SUB) My daughter ROA is on the autism spectrum? | Start speech therapy

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[@anushkamalviya4114]

I'm a Paediatric Occupational Therapist and Roa does not show signs of Autism. It's just speech delay which is pretty common in children from bilingual households.

[@laura.from.iceland]

I totally agree. I know some children they were "late" to speak because they learn 2 languages at the same time :) Im not worried for Roa :D

[@user-vd2fb3nh4x]

I had speech delay, like you my parents took me for testing as my brother spoke so early and I used to just make sounds not words. They were told to stop anticipating my words and give me time to formulate as the words were in me just needed time. He was a very experienced doctor. Within weeks my speech had developed to the extent my parents couldn’t stop me chatting to anyone who would listen😂. My career as an adult was to speak to others. Try not to worry she is a lovely little girl and you are doing a great job as parents. ❤

[@innijo6026]

저도 같은 생각입니다.

[@BarnzTT]

Coming from a bilingual household I can attest to this. Though my speech was not delayed, but I had a slight stutter when I was very young. As someone who has autism in their family I do not think she has autism as she displays eye contact and awareness towards her surroundings. These two are very huge factors when it comes to diagnosing people with autism.

[@blancasur927]

GB

[@spaceseijo]

I work with children from multi-language homes, it just takes them a while to figure out the language divide, to separate the two languages they understand. Had a child from a three-language household who understood everything but didn't speak until he was five, and then he just started speaking in complete sentences. Kids do things at their own pace, it's going to be okay!

[@oyatuncel6672]

you are very right

[@consuelovelo8651]

Estoy completamente de acuerdo. Yo tengo una sobrina que empezó a hablar a los 3 años y ya no paro más. Es una mujer superdotada y médico de profesión.

[@lindapinto2346]

Hello there ❤ I see a beautiful little girl in good health and smart don't worry she will speak soon enough my son was the same way 💙 greetings from Paris France 🇫🇷 🗼🗼🗼🗼🗼🗼🗼🗼🗼🗼😍

[@fabiojoez3780]

There is nothing to worry about. It's happened in every multi languages speaking house hold. I started speaking simple world like mom and dad at 1 and half (international age) , but full sentence at 5, according to my mom ,my family speak 4 different language so I guess I was confused who speak which language at that time. Now I'm 30 and I got no problem. Imagine how difficult to learn a new language as a grow adult, and Roa is only 27 months old so she just learning in her own way to start speaking, she just need times, that's all. ❤❤❤

[@dontmesswithmybias5936]

This is true. There are 4-stages to language development and it’s slower more-so with dual- language development. Also Roa does not interact with other children. Perhaps that would make language progress if she attended daycare a few days a week. Children imitate their peers quickly!

[@ellemieko]

I’m a Special Education preschool teacher and I don’t see any evidence of Roa being on the autism spectrum. She makes eye-contact and engages with people and her environment. Speech and play therapy will benefit her tremendously. You folks are awesome parents that know your daughter the best.

[@Yuna-jh6nr]

An autistic person is perfectly capable of making eye contact and engage with people. What happens is that these autistic people usually have their diagnosis delayed because people think that autistic people are incapable.

[@user-fj4wt5xv7q]

ロアちゃんの笑顔は世界一👏🏻😊✨パパとママが素敵だからね🍀

[@Terralynsparrow]

A speech delay doesnt always mean autism. Im a childrens therapist and get so tired of people just trying to diagnose others from their computers. Roa has such perfect receptive language! Keep doing what youre doing. You are amazing parents.

[@icecycles859]

Exactly, autism so over diagnosed its not always that

[@konggju]

@@icecycles859 In this case it's not, but autism isn't over diagnosed. it's the opposite, even more in girls.

[@WonderfulsVIP]

I agree speech delay doesn’t always mean autism and diagnosing people on the internet is not appropriate, but I think it’s good to be proactive to be able to help their daughter and at least have it as a thought in their mind to be able to rule it out

[@verone272]

I just got diagnosed last year at 27 years old and I made full sentences at 1 1/2 year!!

[@gumicherryblossom8015]

than again, taking ur child to a theriapist /phycologist due to worry of it makes sense in a way (meaning the child can have it while it being masked with learning more than one language). I understand of other view of over diagnose of them, it does not mean it should not be checked to see if its both that and learn of two or more languages. Sometimes the kid can have high function and never noticed (think i heard somewhere there is some kind of screen of paper and pen [or something] to see if the brain function there)

[@cocokiitie]

I grew up in a 3 language household, my parents were also worried that I hadn't spoken a word when I was Roa's age and took me to a specialist to see if there was anything wrong, but after running a few tests the doctors concluded that I could understand everything they were saying I just chose not to speak because I was still processing which language I wanted to be able to speak in. I'm now an adult and can speak 6 languages, and my parents raised me just fine with no big worries. You two are doing just fine as parents and Roa is such a cute and bright girl, I'm sure she will grow up to be amazingly fluent in both German and Korean! Who knows what other languages she might pick up on the way~

[@Erica0200]

amazing!

[@Sinnedx]

aww man, i wish i had a doc like that. All I got was speech therapist which was all useless and only when I grew was when I was able to tell my parents that i just choose not to speak...

