Surviving honour killings: Nina Aouilk shares her harrowing story with Nana Akua

#nanaakua #honourkillings
'I only learned that my life wasn't normal when I got to age 14 and unfortunately was raped by a gang of my fathers friends and himself.'
Abuse survivor and activist Nina Aouilk shares personal details of her childhood and her harrowing story of surviving an honour killing after she attempted to make an escape from her abusive partner.
Keep up to date with the latest news at www.gbnews.com
Twitter: / gbnews
Facebook: / gbnewsonline
Download the GB News app! You can watch GB News on all of your favourite devices and keep up to date with the latest news, analysis, opinion and more.
www.gbnews.com/watch/how-to-w...

[@michaelwilkinson2928]

Honour killing is an oxymoron. There is NOTHING honourable in the abuse and murder of female members of any society.

[@londonslifecoach]

As I say in my TEDx there is no honour in killing kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqiqkoibndOpmrs

[@raghavnamasivayam8706]

Well yes but so is being a degenerate

[@Nique3900]

​@@abduluddin9928Can you share your experience

[@hazelmint6671]

Exactly. Those are some twisted minds.

[@jultolentino7515]

Right,our mother is a woman she should have freedom to live.alhamdulilla

[@teolita]

This is horrible. What "other side of the story"?! We are not in a court room! This is an interview of this brave lady, and she was obviously disturbed by this part. I hope they are in prison?! But the interviewer never asked!!

[@naansophi1111]

Maybe her dad would put the blame for all her broken bones when she was 21 on someone else? Like: ''She fell down the stairs''. Nina's story makes absolute sense, so I believe her, not her evil father and mother, nor their monstrous ''friends''! DNA samples could have been taken from her aborted fetus when she was 14, and that would prove her claim that it belonged to her father or one of his friends. This happened 10 years before DNA was a thing, but if someone had secured DNA evidence, those vile and disgusting people would be utterly exposed! They all deserve to die for what they did to her!!

[@hekuba3738]

I was so moved by her story I've been searching around and every source avoids mentioning anything about the whereabouts of the parents and brother. She says herself in another interview her brother who had also attempted to kill her had also attacked his partner with a hammer and even admitted attacking her to the police.

[@teolita]

@@hekuba3738 tragic story really and it seems like the perpetrators were left free..

[@malcolmditchburn9867]

Its GB news that's why

[@Betty77168]

This is the type of society we are living in where common sense seems to have taken a second place in some people now. for the interviewer to even question that what Nina is telling is not the truth and that there are two sides to the story - I think it's pretty obvious that they did this to her and the police ignored it - shameful - poor woman probably didn't react at that moment but afterwards she must have felt pretty awful.

[@jaiyabyrd4177]

As a Journalist why would you equivocate the father's side of the story when you have the victim their to tell her horrific story❓

[@serenaroseauthentics1391]

The interviewer could have done better

[@crystalparker9117]

@@serenaroseauthentics1391 I cannot. Imagine a less empathetic robot of an interviewer.

[@jaiyabyrd4177]

@@crystalparker9117 Yeah I agree 💯 I've seen several of her interviews and she's usually pretty good but this one made no sense when she stated twice that she didn't have the father to defend himself .

[@anitawaters4745]

I couldn’t believe that I heard that comment!!!!! I paused the video to see if anyone else had picked up on it … How disgusting!!!!!

[@HopefulInterventions]

Exactly! ❤

[@monahurst1838]

As a survivor, I commend you for speaking out! ❤️‍🩹

[@georgia8592]

❤

[@LexFerraro]

❤️‍🩹

[@Jojo-gg6jc]

​@@LexFerraroa😊Aaa1@@a@1111111

[@RestWithin]

What is remarkable is how she went beyond survival to love. She said how she feels love for so many others like herself. She survived death and found her purpose for living, to help others. What an example she is to us all.

[@christineweir7644]

I have no words. Only tears and immense admiration for this brave, brave woman. I cried all the way through this interview. God bless you, you have all my love!

[@naemasufi7588]

yes

[@sORrYiMLaTEwHAtdiDiMiSs.]

There's alot more detail about her 23 year relationship and being homeless

[@brigittedunn7212]

Thank you for this interview, everyone needs to know about this abuse, so very sad 😔

[@londonslifecoach]

The reason I open such wounds is to encourage other victims and survivors to come forward so that they too can live a life that they deserve.

[@kym1160]

Poor Nina 😔..what a harrowing life this lovely beautiful woman has had, I wish her all the very best for the future..she certainly deserves it ❤

[@run2cat4run]

@@joaopedrobaggio4475im sure sex traffic don’t exist

[@joaopedrobaggio4475]

@@run2cat4run Most of the involved in this criminal activity are muslims, for these scums women are just a good.

[@harialti9846]

Why is she saying other story like she doesn’t believe what Nina is saying, how degrading is that. I would’ve walked away, she is so brave and strong to have heard that multiple times and still respond to her with a straight face.

[@Eleas967]

Yes !!t he second time she said it I wanted to throw my phone 🤬

[@captaininspector8898]

@@Eleas967 She is saying things due to legalities probably

[@littlemascara6385]

What a remarkable, horrifying story. I have such respect for this woman.

