Study: Educated Black women struggle to find an educated partner

[@arthurfoyt6727]

When you are using the word "partner" instead of "husband" you've already illustrated the real problem.

[@latyshal.2286]

Before a man becomes a woman's husband, he is first her partner.

[@arthurfoyt6727]

@@latyshal.2286 A Man does not become "a woman's husband". If so, he's not a man.

[@gb_the_accuser]

​@@latyshal.2286 successful men are not looking for partners, the are looking for God's definition of a wife and feminine companionship. BW are setting themselves up for failure.

[@ksager123]

@@latyshal.2286 no dummy

[@lclay5164]

Your partner is at work. A wife needs to be a supporter of her man.

[@anothertrancedj4831]

"Educated" women are more likely to be single. Humble women are more likely to be married.

[@AngelTechno]

Bars

[@Mike-ye6xi]

Truth

[@CMV314]

Proof? Oh, wait, you don't have any.

[@FreeFromHer]

Facts 100%

[@prnssbuttercup]

Someone can’t be humble and educated?

[@mark01ization]

The problem is that these women think that having a degree makes them attractive or a good partner, it doesn’t.

[@CMV314]

They never said that. They just want someone who's also educated. Nothing wrong with that.

[@FreeFromHer]

@@CMV314 Oh please, they say that ALL the time. In fact, they LEAD with that.

[@CMV314]

@@FreeFromHer Cite your sources.

[@Baraka-z9f]

​@@CMV314myd.ick now suck it.

[@illoneson.5218]

​@CommentHere-well that's because those are things women want and looking for in men

[@Slow-Rolling]

A college degree doesn’t guarantee marriage.

[@jx1668]

Matter of fact educated women have a less likely chance of getting married. This is because they have a victim complex in my opinion where they feel like they're settling for somebody not knowing that that same persons is having to settle for you. It goes both ways.

[@jones2277]

nothing guarantees marriage.

[@BlackNerdist]

@@jx1668 That is for black women. Educated white and Asian women are more likely to be married.

[@rmkb627]

*What's wrong with dating a plumber, an electrician, a cook, a gardener or a construction worker ?*

[@kiawilson9897]

Nothing at all, but what if they get injured?! My boyfriend worked construction messed up his back. He's been jobless for months! No college degree, guess who's paying for everything! Had he got an education....

[@Watchoutforsnakez]

@@kiawilson9897 Kevin Samuels is rolling in his grave. A plumber or a tradesman or a professor all want sweet young thangs. Not haughty middle aged, non cooperative women with children. High value men don’t care about your degree.

[@DreamsAudio]

@@kiawilson9897 What if he was a neurosurgeon and injured his hands. What if he was an accountant and got brain damage. The possibility of an injury ruining your ability to work is always there. Even if the job is intellectual based.

[@analyst1777]

You've have chosen to raise the boys and the girls as a single parent. Why are the boys failing coming out of that household?

[@pbernard914]

There’s a difference between having an education and being educated ladies

[@Heyu7her3]

"Being educated" means having an education...

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women is not the most educated

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

​@Heyu7her3 Black women is not the most educated

[@universal3025]

@@Heyu7her3meaning social intelligence. And a lack of grace ..

[@markwells6532]

@@Heyu7her3 it doesn't equal being smart , these ladies in the video prove that

[@MrRedbone19]

I dont care how educated you are, if people cant stand to be around you, it's more than likely you, not them. Education has nothing to do with your personality. No matter where you go, THERE YOU ARE.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women are not the most educated

[@DiscoLobster-j3z]

Most of the BW with degrees are not educated

[@Soloman_1800]

Bingo

[@FreeFromHer]

That right there is what they will never learn. You would think all that education they got would have taught them that.

[@lovelylady7097]

BLACK WOMEN STOP RUNNING ON TV SHOWS THIS IS A PERSONAL MATTER AT THIS POINT I BELIEVE THEY PAYING YALL CAUSE THIS IS NOT A GOOD LOOK. A GOOD MAN ISN'T GOOD TO WATCH THIS AND SAY LET ME THINK 🤔 LET ME GET HER NUMBER. THAT'S NOT HOW MEN OPERATE!

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black men make more money than black women on average and black women ain't the most educated

[@bw14004]

The most enrolled. The lowest salaries.

[@sunworship8]

No matter what the race every man wants an attractive woman. If your a six on the scale of one to ten. Then your degree doesn't make you a nine. A man that's a six can get a woman that's a ten if he has resources. We don't think the same... why is that so hard to understand?

[@laulau4367]

..but statistically, Black men do not have resources. The median salary of Black men aged 30-39 is $34,000; for Asian men of the same age group, it is $78,100.

[@Effervescent_Smegma]

​@@laulau4367educated black men make more than that

[@laulau4367]

@@Effervescent_Smegma This statistic includes educated black men in that age group.

[@laulau4367]

@@bambinojas But if I want an educated black man, that would be hard for me to find because such a small percentage of black men earn a college degree. That is what the study mentioned in this video is about. Why are you confused?

[@howtosavyguides]

​​@@Effervescent_SmegmaThere is a small number of educated black men. And the notion that a man who is unattractive can get any woman is untrue. Sleeping around and having a long term successful relationship are two different scenarios.

