SUNO | Sumeet Vyas & Amrita Puri | TTT | Short Film Reaction by Jaby, Achara & Amy!

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[@GarvitMalik13]

Achara analyzed it so well & appropriately and breaks down every detail in the best possible way. She is the brain of the channel..!!

[@escapistreader3860]

Agreed

[@serotonin2222]

I was scrolling down to type the same words.......agree

[@praketak47]

Jaby did a good job too pointing out men's confusion about does this woman in front of me has said an /outright no\ or if me talking to them will they change their mind and turn around and say a /outright yes\. The problem is not with good men, they will listen if women are saying their mind, in a confident way - an in your face no [zero possibility of turning around, has to be confident, coz men are focused with their thoughts of performing sexually at a very high level]. The problem is with bad men, they value themselves or something else more than their partner (different sex or same, using hetero. here). Bad men engage in different abilities then good men. I am pointing out confidence in no because if you want to break that focus of pleasuring your wife and yourself completely (because good men want to see their wife happy, maybe bad men too occasionally for some other advantage - just guessing), only a louder no will do it. No has to be higher then proposal because if no is lower then proposal, good men will get confused [1.will, not rape, 2.maybe insist to recheck until outright no has been spoken clearly. Insisting can get them lumped up with bad men, coz Bad men Ignore and insist, Good men listen and can insist for a clear/finest/sharpest possible answer, risking lumped up because insist is there in both good and in bad men] and hence dissatisfaction from time to time will lead to breaking up because men want sexual satisfaction too from a relationship. In contrast, when bad men will get lower no then proposal, they will get rid of their confusion by saying something to themselves maybe that I matter more than you and that their insisting matter more than you a whole individual and asking further is futile and hence rape. I am trying my best to think about what and why where. When bad men get higher no then proposal, they will get angry and assault or leave you for a better option of a woman who has difficulty saying no more compared to you. Can't stop a person from asking for a woman and somewhere a girl saying yes to it. It's their right to have their own personal wants from this world. Assault is important here because good men might also get angry and confused when rejected but they will control themselves and turn themselves around to go down the path where they will ask themselves or from the situation itself, why no to me to check if something is wrong with themselves. Do they always deserve a no? In my personal example, I learned that just because a person likes me A LOT doesn't mean they like me COMPLETELY. A lot can mean as a person, as a friend, as a human being. Completely includes sexually and as a person. When good men get yes (either outright yes or after insisting an outright and confident yes), they get happy and perform and leave both parties with mutually wanted satisfaction. //////////// this is completely my best formed opinion \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\ My opinion of the movie is that they didn't make it clear enough that he was a bad man. 1. He hit her and gave her a black eye for refusing his wants instead of listening and clearing things up. This is a clear single of a bad man. 2. In the last scene, when he heard her clearly state that he has committed rape because consent was absent (don't know the reason but its clear cut reasonable answer) (Obtain consent verbally or non-verbally at least once, if not more, before starting sex even if 30 years has gone by) (healthy couples have sex regularly and know to what degree they have to ask and not ask - the healthy level of mutual understanding). _This is where I have my COMPLAIN._ When he heard her stating how things went on, he didn't hit her again like previously he did. If he was CLEARLY a bad man (based on past), he would at least get angry/scared/try committing suicide or something for blackmail. We know after angry, assault comes. Its absence confused me and hence not a clear answer. When he sat down, I thought he was introspecting that did he really do that. Bad people don't do introspection because that shows you a mirror. They want to stay ignorant, unlike good people who want to leave ignorance. Am I really a bad guy question scares bad people because what if they are or maybe deep down they refuse to admit that they are. Bad people + introspection = contradiction = unclear. Good men: Listen to no and get confused (no

[@hoomangenie]

I'm officially in love with Achara's BRAIN and mindset!!!😌♥️

[@prathameshrane5841]

Sumeet vyas is awesome and all but can we take moment to appreciate Amrita puri's nuanced performance.

[@shivamraj710]

Society needs to move from "no means no" to "only yes means yes".

[@abhisheksolanki1179]

Man but girls are so confused in themselves ... They don't even realize sometimes what they're doing just because it's exciting or new for them... They feel it over possessive or like their boyfriends are dominating when the boyfriends advise them to not roam alone outside at night...or don't talk much to strangers... Or don't be so frank to people you don't know.

