How to speak to someone, without hurting them? | Non Violent communication | The Book Show

[@ramanushapoopalaratnam1476]

What a sweet surpice Ananthy!I am a certified trainer in Nonviolent Communication from Sri lanka. Your review is so clear and intersting. It is a life changing process. Nonviolent Communication (NVC) is more than a communication. We did lots of projects to heal and connect in war and conflict in sri lanka. It is not not communication to impress, but to connect with people. Thank you 🙏🏾💐

[@mohanaprasath7198]

do you train in srilanka?

[@happymind_venum]

12:22 1)Observe without judgement 2)Identify our feeling by naming 3)What is our need ( in this conversation or in this movement) 4)That how we are communicating to others (requesting ) Yes crt crt sis 14:46 14:52 15:02 Take responsibility for ur emotions. Like other communications books: 15:46 How to talk to anyone How to talk like your kids will listen Five love languages How to win and influence people Emotional intelligence 15:46

[@balaaraja5408]

கோவபடுத்தல் என்பதும் ஒருவகையான கற்றல் குறைபாடு... But ரவுதிறம் பழகு என்பது நம் உரிமையை மீட்டெடுப்பதற்கும்.. சர்வாதிகாரதிகாரத்தை தடுப்பதற்கும்

[@Gayathriii2004]

Wow great ananthi! I connect all my life with this book. Till now I never requested people to do something I like. I always demand things and order them to do. If they weren't ready to do it I would never hesitate to leave them. But now I really feel it wrong. Firstly I have to request them to do so. If I do so I think half of my problems with people will go away.

[@jejoantony]

I feel its important to emphasize on rich and powerful but we had to be mindful coz we will be in receiving end. It's important not to begin with the judgment but should not be hesitate to step back to keep our mind in peace

[@ashwiniist]

I want to start a book review channel just like yours. You are my inspiration ❤

[@happymind_venum]

Super sis 😊 Just start it go a head sis All the best 😊

[@ramisbooksummary]

Yes,please do start...All the best wishes

[@davinetirou4767]

Great idea ! You should do it 😉 Remember just the first step is hard ... Once you start you are gonna rock it 💪 Be confident !

[@amirdhag2974]

(Heartfulness) Daaji's highly recommended book. Thank you, Ananthi❤

[@ramisbooksummary]

Nice to see English Book Summaries here again ...Keep doing more

[@Paadasaalai]

Right time and right suggestion by you! Keep up the good work!

[@ajith9262]

Mam .....pls don't take mind .....since your frist video to still now ......your looking is very impressive ....I like you mam😊.....!!!

[@SumaiyyaaFathimaa]

Ur my inspiration sister♥️♥️♥️

[@askicrafts]

15:23 Marshall B.Rosenberg dance super ❤

[@e3EnglishInstituteSalem]

You are an apple of my eye, ANANTHI. Keep rocking ! Best wishes ma.

[@vaishnavisundar3712]

After seeing this video can't wait to read this book and finally I bought it today and happily gng to read this book from today onwards thank you so much for this book review ❤

[@duraimurugan7239]

Yaarunga Neenga .ivolo speech continued...😊💐💐💐👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

[@VigneshVicky-gf4sf]

I like ur speech...unka speech and contend is very good...i change step by step...bcoz i realize my fault....thanking you...

[@devianugraga3496]

you''re the constant voice i hear on my cozy days and me spending my time .some sundays are started with you and you''re speakings are my new thoughts . Thanks for that❤❤❤❤💘💘😁😁😁😍😍😍😍☺☺☺☺

[@chandrasekharneelakandan390]

Also put counterpart of the video , how not to get hurt when someone is trying to hurt us knowingly /unknowingly .

[@prathiba0505]

Wow Ananthi.. I'm already a great fan of your book presentations. Now it's the very right time, you shared this content in your own nature style. It's really going to help me, as I'm approaching my management for promotion. I was just thinking how to make it happen with proper words. Great to hear from you. You are living in ikigai. Yes that's the first content I listened. God Bless You. Keep up the good work 💪

[@rajeswarynarasimman3728]

A much needed video

[@anandrooban998]

I ordered this book l trust you 😊 Reading any book after your suggestion is like watching a Tamil dubbed English movie 😂

[@madhumita8149]

I was looking for such a book for very long time sis 😊😊😊 very happy to find the right one

[@SmellofSelfishness]

Good video. Thanks Aunty

[@secretgarden5537]

See if the opposite people are selfish, they will definitely get angry. They will not accept however you are communicating

[@balasandhyasl8029]

Dearest Ananthi mam,you are a wonderful story teller and i would like to watch all your videos..kudos.Regarding this nvc book,would like to share a suggestion,nvc same book translation is done by Mr.sadhasivam in tamil and it is available i believe for tamil readers...keep it up Anandhi mam

[@sudharsansachin]

@balasadhyasl8029 Can you share the book details if any...where it is available?