[@nicholasm.browner6651]

I’m an educated black man.. a bachelors and mba with a great career.. but here’s my problem with this discussion: 1 - black women outnumber black men in this country 2 - black women are the most educated group of people in this country, 3 - with the graduation rate for black women at 65% and black men at 25% 4 - with those statistics what makes you think, that you should focus ONLY on black educated men?!? 5 - even you are blessed to date and marry a black educated man, a lot of women are overlooking black men who may have trade school education, blue collar careers, and no education at all beyond high school - but they are honest, loyal, and hardworking?!? 6 - with this mindset, some women are going to buy themselves a life of singleness, and potentially not having kids and getting married.

[@c3d266]

Most educated group . . why do they keep regurgitating this? . . In proper context it's not true.

[@jx1668]

Asian women are the most educated.

[@lilmizzije]

nigerians are the most educated immigrants in the USA but black people as a race are not

[@lilmizzije]

@@jx1668 nah its Nigerians

[@madisons2866]

This statistic is true, is proven in scholarly articles, in the census, and i don’t know where you live but ask a black woman what they do, they most likely have a degree! Black women as a specific group, based off of race gender and nationality, black women are indeed the most educated group in America

[@markelraya10]

@@madisons2866Yet make the least out of every racial or gender group in America. The average black woman makes 44k a year…. Literally the lowest money and the most debt to income ratio.

[@LoftusBlake]

Most of these women with have unrealistic standards. Kevin Samuels RIP

[@jones2277]

which standards are unrealistic?

[@jackiebennett6304]

Glad he’s gone

[@lclay5164]

@@jackiebennett6304 You’re glad he died? You sound like the kind of problematic woman he talked about.

[@Wanderer25]

​@@jackiebennett6304 Yet his legacy lives on. Stay salty.

[@jackiebennett6304]

@@Wanderer25 I can’t be salty or jealous of someone in a casket and I’m still typing. That makes no sense whatsoever 😂

[@TheRedGunNinja]

"We deserve everything" this ain't a perfect world ladies and the fact that y'all saying a degree is a must sounds like applying for a job if you ask me.

[@freethinkingMILF]

How about, higher education is a must, who wants to date and marry a fool.

[@twilson2605]

@@freethinkingMILF a piece of paper that says you regurgitated information you were given for four years doesn't make you anymore intelligent. And we have educated fools all throughout our community. What value does a sociology degree or any other useless degree bring? If you're working a 50k a year job not related to what you went to school for, with 40k in student debt and begging the Biden administration to cancel student debt because you cant afford to pay them off, then who is the fool? Meanwhile the truck driver or HVAC technician is making the same money and didn't have to pay 40k for to learn how to perform and in demand skill.

[@freethinkingMILF]

@@twilson2605 Sounds like a hit dog hollering to me.

[@twilson2605]

@@freethinkingMILF I have a degree, but you're operating off of emotion and not logic. Stats show your degrees aren't paying off. Try again chief.

[@freethinkingMILF]

@@twilson2605 Highly doubt you have a degree, if you ever had to come up with the money & worked hard for years to attend and complete college, like I did, you wouldn't call your degree a piece of paper. My degree is not just a piece of paper, my education & degree changed my life (awesome career, I got more time with my kids, a higher tax bracket/middle class, great social circle of professionals, health insurance, credit, neighborhood/suburban, and travel), and it has elevated thousands of black women. If you have a degree and it's not working for you, move to a city and state where it does. Unless it is a degree in something stupid like Art. I never heard a high earning college graduate say something stupid like education/degrees don't mean anything.

[@LisaS483]

Stop focusing on black men if you really want a husband.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Y'all ain't the most educated demographic and black men make more and no other race of men is looking for black women like that

[@Vincity1183]

Other race of men don’t want yall either lol. Y’all let careers control yall thinking. Money , money is all yall know 😂 I’m a strong independent black women that don’t need no men until yall need a man 🤡

[@VeronicaV]

Yes but as a BW, when You don’t limit options to one demographic of men, there are plenty of options relative to educated men.

[@manospherecreed9464]

Other races of men don't want y'all like that.

[@VeronicaV]

@@manospherecreed9464 actually there are plenty of examples to refute that-including but not limited to Eve, Serena Williams, Tika Sumpter, Rachel Lindsay, Gabby Sidibe, and from previous eras -Donna Summer, Diana Ross, Pearl Bailey, Josephine Baker etc. etc etc. Black Women are beautiful educated and amazing! And we have the right to choose the Best Man for us - from whatever demographic that happens to be.

[@bradthomas7431]

@@VeronicaV Why are y’all looking for education? When it’s about providing and protecting. Most women pick men that are about stature not character. Most have the wrong type the six figures six feet six pack. 666 😈

[@freethinkingMILF]

Totally agree, more black women need to date out.

[@Iaintbrokenomo]

Women should find there man while in college like the counterparts

[@Montyknowsitall]

The fact that she believes she deserves it all SIMPLY because she’s blk is ridiculous and exactly why most will be single forever..

[@queenk.ish27]

That stems from seeing other races of woman having the same requirements and standards and still getting the ring and having the career.

