12 Things Nordic People Avoid To Keep Life Simple

[@SunnyKindJourney]

What is something you say no to in order to keep life simpler? 🌿👇

[@HollaAtchoo]

I say no to an IG account to keep life simpler.

[@DNA350ppm]

The concept of owing favors. We can help others, but they are not then owing us back. We say: you can pay it forward, if you want to, but I don't want anything. But I have heard it just a few times in my life, that somebody claims he can ask for help by somebody, because "he owes me help" - it was a *very* shocking and unusual comment and attitude. I think we help because help is needed, and not because a calculation. Am I right?

[@SunnyKindJourney]

@@DNA350ppm Yeah, I noticed the other day that the people I appreciate the most in life are the ones who give but don't care if they get anything back, for them it's about support, not gaining something. Well said!

[@petrine5]

Invitations to family gatherings I don’t want to attend. I don’t really like being around a lot of people so I’m very picky and honest about it. I prefer small gatherings😊

[@solarius5057]

No to unsolicited advice about personal life/choices, same about answering intrusive questions.

[@4StonesHandcraft]

I don’t know if it’s true but I have heard that Nordic people complied with the 6 feet distancing rules during covid, then afterward returned to the normal 10 feet. ( :

[@anitapricecheck9554]

lol wouldn’t it be nice?

[@Bisquitengineer]

Yah it's true too, don'tcha know

[@JorgePrates]

Just in case my perfume bothers you. Sounds fair. These concepts are great and I follow most of them in Portugal.

[@katherinebates13]

So funny 😅

[@kimsherlock8969]

Hehehe 😊

[@real-life-cooking]

I say no to: - eating out unless there is a specific reason - „date nights“ - we have a beautiful home where we can spend a very nice evening without driving somewhere, wasting money and being surrounded by strangers - pushing our kids to „success“ - the biggest success is when they are happy.

[@kellyamodeo214]

I completely agree with your third. Eating out though… I don’t like fast food but I love to enjoy food both at home and out. ❤️ food so good. I will travel to experience food and I love feeling like I am supporting local food makers. Food is an art to enjoy.

[@real-life-cooking]

@@kellyamodeo214 Oh "travelling and wanting to experience the local food" would be what I meant by "specific reason". What I meant was I don't eat out just to not have to cook at home. I don't like the cleaning after cooking, but I do love homemade meals!

[@wendyworld2024]

I eating out is not enjoyable anymore cost to much and you are right that we are surrounded by strangers more enjoyable when with a group of friends and family. Keep it special

[@TemuMuuMuu]

Honestly, for me dining out has lost it's appeal since COVID and the numerous mass shootings.

[@dibdap2373]

Your kid might be real happy to be jobless and just sponge off you. Happiness is a really vague metric to measure your child's life with.

[@suzannebousquet2710]

I basically live a Nordic life. Last year, my family spent a couple of weeks in Norway. We loved it! As an American, my heart is now broken and I wish for a country with values I adhere to.

[@darrellborland119]

DJT will turn America around, if our Citizenry will embrace traditional values, and drop DEI, etc., which is ruining our culture, as anyone looking at us objectively, can see. Thanks.😇

[@MsMagilicutty]

You are not alone. ❤

[@anngrogan6343]

I feel the same and said so to a bff a few days ago. I’m with you. This is not my country and I’m in shock. I feel like my whole life has perhaps been wasted but I’m not giving up my values. Best wishes to you!

[@LissaRes]

Same.

[@stevewolfe3214]

You might want to consider moving to Northern Minnesota near Duluth

[@LadyV1962]

Nature is a healing force, mentally; physically and emotionally. We are so disconnected it’s having a negative impact on society

[@gonnabeayogi1445]

100% agree. Nature both inside and outside of ourselves, knows what it’s doing. The more we mess with nature, the worse we make our lives.

[@deborahbarbour2241]

I support not overscheduling children. I was a tutor for a young girl who was so overscheduled that, by the time she was 12, she was absolutely exhausted.

[@cathys7087]

I couldn’t agree more!

[@annamarielewis7078]

The Asians are particularly attracted to over scheduling their children.

[@keshakellogg5995]

💯 I was an overscheduled child and remember having a breakdown every year from ages 10-16, then experiencing depression from 18-21. It's essential to give adolescents time to do nothing and grow slowly.

[@elizabethsydnor5247]

I'm a teacher, and I see most of my students are sooooo overextended. Not cool!

[@sventer198]

People, including children, need time to just be.

[@skyval7926]

I have a problem . I never was on social media but then I discovered nordic channels about homesteading , carpentry , house remodeling , art , slower lives , baking , knitting , photography , gardening and the gentle , polite cultures ... it's hopeless , now I watch all of them !! ❤😂❤

[@Sznupek-b4p]

😂❤😂

[@sharonviale8423]

Can you recommend a couple of people to follow? Im interested in all of those topics too.😊

[@skyval7926]

@@sharonviale8423 yes I can ... Saana Varra channel .. Jonna Jinton .. Daniel Erik .. Kalle Flodin .. Talasbuan .. Red Leaf Hill .. Roaming Wild Rosie .. Mia Molin .. Marti Rolfsdotter .. Swedish garden channels whose names I'm forgetting at this moment .. start looking at some of these and others will pop up from the algorythyms ❤️

[@sharonviale8423]

@@skyval7926 Cheers! Thanks for taking the time to reply.I subscribed to all.I was particularly excited to see a Jonna Jinton and Wardruna collaboration on her page! 👏👏👏

[@skyval7926]

@@sharonviale8423 yes , and I forgot some fun ones .. Anna Lindgren and Sophie Falke channels . There are other good ones I'm not remembering 😏 oh well !!