[@shormy4716]

Well said Shivam Raj

[@mltr10]

Thats the problem, we always tried to solve a situation from one prospective. "No" movement is only going to successfull when we add "yes".

[@SP-kj8zl]

@@abhisheksolanki1179 your girlfriend is not your child, she is an adult human capable of making decisions. Your assumption that you need to tell her when to go out, who to talk to, because you think you know better than her, is absolutely misguided. The women are not confused, you are.

[@thehabiba2697]

Yes shivam u are right

[@teamo8394]

They were so shocked when she said he hit her... like sumeet couldn't hit a woman even in a movie🤣🤣#Sweetest

[@shivaprasad-qj3oh]

The comment Jaby read is also great and deep and made me to understand the short film more clearly.

[@Naveen75574]

I have mixed opinion on what Jaby said. He basically is suggesting to walk away, it takes more courage and conviction to stay and make it work. The problem with younger folk these days is they have very little patience, where as a relationship grows with passage of time, with give and take, with sacrifices from both sides. People nowadays dont give that much time, that is why divorce cases are increasing. Ofcourse when nothing works, it is better to part ways and go separate but give it time and a few chances before calling it quits.

[@shivaprasad-qj3oh]

Hi TUBERS He written his own commentary on short film by analysing small details and character expressions and expressed his opinion which I liked and appreciated. First go and read his comment before commenting here, I think you’re a slow learner, first know the difference between summarise and analyse before you tell me.

[@anilatarannum]

It's mine 😊😊😊😊

[@coolomya2253]

I wish he showed the name of the person who wrote the comment

[@anilatarannum]

@@coolomya2253 me too 😂

[@samahlawat]

Achara is so smart.always get the full original story ND meaning of words.

[@saurabh2655]

She is smart but Jaby was more introspective and logical.

[@ravishekhar3680]

Chatna band kar de bhai, jaby ka nahi dikh raha tujhe

[@shivaprasad-qj3oh]

This happens always in some of the Indian movies where Hero harasses and follows heroine everywhere in the name of love

[@AnkitSingh-vm1gn]

What MOVIE are you talking about?

[@shivaprasad-qj3oh]

Ankit Singh which movie? A lot of movies, Raanjhanaa, ddlj, tere nam lots of south movies

[@Sweetetika]

@@shivaprasad-qj3oh Yes, most of these movies in every industry in India it's always a guy chasing a girl or mishandled her. Then she falls for him as he is loyal to her. Like WTF

[@shivaprasad-qj3oh]

Sweetetika yes, these movies influenced people so much and made us believe this is how we should flirt or flatten girls.

[@Sweetetika]

@@shivaprasad-qj3oh Hmm, this is why when a girl says NO they think she will come around and say Yes if we do it more often.

[@LTfaw]

This was the best conversation on this topic. Kudos to jaby to actually put forth the male perspective and defend it so well.

[@blackraven9787]

Ikr, and he was thinking deeply just as i was thinking from all the angles.

[@rish_31]

Sumeet Vyas is such a versatile actor. I wish to see him in more Bollywood movies. 😊✌🏼

[@anilatarannum]

That comment on the original video was mine! Wow, this felt so good. A shoutout would've been nice though :P

[@vinayakchaudhary8919]

Hey @Annie thanks for that comment. Watching the whole video and then reading that comment made me understand a lot. The only way these things can be stopped is by coming out and talking about the things. Thanks again 😊

[@surabhiarorasuri7444]

Your comment was spot on!

[@anilatarannum]

Thanks guys :)

[@Krimay.]

Very well written, its sad how people dont acknowledge marital rape, its like they think its just outlandish or something... In their mind its 'hippity hoppity women are property' (im sorry)

[@9towine782]

Nice 👍 comment

[@samarjitsinha4723]

Jaby is introspecting deeply! That's genuine!

[@rahulvinalnarayan9743]

Amrita Puri is criminally underrated it’s ridiculous! She an amazing actor

[@Jeremy-san97]

I had to keep my phone aside and let it sink in. I thought about all the past relationships I have been in. I would never hit a woman, but did I listen? I always pay attention to the conversation we have but I will try to listen more carefully from now on.

[@flutteredWings]

I think Ppl commenting, asking for song reactions on this thread haven't watched this carefully. Wake up ppl appreciate it.

[@TheDharmeshsagar]

I am amazed at archara understanding, she even understand the hindi title SUNO means listen without knowing hindi, just amazing

[@karanthakur4906]

Thanks to jaby and achara...before this vdio I had mindset like that guy..