[@hr9336]

@@queenk.ish27 Let’s be real, BW TALK TOO MUCH. Not humble enough to BE QUIET. Not to mention, both of these women look past 40. Way too late for a woman to be getting married and trying to start a family.

[@sheliacase2548]

@@queenk.ish27 right. Bm expect bw to lower our standards for them. Bm just need to admit they just don’t qualify

[@jones2277]

she thinks she's the same as her peers when she should see herself as below them. is that what you're trying to say?

[@TheFearlessBabe]

That’s exactly what he’s saying. And this is why I constantly feel unwanted by black men.

[@kpgmen]

Thinking a degree makes you smart is already a big turnoff. Also, referring to yourself as "educated" is even worse. People with the highest IQs on earth don't do that.

[@tsmithdir]

Thank you for this comment.

[@TheFearlessBabe]

What’s wrong with being educated?

[@tsmithdir]

@@TheFearlessBabe He did not say anything was wrong with being educated.

[@khaynes4825]

Black people are the only group that tear down black women for wanting someone who’s educated. Master did the okey doke on black psychology. Black people can’t rise up as a group without strong black families. Interracial people and families aren’t black families. Black people have backward thinking about having evenly yoked partners. Having someone with inadequate education as a partner in western society means the other person will carry the load. If black men want mules and if black women want to be black men’s mules then, ok. But it is not a path to a successful life.

[@tsmithdir]

@@khaynes4825 Are you positive that what you wrote is 100% true. If so, then I suggest you travel outside of the USA to get proper prospective. "All men are male, not all males are men!" No man wants an uneducated woman. Mind you, that education is not limited to earning a degree from a degree granting institution. All men, as in 100%, of men want intelligent and smart women as wives and mothers. What men do not want... 1) A woman who believes her education entitles her to any thing 2) A woman who uses her educational achievements and credentials as a weapon 3) A woman who thinks that her academic and CAREER are more important than the needs (not wants) of the family unit. 4) A woman who thinks for one second that earning a wage and income entitles her to do as she pleases without consulting her husband. 5) A woman of high intelligence but lacking knowledge and understanding that her knowledge and skills are for the benefit of the family [administering the household and educating and training children] as opposed to making her boss wealthy... which by the way, -enables to bosses wife to administer her household and properly raise their children. There is more...but I hope you understand what I am trying to share with you.

[@jamesbrown5056]

I'm a black male lawyer in the top one percent of US income. When I was a young man struggling to climb up the mountain, black women didn't want anything to do with me. According to them, I was too lame, too nerdy, too boring, worked too much, etc. Even my fellow black female students had this attitude. Now that I'm well-established and on top of the mountain, the tables have completely turned. Now, black women chase after me. But I don't want anything to do with them. They showed me their true colors when I was young, and I haven't forgotten. They chased Pookie and had tons of fun with him when they were in their prime, but now they want an uber-successful man like me to welcome them with open arms now that they're older and Pookie is in jail/dead/an addict/proven himself a deadbeat. I'm way too successful to stoop to being black women's backup plan and Pookie's cleanup crew. If I had to choose between dating/marrying black women or being celibate the rest of my life, I'd choose celibacy one hundred percent of the time. Fortunately, there are countless beautiful women of other races, so I don't have to go the celibacy route. 😉 I haven't dated a black woman in over 20 years, and that's not going to ever change. Marilyn Monroe's quote sums up my thoughts on why I eschew black women as romantic partners: "If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”

[@FriendlyBatDoom]

Man I am premed and for the most part white women were the ones who wanted me and bw mainly thought I was too white for a black guy and that includes just being friends even though bw are my preference and always will be mine. So because of that I have always had more in common with white women than with my own.

[@dianoun28]

I'm 25 year old trainee laywer living in France, so my reality is quite different. So what people say about Black men in USA is true ? Are you so ashamed of who you are that you say on social media that you prefer to marry others (for whom you are the second choice by the way ) ? Thank you for showing to the world that you can be "educated" and stupid at the same time 😉

[@freudianslip2192]

Exactly, I was ostracized by black women throughout my entire childhood, through college, and early/mid-20s. Now that my life is great they want to hop on board. No mam! Take your chances on Brad like the overweight black woman in the video suggested.

[@candyxoxo19]

James BrownYour comment doesn’t make sense bc white women also didn’t marry you at your low low point either. Women want resources and men want youth and beauty. It is what it is. You sound like all the ball players who ditch their race as soon as they secure the bag 💴 . Probably you guys have a point but Im seeing poor, dysfunctional black guys are swarming bw and middle class to rich Bm want nonblack. We will only create struggling broken black families cause what bw attract in our community so celibacy may be the best route for many blacks at the way it is going. Ww are not marrying poor bm and it’s a dangerous climate bc of these issues.

[@dianoun28]

@@freudianslip2192 But you think when you had nothing, you would have interested White women ? A White woman could have marry you and presented you to her parent ? Turn on your brain.

[@Tanka-lt1sl]

Let them come to Kenya. We are happy to welcome our black beauties.

[@ROD_MON]

They only want or will deal with a man from a foreign country only if they make just as much or preferably more than them and that money has to be in US currency.

[@Slow-Rolling]

Can we make a trade?