[@CherryGryffon]

This! I worked at a bi-lingual daycare (English and Spanish) for a few years, alongside my mom. I worked on the baby side, meaning 2 years and under. Every summer we had a little girl come in. She was American, but her mother worked in France as a translator. Because of this, she was fluent in both. Her grandmother spoke German and Arabic. Our daycare, as I mentioned, Spanish and English. This 18mo would come in, and when she spoke, she blended ALL of those languages. Primarily English and French but heavy on the German and Spanish too. I was lucky that I knew SOME German and French, but picked up studying it in school so that SOMEONE could understand her. To her brain, her sentences were 100% accurate and complete. She understood their meaning and so would the people around her. Just, not anyone else. Non-verbal language is much the same, and "covid babies" aka Gen Alpha... They're the first generation in a long time to have more than 1 consistent adult on hand at ALL times, ready to give their needs. They haven't needed to speak, bc their needs are being met without it. Add to that a multi lingual household, and I'm not surprise Roa isn't speaking. Why should she? Everyone in her house understands her as is.

[@Yuriko-toki]

Sie wird Sprechen, verstehen tut sie euch ja schon sehr gut, in beiden Sprachen. Braucht nur etwas länger. Alles wird gut! 😊

[@sabinawortha3139]

❤ true sweet little Roa's is just confused with which language to speak in and she is perfectly fine ❤❤ don't worry to much she will be just fine God bless ❤❤

[@meeraphilip9585]

A speech delay doesn't always equate to autism. My sister did not speak until 3 and it was simply because she grew up in a bilingual household and took a little more time to speak but it was clear and evident she knew and understood both languages well. She is now 27 and will not stop talking LOL. Wishing Roa all the best, I know she will be speaking all languages just fine when she is ready to do so.

[@zetavalentine]

True I live in South Africa where there’s 11 official languages and majority of households are multilingual. I’ve seen lots of children who start quite late and lots of children who start early.

[@user-di8di3yh5z]

69세입니다 아무 걱정없구만요 말은 느릴수도 있어요 영상 다 봤어요 걱정마세요 쓸데없이 자폐라는말 듣지마세요 절대 아닙니다 건강합니다 잘클것입니다 애쓰세요

[@eviandaj]

I hope people stop commenting about this and let Roa speak when she wants to without pressure. She's growing up so well!

[@user-qg6bx4vh6g]

썸네일에 자폐, 글이 있어서 놀랐는데, 아니라서 다행입니다. 우리 로아가 종달새처럼 쫑알쫑알거리는 그 날이 하루 빨리 오기를 기원드립니다.

[@user-qv5pp8li2o]

Совершенно нормальный и красивый ребенок. Мой дядя в детстве не говорил до трех лет, а потом, стал очень даже разговорчивым человеком с высшим образованием.

[@laputa1149]

kbs 슈퍼맨이 돌아왔다에 나오는 축구선수 박주호 아들 건후의 경우도 참고해보세요 건후도 엄마가 스위스 사람이라 이중,삼중언어인데요. 누나인 나은이의 경우엔 말이 엄청 빨랐는데 건후는 그러진 못했어요 아마 5살이던 작년까지도 말을 거의 못하다시피해서 자폐니 뭐니 나쁜말하는 사람 있었거든요 근데 올해 보니깐 말도 또박또박 잘하고 결국 영어, 한국어 둘다 잘하더라고요 물론 아직은 약간 서툰감은 있지만요 똑같은 환경의 한 가정 안에서도 이중언어의 경우 속도차이가 있는거 보고 아이들은 정말 케바케구나 싶었어요 로아도 결국에는 다 할거라 걱정하지 않으셔도 될거에요

[@user-vw6uz4hz2t]

와~ 저 건후왕팬이예요 이영상보고 딱 건후생각했어요^^ 나은이보다 말이좀더뎌서그렇지 표현도 다하고 알아듣고하는데 그때도 자폐라고 ᆢ ㅜㅜ 건후가 말을 막배우려고하던때 진우낳으러 안나가 스위스가고 코로나터지면서 귀국이 늦어졌고ᆢ 그시간동안 건후는 많은 언어적으로도 혼돈이왔을듯한데ᆢ그래서 더 언어가 늦어지지않았나생각해요 그래서 한국오자마자 본인이 터득한게 그림그리기인듯 본인생각을 빨리표현하기위한방법ㅎ 지금은보니까 발음도 명확해지고 수다쟁이던데 ㅎ 너무뿌듯해요 로아도 비슷한 경우일듯요 ^^

[@Hana13272]

My cousin started to speak at 4 years old (international age). Her parents were very worried but in the end she started slowly. Now, she is 18 and it s amazing how good she is at using words, as an adult.

[@maggie2759]

Me too!.. I understoodd everything parents said to me.... but didn't start talking until 4 years.. it never held me back at all... all children are different..

[@fabiojoez3780]

There is nothing to worry about. It's happened in every multi languages speaking house hold. I started speaking simple world like mom and dad at 1 and half (international age) , but full sentence at 5, according to my mom ,my family speak 4 different language so I guess I was confused who speak which language at that time. Now I'm 30 and I got no problem. Imagine how difficult to learn a new language as a grow adult, and Roa is only 27 months old so she just learning in her own way to start speaking, she just need times, that's all. ❤❤❤

[@Linda-kr5eb]

우리애도 다섯살에 말 시작했어요 당연히 행동에 문제없어 걱정안했고 말문 트이니까 그때부터 다다다 하더라구요 ㅎ 지금 공대생이랍니다 로아도 괜찮아요 이쁘게 기르세요~~~

[@user-xv4fq8pd5u]

울큰딸도 마냥 듣고만 있다가 5살에 말문 트이고 7살에 한글 떼고 좀 느리지만 잘 성장하여 성인이 되었네요 로아부모님 로아 믿고 인풋 많이 해주시면 언젠가 봇물 터지듯 수다쟁이가 될거에요 넘 걱정하지 마세요😊

[@Angelica-ks2sy]