[@karanthakur4906]

@Pratik Smith thank you brother...🥰

[@kumarsundaram1450]

N kabir singh didn't help the youth either...i agree it was just a movie ,great acting but at the end it spread wrong msg..

[@kumarsundaram1450]

N congrats bro.. really it takes a lot of courage to accept own inner fault..

[@karanthakur4906]

@@kumarsundaram1450 exactly.

[@PardeepSingh-dc2pv]

I preferred short films or other content videos reaction than trailer

[@RahulRaj-qg5yu]

Prefer -to

[@sahangbakneiguite6800]

@@RahulRaj-qg5yu gtfoh

[@krisnendupaul6151]

@@sahangbakneiguite6800 lol

[@anjaligadai3193]

In future, Jaby's daughter will really be proud of him. More power to people like you.👍

[@supersaiyanbluegokusan4418]

Not only daughters but one should teach these things to both gender ..right from the start.

[@koushika3347]

I appreciate Jaby taking stance in a very difficult spot. A very logical stance. The lines between soft no and a hard no are very blurry. According to Amy Candles, ambiance, clothes, smell, lighting cleanliness nothing matters and nothing changes the girls mood. It's waste of doing anything. We have to just ask the girl in night pants if she says soft no, then we have to just leave. She is saying mood can't be affected by anything or any effort. You can never know your wife enough to understands what lights up her mood and it is crime even to try to change the mood of your spouse after initial soft no. This makes sense women take initiative in relationships, in sex everything. Obviously only the person who is doing something can go wrong. passive partner can never go wrong in such cases because they don't initiative at all. Country like India 98% women are passive so what Amy is advocating is not at all applicable here. Many girls I met want to be wooed, want to be taken care of, want to be on receiving side of gifts, dinners, etc and they act as if these external things change their mood. If I meet a girl at 7PM and ask her for consent for sex at 7:10 PM she would ask me to get lost. After a dinner date and couple of hours at 10PM she might say yes. same logic applies for 10PM to 12PM. why is making an effort wrong? is mood unchangeable? If I'm married to someone for 10 years is it rude to assume that I can change her mood? or should both of us live in constant fear for rest of our lives? Is living like that even worth it? these are the questions we as young generation should answer to better our way of life.

[@amitranjan6615]

Is trh se to suhaagraat marital rape day ho jayega India me agr ldki mna ni kre to rape kse h ye

[@IndoManiac90]

Koushik A Great comment

[@akrittyagi1686]

Thank you so much for writing this. I've had a similar problem in my relationship. For a while, I started to discontinue "getting her in the mood" after her initial uninterest. I felt nice that I was listening to her more, paying attention to the subtle clues. A few weeks later, she complains that she feels that I've lost interest in her. That was a revelation. The problem with "only yes means yes" is it ignores the fact that every relationship is different. Dynamics between any two people are going to be different. It develops, changes, grows over time and still might not lead to a perfect sync between the two. My mistake was that I looked at other people having relationship troubles, found their solution to be a nice, liberal, modern idea and tried to apply it to my relationship. It crashed and burned. In retrospect, obviously. Similar is the problem with this movement. It generalizes too much and implants a seed of doubt in even a healthy relationship which might be good in some cases but not in all cases.

[@amitranjan6615]

@@akrittyagi1686 aur vse bhi jb tk ldki serious hoke clearly no na bole to kse pta chlega ki uske mn me kya h. For ex mere dost ki gf hmesa hi mna krti thi fir wo efforts lgata tha or ldki maan jati thi. Fir kch dino bad ldki jaan bujh k mna krne lgi(mn ho fir bhi) sirf isliye qki use acha lgta ki uska bf itna effort krta h or fir wo kch bhi krva skti thi usse

[@gotahgemini6415]

That is not the same as clearly saying NO, and the husbands still thinking it's still ok to continue just because they are married.

[@bosgaurus1]

Clearly he, and most of us men, need to understand that ANY level of no, strong, weak, clear, not clear, EVERY level of no is a no. It is not just the responsibility of the woman to shake the man back into reality. It is not just the responsibility of women. Men also need to be fully aware and pay attention. Dhyaan se kaam karo.