[@FHRider-o1m]

We stayed on a campsite in NL, and noticed children of all ages playing together. They were putting together a pedal train and carriage, without supervision. What impressed me most was the independent attitude ( not asking an adult for help) and the determination to hitch the carriage so the little ones could ride too. Calm teamwork, impressive.

[@PlaidHiker]

Chaotic, unorganised and a liability if you ask me. It's better if they are bubble wrapped to a desk to learn how to be chained to a desk.

[@vallaton7876]

That's great! Now how does it relate to the Nordic countries?

[@ThetaDawn]

@@vallaton7876many Scandinavian settled in Eastern Canada in the 1800’s. In NS & NL, you can feel the difference. Many Scottish there, too.

[@valerierogers9609]

Fashion doesn't exist, practicality does.

[@wingrider1004]

I admire the Japanese and the Nordic peoples for their way of life...simplicity. Real life. Not media driven insanity at every turn. Wherever your feet are - be there.

[@szpap9056]

I agree. The only thing is that the young generations in Japan are all digitalised. Have you seen how modern Japan and youngsters are?

[@blah914]

​@szpap9056 it's the same in norway. they're so obsessed, literacy is going down 😢

[@indigochild6079]

Thank you ☺️ I’m Japanese ❤

[@SN-sz7kw]

Japan and Japanese culture is lovely in many ways, but your stereotype is off, especially regarding urban culture. Overall the suicide rate & domestic abuse rates are very high. Many live in small, highly cluttered homes, lacking personal space. Traditional aesthetics, ritual, cuisine, & courtesies are marvelous, but the emphasis on behavior, appearances & sacrifice create terrible pressures.

[@Pippa87]

@@SN-sz7kwI was literally about to say that i was pretty sure that the Japanese have a really high suicide rate among all age groups, and a pretty rubbish work life balance.

[@Kristel280]

Listening to you, I noticed some things I do that are not so good. I have lived in Sweden and now I live in Estonia. In Sweden there was much more politeness on public transport. I also waited for my turn patiently. Now that I live in Estonia, I have become rude like most people here are. I storm on the bus to get the best seat even though I cut somebody off. Even when it's an older person. It's savage. I'm sorry. I have experienced that I won't get a seat if I don't storm but that is no excuse. I have become a part of the problem here and I am going to stop doing that. I'm embaressed now that I noticed the failure.

[@tracesprite6078]

Why is it so important to get a seat?

[@Kristel280]

@tracesprite6078 well... it's a long way and I don't have the strength in my body to stand all the way there. Also the driving style of the drivers is often terrible. I don't want to fall. Sudden turns and breaks. I am sure I can get a seat or take the next bus if I go last. I think it's more of a collective behaviour. When everybody does like that, I do too. I already have decided to stop that and go last even when everybody storms. I am sure it'll change my day for the better.

[@tracesprite6078]

@@Kristel280 Can I suggest that you write to the relevant people and get more buses provided. We don't have "storming" in Australia, and it sounds rather dangerous.

[@carlaeskelsen]

​@@Kristel280 I love your courageous self-check. I'm going to try to look at my life and see where I can do better. My husband, when driving, extends courtesy to "assholes behind the wheel", and witnesses that courtesy is contagious. He literally sees improvement around him when he practices this.

[@Kristel280]

@carlaeskelsen Thank you so much for your kind words! I have been in depression and could not get up in the morning for weeks, if not months. Slept until 12 pm. Yesterday I did my best to let go of the fear of missing out and missing the seat on the bus. Prayed for patience 🙏 Decided to let go of the fear of being "last". This morning God woke me up at 7:29 😀 and I have been out of the house since then. Took the bus to the city (did not have to stand all the way there). Had breakfast and now I am going to a meeting. My God is mercyful 🥰💌 May God bless both you and your husband.

[@mariac.9055]

I’m from the USA and the way you describe Nordic culture is exactly how I was raised by my family .

[@user-nm1rv2bh7k]

I miss simplicity, our loss of the connection to the land and nature. These days i just want peace, which seems very hard to find.

[@macsarcule]

So sad watching this. I grew up in the upper Midwest in the 1970s and life there was so similar to everything you described. That culture is long gone from the hometown of my childhood. So much fear, anger, and selfishness there now. Much peace to you, Seve. ✌️😌✨

[@anngrogan6343]

Yes - the anger, the blaming others, the waste of spirit!😫🫣🤬

[@happyappy19931]

Post- modern secularism and technology has caused this

[@guestspeaker7401]

I interacted with the older generation from the Northern plains working at a health insurance company. They were the most affirming, kind, and intelligent people I have met in my life.

[@Empatine]

Perhaps there is a way to get back to some of this?

[@kimberlyknight9584]

I moved to Wisconsin from Florida. Trust me, it’s 20 years in the past or more the way people are here, compared to Florida. Breath of fresh air

[@scarba]

I’m originally from Scotland. I align with these values but I think there’s a part missing, which is to enjoy life and have fun. Maybe you need a few Celts up there :)

[@ahkkariq7406]

Why do you think we do not enjoy life and have fun? We do, but we do it in our own way. We enjoy life when in nature, and if we go out in nature with other people we usually have fun, too, depending on the situation. It's all about whether one is able to have fun without an amusement park or to enjoy life without expecting others to provide for your comfort. Life is what you make it.