[@therealpollyanna5846]

When another culture comes here to live, they need to accept our laws. Her father,mother and sons need to be deported. Were they even prosecuted?

[@sylviabaxter265]

Not deported but jailed for attempted murder

[@alyb731]

They should be deported after their sentence, AND the rest of their family.

[@londonslifecoach]

The police let not just me down,but thousands of girls, women and often men down in such situations, I campaign to protect these innocent victims from such neglect from the services alongside their families.

[@therealpollyanna5846]

@@londonslifecoach Thank you for what you do. This male dominant culture that exists in foreign countries is hard to accept, but it should never be happening here, in the UK. Just recently there was a young woman murdered by her uncle because her father wanted her to marry a cousin and she did not want to. She was placed in a home with uncle and grandmother for safety and it was her death sentence. The list is long on just how many women world wide, who have suffered at the very hands of those who should be protected and loved, not oppressed and murdered.

[@therealpollyanna5846]

@@acousticalien Shamima Begum was born here, but the Home Secretary stripped her of her passport and citizenship. Because her parents were born outside of the UK, she can claim citizenship from their country. So if the government can do that, I am sure they can deport someone, even if they were born here. So it isn't can't, it is they could.

[@creatureencounters3897]

What a disrespectful thing to say to Nina!!! Her father isn't there to give his side/account?!?! She is here, telling her story, for your viewers, to raise awareness on this horrific issue, and you say that to her?!?

[@amarnijjer6686]

Agree so disrespectful

[@yorkiesweetpea23]

This host/reporter lady... really, she's got to go. Such a serious painful topic and she made it like it's doubtful. Perhaps she'd do better in a different field. Imagine: a victim is retelling horrific things, and the person listening starts sipping water, not making any eye contact to show she's listening, and nodding saying "yes, yes" while the victim is in the middle of her sentences! Imagine how Nina must have felt; having to sit through this interview with an insensitive interviewer who only cares to get it over with. It really is appalling! this reporter/interviewer 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@jonimcdougall7624]

I Agree. I was taken aback by her insensitivity. She is a horrible interviewer. She was so rushed to get through it like she didn’t really care about this poor woman.

[@OdachiRain]

the presenter is trying to respect that the family might have a different story but at the same time for someone to talk like this you just KNOW shes telling the truth. abuse of asian women is nothing new, theres definitely a cultural problem but of course the men dont want to confront it and the women enjoy controlling the young naive girls in their communities

[@creatureencounters3897]

@@OdachiRain there are more respectful and sensitive ways to ensure the channel doesn't get sued. That was the presenters concern here. Her general interview technique overall was appalling for this type of interview.

[@adrianrouse5148]

This happens in enlightened times. Where a family can kill a daughter for any reason is beyond me. Good luck lass

[@IBTU]

She dishonoured her family and knew the risks

[@MsJackrussell2]

Only sick, warped and highly disturbed individuals would think that "honouring" your family means accepting abuse on a daily basis. Her so-called family are monsters.

[@TaylorTiree]

@@IBTUWhat!!????

[@bethyundt]

@@IBTU 'She dishonoured her family"? How?

[@stevenwoodman1032]

​@@IBTU you've dishonoured your brain 😆

[@technonarg5978]

God bless Nina for all she is trying to do to help others. My heart is broken for what she has had to endure and I pray that she and her children find the love, comfort,and protection that beautiful Nina so clearly deserves. Thank you too Nana, for highlighting her plight and promoting the help she is offering others in similar circumstances, God bless you both.

[@Richard-Cashisking]

'Honour killing' is a grotesque description.The taking of lives seems to come so easily to people from these cultures.

[@joaopedrobaggio4475]

This kind of cutlture deserves no respect, and must end.

[@IBTU]

You have no idea about our culture silly man

[@Richard-Cashisking]

@@IBTU Oh dear,a muslim troll.

[@Inquisitor_Vex]

@@IBTU defend it then. Why are honour killings good?

[@fluffyanne1177]

Not just culture but a religious cult

[@daniellecruz2917]

I pray god blesses this woman immensely. She deserves the best after this ordeal. TALK ABOUT RESILIENCY!!

[@sORrYiMLaTEwHAtdiDiMiSs.]

I think at this stage she's okay with looking after herself.

[@paulaivens8063]

Yes I pray she will know the loving kindness of God our Heavenly Father, and that He will be the Father she never had. That the comfort and love peace of Jesus Christ who will help her in getting through this heartbreaking, harrowing ordeal. God is not a disappointment to those who know and love Him.🌺

[@daniellecruz2917]

@@sORrYiMLaTEwHAtdiDiMiSs. things aren't always in our hands

[@paulaivens8063]

@@daniellecruz2917 If you listen to her broken voice she is deeply wounded and understandably. This kind of hurt will take a lot of help in healing and I know only ‘One’ who can help. As the Bible says “What is impossible for man, is possible with God”.🙏

[@kiinhassan5841]

What a Strong Woman God bless her.

[@Helen-wz2qb]

I have such respect for this lady and the things she has gone through and is still having to go through. May god look over and protect you in your plight to help others who are in the same situation you were and keep bringing this to our attention. This should not be allowed to go unnoticed like it's not happening.

