Surrogate labour & birth

SHES HERE! Finally! Longest pregnancy ever! Haha. Find out her name, weight, and see her parents meet her! Did they make the birth? How did it all go?!! Watch to find out. 😜
I'm Lisa, aka Lumdeedums and this is my little corner of odd.
I have 3 children of my own, 1 boy and 2 girls with my husband, Darren.
I do WITL, hauls, cooking, hair dos and random stuff alongside documenting my journeys as a surrogate.
I do both TS (Traditional surrogacy) and GS (Gestational Surrogacy).
I've had 3 surrogate babies now!
Our youngest child is undergoing diagnosis for special needs. Suspected ASD and SPD.
This process will be documented too.
My channel is / @140lumdee
My Facebook page m.facebook.com...
My blog is lumdeedum.blogs...
Twitter is / lumdeedums
Instagram is private and under Lumdeedums

[@theshatteredgiver]

OMG they are so sweet with her! Congrats to the sweet papa's. All the love pouring out of them. They are absolutely glowing!

[@140Lumdee]

They are amazing. Utterly amazing.

[@imreadyalready5232]

Fully sobbing from the second the Dad's popped their heads in. You've done an amazing thing here, this is an unspeakable gift. She's beautiful and finally here, and now you get to sleep!

[@140Lumdee]

The midwives were so excited to set it up with the curtain etc. Lol it was lovely.

[@CharlotteLouiseTaylor]

Lisa oh my love. You are wonderful. Look what you did. LOOK! You gave someone the best gift ever. And you made a family. You are amazing and I’m so proud of you. I have watched you for years. And I am so glad for that. You’re an angel walking the earth. Please read these words and know that I mean them. And accept them. Because they are so true. xxx

[@140Lumdee]

I’m no angel. I’m just a bit crazy but I like to think it’s in a good way. Thank you so much for being so lovely.

[@kellyhorsburgh7263]

You are one amazing lady! Had me in tears!! Look how happy you have made her daddys! Xxx

[@140Lumdee]

They are so happy and she will be so loved her whole life.

[@4FORLIFERebecca]

I balled like a baby. You are such an amazing person for doing something so selfless! You have made one couple extremely happy!

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you! I’m so lucky to be able to help others.

[@4FORLIFERebecca]

@@140Lumdee It must feel amazing!

[@katiebarnaby4079]

Absolutely incredible. It amazes me how women are so selfless and amazing to do this for a couple to help make a family. honestly it really does. I just don’t know how you do it, but it’s incredible!

[@140Lumdee]

It’s an absolutely fantastic experience. To get to help lovely people and see the joy.. no words.

[@lianneboodhun2660]

Amazing 😍😍😍 cried my eyes out x I met Mark at school and so lovely to see you have completed his family xxx

[@140Lumdee]

Aww that’s so sweet. They are amazing parents.

[@paightplays]

Oh my Lord, I sobbed my heart out at this! She is absolutely gorgeous. Congratulations to the new parents, they’re going to be amazing! And a huge well done to you Lisa, what a wonderful thing to do. ❤️

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you lovely. X

[@lorrainemulrooney]

Sobbing in a complete mess of tears, snot and love. Oh god I can’t even describe how wonderful this was to watch ❤️ x x

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you gorgeous. Sorry I made you cry.

[@katethorburn5646]

Lorraine Mulrooney me too 😭😌

[@HayleyRll]

Oh bloody hell, I'm a mess here 😭😭😭❤❤❤ Lisa I've said it before and I'll say it again, you lovely are AMAZING! To see little Sophie with her daddies was beautiful. You can literally see in their eyes that you have given them everything. You wonderful human being!

[@140Lumdee]

They are so so so amazing with her. I am so lucky to have been able to help.

