Surviving 5 Days w/ No Sleep

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Sometimes life’s challenges happen at the worst possible times… like your baby going through his 4 month sleep regression while you’re on vacation.
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[@allisonhausknecht3177]

I love watching y’all. We lost our 13 month old in a car accident and watching y’all makes my day. Thank you ❤

[@natasharowe1997]

Omg I'm so sorry❤️❤️❤️

[@KasatkaTilikum]

Sorry for your loss 💕

[@ElevenHopper.]

i am so sorry for your loss

[@sheliadrennan653]

I'm so sorry..m

[@setyourselffree2120]

I’m so srry stay strong

[@omgitzlizard]

I have 10 month old and I remember this so vividly, especially the hysterical crying that makes you feel like you’re absolutely going to lose it. You’re not alone!! It is seriously so hard.

[@lilyandviolet4148]

They can do it I khow they really love there baby

[@JesusMartinez-kx4zq]

@@lilyandviolet4148 as in baby griffin

[@gaelcarlton9182]

Either I erased it from my memory or I never had to lose sleep whoa now that was with my son. My daughter different story...her issue was that dang binky getting lost and ending up half way across the room or under a stack of toys...which made me go HUH? I don't know how she did it, I got sleep, if you call sleeping in one hour intervals sleep. Beats getting no sleep I guess. Five days? Knowing my sense of humor I woud have asked my husband...can we exchange her for a puppy? Naw, just kidding..

[@kelliwillis417]

Mama of 5 and 13 grandkids too. Griffin is 4 months old so he knows his days and nights now. He is getting bigger and not needing as much sleep as he did when he was a newborn.( meaning first home til about now) he’s very curious and also is in a new place. Different smells different sounds. Right now the best thing to do is feed on demand and give him lots of cuddles just for a little while until you get home at least. If he continues to do that then get him on a strict schedule. They change every couple months and you have to change with him. You guys got this and I’m sure you have lots of help. 💕💕💕

[@lialucas2581]

I am just blown away by your production of videos while being parents. You guys kill it and help the baby. Not only you're exhausted, you're also filming. Amazing parents!!!

[@simplyboppingK]

I mean they don't have real jobs so obviously they have time to film?

[@sannehol6942]

This is their job 😉

[@emmatate-spencer6179]

The 4 month regression is AWFUL. Our baby has never been a hysterical crier except for when she was 4 months. When it gets rough just remind yourself over and over, “this too shall pass.” It truly does pass! You guys are amazing!

[@gaelcarlton9182]

LOL... AMEN.

[@amyeodell]

As a mom of 4- I love how real this vlog is. You are showing the good and the hard of parenthood.

[@Hadrian77]

being a parent is one of the hardest thing you can do, definitely not for everyone. idk how you guys do it

[@idk_what_to_make_myname]

@@Hadrian77 everyone can be a good parent, just much more difficult for others

[@chrissyTisme]

Ok I know sleep regression is real however… Overstimulated is REAL. A plane ride, lots of people, different noises (like the restaurant) even a small change in routine will throw your baby off completely. And Matt whew man you make me dizzy blogging you might be making him dizzy rocking that bassinet 😂. Expect this over tired baby stuff often. After holidays, parties, and yes during vacation. If you’re expecting it you’ll get through it just like you did. 😊 Keep smiling and laughing he’s a 🥰 cutie ❤

[@reesewhitt5495]

Overstimulation is a real thing for babies, so is routine. Traveling and time changes will affect him. He is still really young.

[@beckyklepper315]

My youngest is 19 years old. My kids all had sleep regression. It has been a really long time, but I think taking a little nap away and moving towards a bedtime routine of bath, massage with lavender infused oil or lotion, and nursing...I believed in letting them learn to self soothe, but never letting them cry for more than 5 to 10 minutes. Praying that this is a short-term thing for you guys. You're doing great, and you will get through this!!

[@freddymartinez2240]

Oh yes, warm baths worked for us too in calming our baby down on those nights.

