You have a lot to look forward too... I’m a first time mum I’ve done it all my own too fern and it ain’t easy... She is 6 years old now.... Sometimes it can be difficult and the next it’s brilliant
@xelaolive41813 ай бұрын
Boundaries Simple as that When they can read, write them on the fridge then, they feel safe, once this happens you don’t need to really say no anymore Eg. Shoes off at front door Tell the child (signpost) that this new rule is going to happen on (Monday for eg) and then as soon as you come in from being out on Monday, both take shoes off and act like it’s normal. Gentle reminder before hand. Don’t over praise. The child should do it as they know what is coming and feel safe If they don’t then you have to go bk out and repeat the process until the child gets it and let them get upset
@236am74 жыл бұрын
So I think when Sunday slapped her leg she should have put Sunday in a quiet space on her own and explain what she has done isn’t kind like you said and then collect her from that space and explain what she did wasn’t nice blah blah blah it often works for kids to teach them not to hit out when they are upset xxx
@sharonbibby78352 жыл бұрын
Sunday is spoilt, and no discipline whatsoever in regards to her bad behaviour and tantrums, her mum needs to be more firm, and when mom says no it's no and don't keep giving in just because you want an easy life, be firm but fair, always pays off in the end
@millsmoore244 жыл бұрын
Learn to say no to her. My daughter is 14. I wished I had been less lenient when she was smaller. Children today have massive willpower to be in charge. You are in charge. No one else. That doesn't mean the child must be in a state of total submission. It means that when you intervene, they listen. They want things. You do too and for the time being, you know what's reasonable and what isn't. Don't try to keep your baby happy non stop. They must learn the rules too and sometimes, the hard way is the only way that message gets across. Trust me; 15 years with a girl and a boy. We're happy but I think I have encountered a huge disciplinary problem because I have always been too gentle, too accommodating. Children need clear guidance. Yes, no. You can. You can't. It reassures them that YOU know what you're doing.
@byronpocock80594 жыл бұрын
What a Discrace!
@terifawcett46674 жыл бұрын
I've never written a comment on any reality tv show been invited to do so lots of times but I lived through the 70s 80s 90s noughties so dont even have face book for obvious reasons but I'd just like to say to ferne if ever you and your friends if you want a descriet stay in cornwall I have an amazing place for you to be you you are the most honest wants and all brilliant mum that cheers me up and gives me faith back in humanity keep doing what your doing and never lose sight of what makes you humanx
@chloebroom56144 жыл бұрын
My sister had the same with my nephew he went Through the terrible two stage early
@georgia85924 жыл бұрын
Such a cutie 💕
@jacquelinehunt77943 ай бұрын
She should wear what she’s told end of.
@jillnunns84054 жыл бұрын
You have some still
@Beajxyne4 жыл бұрын
Jill Nunns what?😂
@tinabates30204 жыл бұрын
She is a little cute but got to be a little more firm with her before she rules you before you now it 💝💝💝💝💝