Subtle Red Flags She's Fake Feminine

[@slaveofgod3481]

It's genuinely intelligent women like this that aren't being listened to enough. Instead of these feminists, ig models, reality show stars that people tune into

[@guru_basketball_kiero]

I'm listening!

[@reginabroughton5917]

I love your comment and agree, but remember, the long line is the one of people doing wrong ish . So when you see the short line, it's people who possess the fortitude to do what's right ✅️. To follow the truth, not the popular..

[@User-uk6rk]

*100% agree. I wish that I could send this video to all of the "strong" women in the DC area.* Lol These "man-minded" negative career women cannot understand why the "un-accomplished" woman gets the man that they want.

[@marianbuckle5049]

Sara, would you say there is a difference between fake finish and a strong and independent woman?

[@nicoleharrington9086]

That's a fake independent woman.

[@sentientbeing9411]

I am shocked how ACCURATE she is. This is incredible and WELL needed information.

[@SaraLena]

Thanks!!

[@marvmon4735]

Wearing see through leggins allllll day long Wearing big eye lashes Head beating If she watches Love and Hip Hop If she loves Cardi and Meg If she twerks alot If she goes out in public with shower caps and pjs If she loves this new Bet and Vh1 bullshit If she has a Only fans If she calls other women bruh then LEAVE HER ALONE

[@Ihavemadeit999]

@@marvmon4735 Agreed on you till the ”bruh” part.it’s just a word,calm down

[@marvmon4735]

@@Ihavemadeit999 Women calling each other bruh is not classy at all

[@Ihavemadeit999]

@@marvmon4735 It depends on the friendship,Genuine friends call eachother bruh etc (slang) bc it creates a close bond.If you’re just getting to know someone i understand why it would make you feel a little funny. If you cannot loosen up around your friends and always have to be classy,that’s you trying too hard because words aren’t going to make you feminine/classy,it’s your mindset and the way you carry yourself.Being fun and not super strict is so feminine too

[@simnikiwemajiki8265]

I am a lawyer by profession. This video has made me realize how at times I would choose to neglect my natural feminine energy and operate in work mode even in my relationship. You have just proven that I am genuinely feminine, I must just find a balance with the requirements of my proffession.

[@faheemfaquir1024]

May the force be with you.

[@haroldsneed]

You're doomed anyways due to your profession. Try being feminine professional Clar was on The Cosbys.

[@lexuslawrence9406]

You look so pretty 😍 that’s color on you is beautiful

[@SaraLena]

Thank You So Much!!🌻

[@Angela-tb6dx]

I agree she’s gorgeous 🥰🥰

[@harlemstream6062]

Agreed. She is a pretty woman.

[@ghariiscool]

@@SaraLena very lovely woman and great content 🤗

[@lastamericanhero59]

He aint never lied "in my pookie and ray ray voice"🤣🤣🤣

[@DaggerSecurity]

Number 6 is so true. They love to have the last word in an argument with their man even when they are clearly wrong. They see debate as a competition that they must win and will fluctuate between facts, exaggeration, emotions, lying, and anger to "win" the discussion.

[@simplyliving4011]

This woman is pure love. I wish you and your husband the best.

[@ItsGoingDao]

love that you explored the nuances with each point made. Great points made that I haven’t heard in the femininity space until now! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@SaraLena]

Thanks for watching...I appreciate your comment.

[@gracet.3789]

I got my work cut out for me then 🥴🤦🏾‍♀️🤣 found your channel through MTR's reaction video. You are now my adoptive feminine aunty!

[@oORegularKevOo]

🤦🏾‍♂️ Sara just spent 22 minutes and 48 seconds talking trash about my mom.

[@SaraLena]

😆🤣 This comment took such an unexpected turn. Lol

[@Carameldamour]

😆😆😆😆

[@lelandbraggs7195]

Wow! That sounds 100% like my ex-wife. I pointed all those things out to her to try and save our marriage...she just wanted to argue my points. Best decision I made to divorce her. She's still not happy in her current relationship.