[@daffodilsandnightmares8013]

@theesquireofsports7251you were sold off too brotha

[@blacknrd05]

😂😂😂

[@tom11zz884]

Not sure if you are trolling or serious. But if you want to trade your respectful Kenyan women for these women, most Black men in America would accept that trade..

[@jus3278]

Lmao no lie. I hollered at that Simone chick one time when I was out. Im educated and she gave me her number and then she proceeded to say i sounded like i could be a nerd, because of how smart I was in our initial conversation. It was sort of said in a condescending manner, so I never hit her up. One day I'm out several months later and i see her hanging with your typical bar hopping dudes who didnt come off as being "educated" and more like a D-Boy. I rarely listen to what women say they want, because their expectations are unrealistic. D Boys aint getting Phds sis lol. Also just cause you are a woman with degree doesn't automatically mean that you have class.

[@DedraFabreTravelingChronicles]

It seems like some people in our society pick on people who subjects and verbs agree. I never understood that.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

​@@DedraFabreTravelingChroniclesblack women are not the most educated

[@thewordsmith5440]

Idk if this story is true but are you a nerd? I can be a nerd in some way as a woman but can you carry a conversation outside of serious subjects. And maybe she didn't dislike you for being smart women still want a certain personality.

[@thewordsmith5440]

@@DedraFabreTravelingChronicles A person can be smart and charismatic I don't think a person has to act like Steve Urkel.

[@jus3278]

@thewordsmith5440 I don't know why I would have a reason to lie lol. I can tell a type when I see one. "Personality" for a lot of chicks nowadays is someone who is IG famous who smokes hookah at Chapman and Kirby lol. This type is prevalent in Houston just like Atlanta. I'm used to it though, and usually look at these women as the type you have a night of fun with and move around after. These chicks will have Masters Degrees and still opt to be a bottle girl, because they want to party and try to get pregnant by an athlete (which rarely works). I wish everyone the best in the dating market, but I gotta call cap when I see it. This a typical Houston chick, Houston dudes know what I mean too lol

[@gregs7460]

Thats a LIE!! They struggle to CHOOSE an educated partner.

[@genovasquez8361]

Educated black men are the prize.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated and black men make more money than black women

[@mattlu5493]

Partner when you should be saying husband

[@freethinkingMILF]

Maybe they don't want to be married...also, your husband is your partner.

[@mattlu5493]

@@freethinkingMILF we all know why they started using that term

[@freethinkingMILF]

@@bambinojas If you say so, I know I am happy, but I know that you are so miserable, you have hide behind an avatar online to pick fights random with black women for attention. If we are so undesirable, why are you obsessed with us...most would call you bitter...what happened, the black girls weren't checking for you in school?😂 Anyway, #BlackGirlMagic and get off my line. I love myself, I love being a black woman, I love my skin, I love my hair, my body, and face, I love my people...others were never and never will be competition to me. I ain't never had a problem getting a man, especially my own black Brothas.

[@Iaintbrokenomo]

They are plenty of educated black men in other countries. Ladies get your passport

[@HappyLife-tg8yy]

😂 those men aren't dealing with their attitude and behavior 😂

[@Iaintbrokenomo]

@@HappyLife-tg8yy 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@rebecca4829]

​@@Iaintbrokenomo There are plenty of quality non black men in the US who believe in generational wealth, staying with their family, and are financially stable.

[@gb_the_accuser]

​@@rebecca4829 black women are the least desired group of women. Men from other countries have traditional women in those countries. Why would a successful black boss chick be appealing? maybe her money. Reality is American BW don't trust men, these women will end up in a lesbian relationship or dying alone. It's already happening because men with resources are not tolerate of thier behavior.

[@rebecca4829]

@@gb_the_accuser 🥱🥱🥱🥱 whatever helps you sleep well.

[@tlmas1914]

whoever wrote the headline for this video NEEDS TO BE EDUCATED!!!!

[@uncannytheos2454]

I agree an its just a lie an propaganda thrown out to make them save face toward the other communities that aren't even dumb an are very aware that its not the "educated black men" that are the missing link in why they can't find a man. Its that these women are to hate-filled toward there own men. Masculine, single mothers that proactively divorce there men or break up the family. Men are literally foreign countries to find better more feminine, fit an friendly women that wants the same thing the men do. A women that knows her role an duty who are traditional an has respect an trust for the men in there lives. All those will lead toward a committ, marriage an a family. !!!THATS WHAT THEY ARE INTENTIONALLY LEAVING OUT!!!

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't even the most educated

[@zerotolerance2026]

There are 44 million more men on the planet. BW you must be open to dating out.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated demographic just a lie

[@tom11zz884]

BW been opening their option up. Problem is other races of men don't want then either.

[@jmanhope1745]

Why isn't dating just a single individual in college not "having fun"? STDs are for real. We cannot wait on others to save us, but work on saving ourselves. Getting serious about a PERMANENT mate in college is not too early!

[@OneEyedLion]

She's already 'married' to her career. Now, she wants a 'partner' to pay the bills.