[@thetweegarden]

Crying my eyes out. As someone who suffered through infertility for 6 years (33 weeks with my 2nd now thankfully) I think you are just amazing. The gift you give is just incredible. Xx

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you and a huge congratulations! Amazing news. I love people over coming adversity. X

[@sxynatty1989]

Iv been waiting for this!!! I’m so happy!!! God Lisa you grow beautiful babies!! You can tell your feelings because you talk to her completely differently to how you would if it was your newborn baby. She’s so lovely. Her daddy’s faces when they walked in. My heart just melted into a thousand pieces. Congratulations guys. I can’t believe Seth is 5!!! Oh my god seems like it wasn’t that long ago!!! I’m so pleased she’s here xxx

[@140Lumdee]

Me too! Soooo glad. They love her so much and I couldn’t be happier. Fx I can film, edit and upload her birth story tomorrow.

[@rhiangibson1544]

AND I’m sobbing 😍❤️ such a beautiful video Lisa. The daddies look SO proud. She is perfection and you are a truly wonderful human! Xxx

[@140Lumdee]

That are so so happy. Love them.

[@crystaljackson4242]

Your an Amazing woman . I have thought about surrogacy for a while now. Watching your journey has helped me in my decision to be one. Your an inspiration. Thank you and I was a big ball of tears 😭 watching this.

[@140Lumdee]

Aww thank you.

[@Cuckoo2126]

Nice one as soon as the dads walked in the room I burst into tears! Uncontrollably sobbing till the end! You are an amazing person ! X

[@ttdfanforlife]

I've dealt with infertility and did the adoption route, then finally at 34 gave birth. I want to thank you for helping others have their own baby. The want for a baby you can't have is horrible. You are a strong woman and so loving to do this for them. You have changed their life

[@140Lumdee]

I am extremely blessed. I can carry well and deliver without much issue. I am able to do this and for that I am grateful. 3 times I’ve helped others become a family and it’s worth all the pain etc to see the joy.

[@ttdfanforlife]

I have been following for a while. I seen the baby before this one. You've changed lives.

[@justme8725]

Yep, I had tears. How wonderful are you and I have to say Darren too - he's amazing. It's nice seeing a bit of Marc as well, he seems so sweet. Sophie is beautiful. I hope they are all settling into their new life well x

[@140Lumdee]

Marc is lovely. They both are amazing and wonderful and the most amazing dads. She’s such a lucky little girl.

[@Carneyfamilyvlog]

I’m sobbing, this is amazing. They really didn’t know how to thank you. This is so amazing!!!

[@140Lumdee]

Crazy Carney's they don’t have to. Though they gave me the Alice in wonderland cath kidson bag and purse which nearly made me cry because they know how much I love Alice and Cath.

[@Carneyfamilyvlog]

Lisa Lum you are so humble, so many people could learn from the love you have and how you treat people!! Awww bless them, sounds like you all become friends 😍

[@mandsdragey]

Awww , I'm in tears and so is my daughter who watched this with me , your a amazing lady lisa 💜xx

[@140Lumdee]

I feel so bad about making so many cry. Lol sorry. Good years though right?!!

[@mandsdragey]

@@140Lumdee most defo good tears ,, my daughter said that lady is amazing ( daughter's 13) . Xx

[@vickyhanley1696]

Oh my goodness, this made me cry happy tears. You are one amazing lady. Making families complete. Well done to you and your family my lovely x

[@dawnkelleher2075]

Well done Lisa your one amazing lady xx and a massive congratulations Daddy’s xx Cryinghell I’m literally sobbing what a beautiful birth vlog xx

[@140Lumdee]

Sorry! Hehe. It did make me a bit emosh.

[@jethrojackson6023]

I am bawling big tears onto the keyboard! This is SO beautiful. The love is overwhelming me.

[@pinkynbaby]

What a precious moment, thank you for sharing. This has got to be the most emotional labour and delivery video I’ve ever watched, I’m a blubbering mess! You are an incredible lady, just no words to describe what you do/give for others! Good luck new parents, hope you are all well xxxx

[@140Lumdee]

We are all doing great thanks. I am so glad I was able to help them. They are amazing parents.