[@Drunkenmaster64]

SEND HER THE VIDEO

[@coollibra3644]

I been there too

[@phil5301]

There’s a WHOLE lotta fake feminine women out here. I’m glad she affirms some of what I’ve identified, plus bonuses I suspected. The genuinely feminine women are so naturally attractive to me. Even if they are not 10’s. So much easier to deal with and enjoy the company of. Thanks Sis. Great video!💯

[@sireastwood]

Just went on a date with a woman like this , she spent the whole.time talking about her accomplishments or trying to school me on shit I already knew or was well versed in. I just let her talk & feel important. It was so draining.

[@18QueenHearts]

Ahahhahahahahahaha...I feel your pain. They're even draining to us women as well lol

[@blankmandastankman]

Did you foot the bill and/or go on another date

[@healthiswealth6237]

I have found that some of the MOST masculine woman I've met afe the most glamorous looking. The woman with the most makeup, hair getup, fake nails, and so on, are often the most masculine. The more natural woman, with little to no makeup, and who aren't overly sexual in their dress tend to be the more feminine.

[@jermaineeghan1675]

The quality and truth in this content is so very appreciated, thank you.

[@SaraLena]

You’re Welcome!

[@AfrikanAssassin]

I just had to cut off one last week. We’ve been only seeing each bother for about a month, I thought everything was going and she was feminine, till she just decided to be disrespectful for no reason. When I told her I don’t tolerate that kind of be behavior she kept doing it so I stop seeing her. She then said that she was doing it to get a reaction out me and to argue for no reason.

[@eclipsedeucy1144]

She probably wanted you to hit her. Some women like abuse and are drama junkies.

[@GArmand715]

Yup if she’s starting to be disrespectful for no reason give her 1 last chance to fix her attitude if not the best decision is to leave her and move on work on yourself again and find you another woman there’s plenty out there some need to stop testing a mans manhood it’s very unattractive

[@GArmand715]

@@eclipsedeucy1144 yeah which is why you stay far away from those females especially the ones that say degrade me on tinder swipe left immediately they need psychological help not messing with a woman with that mentality Hell No

[@acej08]

Ohh.. You must've been too calm for her so she wanted to give you a shit test and see how much can u tolerate.. Its... Annoying 😒.. Especially when you warn them

[@think7406]

Oh boy, I wish I saw this earlier this year. I met a woman with a pretty big following and even has a channel herself, dealing with femininity. She appeared to be in person. Then we spoke again on the phone and when I got off the phone with her I had a headache. I realized her femininity is based in sensuality only. When we spoke she was super defensive and crass. I went to check her channel and when you really listen, her tone is very masculine.

[@SaraLena]

Honestly, one of the reasons why it’s a challenge for me to post consistently on YT, is because it actually requires a lot of masculine energy. And you have to sacrifice spending quality time with yourself, and those that matter most to you. Any woman that successfully and consistently posts on YT has to operate from a masculine “goal-oriented” and “results driven” energy. I need rest. Lol I need days to just love up on my man and be in a submissive state, rather than being in a “teacher mode” So if she is successful and consistent with her channel, that may contribute to her fake femininity.

[@VentraleStar]

@@SaraLena That’s a weird and unhistorical view of femininity, at least from a western perspective. I think “goal-driveness” is has been essential to femininity since time immemorial. You only had a brief period in the early to late Middle Ages where woman where repressed from ambition. Women weren’t surviving on the plains by not being goal- and results-driven. Indeed, considering they largely did agricultural work for the majority of human civilization (again, until, modern times) one could argue that they were by far the better equipped sex for planning and results.

[@twoflats6897]

@@jamesweaver1635 she does seem masculine sometimes. Idk how she’s not in a relationship.

[@trw4war322]

@@jamesweaver1635 Shots Fired! That’s her ego. She’s a dime and knows it. The Power of beauty is the ultimate aphrodisiac. 😂

[@liabw05]

@@twoflats6897 women and men contain masculine and feminine energy you goofballs! She is probably much more feminine off the Internet! Lol

[@jefrokatai5418]

I love your content. You have been consistent over the years. Much love n respect from Nairobi, Kenya 🇰🇪.

[@SaraLena]

Wow!! Thanks so much for the support all the way from Kenya! It is in our plans to visit there someday.

[@jefrokatai5418]

Awesome. Whenever y'all decide to make the trip. Do let me know. Would be delighted to show you some great places to visit for safari and engaging with the culture. Bless

[@Aduhwan]

@@SaraLena When you do, put the coastal towns of Malindi and Lamu, on your itinerary. Experiencing sunrise on the beach with your significant other is very romantic.