[@danielkisero2104]

Say it louder for the folks in the back 🔥🔥🔥🔥#haveyourcakeandeatit2

[@eltonwashington596]

The educational of black women is useless I have daughter that has graduated from u of h married and have 4 of my Grandchildren Together they make at least $500K a year. RETIRED USCG TEXAS also making 6 Figures a year .STOP whining

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women is not the most educated and they don't make more money than black men on average

[@allenblack3785]

Her "education" does not make her better than anyone else, and I can do without the anger, attitude, resentment, arrogance......if they were such a big deal, they would have husbands. They dont.

[@illwills]

They are not the most educated. The most enrolled

[@twilson2605]

Nobody cares about their degrees, especially when they're low paying degrees. While a personal accomplishment, a bachelor's degree double major in gender studies and communications with a 40-50 k a year job with 40k in student debt doesn't make you a catch. Combined with a bad attitude and air of superiority when black men make the same as college educated black women without a degree. A lot of these educated sisters remind me of the Simpsons episode where Homer bowls a perfect 300 game and long after everyone stops caring, he's still going on about how he's Mr. 300.

[@twilson2605]

@@neutraliserjanine if you had any common sense, you would know intelligence isn't only measured by a college degree. Don't dismiss the analogy and the point by saying don't watch cartoons. Your lack of critical thinking and emotionally bases response shows degrees aren't everything. Ignore the Simpsons analogy and focus on the first paragraph. Present day, people do everything from teaching themselves how to code and write computer programs to learning a foreign language to restoring their car without going to school so stop with the condescending nonsense

[@Heyu7her3]

​​​​​​​​​​@@twilson2605u had any common sense, research skills, and criticality, you'd know that this disparity is due to the *gender pay gap,* which has nothing to do with degrees attained. But of course, your assumption is incorrect. From a 2021 Pew Research report: *_Among Black students earning degrees in a STEM field, more are women than men. This pattern aligns with long-standing gender gaps in educational attainment of Black students across all degree fields. This gender gap is especially pronounced for advanced degree-earners. Among Black students, women earned 68% of STEM master’s degrees, 65% of STEM research doctorates and 65% of STEM professional doctorates during the 2017-2018 school year._*

[@VoidSurfer9]

Why don't they find a husband (not a partner) while they're at school getting educations, like Asian, Arab, Hispanic and white women? If that's what they want, why not prioritize a husband instead of career? Simple enough

[@cavitycreep]

Cause marriage is a business in america thet's why they keep failing

[@VoidSurfer9]

@@neutraliserjanine lmfao yeah I'm sure that's the issue, not the observable fact that the majority of these women are not marriage minded. Largest % of college educated baby mommas are... drumroll please

[@jones2277]

because there aren't black men there getting degrees. did you not listen? it's a numbers game.

[@GraphicArtist115]

​@@jones2277 False. Black Women just don't find them sexually attractive. (Educated Lames)

[@LongLostYellowRanger]

You go to college to develop the skills and obtain the degree(s) needed for your profession of choice, not to sleep around. That just boggles my mind honestly. I know many women in those ethnicities you've listed (ones I went to school with) are single or divorced and vow to never do it again. Even my guy friends are now single after getting married early. They actually regret it. I personally admire the fact that the younger generation is putting off marriage or foregoing it altogether to focus on themselves and goals. A career is needed to take care of yourself -- my own father taught me that. It would be idiotic for a woman to put a man above herself, just as it's idiotic for a man to do it to himself.

[@autobotdiva9268]

kevin samuels in death still WINNING......he told yall partners.....hahahahah

[@candyxoxo19]

RIP Kevin Samuels but How is a man killed with no lineage and with an escort winning? We would never call this winning.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated demographic and black men make more money than black women on average

[@blacktophead8454]

Today's culture is about HOOKUPS not relationships. That's why people DON'T get married. Relationships are old school 🏫 back in the day B4 APPS

[@banginzaza]

Another big fact

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated demographic

[@Mrs.T305]

True.

[@djsalteenuts]

Every other group can balance school and relationships with no problem. Why do some black ppl act like it can’t be done

[@markwells6532]

Having a degree doesn't make you better or educated and it certainly doesn't mean you are intelligent either

[@DiscoLobster-j3z]

It may not 'make you', but it sure is correlated

[@MrLewis-lr8ep]

It's a culture thing.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated demographic

[@johnballard6725]

One of the main faults/reasons for this situation is the undue pressure their mums place on their daughters to get a degree. The daughters are brainwashed to concentrate exclusively on their studies when they should be doing some light dating if they encounter a potential husband at college.

[@thewordsmith5440]

That makes no sense because how does that affect black men from approaching them or trying to date them? Most black women date in college. The issue is professional black men don't tend to like black women they tend to want a mostly white Hispanics or white woman or a person that is very black.

[@user-iy1xz6or9m]

Dating what? The trash in the black community costing the government billions and giving all their wealth to non black women?

[@Oxygen257]

It is generally because many of these black women (who severely outnumber black men) will limit and restrict themselves to only dating and only wanting to date black men. Whereas, black men (with equitable status) tend to have no limitations and restrictions to race when dating. Black men, like white women, have a much more open and broader outlook when they are seeking partners.

[@VedickDragon]

You're so wrong. It's a candy store for all of us, who want to date young hot ebonies. There's no competition

[@Clicks-Prosper]

It has always been about half and half. That's a myth.