[@meganbourne8227]

Cried the whole way through. Just amazing. No other words ❤️

[@140Lumdee]

Sorry! I had the odd tear editing it together.

[@princesskaideka]

Been in tears since the moment dads walked in ❤️❤️ so adorable Lisa like wow how amazing are you !!!

[@140Lumdee]

I’m a moron but they are amazing parents. She’s a lucky girl.

[@kingbuream218hh8]

Omg words cant express what you have done its such warm loving incredible gift you have given shes adorable x

[@140Lumdee]

She really is! I got to spend yesterday having cuddles and seeing how amazing these 2 are with their daughter. No words can describe the joy it brings.

[@clairejenkins2474]

This is the first video I have watched of yours and I am in tears, I just want to say what a wonderful lady you are and a huge congratulations to the new daddies 💗

[@140Lumdee]

Aww thank you. They are amazing parents and I am so lucky I was able to help them.

[@umbumgo]

Aw Lisa, I’m crying , this is so perfect , well done lovely, another beautiful family that you have completed. I’m so so so so proud of you and so proud to be your friend. You are an absolute angel. Now get that gin open lovely xxxxx

[@140Lumdee]

You and I both know I am not an angel. But yay for gin!

[@TheMamaDiaries]

All the emotions when the dads met their daughter for the first time 😍 Well done Lisa, such an amazing thing to do for people! ❤️

[@140Lumdee]

Robyn Belle thank you.

[@Loopylou897]

Your an incredible woman what you do for other people is absolutely amazing, I know that I couldn’t do it I’m full of so much admiration for you X

[@140Lumdee]

Louise Huntingford I think it’s very much something you can do or not and there is nothing wrong with not being able to do it. There is only so much crazy this world can cope with. 😂

[@sharonjohnson5670]

I've watched this twice and cried both times. I can just relate so much for the daddies and that feeling when you first see your child,it's just the best. Lisa you really are something else. When you said oh this is the last I really don't like labour 😂,that's why my friend wanted a c section,because her youngest was 9 she could take it easy while recovering. She thought the c section was better than anything,probably because she was asleep and woke up and it was all over 😀. Xx

[@140Lumdee]

That sounds marvellous. I kinda wish I’d done that! The pain I’m on now... egghhh. Hahaha

[@eonmable]

Bless your heart, you’re such a inspiration and you deserve all the gin in the world! What an amazing thing to do. Sending lots of love your way, fingers crossed for a speedy recovery xx

[@140Lumdee]

Can’t have too much gin as I’m pumping. Haha

[@cainex9578]

I can’t wait for a day like this it’s so beautiful your an amazing person for doing this and helping couples have children ❤️

[@jessicacarnahan6924]

Oh dear! This was beyond beautiful! Just wow! Thanks for sharing!!!🥰

[@emmamitchell6818]

This is so amazing. Congratulations Mark and Mark. Thanks Lisa for helping to make families x

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you for being so lovely.

[@madelovinglycrochet]

Ah that made me cry when they saw her for the first time 😊💖 such a gift well done Lisa x

[@140Lumdee]

Nearly made me tear and I don’t do crying. 😂

[@gemmacrisell2820]

Love the idea of helping people in such a way but i would no way be strong enough to. You’re amazing . Well done xx

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you. X

[@sophieboud6401]

So inspirational, emotional and overwhelming! I literally have no words! ❤️

[@140Lumdee]

Aww thank you.

[@Unfilteredmummymakeup]

I'm not crying, your crying! ... ok im crying...So beautiful your an amazing person lisa What an amazing gift to give to a lovely family xxxxx

[@140Lumdee]

Hahaha. You’re fab. X

[@bethmccarthy5947]

You're an amazing human! And so humble too. I'm crying like a baby here 😭 xx

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you. I’m lucky I could help.