[@mariemullen]

I am Scottish too and thought we are a lot like the Nordic people (we do share DNA from the Vikings). I think the slower, calmer culture is found in the Highlands and Islands more so than the cities.

[@scarba]

@@ahkkariq7406 I was thinking of when Scots come together and spontaneously someone plays an instrument and people start singing, or a Ceildih when people dance together or Highland Games. We also enjoy nature very much, except when there’s midges.

[@ankiolebring8388]

Thinking of Scottish people as “honorary “ Nordics 🤩🙌🏼

[@scarba]

@@ankiolebring8388I’m 30 percent Norwegian DNA anyway

[@commanderozbrek6011]

As an 'old school' English person, I often feel people are too intrusive and want to know all one's business on the briefest acquaintance. I do like people, but I'm an introvert and rather solitary. If I lived in Finland, no one would know I was there, which would suit me fine. 🙂I enjoy watching your videos, Seve, especially the snowy, woodland walks, with deer among the trees. I can imagine the freshness of the air and maybe the scent of the pines . . .

[@johnvienna3422]

Another old-school English person here. I moved to Austria back before the English voted away our own right to do that. Most of Seve's points apply here too (still... just about...).

[@abigailcross624]

I am also English and I currently work in hospitality. The thing that amazes me (shock is perhaps more correct) is the customers belief that they can ask me anything. Even the regulars that I get in with best are still just customers, not a close friend. Perhaps I should write a book on the inappropriate questions I’ve been asked or the things they think it’s ok to say, like ”you look tired” when it’s just the way I look without makeup. And as for men thinking they can touch me without even giving me a choice is just ungentlemanly in my opinion. This reply wasn’t meant to be a rant, sorry.

[@commanderozbrek6011]

@ I understand and cringe on your behalf. I don't like 'huggers' either. (Get off! Creep!) A book is a brilliant idea actually, particularly if you manage a slightly mocking, amusing tone.

[@laurie-jeannelister1029]

I'm a Canadian who has been living in the US for 22 years. this video made me very homesick for m "home and native land."

[@MelissaR784]

Americans have been socially engineered for decades, I hate to say. Between marketing and propaganda, feels like we've been breed to consume.

[@aerialpunk]

I'm from Canada too (living in Australia now) and I agree, this sounds similar to how Canadians do things! Not 100% the same of course, but in the same ballpark.

[@burnyizland]

@@aerialpunk I don't find most people here are like this very much anymore. I remember when we used to be a lot more humble, though we were never direct - Victorian manners kept us away from ever being that. Politeness and civility seem in short supply now though, and everyone is in competition. For housing, healthcare, and most assuredly that seat on the bus.

[@aerialpunk]

@@burnyizland It might depend on where you live, I suppose. I feel there's still a lot of Canadian-ness in my hometown, anyway. I think the mass immigration hasn't helped on any of those points, though, and neither has the abysmal job that teachers, media etc have done lately in teaching kids about their own culture... they focus way too much on American culture. Even the CBC is terrible for it, and their entire existence is supposed to be about promoting Canadian culture, lol. I think we can still walk that stuff back if we're intentional about it. Though in fairness, things like competition have always been a part of basically every culture, in one way or another. And you never know what someone's day had been like lol. I'm sure I've been "that rude person" grabbing a seat in the bus, but I have invisible health issues so I need a seat, but nobody wants to move for me if I ask cos I look healthy outwardly!

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Canada is literally right there. Lol

[@julietphillips1991]

I don't get why people even bother asking, "How are you?" when truth be told, nobody is really interested in how you are. A simple "hello" or "hi" is sufficient.

[@melissalouw3971]

With you on this. Worst is how they expect one to ask in return how they are...

[@casey4314]

I don’t ask people how they are any longer. My new greeting is: how is your day going so far? Maybe semantics but I feel I’ll get more of an honest answer if phrased in this way.

[@ruthlloyd1163]

Actually that expression is fading. I notice that lately people ask “how’s it going? or “what have you been up to?” when seeing friends.

[@elizabethsydnor5247]

Most people ask, but they don't want a negative or lengthy answer.

[@Vilemirth]

I reserve "How are you?" for close friends and family. Otherwise any greeting is just a variant of "hello".

[@planetx5269]

I love the simplicity, cleanliness, and good manners. What a great way to live!

[@jhupes3]

This is intentional living. Living with purpose. Have always admired this.

[@Mushroom321-]

Yes!!!😮😊

[@tatertot80]

I'm American and I agree with all these things. My Great Grandma was from Holland and she instilled these things in us. I appreciate that now.

[@BetterTogether-UnIr1]

I can relate! I traded the U.S. for the Netherlands 22 years ago and never looked back for some of the reasons mentioned here. I talk about it on my channel. youtube.com/@bettertogether-unir1?si=HFsGeNMKSC5LJjSB p.s. - My great grandfather emigrated from Norway to the U.S. in the 1870s, so maybe it’s in my genes. 😀

[@michbel1574]

Hi from UK, Massive variations within our own culture. I love your last point about loud gestures. I don’t know if it’s just me but I’ve noticed that people whoop,cheer and scream these days instead of just clapping. It drives me crazy and hurts my ears 😂

[@anneofgreengables1619]

So true. It's so cringe.