[@AngelTechno]

@@VedickDragon Yeah but not really to be committed to young black women, it's usually just to have fun with them and then bounce.

[@89426]

I believe that you should never complain about being single: it turns off the marriage-minded.

[@lazsaiyah]

Hmm, that's an interesting perspective. How so?

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women are not the most educated demographic

[@uriandropov8039]

At least white women smile at black men 😂

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated and they don't make more money than black men

[@tanyaleblanc4733]

Simon was engaged to Rashad, who is an educated black man, and she didn't appreciate him. Simon was too busy wanting to have an expensive wedding rather than focusing on marriage with her husband-to-be.

[@Wanderer25]

Unrealistic standards, dysfunctional cultural norms and entitlement. There's never any self reflection on what part they play in the outcomes they keep getting. It's always someones else's fault.

[@laulau4367]

..what part black women play in black men barely being college degree earners? Black women are keeping black men from earning college degrees? How is that? What are you talking about?

[@Wanderer25]

​@@laulau4367wtf are you talking about? Nice try with the deflection. Black male and female college graduation rates have been consistently the same for almost 2 decades 35% to 44% respectively. "Barely" is your asinine opinion. The tired and played out myth of there's no college educated men to choose from has been debunked. These delusional women consistently choose poorly.

[@laulau4367]

@@bambinojas My comment was in response to the person who said Black women play a part in the lack degree earning among black men. You are talking about something else. You are talking about what you believe Black women like or do not like...that is not what the original comment was talking about. I am fine discussing the topic you're bringing up, but I just wanted to point out that you're off-topic.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

​@@bambinojasblack men make more money than black women on average

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

​@@laulau4367Y'all are not even the most educated

[@energyzer_bunny1913]

6'7"?! You realize that only 0.002% of the world population is 6'7" or taller.

[@coleycole5344]

The least desired and least married demographic on the planet making demands?

[@TheFearlessBabe]

Why are you so hateful

[@rosedevereux2391]

@@TheFearlessBabe They are bitter.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't even the most educated and they don't make more than black men

[@SlimDaddy9]

According to the late, great Kevin Samuels, young women of other races go to college to find a man. BW go to school to prove they don't need one. I've watched hundreds of hours of KS', he also asserted that upwards of 90% of college educated women file for divorce bc they dont feel they should pay as much or more money than their husband. BW have overused the phrase "I DESERVE..." When they use that phrase, I hear an entitlement that they haven't earned, but con everyone that they should get x, y and z. Too many of these college educated career women are also very masculine! No man worth his salt who married a woman wants to "cross swords" with another masculine entity after fighting a war with the outside world for 10, 12, 16hrs!

[@jones2277]

the guy who died alone of a broken heart--literally?

[@natajean10]

Majority of BM in college dont even think about marriage. Men are the gatekeepers of marriage.

[@relationaldatabase6903]

Meanwhile Kevin Samuels carried himself in an effeminate manner. For a man to ever read a woman as "masculine", it speaks volumes about your own proximity to actual manhood.

[@SlimDaddy9]

@@jones2277 He didn't die of a broken heart. That's BS! Why would you push that garbage? Just to have something interesting to say?

[@Heyu7her3]

Did you not listen to what they said? They WERE looking! That's when the guy decided to dedlect and say that "you're in college to have fun" 😒

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women stay lying

[@chrisbell3366]

This is a horrible panel giving bad advise. It's a shame we can't be honest on TV anymore

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated demographic that's a lie

[@GiovanniGNV]

I love how everyone else’s behavior and negative impacts on communities are well accepted and documented but anytime it’s these women it’s NEVER THEIR FAULT. Somehow this is another issue BM need to solve

[@dr.manhattan6278]

Bravo 👏🏾

[@jones2277]

just quit your whining and get a degree.

[@johnwebb2442]

Exactly.

[@Wanderer25]

Black women are both the sheros and the victims in their own delusional stories. They choose which is most advantageous in the moment.

[@Heyu7her3]

...because y'all are 2X less likely to be educated

[@MultiDiceman]

Because they identify as "educated women" and nothing else! As a women are you patriarchal minded? Will you help me raise a son who can compete and build and a daughter who will value men that do? Will you aid in raising a son with character and Daughter who is feminine and needs a man who needs her?

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated demographic

[@patrickcoleman3]

A Degree does not mean your intelligent, only means in some cases you wasted your time on earth.

[@itsrelativ3967]

Hypergamy in black/African dating is real. She has access to everything academically to be more successful than men, but then complains that men don't want to give her the red carpet treatment. A real woman stands by a successful man's side and then he supports her goals. You don't go into a relationship competing against your woman to have the better career. It's dysfunctional and imbalanced.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated demographic

[@markwells6532]

Maybe you should look for qualities like a hardworking honest man with integrity , character and who pays his bills , I see the focus is on whether he has a degree , none of these " so called educated " women have mentioned the qualities that I said above , It's a phony focus on what college did he graduate from , college does not mean you're educated

[@butchwiltshire6686]

I do not have a date, it must be racism. Yawn.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women are not the most educated just enrolled

[@Sociallydetached]

Nobody wants their types

[@Iaintbrokenomo]

Damn. That’s cold

[@jx1668]

I think the confusion is women's types and men's types are different. Women who are educated all the sudden want an educated man and that's not necessarily an educated mans type.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

​@@Iaintbrokenomoblack women ain't the most educated demographic

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

​@@jx1668black women ain't the most educated demographic

[@genovasquez8361]

AS a college educated black man. What we desire in a woman of any race Be Slim or Skinny Wear your natural texture hair Dont have attitude dont be sassy BE a young adult Be childless Be pretty or beautiful in the face Be submissive and moldable We as educated black men want a certain type of woman for a wife.