A mi hijo le costó mucho hablar también, tenemos que saber y entender que no todos los niños son iguales, no todos caminan al mismo tiempo, no todos controlan sus necesidades al mismo tiempo, no todos hablan al mismo tiempo. Solo quiero que uds como papas estén tranquilos, confíen en Dios 🙏🏻 y vean otras opiniones médicas también. Saludos desde Chile 🇨🇱 ❤

[@MCHESTEMM]

Mi hija es mitad española, mitad portuguesa, siempre le hablamos en las dos lenguas y tardo casi 5 años (hasta que entro en pre-escolar) a hablar bien, las personas me decian, no le hables en las 2 lenguas, la estais confundiendo... el pediatra me dijo que eso era estupido, que está demonstrado que los niños bilingues tienen mas facilidad en hablar varias lenguas. Ella tiene 21 años ahora y habla, español, portugues, ingles perfectamente. Aprendio alemán en el colegio y era la mejor alumna, por cuenta de ella aprendio coreano sola, autodidacta. Por eso, querida família, vuestra hija tiene la dificultad normal para su edad de nacer en una familia bi-cultural... estoy segura que con el tiempo ella hablará perfectamente. Ignoren los comentários negativos. Os deseo toda la felicidad del mundo ❤

[@dinakarakuzova9895]

👍👍👍

[@gokceozbay7565]

Sakın üzülmeyin bencede bı rahatsızlığı yok gözlerinde o zekasinin güzel olduğu o kadar belliki tatlı kız herşey gönlünce olsun 🤲❤

[@mariamargaretta1252]

My son experienced speech delay like your daughter until he reached 5 years old. Many suspected he had autism, but I wasn’t concerned because he responded well and understood us. Now, at 21 years old, he’s thriving at Imperial College London. Don’t worry so much; you know her better than anyone else. She will grow up to be a brilliant girl!

[@anjalamprecht7882]

Roa ist ein wunderschönes kleines Mädchen. Jedes Kind entwickelt sich anders. Sie bekommt soviel Liebe und Zuneigung von euch und sie entwickelt sich prächtig. Macht euch nicht zu viele Sorgen. Roa wird zu einer wunderschönen jungen, intelligenten Frau heranwachsen. 🥰 Gebt einfach nichts auf die Kommentare.

[@emmar1576]

Some children go at their own pace. My little cousin took a good while to speak but now he’s flying it. Just because a child is the “correct” age to start doing something, doesn’t mean they should or have to. You’re doing amazing, the both of you and I wish you nothing but health and happiness!

[@user-tm6ly1gy4x]

로아 전혀 문제없어 보입니다! 진짜 행동하는 거 보면 호명반응이나 엄빠랑 소통하는 것만 봐도 자폐는 커녕 굉장히 똑똑한 아이인 걸 바로 알 수 있는데...댓글들 무시하시고 스트레스 받지 마시길. 우리 로아는 병원에서도 귀염 뽀짝이군요❤

[@serenetjokro]

My 27 years old first born didnt start his first sentence till he was 3yrs old. I was dead worry when his peers in nursery were already making complete sentences at 24 months old then. The doctor advised me that being a first child and in multi-languages family would delay their speech. But the best comfort from my late mum was “children who’s slow in speech are the gifted child”❤ True enough, my son had been on scholarship since he started school and he is the lecturer in junior college now🙏 Rest assure, lovely Roa will be a beautiful gifted lady too.

[@TRUTH-te8ig]

첫째가 5살까지 단어만 얘기했어요. . 지금은 중2..이제는 꼬박꼬박 말대꾸하는 사춘기 학생이 되었어요~^^;; 늦는건 나쁜게 아니에요~ 검사하고 꾸준히 치료하면 좋아질꺼에요🍀 화이팅~입니다!

[@user-ej3pk4xo2j]

우리아들 다섯살때까지 말 잘 못하다가 어느날갑자기 말문 트이더니 수다 수다 ~ 글도 초등학교 들어가서 배우고 그러더니 대학들어갈때 내신1등급 이었습니다 ~~의외로 늦는아이들 많아요 ^^

[@fantastic7050]

I love how Linda says "Yeah, my angel? What's wrong, angel?" or "Isn't she pretty?" and Joon answers "She is". The most sweet moment ever😊😌❤

[@sgtmian]

it is sweet, everyone deserves parents who talk to and about their children like that.

[@fantastic7050]

@@sgtmian definitely!✨🙏

[@user-qg1rt3yh4j]

우리 아이도 언어장애가 4세 까지 있었고 사회성 부족으로 유치원 생활에 다소 힘들었으나 대학4년 장학금 받고 현제 대기업 팀장으로 잘 지내고 있습니다. 지속적인 관심과 사랑이 아이성장에 최고의 교육 이지요 많이 사랑해 주고 외부 활동울 통해 대인 접촉을 자주해보세요 너무 사랑스러운 아이 입니다

[@nicolatunley1351]

Children develop at their own pace. Roa is contented and will speak when she is ready. Perhaps she is puzzled hearing two different languages. Learning Korean first is key. As you are living in Korea as your first home. Introduce small words in German when she has developed speaking Korean first. The Montessori teaching is very good. Only you know what is good for your daughter. Good luck, stay happy and healthy, Kwon family ❤

[@user-vg8wn6zm6f]

I understand u dear sir and mam. Don't worry sir ,one of my cousin started speaking in age of 4 but today speaks very clearly and soft. Trust the process and God. I wish u healthy life dear Roa from Himalayas

[@teoruck]

로아는 참 좋은 부모님 아래서 태어났구나...