[@kellyclarke6793]

A FB friend posted this video and it’s interesting. I definitely don’t agree with all of it but, some are spot on. Others are more personality traits that are neither feminine nor masculine. For example, the speech one. For some reason, we have assigned logic as a masculine trait, it’s not. I had to laugh at the receptive part though. I’m probably a “strong woman” to my brothers but, to men I’m interested in, I’m a damsel in distress. Lol

[@DjAlexMiamiDj]

Great points. You saved my mentality on women in general. Sigh. I thought I was the crazy one.

[@jahkarimirza7286]

You just got another subscriber. I appreciate the knowledge you're spouting for the brothers and sisters. Keep up the good work sis. 👍🏾

[@kevinanderson7672]

Once again, you've done it again! Thanks Sara Lena. I see my queen. She's beautiful for me, her king.

[@ShaddyRaddyWorldMusic]

*A feminine woman is a high quality woman. A true je ne sais quoi. Her style, her grace, her charm... Just something about her...is simply out of this world!!!!*

[@Yeekyz-Makaveli]

i love your work

[@SaraLena]

I appreciate that.

[@indianman34]

shalom young sistah...great video....sadly a lot of older women (my age or older), would think that you would be disrespectful for telling them the truth...I personally have been wanting (and waiting for years), to hear any woman of any age say what you have been saying in your videos...Much love, peace, light to you...Shalawam

[@Tasso170]

You’ve actually helped my wife to be a better woman.. so I appreciate you greatly... thank you queen..

[@ArethaRenee]

I think this will be the 1st time I don’t agree with everything. Some of these things are just personality traits they have nothing to do with femininity or masculinity. One that stuck out for me, my grandmother was like a drill sergeant when dishing out orders around the house, but she was definitely a feminine woman. Another, I’m feminine, and I like a good debate as a part of my feeding my intellectual level. As a feminine woman, if I see the debate going towards a personal attack level, I will stop responding or tell the other person I’m not responding anymore.

[@SaraLena]

Sis, don’t debate me! 🤣 JK I definitely understand where you’re coming from. I enjoy being challenged and gaining a new perspective. However, being in an argumentative state is never something I’m interested in. As far as grand momma being in a drill sergeant energy. I’m not gonna speak too much I n that. She did what she had to do to keep that house clean. Lol All love and respect for the elders/ancestors.

[@ArethaRenee]

@@SaraLena no debates here Sis, you are my favorite YT content creator ❤️

[@Carameldamour]

@@ArethaRenee I second this, wholeheartedly!

[@danielwong5378]

You just like to argue and be right.

[@jdvstheworld1150]

What a great perspective and so well spoken. Thank you!

[@acej08]

Omg accurate on the taking bunch of selfie and picture they whole trips and dates.. I try telling them go enjoy y'all time instead of worrying by your social media..

[@sincerelyme7423]

Class in a glass. Thank you.

[@shawnorjiakor]

Great video. This holds a lot of jewels.

[@SaraLena]

Much Love Brother!

[@GrAdeAjAmAicAn]

I know your primary focus is your husband and a large YT channel requires a lot of maintenance, attention and upkeep, but I can't help but want to see your channel blow up so much more, so that more young women can see and understand what it means to be feminine. This is coming from me having only watched this video (liked and subscribed btw) after seeing someone mention your name in the comment section of a certain manosphere channel. There is so much fake femininity(female toxicity) out there, it's great knowing there are women like you (also Jessica x) are putting out content, whenever you can, to counter the nonsense. Much respect and success to you in all your pursuits.🙂😏

[@Make_it_Make_Scents]

My parents drove independence, freedom of thought & speech. They respected our opinions and guided us well to understand social norms, black history, great music, respect for our elders, to be accountable and to hold people accountable for their actions (and much more). But there are a lot of masculine traits I owned/ acquired to walk I what our parents raised us to be. I am regaining my femininity and this feels good! You are treated the way you carry yourself and by the energy you exude. When you are a real feminine woman, men treat you well (even strangers) and they don’t mind standing up for you in the smallest ways. Those small instances are positive reinforcement & proof that I am moving forward in my journey to reclaim my femininity 💅🏽👄🔥

[@guru_basketball_kiero]

Your past few videos have helped me out with a young lady or 2 I have been dealing with.... thank you 🙏🏾

[@MrGogether3000]

Some woman have a rebuttal to everything and still don’t have a view or valid talking point. Just argumentative.