[@sarahstatt1242]

I do this exact thing! Bath, baby massage, and nursing. I agree to the letting them self soothe to an extent then stepping in. Sometimes self soothing depending on the baby makes the situation worse. Just do what is best for you and your baby ❤️❤️great advice.

[@beckyklepper315]

@@sarahstatt1242 you're exactly right. Self soothing for one, is not the same for all. I often laid in the floor until they fell asleep with a hand in the crib. Lol

[@sarahstatt1242]

@@beckyklepper315 hey you gotta do what you gotta do haha. The definition of motherhood.

[@chloemichaels6945]

My daughter did this pretty much every night for the first 8 months. She had severe night terrors snd and still woke up through the night multiple times a night until she was 2 years old. She’s 3 and a half now and still has sleep issues. Being a parent is HARD and no one can understand the level stress you go through until they have a baby. It’s the most rewarding wonderful thing you will ever do and the absolute HARDEST ❤

[@baileybraam5499]

“Without the bad, how would we able to fully appreciate the good” I love that so much!! You guys are amazing and are doing a wonderful job with Griffin!!! He’s so adorable 😊

[@danielalexa]

such great words!

[@noamekstein8527]

Before I even start watching the video, just had to share that I am having a pretty hard time these past few months and something about your channel, you guy's relationship and outlook on life puts my mind at ease. I just opened KZbin and was planning on watching your old videos to lift my spirits and saw that you actually just uploaded. So thank you for being so real and kind and just really yourselves; it's silly to think that 2 people all the way across the globe make such an impact on my day to day, but there are days that you do. So thank you and I hope you keep sharing 💓

[@MattandAbby]

Wow! I’m so sorry you’re going through such a hard time right now. I’m so glad the videos are helping you through it! I have no clue what you’re going through, but just know that we’re rooting for you through it all!

[@jessicaphillips3085]

It could be his ears, a plane ride hurts babies ears and they don't want to lie flat as the pressure hurts in his ears. Then overtired babies fight the sleep. Try get him to sleep on you so he's not flat and sound of your heart beat will soothe him. And lots more nursing as sleep regression goes with growth spurt. Hang in there 🥰

[@Sarah-le5vg]

Thank you guys so much for sharing the hard times of parenting as well as the good times. It makes me feel less alone in it. Sometimes influencers make you feel like you’re doing something wrong as a parent when they only share the happy, easy times with their kids ❤️

[@proudmommytoowenandmilo2294]

Great job, parents!!! Honestly, when my oldest son started having hard time sleeping, I tried everything, just like you! What I ended up doing is taking the nap closest to bed time away and tried to keep him awake. It worked and just so you know, this absolutely does get better 😆 🤣 You guys are doing lovely, keep your smiles high 🥰

[@MattandAbby]

Great advice! We’ve found that having a long awake window before bedtime helps a lot as well

[@raeganbosch9204]

@@MattandAbby hi! i loved this vid and the advice is good i did that with my lil boy he's 3 now and it worked wonders for my sleep too.

[@mckenziegentry1636]

@@MattandAbby My baby just went through sleep regression also. He’s a few weeks older than griffin. I learned it’s very important to let your baby learn to self soothe! You can look up ( I like blogs or Pinterest because it’s mothers with the experience of going through this) and find important sleeping habits. In my baby’s case he couldn’t handle any technique except crying it out- it feels devastating in the moment but it got so much better so quickly. He would get worse if I went in to reassure him I’m there and would scream harder and longer. So I got him to the point he was sleepy (try not to nurse him to sleep or about 10-15 minutes before nap or bed) and laid him down and he cried about 30 minutes and then the next time it was 10 and then 5 and then 2 or 3 minutes. It was hard and something I didn’t want to do but he had been sleeping terribly since 3.5 months to 5 months and I decided something was wrong. Just trying to be helpful here! Babies are hard but so amazing and rewarding! But being exhausted isn’t fun when you just want to spend good quality time with your baby!

[@grace_xplr_thelarry]

@@MattandAbby hi

[@PraveenSrJ01]

Congratulations 🎈 on raising 2 children 👦 very well. It would be nearly impossible for me to do.