[@ThatGlobalDesi]

Chris Boscurry very well said!!!! There’s two people in action here, can’t just dump it on the woman

[@gamesbhaand0078]

True. At some level songs and movies promoting "uski naa me hi haan hai" type mindset also normalise such behaviour

[@ayushbhatnagar3889]

Can't agree more

[@navneetsingh-nd9my]

New Motto-"Dhyan se kaam karo"

[@_Sagar_chan_Videos]

Just a doubt . So what if I wanted to have sex and my partner said no ...but I wanted at that time ...I know that we should not have sex at that time but what I'm asking is what should I do next , be upset or wait for right moment or what? I'll give you an example I know this is not related analogy but a teenager wanted some money for a music concert but the parent did not give the money and so what happens here is that the child would be upset and would have the anger in mind . What I wanted to ask that what should be done next because my mood would be gone . I'm totally in consent with the thought of no means no . Just you know I'm curious.

[@roshannair7274]

wow…an eye opener to many…what a powerful message in this story….loved the performances too!

[@tiwari_9010]

One person who can make the biggest difference in a girl's life is her father. One person who can make the biggest difference in a boys behaviour is his mother.

[@inevitabledeath]

Not true. You need good male role models for a boy. Part of the problem is that guy's dont get to see many male role models at a younger age.

[@tiwari_9010]

@@inevitabledeath remove the "not true" Part and your comment makes sense.

[@inevitabledeath]

@@tiwari_9010 You spoke of "biggest difference" and I stand by what I said. Male role models make a bigger difference in a male's life than female role models.

[@tiwari_9010]

@@inevitabledeath its about teaching and giving support and strength at an early age. By the time you are mature enough to chose the right role model, most of your personality and character is already built. Then you simply chose someone that suits your already built personality.

[@inevitabledeath]

@@tiwari_9010 I did mean having male role models at younger age. That's part of the problem currently. Father's are busy at work. A boy gets to spend more time with the mother. Or at school where most teachers are also females. A female view of masculinity is flawed cause it's coming from a place of femininity preservation. Thatswhy a lot of younger boys pick up toxic masculine traits such as fighting or doing drugs. Most Female role models want to suppress masculine traits cause it has the potential of doing harm. A male role model on the other hand will teach you to use your masculine traits for positive outcome.

[@naina3489]

Damn...Achara is sooo smart! Jaby she's the most intelligent one on your channel....Love you both!!❤

[@hiteshkaushik54]

Nice one Jaby koay... I already saw this.. your reaction always make these videos special😅

[@akashparamguru4358]

it's feels amazing to watch with you guys

[@pintupradhan9861]

Sanga kemiti Acha😁😉✋...Small World.

[@akashparamguru4358]

@@pintupradhan9861 indeed.. bhala achhi Sanga😊

[@rockysingh955]

I m commenting on ur video for the first time.. And I just want to say that this was the best video of ur channel till date.. Specially the discussion followed the short film was as important as the film was.. Thank u all of u for discussing all the things in such elaborate manner... 🙏🙏

[@ambatman.]

Achara got everything. She is an Indian soul 💖

[@anoopthomas1004]

What if she said the "No" initally the way she said "taste good" to the dal he made. There is clear difference between how both genders understand things. ...At the last (after she got the moral support) she told the truth very clear and sound and the guy understood that. Why didn't she do that initially (I think she was scared of him even in the last part, still she expressed herself. He definitely might have understood at that time as well (like in the last part). - All be clear and say clear what they want and don't want (create less confusion and help in decision ). Don't wait till last to say that. - Understand it's not the set way both genders understand each other. - If you can say no in the last very loud and clear, better do that first itself even more loud and clear

[@crackexamswither.sultan9516]

I second you!.. everything should be clear..on the first place.

[@bosgaurus1]

Clearly he, and most of us men, need to understand that ANY level of no, strong, weak, clear, not clear, EVERY level of no is a no. It is not just the responsibility of the woman to shake the man back into reality. It is not just the responsibility of women. Men also need to be fully aware and pay attention. Dhyaan se.

[@prakhargupta3861]

@@bosgaurus1 Maybe he didn't listen because he was too busy fighting a repressed memory of his in that moment, which may have resurfaced due to some trigger. Collectively, he became physically aggressive and ended up hitting his wife. I'm not apologizing for rape, what I am saying is that we should loop men in and listen to their story before demonizing them.

