Sue Johnson Working with Traumatized Couples Facing the Dragon Together EN

[@koroglurustem1722]

This is a hidden jewel in many ways. It has clarified so many things for me. It's true that this process requires someone to rely upon. Which in reality should be the case. Now, our society is divided and separated in many ways, including inter family ties. Therefore all these psychological and emotional problems get enhanced much more. I guess these kind of solutions emphasize the connections between family members a lot as well as the societal ties. There are many examples of benefits of a well connected societies. Now, the question is what should individuals do in this situation ? I think we should learn how to connect deeply with our families and friends. Also, this knowledge of why we behave the way we do, in other words, self awareness around our emotional core, will help to relieve some effects of those problems.

[@powerliftingpremedcrafter473]

Thank you for this video! You got a new subscriber. This video has helped me very much in understanding myself and partner.

[@arif4654]

The training tape she mentions with the military couple is really excellent piece of material at ICEFT

[@Liimiinaa]

This is excellent. The more I learn about Attachment Theory, the more I realize I've been operating under SO many misconceptions about how relationships work. I'm seeing myself repeating the same patterns whether I'm partnered or single. Very excited to start EFT with my partner in two weeks.

[@goofyjohn6191]

I focus away from stupid drama. Either you live in an honorable way , with absolute honesty and responsibility for you decisions or your just a horrible person I will avoid.

[@robbiespence6504]

Sue talks too much

[@Gwen13061]

Too much dependency on others is not good. You’re born alone and you die alone. And life is painful, especially if you are single and you just have to deal with your issues on your own. If you’re partnerless you can’t depend on friends either. That kind of dependency is too much to put on a friend. And you don’t have your friend in the middle of the night next to you. None of this theory strengthens the autonomous self.

[@Junebugbugatti]

Gwen13061 healthy secure dependency fosters autonomy. Anxious attachment isn’t healthy attachment and neither is avoiding leaning on loved ones during times of distress. Our bodies weren’t designed to manage that intensity of stress alone. Science has already proven that having the emotional presence of a loved one during stress helps our nervous system calm down, and not dump as much stress hormones into the body. It is clear and the theory and science is clear, and a lot is written about autonomy as a part of having secure attachment. It sounds like you lack an understanding of what the theory actually says about autonomy and secure attachment. I suggest brushing up on reading the actual theory and research, and would strongly recommend the book “The Making and Breaking of Affectional Bonds”.

[@mendedandwhole]

@@Junebugbugatti Excellent perspective and explanation.

[@mindmebyalegraluz9803]

​@@Junebugbugattiyes yes yes yes 🎉 LOVE this, Hope the persona read It and research more about It.