[@anitapricecheck9554]

I can’t tolerate the high-pitched “woooo” at concerts, it’s very painful & ruins the experience (US here)

[@rebeccanewell4385]

I recently retired from driving a school bus for 36 years. I was asked how retirement was going for me, I said I was fine. But, after a while, I realized I was actually struggling. Once I realized this, I had to think about what is really happening. Being out of the house and interacting with other people was the biggest struggle. However, I am happy to be home. So, I'm trying different options for what I can do. Thank you for sharing your journey.

[@annamarielewis7078]

Volunteer

[@taleandclawrock2606]

Volunteering with local charitable enterprises or helping less able neighbours is very rewarding, we all need social connection and to feel valued and the structured committments can be very reassuring and helpful.

[@SN-sz7kw]

I’m American & as I got older I got tired of our fake greetings. Now, when someone asks how I am, I say “Good enough.” It’s honest & can mean anything from good enough to barely get out of bed to good enough to feel great about things.

[@MelissaR784]

That's so good you're realizing it is a big adjustment when you retire. Was so focused on getting projects done when I first retired, hadn't planned how to fill my time once the projects were complete and made the fatal mistake of sitting and watching TV. Started gaining weight and procrastinating. Didn't realize I was getting depressed. Took a few years until I started walking in the morning, which changed everything.

[@christythomson536]

I lived in the mountains of Colorado so this reminds me of the life I had there. I feel like I have an extraordinary relationship with nature. I walk twice a day. I don't listen to anything but my surroundings. I pick up trash on my walks. It's a very intimate, intentional act with nature. I see things people pass by. Bugs, eggs, snakes, newest green growth. I call it Trash Therapy. I look forward to watching more of your videos. Thank you.

[@angienicolehernandez104]

Being a kid in Finland looks amazing with all that nature around 🌲💚

[@SunnyKindJourney]

It is! 😊

[@renamaze]

I’m not Norwegian but I’m Norwegian by heart❤️

[@SunnyKindJourney]

❤️❤️

[@johnvienna3422]

I think that there are more Norwegians by heart than actual Norwegians. And Seve is recruiting more of us pretty fast!

[@ritaranee4787]

Me too

[@ewuniak70]

He’s not Norwegian either

[@2gkims427]

I am feeling the very same way😊

[@Laniakea339]

I love this so much! I am not Nordic, but I resonate so much with these values! I wish I lived in a culture that prized and practiced these tenets they way you do! Thank you for sharing and giving us all something to aspire to!

[@BlueBird8925]

I’m a Canadian living in a large city. I wish we were more like what you have described. It sounds wonderful. I hike sometimes with a person originally from Sweden. His philosophy echoes yours.

[@casey4314]

I’m Canadian. I’ve been practicing minimalism for over 10 years now. I live exactly as described in this video. It’s all about mindful choices. What matters to me is less stuff, quality over quantity, and slow living. What matters to you?

[@thomashilmersen711]

This is very true. A lot of this is the case in Eastern Europe, too. But you forgot to mention puffy mittens. Puffy mittens are key to survivng the Nordic winter.

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Yeah I got a pair of those as well for the super cold temperatures 😉

[@user-nm1rv2bh7k]

Where can we get puffy mittens!

[@christopherhadsell9049]

I don't drive much. I walk, and, I live in a small inexpensive apartment that resembles what they call here in America, a duplex (studio). I'm getting rid of lots of things--things I do no longer need. I say no to buying more things--so I don't. Life is much simple for me. Sadly, though we're of Nordic ancestry, my parents lived way beyond their means (though that's not how I remember them). I get stronger at a gym, so I can, once again, be able to walk in nature, the desert and mountains. That's my goal and dream. I do my best. I love the snowy trails and mountains!

[@joebanish7517]

I have traveled throughout the Nordic countries of Europe, and have friends from Finland and Estonia. There is a social contract present in these countries that is quite admirable to me as an American.

[@CozyPiper]

I think one of the reasons Americans are enthusiastic in our greetings and talking to strangers is that we came here from every country and culture in the world, and being welcoming and familiar makes it more comfortable and makes sure everyone feels included. But the majority of Americans are not crazy outgoing-it’s just that the ones who like to travel and spend time out and about and in places other than their homes tend to be extroverts. Most of our smiles and small talk are genuine and come from a good place. We also have our own small circles of friends and family that we are more intimate with, but building community is more important here than in cultures that are homogeneous. Most of our ancestors came here with nothing and relied in the kindness of others. It’s also more important to have a social network in a country without access to good social services.

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Excellent thoughts! 🙌

[@anatman6304]

Great insight.

[@7768-o5l]

I have noticed the opposite: Americans and Canadians only smile for them, not for others. It is to appear friendly and good for their image. Not more.

[@Jewels-d4o]

@@7768-o5l That isn't the way to use to be. People use to look people in the eye and say hello. Not so much now. It is to bad you haven't experienced the other.

[@anitapricecheck9554]

this is true! you don’t hear us quiet ones (they essentially step in front & drown us out)

[@lizbarker8995]

This is a wonderful way to live. Particularly vital that children are allowed to ENJOY their childhood. Other cultures can learn much from your attitude to life. 👍

[@beitheleaf8221]

My parents had a similar policy for us kids growing up to not be overfilled with commitments. Both my parents had 10-12 hr work days, and they told us to pick 1 thing we want to do, and to stick to it that year but we weren’t pushed to keep doing that hobby or sport if by the end of the season we didn’t like it 😊 very thankful for that

[@Joules-y4y]

I live in UK . I admire your standards. I think that your comments are extremely pertinent. If we all lived by these "rules" the world would be a better place. Thank you.