[@amitranjan6615]

@@bosgaurus1 marital rape ki definition kya h agr mai apni wife k sath sex kru aur uska mn ni h pr wo na bhi ni bol rhi ho to kya ye rape h ? Alcoholic husbands k alawa jyadatr husbands apni wife k mna krne pe sex ni krte hoge jbrdsti

[@komalpandey2409]

@@prakhargupta3861 It is shocking to see that still u feel that it is demonizing. Even if u leave the rape part, how can someone justify beating their partners?? These are not the things that's just happens.

[@pallabdas507]

Jaby being the minority in the gang handle the conversation very good.

[@Rational1234]

Good film, but anyone noticed that women thrown something on man in anger, that thing also could have cause same damage if it hits his eyes. Humans can do such things in anger, and can cause accidens.But if victim is man nobady cares.

[@sandipbehera3015]

Yeah bro... And nobody is gonna talk about this.. 😕 We are always helpless..

[@abhishekmaurya3453]

They intentionally shows that in the show and don't tell explicitly. Creative people often do this kind of subtlety. Authors, script writers, often do this. If you have read Revolution 2020 by Chetan Bhagat you would know what I am talking about. And same is the reason there are no plans of making movie on that book. Because it is so anti-feminist that too in subtle way which is the worst. Here in this video is the same reason they didn't show enough to support the husband's side of the story. Because they didn't wanted to make this in favour of males but still the writer put the last pillow throwing part intentionally just to make up for it.

[@tanisha4996]

It was a pillow dude. A pillow

[@Rational1234]

@@tanisha4996 yeah, but it's not about what she thrown, it could have been anything. In anger humans generally do this kind of things.

[@apekshasavale4407]

I was already a fan of jaby and achara but Amy Auburn made some points today.. and now I'm a fan of hers too.

[@ThatGlobalDesi]

Okay here’s the thing Jaby. If a woman is uncomfortable she’s uncomfortable. She hesitates she’s uncomfortable. She whispers, murmurs no, she’s uncomfortable. It’s SIMPLE. It’s not about reading into it, this is about not being fully sure to commit in that moment and THAT needs to be respected, regardless of how guys are about reading nonverbal cues or not. And this also depends on how women are raised. I’ve been in a situation where I couldn’t say no out loud . But the point the other girl made is really important, MEN NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT EVEN IF THERES HESITATION, it means no.

[@prakashchowdhary6644]

Please react TTTs "yesterday". Like always Achara is smartest girl on earth 🥰

[@nileshghadge5016]

I think it's the society they're more worried about more than their self worth and strength. That's where the problem lies.

[@gargajit]

But, do these help groups and different stories of other women, have a side effect even in the genuine actions/mistakes i.e. instead empowering women turns out to affect the relationship. Any possibility that a woman may overthink actions done by their partner or make her own ideas about which action can be termed as marital rape and which does not? Genuinely asking to explore my own thoughts after watching this.

Valid and very true. These fancy support groups and fancy hashtage backfires instead of constructive discussion.

[@pakhi5073]

Well, partners make promises to each other and they love each other too. But as the jaby said all the promises cannot/should not be followed if you are being physically hurt by your partner. If a person is trying to hurt you emotionally then may be overthinking may have bad result. On the other hand, if someone is beating and hurting their partner, there should be consequences. That relationship has already failed to keep the respect to one n another. It is inhumane to treat anyone.

[@user-fz4ts6fv6o]

There should be no confusion about rape, marital or otherwise. It is an act of aggression committed by one person without the consent of the other. This so called blurring of lines just because marital rape occurs in marriage is a result of the sociocultural practices that result in women not having a voice ....A problem world wide not specific to any one culture.

[@alexandertsiolkovski5848]

oh boy, this conversation quickly escalated!!

[@darshangoplani4162]

this kind of stuff wont get those views but knowing that u keep bringing good conversations jaby......thank you for that.....

[@dantepal7948]

Our society need more of this Kind of discussion , Thanks you Koay family doing this.

[@gidlaresheph1119]

Achara is really very Intelligent. She catches every detail of the content with her own perfect Analysis ❤

[@chessism93]

Jaby's comment on learning to say a straight no was on point! Well said!

[@alokrai744]

I wanted it so badly ...thank you jaby....thank you for your perception ...i want it ...thanks man

[@geetakeshloks]

OMG!!! I watched it twice, In first watch he was showing so concerned about her, and in second watch, in every word he is trying to hide his mistake.

[@siddhanthm1661]

Thank you for watching this. This made me think and be clear of few things.