[@isobellickes8543]

The “men” were bad enough in this family but the mother is equally as guilty.

[@londonslifecoach]

This is true and I am through my work as an activist unveiling that women are a huge part of the issue as they often do not help and it’s not always that they are scared but more that they believe in these cultural crimes so they are just as responsible

[@patriciasanderson2171]

Absolutely. They are all guilty as hell. The work you are doing is so important.

[@snsn7251]

She is worse than the men. Vile and wicked.

[@mrsuperger5429]

This is heartbreaking. We know this goes on in Britain, as do the police and politicians, but just like Rotherham and elsewhere, they will say and do nothing.

[@londonslifecoach]

Thank you for acknowledging the issue and the fact that support is needed for those who suffer. Thank you for taking the time to watch this interview

[@janet5820]

Those in government who cover this wickedness up need to be charged and never work in public office again. I feel angry because this beautiful woman went through too much. Bless her heart. I saw the whole video detailing the horrific abuse, I couldn’t reply nor speak about for days until now I see it here, as it really affected me. She is such a beautiful soul, and I’m sure she will be enveloped in love

[@orls9068]

@@londonslifecoachI watched previous your story on Ladbible I think was the channel, I have no words, you are an inspiration and thank you for speaking out, you are so brave Wish you the best in life and stay safe

[@michellerae328]

​@londonslifecoach You are the most beautiful and brave young woman. Your story is incredibly sad and heartbreaking 😢. But you're a true surviver ❤. Sending love and hugs from 🇦🇺 🇦🇺 🎉

[@libertasdemocratiam887]

This really got to me, seeing her struggling to not cry, wow. I feel so angry for her, her parents should have been protecting her and they did that instead. Credit to her for standing up for other, she's taking something truly awful trying to make some good come from it. Amazing lady.

[@naemasufi7588]

yes, hard.

[@londonslifecoach]

Thank you for taking the time to watch this interview as it was created for awareness so that change can be made to help those who most are in need.

[@ShujiGangsta]

Hi Nina, I'm a health professional. Let us know how we could have helped you too please??

[@tobyhart]

When in England, 'culture' such as this has no place. We are a civilized democracy where women's rights are sacrosanct. How dare anyone inflict this inhumane barbarism on anyone. The guilty parties should be deported instantly if proved guilty. Respect and very best wishes to Nina.

[@londonslifecoach]

This type of behaviour doesn’t belong anywhere it’s barbaric and since speaking out I’ve had over 11,000 messages for help not just from my culture but all types of abuse as pain recognises pain

[@patriciasanderson2171]

I think we just find it incredible that this awful abuse goes unseen in the UK. They are very careful to keep it within the four walls. I wish you a peaceful life full of love, needless to say what I would do to your abusers.

[@AJ-il1lm8ph7z]

If you're trying to imply that this is a cultural practice associated with the sub continent then you're gravely mistaken! England has high levels of domestic abuse against women shall we then say its apart of British culture?

[@hemanthathirumaran7654]

Surely it shouldn’t be acceptable anywhere. Also as shameful as her family are how could you deport someone who was born here.

[@RestWithin]

@@AJ-il1lm8ph7zHonour killings and organ harvesting isn’t a thing here in the UK but this lady says in another interview it’s common in her culture. She also says it is a rather loveless and aggressive culture. It would take a lot to transform that type of sadistic mindset.

[@colinlawless5654]

Well done for discussing this, usually ignored by government police and media. Needs further investigation and reporting.

[@londonslifecoach]

I have spoken across the UK At various Police HQ’s including Scotland Yard and awareness is educational which I hope will evoke further understanding on this subject matter

[@Stubborn67]

This is horrifying! Her family should be prosecuted and put away for life! How can anyone do this to a child?!

[@londonslifecoach]

The reason I speak out is to raise awareness. My non profit helps women, girls and some men escape not just honour killings but domestic abuse and child neglect and abuse. The people I have helped have been from ALL cultures. The point here is that these practices exist and must be stopped. No one should have to be subjected to any kind of abuse.

[@mrsTraveller64]

this is what happens when couples make babies that they never even wanted. Abortion should be more common, you don't want babies; abort them. Or don't make them in the first place. And every girl should be taught self-defence, to know how to break the neck of their raper. And then RUN, never come back. Instead of listening to pride-rubbish and gender-pronouncing-bullshit; let's go into these horrible communitys and speak to the girls/women about self-defence!

[@JimmiAlli]

I am so disturbed by these stories. Surely everyone realises in some capacity that everyone has a mother and if there were no girls, there would be no life! Horrendous. Every child needs to be honoured. ❤

[@the8thchurch461]

Religion and it's hatred for women.

[@lasttango7522]

Such a brave young woman who should have been cherished from birth. I can't imagine what this poor girl went through. When I look at my girls I would die for them. This is beyond shocking. And yet we allow the virtue signalling poss to call us racist if we speak out.

[@lukec1146]

So sad. Poor woman.