[@folcocds]

저도 다문화 가정 가장으로써 저렇게 많은 댓글들을 보고서도 흔들리지 않으시고 강한 모습 유지하시는 모습에서 제가 배우게되네요! 혹시나 도움이 되어드릴 수 있을까 싶어 예전에 본 영상을 찾아봤다가 못 찾고 댓글로 남겨드리는데, 프랑스 엄마와 한국인 남편께서 아이의 언어발달 관련된 주제로 유튭 영상이 있었는데, 여아가 3세까지 말을 하지 않아서 한국인 남편이 자폐까지 걱정 할 정도로 굉장히 불안해 하셨는데 아이가 딱 3세가 되자마자 3개 국어를 유창하게 하는 모습이 나오더라구요. 저도 이제 19개월된 딸을 키우고 있고 발달에 관련된 자가 테스트 같은것이나 퇴행 증상을 가진 아이들 모습을 유튜브로 찾아 다니고 차이점을 찾으러 다녔는데 아이가 호명 반응 잘하고, 부모말을 잘 이해 하고, 상황에 맞는 반응을 하고, 패턴화된 행동에 집착하지 않는다면 크게 걱정할 일이 아니라고 봅니다.

[@sailorzee]

There’s different levels of autism and often times we have stereotypes of what that might look like. Not to mention autism looks a lot different in girls than in boys. I don’t think it’s anyone’s place to decide that besides a doctor and a parent. But autism isn’t a bad word,I myself am autistic and I got diagnosed at 25. I did amazing in school,have a bachelors degree,speak two languages and gotten married. I’m able to live a “normal” life the only difference is I struggle with sensory issues and social cues. Roa looks like an amazing smart and bright little girl and I have no doubt that she will do amazing things. Especially since she has two thoughtful and caring parents looking after her.

[@vivianidelacerda9708]

You are lovely parents. Your love for her is shown in everything you for her. All the best wishes to your family.

[@sarawilliams3190]

Thank you for sharing your journey with us. We all love you and Roa and are wishing you well. When she starts speaking, in Korean, and German, and even a little english thrown in, she's going to just surprise everyone! I believe one day she'll wake up and just start speaking in full conversations. She's just the picture of health and robust joy. ❤ Auntie Sara from Connecticut loves you all ❤️

[@time4change56]

There’s a good chance her language delay is because she hears Korean, English, and German. When she has it all figured out, she’ll start talking she’ll talk German to her mother and Korean to her father. Don’t get too worried. She’s a beautiful girl and very smart. She’ll surprise you one day when she starts talking German and Korean and maybe even English

[@valerinnn]

Roa is so intelligent she understands 2 languages 😭💕!

[@youngcho5808]

천사같은 아이네요 걱정 안하셔도 될것같네요 잠시 늦을뿐 크게 성장할겁니다

[@user-ke8mx5ze3s]

로아 진짜 귀엽고. 이쁘다. 건강하렴

[@joabcee]

People are just so rude. I'm so sorry you had to read and deal with those invasive comments. Thank you so much for sharing this journey with us, and for sharing such a personal experience. Roa is a beautiful child with a tender, bright soul. I'm sure she will start talking soon, and she'll be talking non-stop! :) You are such loving parents - and it is always a joy to watch your videos. Good luck with your therapy lessons, Roa! And well done, Joon and Linda! Hang in there.

[@user-jx9nu9od4p]

어린이집 교사로 일했는데요 평범한 아이들 중에도 말이 유독 느린 아이들이 있어요 네살이 끝나가는 시점에도 말은 안했던 아이가 다섯살되니 수다쟁이가 되더라구요 ㅎㅎ

[@Vampybeleza]

Roa é SAUDÁVEL! Ela está vivenciando a fase dela e vários discursos em seu ambiente familiar que podem fazer com que ela tenha de fato um atraso, pois como é bem pequena, ela deve estar confusa, mas é uma criança linda e saudável! 🥰

[@rutocookie]

Я начала говорить по словам мамы только в 4 года. И сейчас в 19 лет такая болтушка, что сложно бывает заткнуть меня. Так как Роа метиска, у неё как полагается всем таким деткам - речь начнётся позже. В этом ничего нет такого. Надо понимать, что всё индивидуально. Если заниматься, то сможет пораньше заговорить! Всё у вас получится! Берегите друг друга и будьте всегда счастливы! 💖

[@user-kh2de6bl7s]

Билингва ребенок сразу учится говорить и думать на двух разных языках.Это очень сложно для мозга,поэтому все будет немного позже

[@user-mb4ju4yu7g]

로아💗넘 이뻐요~ 글구 아이 둘 30년키운 엄마가 봤을땐 전혀 걱정안하셔도 될듯합니다~^^

[@NANA-hc5qo]

She is also overprotected. I clearly remember that the mother didn't let the girl open a paper package because "she couldn't do it" and that's just one example. Children want and should be challenged. They must be allowed to explore, make mistakes, go after, talk. And so, if the video is online for everyone and the comments section is open, of course people will say what they want, and you will read what you don't want. It's a popular saying in Brazil.

[@user-hg9vp2zf9e]

التلفاز و الهواتف الذكية هي السبب في تأخر الاطفال في التكلم و التفاعل مع الاخرين أبعد طفلتك الجميلة عنها و أكثروا من التواصل المباشر معها و اللعب معها.... وستكون بخير بإذن الله ابنتكم سليمة و الحمد الله ❤😊🎉

[@swan9512]

저렇게 상호작용이 되는 애기한테 자폐라고 막말하는 사람들은 본인부터 검사받아보셔야 할듯합니다. 제 아이도 비슷한 상황에서 5살에 말을 시작했어요. 당연히 잘 성장해서 어엿한 청년이 되었어요. 로아부모님 힘내세요.

[@jaeeunlee4638]

처음 보는 채널인데 엄마아빠랑 대화를 비언어적으로라도 잘하고 있고 상호작용, 눈맞춤 다 되는데 무슨 자폐요... 😢 어이가... 처음 봐도 아니라고 생각했고 혹시나 만에 하나라도 교수님이 자폐스펙트럼이라 하실까봐 끝까지 봤네요. 남얘기라고 막말들을 너무 쉽게하시는 분들이 계신가봅니다..