[@DexScene]

While I support the women and respect them, and all for equality and women power, but I kinda also have mixed feeling. There are so many Mrs Dhavar who spreads these kinda women power propaganda and brainwash women to be anti-men. Like it's awkward to ask every time "Hey I beg your pardon but do you want to have sex right now?" to your wife. But I sure agree if she says seriously NO Stop, I don't wanna do this. Because not every husbands like to force their wives. They love their wives. Like Jaby said, those are sometimes Playfully no. But if she seriously say a hard NO, the guy will stop. I mean if a soft NO is a no, then it should be gender neutral. There are so many times, a guy plays video game and his gf comes up. She comes to him and start playing with him. The guy softly can say No and his gf keep going on. Now this is not as bad as it would sound if he goes to a domestic violence group and narrates the story and other people start putting their perspectives in it. It becomes toxic. There are a lot of domestic violence. They really need help. But the thing is Women and Men both can be victim. There are not even a law for Rape against men in India. Go figure xD i have gone way out of topic, haven't I?

[@Anandhu100M]

Dex Scene agreed

[@PrathyushaPasupuleti]

Most sensible comment.

[@Anandhu100M]

Prathyusha Pasupuleti .ya totally

[@sanjeeva5527]

I was looking for this comment otherwise I wanted to comment

[@radhikanair4505]

Everyone had a very mature discussion.. hats off to you guys

[@amrutkukreja999]

I really appreciate achara's review on this content achara really caught the film very well.

[@tiwari_9010]

"I understand that disneyland is a totally different conversation than going to the Disneyland" Is it though? 😏

[@baltishradav]

Mostly i have seen all the video which shown on this channel long time before but today i m happy tht they shwn what i had not seen superb video

[@devanshmandeliya4232]

Jaby saw our comments we want achara, and so he delivered the thing, though jaby is clever and he already planned it out

[@aftabeasty8577]

I think Jaby said that he would upload videos with Achara randomly every now and then until she is back when she left.

[@vedikadeshmukh5428]

Achara is very smart ,she rightly guessed the title. Achara gives justice to the reactions

[@nitishsaxena1372]

We in India have people who think there's nothing like marital rape and then we have people like the character Sumeet played in this film too. India as a country needs a lot of catching up to do

[@sancho3179]

Catching up in what? Fake feminism?

[@nitishsaxena1372]

@@sancho3179 marital rape is fake feminism?

[@keshavraj6186]

Wo india me hi nhi saare jagah ho rahe h bete Sentence ke aage india jod ke defame kyu kar rhe ho india ko

[@thedudeabides3294]

Hope people other than me understood what Amy tried to explain. Teaching little boys to wait for a clear Yes vs teaching little girls to give a clear No.

[@nikhilb3880]

19:30 I totally totally agree with that. happened to me many times not just with women but with general people too

[@sagarsaga00]

What you missed is the girl Also had subconscious beliefs that saying no to husband is not okay, (from society)so her "no" was not reaching him. He is equally had deep wrong beliefs that he own his wife!

[@md.asaduzzaman6650]

In the subcontinent, there is an assumption that Girl's No means Yes. Because regarding sex girls are not open to say Yes/No. I was in 12 years of marriage, my wife did not say even 12 times strong yes. So it's really very difficult for men to understand whether they are in the mood or not. Because generation to generation they are taught sex is a taboo thing. I hope the new generation will have a strong voice to say YES/NO.

[@sukhansingh6152]

Just got food and needed something to watch while eating... And then this was uploaded great🤪

[@krushnmaniya]

Same here.

[@knowledgesociety5492]

Watching this now while eating my dinner.

[@nikhilnaidu8049]

Knowledge Society you mean breakfast

[@abhi-_-]

@@nikhilnaidu8049 people live in different time zones

[@saulgoodman7178]

12:50 That's when I tried to like(up vote) the video again

[@dipaksingh6594]

SUNO means listen, just clarifying it, nice reaction and discussion in the end

[@pradnyakharat4734]

That was some serious discussion & as always Achara knew what was going on..she analysized it so well..she is just awesome..

[@safiyyaabdullatheef4054]

Ya'll should try watching "freedom @ midnight" which is a malayalam short film

[@ashwinsubramanya]

Line between passion and abuse is soo blurry make me not have a relationship nor get married..