[@balasandhyasl8029]

Mam .may I have your mail ID.will share the details. Thank you

[@vaniprasananathan6651]

Good video 🫶🏼 also please make a count on the word “some where “ 😂

[@afrinfathima5405]

Somewhere is anywhere in this videos 😂✌️

[@SudhaSudha-ni9dh]

They shouldn't hurt me first,bcoz im running running ttierd for 21 yrs

[@ABHISHEK-iw6wn]

The only thing which i wish i dont have in my life rn is having u as my own elder sister 😢

[@jagadeeshsri201]

Similarly like courage to be happy book please review that book too.

[@bharanis8731]

Hi Ananthi, A suggestion to ur way of communication , Find a word alternate to somewheree Just a thought Hope u wont mind it negatively

[@macharlaprakash2706]

Hi ma'am . I am from Hyderabad ( Telugu) but I like the channel very much. I would like to go through the Becoming Supernatural by Joe Dispenza . It is more than a medicine. I request you to recommend this book if you like it.

[@rekhaannadurai7976]

Am telling the same but eventhough it's create a problem

[@duraimurugan7239]

Mam..oru request,..Neenga opposite la oru person interview yoda... Speech pannum podhu..nalla absorption agudhum.. Neenga own na pesum podhu... Some sila idathula break down agudhu...😢😢

[@C.Aishwarya-nj3pd]

Fish book review podunga sis

[@sudharaotharkeswar6298]

Could you please show the book name clearly?

[@kalaimuthu10]

❤

[@vinothanbu7196]

Na unga video maximum ella pakura but ethum enku puryala its meen understand pana mutyala ethuva irunthalum 😢na naraya learn pananum nu nanaikura but mutyala😢

[@muthu1040]

Book review akka Spoken English akka vaga mariya tharunam 😂

[@ravidhandapani5908]

உங்கூடவே இருப்பேன் ஆனால் புலம்பிக்கேட்டே இருப்பேன் அதானம்மா...சொல்லற

[@haripriya8957]

Actually na oru book half mudichuruka. Aana entha break vitutu vera book start pannanum nu thonuthu. Aana first padicha book oda story maraka koodathu ena pandrathu I'm 18

[@vasanth5535]

Oru book ah full ah mudichituthan inoru book padikanum nu illa. Athu unga virupam than. But athu marakama irukanumna first athu ungaluku pudicha subject la ulla book ah irukanum. Apdi illa intha book complicated ah iruku enaku pudikatha subject eventhough atha naa mudikanum niyabagam vachikanum apdina Oru, oru chapter mudikumbothu atha recollect pani yosichi parunga or notes eduthukonga. Easy ah irukum! Naanum ipo parallel ah 3 booka padichitu iruken. Ana oru novel, oru non fiction and oru short story collection. So ithellam different type of jouner ngrathala enaku easy ah vum iruku.

[@haripriya8957]

@@vasanth5535 ooh thankyou ❤️

[@KfilmsVarun]

Violence ah namma kita pesina epadi reply pandrathu

[@adhityanpazhanivelu9688]

❤ 😍👌🏻👍🏻🙏🏻

[@suriyanarayananr9652]

Anandi.. aniyaayam pannuravanuku avana question panna pidikadu neega yeppadi question pannirundalum seri.. instead of focusing on the issue and resolve he keeps manipulating it and makes you feel guilty if you are empathetic and introspective so that you ask sorry and he gains control over the situation by guilt tripping you idellam evil people ku sadarnam..@psycho.. fault is always on others appadi thaana..?

[@shndilruk2201]

Ethana somewhere?😂❤😅

[@drenchedin_music]

Idha sollumbodhe neenga hard da solreenga madam 😂

[@UmaRani-zp5lb]

Mam, 1. NARCISSISTIC behaviour pathi innum neraiya video podunga pls.... 2. Neraiya per evalo suffered aaguringa theriuma...??? 3. Avangala eppidi handle panrathu ne therila.... 4. Eppayume yaro oruthar narcissists appidana problem illa.... 5. Life partner kaga thaan...ellarum village mudiyama thavikiranga.... Neenga venum na voting edunga....1. Narcissists Kim, 2. Depression Kim thaan athiga voting varum😢 6.atha pathi neraiya books irukum....pls review it.....

[@jrahman26]

I want you to read Quran in tamil translation...and share your thoughts about it...its not religious book...its book for all mankind and humanity...just atleast try sister...I hope all good 4r u...

[@AMTH_IND]

Isn't communicating to not hurt others, look like people pleasing. Nowadays saying No to somthing seems rude.

[@pavusiyamariasengol6434]

அக்கா...நீங்க...சொல்ற...புத்தகமெல்லாம்...தமிழ்...ல...இருக்குங்களா...புத்தகத்தின்...விலை...சொல்லுங்க..அக்கா

[@tubelightravanan4014]

Akkoi

[@ravidhandapani5908]

ஓரேபக்கமா எதையும் அரைச்சி சாப்பிடதமா...இரண்டு கடவாயிலும் நல்லா மென்னு சாப்பிடுமா

[@bharathikumar6286]

Please don't buy this book. It is not at all good. I bought it because of this video. Waste of money

[@sudharsansachin]

I could appreciate your time to comment. Perplexed to see you buy the book and reason being the video. The book suggests taking responsibility for our actions is an integral part of NVC. Would be glad if you re-read or donate the book or resell