[@b2thegoodness]

자폐라는 것 자체는 막말이 아닙니다. 그저 진단의 일종일뿐 그것을 욕으로 치부하면 자폐아동의 부모님들은 마음이 찢어집니다. 제 조카가 자폐인데 오히려 이런 격양된 반응이 검사 및 진단을 기피하게 하는 것 같아 안타깝습니다.

[@boramiri5632]

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@b2thegoodness 말씀대로 지나가다가 살짝 상처 받은 자폐 스펙트럼 아이를 가진 엄마입니다. ㅎㅎ 저희 아이는 프랑스에서 고기능 자폐 진단을 만 4세 때 받았고 지금은 10살입니다. 치료와 노력으로 현재는 말하지 않으면 모를 정도로 많이 좋아졌어요. (사실 좋아졌다는 말 자체도 사회에서 말하는 “정상” (?)의 기준이겠지요) 저도 처음 진단 받았을 당시 단어가 주는 중압감 때문에 많이 힘들었지만 이 아이의 세상을 내가 이해해보자 하는 생각으로 많이 노력했어요. 물론 쉽지 않았습니다. 하지만 지금은 누구보다도 행복한 아이이고 자신의 특별함도 조금씩 이해하며 아주 잘 지내고 있습니다. 우리아이가 좋아졌던 이유중 하나는 주위의 도움도 컸습니다. 부모의 편안한 심리상태도 아주 중요하구요. 진단 전후 요동치는 부모의 심리상태에 주위의 작은 부정적인 단어들도 큰 상처가 될 수 있어요 ㅜㅜ 그래서 말씀대로 저도 검사 안 받고 모른 채 살아가는게 낫지않을까 생각했습니다. 저와 같은 상황에서 힘들어하시는 부모님들이 계신다면 주위 너무 신경쓰지 마시고 빨리 진단받고 적절한 치료를 받으시라고 말씀드리고 싶어서 두서없는 글 남겨 봅니다.

[@terrie7054]

자폐가 왜 막말이라고 치부하시는지 모르겠네요..

[@The_first_time_]

영상을 제대로 본 거긴 한건가;; 자폐를 우려하는건 부모님 쪽이시고 전문의샘은 아이가 자폐라고 언급하지도 않았는데. 님 말대로면 부모님이 검사 받아봐야 하는 건가요?;; 비의료인이라서 잘 알지 못할 수 있고 자기 자식이니 그 누구보다 걱정이 되시니까 전문적 지식을 갖춘 의료진에게 물어본 걸 가지고 이상한 편견 만드시네요. 그리고 님이 하는 그 말 자체가 자폐 아이를 부정하는 말인건 인지하고 있는지;

[@fantastic7050]

My younger brother started talking at the age of 6, it turned out he had Asperger's syndrome. (Autism spectrum disorder with preservation of cognitive and speech functions, but with impaired social communication). Nevertheless, he graduated from a lyceum school, successfully studied chess and mental arithmetic, winning national competitions, and then entered the University on a grant in the IT field, and now he is studying in the 2nd year, speaks three languages. He turned 20 yesterday. As you said, even if it was autism, it's just a difference, not a disease. We always thought so too, and it helped to grow him in love and understanding.❤ Good luck to you!😘

[@mariacorrea1967]

Roa es de los niños más hermosos que he visto en mi vida. Inteligente....cariñosa.... Es perfecta y amada por su familia.

[@conchitinabernardo4370]

Your daughter understands 2 languages. She is alert and bright. Her comprehension excellent! There is nothing the matter with her. I have had 3 children, one was delayed in speaking. He is now a functioning adult. Roa is Perfect !

[@user-vr5xt8cs7z]

It’s okay, autism comes in varying degrees (many people are autistic in fact) I also had a speech delay until I was 7 years old, I didn’t speak at all, then I suddenly started talking, seemingly because some kind of trauma in childhood, my sister is autistic, these signs are clearly visible, the main thing is that Roa is an active child and it doesn’t even matter whether he is autistic or not, but I will say from my own experience that in my childhood They diagnosed me with autism, and then over time I began to open up and talk. So Roa will be fine, don't worry❤

[@kuessmich88]

Thank you for this comment ❤ my 4 yr old son is autistic and for some reason, I found your comment very comforting

[@melolabean7656]

Very true and autism they are brilliant Albert Einstein to the Pokémon creator even Beethoven was autistic I heard even bill gates is autistic so in the end that doesn’t mean your child won’t achieve and there are very different spectrums and it’s a neurological condition of the sensory not a disability.

[@allabakareva48]

My grandchildren started normally speaking after 36 months, but they started speaking English,Russian and Greek. I think they could not decide what language to choose , finally chose these three. And when they began to speak they did not say just words, they expressed their feelings with sentences. All children are different. 😊

[@sharwina]

자기일 아니라고 말 함부로 하지 맙시다!! 말이 조금 늦게 발화되면 어떤가요 ~ 전문가가 아닌 제가 봐도 로아는 건강하고 밝게 잘 자라고 있는 걸요~ 로아 어무니 아부지도 이상한 댓글에 상처받거나 스트레스 받지 마시길 바래요!