[@ljiljanawebster359]

This woman is amazing, everyone should be supporting her THE PEOPLE SHE IS TALKING ABOUT ENJOY PRIVILEGES IN THIS COUNTRY BEYOND BELIEF!!! THEY ARE ABOVE THE LAW

[@londonslifecoach]

My objective is to raise awareness as I was let down by those who should have protected me from childhood being my own parents and then the services. I believe people have the power to create change for the benefit of others. So I continue to support those in need whilst carrying out my mission to abolish such practices

[@jujutrini8412]

What a strong woman! It is amazing that she is still alive.

[@ellebee6712]

How utterly shocking, these people are monsters. How could anyone treat their own child like that, and they are lIving in our country, near to me!!

[@blindship5792]

I BLAME THE BRITISH GOVERNMENT FOR THIS!!! FOR HAVING FAILING HER AND LIKE HER!!! I BLAME THE CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES, I BLAME THE SCHOOL TEACHERS FOR NOT BEING ATTENTIVE TO ABUSE!!!

[@manuelajager8517]

Really? They will label you a racist and all indians will stick together against you. Good luck to be able to intervine.

[@johnsradios484]

I blame the parents and culture that allows and promotes this too!

[@bobababy6089]

You dont blame the parents?

[@blindship5792]

@@johnsradios484 - both are too OBVIOUS to be stated!

[@davids2cents594]

why blame the gov? when she escaped she didnt want to even go to the police she wanted to go to a friends house

[@Souxie123]

The father… !!! What a horrible family. Shame on these rapists/murderers ! Their newborns should be placed immediately in child care & parents deported. And maybe remove the mother’s womb. These ppl don’t deserve to have any actual decent life. It’s beyond tragic.

[@mrsTraveller64]

forced abortions would be a solution too.

[@chichikov617]

why sterilise the mother only?

[@ukrena]

Shocking .

[@TaylorTiree]

What an absolutely horrific story. Thank you Nina for speaking out, I just don’t know how you managed to survive. I’m glad you have three beautiful children and I wish you well for the future. I’m so sorry you had to go through all that horrific abuse.😢

[@londonslifecoach]

I hoped to give victims a voice, let them know that they are not alone and to give them a charity to go to that really understands and cares.

[@digitd4663]

What a brave beautiful lady, stay strong. So this is further enrichment of our fair land. God help us. No mother who loves her children would let this happen. Believe the sisters of Southall help these young women

[@Kiran_London]

Sadly this does happen everywhere in the World! It is 2023 and this still goes on. It is disgusting and sickening.

[@eleanorcrawford9978]

Nina your story fills me with sadness to hear what your own parents done to you. I loath cultures like the one you grew up in where women are treated as less than nothing. What I find more disturbing is the treatment they receive from other women. Cultures who treat women in this manner we know is by making up man made rules and passing them off as a religion our Lord Jesus, who never ever treated women women with such cruelty and disrespect. The respect these men take is false they will answer for their treatment of women one day. They are frightened little men who can’t see that what they do goes against the teachings of God. Their just a gang of thugs there’s nothing spiritual about these men or women who can treat their own daughters like slaves shame on them. Thank you for telling us your story Nina sadly it’s not the first time I have heard this that’s why I can’t abide any culture or false religion that treat women so badly. May God guide you in your quest to help others who are being brutalised by these awful monstrous thugs in your community 🙏God bless you Nina.

[@londonslifecoach]

Thank you Eleanor for your kind words and shared faith

[@user-dn6yh8jr1o]

she wasnt muslim -

[@carmelhelen5102]

Nina, you are amazing, the men in your life were cowards and bullies, I admire your courage and strenght, you are relevant❤❤❤❤NZ

[@londonslifecoach]

Thank you for watching it was created for awareness and despite it being so painful it’s made with the intention that other victims come forward to escape my old life and find freedom themselves

[@markjones6564]

What a Beautiful strong Lady She is,sounds like Her family was more like a cult than people who were meant take care of Her😤There are far too many do gooders in this country!!! Their culture does not belong in Britain, sadly saying this I could be classed as a racist😔

[@markjones6564]

It would break My heart if a CULT did harm to My Family, should My Heart be broken I would seek Justice 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

[@lasttango7522]

@@markjones6564 So would I mark. Agree 100%

[@Kaneisback2]

Scary to think how many tens of thousands are going through this in the UK now. Need to work better on integration and values.

[@ChampChamp2024]

Have you ever seen a Muslim lady she won’t even look at another man or even speak to you absolutely terrified they are

[@user-dn6yh8jr1o]

@@ChampChamp2024 this lady in the video wasnt muslim so how do you guys still manage to bring islam-we arent terrified of u probably wish we were tho

[@ChampChamp2024]

@@user-dn6yh8jr1o lol never said you’re terrified of white Christian’s, you’re terrified of the beating you’ll get later on at home for looking at another man. Why would I want women terrified of me the Muslim women are beautiful.

[@Inge-99]

​@@user-dn6yh8jr1oBecause muslims/muslim countries excell in stuff like this.