[@RobertsandThenSome]

Love love love!! ❤️ 💕 Also you look amazing especially for to have just given birth! You’re a rockstar

[@140Lumdee]

That’s the camera. Love the G7X ii. It’s liens filter without a filter. Ha

[@LaurenB1984x]

Bloody hell Lisa u r amazing I cried till the very end x watching her drive away was very emotional x unwatchable an amazing thing to be able to do for someone x she’s beautiful

[@140Lumdee]

I am so so grateful for being able to help. Such an amazing experience.

[@LaurenB1984x]

I’m not sure why it says unwatchable on my comment I did not type tht 🤣 it was meant to say what an amazing lol

[@140Lumdee]

LaurenB1984x I speak fluent autocorrect so I get it. Lol

[@user-sv1jz4rw6h]

Lisa you are amazing! Such a selfless thing to do for someone else. The best gift anyone could possibly give. AMAZING ❤️ Also you looked amazing after just giving birth! X

[@140Lumdee]

Natalie Tanner that’s the G7X mark ii! It’s such a fab camera.

[@missfieldy321]

Thank you for sharing this! What an amazing gift to give to a couple! You are one amazing lady 💖

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you. They are such amazing parents. I am glad I could help them.

[@KimmiParrott]

This was utterly amazing and made my eyes leak 💜💜💜💜

[@140Lumdee]

I got teary editing it together.

[@mhairiturner7926]

I watched this video with such a grin on my face! I hope daddies and baby girl are doing okay two years on!!! So much love and respect for you! X

[@140Lumdee]

She’s fab. 2 and a half now. Mad. Not seen them since her 2nd birthday garden party (socially distanced) but do this summer we can meet up again.

[@AdorableJay93]

U are a superwoman for doing this 6 times... I did it once and I’m done 😂.. You are so strong . I cried like a baby watching this.

[@140Lumdee]

Or I am completely mental. I’m Really not sure which.

[@caz8833]

One of the most beautiful things ive ever seen. Well done Lisa youre truly amazing xxxxx

[@donnarobinson7718]

Amazing giving the gift of a child to what look like 2 proud daddies congrats to daddies an well done lisa

[@140Lumdee]

Donna Robinson thank you lovely. X

[@surrofab]

That moment. When IPs meet their baby for the first time 😍holy moly....THAT'S what it's all about. Thank you for sharing Lisa.

[@140Lumdee]

It is indeed.

[@lorrainesewell7167]

Thank you for sharing this Lisa this little girl is so lucky to have two amazing daddy’s. Well done to you all x

[@140Lumdee]

She is so loved by so many. I am very proud to have helped them.

[@louisemorgan93]

What you’ve done is so amazing Lisa ❤️❤️ xxx

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you.

[@Lessthanforty]

She is so beautiful! Congrats daddies! I’m so excited for you. Well done Lisa, well done.🎀

[@140Lumdee]

Thanks gorgeous. Hope You’re ok. X

[@Makinafamily]

Amazing ❤️ Congratulations Marc & Mark. Well done Lisa you coped amazingly!! X

[@140Lumdee]

Thanks gorgeous.

[@Yorkshirelass10]

Wow!! just wow, how beautiful and amazing to watch.. The ultimate gift of life.. What a beautiful little girl ❤ Lisa your absolutely amazing, strong, and beautiful ❤ I'm sure her daddies will cherish and love her and have the best future together as a family.. Wishing you all the very best for the future.. Love and respect ❤ xx

[@140Lumdee]

They are the most amazing daddies already. She is so loved

[@amiecollier4803]

So amazing to watch...your so inspirational and amazing to do this.. I've nothing but admiration for you. Xx

[@Emma-89]

Omg. I have never cried so much. Such a beautiful gift 💖

[@140Lumdee]

Aww thanks.

[@toritaunton1617]

Amazing amazing amazing so beautiful I cried can I ask what the first song is called please xx

[@140Lumdee]

Set my world on fire. On epidemic sound. It’s designs for use in media etc.

[@floryyoung5236]

Awww so amazing!!!! Well done hun, and congratulations to the daddies! Xx

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you!

[@lucyliversidge8441]

In bits watching this! So amazing 💕xx

[@140Lumdee]

Sorry! Haha. I’ve made lots cry it seems. But good tears!