[@dawgmaw]

Balance is the key. We create so much unnecessary anxiety in our kids and ourselves in the USA. I live a simple life because I can't deal with the pressures and anxiety.

[@thomashilmersen711]

This video helped me understand why it did not work with my American ex-wife. (I am Norwegian.) She is the opposite of every point you mention, which caused a lot of conflict over time.

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Sorry to hear that it didn't work out but happy that you found out some reasons for it from this video. Hope you'll be able take the lessons to a possible future relationship or even friendships!

[@margomcguire7167]

Not all Americans are like that, but there is certainly a high tolerance for obnoxious behavior in the U.S. I believe it is because the capitalism driven culture is trying to sell everything to everybody, no matter how detrimental it is for the country and even the planet, alas.

[@yvonnejackson1696]

@@thomashilmersen711 It’s sad to see any relationship fail. I have a long time friend from a very poor family who married a woman from a wealthy family. He loves her and wants it to work but I’m afraid the difference in culture is going to be too great. He told me that now he knows why they say don’t marry out of your class. Sadly this can happen with people from the same country when family customs and life expectations can’t resolved in a satisfactory way.

[@Mountainsarecool1]

I know a guy who married someone from Iceland she hated living in the US he followed her to Iceland and has been living happily together.

[@7768-o5l]

Yes, Americans like to appear rich I have been living in Quebec since 2018 and I have understood that European Nordic culture is closer to me than this American consumerism without stopping 😢.

[@yvonnejackson1696]

Life according to my mother: Do not dress above the people around you. If they wanted you to know they would have told you. There’s only one reason a person would talk about their money or try to show it off. Pay your debts, anything else is theft. Let children have time to play and let them read whatever they want to read. (She could comment about quality however)

[@SunnyKindJourney]

I like these! Especially the last one is relevant to me right now. When I was growing up, I was only trying to read books "I was supposed to read" and ones they told me to read at school. Of course I disliked them all and started to hate reading altogether. Now as an adult, I've have been able to pick up the reading habit again because I chose to read only books that inspire me, not ones that I "should" read. It's a great mix of random books and not always so great ones from the educational or literary point of view but at least I am more interested in books than ever before!

[@MelissaR784]

​@@SunnyKindJourneyI too hated reading as a child. Taught sight reading instead of phonics with the old Dick and Jane books. Once you discovery the joy of reading, it opens up a whole new world.

[@gustavosserra]

I don't understand the "I'm fine" answer. I prefer to give an honest answer so people can adjust their expectations accordingly. I expect the same from others. If a coworker isn't feeling fine, I will adjust my behavior. For example, I won't make silly jokes, I will speak in a more calm way and such, reschedule meetings if necessary, etc.

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Yeah I feel the same. I think asking "how are you" doesn't mean anything these days in many cultures. It's just empty words after a greeting to avoid silence 😄 Asking after that "fine" something like "but how are you actually doing" makes it so much better though

[@margomcguire7167]

I think the I'm fine response is mainly for people greeted in passing, where no conversation is expected. If you were going to be sharing a workspace, then you would of course need and probably get, a more accurate response.

[@AppalachianTransplant]

It's very good that you understand the importance of your cultural ways to your daily life and that these are your ways, not universally held. God preserve and protect you and the Nordic countries.

[@lorrainekellerw7090]

I'm Mexican from Swiss origin. I feel very much in tune with the Nordic style of living, which can be regarded in my country as "cold", but at the same time I get a lot of comments on how peaceful I am. So I love being supported by your comments

[@chancellorism]

I think this is a very valuable exchange of cultural information especially for Americans that are starting to suffer from the emptiness of over-scheduling, bigger & louder is better and the “Jones’” effects of life. Simple and quality is what I appreciate.

[@kristamariau]

Fellow Finn here 👋🏻 writing in English because I think it’s the most common language in your community. I have lived abroad for over 8 years. I find your videos very pleasant and they remind me of my own culture and roots. Thank you for sharing Nordic style to the world❤

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Thanks for watching and glad to hear they help you keep the connection 😊❤️

[@monah5532]

This Quebecer feels we have similar values. We have a very similar landscape that we rêver and are always outside, even in winter: Snowshoeing, hiking, skating, fat biking, hockey on outdoor rink or frozen lake, ice fishing, skiing (Nordic, cross country and downhill) saunas. People here are also very authentic. Although more extroverted, we have so far escaped the toxic positivity. We also have a flatter society, and money isn't as important to us as in some other cultures. Would love to visit Norway, thank you for sharing.

[@katiewright2232]

Seve - you do a wonderful job of thoroughly explaining all aspects of your subject.

[@Timberbeartrail]

I live in Maine and that’s in the United States and I’ll tell you something. This is why I’ve been seeking to move relocate outside of the country more towards the Nordic countries because of this reason you put it so eloquently.

[@rhonataylor85]

I agree with all your points - it’s tragic that so many people live utterly crazy lives, driven by competitiveness, consumerism and insecurity.

[@Dumbledoresarmy13]

I don't do well in cold tempuratures but Finland sure looks beautiful in your videos. Seems like a really nice place to visit.