[@AR3333-z6p]

Education doesn't mean that You know better or that you got a better mind even an educated man can tread you wrong or crazy Find a peaceful man whit mind

[@thelastgoodmaninjersey]

Plain-looking women with degrees think they deserve model-looking men who are also tall and successful. The reality is that BM are much more honest about the dating landscape and find suitable wives from the women who are available. BW, however, keeping believing that prince charming is coming even though they aren't the beauty queens from the fairy tales.

[@Mrs.T305]

The reality is that many black men don't want to get married period.

[@thelastgoodmaninjersey]

@@Mrs.T305 Thta's close to the point, but not quite. BM don't want to get divorced. And, many have decided that marriage isn't worth the risk. You can literally look up tons of videos about this.

[@djsalteenuts]

Men in general but especially BM have figured out that you don’t need to go to college to make money. A trade, skill or certification offers the same upward mobility without the debt.

[@amosisreal3392]

Define educated because I find it very difficult to find a black woman that knows more about the world than just what she read in a textbook and heard from her professor so with that said is she educated or is she programmed for the American establishment.

[@keys8885]

I just think it’s stupid to make having a college degree as a standard like if I didn’t go to college but I’m successful and I got my bag, does it matter? B/c in the real world educated people work for non-scholastic educated people.

[@PhoenixRising82672]

Kevin Samuels tried to help black women but they mocked his death So deuces

[@latyshal.2286]

Yet, you're here watching this video, which is about Black women.

[@freudianslip2192]

@@latyshal.2286 I hope you are aware that you've proven nothing.

[@daffodilsandnightmares8013]

Omg let your internet daddy rest in peace. Y’all on his nuts even in death. Kevin talked all that mess about women nurses yet he died on top of one. He played a lot of black men to get that money out of y’all. In the end kevin was not a happily married man yet always talking about marriage smh.

[@lilmizzije]

yall dont even try to help yourselves just hush

[@PhoenixRising82672]

@@lilmizzije There's no hope for you bitter brosds

[@user-hy3vp5kp1o]

Being unrealistic and delusional makes it hard for lots of women to find partners, the education part has little to do with it! Being Unrealistic and Delusional is a big problem in their seeking and maintaining lasting relationships.

[@markwells6532]

You are 💯% correct 🎯

[@markwells6532]

Everybody trying to live the lifestyles of the rich and famous without rich and famous money

[@darrenridley5792]

On average about 25% of the population has a college degree. These topics make it seem like 80% of the demographic has a degree. Maybe you should seek partners in college. I know it doesn't always work out that way but it would help the situation.

[@johndasilva2686]

Yes all those degrees but sadly they can’t get a MRS degree. . Like my wife I,m carribean British. We,ve been married 30 years . She,s got a degree in business. I married the woman. Not the degree.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated

[@johnson2191cj]

Educated and successful black men were also struggling to find suitable mates,so they got the brilliant idea to travel to other countries,there they found women who are on their level financially and who are feminine, problem solved for us

[@misstownes]

I’m definitely opening up the pool!

[@Nova.t]

Asian, Arab, Hispanic men have cultures where women are expected to be traditional and know their roles. They don’t marry outside their race often and when they do it’s usually not a black women.

[@chase715]

@@Nova.t Not you on here throwing out bs statistics in order to sway her decision. Bw are tired of your hateful bs. Get over it.

[@banginzaza]

​@@Nova.tBig facts!

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated, black men make more money than black women on average and is more married than them and etc

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

​@@Nova.tblack women ain't the most educated

[@Rebecca.xoxoxo]

Black women struggle to find a partner period….

[@myke6135]

The problem is that black women are comfortable with giving their energy to a black man who have undesirable traits but he is "fun" and then will say those same black men that they chose are trash. But when theses same black women go outside of the race they will search for men with different traits and then will say those men are better than black men. But if black men had those same traits they will label him as lame or corny. My question is why not look for the same traits that will result in long term relationships in all men?

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women are not the most educated demographic and y'all don't make more money than black men

[@arthurwilliams7307]

Bottom line, the man they think they deserve does not want them regardless of all there education

[@terencemedina6080]

They learned everthing but how to have a relationship , the most riches men dont have degree🙊🙉🙈

[@uncannytheos2454]

How's that single life not being loved, wanted or protected working out for you miss strong an independent?