[@tanmaybhajane2570]

Finally a sensible comment

[@sunilkadyan8733]

Same here

[@sancho3179]

Aapke jaise ucch vichar sara India rakhe to aabadi badhani vaise he ruk jaaye.

[@5891irhs]

Passion and abuse?? There is no common ground between those two..

[@ashwinsubramanya]

@@5891irhs maybe you have never been passionate (maybe re-think about your dating choices). just holding a women's biceps in moments of passion can leave bruises according to one perceptive it can be abuse. I seriously have dumb luck answering to virgins.

[@colorsncaptures]

Great conversation! That's why I follow your channel other than any other channel..

[@kanthsasi8]

Jaby is a good representative for men

[@sasoali2939]

the movie is great, however , the discussion part was amaaaazing , hats off really

[@sumanc27]

This is also true that in India we can not express our opinion as justification the way Jabby is doing here in a similar conversation with the so-called feminists. The reason is fear of getting tagged as a rapist by them.

[@kingbillajr]

😁😁exactly!!....

[@easilysaidyeah]

Jaby, as much as I understand what u r trying to say about teaching your daughter to leave, give her strength. It's not easy to leave. You can't leave. You have hope that it ll get better. You blame yourself. You think maybe it just happened this time, it ll never again. You ve seen the best of that guy, you believe he is wonderful. You can not believe they would do that. You are sure this is the last time it happened. You are attached. You are made to believe you are nothing without him. I loved it how Achara corrected with the self worth thing. Because yes. If You would remember you are something very important even when you are not with him. I like you guys' discussion a lot.

[@kavitachaudhari313]

Best conversation ever on jaby channel

[@trinayanakaushik811]

They are all so intelligent. Great analysis by all three of them.

[@sameednaama]

Man this one messed my head. I initially thought they were literally fighting like WWE for fun... Like a playful pillow fight gone rogue... But then it messed my head....

[@aflibnush]

I loved this. This was very informative. Thank you jaby. Thank you Achara. Thank you Amy.

[@lolmate3789]

I love the way that Jaby, amy and Achara looked into the matter and discussed so many subtle stuff shown in the film. After thinking for a while, I also was intrigued by one question. How would the scenario be, if Sumit had gotten hurt while doing it. And what would have happened after that...... (this is just something, I'd actually like the three of you to help me out with this)

[@iamsrs]

The smartest person out there is Achara .... She correctly guessed the meaning of hindi word 'Suno' 👏👌👍

[@Karan-ux4fm]

A few days earlier my mother and aunt were talking about a woman Apparently she had left her husband because her father in law slapped her and he didn't stand up for her neither stoped his father from doing it multiple times After the discussion my aunt said and I quote"apne aadmi Kon te kha v lyi da ya par sohre da thaapar koi nahi chlde" Explained: a women can tolerate her husband if he slapped her but she cannot tolerate the same behavior from her father in law And I was stunned how my mother agreed with her

[@kaushikjyotisarma5322]

12.30-12.45 Jaby's face 🤣🤣😂😂 Shaadi krNa hi nehi hein mujhe

[@gourabsaha8577]

Easy solution stay single... become a monk... become a warrior

[@neharastogi8216]

Thank you for this discussion! 🙏🏻

[@jigztatsme]

I would support the thought of Jaby that Teach your daughter the strength to say no... If the other person doesn't/couldn't hear ... To make sure the partner listens....

[@nikhiljoshi5774]

When a guy wants to have sex but girl isn't in the mood then the guy should respect girl's wish. But when a girl is in the mood and the guy isn't in the mood, then the girl says you have lost interest in me, are you cheating on me or she starts finding sex partner. So, it goes both the ways. Depends just on the person irrespective of the gender. Be a good human, that's all.

Exactly

[@vms_indian_with_adhd]

as a guy you are supposed to take a lead, but the right to say no is with the woman. what is the demarcation where taking the lead becomes abusive? for example, yesterday the girl is okay for a kiss, today she isnt. Do you have to ask at every step if you want to do anything? and for one girl what might be okay, is not okay for other girl. How do you know that? yes, the answer is 'listen to her'. if she says NO then dont move ahead....then come the women who say 'the guy must be talented enough to change my NO into a YES' also come the women who say ' They want the guy to be spontaneous' or they say ' Well i did not say NO, but I also did not say YES. And this entire conversation is just assuming that the Guy is Always ready to be intimate. Hitting the woman is wrong .Absolutely. but all the other confusion remains

[@viplovegoswami8739]

Thanks for the reaction... I love you guys.