[@petrine5]

This Dane agrees with everything you mentioned😊🇩🇰

[@SunnyKindJourney]

🙌🙌

[@AlexandrePoulin-ji3kq]

I am in Québec Canada, I realise that we have the same weather but that we are really influenced by our southern neighbor in our values and perceptions

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Visited 30 yrs ago. Never again.

[@MaddyVillaItaly]

Hi Seve, I’m italian and in my country everything is loud and scenografic… but I love Scandinavia simplicity and my life respects the same values of yours: calm, silence, interiority, no need to spend much money to show others how fashion we are :) family, some dear friends, nature give me all peace of mind and joy I need and, after discovering minimalism, I feel even more better. Happiness is simple… Thanks for your wonderful and meaningful videos, I really appreciate them :)

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Grazie! Having lived 2 years in Sicily, I know how it is there haha 😄 Luckily you still have some places with amazing countryside!

[@MaddyVillaItaly]

😂 Ciao :)

[@elisam.5760]

Finland is a Nordic country, not Scandinavian

[@MiniMarket94]

And here I thought I was the weird one for wanting all of those things you talked about be normal where I come from 😅 Guess I should move up North

[@HannahRainbow88]

Same here! I'm in the UK 🥴

[@pauli2169]

Thank you for the video, I found it very interesting. I am British but have lived in Europe most of my adult life and have lived in Belgium for the last 20 years. I find life here has a lot in common with with the Nordic lifestyle, people are friendly but not intrusive, being outside is a priority so hiking, cycling, jogging or simply walking in nature are hugely popular. People are not as stressed and children are allowed to enjoy their childhood (although I do see that from their early teens parents are basically taxi drivers at the weekends) but what I love most of all is a quiet rejection of the typical American lifestyle and if there is a single ray of sunshine (even in winter) parks are full and the terraces are open and full of people by themselves or with friends/family…we just cannot wait to get outside.

[@danicegewiss862]

We bought 5 acres of land in western PA for a fruit farm. We're looking forward to moving from eastern PA (USA) to the mountains and not near the cities. Life is far too complicated in eastern PA. We're looking forward to the simplicity of the mountains. We'll be more like you.🙂

[@life.with.mrs.a]

Another side of the very private culture is that it is almost impossible to get new friends if you move to a new place were you know nobody. Everyone stays within their own circle. 😢 Something that made me sad is that here in Sweden, in many places, it is no longer safe to just let the children go out by themselves and play with their friends.

[@Empatine]

You are right, especially if some is introverted. I really try to welcome "strangers", now friends - and take them to meet new people. (From Copenhagen Denmark) I'm glad people still let children go out by them selves to play. I know there is a lot happening in Sweden with gangs trying to get children to make dirty work for them for money 😢

[@rwilsonweir5697]

What has happened to make things so unsafe?

[@lge5647]

Immigration

[@life.with.mrs.a]

@@lge5647 True, I didn't know how to say that in a nice way! 😄

[@Empatine]

Yes, and something about how well meaning politics didn't work as hoped? And police not going to certain zones because it is too dangerous? I know there is much more detail than this. But my hope is it can be turned around. Also, we have had a lot of Swedish children - 15 -17 years - sent to Denmark to kill danish gang members. Children who might not have the strongest network, are manipulated and are offered a lot of money. We have a tougher system here on this age group than Sweden has. Everything about this is sad. I'm sure the part of the culture in some branches of the police force will change with time. Don't want to name the tendencies, but the rumours we hear it here, it go all the way back to before the murder of the beloved prime minister Olof Palme. It's not black and white and I'm following the research in culture development. It it still a wonderful country with lots of hope - Sweden. I hope things will turn around soon. Lots of love and hope from Denmark

[@deanframe9095]

I live in northern Mn. I am from Calif. they are Norwegian here, and very much like you describe . They are kind. There is hardly any crime. You can leave a tool box open in a trailor park and it is left alone. But it’s hard to make friends. Most people are related or went to school with each other. Calif people are rude and disrespectful but it’s fine to crash a party. I won’t return to cal. I live next to a river and land near a lake. ❤❤❤ I build my own cabin.

[@nadineberti3611]

I am from northern Italy (Alps) but with austrian culture and language. I am a 100% like you. Would love to visit Finnland ❤️

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Che bello! I spent last year a week in Toblach, quite close to Cortina d'Ampezzo 😊 Amazing place

[@nadineberti3611]

Really nice thats my region. I am 1 our away from that place. Wish you a nice day 😊

[@user-fs6ou3fk9p]

These are good things to live by. I'm from Oregon in the US and am half Norwegian. My mother and her family follow so many of these things as do my husband, who is also half Norwegian, myself and our grown children. It makes life so much easier and healthier.

[@LL-qi9mb]

I love all of these things you discuss. I wish I lived in such a culture. I can though emulate a lot of what you say and I do. I moved from Europe to the US and it has been a huge culture shock, I am like a fish out of water😀

[@SunnyKindJourney]

I bet haha 😄

[@redwarrior2424]

I'm like a fish out of water too and I've lived in the US all my life. The video describes me to the letter except for the part about getting out in cold weather and snow.🌬️🥶 Loved the video.💙

[@amandawood7015]

I love the channel but it does make me very envious 😊

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Haha, things are not perfect here believe me. This place fits me well but the cold and darkness are not everyone's cup of tea 😄

[@scmcarthur]

Great video, Thanks for sharing. Greetings from Canada

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Thanks for watching! 😊

[@KurtHalfyard]

This video echoes many Canadian values as well.