[@lindareidy2091]

This young lady is extremely brave for standing up for herself and others too. 👏

[@londonslifecoach]

I believe that ALL humans deserve the basic human rights of freedom

[@deborah9278]

Heartfelt sympathy to this lovely lady for all the cruelty she has experienced just for being female… I hope she finds peace and happiness for the remainder of her life ❤🙏

[@lorrifrench4460]

My heart breaks thinking what she endured . She is such a courageous woman . Thank you Nana , for having Nina, on to share her ordeal. Something needs to be done to stop this and prosecute her parents and the brothers . Dear Lord please bless & wrap your loving protective arms around Nina & her children , and bless her for trying to help other survivors & who are suffering . In the name of Jesus, Amen 🙏❤️

[@londonslifecoach]

My focus now is to help those who are suffering in silence and do not understand that freedom is just on the other side of fear.

[@susanhendren8079]

Why come to a western country going to school and learning the culture,I feel really sorry for this lady and other women,who live in this atmosphere of all the people to protect these women,there parents and brothers let her down and didn't care disgusting no one deserves this,if this is the way you want to treat your daughters,and live to your culture return back to we're you come from.Your welcomed in this country but a lot choose not to integrate with westerners.

[@purplehaze8557]

They don't come to the west to integrate.

[@johncollins3391]

They only want the bits they want.

[@ChampChamp2024]

The women are absolutely terrified to, that’s why they don’t try to integrate cause of this I seen one couple months ago a uncle killed his niece in a honour killing cause she wouldn’t marry his daughter her (cousin) he was on video Dumped her body out of his car in daylight in a allotment.

[@marvelstarwarsgeek1511]

My god I think I have problems and difficulties in life and then you listen to this brave , strong , amazing Lady tell her horrific story and makes you realise my problems are incredibly insignificant , Nina you are amazing a truly brave inspiration .

[@juliechow9756]

Thank you Nana for bringing this story today. My arms are covered in goose bumps hearing this shocking story of the life of this beautiful strong lady. I have heard of these types of killings before and it saddens me that women in this day and age are still treated so mercilessly. Nina, thank you for your strength and hard work and hopefully more women will reach out to you for help.

[@brocktoon8]

WHY are her parents not in jail??????????

[@londonslifecoach]

The laws in the UK don’t help victims of such crimes but I’m seeking justice 🙏🏼

[@tonyswife13]

The interviewer is terrible at her job. Why would she say the the rapist isn't there to defend himself! Are you kidding me.

[@naansophi1111]

Maybe her dad would put the blame for all her broken bones when she was 21 on someone else? Like: ''She fell down the stairs''. Nina's story makes absolute sense, so I believe her, not her evil father and mother, nor their monstrous ''friends''! DNA samples could have been taken from her aborted fetus when she was 14, and that would prove her claim that it belonged to her father or one of his friends. This happened 10 years before DNA was a thing, but if someone had secured DNA evidence, those vile and disgusting people would be utterly exposed! They all deserve to die for what they did to her!!

[@snsn7251]

Exactly! She and other presenters on this channel like to behave big and brave only to attack Harry and Meghan but they cant say shit about muslims etc doing these wicked acts. She almost is on the verge of saying the women is lying.

[@KS-nf6sb]

@@snsn7251Nina grew up Sikh. Not Muslim.

[@constancehenry4600]

Why is she always saying these people are not here to say their own side of the story. That's not nice at all

[@patriciasanderson2171]

No, must be a legal necessity. 🤢. It’s pretty vile though.

[@bluemoon5662]

Sometimes I wonder if the mothers, who should be protective of their daughters, in some cases, are just plain jealous of their daughters.

[@annegreengables6367]

Mothers from these toxic cultures perpetuate the abuse that they suffered onto their own daughters.

[@londonslifecoach]

It’s true that women of such communities are allowing such crimes to be committed by their silence and often cohesive manipulative actions

[@domitilla10_-]

Politicians will NEVER address this problem, because they are AFRAID of the Islamists. How do you broach this topic when you have muslim men or maybe women sitting next to you? When those people are voted into parliament in England, Canada and wherever, they will NEVER stand up in the house and SAY this is WRONG. Perhaps they themselves do the same thing.

[@johnathanrowley2707]

Sadly the police are useless ,I got assaulted although I'm male they treated me the same like I didn't exist , the only time police will do something is once you have been sadly killed ,this needs highlighting and we need more independent organisations that protects victims of assault etc

[@user-dn6yh8jr1o]

her family were non pracising sikhs but ok bring islam into it -if it makes u feel better the same was found in ireland a whole family raping grandchildren but its ok il say its ur culture

[@ummihanapi7044]

Islamists? You are so confused.

[@domitilla10_-]

@@ummihanapi7044 *** What exactly are you trying to say. You are not making any sense. I am not surprised that you are unable to express yourself.

[@AJ-il1lm8ph7z]

NINA is from a punjabi Indian family and judging by her name and background she comes from a SIKH or HINDU family! She is NOT a Muslim you Islam hater!!! At least do some basic research before venting out lies and discriminating things about a certain faith you islamophobic!! Listen to what she said before busting your ass on a public platform!!

[@katamadordelvalle7972]

Maintaining "impartiality" by being incredibly insensitive is not the way to do so. Shame on the interviewer. Disgusting.

[@User_Happy35]

How is it insensitive to say we don't have the accuser's side of the events? I'd expect an impartial journalist to admit that.