[@billroberts3864]

Glad you two endured the crying and made some special moments. Cherish the memories. Blessing to you.

[@halezpable]

Hey Matt and Abby! I want to just hop in on here and say yall are amazing parents. I am a single guy and aspire to be a dad someday. Watching your videos that show what it means to be good parents, a good mom and a good dad, sharing the responsibility of taking care of a child is a blessing. Continue to strive to bring that child up! Yall are doing great! I love you guys!

[@alexisgibson5419]

4 month regression took an insane toll on things for us!!!! Mine also had her nights/days mixed up. One thing that helped us was NOT letting her take longer than a 2 hour nap, once she hit 2 hours we would calmly/gently wake her up. On top of that we wouldn’t let her sleep 1 1/2 to 2 hours before bedtime. We would play with her take her outside sing to her, do whatever we had to do to keep her as happy as we could while keeping her awake, within a few days we got her into a rhythm/routine! For us and a lot of people it happens again at 6 months!! Just some tips that helped us with the regression!!

[@sarahlake5937]

Yes I second this! I have 2 under 2 and this is great advice.

[@mommatomany28]

As a moms who's breastfed at times of struggle what I did and what my lactation nurse advised was to nurse nurse nurse. It is a babies way of feeling safe and secure and grows the bond. You guys went to a new very strange place and on top of it all are exhausted. He needed comforted then more then at home. I have 4month old twins now. It's definitely harder the more kids you have. You are very lucky with how much your husband helps out. If you take anymore trips I would advise to nurse if he will.

[@rose13G]

My kids are 5 and 4 (14 months apart). They never cried a lot but they both at the same time has sleep aggression. I felt like a zombie! I already have insomnia and man my emotions were shot when this happened. You guys are doing amazing! 🥰

[@laurajohnson2450]

Just keep pushing through. As a mom with twins, it was like my kids never slept for 2 years straight BUT they are 9 now and it's so worth it! Just love them, pray for them and do the best you can. You guys are great parents!!!!

[@alexia9600]

y’all can truly get through anything! Y’all are such an inspirational couple and I look up to each of y’all! Even thought you have this new baby you continue to post videos and I couldn’t be more thankful!❤🎉❤

[@madisonduggan3024]

So awesome to watch you both continue to grow not only as people, but as parents. Y’all have such a great mindset about life and I love that you share it with all of us. Happy Holidays friends. 🧡

[@gabriellawhite3721]

You guys are doing such a great job with Griffin!! Amazing parenting, we know that Griffin will grow up to be a wonderful kid. And hats off to you for vacationing with him. It takes a lot of patience to do that!! ❤❤

[@rachaelmoore8133]

Matt, you go above and beyond in your parenting! It's crazy to me to see a dad doing EVERYTHING but feed his baby! I am in awe.....

[@lindsayroy9372]

She appears to not do too much!

[@tarathiessen5916]

Breastfeeding is HARD. She’s doing plenty.

[@emilykopacz3133]

I think Matt is the one who like to record what he is doing and not Abby. I’m pretty sure she works her butt off too.

[@lindsayroy9372]

I agree I don’t like to judge, I am purely responding to what they show us and 99% of the time Griffin is in his arms.

[@jamibanks9386]

That’s bullshit. He is doing what a Dad should be doing- being a dad. You would never give that much praise for a mum being a mum. Such a double standard.

[@Natalie-fs8kn]

Matt and Abby are such good parents, it really is encouraging. Love y’all❤️

[@gillianwebb2619]

you guys are so patient❤ you’re doing such a good job with him

[@caitlynmcknight4456]

Matt, your editing keeps getting better and better. You and your editor do a fantastic job with every video. Thanks for sharing so much positivity and joy through them!

[@MattandAbby]

Thank you! I appreciate that so much!

[@katieeliason7055]

I love how optimistic they have been about their life and travel not changing just because they had a baby, but I think they might be starting to see why most people maybe pause a lot of things when they have babies. Matt and Abby, you are great parents and you are doing the best that you know how to do, but you just can't keep doing all the things you used to when you have kids. It just isn't feasible until they get older. You will get through this. Regressions are so hard, but you got this. Give yourself grace and time to get through it. Don't try and force things and end up getting sick because you've exhausted yourselves too much.