[@jmilic1]

❤yes

[@Lancs_Lass]

I feel British people are becoming more rude and loud. It really irritates and frustrates me. I don't like the self entitled attitude a lot have adopted over the years. British people always had a reputation of being polite, but now I'm not so sure. People need to be more thoughtful, and kind and to slow down. It's not about being lazy, it's about becoming more mindful. Thank you as always for your video Seve. I really like the Nordic values.

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Thanks for watching! I've been to London twice but I bet that's not a good representation of England overall haha. I remember it feeling quite safe though back in 2012, not sure how it is now. But yeah, you have a reputation of being very polite so pity if that has changed

[@Lancs_Lass]

We are apparently a lot more friendly in the North of England, where I live compared to the Southerners like in London. I guess overall, we are still polite and have good manners. However, I can see that sense of entitlement creeping in from all areas. People are less patient and more rude. Crime is on the up throughout the UK, lots of knife crime, and it's awful to see children being killed. Every day, there is a report of kids being stabbed. It's so sad. Stay well, happy and kind 🙏

[@theoriginalDAL357]

@Lancs_Lass It’s almost like there was something about homogeneous societies. 🤔

[@michbel1574]

I agree things have changed. I live in Birmingham (not from originally). People rushing around…why?

[@serafinakotimaki7535]

I agree. Sadly more violent and lots more shoplifting. UK has changed dramatically in the last 20/30 years. But there are some positive people in Britain. Here's to a better future for Britain. 🙏

[@ankiolebring8388]

Thank you, so spot on! And it makes me so proud of being a Nordic woman 🙌🏼🙋‍♀️

[@LaCat77]

It’s so interesting to learn about this as a descendant of Nordic immigrants to America. I feel these have become family, and personality traits over generations. Almost all of these norms resonate with me and my thinking on various social situations and interactions.

[@ninascott8338]

Nordic descendant here. I never realized how much "culture" is internalized in our family. We are Nordic.

[@sarahanderson4498]

Thank you for all your thoughtful observations and for all the beautiful winter images.

[@1crocodile2crocodile]

Thank you Seve for sharing these beautiful values. I would fit into your culture so well 😊

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Thanks for watching! :)

[@brianr4054]

My great-great-grandparents immigrated to the US from Norway 150 years ago, then the family still sticks to most of these principles. I'm trying to teach this stuff to my kids, I hope I'm successful. All they want to do is watch TV and eat candy. So I do have them do a lot of activities just to keep them busy.

[@HosCreates]

I'm of Swedish decent, responding honestly how you are doing sounds refreshing from an American perspective.

[@callicordova4066]

Thank you for sharing. Nordic life sounds peaceful and gentle.

[@gracesimplified3860]

Thank you for sharing. 🌸 These are values I wish Americans would embrace. Honesty when expressing your feelings would be nice, as would consideration of others. I choose to live a simple life, However, communities are not designed for that here.

[@kelseyh7918]

As a Canadian woman, I feel like I would be very at home in the Nordic countries. Many of these points are things I already do and the way I look at life as well. Thank you for sharing this video with us :)

[@joannelloyd4870]

Thankyou, lovely to hear about an authentic culture. Cold climate cultures seem peaceful, hot climate cultures seem sizzling.

[@thorny3218]

I’m American and no matter how bad my life or day is going, if you ask me I’ll say “fine” simply because that’s what people expect and no one actually cares. It’s more of an obligatory question to ask someone “how are you?” The only answer is good or fine.

[@suzannemazieres6657]

I must be a Nordic person in disguise!!!😂 Love your videos. Thank you so much for your posts😊

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Thank you :)

[@jacobtutty6449]

I was born and raised in America and really appreciated hearing these things you have shared. These philosophies seem to cultivate a peaceful and unified community from what I can observe.

[@hillfree8661]

These ways are very natural for me. I love this.

[@joecascone8113]

I've not seen a video of yours about the 12 bad habits of Nordic people. All the traits you vote shine a very favorable light on Nordic people. The worst thing i heard you say is that you can be so selfless that you neglect yourselves. You really are perfect people

[@ahkkariq7406]

Nordic people are good at putting ourselves down, so maybe it's good that he hasn't made a video like that? It is perhaps our worst trait, that we not only hold ourselves down, but sometimes we also hold others back because the culture expects us not to stick out. It is so deeply ingrained in us that it is difficult to change, and no one wants to throw the baby out with the bath water. It's all about finding the right balance.

[@fluffytimes100]

Wow, I love the no sugar coating thing. When I get real people get offended. 😢

[@SunnyKindJourney]

If it’s about other people, there’s always a way to express ourselves constructively instead of coming across as judgmental. It’s important to reflect on how we communicate, even if we prefer being direct. The goal is to share our thoughts in a way that doesn’t hurt the other person or escalate the situation, but instead helps them understand our perspective. But yeah some people are easier to get offended and that might happen no matter what you do

[@SocialLocust]

It's a balance. Make sure you aren't just trauma dumping or only ever saying negative things, but if that isn't the case, you might be surrounding yourself with the wrong people.

[@anitapricecheck9554]

if you’re an advocate of the saying, “truth hurts,” you’re doing it wrong (not saying you are, just food for thought)

[@koborkutya7338]

a few good question to ask before voicing honest opinion about someone else: 1) was is solicited? What gave me the impression that the other person wants to know what I think about him or her? 2) Do I honestly want good for the other or just express my frustration or judgement about what I see? Honesty does not equal being rude or mean. When someone stabs the other with a spiteful comment he tends to excuse himself with "i was just being honest".