[@ljose007]

That's virtually every woman I know (with the exception of my sister).

[@deanna6742]

The first scenario abt how sharp women argue made me laugh

[@laylabaxter5157]

Does anyone else think it’s weird women have to be taught how to be feminine? My mom taught me n my grandma n eldest sister.

[@triadholisticliving2369]

You are amazing!! Really balanced videos.

[@anthonyholloway173]

Love how you break things down. I get so much understanding here

[@jasonabercrombie7869]

It took a minute to realize what you meant by “fake feminine.” A couple of points in it started to be clear you meant two different things: masculine and immature feminine. Very good information contrasting both of those qualities with mature femininity.

[@jdkingsley6543]

I had ex who would did this, shed ramble on and on lmao. 99% of it was just emoting lol.

[@harlemstream6062]

Yup everything thing you are saying is so true. I can see all my ex girlfriends, relatives, etc of the past of whom i have contact with. I am sitting here laughing as you speak. Really hitting home here. Lol.

[@ChurchBoy0487]

You have literally described my mother , DEFINITELY my sister and other women I've met. Amazing comment

[@michellel411]

Wonderful content as ALWAYS hun! TeachThem❤️

[@Bella_bella334]

I didn't know you had a second channel, I'm already over there 😁

[@thastarshineslight]

You really making sistas look good your husband is a lucky man I pray for a woman like you in my life

[@PHOENIX1699]

Dang if you didn't hit my woman right on the head with most of these. I knew/know these things, but you really articulated it for me.

[@Tasso170]

This woman is a true educator a true queen thank you very much you’ve helped my relationship with my wife...

[@todo8328]

Just subscribed to MGC. I’ve been following your content since 2019 because I knew you were as sweet as pie. Genuinely feminine, and not one of these closet feminists. You got a fan fasho girlfriend 💕

[@steviemak10]

God bless Sara Lena, honestly🙏🏾🙏🏾🏆🏆🏆🔥🔥

[@Throwin_pesos]

I genuinely didn’t know this, thanks Sara!

[@blkwallstreetfbalineagegen4698]

Excellent!☝🏾 omg all of this is true but that 2nd to the last one and that last one. You hit a lot of them with those 2. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@newbuleria]

On point. Do you have a spirituality influencing your message?

[@kwedog2373]

Thank you sista. Thoroughly enjoyed listening to you explain the information...Sad that we have to have these conversations but definitely sheds light on the reality of the world...;the dating world we live in.

[@MichaelEBeard]

You're wild as ever but telling the truth. Thanks Sara.

[@eldderbanga5025]

***That is the main reason why men should focus on their own life by going after excellency***No any man can control women attitudes towards men****Women believe to know everything in life more than men***

[@boondockpaint]

Thank you Sister. I got bamboozled a feminine pretender.

[@victoriaford4145]

I love your vids 🥰. You are so put together and Have so much good content.

[@smoothwiththegroove1]

Finally a woman thats actually pointing this stuff out love your video love

[@willbass82]

The poses are 5:45 were absolutely factual and hilarious😂

[@jnealone]

I am only here for the yellow dress. WOW! But as always you speak the truth.

[@mariahmac5676]

Loving your channel and This video is 🔥!!!!

[@mistermartin667]

I love this woman, she is dropping so many truth bombs when it come to a woman true femininity. I just hope they listening.

[@the_beast_among_sheep]

This is a subject that I'll trust your opinions on

[@delite7DFG]

To listen to respond is being obstinate. That is a turn off to most men...

[@websology]

Argumentative, confrontational, defensive = WACK!!!

[@wynn2u2]

It's amazing listening to you speak because you articulate your message well. Your points are like those old love songs from back in the day as they take you back to a specific point in time. Every point you covered made me remember instances of that fake femininity from various women throughout the course of my life. While I didn't attach the name to it, I realized those were character flaws that I wasn't going to entertain; you have to do the right thing and move on black man, move on!