[@Jitmommy33]

They’re doing it. 🤷‍♀️

[@katieeliason7055]

@@Jitmommy33 yes, but my point is as even Matt said it wasn't the same and it was probably his worst vacation experience. In the beginning they always said having a baby wasn't going to change their lifestyle, but it is. Their lifestyle has changed regardless if they intended it to or not. People think they just add another family member and life continues as normal, but that's just not how it works

[@Jitmommy33]

@@katieeliason7055 Arguing/debating with you on this subject is futile. Especially if you think you already “know that’s just not how things work.” Have a nice day. 👍😊

[@Avocado_9105]

He’s already four months old he’s so big now❤

[@kyciarelli3847]

First time mom just trying to survive this week with my precious newborn (postpartum day #3)! It’s the most beautiful time of life I have ever been apart of, to finally have my baby in my arms. It’s also challenging in so many ways that no one could prepare me for!

[@emberjaaas]

Good luck!!

[@mary1902]

I loved the first weeks as a new mom!! Enjoy it to the fullest because It’ll never be as intens as now… and I mean in every aspect, the joyful and the challenging ones 😊

[@Crismsu11]

Wow! Y’all are doing a great job! I remember when my son was going through this. I would cry along with him. It is so hard. We actually made the decision to not travel with him until he was much older. We just took couple’s trips until we felt that he could handle it, and he stayed with my parents. However, I have so much respect for those who travel with babies. ❤

[@marieneu264]

Poor baby (and mom and dad). He’s getting older and smarter. Maybe he had FOMO and wanted to know what everybody was doing, or maybe he recognized the change in his surroundings and was scared. You all did a great job!

[@IrisAndie]

You guys are awesome! I support you❤️ Happy 4 months, Griffin!

[@Simone_lovesnetball]

I love how good of parents you are. ❤

[@rickyricardow5609]

We need more videos like that… Your life is not perfect. I love the fact that you guys share with us how challenging It can be go on vacation with a little baby. Good Job guys!!!

[@marlenearellano23]

I feel you both! My daughter went through this like 2 weeks before turning 4 months. She would cry non stop before falling asleep, she wasn’t falling asleep at her normal time, nothing would soothe her, and she stopped taking her pacifier. Honestly just keeping her up for a little longer and then rocking her to sleep would help. She wouldn’t take her bottle either. Till this day she still doesn’t want her pacifier but she is no longer in the regression!🙏🏻 You will get through this but yes have lots of patience!🙏🏻

[@jennifersondej5551]

I have three daughters (when they were babies) my first started sleeping at 2 weeks for 8-10 hours and 4 months she stopped. My second daughter started sleeping 10 hours at 3 months (never went through regression) baby #3 DID NOT SLEEP THROUGH THE NIGHT TILL SHE WAS 3 yrs old. She nursed till she was 22 months old. You are amazing parents and you both handled the sleep regression very well. My husband was a police officer so he needed his sleep but on his days off he helped 100%. He let me take naps etc. He just retired after working 30 yrs as a Lieutenant. My three daughters are now 23,21, & 18.

[@mckennaknapp8040]

My now 14 month old had several sleep regressions like that and they were SO HARD! Postpartum + lack of sleep really takes a toll mentally and, at the time, it felt like we would never come out of it. Looking back now, it feels like it was such a short amount of time and it makes me emotional knowing my son doesn’t need all the snuggles he did when he was a newborn. It’s so hard to enjoy in the moment, but you’ll look back on this in a few short months and miss it. But, I will say, as much as I miss him little, watching him grow and thinking of all the things I’ll be able to do with him as he gets bigger is SO MUCH FUN! Each stage is bittersweet💙

[@Lissy519]

I love that he is an on hands dad. It’s incredible to see a dad so involved. We need more men like that 😅

[@mckennam6234]

happy 4months griffin!! love y’all❤️

[@megaamybug]

You guys are amazing! I love how you guys support each other and compliment each other. Hopefully you’ve full caught up on sleep!