[@jeremy1350]

Hi Seve. I always look forward to seeing you. Greetings from Montreal.

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Thank you, Jeremy. And I look forward to your comments!! 😊

[@serafinakotimaki7535]

I am very happily Nordic 🇧🇻💙🇫🇮

[@roselandmcguire9925]

Thank you. What a good way of living and relating respectful to others.

[@PeterLawton]

Countries that show the price with taxes & fees built in are countries with higher tax rates. Awareness of the amount of tax probably helps curb the creeping increases of taxes. But I also like to see the total before committing to purchase. Hotels here in the US are notorious for really jacking up the advertised rate. A reasonable compromise would be to have retailers show/advertise the total price, but also show the taxes & fees in smaller print. Awareness + simplicity.

[@TravellingTorunn]

Great video. Thank you! You explain us properly and correctly. Greetings from Norway, a fellow Nordic 😊

[@PlaidHiker]

Canadian. Cant afford many luxeries, but there is the largest urban park this quarter of this planet a walk from my door. A simple life takes work, but its worth it. Like enjoying water after drinking pop your whole life.

[@OlDoinyo]

I grew up with a lot of these values around me, in 1960s and 1970s St. Louis. Too many things have changed for the worse.

[@rebeccapackardlivefree]

Love this! Didn’t even know it but I live a Nordic life! Great video thank you for sharing.

[@LottenFot]

I’m half Norwegian by blood. I totally have these down to earth traits even though I live in the US. Thanks for the talk. 😂❤

[@josephr9551]

Beautiful and well said! Thank you Seve!

[@SunnyKindJourney]

Thanks for listening

[@terri241]

Thank you, Sève. Your Vlog on Nordic cultural values is one of the clearest and most useful I have seen. It may even form a kind of template for future reference. 👍 Having grown-up in what I experienced as a highly competitive atmosphere where coming "first", getting the highest grades, clashed with "being humble" and "sacrificing yourself" clashed with "being best". Obviously, one could not obey both "rules" at once. It was obvious to me that I did not "belong". The culture I longed for was non-competitive, respectful of people's needs for "psychic space" (even children have a right to privacy of thought), less "structured" time and more freedom, greater simplicity of life in general, and not engaging in "gossip" or rejoicing in someone else's losses or problems I later realised that what I longed for was SANITY, a way of life based on authenticity rather than "role-playing", on respecting people's boundaries rather than judging them for setting them. What I sought was a sensible life, consistent with having enough and doing what makes sense rather than doing what is "expected". It took many years and much cultural "de-programming" to articulate - even to myself - that I craved a life of solitude, study, creative pursuits, and ownership of my own life. Freedom from comparison with anybody and any "standard" and giving myself PERMISSION TO BE as well as to DO took decades. The result is a rather Nordic way of life. The irony is that I said at 10 years old that I wanted to live in Sweden "when I grew-up". I have no idea why I felt that way at age 10 but the instinct was spot on. Age can be a time of great personal freedom, self-determination, and creativity if one chooses "what makes sense to me" rather than what society or ANYONE ELSE says. If we can't be FREE to be ourselves in our latter years, when can we be? The Nordic ways of life seem to me to place "good sense" at the centre of life decisions. We just need the courage to choose it no matter where we live.

[@helenrichards7866]

We live in Tasmania and there are some similar values. Thank you for your KZbin site it’s very enjoyable and educational.

[@buzzawuzza3743]

The peaceful life can be achieved with the right mental thought process, you're right.

[@AndreaWitkowski-v9z]

Ahhh thank you a public presentation of the values i was brought up with in a country where so many have little thought of such things thank you

[@gunterbecker8528]

Great outlook in life ,with good values, congratulations young man 😊

[@AJ-kf4fc]

Woww! I was looking for a country like this. This is everything I have been in life but have been looked down upon and feeling lost in capitalistic countries. Maybe I should have lived in Finland to be happy.

[@702desertmom]

Great video Seve I wish we had the clean and safe public transit you have in Finland here in the US.

[@Lindie406]

I think a lot of this perception of “other cultures” is due to the fact that the types of people living their lives this way (overscheduled, inconsiderate, etc) are the ones more inclined to post it all over social media. There are a lot of people in the US who live more like the Nordic culture you described, but they’re too busy enjoying their slower, quiet lives to bother broadcasting it to the world. You can find some of them on social media, but many of them don’t make time for it.

[@chowchowtales]

Wow. I connected so much with each of these. My Finnish blood was feeling at home with what you were saying.

[@bakshishkaursingh1713]

Great video content. Lots to think about. What beautiful surroundings you have 😊

[@spencers-adventures]

Nice video Seve! I'm jealous of your public transportation options. I'm in Toronto and it's pretty good, but Europe really has it sorted out! In my hometown where I used to live there was only one bus every thirty minutes and that was it lol.

[@rosywilson3076]

🤔 One bus an hour here in SW England, and none on Sunday. Not sure that’s sorted out! 😢

[@ktbiwk]

❤❤❤ i wish this was an integral part of how everyone is raised. I adore your sociocultural and personal philosophies, values, and ethics. Thank you for sharing 🎉

[@patriciaboughton5501]

Hello from USA.This is a fantastic video!