[@vp7819]

And what if the man says NO ?????? Would you ladies take it soooooooo sportingly ? How many thoughts would cross your mind then ? He insulted me. He is not interested in me any more. He is having an affair. He had a bad day at the office. He's going impotent. And then you would need to have THE TALK. In a loving and successful marriage, what about the situation where there's conventional sex for years and the woman says that she'd really like it rough - the guys suggests a safe-word but she wants spontaneity and over powering. What's to be done then ? Which No means what No. Then, if the husband would try to define Yes and No and draw a clear line separating one from the other, the wife would turn it into a gray zone again expecting the husband to navigate confidently through uncharted waters. WTF ?

[@ayushman3359]

Everyone is busy blaming men for everything and achieving a higher moral ground than the next person that they forget to have real conversations on this topic, a conversation that's biased by senseless feminists and orthodox men likewise.

[@Jewel24official]

Best suggestion for men Dont take initiative in such matter, let her make the first move, just understand the signals and dont act stupid Follow this mantra everytime to avoid any awkwardness

Agreed fully.👍👍We men also have our mood. What will feminists say if men dont have mood and women keeps on nagging for sex?? If we dont, then these feminists will support females saying yes, women have to right to file divorce based on physical needs. Ridiculous

[@viveks6485]

"Real man dies single."

[@Jewel24official]

Real man dies single out of frustration* Full sentence 😂😂

[@love-oc3ew]

@@Jewel24official real men are gay🤨 they don't bother women😪

[@Sandy-lm4xx]

Loved the convo.

[@justchill8104]

Hey jaby thank you for react on jai jai shiv shankar song.

[@siddhanthm1661]

I can't imagine this channel without achara's insights.

[@seng1869]

Imagine a boy instead of girl....if boy says. . There is a domestic violence then Everyone would just laugh😅😅, it's just that men hurts physically, and women does mentally. And believe me when some1 hurts u mentally it's very hurt to cure.

[@PrathyushaPasupuleti]

Completely agree.

[@nehaupadhyay1742]

That's sad and true

[@sanyuktabiswas489]

@Miss Santre I dont think such a blanket statement can be made in favor of women.

[@arjun0675]

Thats a very smart short film...it incorporated a lot in it...ppl dont get lost open ur eyes and ears,listen and watch every thing....u ppl had a great discussion makin the short film more clear to every one

[@justanidiot007]

It's very important for men as well. Sometimes they don't realize they are wrong. I remember an episode from Aamir Khan's show SMJ where there were men who accepted that they didn't realize they are wrong when they used to beat their wives. Now when they realize it, they can't forgive themselves.

[@ravigodara5014]

Jaby give example of Disney land , but just i remember about when Monica is sick and she make Chandler to love her , how you guys put that ??? I am confused .

[@parthrampariya]

Pagalpan means madness or craziness, subs were accurate. Fyi. And just Crazy means pagal.

[@rohanbharadwaj1259]

You guys are truly honest .....keep it up ....👌

[@rja3579]

Great discussion. Achara & Amy were spot on. Agree with Jaby's view that men and women read signals/signs differently and appreciate that asking permission before kissing might not sit well with some girls, but sex is different. A proactive/over enthusiastic kiss is forgivable but pushing for sex is not. To quote Achara he did hit her, so on some level he must have faced resistance. Also I commend Jaby's general respect for women and his appreciation of some of the difficulties we face. I am a recent subscriber and absolutely love watching your channel and all your wonderful guests - it puts a smile on my face.

[@sumitranjan6555]

It is undigestable that Sumeet will do this, Sumeet means good friend and people that is what my parents told me about my name. I respect Sumeet that he did this role as he thinks it's important to be shown and talked. It's take great courage to come out of your good nature persona and become a bad ass.

Actors are actors. Actors shouldnt be tagged with morality. They are acting at the end of the day.

[@tushararora2121]

It's good to see Achara back with Jaby ... Love you both ❤❤

[@pritambiswas1000]

Just commenting on things or issues like these isn't enough, need real life implementations. Enjoyed the analytical discussion by all 3 of you though...

[@meghadeepa7900]

Achara you are a genius!!

[@user-je6rx7xs6l]

and consider this video in the socio cultural context of indian culture where wives are expected to be submissive towards the husband