[@JR-sp4co]

The interviewer needs to stop repeating "they are not here to tell their side of the story"! We know abuse is prevalent in the Muslim culture. Her family would simply deny the accusations. She's a survivor and a brave woman for speaking out .

[@mindyourbizok]

I agree! I don't like the interviewer. She doesn't speak clearly.

[@Worldwide-News]

Haha, she's an Indian and belongs to the Sikh community! Why are you so obsessed with Muslims??? Weirdo!

[@KS-nf6sb]

She grew up Sikh not Muslim.

[@cslattfri]

OMG this reporter. WTF? "Were you sad?" "Can you give me details but not too much because it's daytime." Holy smokes.... This woman and her story deserved better than this interview. Honestly, WERE YOU SAD? What do you think?

[@creatureencounters3897]

Agree. Awful interviewer.

[@User_Happy35]

She said she was sexually abused. Obviously, they didn't want to have to edit out graphic details. So many people overreacting in the comments.

[@jeanmitchell5834]

Yes indeed shocking interviewer

[@hermitpermit2553]

THIS woman is a "modern"/asian sufragette - the uk must put more spotlight on these cultural issues to encourage change. We must show how much shame you bring on yourself and commuinity with this behaviour and that uk society will not permit it. This woman is powerful x

[@londonslifecoach]

Unfortunately survivors tend not to speak out as by speaking out you become a target and are then are threatened with serious consequences. My purpose to speak is to spread awareness for change and to let those who suffer at the hands of fear and to let them know that they too can be free to live their life as they choose

[@MT-wm4iz]

​@@londonslifecoach❤🙏

[@SaltyMomas]

God Bless You Beautiful Child of God✌🏼🤍🙏🏼🕊💥🤟🏼✊🏼. Your Definitely living Ruth life So Proud of You Dear Girl❤

[@sids48]

It shouldn't even be a topic in England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

[@londonslifecoach]

It’s shouldn’t be a topic anywhere in the world should it?

[@user-dn6yh8jr1o]

she wasnt muslim sorry to burst ur bubble if anything all this stereotyping and hate comments like yours are more oppressing than what anyone else has been done to me

[@sids48]

@@user-dn6yh8jr1o who mentioned Muslim? Any 3rd world backward idealogy shouldn't be a topic in England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

[@littleamy6646]

Omg I want to give this woman a hug 😢

[@gingersue8514]

Nina to hear the trauma you have known throughout your life is so tragic. You have been failed on so many levels. To be inspired to now reach out to others to help try and prevent this cycle of horror and terror …..takes such strength. I respect and admire you. Your spirit shines through. No person should ever have to suffer what you endured. I am sending you love and the biggest hug 💯💜💜💜

[@mystrength5640]

You are so brave., God Bless you..!

[@lynn605]

Nina, you are such a beautiful, strong young woman, and my heart breaks for you having to experience the horrors you've gone through. Be well and happy, and stay safe, you are amazing.

[@londonslifecoach]

Having faced death I am grateful for the life I have 🙏🏼

[@ivym8029]

I just want to cuddle her & mother her. This has been so hard to hear i have a lump in my throat. Poor angel you are so Strong 😢

[@vincentblack7467]

My heart bleeds of this young lady ! But this is what we are letting into our country , the 3rd world.!!!

[@ellebee6712]

@Lou Smith more like the 1980s/1990s judging by her age, she can’t be more than 50.

[@sandrafinbar]

@Lou Smith don't you think it goes on now ? Probably more than ever !

[@londonslifecoach]

@Lou Smith this happened to me in the 80’s and to my sister in 2015. I’ve had over 11,000 messages starting with the word “help” from young girls,women and men from ALL cultures asking for help as they have suffered from some form of abuse. I’ve had lots of attempted honour killings not just in the UK but globally. It’s still a huge issue🙏🏼

[@londonslifecoach]

@Lou Smith despite being educated they FEAR the consequences of speaking out so don’t always run away, speak up or stand up to those. who control.

[@acousticalien]

There are degenerate evil people in every country on earth. Stop saying ridiculous stuff

[@KevinArdala01]

Abuse, forced marriage and "honour killings" should have a national review by the government. This story is tragic but quite predictable also. I've always wondered how many girls are taken out of the country and never come back, it needs looking into. Heartbreaking!

[@londonslifecoach]

My half sister was abducted and taken to India she was British born with a Polish mother. The police couldn’t bring her back or find her and she is still missing. 100’s of 1000’s of young girls are taken abroad and killed, forced into child marriages or sold which is an act against human rights in itself

[@Annsunshine30]

Omg., by far the most shocking story I`ve ever heard!! Thank you for telling it to us, everyong needs to know about this! And soo good to hear that you survived, and are living a good life now! Please keep informing everyone about what is going on, this is soooo important! Lots of love !! xxx

[@lynnomara7652]

Thank you for telling your story and having courage to help others.

[@sh.4409]

It’s sad and it’s sickening we have allowed people with this mentality in to our country.