[@JenDanny]

My daughter was raised in bilingual household and we were worried as well because she was not really speaking. She would murmur some words we could not understand. This lasted until she was around 26 months. Just as I was looking to make an appointment with a specialist because I was getting worried, within a week she was speaking in perfect sentences, perfect pronunciation and everything, she’s a teen now and hasn’t stopped talking since 😂Exceptionally bright and does really well at school, started learning a third language. I hope this helps :)

[@THGUSDLWlFHD]

하지말라면 하지 말지 제가 기분이 나쁘네요 예쁜 로아야 건강하게만 자라다오❤

[@user-xh5oy1nr1l]

저 예쁜 아이가 쫑알거리는 모습을 보고 싶은 사람들이 많은가 봐요

[@tika3231]

아 이거네 ❤

[@Cami-mw3ov]

저도 이중언어로 자랐어요.저는4살 반까지 말을 못했는데 5살부터 말문 트였거든요!지금의 저는 누구보다 말이 많고 ㅋㅋ3개국어 합니다!!로아 말도 잘듣고 말도 너무 잘 알아듣는 똑똑한아이처럼보여요 진짜.로아 행복하기만해!!❤

[@user-zt6ws4er9x]

My cousin didn't speak till he was four to five don't worry it's going to be ok 😊

[@user-vx8ub7hf4s]

로아는 언어만 다소 느리지, 예쁘고. 모든게 완벽합니다 아빠 엄마는 너무 걱정하지 마세요! 권위 있는 최고의사 선생님도 정상이라 하네요! 로아야 건강하고 튼튼하게 자라렴~!❤권로아 화이팅!!

[@bajoyf]

I’ve been around many autistic children. Roa isn’t on the spectrum. She interacts and emotes. She shows affection and expresses affection. She responds to spoken language and understands both parents languages. Children can be late bloomers in different areas. I have a son who was off the chart in math but had trouble learning to read. We had him in reading therapy for several years. He is a software engineer. His brother had a tick syndrome which falls under the umbrella of Tourette’s. We did therapy and medication to overcome it. He is now a lawyer and an artist who has exhibitions internationally. Speech therapy will be a good aid and reassuring. Your daughter is a well adjusted, healthy, beautiful little girl.

[@user-qp9wd3mn3t]

Mein Sohn war 4 Jahre alt als er das erste Mal sprach...er wuchs auch zweisprachig auf. Er entwickelte sich ganz normal und hat sogar studiert. Macht euch keine Sorgen. Eure Roa ist vollkommen okay ❤❤

[@norislobo6150]

Hermosa Familia ❤, no se dejen presionar por los comentarios de gente sin oficio, no todos los niños hablan o caminan rápido, que ganas de dar mala vibra de la gente. La bebé está preciosa, todo va a estar bien. Dios los bendiga saludos desde Colombia 🇨🇴🇨🇴

[@margosanna3725]

Roa is retaining information in two languages…two ways to say every single word in her vocabulary. I’m sure it will take time before she is confident enough to speak in both languages. You both seem like very caring and discerning parents, Roa seems very happy.

[@user-gd2tz4qe8x]

로아~~ 이뿌고 건강하게 잘 자라렴~❤❤❤ 50대 후반인데 이뿌게 자라는 로아보며 힐링합니다~~ 말우 조금 늦을수도 있으니 걱정안하셔도될듯요~~ 우리 시동생은 7살에 말을 했다는데 힘내세요 권팸~~~

[@seraphiefalls]

You know your child better than anyone? Don't listen to the people who say these comments. She is a beautiful, intelligent little girl. All children develop at different times, and some are faster than others, and some just need a little time ? Much love from Scotland UK Morag xx

[@user-od9ru3fd2c]

너무 걱정하시지마세요 제 딸도 25개월에서 27개월 할줄 아는 단어가 엄마 아빠 할머니도 할미 할비 물도 발음을 제대로 못했어요 이해는 다 하구요 25개월부터 어린이집을 다녀서 저도 걱정을 많이 했지만...28개월 넘으니 언어 표현능력이 ㅎ 어린이집 선생님들 다 놀라시고 아예 그 시기 보다 더 빠른 언어를 구사하더라구요 아예 문장으로 표현을 했으니까요 엄마 아빠 맘 로아도 알거예요 분명 로아도 곧 말로 표현 잘할거예요 응원하겠습니다~~~*

[@user-yf4kr7vq8o]

제아이 둘을 키워 어른을 만들고 지금은 만 세살 손녀를 봐주는 할머니입니다 병원에서 이미 상담받으셨지만 아이를 키워본 내가 보는 이쁜 로아는 말이 늦은 것으로만 여겨집니다 누구보다도 똑수니로 성장할 겁니다❤

[@user-vp7zv2tx3e]

제아들도 언어 발달 지연 인데요 ㅠㅠ 언어치료 랑 놀이치료 같이 병행하고 1년 받고 말이 틔었습니다 ㅠㅠ 로아도 언어치료 꾸준히 치료 받으면 언어가 더 빨리 틔일껍니다 ㅎㅎ 로아야 치료 잘받자 아자아자 화이팅 입니다 ㅠㅠ 로아야 잘할수있징 ㅠㅠ

[@user-or4xv8ng6y]

개월수도 성격도 비슷한 둥이들 키우고 있어요!고집쎄고 예민하고 말이죠😅똑같이 말 다 알아듣고 심부름도 잘하는데 발화도 안하고 말시키면 싫다해서 상담도 받고 검사도 받아봤는데 정상 언어치료 2-3번 했더니 모방시작하고있어요!! 기다리면 저희 둥이들과 로아 말할수 있을거라 믿어요!!!❤

[@lini6575]

A filha de vocês é extremamente inteligente e não se preocupem com os que os outros dizem de negativo. Vocês estão fazendo um ótimo trabalho com ela. Vocês tem que ter em mente que existem muitas pessoas ruim no mundo e que gostam de espalhar o mal, vocês não podem deixar isso afetar vocês, senão irão ter problemas psicológicos. fiquem com a paz de Deus!!!