[@beckyg8652]

You are amazing - a dream for 2 people made true by you and your family, it’s something in life we take as a given and when it’s not possible it changes you as a person forever But by you being so selfless you have helped that lucky couple change the path of their lives together and allowed them to be their full selves with no compromise Some people achieve greatness by being famous, Rich etc but you have achieved this by enabling others to have these wonderful families and not only that by sharing it to the world to perhaps encourage others and showing them the reality and that will im sure help many more families be created! So from all of us searching for our dream thank you so much x

[@140Lumdee]

Aww thank you. I don’t want fame, I just wanted people to see it’s not seedy, it’s not money based, it’s not scary or anything like that. It’s amazing. It’s possible and yes it’s not always easy but if you do it properly, it can be everything. And ok by the end I was miserable but it is worth it. Because I may not fully understand the pain but I can sympathise and I choose to help end it because I can. Just wish I could help them have a sibling but I’m too old and fat. 😂

[@umbumgo]

Lisa you were in labour and so upbeat! You’re amazing xx

[@140Lumdee]

Well I was just happy she was coming! Plus I don’t labour long enough to get too worn out 😂

[@sarahbennett17996]

So beautiful!! Also so emotional to watch x

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you.

[@nichole8014]

You are AMAZING Lisa I don't know how you do it you are an angel!!!!!!!!!

[@140Lumdee]

I’m not sure but I’m no angel.

[@nichole8014]

Oh yes you are your an angel in disguise on this earth!!! 😘😇💞

[@JessicaLouiseAshe]

I just absolutely love this. You are a bloody legend ❤

[@140Lumdee]

Thanks gorgeous.

[@paulakeane8708]

This video is so full of love ❤️❤️❤️

[@140Lumdee]

It really is.

[@lmeaey]

Holy crap Lisa! You’re amazing. I’d be screaming my head off with the contractions.

[@140Lumdee]

I did a sort of screamy moan when she was crowning. We just didn’t manage to get the camera out in time. It was all a bit fast.

[@lmeaey]

I scream/moan the whole time...when I’m not sucking down the gas and air that is. 😂😂😂

[@BeingRachel]

You’ve done a truly incredible thing! You are amazing 😍😍😍 xxx

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you. X

[@alicescott97]

Tried not to cry at this.. I failed.

[@140Lumdee]

I welled up editing and I don’t usually get emosh.

[@NillyDahlia]

You did such a beautiful thing. You are amazing Lisa xxx

[@140Lumdee]

I’m not. But I am lucky and grateful that I can do this. It’s beyond words

[@samd9143]

You are truly amazing. Sophie is so gorgeous. X

[@140Lumdee]

Sam D she really is such a beautiful little girl. So proud.

[@sharleneboyes5465]

2 happy dads. Congrats xxx

[@140Lumdee]

They are amazing daddies already and yes, so happy.

[@heatherjane4760]

Amazing Lisa ❤️❤️❤️

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you.

[@Lild92]

You are one amazing lady the gift of life is precious one to give just beautiful ❤

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you.

[@alexhaggart9388]

I'm a complete mess! You are an incredible person x

[@140Lumdee]

Lexi H I’m a weirdo but I’m so grateful that I can do this. It’s an amazing experience.

[@IrishRunningVlog]

Lisa you are a warrior woman. I’m in bits here watching this 😭. Well done you! You totally deserve the gin 🍸

[@140Lumdee]

It was lovely. Had some last night. 😂

[@SH-rh7tc]

First video I have watched of yours...Wow! How magical are you.. 💜

[@140Lumdee]

Aww thank you.

[@thecoleclan3209]

What a beautiful story!!!

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you! She’s so loved by so many.

[@allalahav5492]

Amazing! May you all be so blessed and happy xo

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you. X

[@umbumgo]

I just love this so so so much xx

[@140Lumdee]

And I loves you!