[@teribohl111]

awh i just started it and matt you are such a good dad. ofc abby is too. Abby if you see this, just know i think so highly of you! You both have helped me so much. I love both of you guys!

[@PainsawChenus]

The 4 month regression is SO rough. Hang in there guys! You’re doing great

[@cameroncarter9474]

love you guys and the editing these vlogs are so fun to watch!!

[@miajackson7914]

Matt kissing Griffin and Griffin laughing was the sweetest thing I’ve ever seen ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@courtneytaylor4933]

Good luck everyone! This new mama and full time nanny could use a vacation 😍😍

[@tabethabloemke5953]

Hi, Matt and Abby! I just wanted to say, that I hear you, I SEE you, and I understand how you're feeling! I have a 3 month old son, too, and I know what you're going through. It's not easy! None of it is. But when Griffin looks up at you and smiles, and you see the love and the TRUST in his eyes, it makes all the hard times worth it. You both are great parents. Abby, I see a lot of myself in you. We care SO much and want SO bad to do things right because we love our baby so damn much and can't even fathom doing anything "wrong" for them, so we obsess on doing everything right. We see and pay attention to every single one of our babies cues and know exactly what they want when they want it. It's hard work in the beginning, but being attentive to his every need will make him more confident as time goes on. He will know to be patient and that his needs are going to be met. If that makes any sense ☺️ (I hope it does!). But it's okay to make mistakes! You have to be gentle with yourself and remind yourself that even though you were pregnant with Griffin, he's still his own person and you have to get to know him - by getting to know him, you'll learn his likes/dislikes, etc. But first you'll make mistakes - and it's okay! That's how you learn! As long as you do things with love (which I know you do!), you're never doing anything "wrong". You can't do wrong when what you're doing is done with love. So again, be gentle with yourself. You and your baby are learning together. Griffin is THRIVING! He's happy, he's healthy, he's safe, he's content, he's all the things he should be and then some. You're doing so great, being a mama comes so natural to you (like it did me). Take time for you. Don't feel guilty about taking care of YOU, girl! Whatever that may be that makes you feel good, do it. For me, I NEED to be able to shower/change my clothes daily, and I need a cup of coffee in the morning. If I get those two things, my day is guaranteed to go smoothly. If I DONY get those two things, I'm going to be crabby, lol - and baby's are great at picking up on emotions! If you're sad/anxious/feeling down, Griffin will feel that energy. If you take a few minutes each day to make YOU feel good and decrease YOUR stress, it's going to make Griffin calmer as well, because he'll be sensing and picking up on your calmness. They don't have to be big things.. just find a couple small things that you enjoy and that make you feel more like YOU, and make sure to do them, each day, and don't feel guilty about it!! I can't imagine how hard it would be sharing your lives with strangers and having to hear the nonstop opinions "you should do this" or "you shouldn't do that".. I myself couldn't do it. Even though some of the things probably sting when you read them, or rub you wrong, just remember - YOU. KNOW. BEST. Period. People can say what they think you should or shouldn't do, but YOU are the only one who knows what's BEST. Do not forget that, or lose site (sight? I don't know which one to use, lol!) of that!! Just because something was or wasn't right for someone else or their baby, does NOT mean that it is or isn't right for you and YOUR baby! After all, we are all just humans with our own unique wants and needs, no two of us are the same. Trust your gut and your heart. From one mama of a 3 month old to another, I SEE you and I FEEL what you're feeling. You're doing great. Sending you all the love and hugs!! Griffin is perfect. Seeing your videos makes me laugh, makes me cry, makes me feel all the feelings. Thank you for sharing your life with us. ♥️♥️

[@monika-1315]

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[@tovagrainiman9472]

You guys are amazing 🤩 , I'm literally watching and laughing. I can definitely relate , until you think that he is asleep, then you hear it again. Love watching your videos 😍

[@tianagovan2388]