[@kleinestinchen1306]

Kopf Hoch ihr Lieben Jedes Kind entwickelt sich anders und eure süße Maus hat sich Super entwickelt, halt in ihren Tempo. Ihr seid tolle Eltern, macht weiter so 💪🏼

[@user-bf7nj6hn6x]

Такая умная. Такая сладкая. Всё понимает. Удивляюсь как она терпеливо собирает фигурки, знает так много форм и цвет.Поекрасный ребенок

[@agustinacasarosa3431]

Roa es una bebe hermosa! No tienen que prestar atención a los comentarios maliciosos. Ustedes saben que es lo mejor para su hija!!! Es hermosa ❤️ y no veo nada de malo en ella

[@user-tg1pc1rc2z]

うちの子も一緒でびっくりしました！ 1月で2歳になる息子、全く喋りません！ こっちが言ってることはなんとなく分かってはいると思うけど、象や犬どれ？って言ってもイマイチ…おむつポイできるロアちゃんはすごいと思います！ 全てがゆっくりさんで歩くのもバイバイも指差も遅かった〜 焦らなくていいと言われても焦りますよね😂 お互い頑張りましょ！

[@ramiyo3606]

자폐아이를 키우는 엄마인데 로아 울아이 어릴때랑 행동이 완전히 달라요. 걱정할 필요 없어 보이는데요. 바이링궐 가정 아이들이 말 늦는 경우 진짜 많긴 하거든요. 너무 걱정마세요. 울아이도 다 알아듣고 표현이 늦긴 했지만 자폐아이들 특유의 상동행동이 많이 있었는데 로아에게선 그런 모습이 잘 안보여서 병원가신다니 놀랐었네요.

[@user-kx4fi2bw6t]

로아 안녕^^ 자폐는 개뿔~ 말은 아이에 따라 늦을수도 빠를수도 있어요. 로아 부모님 아무 걱정 마세요. 어느 순간 로아의 이쁜 입에서 조잘조잘 말문이 터져 엄마 아빠가 기절하게 기쁜 날이 머잖아 올 겁니다. 메리 크리스마스 🎄

[@farzonausupova9137]

Вы наша самая любимая семья! Дружим с вами с рождения Рои! Прекрасный,здоровый ребёнок. Самое главное-много любви в семье. Это чудесно,восхитительно!!! С Рождеством вас!!!

[@chlee1066]

엄마가 외국인이라 언어을 늦게 배우는것 같은데여. 너무 걱정 안해도 될듯 하네여 가수 황민우 황민호\형제 보세요그 부모님 애기로는 동생 황민호가 6~7세에 말을 배우고 하더레요 부모의 영야이 있을 겁니다,

[@lynncarter579]

You are Roa's parents and know what's best for her. She is your first priority and you both are loving towards her. Dont worry about anybody's opinion of where Roa should be in her development. You are her first teacher and know her better than anyone else.❤

[@veronicaoliveiro6367]

I learn youth psychology and Roa doesn't display typical behaviors with Children on a spectrum. She is very much involved in the environment she was at, and shows strong empathy towards things around her. She seems to really appreciate `non-humane` objects (flowers, Christmas tree, robot), perhaps she find them not as complex as another human being who will ask questions and expect her reactions. My incline is she's fine, just a sensitive little girl, and like most introverts, may enjoy herself better in a more `controlled` and familiar grounds. She will become better when she grows and form her confidence.

[@user-ez6nm3sk2d]

👍

[@catherinepark1190]

Couldn't agree more

[@RavenDarkbloom]

I work with multilingual children. It takes them longer to develop their speaking because they are taking in much more than children who only speak one language. I can see it worried you enough to get her tested. Which is a good thing. But, I would be more patient with her, she is going to need more time (like years) before she catches up with the other kids. Her brain is developing a system for multiple languages at one time.

[@gem2278]

Roa is perfect the way she is! She does not show any signs of autism, and her speech delay is not necessarily uncommon. I know of a girl about Roa's age who also has a speech delay despite the fact that her parents are monolingual. Roa already understands both German and Korean, and her cognitive abilities seem to be advanced. She'll talk when she's ready. Do not listen to mean-spirited comments. Every child is different, and these days people are quick to diagnose others with autism. Blessings to you and your family this Christmas season! Your beautiful, intelligent and delightful child is the best gift you could have gotten!

[@user-tw1rq8ci8r]

Мой сын нормально начал говорить к 5 годам, сейчас он закончил успешно институт, но заниматься надо, вы - молодцы !❤❤❤ Двуязычные дети иногда позже начинают бегло говорить, наш логопед так сказал

[@user-rx3cs9iu7m]

Совершенно нормальный ребёнок.... славный, умный.... какой аутизм!!!!!!!?????? Глупости

[@annadubasova1179]

Я думаю, у многих такое усиленное беспокойство ещё и из-за того, что она очень высокая для своего возраста (особенно в сравнении с другими сверстниками), длинные ноги и руки, и из-за этого выглядит не на 2 года, а на 3-4. Вот многие и пишут, что она уже должна вовсю болтать. Но если так подумать, то ей всего 2 года и 3 месяца, вполне приемлемо ещё не говорить (при отсутствии других проблем).

[@user-rx3cs9iu7m]

@@annadubasova1179 абсолютно согласна .... и детёныш два языка понимает в 2 года!!!!! Дайте мозгу дорасти..... умница девочка

[@alezmpss9860]

Σε λίγο καιρό θα μιλήσει με των παππού της γερμανικά Θα ξετρελαθεί ο παππούς

[@Andre-cl3kl]

Dans ma famille j ai un cousin qui a parlé qu à l age de 4 ans chaque enfant va à son rythme

[@gmedack]

Shame on those people who choose to ostracize you as parents. They have no business, as complete strangers, attempting to diagnose Roa's vocal skills over social media platforms. I hope the specialist at the clinic put your minds at ease. You are wonderful parents 💛 Keep up the great work and please try not to let others impact your lives.