[@SheerMagnetismDarling007]

*This is why we don’t want the West to be flooded with non European immigrants.* I do hope this woman will be ok

[@hrtdinasaurette3020]

Thank you both for shining a light into this dark, dark corner. ❤

[@John-sd5he]

Brave brave woman 🙏🏻

[@lillab6338]

Thx for being brave and share your story. ❤❤❤

[@hayleydoherty9557]

I met 2 women 1 in a refuge and 1 when i worked in a hospital. The horrendous stories they told. Its so sad this happened and still happens 😢😢 brave woman xx

[@anneanne6077]

This is horrific cultures like this should not be allowed to hang onto their female babies as soon as a female babies born it should be taken away from these cultures and raised in a proper culture where they get freedom and rights I've always believed that cultures like hers should not be allowed to keep female babies SOMETHING SHOULD BE DONE

[@user-dn6yh8jr1o]

the same used to happen to girls in england time ago-if all your going to take from this video is just a way to propagate your own bias then you clearly didnt take it very well - so using ur logic when rape and murder happens by white english people ill say that its ur culture too right.

[@gracewright7938]

Cannot say the disdain I have for her family for what they did to her.

[@peaceplis]

thanks for story. felt her pain

[@Carla39894]

Why doesn't the UK lawmakers do something???

[@karenbuzan6034]

Nina is very brave for bringing awareness to these tragedies. Hopefully this will bring change. These women need to have a safe place to go and to know that they have people to help them and that they are not alone.

[@londonslifecoach]

I have created a network of reliable honest non profits and with my own we work together to save victims of gender based violence. My non profit organisation helps anyone who has suffered from abuse so that they too may discover life is worth living 🙏🏼

[@karenbuzan6034]

That's amazing. I hope all goes well. People need hope in this ever changing, violent world we live in. You should send a letter to archewell and ask for assistance as meghan claims she is so advocate for women's rights. Your charity is more than deserving.

[@stella9624]

I don't understand why hospital staff didn't want to deal with her, from what she said. Attempted honour killing is attempted murder. What is the difference between that and any other attempt on a person's life?

[@londonslifecoach]

They should have taken safeguarding actions with my case but as it’s cultural I was treated very differently. Regardless of where my parents are from I am born in the UK and was suffering so would have appreciated being treated with some care and love.

[@stella9624]

@@londonslifecoach Absolutely right. It is outrageous and wrong that people who took the Hippocratic oath treated you differently to how they would otherwise have responded to any battered young girl in their care. I'm sorry you suffered the way you did and I pray that God blesses you with abundance of love, health, fulfilment and happiness now that these hideous chapters of your life are behind you❤️✨️

[@johnathanrowley2707]

Sadly to say our NHS,police and emergency services are broken ,you can report it but there's nothing they will do as it's hard work for them ,I've been assulted,stalked and harassed but I was told that it's not serious enough

[@bumblebee8416]

Thank you, Nina, for your tremendous courage in speaking out about this kind of abuse. I wish you great success in the work you're currently doing to help others.

[@janemartin1579]

What a bloody shame 😢 this heartbreaking 😭 how can this even happen let alone her in the UK !! God I hope they've all paid for what this beautiful woman has had to endure 😢💔

[@johngaller278]

Ugh. How can people do this to their own children? Heinous. Shes beautiful and I hope one day shes able to get beyond all of this. Her story angers me to no end.

[@Evie3331]

You are an amazingly brave and caring woman. Thank you for speaking out and for trying to help others. Women like you should be honoured in our society, in fact all women should be respected and treated with dignity. Keep speaking out and take care.

[@alanfox1309]

That was truly heartbreaking.

[@sume6103]

Nina is an amazing women with so much courage. Her story is painful to hear. I am so glad she found her voice and she is shedding light on abuse and killing that is so prevalent in certain cultures. I really hope she finds a loving partner and lives a happy and a fulfilling life.

[@catherinehernandez4761]

Nina you are a very strong woman cant believe what you have been through. Thanks for telling your story . Wishing you well

[@mollieholiday3379]

God bless you. Your courage is inspirational.

[@londonslifecoach]

I have taken the cards dealt to me and decided to be a better person.

[@sherrymoore687]

Please let us know more about her story is she ok ? This is so hurtful to hear i can't imagine your own father raping you ,i wish i knew her or live next to her when all this was happening i would have help her get away from these evil people, that hurt her i can feel her pain in her voice ,😢 one time this new couple got married my step father married them she was really young same age as me 14 at the time i thought it was absolutely wrong he was 30 yrs old ,i said to the girl you shouldn't marry this man you are to young ,plus she was pregnant,i thought this was sick, i said to my stepdad this marriage would never last ,it didn't one day the girl ran away to our home he came looking for her, my wasn't home she told me he would beat her up punch her hit her, he walk into one of our rooms told her to come here like speaking to child ,she stood behind me scared i told him get out of this room he tried to pull her , he then tried to hit her by moving to the side of me i moved again, i said if you want to get pass her go through me , see i was the apple of my stepdad eye so i know if he tried anything my stepdad, would take him out cos he was a huge man ..lets know about her story Nana

[@lilylily9272]

The news reporter is insensitive to an abuse victim “well your father’s not here to tell his side” 😞. The first rule to listen to an abuse victim is “””NOT JUDGE AND JUST LISTEN “”” 😢

[@anitarobertshaw1170]

Huge admaration and respect for this very brave woman. All the very best to you.