The 4 month sleep regression SUCKS but I promise it does end! All babies are different but for us, we found feeding him, giving him his favourite thing to play with and putting on a calm movie (his fave was happy feet) helped and we just let him fall asleep on his own. You guys have got this and are doing amazing 🤍👏🏼

[@jasminerancel]

You guys are doing great! I’m on baby number 2 and she is 3 months (one month behind you all) I had my first baby back in 2013 when I was 22 and having a newborn again is like starting over. A huge help I recommend is babywise! It’s a book on how to make sure your baby has the best sleep. Sleep regressions are totally normal and they will continue to develop at different stages of the little ones development due to teething, illness, etc. Stay strong, caffeinated, and patient. 🎉

[@meg5264]

You guys are doing a wonderful job ❤ I remember we thought the sleep regression would never end but I promise it gets better!

[@BoujeeBantams]

Just a friendly suggestion; what saved me was napping with my baby like as in the same times. It allowed me to catch up on some much needed rest and I was so grateful to be able to share this time with my new baby it was like our little time together every day and it felt so great to recharge with my baby. I know it’s always a mad dash to get everything done but if you’re not always feeling your best you can’t always be your best. Y’all are doing fantastic and I hope little man is getting his rest now and y’all are too. I’m a big fan I look forward to your vlogs. Shut out the haters and keep up the great work. Your kid your choices and sending good sleep vibes your way 😮‍💨

[@ankitha.sgorey]

@5:45 Bruh this is totally a suprise seeing both of my favourite KZbinrs r together @thecanfamily and @matt and Abby 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

[@ankitha.sgorey9095]

💞💓

[@Ruby-101]

I love all of your videos! I am sorry you did not get much sleep. I hope you guys have rested since then. I love all these long videos. ❤

[@lifelovefarm]

Poor baby boy!!! He could also be hard to put to sleep because he's in a new place. You guys are great parents you got this!

[@_pandacecelya_]

Honestly I don’t think it was the 4 month sleep regression… that happened to us and my baby when we’ve traveled before. They can tell when they’re in an unfamiliar place. And with all the travel and waking up early, his schedule was way out of wack. I hope he settled back into his normal sleeping routine when you got home!

[@deepwaterbluesky]

Exactly. Perfectly normal on a trip

[@jordandrake7756]

I said that too. What are the odds their baby randomly starts a sleep regression the day the chose to travel. Definitely just not used to a different place and a different routine which is why he progressively slept better is because he got used to his new environment.

[@yasemin7964]

I have a 2 month old and I know how you guys feel those sleepless nights are rough! My son loves to be held and cries when I put him down. You guys are doing great remember these days are temporary he will get older and sleep through the night soon!

[@AMN_7]

Awe y’all are such amazing parents and are doing such an awesome job! I know it can be tough sometimes with the sleep but y’all are killing it!! Y’all are truly wonderful people and great parents♥️

[@jadim8643]

I remember we went through a period when our baby would only sleep in the car seat while being rocked almost violently lol. I had to have her car seat on the floor right next to our bed and the moment she made a peep or about to cry, I'd start rocking it and she would fall right back to sleep. Just had to keep doing it through the nigh but it helped! She's 8 yrs old now 🥰

[@lace1245]

Aww I absolutely love the Cordles! I thought he looked familiar in the parking lot when you showed him 😆 So sorry Griffin had a tough time. Although slight, a time change can also impact babies schedules in a huge way. Hope he adjusts soon and you can all get some much needed rest. Praying for you all and hoping Matt feels better soon!

[@PatrioticMom45]

Sleep regressions are so hard. Bedtime routine is so important. Good luck guys, each one gets much easier. 💙

[@haileygallegos4929]

You are doing so so so well and I am so proud of you guys!

[@dianneblake8101]

As a three time mom let me just say that you are doing an awesome job not getting flustered when your sweet baby wont sleep. Have you tried a Warmie! Its a small stuffed animal that you warm up and us weighted just right to calm the baby down.

[@charlottegalland]

A lot of people don’t like the idea of this (lolz), but when I breastfed my two babies, I would just nurse them to sleep in my bed and then transfer them. They liked the closeness of mama.