[@allisoncuello6612]

She is a beautiful princess ❤🌷💕⭐️

[@twinkle_angels]

저두 3살때 늦게 말문이 트였어여 걱정 마시고 로아가 항상 건강하게 자랄수 있게 사랑을 많이 주세여 로아 아가 너무 이쁘고 사랑스러워여♡

[@ElizaDolittle]

Aww I could have told you that there is absolutely nothing wrong with your little rose! My nephew's son was VERY late to speaking because he is being raised in a two language household (my nephew is Italian and his wife American). The adorable little boy was always super smart, but just would not speak. When he started to speak, it was with great difficulty. Now he's 6 and you can't shut him up! My sister had the same problem. Born in America, our family moved to Italy when she was not even two years old. She got the languages confused and had trouble communicating for a while. Now that you know that little Roa is fine you can STOP WORRYING! But speech therapy is a good thing. It will help her snap out of this soon enough I'm sure. Love to all!

[@eternallyyj]

이쁜 로아~건강하고 행복하게만 자라다오~ㅎㅎ

[@eunkyoung1453]

놀이치료사로서 보니 금방 좋아지겠네요~모방도 잘 하고 지시도 잘 따르고 눈맞춤도 잘 되니 너무 걱정하지 마세요. 놀이와 언어를 병행하면 금방 좋아질겁니다^^

[@pennyroan8354]

You are the parents and know your child best. Do not let other's negativity or egos stress your family.

[@defnezulal2853]

Please don’t feel stressed because of the comments of other people. People always talk as if they know everything. Her development is fine even the doctors you consulted declared so. They cannot know better than the doctors. She is an excellent and clever girl! She understands both German and Korean, and that’s perfect! She will start talking any time soon! Roa is a precious daughter who has wonderful parents. Everything will work out well! Much love for your wonderful family from Turkey! 👻🤍

[@prostovkusno8303]

Роа - красавица! Умница, нежная, милая девочка! Вы очень внимательные и заботливые родители! Двуязычные дети всегда начинают говорить позднее других детей. Не переживайте, все будет хорошо! 🙌❤️🤗

[@magaricciardi.ch1997]

Tengo un hermano pequeño que empezó a hablar bien a los 5 años, sucedía que como era el último hermanito lo engreíamos un montón, con terapia de lenguaje avanzó muchísimo y hoy habla perfecto, mejor que yo. Es un niño saludable , aplicado y muy inteligente. Saludos y mil bendiciones a Roa, es una nena hermosa.❤

[@MariaAlexoudi-ug3ed]

Your daughter is so beautiful and intelligent girl!!!When our daughter was 24 month she doesn't say neither mom or dad...she was our first child and both of us we were very stressed about this situation....we went to see more doctor's and only one said to us first send her to a kindergarten so she has communication every day with other children .If this doesn't work then we must start other therapies....The kindergarten for her it was what she needed.She start to make o whole proposal!!!!Now she is. 17 years old and she is excellent student!!!!! Dont forget that only you see your daughter every day and understand what happened with her and i think that she is healthy and of course beautiful!!!! (Sorry about my english i am fromm Greece)send my love to 3 of you!!!!! .

[@user-qf1rh4mk1e]

선넘는댓글들로인해 찜찜한 마음고생하셨을로아부모님 좋은결과나온걸축하드립니다!편안한마음으로 즐거운하루하루보내시길 이쁜로아야 어서말문열자 화이팅!

[@Chealsea662]

Roa will be okay. Kids who are exposed to 2 or more languages tend to speak later. Its totally normal. She'll learn soon, i'm sure. ❤

[@anita99111]

Desde la primera vez que comencé a mirar los vídeos de Roa me encantó su personalidad,me di cuenta lo inteligente que es. La gente siempre compara a los niños pero cada uno tiene su tiempo de maduración para todo. Así que vamos Roa q cuando empieces hablar mucho mamá y papá se van a tener que tapar los oídos ja ja ja ja ja ❤

[@ginellarodriguez8555]

Hola, mi hija también tiene el mismo problema .. el lenguaje tardío, empezó a hablar a los 3 años, por qué empezó a frecuentar una escuela, la ayudaron mucho. . Todo irá bien 😊 saludos a Roa

[@user-lc3zp1yn7l]

말이 느린거지 절대 자폐는 아니에요. 제 처제 아들도 5살되서야 말문이 트이고 지금7살인데 저보다 더 말을 잘합니다. ㅎㅎ 행동하는거 보면 절대 자폐는 아닙니다.

[@Byun-if5mm]

로아 놀이하다가도 엄빠 질문에 다 대답하고 반응하는거 보니 전혀 걱정안하셔도 되고 교수님들 말씀처럼 언어발달만 조금 느린것 뿐인거같아요ㆍ언어치료 놀이치료 들어가니 전문가 선생님 믿고 따르면 해결되겠네요ㆍ로아와 엄빠 모두 화이팅!!

[@raffaellagaliero8978]

Your little girl is wonderful!lovely family!

[@rainy9angel]

Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m studying to work in this field and it’s so helpful to see the family point of view. Kwon fam fighting!!

[@1971mram]

My nephew is 4 now but didn’t really start to speak until he was close to 3 with just one language. Roa reminds me of him. He’s started speaking when he was ready and amazes us with his vocabulary and sentence patterns like an adult would use. He talks so much now and I’m sure Roa will as well. You both are doing amazing with her.