[@jx1668]

​​@@neutraliserjanine your comment makes no sense. You're a conservative woman correct?? These women are feminists what they need to do is stop being a feminist and right in front of their eyes like magic will be the man they need. Note that I said "need" not want.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated and don't make more money than black men they are just the most enrolled with debt

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

​@@uncannytheos2454Black women ain't the most educated than enrolled

[@frankdees507]

I’ve one question. The woman at 5:10 says as a blackwoman you deserve it all. What is the connection between deserving it all, and being a woman that’s also black?

[@jambro1583]

Fat black women need love? You will marry a low income man or lose that fat and level up❤❤. Attitude is everything ❤❤

[@ATG_33]

Intellectual equal? Man and woman? 😂 ladies….y’all can’t even connect to the WiFi…

[@AlanaMichelle]

I don’t see how that grown black man is not embarrassed to say he isn’t ready to start a family until 30 years old. Men from other ethnic groups start their legacy in their mid to late 20s. The desire to “keep independence” and to “have fun” definitely shows a lack of maturity. I personally will continue dating up. Older, more mature, and more established

[@DreamsAudio]

They are focused on a degree. When in reality the majority most successful black aren’t in college they are doing apprenticeship, and going into the military, law enforcement and getting certified in cdl, it, and mechanics etc. Most of these women have useless degrees that don’t translate into the career fields they are working. While black men actually get trained in a skill that pays. Which is why Black men statistically out earn black women. Expecting your husband to have a college degree should be thrown out the window. You should be focused on whether he can provide a comfortable life with breaking his pockets.

[@godschild4988]

How does racism affect your marital status?🤦🏾‍♂️🤔

[@W7Mike5150]

Educated you mean?.. msm ffs

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated demographic

[@truthbtold8697]

They keep it going with the BLACK WOMEN MOST EDUCATED GROUP DAMN LIE😂😂😂

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

The funny thing is those black men believe like they ain't the most educated and they don't make more money than black men like they need to stop lying

[@robertmoore8097]

Degrees,single,most unwanted,most student debth.hows that working out for you sisters?

[@paulhowley4741]

Not necessarily looking to get married, yet it's 2023 and the pigmentation of your skin is not an obsticle.

[@paulhowley4741]

How could anyone be so foolish as to stereotype someone on the color of their skin....Rather indicative of our educational system going downhill.

[@paulhowley4741]

Case in point, I view Jonathan Capeheart, associate editor, Washington Post as brilliant.

[@davidking1177]

While there may be some merit to this general topic, this was really a low level conversation which is somewhat indicative of the fact that what we call education in this country is really just training and indoctrination. As Dr. Clarke once said, "What I have learned is that a whole lot of people with degrees don't know a damn thing, and a lot of people with no degrees are brilliant."

[@johncoleman3576]

Black men get your passport

[@markstewart3501]

Women stop thinking you can have it all. Nobody does!!!

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women are not the most educated demographic that's a lie

[@cjbanks547]

KS told them they cannot have it all and they still believe they can.

[@rahmikg516]

most black women in college are not worried about finding their future husband. they are told their too young and to live their life. that may not be the same for other races when women are in college. there are a lot of good black men who dont have college degrees who have tradesman jobs that pay more than some college degrees.

[@ekandeekoli3362]

bad attitude is the problem...

[@asdfghjkldfghjhgcgyuigfyui9792]

unfeminine and not loyal. who knew. buy cat food

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women are not the most educated demographic

[@Bob420-o8s]

Educated women generally mean dating standards are higher

[@sterlinggrier734]

How Black start supporting each other and stop supporting Asian beauty businesses. Why can’t black women open the the same businesses?

[@jbradley339]

He is giving bad advice for women. Women should get married before 25. Men can wait to 30. He didn’t add any value to the conversation 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@VedickDragon]

Men can wait till 40, and find a hot 25 year old

[@abdoumassah]

😂😂😂 #Rip Kevin Samuel 🙏🏿

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated

[@bookbag6432]

Start dating out women! If you want an educated man with money, why would you go to the least educated group of men with nothing to offer?

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women is the poorest demo and not the most educated

[@bookbag6432]

@@JefferyDavis-xv4ey black men are less educated than black women and that’s a FACT.

[@jones2277]

no excuses. get off the internet. be a man among men. buckle down and get your education.

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated demographic just enrolled

[@KSNOOPE]

RIP Kevin Samuels 🙏✊🫡

[@raylemar2386]

These women are too busy and don't know how to keep a man happy. The worst conversations at home are work conversations. Super boring, not interested. My wife bringing her work home with her would also be a big no no in my house, work equals stress.

[@amhnama2867]

It's funny..! We need Kevin Samuels in here :) the truth will set you free.. Look at thier criteria ! Even though they are average looking and 30+ most educated woman wants 6ft + :) and they go for somebody out of their league.. Cryin about not finding a man ! "Discrimination" in the dating world... :) what about you discriminating against good man who is below 6ft ? Ladies wants to have a cake and eat it too..the guy said mary in your 30's that works for men not woman bro..! Women need to have kids b/n 27-32...for better result..

[@amhnama2867]

"27-32" range is if ladies want to focus on thier career or have fun..:) if they want to have children in their early 20's that will be great ..

[@JefferyDavis-xv4ey]

Black women ain't the most educated and black men make more money than black women on average

[@Peace2dagawdz]

Look at how they’re dressed and how he’s dressed…, says a lot!