and very strong woman. God bless ,Acha

[@yeshibhutia7495]

Thank you thank you Bhuchung Kayak lak , I was really waiting for the interview . At some point I was thinking … did you judged her and sticking to the Tibetan community stigma of all good stuff . But thanks you did break the stigma and let her be herself and taking out the Tibetan women struggle!

[@cyoung4063]

Extremely strong woman you are 🥰 I am praying for your son already . ❤️

[@angela2979]

BHUCHUNG LA , Thank you so much for inviting A FOR BALL ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Kelly.218]

Thank you bhuchung la to invite her . Thank you acha lhakpa to tell us about your life and what’s going through in ur life . Usually I don’t watch long video but always watching ur videos . So transparents and talk the way you actually are . Till now I been thinking my life is sucks even th9 i am college student . After hearing ur story my life is nothing that serious to end my life compare to you . Even tho you struggle stilll you are strong and try to live life 💝

[@tuetara4119]

I feel fr you Acha.. when dukda grown up n watching ur video m sure he feel so proud of u.. Buddha blessed u n stay strong lo.. lots of love n hugs..

[@nyimayangzom1969]

Dear Acha Lhakpa, I know how you look after your son Dugdak all time and there is no doubt that you are such a strong woman and an awesome mom of three children. There is no doubt that how much length you can go for the sake of your children especially for Dugdak. Haters gonna hate no matter what! You just keep doing wonderful things that you have been doing in your life until now! Good luck ❤

[@Softstrong]

I love how Raw She is 🩵

[@kinzombhutia800]

Lots of love acha ❤❤❤

[@staytrue308]

Aha Moment still left one great women named Acha Dolkar la AKA Mother teresa staying in Chandigarh 👍

[@aachisonam6452]

Yeah that's true really incomplete without her interview.👍🏼

[@phurbudolma8610]

So emotional. Yes, I feel it. Be strong lo. Tsering. Our prayers and best wishes with you dear. 🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖👍👍👍💐💐💐

[@sonamdolkar5066]

Thank you for inviting Lhakpa la on your platform! She is one of the transparent, up front , smart and intelligent lady. Dukta is lucky she is his Ama la as she is the best mom for him in his condition ❤. Not once she raised her hand on him no matter what mess he creates ❤.

[@tenzang5830]

So much love and respect to acha lhakpa .. thank you to the channel..

[@tenzinwangmo5464]

Best interview ❤

[@sonam2182]

She is a inspiration woman 👩‍🦰hats off to Aja lhakpa ❤❤❤much love from Bhutan 🇧🇹

[@lhakpachoedon7637]

I love you AForBall.....Dukta is very lucky have a mom like you who is caring, loving and hard working. You are very mom. I love your honesty and straight forward.....

[@metokla7781]

She’s an amazing mother! ❤

[@Muffin-star]

A for ball the survival hustler… way to go

[@Songtsen-Gampo]

The most educational and raw interview I have ever watched on KZbin .. ❤❤

[@thuptentsomo3665]

Thank you so much Aha ❤❤❤❤

[@dikeyyangzom2561]

Hats off!!!❤❤❤❤

[@charlierana4420]

She is so straight love it 👍❤️

[@user-oe1cy2kp9k]

You're such a great mother a for ball! You are doing everything you can for your kid and every decision you take dedicated for the best for his life and as a mother I can understand every bit of where you're coming from. You're struggling so much but still manage to come out stronger everytime. I will pray for you and Dugdak.

[@PhayulDigest]

@A_FOR_BALL you are super strong, ignore the negative noises. Sending good vibes & hug.

[@tibetanyoutuber23]

She is the best , kind and coolest Tibetan mom.may god always keeps her strong n happy

[@user-xr1mc4cj8e]

You are very strong mother Acha ! ❤️❤️❤️

[@tenzingkunzang6909]

She’s a strong woman🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@jamchos6746]

Best mother

[@Lhamo821]

❤❤❤ finally you realised ! Love you acha lhakpa la we will pray for your dream to be fulfilled 😇

[@passdoma1302]

Bhuchung lak,Thank you for giving her the opportunity to interview.

[@tsangsejourney]

Priceless program

[@TibetKitchenRestaurant]

She’s great mother ❤

[@angela2979]

A FOR BALL I watched your videos three times . God bless you ❤❤❤❤❤

[@user-ui2xo3zu6q]

Wow 👌

[@Behappy69500]

A for ball love you 😘 you are the best mother ever ❤️😘

[@pemaaage7992]

It is not easy to be mother without family close by and especially your child has special needs. I am mother of two and can understand how you feel. Eventhough motherhood is a bless however it is hard and needs space to be alone sometimes to recharg energy

[@Tibetaninthephillipine]

Hope u get through this n god bless u n ur child

[@jetsun685]

I am so looking forward. Huge fan of AHA vlog and ofcourse Acha Lhakpa. Sending you and Dukda and your family lot's of love all the way from Canada. ❤❤❤

[@passangraysvlog3087]

Thank you bhuchung for that raw talk with a for ball. It is amazing and reality talk that is appreciated. Your video always mark an emotional piece of learning for me. Thank you for covering her life and showing us the facts about her life.

[@tsecho84jamsam27]

This is ur best interview n my favourite.she is honest n transparent lady.

[@kelsangchoedon7128]

Beautiful

[@Whateverful]

We mum look up to you Lhakpa la. Mum always have daily struggle with their kids and only a mother will understand, especially with no support, that’s even harder! Hats off to you Lhakpa la. Please don’t give up and this time shall pass soon!! Take care!

[@tenzinphuntsok2521]

Big fan of her after listening of her story...cuz she is going wid her own flow n that's rare quality,,

[@TENZINFAMILY116]

So excited ❤❤❤❤❤

[@ngakyi2361]

Super mother I love to way she is doing on her children God bless you n your cutie pie kid duktak ❤️❤️❤️🌸🌸🌸🌸❤️❤️❤️will be ok one day your duktak 😍😍😍

[@BMinor77]

the best

[@tenzin5347]

Acha we love u....stay 💪...one day he will be proud of u.