[@jaym6466]

Love your content as usual. Very well spoken 💯

[@Kmohd777]

Such excellent tips, thank you so much. By the way that color on you is the bomb.

[@DrShake-wy1dg]

#2 is about 90% of women and the debating (especially Men) is 95% of BW

[@kellz410]

just came across your page i love you so much 💯

[@chrisokonkwo4199]

Hi Sara, Is it fake femininity or simply/outrightly masculinity? Fake connotes trying to be but you sound like you mean traits of masculinity in ladies. Your diagnosis of them is right though. They always want to proof a point to themselves and others. Mostly outlandishly, without reasons provoking them. Bravo for your deep and practical thoughts on this subject.

[@angel-ik2mc]

Same thoughts. I was like this before, but I woudn't call it fake femininity... I wasn't just feminine in the first place.

[@83ttaylor]

This was good!!! Thank you🤗!

[@DrShake-wy1dg]

This is 95% of Brothers Dream Woman!

[@Aduhwan]

Absolutely. Her husband is a very fortunate man.

[@thelowkeygoatash5500]

I love the self-full line👸🏾💯

[@Kris-ym2zr]

Great advice and a lot of food for thought. I've seen a few of these before.👍🏿

[@thaxtonwaters8561]

Saying No will usually bring the Dragon out.

[@blaccsilverstaff5484]

Yeah that shit real.... All that aggressive...talking with the hands....loud tone...low key tryna check you ..... Covering shit up claiming " venting " .... Endless talking about nothing...

[@SaraLena]

Yeah...Fake Feminine women talk at you rather than talk to you.

[@bisquit48]

@@SaraLena great point and that can also be a cover for insecurity ..

[@significantnobody823]

Another great vid

[@SaraLena]

Appreciate your support!

[@Fullmetaltracer]

Love your channel

[@Sjbjo]

The facts that I needed to hear for the day

[@kennethburruss4488]

Sara Lena you're always bringing so much wisdom and honesty. I hope you get your own TV show soon. 🎯❤😇

[@sentientbeing9411]

Mainstream t.v destroys truth like she is speaking. So no to t.v KZbin is what everyone watches anyway....

[@kennethburruss4488]

Well maybe someone needs to inform all the reality shows and guess Sony should stop making televisions. By (everyone), you are speaking for yourself? Very shortsighted logic. KZbin is just another media and venue, it's not the be all and end all.

[@kennethburruss4488]

@@sentientbeing9411 I would have to respectfully disagree, your statement is a bit of a stretch. KZbin is a word of mouth media exposure.

[@sentientbeing9411]

@@kennethburruss4488 yes I'm aware of that. The point I'm trying to make is that with her show on KZbin she has direct control over the content SHE wants to produce. The mss (mainstream media) puts content such as, the real housewives, love and hip hop, the bachelor, (where EVERYONE ends up loving the wm) I could go on. These shows ( controlled by wp for wp entertainment) exacerbate the negative stereotypes about blk women (and the myth of the weak bm). Do you REALLY think that they who would take control of her content would allow her to 1. Direct her POSITIVE message to the blk community? 2.not allow her content to be whitewashed in some way ( ex: her new co- anchor would be a wm) 3. Use her show to go political 4. Start trying to slide in the gay agenda/ or swirling agenda? I mean really just look at the trash that the MMS puts out that's scripted and stereotypical negative about us. As for your "tell Sony to stop making T.V's statement. Um..... Really KZbin ( a clever acronym for You T.V) would lead one to believe that KZbin and other streaming services are still watched on a........ Uh......... T.V BTW data shows that the majority of this ( and up coming generations) of people get their news, info, and entertainment from streaming services, so there's.......... That.... Um... Yea....

[@kennethburruss4488]

@@sentientbeing9411 everyone that subscribes to her definitely I believe is well aware of mainstream impact on the decisions of our entertainment. At least, I can speak for myself. I am 65 and have seen the major decline in of entertainment value and the agenda of mainstream on society in general. We as a ppl should stop giving so much credit and power to the mainstream establishment. Once we realize who your enemies are and their tasks, the choices and decisions to make changes are on us. Many ppl use a lot of MLK's quotes but this seems to elude us " a man can only ride your back IF you bend over and allow him to do so." We are wealthy enough and intelligent enough as ppl to have our own but the question always remains "Can we Unite and come together for cause that benefits us all?"