[@alexis070]

You guys are just such amazing parents. You handled this so well. ❤️ Hopefully this sleeping regression is over

[@abbygbishop]

I appreciate how you post the challenging things and not only everything good. Thank you for keeping it real!! ❤ Love you guys. You’re doing great as parents

[@JayyandAbby]

YALL ARE SO UNIQUE ❤

[@WanderHQ]

Thank you for staying with us, Matt and Abby! We can't wait to have you stay with us again soon :-)

[@MattandAbby]

Thanks for having us! So excited to stay at another Wander property again soon!

[@WanderHQ]

@@MattandAbby Maybe Wander Vail Valley?!

[@marshahines3626]

@@MattandAbby when can to whiteville NC if you can can you let me know please

[@raeganbosch9204]

@@MattandAbby maybe somewhere in southern md?! that would be awesome plz do a vid to let us know beforehand!

[@CatLife230]

@@MattandAbby maybe do somewhere in ohio?

[@bettywonde3051]

You guys are amazing! I loved this vlog and how genuine it was. With time passing, Griffin will be sleepin on his own!

[@Bellla_kidd]

What I found with my 3 babies who are now 2,4 & 5 yrs old, Is that when they are under 12 months old, they don’t adjust well to holidays, new environments, any bed time routine changes or times can throw them right off and cause them not to sleep at night. They are frightened and unsure what’s going on around them. So for me, I found staying home for the first 12 months of my babies life, sticking with a strict day/night routine was the only answer to preventing sleep regressions. They still happen but less often and not as bad. (At least that worked for my 3) you guys are such good parents and doing really well through it all. Just remember these hard nights don’t last forever and it will pass quickly.

[@ihatebeans29]

You guys are amazing parents❤️

[@dominikedominike8568]

What really helped me doing it solo was having my daughter on a schedule it was very tough but so worth it. Best of luck 🤞

[@rempuiisangma8064]

Taking care of a baby is no joke...I cried almost everyday cause my baby wouldn't sleep through the night. I would hold him and feed him the whole night while my husband snores and have a good sleep. Sometimes we get into fights and I thought the night would never end. Being a first time mom I had to struggle alone most of the time especially during the night.I even had to completely took a break from baking for 6 months. It was challenging but hey I made it and now my baby's about to be one year very soon and I'm so excited.

[@ashley71773]

It’s amazing how we’ve never met but all of us are so invested in this community and growing family. My hubby and I were talking about how one day Griffin will grow up and we won’t see these adorable baby pictures anymore 🥲

[@jarednaiken1518]

Griffin really be giving me baby fever. Only problem is, I literally don't have a relationship and I'm neck deep in my degree🥲🥲🥲🥲Your relationship is also literally the cutest. Like I've always been a single person(by choice) and I've never wanted a relationship, but you guys are so wholesome it makes me want one so bad🤣🤣🤣🤍

[@sophia_429]

You can get these things called blackout curtains and it’s like a blanket that u just stick to the window and when u turn the lights off it’s pitch black and I’ve heard it works well😊

[@emberjaaas]

You helped him btw

[@JJ.tdgj1]

Your son is getting bigger every day and I have been here for 3 years and I love your channel

[@valsmith5809]

Yess yall love the longer videos!!!! Keep it up!

[@fabulous_faith_2078]

love your videos! y'all are the cutest parents!

[@chloemonet]

I love you guys so much you are my KZbin inspirations I hope to have a beautiful family like y’all someday!! ❤❤

[@Ratatouiissecret]

U have made my day I've watched u from the start its so awesome to see Griffen keep it up!!💖💖

[@noellethomson8326]

Love your guy’s videos! Always so excited to watch! And love the new layout of the videos!♥️

[@vondaniel7794]

Btw Abby is very lucky to hv such an amazing supportive husband like you! We need more men like you! Youre a great father. Continue to do what youre already doing! Itll get easier I promise you❤

[@monika-1315]

They're also lucky he doesn't have to go to the regular 8h work every morning, so he is able to help

[@monacarter2490]

I live in Florence, sc and I go to myrtle beach every year during the summer with my family at surf side, and the fact that I’ve been watching y’all for a good while now blows my mind that y’all went to the same places that I’ve grown up going too.