[@nuttynat88]

So glad she finally arrived hopefully you can get a full nights sleep again now lol x

[@140Lumdee]

Gah me too. I was so so ready. I’ll explain more and give more details in a sit down video. When I can face sitting down. 😂

[@flowers2508]

What a bloody mess I am! What an incredible thing to do. Happy parents 😍😍😍xx

[@140Lumdee]

They really are. They are amazing and I am so happy for them.

[@hannahlindon3777]

I admire u so much what a fab thing to do for other people x

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you. She is so loved.

[@hannahlindon3777]

Ur welcome I can imagine how loved she is I shed a tear silly me but just can't believe how much of a strong woman u r xx

[@larindaxoxo3147]

1st omg the baby’s here sooo cute xx

[@140Lumdee]

She really is! Such a gorgeous wee girl.

[@larindaxoxo3147]

Lisa Lum ye she sooo beautiful xx

[@VSSpeaksRoyally]

So beautiful. Thank you for sharing!!!!!

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you for watching!

[@lmeaey]

And I’m getting the tingles and I’m crying.

[@140Lumdee]

Awwww

[@heathersmith5935]

Ah this is amazing ❤ and it's something I am looking into doing for another couple too 🥰

[@Tiffanydw4]

She is beautiful great job and you look amazing BTW, couldn’t tell you just had a baby.

[@140Lumdee]

You should have seen my insta stories! For some reason my camera makes me look ok. My phone? Not so much 😂😂😂

[@Tiffanydw4]

Lisa Lum don’t be so hard on your self your beautiful inside and out! Not many would be able to do this and have the same mindset as you. Truly an amazing person and a true gift to these families.

[@SomewhereAftertheRainbow]

Don’t do this to a pregnant woman!!! I’m in pieces! Most beautiful video, you should all feel so proud 💕 xxx

[@140Lumdee]

I really do feel so proud

[@NowThatsJustGay]

I just wanted to stop by and thank everyone for all the lovely comments and well wishes. :-)

[@140Lumdee]

Aww you are lovely

[@Wendyboymama]

Your a amazing woman Lisa 💗 what better gift!

[@140Lumdee]

I’d quite like an all expenses paid trip to Florida as gift myself 😂😂😂 sorry. Couldn’t resist. I’ve an odd humour.

[@Wendyboymama]

@@140Lumdee haha no with 3 crazy boys in the house I totally understand 🤣

[@sapphireastleyful]

Beautiful x

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you. X

[@theharveyfamily8112]

You are amazing

[@140Lumdee]

Nah. I’m just the right kind of crazy!

[@haylzgregz9148]

You are amazing 💕

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you. I’m an idiot but a happy one!

[@marafiki5637]

This is so beautiful, God bless

[@tracyalland1643]

Beautiful xx

[@140Lumdee]

😍

[@danielfu6599]

Fair play to you for doing this for these two men to become parents your so brave and very considerate to do something like this as a gay man myself me and my partner is looking to become parents but don't no what is the best way to approach things to get a surrogate mother 😊

[@140Lumdee]

Honestly my knowledge is based in the UK and I don’t have as much info for people outside the uk. Sorry. But there will be people who know.

[@emmalewis6990]

Amazing woman xxxx

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you.

[@ckmanning16]

You are an amazing woman!! No other words needed ❤

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you. X

[@ckmanning16]

@@140Lumdee do u ever feel emotionally empty after u have given birth once a baby goes home with its mum and dad

[@140Lumdee]

No. I am just so happy. I love that little girl in my own way, it’s hard to explain as I would do anything to keep her safe and happy as she’s my friends world but she’s not *mine*. I don’t have a mother’s love for her at all. But I would never want her hurt or sad. But not empty at all. Absolutely choc full of happy to be honest. Joy and pride and all the good things. And some pain. Haha

[@ckmanning16]

@@140Lumdee basically a proud mum moment minus the mum.. 😊

[@140Lumdee]

charms xxx probably! Ha.

[@TheLunaHippy]

Utterly beautiful ❤

[@140Lumdee]

Thank you!