[@evasccl7846]

Dear Sara, Thank you so much for this video as I was deeply moved by realizing how much i have changed and understood why and where it came from my "Fake feminine"... in 2019 I had a total burn out that required me to receive ...and that brought up and nurtured the true feminine in me, never felt happier and more loved in my life. Truth be told it is so much more beautiful and happy when we are true to ourselves, gorgeous women created different from men! 🥰 I loved your videos on women empowerment 🤭 it made me giggle because i am with you on that, and also the one on men and women are created differently... i find it so refreshing to listen to another woman openly talking about this and it inspires me to continue being true to my God given feminine and live life enjoying its blessings and wisdom! Thank you and God bless you 💞🌻

[@SaraLena]

Wow! Thank you so much for the support! Sometimes, we are put in humbling situations that result in being more feminine. I can relate. I remember being overly “Proud” and then life happened...I’m grateful there were masculine men in my life I could depend on. It was uncomfortable at first, but as you stated, I’ve never been happier and more at peace than I am now, embracing my femininity. Peace and Blessings Sis!

[@evasccl7846]

@@SaraLena I so much love how you softly put it "and then life happened"... i think it is a beautiful way to see it, it is life taking us by the hand to the path we are meant to walk and show us who we really are. We can be too hard on ourselves without noticing it and then... yes, "life happens..." Sending you a big hug full of gratitude, love and kindness from my heart to yours 🌻🌻

[@bisquit48]

another great video learned a lot .

[@UnaversalTriumph1one]

Im listening 🎧

[@heliogps]

Damn, love you, you helped me so much!

[@ownerhollisterproductions2705]

Keep up the good work sis!

[@SaraLena]

🙏🏾

[@protevan]

All true thanks for the info

[@jeffjohnson726]

Is there a such thing as a in between because my ex wife is a lot of both of what you explained ?

[@youngmoney23me]

She’s just talking guys 😂😂

[@Penelope416]

Do you think some people are neutral? Like a balance of both masculine and feminine energy... or a middle-ground?

[@aqua_finessa6030]

A women can be a neat freak doesn't mean she lacks feminity. A woman declining a man's help doesn't mean she is lacking. Because a woman can yap on and on about her day does not mean ANYTHING because most women enjoy talking. I get the message your pushing but comparing women taking pics of their food to being fake or a women not being touchy feely with a man to her lacking feminine energy are sweeping generalizations.

[@osagieafe2938]

Do the man version. Interesting topic

[@SaraLena]

Fake Masculine Men? 😬 Ok

[@osagieafe2938]

@@SaraLena lol haha yes

[@osagieafe2938]

@@SaraLena ohh I forgot. Thank you

[@sireastwood]

@@osagieafe2938 As a man also interested in seeing that lol

[@danielrolle7621]

I’m just gonna sub to the other channel so i can watch more of your videos😂

[@Sankofa.theone]

Wow that’s deep

[@dahveedandsarkis2123]

I'm very feminine 💃😊

[@WatchDoggyDog]

The word negative shouldn't be used to ever mean bad....it suppresses the feminine to continue using this word in this way.

[@SaraLena]

I understand

[@WatchDoggyDog]

@@SaraLena you would show that by making the switch, and encouraging others to do the same. You have the platform/audience, something the negative, me, don't got. I was enjoying the video btw as well but didn't finish it. But yea, here's to you spreading what is perhaps the most important point to be made in modern times 🙏

[@ckhid]

lol she's damn sure a woman Every quality she listed... she also said "Sometimes a femine woman will also do this" A masculine woman will be mad that you only bought flowers... but also, a feminine woman will sometimes also be mad you only bough flowers.. but that don't mean the feminine is the same as the masculine it just means the masculine may be more in tune with her feminine but is still a masculine ^ this the math problem men have to deal with to get a wife lol

[@bisquit48]

that is interesting about how its fake feminine is when a female elkes to debate and fin flaws in a conversation is aggravating as a man to be around that, on a flip side in terms so comrade or conversing with men on important subjects I think it's effeminate when a male wants to go back and forth with another man for no reason he looks weak to me and I tell him to go find his father or get a male mentor. especially when it's on social media looks really weird. would like some insight on that ..