[@Holly-zp5fu]

Everyone, please pray for this brave wonderful woman.

[@parmindersingh2888]

I,m 64 years old from the same culture and I feel ashamed about what has happened to this intelligent and articulate girl. Where were her brothers at the time of rape? Didn’t they or the neighbours hear the cries and screams of a 14 year old virgin being violently gang raped? Is there another side to the story? There are weird and abhorrent families in every culture.

[@naansophi1111]

The gang-rape happened in 1984. She said that one brother was 7 years older than her, and she was considered to be the ''curse'' ending the birth of boys in her family, so they were all older than her judging from that statement. She was 14 when she was violated sexually, so one brother was 21, and the others brothers were probably also out of the house as they were not considered to be ''servants''. Her mother was in the house, but still did not come to her aid! It is outrageous that such filth as her father, his ''friends'', brothers and father-in law still exist in this world, walking freely among us! We certainly do not want to have them live off of our tax money in jail. It is a possibility for these demons to commit such atrocities again as long as they live, so the only just solution is to kill them! Her father and brothers tried to kill her when she was 21, in 1991.

[@mrsTraveller64]

her brothers probably couldn't care less, I am sure they were busy learning to rape while watching their father doing it to their sister. I hope they all have horrible lifes.

[@Natttttttttt]

A brother took part in it

[@twinkle6156]

Nina, another great interview, such a brave lady I don’t understand how a father can treat a daughter so badly and her mother stand by. They should be locked up and the keys thrown away

[@sandrafarrall9719]

WOW what an amazing lady an Angel sent from heaven God Bless and keep her safe 😇🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@pinktulipwoman4212]

❤ for Nina, a living Angel!

[@carmenbenitez141]

Never doubt a woman with a story like this one! There is no way a mind could make all this madness up. I could feel how Nina felt hurt but the interviewer’s commitment of “those people not being here to tell their side”. 😢

[@imaanhussain5198]

You are an incredibly brave woman, whose light is shining very bright. From all of your story, the hardest part to understand is when you’ve been told your ugly. I look at you and see one of the most physically beautiful women I’ve seen but your soul has a beauty I don’t have words for ❤. I have so much love for you right now, your strength is so admirable. You’re a true hero. Our communities can be disgustingly vile and love degrading others, but it’s their own filth inside them that they project onto others.

[@darkprintsart]

Sending You Love ❤ strong brave woman

[@yryalam7874]

It is ridiculous of the interviewer to keep saying 'the abusers are not here to tell their side of the story'! This is disrespectful and plain stupid.

[@mejustme7914]

I noticed that too!!!!!

[@AJ-il1lm8ph7z]

It is not disrespectful whatsoever! It is how the law works! This is her side and there's always two sides to a story and its unfair not to hear the other side! These are mere allegations until proven otherwise. We have a legal system in place and such cases are taken seriously so it's surprising how not a single person not even from the hospital raised concerns? She would have life changing damages done to her body if what she said is true with the gang rape she suffered viciously. I've heard of young women (she said she was 14) who die of internal injuries due to the nature of rape. So there's a lot of questions to be answered.

[@grandma460]

100%

[@respect8312]

It's absolutely heart breaking

[@londonslifecoach]

Thank you for watching it was created for awareness and despite it being so painful it’s made with the intention that other victims come forward to escape my old life and find freedom themselves

[@kathynicholson103]

Dear lady, wishing you healing, comfort and peace. May God protect you as you speak out against this wickedness and depravity. You are the truly " honorable" one.

[@londonslifecoach]

Thank you Kathy I am very well living a life of self love and freedom. Having found this I want to do all I can to help those still struggling and suffering at the hands of those who should protect them.

[@chrissieng8146]

Nina, you are an amazing woman. I am glad you survive and thrive, to share with us some of your life stories. As the youngest daughter of 8 children, my sisters and I were loved by my parents, especially by my Chinese, uneducated father. The daughters were never made to feel less than the sons, all given education to our abilities, even though we were dirt poor. We have been really blessed. I wish you are the very best, you certainly deserve it, after all that you have been through and what you are doing now.

[@petercooksey5113]

That is a sad story and Nina is such a brave lady. Surely this should not be happening in England or anywhere. Her father should be hanged

[@londonslifecoach]

It’s a Worldwide issue and I do not want it to continue the reason I campaign is to raise awareness as that in itself can save lives and by me standing up to those who condone such behaviour I hope in time other survivors will do as well. The power of fear can be overcome with love and support. We all deserve that

[@michaelnewzealand1888]

@@londonslifecoachYou are doing a wonderful and brave job. It was unbelievable what you went through and my heart absolutely broke when I heard your story. Keep sharing and don't let anyone silence you. I pray that you continue to heal and may the good Lord protect you from anyone and everyone. Your forgiveness is so admirable. But also justice should be done for you and all those who suffer this kind of horrific abuse. I am so sorry for what they did and the failure of those who didn't help you or treated you poorly. You deserve to be treated like a princess to make up for your lost childhood.

[@sosoo000]

There are not the words to describe how horrendous this story is and what an amazing, beautiful and courageous woman Nina is. A word on the dog too, I have heard this before, another terrible case of a foster girl who was abused said her only comfort was the house Labrador.