[@MattandAbby]

What?!! That’s so cool!

[@MewsView]

Praying for your sleep. It is so hard to make it through those nights at this age. Unfortunately sleep continues to fluctuate based on different developmental stages, sickness, travel, teething, and who knows what else. Stay strong. You got this. You are a team.

[@ellasauder3820]

Love watching you guys,you guys are amazing. ❤Abby inspires me so much for when I have children. Currently trying ttc and can't wait.

[@Krod277]

Oh yes… I remember the 4 month sleep regression. That was NOT a good time. My baby is almost 9 months now and going through another one this current week… I’m struggling 😅 hats off to you both!

[@lexlscc]

You guys are amazing parents! Happy 4 months to Griffin! Unfortunately, we lost our baby to miscarriage, but watching you guys gives me hope.❤Thank you.

[@lexigarcia4063]

I’m so sorry! Keep trying, and stay strong!

[@Merbella]

So sorry 💔 there's no pain like it. 😢

[@elizabethjenkins5310]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Don’t give up, God is good!

[@johnnyroberts3468]

Okay I’m going to say it again!! Love you both and griffin bunches:) glad I found your KZbin channel it puts a smile on my face for sure! Love the dedication not only for baby but your KZbin videos. Great work!❤

[@funinthesunhawaii7189]

You're a very helpful father and husband! Thank you for being that for your son and wife. Keep up the good work. But those cries are definitely the cries of him just wanting his mama❤️.

[@Hillcountry_Homemaker]

Oof I’m so sorry y’all! The 4 month sleep regression is tough. You feel like you’re going crazy but you’ll get through it!! They normally reset 😆 more power to y’all for doing so much traveling. Maybe taking a break and getting a routine down at home would help with his sleep!

[@ericasherrell]

Hope the sleep regression ends for you soon! I have a 5 month old so I definitely understand. Hang in there guys ❤

[@hestervl7613]

Thanks for sharing! My baby is also going trough the 4 month sleep regression and it has been going on for four weeks... my husband and I are exhausted, but we keep doing our best en giving al the love and trying to stick to her routine. Hugs for everyone who is going trough a difficult time with their baby!

[@anahinaranjo7950]

You guys handled those long nights so well! I literally would cry lol but it does inly last a few days and then everything gets easier! Griffin is beautiful!

[@LucindaPug]

People recommend not travelling (flying, long road trips, staying away from home for too long) unless absolutely necessary with you little one until they are 4-9 months. It can be quite traumatic for them moving around new environments when they are quite small. I understand people don’t want to put their lives on “hold”. Lack of routine can be extremely stressing not only on the baby but also parents. Things like disruptive sleeping, sickness and even anxiety in your baby are things to be aware of when travelling. In no way am I telling you what to do, you are both incredible parents to Griffin. Just shedding some light ❤️

[@maevec3865]

You're not shedding light. They explain in the video about 4 month sleep regression which is real!

[@ls8609]

Y’all are both amazing parents and are so strong! Matt you are such a good dad and Abby is such a good mom! Love yall Edit: Thanks for all the likes ❤️

[@MattandAbby]

You’re so so kind! Thank you!

[@ls8609]

@@MattandAbby Your welcome I love watching y’all and never skip a video!

[@70tt37]

in my opinion, most people who got famous from doing TikTok and YT Shorts, don't do as well when it comes to youtube videos. There are only a few people, including this channel whom I found through yt shorts, that I also enjoy their videos. I really like the way they edit their videos and I hope your family becomes successful along the way 💕

[@rowanhutson13]

Yay I love when you post, can’t wait to watch! ♥️

[@LaMammaDiva]

Totally been in that situation when the baby just cry and cry and won’t sleep. I can’t believe I survived it but that made me to have just one and that’s it. Griffin is the cutest and has the most beautiful smile.